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The debate: Should kids over 18 pay rent if they’re still living at home?

<p>Parents have shared their thoughts on letting their children live at home rent free, as the age old debate of paying board stirred up some strong opinions. </p> <p>A <a href="https://honey.nine.com.au/money/should-children-over-the-age-of-18-pay-board-if-they-still-live-at-home-reader-poll-exclusive/77876711-2950-4bf3-bb30-716442a6fd74" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><em>nine.com.au</em></a> reader survey asked the question: Should children over the age of 18 pay board if they still live at home?</p> <p>The responses were many and varied, as a whopping 72 percent of respondents said grown up kids should be contributing financially to the household. </p> <p>One person commented, "If children have employment, it's important that they clearly understand that life is not free and they need to budget, show accountability and responsibility."</p> <p>Another wrote, "If the children over 18 are working, then yes, they should contribute or give money to the parents to bank for them."</p> <p>Others said children shouldn't be expected to pay board, and would rather their kids save money for bigger financial commitments.</p> <p>"My parents did not charge me board even though I was working because they did not need the money and told me to save for my first car, which I did," one person shared. </p> <p>Another wrote their parenting tactic, writing, "I let my children not pay board. So they could save for a deposit on a house. They did and they all (3) have a house."</p> <p>Despite many people sharing their strong opinions on the matter, most respondents said it was not a black and white question, as many households have individual circumstances that affect their decision. </p> <p>"Depends on if they are working or not and what income the parents have. My son is 22 but unemployed due to health problem, we just pool our unemployment payment so it differs for each family situation, not a YES or No answer," one reader wrote. </p> <p>Another said it depends on their employment and study status, writing, "Yes if they're working almost full time, not if they're studying and just working part time to cover living expenses."</p> <p>The poll comes as Aussies have struggled with a rise in basic living costs, with <a href="https://www.finder.com.au/australian-household-spending-statistics" target="_blank" rel="noopener">ABS</a> data showing that Australian households spent a total of $1.2 trillion on what was classed as general living costs in 2022. </p> <p>This sum is close to $100 billion more than in 2021. </p> <p>The average household spent $130,353 in 2022, which is the equivalent of $2507 per week. This is a 20.4 per cent jump on the previous year.</p> <p><em>Image credits: Getty Images </em></p>

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Rising martial arts star dies aged 18

<p>Victoria "The Prodigy" Lee, one of the world's most gifted young mixed martial arts athletes, has tragically died at the age of 18. </p> <p>Victoria's sister Angela confirmed the news on Instagram, saying the teenager died on December 26th 2022. </p> <p>Sharing a heart-felt tribute to her sister, Angela wrote, "On December 26, 2022 our family experienced something no family should ever have to go through. It is incredibly difficult to say this... Our Victoria passed away."</p> <p>"She has gone too soon and our family has been completely devastated since then. We miss her. More than anything in this world. Our family will never be the same. Life will never be the same."</p> <p>"Each and every little thing makes me think of you. From the sun rays, to the sunset. You taught us to see the beauty in the simple things. You were our bright light. Our sunshine. And that will never change. You were perfect in every way. The best person I knew. The most beautiful girl, inside and out."</p> <p>Lee was born and raised in Hawaii, where she was part of a family with a strong MMA pedigree. </p> <p>Both of Victoria's siblings hold championship MMA titles from around the world, with Victoria following in their footsteps and donning the stage name The Prodigy. </p> <p>ONE, the largest MMA promoter in Asia, paid tribute to Victoria and her family's devastating loss, as chairman Chatri Sityodtong recalled the first time he met the aspiring athlete. </p> <p>“I first met Victoria when she was 11 years old,” <a href="https://www.facebook.com/photo/?fbid=5969693956426049" data-link-name="in body link">he wrote in a Facebook post</a>. “I watched her blossom over the years as a martial artist and a human being. I always remember thinking how wise, thoughtful, and selfless she was beyond her years."</p> <p>"Of course, she was an extraordinary martial arts prodigy even back then, but I could see that she was so much more than that. Victoria had the purest heart of gold and a brilliant mind. She looked after others before herself. She wanted to use her life to help the world. I will always remember Victoria for the beautiful and precious soul that she was.”</p> <p><em>Image credits: Instagram </em></p>

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Man who lived in airport for 18 years dies

<p dir="ltr">The man who inspired Steven Spielberg’s <em>The Terminal</em>, as well as a French film and an opera, has died in the airport where he lived for 18 years.</p> <p dir="ltr">Mehran Karimi Nasseri suffered a heart attack in Terminal 2F of the Charles de Gaulle airport on Saturday and died after police and a medical team were unable to save him, according to an official with the Paris airport.</p> <p dir="ltr">Mr Nasseri, believed to have been born in 1945 in Soleiman, the then-British controlled area of Iran, lived in Terminal 1 between 1988 and 2006, at first while he was in a legal limbo because he was without residency papers and later by choice.</p> <p dir="ltr">The airport official said the 76-year-old had been living in the airport again in recent weeks.</p> <p dir="ltr">His first stint at the airport, when he spent years sleeping on a red plastic bench, making friends with airport workers, showering in staff facilities and spending time writing in his diary, studying economics and watching passing travellers inspired <em>The Terminal</em> starring Tom Hanks, as well as French film <em>Lost in Transit</em> and the opera <em>Flight</em>.</p> <p><span id="docs-internal-guid-60e6406c-7fff-168d-d594-bf2658fa4d87">Mr Nasseri published his autobiography, <em>The Terminal Man</em>, the same year <em>The Terminal </em>was made.</span></p> <p><img src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/2022/11/mehran-nasseri1.jpg" alt="" width="1280" height="720" /></p> <p dir="ltr"><em>Mehran Karimi Nessari lived in the Charles de Gaulle airport for 18 years, with his belongings surrounding a red plastic bench he slept on. Image: Getty Images</em></p> <p dir="ltr">After leaving Iran to study in England in 1974, he was reportedly imprisoned on his return for protesting against the shah while abroad and was exiled soon after.</p> <p dir="ltr">He applied for political asylum in several European countries and was given refugee credentials by the United Nations High Commissioner for Refugees in Belgium in 1981, but was later denied entry into England after the briefcase containing his documents was stolen at a Paris train station.</p> <p dir="ltr">Although he was arrested by French police after being sent back to Charles de Gaulle from England, he couldn’t be deported because he had no official documents and stayed.</p> <p dir="ltr">After lengthy legal campaigning, more bureaucratic bungling and increasingly strict European immigration laws kept him in a legal no-man’s land for years, Mr Nasseri was offered French and Belgian residency, but he refused to sign the papers as they listed him as Iranian and didn’t show his preferred name, Sir Alfred Mehran.</p> <p dir="ltr">He stayed at the airport for several more years before being admitted to hospital in 2006 and he later lived in a French shelter.</p> <p dir="ltr">Those at the airport who befriended him said Mr Nasseri’s years of living there had taken a toll on his mental health, while the airport doctor described him as “fossilised here” in 1990.</p> <p dir="ltr">One friend, a ticket agent, compared him to a prisoner incapable of “living on the outside”.</p> <p dir="ltr">“Eventually, I will leave the airport,” Mr Nasseri told the Associated Press in 1999, looking frail with thin hair, hollow cheeks and sunken eyes.</p> <p dir="ltr">“But I am still waiting for a passport or transit visa.”</p> <p><span id="docs-internal-guid-4bd7e308-7fff-3d7d-6c45-f058a4043631"></span></p> <p dir="ltr"><em>Image: Getty Images</em></p>

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Mother slammed for making her 18-year-old daughter sign a lease to stay at home

