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Christmas drinks anyone? Why alcohol before bedtime leaves you awake at 3am, desperate for sleep

<p><em><a href="https://theconversation.com/profiles/madeline-sprajcer-1315489">Madeline Sprajcer</a>, <a href="https://theconversation.com/institutions/cquniversity-australia-2140">CQUniversity Australia</a>; <a href="https://theconversation.com/profiles/charlotte-gupta-347235">Charlotte Gupta</a>, <a href="https://theconversation.com/institutions/cquniversity-australia-2140">CQUniversity Australia</a>; <a href="https://theconversation.com/profiles/chris-irwin-249481">Chris Irwin</a>, <a href="https://theconversation.com/institutions/griffith-university-828">Griffith University</a>; <a href="https://theconversation.com/profiles/grace-vincent-1484516">Grace Vincent</a>, <a href="https://theconversation.com/institutions/cquniversity-australia-2140">CQUniversity Australia</a>, and <a href="https://theconversation.com/profiles/saman-khalesi-366871">Saman Khalesi</a>, <a href="https://theconversation.com/institutions/cquniversity-australia-2140">CQUniversity Australia</a></em></p> <p>You’ve come home after a long day at work, you have dinner, put the kids to bed, and then you have your usual nightcap before drifting off to sleep. Or, perhaps you’re at the pub for the work Christmas party, and you think you’ll just have one more drink before heading home.</p> <p>That last drink might help you fall asleep easily. But your nightcap can also wreck a good night’s sleep. How could it do both?</p> <p>Here’s what’s going on in your body when you drink alcohol just before bedtime. And if you want to drink at the Christmas party, we have some tips on how to protect your sleep.</p> <h2>What happens to my body when I drink?</h2> <p>Soon after you drink, alcohol enters your bloodstream and travels to your brain.</p> <p><a href="https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/epdf/10.1111/j.1530-0277.1998.tb03695.x">There</a>, it affects chemical messengers known as neurotransmitters and <a href="https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/2700603/">slows down communication</a> between nerve cells.</p> <p>Certain <a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4040959/">regions of the brain</a> are particularly vulnerable to the effects of alcohol. When alcohol interacts with cells in these regions, the <a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6826822/">overall effect</a> leads to those characteristic feelings of relaxation, lowered inhibitions, slurred speech, and may induce feelings of drowsiness and lethargy.</p> <p>Alcohol can also have immediate effects on the heart and circulatory system. Blood vessels widen, resulting in a <a href="https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s11906-021-01160-7">drop in blood pressure</a>, which can make you feel dizzy or lightheaded.</p> <h2>What happens soon after a nightcap?</h2> <p>Drinking alcohol before sleeping is like flipping a switch. At first, alcohol has a <a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6826822/">sedative effect</a> and you will probably feel <a href="https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/23347102/">more relaxed</a> and <a href="https://www.nature.com/articles/s41598-020-62227-0#:%7E:text=In%20this%20large%2C%20population%20based,sleep%20(cross%20sectional%20analyses).">drift off easily</a>.</p> <p>At this point, you still have a high level of alcohol in your blood. But don’t be fooled. As your body <a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5821259/">processes the alcohol</a>, and the night goes on, alcohol actually <a href="https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1111/acer.12621">disrupts your sleep</a>.</p> <h2>And later that night?</h2> <p>As your body processes the alcohol and your blood alcohol level drops, your brain rebounds from the drowsiness you would have felt earlier in the night.</p> <p>This disturbs your sleep, and can wake you up <a href="https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1300/J465v26n01_01">multiple times</a>, particularly in the second half of the night. You may also have vivid and stressful <a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5821259/">dreams</a>.</p> <p>This sleep disruption is mainly to the deep, “rapid eye movement” or REM sleep.</p> <p>This type of sleep plays an important role in regulating your emotions and for your cognitive function. So not getting enough explains why you wake up feeling pretty lousy and groggy.</p> <p>Drinking alcohol before bedtime also tends to mean you <a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2775419/?source=post_page---------------------------">sleep less overall</a>, meaning important rest and recharge time is cut short.</p> <p>There are also <a href="https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/31234199/">long-term impacts</a> of alcohol on sleep. Moderate and heavy drinkers consistently have <a href="https://academic.oup.com/sleepadvances/article/3/1/zpac023/6632721">poor sleep quality</a> and more <a href="https://www.nature.com/articles/s41598-020-62227-0#:%7E:text=In%20this%20large%2C%20population%20based,sleep%20(cross%20sectional%20analyses).">sleep disturbances</a> over time.</p> <h2>How about the Christmas party then?</h2> <p>If you plan to drink this holiday season, here are some tips to minimise the effect of alcohol on your sleep:</p> <ul> <li> <p><strong>swap every other drink</strong>. Try swapping every second drink for a non-alcoholic drink. The more alcohol you drink, <a href="https://academic.oup.com/sleep/article/44/1/zsaa135/5871424?casa_token=okbJAuf8TXUAAAAA:ye_q-DACToxvj8H3IVaiKrjNkDhHZnl-LKJdds3iteaKyzJFuHUzitlRv45DqxNO-FraDRAlQMV53z8">the more</a> sleep disruption you can expect. Reducing how much you drink in any one sitting can minimise the effect on your sleep</p> </li> <li> <p><strong>avoid drinking alcohol close to bedtime</strong>. If you give your body a chance to process the alcohol before you go to sleep, your sleep will be less disrupted</p> </li> <li> <p><strong>eat while you drink</strong>. Drinking on an empty stomach is going to worsen the effects of alcohol as the alcohol will be absorbed <a href="https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/pdf/10.1111/j.1467-3010.2006.00588.x?casa_token=TQiCqcbasYAAAAAA:GbEvnTT82aB3_sPfmJLOQXIV3ivjnbZdIoP2_XZBa8IDZ0YLaPxNfE6DMHLgH7obnpA22VDsM4vyGZV4dQ">faster</a>. So try to eat something while you’re drinking</p> </li> <li> <p><strong>ditch the espresso martinis and other caffeinated drinks</strong>. <a href="https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S1087079207000937?casa_token=NJsobF-C-vwAAAAA:opzPjrglPdZTwXEo7rHil5vm0a1K3KmXw9vp0Het-eRHZEWbfRAA40vgicU3Z5kC8x7uEJF39C8">Caffeine</a> can make it hard to get to sleep, and hard to stay asleep</p> </li> <li> <p><strong>be careful if you have sleep apnoea</strong>. People who have sleep apnoea (when their upper airway is repeatedly blocked during sleep) can be even more impacted by drinking alcohol. That’s because alcohol can act as a muscle relaxant, <a href="https://academic.oup.com/sleep/article/5/4/318/2753287">leading to</a> more snoring, and lower oxygen levels in the blood. If you have sleep apnoea, limiting how much alcohol you drink is the best way to avoid these effects</p> </li> <li> <p><strong>drink plenty of water</strong>. Staying hydrated will help you <a href="https://academic.oup.com/sleep/article/42/2/zsy210/5155420">sleep better</a> and will hopefully stave off the worst of tomorrow’s hangover.<img style="border: none !important; box-shadow: none !important; margin: 0 !important; max-height: 1px !important; max-width: 1px !important; min-height: 1px !important; min-width: 1px !important; opacity: 0 !important; outline: none !important; padding: 0 !important;" src="https://counter.theconversation.com/content/216834/count.gif?distributor=republish-lightbox-basic" alt="The Conversation" width="1" height="1" /></p> </li> </ul> <p><em><a href="https://theconversation.com/profiles/madeline-sprajcer-1315489">Madeline Sprajcer</a>, Lecturer in Psychology, <a href="https://theconversation.com/institutions/cquniversity-australia-2140">CQUniversity Australia</a>; <a href="https://theconversation.com/profiles/charlotte-gupta-347235">Charlotte Gupta</a>, Postdoctoral research fellow, <a href="https://theconversation.com/institutions/cquniversity-australia-2140">CQUniversity Australia</a>; <a href="https://theconversation.com/profiles/chris-irwin-249481">Chris Irwin</a>, Senior Lecturer in Nutrition and Dietetics, School of Health Sciences &amp; Social Work, <a href="https://theconversation.com/institutions/griffith-university-828">Griffith University</a>; <a href="https://theconversation.com/profiles/grace-vincent-1484516">Grace Vincent</a>, Senior Lecturer, Appleton Institute, <a href="https://theconversation.com/institutions/cquniversity-australia-2140">CQUniversity Australia</a>, and <a href="https://theconversation.com/profiles/saman-khalesi-366871">Saman Khalesi</a>, Senior Lecturer and Discipline Lead in Nutrition, School of Health, Medical and Applied Sciences, <a href="https://theconversation.com/institutions/cquniversity-australia-2140">CQUniversity Australia</a></em></p> <p><em>Image credits: Getty Images</em></p> <p><em>This article is republished from <a href="https://theconversation.com">The Conversation</a> under a Creative Commons license. Read the <a href="https://theconversation.com/christmas-drinks-anyone-why-alcohol-before-bedtime-leaves-you-awake-at-3am-desperate-for-sleep-216834">original article</a>.</em></p>

