Caring
4 things Indians can teach us about ageing
Given the high rate of ageism in our society, it’s safe to say New Zealand needs to up its game in the age-friendly stakes. Maybe, then, we should look to another culture to inspire us on our way to improving the lives of elderly people in our own – specifically, India. Here are four things we think New Zealand needs to learn from one of the most respectful cultures on earth.
- Family is number one – Indians typically live with many members of their family and extended family, where a son moves into the home with his bride when he marries. As we’ve explained previously, this type of intergenerational living is a fantastic way to provide mutual care for the elderly as well as the younger members of the family.
- Respect is not a question – like most Asian cultures, elderly members of Indian families are respected without question. They have lived long lives, experienced more and have the most wisdom to give so are viewed as reliable sources of advice and knowledge.
- Children have a duty to their parents – instead of shuffling their mum and dad off to a retirement home, Indians (particularly sons) are brought up with the knowledge that caring for their parents is a necessity. In fact, sending one’s parents away to be cared for elsewhere is seen as incredibly disrespectful.
- Death is not to be feared – while most western countries see death as a source of great emotional agony and fear, many cultures around the world, including Indians, believe that death is not something to be afraid of. It’s just another part of life. Plus, the belief in reincarnation is a comfort to many in the country, providing everyone with an endless cycle of life and death.
What do you think we can do to improve respect towards one’s elders? Share your thoughts with us in the comments below.
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