<p>A mum who made her 18-year-old daughter sign a $100-per-month lease in order to continue living at home has sparked a furious debate online.</p> <p>In a TikTok, she opened up about the financial agreement with the teenager, her daughter Jada who recently turned 18. She made her sign a legal lease agreement and then went on to post it with the caption “when your 18-year-old decides to stay at home”.</p> <p>The unnamed woman's video then cuts to her daughter signing the legal agreement with the caption “setting [her] up for success.”</p> <p>Her clip sparked some outage, racking up more than 1.5 million views, as well as thousands of likes and comments - with many users left divided over whether the mom was treating her daughter fairly.</p> <blockquote class="tiktok-embed" style="max-width: 605px; min-width: 325px;" cite="https://www.tiktok.com/@c_d_g/video/7112179079968804142" data-video-id="7112179079968804142"> <section><a title="@c_d_g" href="https://www.tiktok.com/@c_d_g" target="_blank" rel="noopener">@c_d_g</a> Rent a room🤷🏻‍♀️<a title="droppinbytoshowlove🤟🏼" href="https://www.tiktok.com/tag/droppinbytoshowlove%F0%9F%A4%9F%F0%9F%8F%BC" target="_blank" rel="noopener">#droppinbytoshowlove🤟🏼</a> <a title="daughter" href="https://www.tiktok.com/tag/daughter" target="_blank" rel="noopener">#daughter</a> <a title="mother" href="https://www.tiktok.com/tag/mother" target="_blank" rel="noopener">#mother</a> <a title="18" href="https://www.tiktok.com/tag/18" target="_blank" rel="noopener">#18</a> <a title="leaseagreement" href="https://www.tiktok.com/tag/leaseagreement" target="_blank" rel="noopener">#leaseagreement</a> <a title="setupforsuccess" href="https://www.tiktok.com/tag/setupforsuccess" target="_blank" rel="noopener">#setupforsuccess</a> <a title="softplacetofall" href="https://www.tiktok.com/tag/softplacetofall" target="_blank" rel="noopener">#softplacetofall</a> <a title="saftynet" href="https://www.tiktok.com/tag/saftynet" target="_blank" rel="noopener">#saftynet</a> <a title="stayinhome" href="https://www.tiktok.com/tag/stayinhome" target="_blank" rel="noopener">#stayinhome</a> <a title="myhouse" href="https://www.tiktok.com/tag/myhouse" target="_blank" rel="noopener">#myhouse</a> <a title="myhousemyrules" href="https://www.tiktok.com/tag/myhousemyrules" target="_blank" rel="noopener">#myhousemyrules</a> <a title="♬ It's The Hard Knock Life - Annie Movie" href="https://www.tiktok.com/music/It's-The-Hard-Knock-Life-211283664486187008" target="_blank" rel="noopener">♬ It's The Hard Knock Life - Annie Movie</a></section> </blockquote> <p>After receiving many hate comments, Jada's mum took to TikTok to post a response video where she attempted to explain to her over 24,000 followers why she made her daughter sign a lease.</p> <p>“I was a single mom at 16 and my parents didn't set me up for success, I had to fight for every single thing I have,” said the Oklahoma woman.</p> <p>She went on to add that she doesn't want her children to depend on her for anything and everything she does “prepares” her children for the “real world”.</p> <p>The mom-of-six added that in the area of Oklahoma they are from, renters must have proof of rental history when they are preparing to rent or buy a home, she added that she made the legal lease agreement so her daughter would have a rental history.</p> <p>She stated that the $100 Jada pays her mom every month goes towards “utilities, room, food and everything else.”</p> <p>The mother, who made all of her other children sign a lease, emphasized that she was setting up her daughter for success and while Jada has the right to move out, in this economy it would be a lot harder if she did.</p> <p><em>Images: TikTok</em></p>

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18 hidden voice memos features you never knew about