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Room to Move: Desperate renters forced into backyard boxes

<p>Victorian tenants have taken desperate measures in their hunt for a home in the midst of a housing crisis, turning to portable rooms set up in their parent’s driveways and backyards. </p> <p>The portables - described as ‘stand-alone separate rooms’ - have been seen across Facebook Marketplace for up to $180 per week, in a time when Melbourne’s median rent has reached $460 each week. </p> <p>The company behind the Room to Move initiative have advertised a 7.2sq m room for $150 per week, and for those seeking a little more wiggle room, a 10.1sq m room is available for $180. </p> <p>However, a minimum hire period of six months applies to both, as well as a bond of $500, and a one-month written notice to end the lease. And for anyone just outside of Melbourne who might be interested, the rooms can be delivered within a three-to-four hour drive from the city - for a fee of $250. </p> <p>The spaces don’t come with bathrooms, but do feature weatherproof electrical sockets that power two double power points, two internal downlights, and a reverse cycle air conditioner. </p> <p>“There’s plenty of demand for people looking for a short term solution for accommodation,” Room to Move co-founder Nick Nottle said of the decision to launch the spaces. “Typically people place [the rooms] in their backyard or on their driveway back off the street a bit.”</p> <p>He noted that the spaces attracted the most attention from renters who were moving back in with family in a bid to save enough for their own house deposit, and that he and business partner Mike Rose launched Room to Move when they noticed a gap in the market, and saw an opportunity for portables that weren’t an eyesore in a residential environment. </p> <p>“Neighbours don’t really complain because people like the look of it,” he said, “it doesn’t look like you’ve just dropped a big shipping container in your backyard.” </p> <p>Beyond desperate renters, however, Nick believes the ‘properties’ also appeal to parents who want something self-contained to get their teenagers out of their hair, as well as having somewhere to house visitors coming from a long way away. </p> <p>And last but not least, according to Nick, “the other group is people using them as an office to work from home, or for studio-type businesses like a lash salon, tattoo parlour or hairdresser - things you can do from home rather than renting a space elsewhere.”</p> <p><em>Images: Facebook, realestate.com.au</em></p>

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Desperate rental times call for desperate rental note-taking

<p>Renting can be difficult at the best of times, and as many around the world can attest, some landlords have little interest in the upkeep of the properties they’re letting, or in those paying hundreds to thousands of dollars a week to reside in them. </p> <p>And one renter has had enough, deciding it only right to warn whoever might take over their lease after them - a move that Councillor Jonathan Sriranganathan wholeheartedly backed, sharing the renter’s cheeky tactics to Facebook for all to see. </p> <p>“If you’re moving out of a rental and your landlord/agent is showing the property to new prospective tenants,” he wrote, “consider leaving some notes or posters like this in a few prominent locations around the home. </p> <p>“Legally, an agent or landlord shouldn’t be touching or interfering with them in any way.” </p> <p>He later edited the post to include that “this is an actual photo from a Brisbane renter”, and to tell everyone that “no, it wasn’t me - I live on a houseboat.”</p> <p>Attached was an image of the renter’s bold move - a series of notes stuck to what appears to be the inside of a door, each one highlighting a different issue they had faced while living there, with no solutions - or even attempts at one - mentioned. </p> <p>“NOTE TO SELF,” the first one announced, with the following going on to list everything from recurring mould (a common issue faced by renters), nearby construction and its consequent dust and noise, as well as “non-negotiable” rent rises.</p> <p><iframe style="border: none; overflow: hidden;" src="https://www.facebook.com/plugins/post.php?href=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2Fjonno.sri%2Fposts%2Fpfbid0MToFp2CzdfGPKD6fq9GYUiiG6H1Wxe8d2GJ9cpYtNP9qYusvm79eX4LaetnNVSptl&show_text=true&width=500" width="500" height="716" frameborder="0" scrolling="no" allowfullscreen="allowfullscreen"></iframe></p> <p>People were quick to join the discussion - most were on the side of the renter, with one popular comment suggesting that “there should be a system that black lists landlords for breach of agreements, the same way tenants can be black listed for damage.</p> <p>“We also need a website to rate our property managers, landlords and properties.” </p> <p>“Yep. For far too long Landlords have had free reign to abuse their power with no sort of recording or accountability of their behaviour,” wrote one. “I’ve had some wonderful ones and some horrendous ones.” </p> <p>“I used to pull prospective tenants aside and fill them in,” shared another. </p> <p>“A few nervous and cranky landlords in this thread,” quipped one. </p> <p>Meanwhile, someone only had one thing to run by everyone, “so an artistic ‘beware ye, all ye who enter here’ wouldn't be beyond doing?” </p> <p>Others failed to see so much as the funny side - without even mentioning the underlying problems the renter and councillor were begging people to address - and instead tried to scare any like-minded renters from trying something similar. </p> <p>“And good luck with getting a positive rental reference after pulling a stunt like that,” said one. </p> <p>“If you don’t like the rental property just move on,” one suggested, leading many to suspect that they had never - or at least not in a long time - attempted to secure a rental property. </p> <p>“What I don't get is.... if something is causing you this much grief..... do it yourself or pay someone, if the realestate don't pay.... meh you can at least move on with your life for a few hundred dollars,” someone else said, apparently unaware of the limitations many renters are faced with when it comes to touching their rental. </p> <p>Councillor Sriranganathan returned to the post to share comments he’d made to <em>The Courier Mail</em>, adding that “too often, landlords and agents fail to disclose serious property maintenance and amenity issues when a lease is signed so they can trick tenants into paying more rent than a place is worth.</p> <p>“I think it’s great when outgoing tenants can inform future renters of property defects so they know the issues before they sign the contract. Perhaps there should even be a publicly accessible register where tenants can list maintenance issues that haven’t been rectified in order to hold property managers accountable.</p> <p>“Unfortunately the minor reforms (to minimum housing standards) … won’t do much to address unrectified maintenance issues, because many tenants are still afraid that if they request repairs or make complaints, their lease won’t be renewed.</p> <p>“It’s ridiculous to blame chronic maintenance issues on a shortage of tradies. The problem is that landlords who hoard houses are collecting tens of thousands per year in rent, but don’t care enough about their tenants’ welfare to repair dodgy power points or leaking roofs.”</p> <p><em>Images: Facebook</em></p>

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"I would like to get my father back": Prince Harry's desperate plea to his family

<p>Prince Harry has shared an emotional plea as he wishes to rekindle his relationship with his family. </p> <p>New trailers have been released for the Duke of Sussex's interview with ITV, which is due to air next week, as he said the royal family have “shown absolutely no willingness to reconcile” with him.</p> <p>Harry tells ITV’s Tom Bradby in the explosive trailer, “It never needed to be this way. The leaking, the planting, I want a family – not an institution.”</p> <p>“They feel as though it’s better to keep us, somehow, as the villains. They’ve shown absolutely no willingness to reconcile."</p> <p>“I would like to get my father back. I would like to have my brother back.”</p> <p>The full 90-minute interview, which was filmed in California, will air on Sunday – just two days before Harry's memoir <em>Spare</em> is released.</p> <p>Prince Harry also spoke with US news network CBS, as the trailer for the interview with journalist Anderson Cooper shows the Duke further condemning his family's actions towards him and wife Meghan Markle. </p> <p>He said, “Every single time I have tried to do it privately there have been briefings and leakings and planting of stories against me and my wife”.</p> <p>“The family motto is ‘never complain never explain’. But it’s just a motto. It doesn’t really hold. There’s endless [complaining and explaining] through leaks."</p> <p>“They will feed or have a conversation with the correspondent and that correspondent will be spoon fed information and write the story."</p> <p>“Then at the bottom of it they will say that they have reached out to Buckingham Palace for comment.</p> <p>“But the whole story is Buckingham Palace commenting."</p> <p>“So when we are being told for the last six years we can’t put a statement out to protect you, but you do it for the rest of the family, there becomes a point when silence is betrayal.”</p> <p><em>Image credits: Getty Images / ITV</em></p>

