“It’s not personal”: New mum shares divisive list of rules
An expecting mum has divided opinions with an extensive list of strict rules her family and friends must follow if they want to meet her new baby.
KIIS FM hosts Kyle Sandilands and Jackie O read out the list live on air, as they debated the rules and regulations put in place by the pregnant woman.
The rules included not touching the baby, being vaccinated and only going to see the child if you've been asked, with the hosts asking listeners if they thought the rules were “too strict” or “reasonable”.
“We're drawing closer to the birth of our daughter, and we couldn't be more excited, but unfortunately we have to implement some boundaries. We hope you can respect our wishes and no one takes these personally,” the mum's announcement read.
First, the mum declared that there will be no information about the baby put online, including photos and information of the child’s name, or even an announcement that she had given birth.
“If we want you to know, you'll know,” the mum outlined.
Next, she said that only those who have “checked in” with the expecting parents since the announcement of the pregnancy will be notified of the birth.
The mum took a brutal swing at anyone else she hasn't heard from and wrote, “Otherwise we have taken your silence as not being interested in our friendship and it is also reciprocated.”
The couple went on to add that for the first two weeks following the birth, they will not be having any visitors.
“No exceptions, no texts, no calls,” the mum wrote in capital letters, further explaining that no visitors will be welcome at either the hospital or at home.
The couple also expect those who want to meet the baby to be vaccinated.
“Don't be offended if we ask for proof. We will not be putting her health at risk,” the point read.
The mum also asked visitors to “not smell of cigarettes or wear cologne or perfume that is too strong when meeting the baby”.
Lastly, if family or friends visit the couple at home they will need to bring their own snacks and drinks.
“Please do not expect to be hosted. Mum will probably be tired,” the list read.
After sharing a video on TikTok, some mentioned the number one parenting rule of all: “their baby, their rules”.
“Not a single one of those rules is unreasonable,” one person commented online.
“The people triggered over this are the type of people these boundaries are intended for,” another added.
However, others deemed the list as “passive aggressive”.
“Yeah right, nice knowing ya,” one wrote, while another said, “I hope she knows what she's doing.”
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