<p><strong>Make the most of your voice memo app</strong></p> <p>Your iPhone is packed with productivity tools, but you don’t have to download a dozen apps for your device to become a true time-saver. Apple’s voice memo app alone can add to your productivity, help you keep track of your appointments and reminders, and act as your personal assistant. Use Voice Memos to record conversations, meetings, lectures, and the great idea you had while driving or walking the dog. You can even record a phone call on your iPhone by using the Voice Memos app.</p> <p>The app is easy to locate – you’ll find it in your Utilities folder, though you can move it wherever you’d like, or ask Siri to open it for you. It’s easy to use. It’s available on iPhone, iPad, iPod Touch and Apple computers. And best of all, it’s free. There’s no time limit for recordings (it’s dependent on the internal storage capacity of your device), so you can likely record that entire lecture without worry.</p> <p>Scroll down for tips that take you beyond voice memo recording and to all of the truly cool things you can do with a voice memo app.</p> <p><strong>Record a voice memo</strong></p> <p>There are a whole host of reasons you might make good use of a voice memo app. Maybe your boss loves to have walking meetings, but you’re not quite skilled at walking, note-taking… and not running into a tree. Maybe you’re meeting colleagues for a brainstorming dinner and want to keep track of everyone’s ideas. Or maybe you need a quick way to take down a brilliant idea – for a business, a birthday gift, you name it – during your commute.</p> <p>It’s incredibly easy to use your iPhone’s Voice Memos app. (Just be sure to ask the other person’s permission first!) Here’s how:</p> <p>Open the Voice Memos app.</p> <p>To start recording, tap the red record button.</p> <p>Boom! You’re recording your conversation.</p> <p><strong>Pause a recording</strong></p> <p>While you may often record straight through without breaks, there are times when you may want to pause a recording. For instance, during an important lunch meeting with colleagues, you really don’t need to keep track of your coworkers ordering coffee at the care. This iPhone trick will also be helpful during conversations with long pauses or when you’re put on hold. Here’s how to do it:</p> <p>While recording, tap or swipe up on the recording field at the bottom of your screen to bring it into full-screen view.</p> <p>Tap the pause symbol to temporarily stop recording.</p> <p>Tap Resume to continue.</p> <p><strong>Stop a recording</strong></p> <p>When you’re done recording your conversation, remember to actually stop the recording or you’ll be stuck with a really long voice memo that eats into your storage space. Here’s how to do it:</p> <ul> <li><strong>In partial-screen view</strong>: Hit the red square.</li> <li><strong>In full-screen view</strong>: Tap the pause button, then hit the word Done.</li> </ul> <p><strong>Delete a recording</strong></p> <p>Not every recording is worth saving. If you decide you don’t need yours, it’s easy to delete. Here’s how to do that:</p> <p>In your All Recordings list, find the voice memo you’d like to delete.</p> <p>Select the recording to expand the field.</p> <p>Tap the trash can.</p> <p><strong>Recover a recently deleted recording</strong></p> <p>If you delete the wrong file, don’t panic. Just as you can recover deleted photos, you can recover recently deleted recordings. Just follow the steps below.</p> <p>Navigate to the main Voice Memos screen.</p> <p>Tap Recently Deleted.</p> <p>Tap the recording you’d like to restore.</p> <p>Select Recover to restore your recording.</p> <p>To recover multiple deleted voice memos, select Edit in the upper-right corner. Tap all of the recordings you’d like to restore, then select Recover All from the lower left-hand corner.</p> <p>One thing to bear in mind: you only have about 30 days to recover deleted files.</p> <p><strong>Save a recording in the Voice Memos app</strong></p> <p>If you’re satisfied with your recording, you’ll want to save it. Thankfully, a voice memo on iPhone saves automatically. As soon as you stop a recording, it’ll save in the Voice Memos app and appear in your All Recordings list. Yep, it’s actually as simple as that.</p> <p><strong>Rename your recording</strong></p> <p>Be sure to give your file a new name so you’ll be able to find it easily in the future. Here’s how to do that:</p> <p>Tap the recording.</p> <p>Tap on the name.</p> <p>Type your new file name.</p> <p><strong>Save a recording to an iCloud folder</strong></p> <p>While Voice Memos automatically saves a recording, you may want to save it to iCloud for extra security – or so you can access it from any device. By following the steps below, you’ll ensure your voice memo remains in the app and in your chosen folder.</p> <p>Tap the recording you want to move.</p> <p>Look for a circle with three dots in it. Tap it.</p> <p>Select Save to Files from the list below.</p> <p>Tap the folder you’d like to add it to.</p> <p>To create a new iCloud folder, tap the folder icon in the top right corner.</p> <p><strong>Organise recordings in Voice Memos folders</strong></p> <p>If you use the voice memo app often, you may want to organise your recordings to make them easier to find, just as you would organise your apps for easier access. You can group them in folders, which you’ll find on the main Voice Memos screen.</p> <p>Here’s how to move a voice memo to a folder:</p> <p>Tap the recording you want to move.</p> <p>Tap the circle with three dots in it (to the right of the recording’s name).</p> <p>Select Move to Folder from the list below.</p> <p>Tap on the folder you want your recording to appear in.</p> <p>To create a new folder, tap the folder icon in the lower right-hand corner. Give the folder a name, then select Save. Select that folder to save your recording there.</p> <p><strong>Crop a recording</strong></p> <p>There are many reasons why you might want to crop your new file. Musicians often use the Voice Memos app and then crop out the bits they don’t want to share. One thing to keep in mind: While the crop icon looks the same as in Voice Memos as it does in other apps, the function is actually called Trim.</p> <p>Navigate to your All Recordings list.</p> <p>Tap the voice memo you want to crop.</p> <p>Tap the button to the right of your recording that looks like three small dots in a circle.</p> <p>Select the Edit Recording option.</p> <p>Tap the crop tool at the top right of the file.</p> <p>Drag the yellow trim handles until the section you want to keep is highlighted in yellow and the section you want to crop is in white.</p> <p>Be sure to check that you’re keeping the part you want. Tap the play button to listen.</p> <p>Click the Trim button to crop everything except the section highlighted in yellow.</p> <p>Tap save and then Done, and you’re good to go.</p> <p>You can also delete an entire portion of your recording. With the section selected (it’ll be yellow), tap the Delete button. Remember, Trim removes everything except the yellow segment, while Delete removes the yellow segment.</p> <p><strong>Replace sections of a recording</strong></p> <p>If you mumbled or coughed in the middle of an important voice memo, fear not! It’s really easy to record over the bits you don’t like.</p> <p>Go to your All Recordings list.</p> <p>Tap the recording you want to fix.</p> <p>Tap the button to the right of your recording that looks like three small dots in a circle.</p> <p>Select Edit Recording.</p> <p>Move your finger over the waveform (the lines that visually represent your recording) until you’re in the section of your recording you want to replace.</p> <p>Tap the red Replace button to start recording. The waveform will turn red while you record.</p> <p>Tap the pause button when you’re done.</p> <p>Check your recording by hitting the play button. If you’re satisfied, tap Done to save your changes.</p> <p>The great news: You can do this in as many places as you like to make sure you’re happy with the entire recording.</p> <p><strong>Speed up or slow down a recording</strong></p> <p>If a fast or slow talker is making your voice memo sound weird, or if you need to speed up or slow down a section of music, you can do that easily with the voice memo app.</p> <p>Navigate to your All Recordings list.</p> <p>Tap the audio file you want to speed up or slow down.</p> <p>You’ll see an icon in the bottom left corner that looks like a synthesizer, or three lines with buttons. Tap the icon.</p> <p>Under Playback Speed, move the horizontal slider to the left (toward the tortoise icon) to slow down the playback speed of your recording. Move it to the right (toward the hare) to speed up your recording.</p> <p>Tap the X at the top right of the box to close the screen.</p> <p>Press play on your recording to test the new speed.</p> <p>If you’re not happy with the way it sounds, return to the Playback Speed function and select the blue Reset option.</p> <p>When you’re happy with the recording, tap the X to close the screen again.</p> <p><strong>Automatically skip silences in a recording</strong></p> <p>Unlike in real life, it’s really easy to remove awkward silences from recordings in your Voice Memos app.</p> <p>Tap the audio file you want to edit.</p> <p>Tap the icon in the lower-left corner that looks like a synthesiser (three stacked lines, each with a knob).</p> <p>Toggle on the Skip Silence button.</p> <p>Tap the X icon.</p> <p>Tap the play button to listen to the recording and see if you like the way it sounds.</p> <p><strong>Enhance a recording</strong></p> <p>While writing this article, I was typing in the background. I also coughed quite a few times, which didn’t sound amazing on my recording. If you have street noises or other background sounds on your voice memo or just want to create a more professional recording, you can easily enhance it, just as I did.</p> <p>Tap the audio file you want to edit.</p> <p>Tap the icon in the lower-left corner that looks like a synthesiser (three stacked lines, each with a knob).</p> <p>Toggle on the Enhance Recording button.</p> <p>Tap the X icon.</p> <p>Tap the play button to listen to the recording and see if you like the way it sounds.</p> <p><strong>Duplicate a recording</strong></p> <p>Before you edit any recording, you probably should make a backup. That way, if you end up hating your edits, you always have a fresh copy of the original. It’s also helpful if you want to compare the original with the edits.</p> <p>Go to your All Recordings list.</p> <p>Tap the recording you want to duplicate.</p> <p>Tap the button to the right of your recording that looks like three small dots inside a circle.</p> <p>Select Duplicate from the list.</p> <p>The copy of your recording will appear directly below the original with the word “copy” added to the file name. Tap the file to change the file name.</p> <p><strong>Copy a recording</strong></p> <p>I like to keep copies of all my important files in several places. If a file becomes corrupted, I can head to my backup and work from there. Here’s how to copy a recording in your iPhone Voice Memos app.</p> <p>Go to your All Recordings list.</p> <p>Tap the recording you want to copy.</p> <p>Tap the button to the right of your recording that looks like three small dots in a circle.</p> <p>Select Copy from the list.</p> <p>From there, you can paste the voice memo into an email or text to send to yourself (or someone else) as a backup.</p> <p><strong>Share a recording</strong></p> <p>There are many reasons why you might want to share your recording. Maybe your colleagues want a copy of that daylong meeting you recorded or you’re sending your audio notes to someone for transcription. The Voice Memos app makes sharing your file super simple; just follow the steps below.</p> <p>Navigate to your All Recordings list.</p> <p>Tap the file you want to share.</p> <p>Tap the button to the right of your recording that looks like three small dots in a circle.</p> <p>Select Share from the options below.</p> <p>Select how you’d like to share this file, such as via email, text, or AirDrop.</p> <p><strong>Record a phone call</strong></p> <p>Maybe you’re speaking with a lawyer and want to catch every last detail. Or maybe you’re interviewing someone. Whatever your reason, it’s helpful to know how to record a phone conversation. Apple doesn’t make that easy – you can’t record a call in Voice Memos while you’re on your phone. But there’s a workaround: Use two devices.</p> <p>Open the Voice Memos app on your iPhone, iPad, iPod Touch, or Mac computer.</p> <p>Start recording by tapping the red record button.</p> <p>Make your phone call from a different phone. Be sure to place the call on speaker so Voice Memos captures both sides of the conversation.</p> <p>When your call is over, hang up the phone and stop recording.</p> <p><em><span id="docs-internal-guid-cf7fa5ea-7fff-554b-232e-079b0ae53d8c">Written by Rachel Weingarten. This article first appeared in <a href="https://www.readersdigest.co.nz/true-stories-lifestyle/science-technology/18-hidden-voice-memos-features-you-never-knew-about" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Reader’s Digest</a>. For more of what you love from the world’s best-loved magazine, <a href="http://readersdigest.innovations.co.nz/c/readersdigestemailsubscribe?utm_source=over60&amp;utm_medium=articles&amp;utm_campaign=RDSUB&amp;keycode=WRA87V" target="_blank" rel="noopener">here’s our best subscription offer.</a></span></em></p> <p><em>Image: Getty Images</em></p>

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18 things your electrician wishes you knew