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“Give us the closure we need”: Chris Dawson's daughter's desperate plea

<p dir="ltr">Chris Dawson’s eldest daughter has addressed her father with an emotional plea during a court hearing prior to his sentencing for murdering his wife, Lynette.</p> <p dir="ltr">Shanelle Dawson delivered a victim-impact statement during the hearing at the NSW Supreme Court on Thursday, where she pleaded with her father to “finally admit the truth”.</p> <p dir="ltr"><a href="https://www.oversixty.co.nz/news/news/stunning-chris-dawson-verdict-handed-down" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Dawson was convicted of Lynette’s murder</a> by Justice Ian Harrison in August after one of the country’s most high-profile trials.</p> <p dir="ltr">The former teacher wasn’t charged over the murder until 2018 and has always maintained that Lynette walked out of their family in the early 1980s.</p> <p dir="ltr">Fighting back tears, Shanelle told the court she had endured “41 years of deceit, silence, trauma and gaslighting” at the hands of her father.</p> <p dir="ltr">"The night you removed our mother from our lives was the night you destroyed my sense of safety and belonging in this world for many years to come," she said.</p> <p dir="ltr">Her father sat silently in the dock and looked at the floor while Shanelle told him he had “no right” to take away her mother.</p> <p dir="ltr">“You are not God”, she said.</p> <p dir="ltr">"I went to great lengths to keep the secret from my daughter… Unfortunately her friend told her. I had to explain to my beautiful innocent daughter why her grandfather killed her grandmother. </p> <p dir="ltr">"She kept asking, 'Why did he do that?' The same question which tortured me for years and years.</p> <p dir="ltr">"Why didn't you just divorce her? Because of money? For God's sake."</p> <p dir="ltr">Shanelle was four when her mother was last seen, and her sister was two.</p> <p dir="ltr">“Why didn’t you just divorce her, and let those who love and need her, keep her?” Shanelle continued.</p> <p dir="ltr">“It hurts me deeply to think of you in jail for the rest of your life but I also choose not to carry your burdens anymore.”</p> <p dir="ltr">The now 44-year-old said the thought of Dawson being in jail hurt because she had lost her mother and father too, and she asked him to reveal where her mother was.</p> <p dir="ltr">"Please tell us where she is," Shanelle said. </p> <p dir="ltr">"I hope you will finally admit the truth to yourself and give us the closure we need."</p> <p dir="ltr">The court also heard statements from Lynette’s siblings, Gregory Simms and Patricia Jenkins, which were read out on their behalf.</p> <p dir="ltr">Mr Simms wrote that Dawson had been accepted into the family but “repaid us by committing the ultimate betrayal”.</p> <p dir="ltr">He added that the years of lying to the Simms family and his own daughters showed that Dawson was a “conniving monster hell-bent on … getting what you wanted at any cost”.</p> <p dir="ltr">"To see you sitting there during the trial, showing no remorse or accountability ... confirmed in my mind that you are a coward and can only see things from your own perspective and gain," Mr Simms wrote.</p> <p dir="ltr">"We ask you to do the decent thing and allow us to bring Lyn home to rest, finally giving her the decency she deserves."</p> <p dir="ltr">Ms Jenkins wrote of her initial confusion of learning that her sister was missing and that a “black cloud” had been hanging over the family for 40 years.</p> <p dir="ltr">She said she had watched her sister be reduced from a “vibrant, caring, funny and intelligent” woman to one without confidence by Dawson even before her death.</p> <p dir="ltr">It comes after Justice Harrison found that Dawson was motivated to kill Lynette because of an “obsessive infatuation” with “JC”, the family’s teenaged babysitter who was a student at the school he taught at and his future wife.</p> <p dir="ltr">The judge said Dawson was “tortured” at the prospect of losing “JC” while he was “shackled with a wife” he wanted to leave.</p> <p dir="ltr">During his marathon judgement, Justice Harrison ruled that Lynette died on or around January 8, 1982, and was satisfied that Dawson’s claims of speaking with her after that date were “lies”.</p> <p dir="ltr">In Thursday’s hearing, Crown prosecutor Craig Everson SC argued that Dawson had planned the murder for at least six days.</p> <p dir="ltr">“The death of Lynette and the offender's subsequent campaign of disinformation left her parents and siblings in a state of anxiety and uncertainty for decades," he said.</p> <p dir="ltr">Greg Walsh, Dawson’s lawyer, said that the murder was an “isolated” and “precipitous” act and that Dawson had been receiving death threats <a href="https://www.oversixty.co.nz/news/news/detailed-look-at-chris-dawson-s-first-day-behind-bars" target="_blank" rel="noopener">in jail</a>, where inmates called him “The Teacher’s Pet”, in reference to the podcast that thrust the case into the spotlight.</p> <p dir="ltr">The hearing concluded with Justice Harrison reserving his judgement, with Dawson’s sentence due to be handed down on December 2.</p> <p><span id="docs-internal-guid-fa67992a-7fff-b1a0-a1d4-9e3cc41df528"></span></p> <p dir="ltr"><em>Image: Getty Images</em></p>

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"I'm so sorry I had to do this": Thief leaves hand-written apology and desperate promise

<p>One desperate thief had left behind quite a sad note after committing a crime in Auckland.</p> <p>In an interesting turn of events, a couple had woken up to find their car had been broken into and the battery was stolen overnight. The offender had left behind a hand-written note in the engine addressed to the victims, apologising to them.</p> <p>The note read: “I’m so sorry I had to do this. When I am in a fortunate position I will put $200 in your wipers.”</p> <p>One of the victims shared: “The thief actually left a nice note. Don’t feel half as angry as I should but still have no way to get to work.”</p> <p>The resident, who wished to remain anonymous, told the Herald that while she should have been furious she wishes the offender had knocked on the door asking for help instead.</p> <p>“I personally felt a bit sorry that he was in such strife that he turned to crime. So I should have been angry - and probably would have been if he hadn’t left the note.</p> <p>“It’s tough out there for some and getting worse. I’d probably have just bloody given him the money if he’d knocked on the door.”</p> <p>Her husband also showed immense sympathy, despite having their privacy violated and being stolen from.</p> <p>“I couldn’t even feel angry about it in the end. It was more or less an apology. We’re all living hard lives at the moment with inflation and the cost of living going up, it’s sad that there is someone out there going around that desperate."</p> <p>While showing sympathy for the offender, the victims also described the note as “strange” given they were able to rip a battery out “in a hurry” but had enough time to “write and deposit a note”.</p> <p><em>Image: NZ Herald </em></p>

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7 silent signs your hair is desperate for certain nutrients