<p><strong>I'm not unskilled labour</strong></p><p>I’ve spent four to eight years in apprentice school learning how to plan, install, inspect and repair electrical products. Don’t insult my intelligence by implying otherwise.</p><p><strong>Please don't try to do it on your own</strong></p><p>Electricity is complicated and dangerous. If you don’t know what you’re doing, you could start a fire or get electrocuted – sometimes fatally. </p><p>Pretty much anything beyond plugging something into the wall should be left to a professional. The cost of my visit is nothing compared to the price of your safety.</p><p><strong>Call as early as possible</strong></p><p>Don’t call at the end of the day if you want same-day service. After 4:30 or 5:30pm, I need to pay my workers overtime, so I’ll charge you more to make up for it. </p><p>Calling first thing in the morning lets me fit your job into my day – and you’ll see a lower bill.</p><p><strong>Look at reviews, not just price</strong></p><p>Online reviews are useful when you’re on the hunt for a trustworthy electrician. If the person with the lowest quote also has the worst ratings, it’s worth shelling out a bit more. </p><p>If that cheaper electrician messes up, you’ll just need to call me (and my higher price) and pay more overall.</p><p><strong>I can't fix everything </strong></p><p>I don’t specialise in installing dishwashers or washing machines, so please don’t call me about them. You’re better off finding a plumber.</p><p><strong>Get as local as you can </strong></p><p>The farther I need to travel to get to you, the more time is taken out of my day – and I’ll factor that into your bill. </p><p>Finding someone closer to your neighbourhood might be able to charge you less.</p><p><strong>If the job gets bigger, don't argue if the bill gets higher</strong></p><p>My original quote is based on the project you called me in for. If I find out there’s actually a larger issue at hand, I’ll need to increase my price to match the scope of the project. </p><p>I’m not ripping you off, I’m just making sure I get compensated for the extra work.</p><p><strong>Give me the pay I deserve</strong></p><p>Some customers get sticker shock, but I’m not trying to rip you off. You only see the half-hour of work I did in your home, but that’s not the whole story. </p><p>I spent years training, and now I need to pay my crew (who went out of their way to get to your home), plus deal with marketing and other costs of running a business – and my prices reflect that.</p><p><strong>Prepare the work area in advance</strong></p><p>Clearing the work space and moving any furniture before I arrive means I can get in and out faster, so I can charge you for less of my time.</p><p><strong>We're happy to help with seemingly simple tasks</strong></p><p>Installing a ceiling fan might not sound complicated, but it’s nothing like putting together a barbecue yourself. </p><p>You’re trying to figure out the motor while hoisting a 30kg fan three metres above the floor. Call me up – I can finish the job faster and safer than you could.</p><p><strong>Pick your own parts</strong></p><p>Don’t describe the kind of ceiling fan or light fixture you’re looking for and expect me to find one that fits your vision perfectly. </p><p>Go to the hardware store and pick up your own items so you can guarantee they’re what you want. Just get in touch with me before you buy it in case it won’t fit correctly.</p><p><strong>If you're happy, tell your friends</strong></p><p>One of the best ways to show your appreciation is telling your family and friends about me. My business thrives on word-of-mouth recommendations.</p><p><strong>Please be careful with space heaters</strong></p><p>I get called in all the time for problems with space heaters. If you leave the house while the heater is running, the connection could get loose and burn up the plug, which could start a fire. </p><p>Give your space heater the space it needs, and turn it off when you aren’t using it.</p><p><strong>Don't blame me for your future problems</strong></p><p>If I was working on your bedroom lighting and an outlet in your garage stops working a few days later, that’s just a coincidence. </p><p>I’ll come back for the second project, but don’t expect me to do it for free because I “broke” it the last time. </p><p>If I wasn’t working with that circuit, this new problem is unrelated.</p><p><strong>Your air conditioner uses a ton of power</strong></p><p>Window AC units blast for hours at time and use massive amounts of energy. An extension cord – and usually even sharing the circuit powering your AC with something else – overloads the wires. </p><p>If they get too hot, the wires could short out and start a fire. Make sure the unit gets its own circuit, meaning a switch on your electrical panel dedicated to your AC and nothing else.</p><p><strong>Your light bulbs might not fit the fixture</strong></p><p>Older light fixtures won’t necessarily work with energy-efficient CFL and LED bulbs. If you want to stay away from incandescent light bulbs, you might need to replace the whole fixture.</p><p><strong>Have your circuits labelled</strong></p><p>Labelling the switches on your circuit board will save me guesswork (and time). </p><p>Hiring either me or another electrician will make the job easier in the future, so we don’t need to turn every single one off before getting to work.</p><p><strong>I'm not an evil corportation</strong></p><p>Most of us come from family-owned companies who are just trying to do right by the customer.</p><p><em>Image credits: Getty Images</em></p><p><em>This article originally appeared on <a href="https://www.readersdigest.co.nz/food-home-garden/home-tips/18-things-your-electrician-wishes-you-knew?pages=1" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Reader's Digest</a>. </em></p>

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Nicole Kidman overjoyed as 18-storey portrait is unveiled in Sydney

<p>A huge, 18-storey hand-painted portrait of Nicole Kidman has been unveiled over the weekend in Sydney, to celebrate the release of her new series, The Undoing.</p> <p>On Monday, Kidman was filled with joy as she saw the artwork in person for the first time at the famous Kings Cross street.</p> <blockquote style="background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);" class="instagram-media" data-instgrm-captioned="" data-instgrm-permalink="https://www.instagram.com/p/CHoUS9VJVvE/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" data-instgrm-version="13"> <div style="padding: 16px;"> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 40px; margin-right: 14px; width: 40px;"></div> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 100px;"></div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 60px;"></div> </div> </div> <div style="padding: 19% 0;"></div> <div style="display: block; height: 50px; margin: 0 auto 12px; width: 50px;"></div> <div style="padding-top: 8px;"> <div style="color: #3897f0; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 550; line-height: 18px;">View this post on Instagram</div> </div> <p style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;"><a style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none;" rel="noopener" href="https://www.instagram.com/p/CHoUS9VJVvE/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" target="_blank">A post shared by Nicole Kidman (@nicolekidman)</a></p> </div> </blockquote> <p>"WOW! Thank you Sydney for celebrating #TheUndoing It's back tonight xx," she captioned alongside a picture of her standing below the giant mural.</p> <p>The painting took 11 artists and over 400 hours to complete. It was placed on the side of the apartment building, Top of the Town, in Darlinghurst on Saturday and has made history for being the largest hand-painted mural in the Southern Hemisphere.</p> <p>The portrait is the size of an Olympic swimming pool and was commissioned by BINGE to celebrate Kidman’s new series.</p> <p>In the theme of the series, Kidman's portrait will "come undone" as it unravels into a second artwork from today, Tuesday November 17.</p> <p>The project is temporary. The building will be painted over and restored back to its original state on November 23.</p> <p>The Undoing, which Kidman stars in alongside actor Hugh Grant, tells the story of a Manhattan couple who are embroiled in a murder mystery.</p>

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Duchess Meghan reaches out after 18-year-old woman was set on fire in alleged hate crime

<p>The Duchess of Sussex has spoken with an 18-year-old biracial woman who was allegedly set on fire in a hate crime.</p> <p>Duchess Meghan spoke with Althea Bernstein in a 40-minute phone call on Saturday to offer support and talk about self-care and being biracial, said Michael Johnson, the CEO of the Boys and Girls Clubs of Dane County.</p> <p>Bernstein, a college student from Wisconsin, USA, was driving on Wednesday morning when she was stopped at a red light and heard a “racial epithet” yelled out, the <a href="https://edition.cnn.com/2020/06/27/us/wisconsin-hate-crime-investigation/index.html">police report</a> said.</p> <p>“She looked and saw four men, all white. She says one used a spray bottle to deploy a liquid on her face and neck, and then threw a flaming lighter at her, causing the liquid to ignite,” the report stated.</p> <p>The young woman was able to put out the flames and drive home. She later reported the incident to the police and received treatment for her face and neck burns at hospital.</p> <p>Madison Mayor Satya Rhodes-Conway described the incident as a hate crime the following day.</p> <p>“This is a horrifying and absolutely unacceptable crime,” she said in a statement.</p> <p>“While we are still learning more about the details, current information suggests this may have been a premeditated crime targeted toward people of colour, which makes the incident even more disturbing.”</p> <p>Bernstein was connected to the Duchess through Johnson, who has been acting as the teenager’s spokesman.</p> <p>“[The Duchess] applauded her for the way that she responded and pretty much said, ‘Hey Michael, give me her cell phone number. I want to stay in touch. And let me know when you want me to come back and talk to people in Wisconsin’,” Johnson told <em><a href="https://www.channel3000.com/michael-johnson-speaks-with-prince-harry-meghan-markle-about-madison-protests/">Channel 3000</a></em>.</p> <p>“Meghan lifted her spirits.”</p> <p>Johnson shared that Prince Harry joined the call for about 10 minutes and that the Prince spoke with Bernstein about the importance of young people’s voices.</p> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet"> <p dir="ltr">On the phone with Prince Harry and Meghan Markel the Duchess of Sussex. Prince Harry shared that young people voices matter and Meghan has agreed to talk with girls in Wisconsin and we will be scheduling that soon. Thank you for caring! <a href="https://t.co/FoVs6ewRgo">pic.twitter.com/FoVs6ewRgo</a></p> — Michael Johnson (@MJohnsonCEO) <a href="https://twitter.com/MJohnsonCEO/status/1276994890078064640?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">June 27, 2020</a></blockquote> <p>Meghan and Harry have been talking to community leaders about ways to contribute to the Black Lives Matter movement in the wake of the killing of George Floyd, <em><a href="https://people.com/royals/meghan-markle-calls-althea-bernstein-hate-crime-victim/">PEOPLE</a> </em>reported.</p> <p>“They are holding calls with community leaders and organizations but are doing that privately as they continue to see how they can play a role. But they also want to learn and talk about it like the rest of us,” a source told the outlet.</p>

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Want to live to 100? Follow these 18 simple rules

<p>Follow these 18 simple rules and you won’t just live longer—you’ll make those (many, many) years count.</p> <p><strong>1. Stop smoking</strong></p> <p>Four years after doing so, your chance of having a heart attack falls to that of someone who has never smoked.</p> <p>After ten years, your lung cancer risk drops to nearly that of a nonsmoker.</p> <p><strong>2. Exercise daily</strong></p> <p>Thirty minutes of activity is all that’s necessary. Three ten-minute walks will do it.</p> <p><strong>3. Eat your produce</strong></p> <p>Fruit, vegetables … whatever your favourites are, just make sure you eat them every day.</p> <p><strong>4. Get screened</strong></p> <p>No need to go test-crazy; just get the health screenings recommended for your stage of life.</p> <p>Check with your doctor to make sure you’re up-to-date.</p> <p>Just be honest. How much you smoke, drink, eat, exercise and whether you use protection during sex or while out in the sun matters.</p> <p><strong>5. Make sleep a priority</strong></p> <p>For most adults who want to live to 100, that means seven to eight hours every night.</p> <p>If you have a tough time turning off the light, remember that sleep deprivation raises the risk of heart disease, cancer, and more.</p> <p><strong>6. Ask your doctor about low-dose aspirin</strong></p> <p>Heart attack, stroke, even cancer—a single 81 mg tablet per day may fight them all.</p> <p>(Aspirin comes with risks, though, so don’t start on your own.)</p> <p>If you’re older, you are at risk from the major problem of over-prescribing.</p> <p><strong>7. Know your blood pressure numbers</strong></p> <p>It’s not called the silent killer just to give your life a little more drama.</p> <p>Keep yours under 120/80 if you want to live to 100.</p> <p><strong>8. Stay connected</strong></p> <p>Loneliness is another form of stress.</p> <p>Friends, family, and furry pets help you feel loved.</p> <p><strong>9. Cut back on saturated fat</strong></p> <p>It’s the raw material your body uses for producing LDL, bad cholesterol.</p> <p>For decades, doctors and medical organisations have viewed saturated fat as the raw material for a heart attack.</p> <p><strong>10. Get help for depression</strong></p> <p>It doesn’t just feel bad; it does bad things to your body.</p> <p>In fact, when tacked onto diabetes and heart disease, it increases risk of early death by as much as 30 percent.</p> <p><strong>11. Manage your stress</strong></p> <p>The doctors we surveyed say that living with uncontrolled stress is more destructive to your health than being 30 pounds overweight.</p> <p><strong>12. Have a higher purpose</strong></p> <p>As one physician advised, “Strive to achieve something bigger than yourself.”</p> <p>By giving back, you give to yourself.</p> <p>Just try to keep your energy levels up for the personal journey ahead.</p> <p><strong>13. Load up at breakfast</strong></p> <p>People in “Blue Zones”—areas with high life expectancies—eat the most at breakfast, then have little or nothing for dinner.</p> <p>Front-loading calories can ward off hungry all day, keeping your weight in check.</p> <p><strong>14. Start fasting</strong></p> <p>You don’t need to go days without food.</p> <p>Simply limiting eating to eight hours of the day gives your body more time to finish its six to twelve hours of digestion.</p> <p>After that, it goes into “fasting” mode, burning stored fat.</p> <p><strong>15. Cook at home</strong></p> <p>Not only do you get to control the ingredients and make healthier choices, but the act of cooking is a mini workout.</p> <p>New to the kitchen and want to save some money?</p> <p><strong>16. Have a sit-down meal</strong></p> <p>Multi-tasking during meals, such as while driving or rushing to get out the door, can put stress hormones in the way of your body’s ability to digest, which won’t help you live to 100.</p> <p>Sit down, or better yet, gather the family together to get the bonus of social time while enjoying a meal together.</p> <p><strong>17. Save up</strong></p> <p>Most people who live to 100 are financially secure.</p> <p>Worrying about money (and how to pay for healthcare) could get in the way of a long, healthy life.</p> <p><strong>18. Focus on the good stuff</strong></p> <p>Research shows people who live to 100 tend to complain less than younger adults.</p> <p>Their lack of gripes could mean they’re better at handling bad situations.</p> <p><em>This article first appeared in </em><a href="http://www.readersdigest.com.au/true-stories-lifestyle/want-live-100-follow-these-18-simple-rules?items_per_page=All">Reader’s Digest.</a><em> For more of what you love from the world’s best-loved magazine,</em> <a href="http://readersdigest.innovations.co.nz/c/readersdigestemailsubscribe?utm_source=over60&amp;utm_medium=articles&amp;utm_campaign=RDSUB&amp;keycode=WRN93V">Here’s our subscription offer.</a></p> <p> </p> <p><img style="width: 100px !important; height: 100px !important;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7820640/1.png" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/f30947086c8e47b89cb076eb5bb9b3e2" /></p>

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18 simple rules to follow if you want to live to 100