<p><strong>Nutrition for healthy hair</strong></p> <p>If you’re running low on key vitamins, your health – and especially your hair – could suffer. In fact, different hair issues such as shedding and dry scalp could thanks to specific nutrients you’re missing. Here’s what you need to know to keep your locks healthy.</p> <p><strong>Your hair is shedding like crazy</strong></p> <p>Ever take a shower and find yourself amazed at the amount of hair in the drain? While it’s normal for healthy hair to lose a few strands post-wash (up to 100 a day), excessive shedding could indicate something else is going on. (Post-pregnancy is a common time to shed hair, and that’s normal).</p> <p>Dermatologist, Dr Paradi Mirmirani, explains nutritional deficiencies could be at play, as well as other underlying medical issues, so a visit to your doc is recommended. “In addition to being testing for thyroid disease and anaemia, your physician may check for certain vitamin and/or mineral deficiencies, including a vitamin D deficiency,” she adds.</p> <p><strong>Your hair is dry</strong></p> <p>For hair that remains dry year-round, the solution may be healthy fats, says dietitian, Megan Faletra. These are vital to your diet because they promote healthy skin and a healthy scalp, which gives life to your strands. “Think about supporting the health of your hair by supporting your skin and scalp with an abundance of healthy fats such as avocado, olive oil, and salmon into your diet.”</p> <p><strong>Your hair looks dull</strong></p> <p>Blame it on missing your touch-up appointment with your colourist or poor weather that encourages hat hair, but you might glance in the mirror and see hair that you wish was shinier. Nutritionist, Kaleigh McMordie, explains dull-looking hair that lacks vibrancy could be an indication you need more healthy fats to add shine and body. </p> <p>“Omega-3 fatty acids and monounsaturated fats are important for overall health, but dull hair could be a sign you aren’t getting enough. Load up on salmon, avocado, flaxseeds, chia seeds, and nuts,” she suggests.</p> <p><strong>Your hair is brittle</strong></p> <p>When your hair dries post-shower while you’re running around checking off to-do list items, you shouldn’t tuck a strand behind your ear and hear a crunch. Though everyone’s locks need a little moisture from time to time, a super brittle texture could be a sign of a zinc and/or an iron deficiency, according to integrative general practitioner, Dr Tania Dempsey. </p> <p>“Zinc and iron are important for keratin production so not having enough of these can lead to changes in the structure of hair,” she explains. “Zinc can be taken alone or with a mineral formula including iron. You can add foods that are high in zinc like beef, pumpkin seeds, and lentils to your diet, too.”</p> <p><strong>Your scalp is dry</strong></p> <p>Find yourself resisting the temptation to scratch an itch in the middle of an important meeting because your scalp is so dry? Or, does it flake when you reach for a quick scratch? These are all signs you’re in need for omega 3s and omegas 6s, according to Dr Dempsey. </p> <p>As she explains, these essential fatty acids are important for the health of the follicles and they bring moisture to your hair and scalp. To up your intake of these, eat more flaxseeds, sunflower seeds, fish, or take fish oil supplements.</p> <p><strong>Your hair is super thin</strong></p> <p>If your hair happens to fall on the thinner side, you might not notice when it gets even scanter. But when your hair becomes thin throughout, McMordie says it could be an indication you’re in need of extra protein. “Hair cells, just like every other cell in the body, are made up of amino acids, which are the broken down form of protein, so if you aren’t getting enough, you may start to lose more hair than normal,” she explains. </p> <p>To ensure your hair is full and bountiful, she recommends consuming adequate protein by consuming fish, eggs, poultry, beef, and dairy. And if you’re vegetarian or vegan, nuts, beans, and whole grains are also good sources of protein.</p> <p><strong>Your hair is greying prematurely</strong></p> <p>Even if your parents didn’t find that pivotal first grey strand until they were near their 40s, you can start the ageing process earlier or later. Genetics might play a part, but in some rare cases, McMordie says the loss of pigment in hair at a young age can indicate a copper deficiency. </p> <p>Though it’s a trace mineral that doesn’t require much consumption, she suggests adding more mushrooms, sesame seeds, and seaweeds to fight back against the process. A supplement that’s specifically formulated for your hair is also a smart idea.</p> <p><em>Image credits: Getty Images</em></p> <p style="box-sizing: border-box; border: 0px; margin: 0px 0px 20px; outline: 0px; padding: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; line-height: 26px;"><em>This article originally appeared on <a href="https://www.readersdigest.co.nz/healthsmart/beauty/hair-and-nails/7-silent-signs-your-hair-is-desperate-for-certain-nutrients" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Reader's Digest</a>.</em></p>

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Man’s desperate attempt to avoid baggage fees goes viral

<p dir="ltr">One man’s plight to avoid excess baggage fees has been caught on camera and gone viral. </p> <p dir="ltr">In the video, the male passenger can be seen kicking and shoving his bag into the luggage size checker as an airline staffer looked on.</p> <p dir="ltr">The man’s desperate efforts amused those around him, with giggling being heard in the background from fellow travellers, including the person filming.</p> <p dir="ltr">The video, which has now been viewed over 26 million times, was captioned, “Don’t die for EasyJet.”</p> <p>Eventually, the man was able to convince the staff member that his bag was the right size to count as carry-on luggage, only for it to then be stuck inside the metal frame.</p> <div class="embed" style="font-size: 16px; box-sizing: inherit; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; caret-color: #323338; color: #323338; font-family: Roboto, Rubik, 'Noto Kufi Arabic', 'Noto Sans JP', sans-serif; outline: none !important;"><iframe class="embedly-embed" style="box-sizing: inherit; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; border-width: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; width: 610px; max-width: 100%; outline: none !important;" title="tiktok embed" src="https://cdn.embedly.com/widgets/media.html?src=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.tiktok.com%2Fembed%2Fv2%2F7135000263911329029&amp;display_name=tiktok&amp;url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.tiktok.com%2F%40hotasfo_o%2Fvideo%2F7135000263911329029&amp;image=https%3A%2F%2Fp16-sign-va.tiktokcdn.com%2Ftos-maliva-p-0068%2Fb9ac55874a8840a382735f0dbbb4f95d_1661246711%7Etplv-tiktok-play.jpeg%3Fx-expires%3D1662991200%26x-signature%3DlT8PTmNwIg0BVzmFm2u%252F1Vfwtc0%253D&amp;key=59e3ae3acaa649a5a98672932445e203&amp;type=text%2Fhtml&amp;schema=tiktok" width="340" height="700" frameborder="0" scrolling="no" allowfullscreen="allowfullscreen"></iframe></div> <p>"He's going to miss his flight trying to get that out," one person quipped in the comments.</p> <p dir="ltr">"Rumour has it he is still trying to get it back out," another joined in.</p> <p dir="ltr">Meanwhile, some thought the staff member was clearly also just having a laugh.</p> <p dir="ltr">"The staff guy was just having a laugh, knowing well what was about to unfold," one person said.</p> <p dir="ltr">Others empathised with the traveller for trying to avoid the extra fees, with one person sharing, "EasyJet made me pay extra for my carry-on pillow, I still haven't recovered from the shock."</p> <p dir="ltr"><em>Image credits: TikTok</em></p>

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"This is NOT what I look like": TV star takes a stand against altered pictures

<p>Bethenny Frankel has taken a stand against "deceptive" photos on social media by posting what she really looks like. </p> <p>The <em>Real Housewives of New York City</em> star, 51, shared two images to her Instagram account: both in a bikini on the beach, but one had been clearly photoshopped to make her look slimmer. </p> <p>She shared the photos as a warning of how dangerous Photoshop can be when dealing with your self-image. </p> <p>In the caption, she wrote, "This is NOT what I look like…and you know that because I’m not vain and show you the real me."</p> <p>“But if I posted a version of this every day you might start to believe that it might be. This is just how distorted this has all gotten.”</p> <p><img src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/2022/09/Frankel.jpg" alt="" width="1280" height="720" /></p> <p><em>Bethenny post-Photoshop (left) vs. all natural (right). Image credits: Instagram</em></p> <p>She pointed out that “filtering is lying” and “deceptive,” which causes women to “feel badly about themselves” and “young girls insecure and obsessed with an unattainable perfection”.</p> <p>Frankel continued, “It makes middle aged women and mothers feel insecure about themselves. This creates a false ideal for men.”</p> <p>She went on to call editing “destructive, irresponsible, insecure and inaccurate”, before concluding her inspirational post by reminding her followers that “there is a line between making an effort to look pretty and an outright falsehood”.</p> <p>Frankel has often pointed out the importance of living filter free, as earlier this year she posted an unedited photo of herself lounging by the pool in a tiny bikini telling fans the key to body acceptance is “balance”.</p> <p>She went on to encourage people to embrace their flaws and live for themselves, rather than their social media perception. </p> <p><em>Image credits: Instagram</em></p> <div class="media image" style="box-sizing: inherit; display: flex; flex-direction: column; align-items: center; width: 705.1837768554688px; margin-bottom: 32px;"> </div>

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Terminally ill nurse caught in desperate waiting game