<p>Sure, your genes have something to do with your life span, but the doctors we spoke to agreed that simple things can make a big dent in your risk of chronic disease.</p> <p><strong>1. Stop smoking</strong></p> <p>Four years after doing so, your chance of having a heart attack falls to that of someone who has never smoked.</p> <p>After 10 years, your lung cancer risk drops to nearly that of a non-smoker.</p> <p>Concerned? See your doctor as techniques for earlier detection and <span><a href="http://www.readersdigest.com.au/healthsmart/conditions/smoking/Fighting-Lung-Cancer">new treatments for lung cancer exist</a></span>.</p> <p><strong>2. Exercise daily</strong></p> <p>Thirty minutes of activity is all that’s necessary. Three 10-minute walks will do it. Or if you are keen for a run, check out this expert advice on the<span><a href="http://www.readersdigest.com.au/healthsmart/fitness/running-pros-cons"> pros and cons of running</a></span>.</p> <p><strong>3. Eat your produce</strong></p> <p>Fruit, vegetables … whatever your favourites are, just make sure you eat them every day.</p> <p>This delicious fruit salad is ideal for <span><a href="http://www.readersdigest.com.au/recipes/fruit-salad">upping your daily fruit count</a></span>.</p> <p><strong>4. Get screened</strong></p> <p>No need to go test-crazy; just get the health screenings recommended for your stage of life.</p> <p>Check with your doctor to make sure you’re up-to-date.</p> <p>Just be honest. How much you smoke, drink, eat, exercise and whether you use protection during sex or <span><a href="http://www.readersdigest.com.au/healthsmart/tips/14-things-never-lie-your-doctor-about">while out in the sun matters</a></span>.</p> <p><strong>5. Make sleep a priority</strong></p> <p>For most adults who want to live to 100, that means seven to eight hours every night.</p> <p>If you have a tough time turning off the light, remember that sleep deprivation raises the risk of heart disease, cancer and more.</p> <p>We've debunked the common untruths surrounding sleep to <span><a href="http://www.readersdigest.com.au/healthsmart/conditions/sleep/8-Myths-About-Sleep">help you get a good night’s rest</a></span>.</p> <p><strong>6. Ask your doctor about low-dose aspirin</strong></p> <p>Heart attack, stroke, even cancer – a single 81mg tablet per day may fight them all.</p> <p>(Aspirin comes with risks, though, so don’t start on your own.)</p> <p>If you’re older, you are at risk from the <span><a href="http://www.readersdigest.com.au/healthsmart/conditions/heart-blood-pressure/when-medicines-do-more-harm-good">major problem of over-prescribing</a></span>.</p> <p><strong>7. Know your blood pressure numbers</strong></p> <p>It’s not called the silent killer just to give your life a little more drama.</p> <p>Keep yours under 120/80 if you want to live to 100.</p> <p>Keep an eye out for the <span><a href="http://www.readersdigest.com.au/healthsmart/conditions/heart-blood-pressure/Six-Sneaky-Causes-of-High-Blood-Pressure">six sneaky causes of high blood pressure</a></span>.</p> <p><strong>8. Stay connected</strong></p> <p>Loneliness is another form of stress.</p> <p>Friends, family and furry pets help you feel loved.</p> <p>The following seven tools can help you navigate the <span><a href="http://www.readersdigest.com.au/true-stories-lifestyle/learn-love-living-alone">treacherous shallows as well as the joys of solo living</a></span>.</p> <p><strong>9. Cut back on saturated fat</strong></p> <p>It’s the raw material your body uses for producing LDL, bad cholesterol.</p> <p>For decades, doctors and medical organisations have viewed saturated fat as the raw material for a heart attack.</p> <p>But newer research has some experts questioning <span><a href="http://www.readersdigest.com.au/healthsmart/diet/Is-saturated-fat-bad-for-you">whether we’ve convicted the wrong criminal</a></span>.</p> <p><strong>10. Get help for depression</strong></p> <p>It doesn’t just feel bad; it does bad things to your body.</p> <p>In fact, when tacked onto diabetes and heart disease, it increases risk of early death by as much as 30 percent.</p> <p>Here's 10 surprising ways to be happier <span><a href="http://www.readersdigest.com.au/healthsmart/conditions/mental-health/10-Surprising-Ways-to-Be-Happier-Without-Really-Trying">without really trying</a></span>.</p> <p><strong>11. Manage your stress</strong></p> <p>The doctors we surveyed say that living with uncontrolled stress is more destructive to your health than being 30 pounds overweight.</p> <p>Easy answer? Teach yourself to <span><a href="http://www.readersdigest.com.au/true-stories-lifestyle/teach-yourself-meditate-and-beat-stress">meditate and beat stress</a></span>.</p> <p><strong>12. Have a higher purpose</strong></p> <p>As one physician advised, “Strive to achieve something bigger than yourself.”</p> <p>By giving back, you give to yourself.</p> <p>Just try to keep your <span><a href="http://www.readersdigest.com.au/healthsmart/tips/How-to-Fix-Your-Own-Personal-Energy-Crisis">energy levels up for the personal journey ahead</a></span>.</p> <p><strong>13. Load up at breakfast</strong></p> <p>People in “Blue Zones” – areas with high life expectancies – eat the most at breakfast, then have little or nothing for dinner.</p> <p>Front-loading calories can ward off hunger all day, keeping your weight in check.</p> <p>Not a morning person? Check out these ways to make sure you wake up on the right side of the bed and <span><a href="http://www.readersdigest.com.au/healthsmart/conditions/mental-health/12-ways-brighten-your-morning">ease into your day with a positive, calm attitude</a></span>.</p> <p><strong>14. Start fasting</strong></p> <p>You don’t need to go days without food.</p> <p>Simply limiting eating to eight hours of the day gives your body more time to finish its six to 12 hours of digestion.</p> <p>After that, it goes into “fasting” mode, burning stored fat.</p> <p>New research is discovering that you are WHEN you eat. In fact, the secret to better health could be as <span><a href="http://www.readersdigest.com.au/healthsmart/diet/why-changing-when-you-eat-can-produce-immediate-results">simple as an early dinnertime</a></span>.</p> <p><strong>15. Cook at home</strong></p> <p>Not only do you get to control the ingredients and make healthier choices, but the act of cooking is a mini workout.</p> <p>New to the kitchen and want to save some money?</p> <p>Have a lot of fun by making homemade treats <span><a href="http://www.readersdigest.com.au/recipes/8-edible-christmas-gifts-you-can-make-home">to give as gifts this Christmas</a></span>.</p> <p><strong>16. Have a sit-down meal</strong></p> <p>Multi-tasking during meals, such as while driving or rushing to get out the door, can put stress hormones in the way of your body’s ability to digest, which won’t help you live to 100.</p> <p>Sit down, or better yet, gather the family together to get the bonus of social time while enjoying a meal together.</p> <p>Take a look at these <span><a href="http://www.readersdigest.com.au/healthsmart/diet/4-habits-eating-well">four good ways to cultivate healthy eating</a></span>.</p> <p><strong>17. Save up</strong></p> <p>Most people who live to 100 are financially secure.</p> <p>Worrying about money (and how to pay for healthcare) could get in the way of a long, healthy life.</p> <p>Save money in ways you've <span><a href="http://www.readersdigest.com.au/money/save-money-ways-youve-never-thought-these-10-tips">never thought of before with these 10 tips</a></span>.</p> <p><strong>18. Focus on the good stuff</strong></p> <p>Research shows people who live to 100 tend to complain less than younger adults.</p> <p>Their lack of gripes could mean they’re better at handling bad situations.</p> <p>Have to deal with difficult people? Take a look at these <span><a href="http://www.readersdigest.com.au/money/13-things-you-should-know-about-negotiating">13 things you should know about negotiating</a></span>.</p> <p><em>This article first appeared in <span><strong><a href="http://www.readersdigest.com.au/true-stories-lifestyle/18-simple-rules-follow-if-you-want-live-100?items_per_page=All">Reader’s Digest.</a></strong></span> For more of what you love from the world’s best-loved magazine, here’s our best subscription <a href="http://readersdigest.innovations.com.au/c/readersdigestsubscribe?utm_source=readersdigest&amp;utm_campaign=RDSUB&amp;utm_medium=display&amp;keycode=WRA85S"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>offer</strong></span></a>.</em></p> <p><img style="width: 100px !important; height: 100px !important;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7820640/1.png" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/f30947086c8e47b89cb076eb5bb9b3e2" /></p>

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Bride dies 18 hours after hospital wedding

<p>Weddings are happy occasions filled with love but for Heather Lindsay and David Mosher it was a bittersweet occasion when they wed on December 21, 2017.</p> <p>Surrounded by family and friends, 31-year-old Heather married the love of her life just hours before passing away from breast cancer.</p> <p>Friend and photographer Christina Karas captured the beautiful ceremony as the couple pledge to spend the rest of their lives together as the bride lay in her hospital bed.</p> <blockquote style="background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 658px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);" class="instagram-media"> <div style="padding: 8px;"> <div style="background: #F8F8F8; line-height: 0; margin-top: 40px; padding: 62.5% 0; text-align: center; width: 100%;"> <div style="background: url(data:image/png; base64,ivborw0kggoaaaansuheugaaacwaaaascamaaaapwqozaaaabgdbtueaalgpc/xhbqaaaafzukdcak7ohokaaaamuexurczmzpf399fx1+bm5mzy9amaaadisurbvdjlvzxbesmgces5/p8/t9furvcrmu73jwlzosgsiizurcjo/ad+eqjjb4hv8bft+idpqocx1wjosbfhh2xssxeiyn3uli/6mnree07uiwjev8ueowds88ly97kqytlijkktuybbruayvh5wohixmpi5we58ek028czwyuqdlkpg1bkb4nnm+veanfhqn1k4+gpt6ugqcvu2h2ovuif/gwufyy8owepdyzsa3avcqpvovvzzz2vtnn2wu8qzvjddeto90gsy9mvlqtgysy231mxry6i2ggqjrty0l8fxcxfcbbhwrsyyaaaaaelftksuqmcc); display: block; height: 44px; margin: 0 auto -44px; position: relative; top: -22px; width: 44px;"></div> </div> <p style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;"><a style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none;" href="https://www.instagram.com/p/BdNwtg9BULG/" target="_blank">A post shared by Christina (@christina.lee.photography)</a> on Dec 27, 2017 at 10:02am PST</p> </div> </blockquote> <p>Christina later wrote, "Standing in front of everyone in the chapel, I was hesitant to pull out my camera. As someone who wanted nothing more than to see my friend truly happy, I felt I had to capture these images, which by this point I knew were her final moments with us.</p> <p>"What you clearly see here is two people who were destined to be joined as one. A love like no other captured for all to see. My gift to her."</p> <blockquote style="background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 658px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);" class="instagram-media"> <div style="padding: 8px;"> <div style="background: #F8F8F8; line-height: 0; margin-top: 40px; padding: 37.5% 0; text-align: center; width: 100%;"> <div style="background: url(data:image/png; base64,ivborw0kggoaaaansuheugaaacwaaaascamaaaapwqozaaaabgdbtueaalgpc/xhbqaaaafzukdcak7ohokaaaamuexurczmzpf399fx1+bm5mzy9amaaadisurbvdjlvzxbesmgces5/p8/t9furvcrmu73jwlzosgsiizurcjo/ad+eqjjb4hv8bft+idpqocx1wjosbfhh2xssxeiyn3uli/6mnree07uiwjev8ueowds88ly97kqytlijkktuybbruayvh5wohixmpi5we58ek028czwyuqdlkpg1bkb4nnm+veanfhqn1k4+gpt6ugqcvu2h2ovuif/gwufyy8owepdyzsa3avcqpvovvzzz2vtnn2wu8qzvjddeto90gsy9mvlqtgysy231mxry6i2ggqjrty0l8fxcxfcbbhwrsyyaaaaaelftksuqmcc); display: block; height: 44px; margin: 0 auto -44px; position: relative; top: -22px; width: 44px;"></div> </div> <p style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;"><a style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none;" href="https://www.instagram.com/p/BdPAxhzhZxf/" target="_blank">A post shared by Christina (@christina.lee.photography)</a> on Dec 27, 2017 at 9:42pm PST</p> </div> </blockquote> <p>Christina also had nothing but praise for the groom David, writing: "I am in awe of the strength Dave's love inspired in Heather even in her last hours.</p> <p>"She was his great love and he was hers. I pray these moments give Dave the same strength now to carry on the legacy of their love. Heather, you are greatly missed. The earth froze yesterday as the warmth of your light ascended to be with God for eternity.</p> <p>"Until we meet again my dear friend. Watch over us."</p> <blockquote style="background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 658px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);" class="instagram-media"> <div style="padding: 8px;"> <div style="background: #F8F8F8; line-height: 0; margin-top: 40px; padding: 60.78703703703704% 0; text-align: center; width: 100%;"> <div style="background: url(data:image/png; base64,ivborw0kggoaaaansuheugaaacwaaaascamaaaapwqozaaaabgdbtueaalgpc/xhbqaaaafzukdcak7ohokaaaamuexurczmzpf399fx1+bm5mzy9amaaadisurbvdjlvzxbesmgces5/p8/t9furvcrmu73jwlzosgsiizurcjo/ad+eqjjb4hv8bft+idpqocx1wjosbfhh2xssxeiyn3uli/6mnree07uiwjev8ueowds88ly97kqytlijkktuybbruayvh5wohixmpi5we58ek028czwyuqdlkpg1bkb4nnm+veanfhqn1k4+gpt6ugqcvu2h2ovuif/gwufyy8owepdyzsa3avcqpvovvzzz2vtnn2wu8qzvjddeto90gsy9mvlqtgysy231mxry6i2ggqjrty0l8fxcxfcbbhwrsyyaaaaaelftksuqmcc); display: block; height: 44px; margin: 0 auto -44px; position: relative; top: -22px; width: 44px;"></div> </div> <p style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;"><a style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none;" href="https://www.instagram.com/p/BdRM3GNhHUR/" target="_blank">A post shared by Christina (@christina.lee.photography)</a> on Dec 28, 2017 at 6:06pm PST</p> </div> </blockquote> <p>Heather died just 18 hours after the wedding at St. Francis Hospital in Connecticut in the US on December 22, just before Christmas.</p> <p>Cristina also shared a beautiful photo of Heather before she was devastated by cancer.</p> <p>"My beautiful friend, I know you are near. I wanted everyone to see some of these photos of you I took which were never shared publicly. Your smile! It embodies you. The most genuine and striking girl who I was lucky enough to be close to. This is how I'll always remember you. You are my shining star."</p> <blockquote style="background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 658px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);" class="instagram-media"> <div style="padding: 8px;"> <div style="background: #F8F8F8; line-height: 0; margin-top: 40px; padding: 50.0% 0; text-align: center; width: 100%;"> <div style="background: url(data:image/png; base64,ivborw0kggoaaaansuheugaaacwaaaascamaaaapwqozaaaabgdbtueaalgpc/xhbqaaaafzukdcak7ohokaaaamuexurczmzpf399fx1+bm5mzy9amaaadisurbvdjlvzxbesmgces5/p8/t9furvcrmu73jwlzosgsiizurcjo/ad+eqjjb4hv8bft+idpqocx1wjosbfhh2xssxeiyn3uli/6mnree07uiwjev8ueowds88ly97kqytlijkktuybbruayvh5wohixmpi5we58ek028czwyuqdlkpg1bkb4nnm+veanfhqn1k4+gpt6ugqcvu2h2ovuif/gwufyy8owepdyzsa3avcqpvovvzzz2vtnn2wu8qzvjddeto90gsy9mvlqtgysy231mxry6i2ggqjrty0l8fxcxfcbbhwrsyyaaaaaelftksuqmcc); display: block; height: 44px; margin: 0 auto -44px; position: relative; top: -22px; width: 44px;"></div> </div> <p style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;"><a style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none;" href="https://www.instagram.com/p/BdWtT91BCr7/" target="_blank">A post shared by Christina (@christina.lee.photography)</a> on Dec 30, 2017 at 9:25pm PST</p> </div> </blockquote> <p>The couple met in swing class in May 2015. The wedding had been set for December 30 but was brought forward on doctor’s advice.</p>