<p dir="ltr">A nurse who has months to live as a result of her diagnosis of motor neuron disease (MND) is “virtually paralysed” and waiting for the NSW government to decide how she will die.</p> <p dir="ltr">Sara Wright had been a nurse for 33 years before she was diagnosed with amyotrophic lateral sclerosis (ALS) - a subtype of MND - two years ago, and is now dependent on a carer 24 hours a day.</p> <p dir="ltr">“The disease started as a weakness in my right foot, travelled up my right leg, then my left foot and leg,” the 54-year-old told <em><a href="https://7news.com.au/news/public-health/virtually-paralysed-nurse-waits-for-nsw-parliament-to-decide-how-she-will-die-c-6699939">7NEWS.com.au</a></em>.</p> <p dir="ltr">“Then it travelled up my torso affecting my upper body, firstly my abdominal muscles, and now it affects both of my arms and hands, my lungs and my swallowing and speaking muscles.”</p> <p dir="ltr">Ms Wright, who shared her story via dictation since speaking is difficult and painful, is waiting to see whether voluntary assisted dying laws (VAD) will be passed in the NSW Upper House next week.</p> <p dir="ltr">If they don’t pass, she says she will likely “have to deal with suffocating or choking to death”.</p> <p dir="ltr">“It’s a terminal illness and the average life expectancy is three to five years,” she explained.</p> <p dir="ltr">“Given I have already been living with the disease for three years, and the progression has been faster than I ever could have expected, I don’t know how long I will live.</p> <p dir="ltr">“I don’t think that I will live for more than another six to eight months, as my breathing capacity is reducing very fast and I do not wish to have a tracheostomy (an operation where a breathing hole is cut into the front of the neck and windpipe).”</p> <p dir="ltr">ALS/MND is more common among adults aged between 40 and 70 years, with 384 people diagnosed each day according to the <a href="https://www.als-mnd.org/what-is-alsmnd/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">International Alliance of ALS/MND Associations</a>.</p> <p dir="ltr">Ms Wright’s career as a nurse made her all too aware of the “limitations of palliative care in the final stages of terminal illness”, so she initially planned to book into Dignitas, a non-profit organisation in Switzerland that offers a range of end-of-life services.</p> <p dir="ltr">But, the COVID-19 pandemic derailed her plan with the closure of international borders.</p> <p dir="ltr">She then considered moving interstate, where VAD is legal, but she worried about uprooting her 15-year-old daughter, Ester, from her home and friends, especially since most of their family is UK-based.</p> <p dir="ltr">“(Ester) is now 15 and she needs to have her community around her for support when I die,” she said.</p> <p dir="ltr">“Obviously this is an incredibly difficult conversation to have with your own child.</p> <p dir="ltr">“We have not specifically spoken about what could happen to me if the laws aren’t passed … but I have tried to assure her that family in the UK will fly out to be with her as soon as they can if I die unexpectedly.”</p> <p dir="ltr">Ms Wright’s fate is tied to the voluntary assisted dying bill, which passed through the NSW Parliament’s lower house last year and is legal or will soon be legal in <a href="https://end-of-life.qut.edu.au/assisteddying" target="_blank" rel="noopener">every other state</a> except NSW.</p> <p dir="ltr">“I know that all my family, my parents, my brothers, my ex-husband are all in support of voluntary assisted dying and helping me relieve my suffering,” she said.</p> <p dir="ltr">“But none of us want to break the law or risk anyone being imprisoned if they helped me.”</p> <p dir="ltr">Since the bill entered the upper house last March, it has been debated passionately and passed through a second reading stage last week.</p> <p dir="ltr">It has even divided the state’s core leadership, with Premier Dominic Perrottet opposing the bill in favour of improving palliative care and Health Minister Brad Hazzard supporting it - despite opposing euthanisia for 29 years.</p> <p dir="ltr">Ms Wright, a strong supporter of VAD laws, has been brought close to the death of others during her nursing career and said she was “pretty certain” that if members debating the bill had seen people die uncomfortable, drawn-out deaths like she had, they would support the bill.</p> <p dir="ltr">“I have seen far too many people, elderly people, in the middle of the night in a ward without anyone there to hold their hand because nobody knew that was going to be their time to die,” she said.</p> <p dir="ltr">“I think that most people don’t think enough about death because we are all frightened of it.</p> <p dir="ltr">“And this could be the reason that some people are refusing to consider VAD laws, because it’s a topic that is deeply uncomfortable and taboo.</p> <p dir="ltr">“If we as a society were more mindfully aware and thoughtful about death, as it is the only certain outcome of life, then perhaps people would develop more compassion.”</p> <p dir="ltr">Though the laws could still be passed at some point if it fails to pass in next week’s final vote, Ms Wright said it would affect her whole family if it was too late for her to take advantage of it.</p> <p dir="ltr">“This will not only cause suffering to me but also to all of my family,” she said.</p> <p dir="ltr">“I wonder how many people have really stopped to think about what they would like, if they were in a position where they were going to die of (an) unpleasant and drawn-out death.”</p> <p><span id="docs-internal-guid-efb8451b-7fff-fb48-8f9b-0af951ee000d"></span></p> <p dir="ltr"><em>Image: 7News</em></p>

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Desperate mum offers $1000 for help with kids on a flight

<p dir="ltr">A desperate mother-of-three has offered to pay someone to help look after her children on a long-haul flight.</p> <p dir="ltr">Taking to Facebook, the woman offered $1,000 to help with her four-year-old, two-year-old, and two-month-old on their Malaysia Airlines flight from London to Sydney on June 12.</p> <p dir="ltr">“Anyone heading from London to Sydney who wants to make $1,000??” her post began.</p> <p dir="ltr">“Offering to pay this to someone if you book onto my flight and help me with my 3 children please. Read on for details.</p> <p dir="ltr">“I’ll be travelling alone with my 3 children so I really need someone to help me. Hoping there is someone out there doing this trip anyway so would already be paying for a flight, which makes this a bonus if you don’t mind helping with little ones. </p> <p dir="ltr">The mother also explained in the post what the helping hand would be required to do on the 23.5 hour long flight.</p> <p dir="ltr">“Type of things you might be helping with: holding the baby so I can help the older girls, helping the 4 year old and 2 year old with their meals, keeping 4 year old and 2 year old entertained - puzzles, books, get their tvs and headphones sorted etc.</p> <p dir="ltr">“Also maybe have the baby in the baby carrier for a nap so I can help the older girls/ give them attention.”</p> <p dir="ltr">In an attempt to entice someone to take the position, the woman explained that it would basically cost around $42 an hour - despite not expecting them to help the full 24 hours.</p> <p dir="ltr">“Whenever the older girls are asleep you wouldn’t need to do anything and even when they’re awake I am happy for them to watch as much tv as they like so all you might need to do then is make sure headphones don’t fall off, put on the next movie etc. </p> <p dir="ltr">“I will also do as much as I can, but I’ll have the baby to look after as well.”</p> <p dir="ltr">She explained that her eldest daughters had recently been on a long flight but this time she has a newborn baby and her husband won’t be joining them.</p> <p dir="ltr">The mother received messages of good luck and support from members of the local group.</p> <p dir="ltr">“Good luck mama!I know it is very hard work and I can’t imagine with 3 kids but if it helps I am sure the flight attendants will do their best to help out. I flew alone with my baby (4 months) to France and they were super lovely. They held my daughter while I had go to the bathroom, played and even took photos with her. Hopefully you find someone but I am sure people will help on the plane xx,” one wrote.</p> <p dir="ltr">“Hope you find someone lovely to help. Have a great trip,” another commented.</p> <p dir="ltr">“I’m sure the universe will send you the right person on that flight. Best of luck and don’t stress. Call Malaysia Airline and see if they offer help I’m sure they do!!” another added.</p> <p dir="ltr"><em>Image: Shutterstock</em></p>

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Heartbreaking image from desperate Ukraine mother

<p dir="ltr"><em>Content warning: This article contains distressing content and images relating to the conflict in Ukraine.</em></p> <p dir="ltr">Images have emerged of Ukrainian children with their family’s contact details scrawled onto their bodies with black markers, as parents make preparations out of fear they will be killed by Russian forces.</p> <p dir="ltr">Kyiv journalist Anastasiia Lapatina shared a picture from a Ukrainian family with an insight into how families are preparing for the war to close in.</p> <p dir="ltr">“Ukrainian mothers are writing their family contacts on the bodies of their children in case they get killed and the child survives,” Ms Lapatina captioned the photo.</p> <p><span id="docs-internal-guid-cf743c20-7fff-2ea1-4762-113849c8b557"></span></p> <p dir="ltr">“And Europe is still discussing gas,” she added, referring to the European Union’s controversial decision to not ban oil or gas exports from Russia.</p> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet"> <p dir="ltr" lang="en">Ukrainian mothers are writing their family contacts on the bodies of their children in case they get killed and the child survives. And Europe is still discussing gas. <a href="https://t.co/sK26wnBOWj">pic.twitter.com/sK26wnBOWj</a></p> <p>— Anastasiia Lapatina (@lapatina_) <a href="https://twitter.com/lapatina_/status/1511059303611969542?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">April 4, 2022</a></p></blockquote> <p dir="ltr">The mother, Aleksandra Mako, originally posted the photo on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/Cbz_4zBtewq/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Instagram</a>, where she detailed her fear and explained how she wrote details on her daughter’s back “in case something happened to us” and if she was picked up by someone.</p> <p dir="ltr">“Then a crazy thought flashed through my mind, ‘why didn’t I tattoo her with this information?’” she wrote.</p> <p dir="ltr">The distressing images come after <em><a href="https://www.theguardian.com/world/2022/apr/02/ukrainian-children-used-as-human-shields-near-kyiv-say-witness-reports" target="_blank" rel="noopener">The Guardian</a></em> reported that children were being used as “human shields” by Russian soldiers attempting to flee.</p> <p dir="ltr">The publication reported that buses carrying children were placed in front of tanks in Novyi Bykiv, a village close to Chernihiv.</p> <p dir="ltr">“Cases of using children as cover are recorded in Sumy, Kyiv, Chernihiv, Zaporizhzhia oblasts,” Ukraine’s human rights ombudsman, Lyudmila Denisova, said.</p> <p dir="ltr"><span id="docs-internal-guid-1548fe20-7fff-486c-485c-42c06869ec4b"></span></p> <p dir="ltr">Colonel Oleksander Motuzyanyk, one of the country’s highest military officials, further alleged the Russians were using children as hostages in their trucks.</p> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet"> <p dir="ltr" lang="en">As Russian troops retreating they kidnap Ukrainian children and put them in their trucks to ensure their columns would not be attacked. It happened according to accounts of witnesses in Novyy Bykiv in Chernigiv region, also Sumy, Zaporizhzhia and Kyiv regions. Ombudsman office: <a href="https://t.co/qpP4YPYC5Z">pic.twitter.com/qpP4YPYC5Z</a></p> <p>— Olena Tregub (@OTregub) <a href="https://twitter.com/OTregub/status/1510180933495894021?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">April 2, 2022</a></p></blockquote> <p dir="ltr">“Enemies have been using Ukrainian children as hostages, putting them in their convoys, moving their vehicles,” he said.</p> <p dir="ltr">“Russian soldiers have used Ukrainian children as hostages, putting them on their trucks. They’re doing it to protect their vehicles when moving.</p> <p dir="ltr">“There have been cases of brutal behaviour against minors been recorded, documented by a Ukrainian and international institutions, and we’d like to emphasise that information in each and every case will be given to the national criminal courts and the occupiers will be brought to justice for each and every military and war crime they commit.”</p> <p dir="ltr">It has also been <a href="https://www.news.com.au/world/europe/children-being-written-on-by-parents-worried-they-will-die-in-war-with-russia/news-story/db8e0a1205a9cfaeb129e734ad1f5b54" target="_blank" rel="noopener">reported </a>that children were among the hundreds of people found dead in the town of Bucha, and that Russian soldiers were “mutilating children”.</p> <p dir="ltr">The events in Bucha have prompted US President Joe Biden to call for a “war crimes trial” and vow even harsher sanctions against Moscow.</p> <p dir="ltr">European Commission chief Ursula von der Leyen has also said the bloc was ready to send investigators to the town to gather evidence of possible war crimes.</p> <p dir="ltr"><span id="docs-internal-guid-9f799264-7fff-9eea-23ef-5913c04ab4ea"></span></p> <p dir="ltr"><em>Image: Twitter</em></p>

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Young girl's desperate walk to safety after deadly landslide

<p dir="ltr">The victims of a horror landslide in the NSW Blue Mountains have been identified as a British family of five holidaying in Australia.</p> <p dir="ltr">The father, 49, and his nine-year-old son died at the scene after the family was caught in a landslide on a Wentworth Falls walking track at around 1.30pm on Monday afternoon.</p> <p dir="ltr">The 50-year-old mother and 14-year-old son, both found in critical condition, were winched out that evening and taken to hospital. They remain in critical condition.</p> <p dir="ltr">The couple’s 15-year-old daughter escaped injury, with NSW Police saying she was walked from the location by emergency services and treated for shock.</p> <p dir="ltr">It is understood the young girl also assisted rescuers on the ground, as reported by <em><a href="https://www.9news.com.au/national/blue-mountains-wentworth-falls-landslide-hikers-trapped/18dff055-80de-4549-a5c5-371704d0e7a0" target="_blank" rel="noopener">9News</a></em>.</p> <p dir="ltr">Police have confirmed the family were visiting from the United Kingdom, and that the British consulate is assisting with the incident.</p> <p dir="ltr">With the dense bush making the rescue even more difficult, two police helicopters and special operations paramedics were among those enlisted to help.</p> <p dir="ltr">Seven road crews and two road crews were also dispatched to the scene by NSW Ambulance.</p> <p dir="ltr">“Unfortunately there’s been a landslip while they were bushwalking and a man and a boy have passed away,” NSW Police Detective Acting Superintendent John Nelson told reporters.</p> <p dir="ltr">“In terms of the site, it’s extremely dangerous and unstable.</p> <p dir="ltr">“Two other patients are critical, with head and abdominal injuries, requiring sedation before extraction.”</p> <p dir="ltr">NSW Ambulance superintendent Stewart Clarke addressed the incident on Monday night, telling the media it was “absolutely heartbreaking”.</p> <p dir="ltr">“This is absolutely heartbreaking for all involved and a truly tragic ending to what I’m sure was meant to be a pleasant day out,” he said.</p> <p dir="ltr">“It is terribly sad to have lost two lives here today and my heart goes out to the families and the survivors of this horrific ordeal who have witnessed what is certainly a traumatic event.”</p> <p dir="ltr">Trish Doyle, the Labor MP for the Blue Mountains, and the Wentworth Falls City - Blue Mountains Council Deputy Mayor, Romola Hollywood, both shared their condolences to the family online.</p> <p dir="ltr">“My heart goes out to this family, their friends and community, on behalf of ours,” Ms Doyle commented on a <a href="https://www.facebook.com/nswpoliceforce/posts/352525600253199" target="_blank" rel="noopener">post</a> from NSW Police about the incident.</p> <p dir="ltr">“I extend the deepest respect to our Blue Mountains Police Rescue, Special Ops Paramedics &amp; all first responders - for your traumatic but crucial work. Thank you.”</p> <p dir="ltr">“Our hearts go out to the family in these tragic circumstances. So incredibly sad,” Ms Hollywood also commented. “And we hope the woman and boy in hospital make a strong and speedy recovery.</p> <p dir="ltr">“Deepest thanks to our first responders for your amazing work in difficult circumstances and thanks to all who support them too. Take care everyone too.”</p> <p dir="ltr">The devastating incident comes after weeks of heavy rain across the state forced the National Parks and Wildlife Service to close several popular tracks due to “flood damage and ongoing rockfall risk”.</p> <p dir="ltr">All tracks in the area have been closed since the incident.</p> <p dir="ltr">A coroner’s report will be prepared for the man and young boy, as Blue Mountains police return to the area to retrieve their bodies.</p> <p><span id="docs-internal-guid-6f2c7767-7fff-b976-fb6d-8e875410c264"></span></p> <p dir="ltr"><em>Image: 9News</em></p>

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Do YOU know Joe? Football team's desperate search for 6-year-old superfan

<p>A UK football club is trying to track down a dedicated six-year-old fan who sent 50 cents in a letter to his favourite player. </p><p>The boy, known only as Joe, wrote to Swindon Town FC in a touching note, explaining his love for the football club and the devastating reason why he cannot attend a football game in person. </p><p>The note reads, "Mummy doesn't have any money to come to Swindon games because she has no money for food and has to pay for my dinner at school."</p><p>"I like Swindon Town Harry McKirdy. I will come one day."</p><p>Joe then attached three coins, a 20p, 5p and 1p, to the note and singed his name and age of "6 1/2".</p><p>After receiving the note, the football club shared a photo of it on Twitter in a bid to track down Joe so they can get in touch with him. </p><blockquote class="twitter-tweet"><p dir="ltr" lang="en">📢 | We have received this letter from Town fan Joe, aged 6 and a half. <br /><br />We'd really love to get in touch with Joe, but we don't have a return address. <br /><br />If anyone recognises the writing or thinks they know who Joe is, please email supporters@swindontownfc.co.uk<a href="https://twitter.com/hashtag/STFC?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">#STFC</a> 🔴⚪️ <a href="https://t.co/JFgLgNm2Lz">pic.twitter.com/JFgLgNm2Lz</a></p>— Swindon Town FC (@Official_STFC) <a href="https://twitter.com/Official_STFC/status/1493630090533613574?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">February 15, 2022</a></blockquote><p>The post has since received thousands of likes and comments in support of Joe and his mother. </p><p>One social media user said, "I can see there are lots of offers here for Joe and his mum to come to a game. So if you manage to find Joe I'd like to pay for a weeks worth of food shopping for them. Please keep us informed."</p><p>A <a href="https://www.justgiving.com/crowdfunding/thisisforjoe" target="_blank" rel="noopener">JustGiving</a> page has been launched by a likeminded football fan to help find Joe and get him to Swindon for a game. </p><p>The page reads, "Swindon Town FC have been contacted by a young boy called Joe who unfortunately doesn't have the privileges of being able to attend football matches!"</p><p>"This is where football comes together. Lets all get together and fund for Joe &amp; his family to attend a game &amp; for Joe to be mascot for the day giving him an experience for life!"</p><p>The page has already raised over $12,000 AUD, with all proceeds going to Joe and his family once they are found. </p><p>As well as the kindness from these football-loving strangers, the Swindon Town FC tweeted a message saying Joe's letter prompted them to join forces with a local food bank to help their community. </p><p><em>Image credits: Twitter @Official_STFC</em></p>