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This 18-year-old newspaper clipping is scarily accurate today

<p>To say a lot has changed since 1999 would be an understatement. No one would be caught dead using a mobile phone with an antenna, nor would they be seen driving along to the sound of the Backstreet Boys.</p> <p>But while many things have (thankfully) changed in the last 18 years, a resurfaced newspaper clipping from that year has us wondering, maybe today isn’t so much different after all.</p> <p>A Reddit user has shared a clipping from the November 1, 1999 edition of the Wisconsin newspaper <em>The Oshkosh Northwestern</em>, and it’s so eerily accurate in today’s climate that it could almost have been written yesterday.</p> <p><img width="600" height="746" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/43690/gitjgazuws6micvwkqcaqgzbarv6kgxh_x1qxd-bhz8_600x746.jpg" alt="Gitjg Azuw S6Mi CVwkq CAq GZb ARV6k GXh _X1QXd -bh Z8" style="display: block; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"/></p> <p>The clipping, which the Reddit user captioned, “It’s amazing how nothing has changed in the last 18 years,” speaks of a Trump presidency, Korean nuclear weapons, dodgy Clinton donations and even Al Gore makes an appearance.</p> <p>Under the headline, “Trump would be U.S. trade rep,” it reads, “Donald Trump said Sunday that as president, he personally would handle US trade talks and would restore respect from countries doing business with America.”</p> <p>He also reportedly “took aim at North Korea and China for ignoring U.S. overtures and building nuclear weapons”. Spooky!</p> <p>What do you think of this eerily accurate newspaper clipping from 18 years ago? Tell us in the comments below. </p> <p><em>Image credit: PresidentJohnMiller/Reddit.</em></p>

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18 quotes to inspire you right now

<p>For some people, motivation is easy to find. For the rest of us, it doesn’t hurt to get a little help from time to time. So, if you’re feeling a little lacking in inspiration today, we’ve got just the remedy – uplifting quotes from the happiest, wisest and most respected people in history.</p> <p>1. “Strive not to be a success, but rather to be of value.” – Albert Einstein.</p> <p>2. “Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn’t do than by the ones you did do, so throw off the bowlines, sail away from safe harbor, catch the trade winds in your sails.  Explore, dream, discover.” – Mark Twain.</p> <p>3. “Life is 10 per cent what happens to me and 90 per cent of how I react to it.” – Charles Swindoll.</p> <p>4. “The most common way people give up their power is by thinking they don’t have any.” – Alice Walker.</p> <p>5. “I am not a product of my circumstances. I am a product of my decisions.” – Stephen Covey.</p> <p>6. “You can never cross the ocean until you have the courage to lose sight of the shore.” – Christopher Columbus.</p> <p>7. “I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.” – Maya Angelou.</p> <p>8. “Whether you think you can or you think you can’t, you’re right.” – Henry Ford.</p> <p>9. “People often say that motivation doesn’t last. Well, neither does bathing. That’s why we recommend it daily.” – Zig Ziglar.</p> <p>10. “The only person you are destined to become is the person you decide to be.” – Ralph Waldo Emerson.</p> <p>11. “You can’t fall if you don’t climb. But there’s no joy in living your whole life on the ground.” – Unknown.</p> <p>12. “What’s money? A man is a success if he gets up in the morning and goes to bed at night and in between does what he wants to do.” – Bob Dylan.</p> <p>13. “If you look at what you have in life, you'll always have more. If you look at what you don't have in life, you'll never have enough.” – Oprah Winfrey.</p> <p>14. “Remember no one can make you feel inferior without your consent.” – Eleanor Roosevelt.</p> <p>15. “It’s not the years in your life that count. It’s the life in your years.” – Abraham Lincoln.</p> <p>16. “Nothing is impossible, the word itself says, ‘I’m possible!’” – Audrey Hepburn.</p> <p>17. “As we express our gratitude, we must never forget that the highest appreciation is not to utter words, but to live by them.” – John F. Kennedy.</p> <p>18. “When the sun is shining I can do anything; no mountain is too high, no trouble too difficult to overcome.” – Wilma Rudolph.</p> <p>What quote do you live by? Let us know in the comments below.</p>

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26-carat diamond ring bought for $18 at car boot sale

<p>A spectacular diamond ring is expected to fetch $656,000 (£350,000) at auction - 30 years after it was purchased for just £10, or $18, at a car boot sale.</p> <p>The 26.27-carat white diamond was initially thought to be fake because 19th century stones were not cut to perfection like today's gems.</p> <p>The owner believed the "exceptionally sized" rock was a piece of costume jewellery when she bought it at West Middlesex Hospital in Isleworth, west London, in the 1980s, the <em><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="http://www.bbc.com/news/uk-england-london-39995908" target="_blank">BBC reported</a></strong></span></em>. </p> <p>However, after wearing the ring for decades the owner bought it into the auction house Sotheby's after a jeweller said it could have substantial value.</p> <p>Jessica Wyndham, head of London's jewellery department at Sotherby's, said the owner would wear it out shopping, wear it day-to-day.</p> <p>"It's a good looking ring."</p> <p>"But it was bought as a costume jewel. No-one had any idea it had any intrinsic value at all. They enjoyed it all this time", she said.</p> <p>Wyndham added: "With an old style of cutting, an antique cushion shape, the light doesn't reflect back as much as it would from a modern stone cutting. Cutters worked more with the natural shape of the crystal, to conserve as much weight of the crystal rather than make it as brilliant as possible.</p> <p>"The older stones have quite a bit of personality. They sparkle in a different way."</p> <p>It will be auctioned at Sotheby's in July.</p> <p><em>First appeared on <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><a href="http://www.stuff.co.nz/" target="_blank">Stuff.co.nz.</a></span></strong></em><a href="http://www.stuff.co.nz/" target="_blank"></a> <em>Image credit: Sotheby's.<strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><br /></span></strong></em></p>

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18 packing tips to add to your list

<p><em><strong>Annie Fitzsimmons writes for <a href="http://blog.virtuoso.com/" target="_blank"><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Virtuoso Luxury Traveller</span></a>, the blog of a <a href="http://www.virtuoso.com/" target="_blank"><span style="text-decoration: underline;">global luxury travel network</span></a>, and she enjoys nothing more than taking a holiday.</strong></em></p> <p>Will we ever get it right? If you are a traveller, you have to pack. As stylist Christina Burns says, “Your clothes become part of your travel story.”</p> <p>Packing can be annoying or exciting, a chore or giddy anticipation.</p> <p>Try our tips below from those in the Virtuoso family, all expert travellers.</p> <p><strong>Create a Packing Spreadsheet</strong></p> <p>This might work for only the most ambitious among us, but if you take Virtuoso travel advisor Jane Martz’s lead and create a packing spreadsheet – further divided by time of day and activity – you just might have the easiest trip of your life.</p> <p><strong>Prepare for Elegance</strong></p> <p>“I always travel with one dress more elegant than plans call for, just in case I wind up with an invitation or opportunity where I would need to be elegant (and of course that means the shoes and purse, too!).”</p> <p><em>- Shelby Donley, Virtuoso travel advisor</em></p> <p><strong>Do Laundry</strong></p> <p>“I simply cannot bear the thought of a lost bag! I can get up to three weeks in a carry-on garment bag. It’s all about tough choices, and recycling, and the freedom that doing laundry at the hotel or on the ship gives you.”</p> <p><em>- Charles Wolfe, Virtuoso travel advisor</em></p> <p><strong>Packing Cubes</strong></p> <p>“I love my packing cubes! They help me keep everything organized and labelled. I can’t go a week without them. They’re ideal for traveling on a boat, as the cubes neatly fit into compartments as well.”</p> <p><em>- Andrew Rein, director of travel trade – London and Paris, Mandarin Oriental Hotels</em></p> <p><strong>Rolling</strong></p> <p>“Rolling might be the trick for denim and workout clothing, but when it comes to dresses and nicer tops, I layer them one on top of another then fold the whole pile in half and lay it on top of my other packed items. It really cuts down on wrinkling.”</p> <p><em>- Marika Cain, managing editor, Virtuoso Life</em></p> <p><strong>Must-Haves</strong></p> <ul> <li>“Truffle Clarity pouches and cases are always in my carry-on. They are stylish and functional. I use the zippered Clarity Clutch small and large for various odds and ends like cosmetics, keys, hand sanitizer, art supplies, and headphones. I use the Clarity Case for documents and magazines.</li> <li>Anker Power chargers. This is my security travel blanket so I don’t have to worry about a dead phone battery on the road.</li> <li>If you are vertically challenged and your feet don’t touch the airplane floor, this travel footstool will become your BFF. Is it dorky? Yes! Will people stare at you? Yes! Will you care after you realize how awesome it is and how much better your back feels? No! I can’t live without it, and it even makes traveling in coach on long haul flights bearable. It folds flat and fits easily in your carry-on tote.”</li> </ul> <p><em>- Korena Sinnett, associate art director, Virtuoso Life   </em> </p> <p>“Always, always take running shoes and workout clothes; you’re definitely going to skip the fitness regimen you promised you would maintain if you don’t, and those fitness clothes can do double duty if you end up on an active excursion.”</p> <p><em>- Shelby Donley, Virtuoso travel advisor</em></p> <p><strong>Luggage Tips</strong></p> <p>“I always pack this duffle bag with me. I usually pack my carry-on to full capacity, leaving no wiggle room. That’s why I love this bag. It’s collapsible/foldable, so I just throw it in my purse. Then, I have an extra duffle bag to pack souvenirs in when I fly home!”</p> <p><em>- Veronica Rosalez, graphic designer, Virtuoso </em></p> <p>“I use an Orvis Battenkill expandable roll-aboard that’s slightly oversize, but if you fly first or business class you won’t be harassed. It’s large enough to hang and fold a jacket or suit if needed.”</p> <p><em>- Roy Ramsey, Virtuoso travel advisor</em></p> <p><strong>The Carry-On Camp</strong></p> <p>“Packing light is liberating and the only way to travel. I’ve done a five-day board meeting in Tokyo, followed by three days of sightseeing in Beijing, and then a ten-day Seabourn cruise with only a carry-on. My method: plan ahead, and ensure every piece of clothing goes with at least three other items. I also send clothes to the laundry as I travel.”</p> <p><em>- Mary Ann Ramsey, Virtuoso travel advisor</em></p> <p>“You can do a carry-on if you are organized. It’s when you are going from cold to hot in one trip that you might need a bit more.”</p> <p><em>- Hope Smith, Virtuoso travel advisor</em></p> <p>“I always try to carry on ever since years ago when I flew to New York for a gala dinner with President George W. Bush and German Chancellor Helmut Kohl – and my checked luggage with my black-tie clothes never arrived. Here are my ‘3 Cs of travel:’ 1-Carry on. 2-Clear containers. 3-Colorful scarves.”</p> <p><em>- Kathy Bernstein, Virtuoso travel advisor</em></p> <p><strong>Check Away</strong></p> <p>“I never regret over-packing. I enjoy a destination so much more when I feel like myself. That means bringing outfits I love for each day and evening and the toiletries I normally use at home, just in smaller containers. A trip is not the time to try new beauty products! My only concession to lightening the load is sticking to one color scheme so I don’t overdo the shoes.”</p> <p><em>- Tiffany Figueiredo, Virtuoso travel advisor</em></p> <p>“I’m a self-proclaimed over-packer. In my opinion, if the bag has the space there is no harm in filling it to max capacity. You never know when you might need a new outfit, something gets dirty, or your mood changes. Layering is always important.”</p> <p><em>- Laura Epstein, Virtuoso travel advisor</em></p> <p>“I always take things that I must have in my suitcase like an extra curling iron, a bathing suit, and a pair of jeans. Can you imagine the average-sized American woman trying to find a pair of jeans that fit in Italy or France? Forget it! I also take a 15-foot, heavy-duty extension cord – some European hotels don’t have outlets in the bathrooms for safety reasons, and the bedroom is five feet away from the nearest mirror.”</p> <p><em>- Kelly Shea, Virtuoso travel advisor</em></p> <p><strong>Schlep Less</strong></p> <p>You calmly arrive at the airport, skip the baggage check-in, and carry only your wallet, passport, a book, and your iPad – maybe some snacks. You don’t elbow for space in the airplane bins. Skip elbowing for overhead bin space or at baggage claim – just walk off the plane and check into your hotel, fresh and relaxed. Your luggage is already in your room. With Luggage Free, a company that works with Virtuoso advisors to ship your luggage ahead of you, it is possible. This is especially helpful if you want to take bulky items like skis or if you’re traveling for a longer period of time.</p> <p>Do you agree with any of these tips?</p> <p>First appeared on <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><a href="http://blog.virtuoso.com/tips-and-trends/bookmark-this-18-great-packing-tips/" target="_blank"><strong>Virtuoso Luxury Travelle</strong></a>r</span>. </p> <p><a href="http://www.virtuoso.com/" target="_blank"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Click here</span></strong></a> to visit its website for more information.</p>

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