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Neighbours fans launch desperate bid to save the show

<p>Dedicated <em>Neighbours</em> fans have launched a desperate plea to stop the show from facing cancellation. </p><p>Thousands of British viewers of the Aussie soap have signed a petition to "find a way to keep <em>Neighbours</em> on air" after news that UK network Channel 5 was withdrawing its partnership with Australian production company Fremantle Media. </p><p>The cancellation of the broadcast partnership has put the future of the series in jeopardy, with Channel 5 footing the majority of the production bill.</p><p>The <a href="https://www.change.org/p/channel-5-channel-5-don-t-axe-neighbours?recruiter=false&amp;utm_source=share_petition&amp;utm_medium=twitter&amp;utm_campaign=psf_combo_share_message&amp;utm_term=psf_combo_share_initial&amp;recruited_by_id=bf8fa2f0-8739-11ec-968a-f93edd77906a&amp;share_bandit_exp=message-32279051-en-GB" target="_blank" rel="noopener">change.org petition</a> states that <em>Neighbours</em> has “been a staple on UK screens for over 35 years – and has been watched by generations”.</p><p>“<em>Neighbours</em> is more than just a TV show – it is a source of comfort and entertainment for generations of fans who have watched it for decades.”</p><p>The petition, which has racked up more than 16,000 so far, cited the series as “one of the most-loved TV shows in the UK”, adding that “even Adele is a fan”.</p><p><em>Neighbours</em> draws around 1.5 million UK viewers daily, and up to 170,000 metro viewers in Australia.</p><p>Production on the show has been paused for Monday, with <a href="https://tvtonight.com.au/2022/02/neighbours-future-in-limbo-as-uk-confirms-it-will-cease-broadcasting.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener">TV Tonight</a> reporting that the cast and crew will be attending a meeting to discuss the situation and future of the show. </p><p>Network Ten says it stays "committed" to the series and is feeling "hopeful" a deal can be reached, but an email sent from <em>Neighbours</em>' executive producer Jason Herbison to staff on the set, paints a more bleak picture of the future of the show. </p><p>“As you know the future of the show has been uncertain for some time. Our audience remains steady and Channel 10 would love the show to continue if we could find another broadcast partner to replace C5,” Herbison wrote in the email that was published by <a href="https://www.dailytelegraph.com.au" target="_blank" rel="noopener">The Daily Telegraph</a>.</p><p>“These discussions are ongoing however there is no new broadcaster at the moment and production must end, effectively resting the show."</p><p>“We are so proud of the show, you all and everything that you’ve achieved. But for now, this chapter is closing and we want to work together to give <em>Neighbours</em> the amazing send-off it deserves.”</p><p><em>Image credits: Radio Times</em></p>

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“Liars killed her and her baby”: Desperate nurse’s anguished accusation

<p><span>A nurse has shared her own horrific story of losing a 14-year-old patient to coronavirus.</span><br /><br /><span>The US intensive care unit nurse, Jessica, revealed the young teen’s parents were anti-vaxxer.</span><br /><br /><span>Jessica recounted the "helpless" situation to Twitter, saying four patients died of the devastating illness in a single shift.</span><br /><br /><span>"Tonight I helplessly held the hand of and stroked the hair of a beautiful 14-year-old girl as she exited his world," she wrote on Twitter.</span><br /><br /><span>"She was looking forward to starting high school and eventually becoming a veterinarian. It was so senseless!</span></p> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet"> <p dir="ltr">parents had not forbidden us from intubating her. A free vaccination would have prevented it all! This little girl was robbed of her whole life and of fulfilling all of her dreams. She had been with us 9 days and was able to communicate well until taking a turn for the worse</p> — Jessica M. MSN, FNP-C (@Jessicam6946) <a href="https://twitter.com/Jessicam6946/status/1426569588825858051?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">August 14, 2021</a></blockquote> <p><br /><span>Jessica said her parents refused for their daughter to have a tube placed down her throat to assist with her breathing.</span><br /><br /><span>"I truly believe she could have been saved if her parents had not forbidden us from intubating her," Jessica explained.</span><br /><br /><span>"A free vaccination would have prevented it all! This little girl was robbed of her whole life and of fulfilling all of her dreams."</span></p> <p><img style="width: 500px; height: 281.25px;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7819915/hospital.jpg" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/dd37337f6dc8477c8ddcd468397ecb21" /></p> <p><em>Image: Shutterstock</em><br /><br /><span>The teenage patient had been in hospital for nine days, prior to her death.</span><br /><br /><span>Jessica went on to share a number of deaths she believed were preventable had the patient received COVID vaccinations.</span><br /><br /><span>She said medical staff lost a 25-year-old mother who was 15 weeks pregnant, just two hours after the death of the young teen.</span><br /><br /><span>"She had refused the vaccines because of the lies about them causing infertility and harming her baby," Jessica explained.</span><br /><br /><span>The nurse went on to claim that anti-vax rhetoric was what was causing the deaths of otherwise healthy people.</span><br /><br /><span>"Liars killed her, her baby, and robbed a two-year-old little boy of his mommy and sibling. Not to mention robbing a husband of his wife and child."</span><br /><br /><span>The nurse said it was the first time since March that the hospital unit had lost more than three patients in one night.</span><br /><br /><span>A 45-year-old was the oldest to die that evening.</span></p> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet"> <p dir="ltr">mommy and sibling. Not to mention robbing a husband of his wife and child. Those were 2 of 4 deaths we had tonight with the oldest being 45 years old! It was the 1st time since late March we have lost more than 3 covid patients in a single shift. Then we find out this morning</p> — Jessica M. MSN, FNP-C (@Jessicam6946) <a href="https://twitter.com/Jessicam6946/status/1426569591942172673?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">August 14, 2021</a></blockquote> <p><br /><span>The vaccination rate across Australia shows that at least 50.2 per cent of people have had their first dose.</span><br /><br /><span>So far, 28.2 per cent are fully vaccinated.</span><br /><br /><span>Health Minister Greg Hunt has said rising rates reflected the "huge" turnouts for vaccinations.</span><br /><br /><span>"It is being sustained, so over a 10-day period now, we have had more than 2.4 million doses delivered," he said.</span></p>

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Mum's desperate plea after deodorant leaves daughter with brain damage

<p>A Queensland mother has shared a desperate plea for parents to discuss the dangers of solvent abuse with their kids.</p> <p>The emotional appeal comes after Sarah Nevins found her 16-year-old daughter Chloe lying in bushland without a pulse. </p> <p>Chloe has been inhaling toxic fumes from a deodorant aerosol can with her boyfriend on June 1st when she went into cardiac arrest, cutting off the oxygen supply from her brain. </p> <p>The concerned mum told The Courier Mail that her daughter was taken to <span>the Royal Brisbane and Women’s hospital with a hypoxic brain injury, and remains confined to her hospital bed over a month later. </span></p> <p><span>Sarah said, “I had no idea she was chroming, I didn’t even know that people did that.”</span></p> <p><span>Chroming, more commonly known as solvent abuse, is when people try to get high by inhaling chemicals like paint, glue, petrol or other solvents. </span></p> <p><span>Sarah said that paramedics performed CPR on Chloe for almost 30 minutes before she was admitted to the Brisbane hospital. </span></p> <p><span>The mum posted a series of photos and videos of her unconscious child with a tracheostomy tube in her neck fighting for life.</span></p> <p>“It’s upsetting because you’re looking at a wasted life,” she told The Courier Mail.</p> <p>“Her quality of life is going to be severely impacted for the rest of her life.”</p> <p>Sarah is hoping the shocking images of her daughter will prompt parents to <span>their children about the dangers of chroming. </span></p> <p><span>She is also campaigning for manufacturers to remove toxic ingredients from their aerosol products to prevent further issues of solvent abuse. </span></p> <p><em>Image credits: Facebook</em></p>

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“My son hates me”: Mum issues desperate plea

<p>A new mum has hit a roadblock as she claims that her 16-month-old son “hates” her and she has no idea why.</p> <p>The devastated woman took to the Mumsnet forum asking for advice on the situation as she says her son "loves DH (dear husband) more than anything in the world, loves the dogs [and] loves everyone on the planet except for me.</p> <p>"If he's left alone in a room with me then he'll scream. He's done this literally since he was born. If I pick him up, then he'll scream. He won't take food or water or milk from me, ever."</p> <p>She explained the situation is so bad she had to express breastmilk as her son would only allow her husband to feed him. </p> <p>The mum continued saying she doesn’t even had a photo of her and her son together when he’s not crying. </p> <p>"It's not that he's overly attached to DH though, because he's perfectly fine at <a rel="noopener" href="http://www.essentialbaby.com.au/toddler/childcare/my-son-hates-daycare-20130815-2s0bq" target="_blank">nursery </a>or with his grandparents or even complete strangers," she wrote.</p> <p>Continuing the post, the distressed mum listed other examples when her son has rejected her but has been fine "cuddling and playing" with other people.</p> <p>"When he wakes up and starts to cry, if I go in then he'll look at me and pretend to be asleep, so I don't pick him up," she wrote.</p> <p>"Some people have suggested it's because, as the mother, he sees me all day so takes me for granted but that can't be the case.</p> <p>"From mid-March, DH was essentially furloughed so was with DS (dear son) more than I was. Now we're both back at work but I work five days each week and DH works three.</p> <p>"I don't know what to do. I can't take him to the park or shops without DH (or someone else) because he screams the whole time. I've tried changing my perfume and deodorant and things like that, but it makes no difference.</p> <p>"Everyone says he's the happiest little boy in the world and nursery think he's the easiest baby to look after - I'm the only person he hates."</p> <p>Users on the popular forum recommended to a child psychologist, saying they may be able to help.</p> <p>"How distressing for you," one supportive fellow mum wrote. "Have you asked for any professional advice? I imagine a child psychologist would want to observe you interacting to assess the dynamics between you."</p> <p>"Everyone I've spoken to has just dismissed it," the worried mum replied. "They've said it's normal for a child to have a favourite parent."</p> <p>Other users said to make sure she looks after her own mental health, which some suggested could be playing a part in how she's perceiving the situation. </p> <p>"Please don't think it's anything you are doing wrong, you sound like an amazing caring mum," one mum responded, with another adding, "I think you need help, for your mental health and your baby."</p>

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Man sent to prison for defrauding desperate farmers

<p>In the midst of the crippling drought affecting many parts of the nation, scammers have been preying on the vulnerability of who are desperate to feed their livestock.</p> <p>And recently, a man from Parkes was sent to prison for his unscrupulous act of <a href="https://www.sydneycriminallawyers.com.au/criminal/offences/fraud-charges/fraud-s192e/">dishonestly obtaining a financial gain by deception.</a></p> <p><strong>The story so far</strong></p> <p>Stephen John Swindle (his real name) from Parkes had a business masquerading the sale of hay and grain to farmers, but simply did not deliver it after receiving payment.</p> <p>Mr Swindle was imprisoned last week for defrauding New South Wales farmers of more than $80,000 in a scam that lasted more than two years, after being found guilty of 10 counts of <a href="https://www.sydneycriminallawyers.com.au/criminal/legislation/crimes-act/fraud/">fraud under section 192E of the Crimes Act 1900</a>.</p> <p>During Mr Swindle’s sentencing hearing, the presiding magistrate described his actions as reprehensible, in light of the tough drought affecting our farmers, and labelled the defendant as “lying, dishonest and violent”.</p> <p>According to police papers, several vulnerable farmers purchased food for their livestock through Mr Swindle’s business. Some of the orders were partially delivered, while others were not delivered at all.</p> <p>Mr Swindle lied to his customers about the whereabouts of the delivery trucks, and spent his ill-gotten gains on trips to theme parks, accommodation on the NSW South Coast, sports betting, groceries and liquor.</p> <p>Mr Swindle has been sentenced to a total of three years and six months behind bars and will be eligible for parole in November 2020.</p> <p><strong>Not the first case</strong></p> <p>Earlier this year, a Villawood man was also charged 13 fraud charges arising from a social media scam which allegedly advertised feed for livestock, which according to police was never delivered. The man allegedly targeted farmers in the Hunter Valley region, fleecing them to the tune of $40,000.</p> <p>Police say that, unfortunately, fraudulent schemes of this type are on the rise, and everyone needs to be vigilant.</p> <p><strong>The offence of fraud in NSW</strong></p> <p>Fraud is a general term used to describe a dishonest act which deceives another for financial gain, or another’s financial loss.</p> <p>The general offence of fraud carries a maximum penalty of 10 years in prison where the charge comes before the District Court, or two years for each count up to a maximum of five years where the case remains in the Local Court.</p> <p>The severity of the sentence for a person who is found guilty, or pleads guilty, depends on a number of factors, including the value of the funds or property involved, the length of time it was conducted, the sophistication of the enterprise as well as the personal characteristics of the defendant, including whether he or she has previous convictions, whether a guilty plea was entered, whether the money was repaid, whether any underlying issues have been addressed (such as gambling or drug addiction) and any demonstrated remorse.</p> <p>Section 192E of the Crimes Act provides that:</p> <p>(1) A person who, by any deception, dishonestly–</p> <p>(a) obtains property belonging to another, or</p> <p>(b) obtains any financial advantage or causes any financial disadvantage,</p> <p>is guilty of the offence of fraud.</p> <p>Maximum penalty–Imprisonment for 10 years.</p> <p>(2) A person’s obtaining of property belonging to another may be dishonest even if the person is willing to pay for the property.</p> <p>(3) A person may be convicted of the offence of fraud involving all or any part of a general deficiency in money or other property even though the deficiency is made up of any number of particular sums of money or items of other property that were obtained over a period of time.</p> <p>(4) A conviction for the offence of fraud is an alternative verdict to a charge for the offence of <a href="https://www.sydneycriminallawyers.com.au/criminal/offences/larceny-stealing-theft/">larceny</a>, or any offence that includes larceny, and a conviction for the offence of larceny, or any offence that includes larceny, is an alternative verdict to a charge for the offence of fraud.</p> <p><em>Written by Sonia Hickey and Ugur Nedim. Republished with permission of <a href="https://www.sydneycriminallawyers.com.au/blog/man-sent-to-prison-for-defrauding-desperate-farmers/">Sydney Criminal Lawyers.</a></em></p>

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Desperate request from White Island volcano victim’s brother denied by NZ PM

<p>The heartbroken brother of the White Island volcano eruption victim has written to New Zealand Prime Minister Jacinda Ardern asking if he could stage his own recovery operation of his sibling’s body.</p> <p>Mark Inman’s brother Hayden Marshall-Inman was the first victim named from the horrific eruption that has also killed seven other Australians with ten others missing or feared dead.</p> <p>Hayden worked as a tour guide on the island and was described as an “energetic young man” who would regularly leave $5 at the local shop for those who needed it for groceries.</p> <p>Mark met the New Zealand Prime Minister after the disaster and sent her an email inquiring about staging his own recovery of his brother’s body.</p> <p>New Zealand police currently say that conditions are too dangerous for emergency services to access the island at present.</p> <p>The email that Mark sent to Ardern reads:</p> <p>"We met yesterday concerning my brother Hayden who is still on White Island 44 hours after the explosions," he wrote, in an email shared with New Zealand's version of<span> </span><em>The Project</em>.</p> <p>"With the current conditions of sunshine baking and decomposing his body, he's going from a situation where we could have an open casket to now more likely not having a body at all – due to your government's red tape and slow decision making."</p> <p>"I am writing to ask for a pardon for my actions of a personal recovery."</p> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet" data-conversation="none" data-lang="en"> <p dir="ltr">Here is Mark Inman's letter to <a href="https://twitter.com/jacindaardern?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">@jacindaardern</a>, requesting a pardon should he attempt a personal recovery of his brother's body <a href="https://twitter.com/hashtag/TheProjectNZ?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">#TheProjectNZ</a> <a href="https://t.co/jLejGDL2W8">pic.twitter.com/jLejGDL2W8</a></p> — The Project NZ (@TheProject_NZ) <a href="https://twitter.com/TheProject_NZ/status/1204648066747224064?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">December 11, 2019</a></blockquote> <p>Staff from Ardern’s office said the message was passed onto police minister Stuart Nash and acknowledging that this must be an “incredibly tough time for you”.</p> <p>"It must be an incredibly tough time for you and your whanau (family). We have passed your email to the Minister of Police's office who will be in touch with you about the situation very soon,” the email said.</p> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet" data-conversation="none" data-lang="en"> <p dir="ltr">And the response: <a href="https://t.co/8UZ5NGslw8">pic.twitter.com/8UZ5NGslw8</a></p> — The Project NZ (@TheProject_NZ) <a href="https://twitter.com/TheProject_NZ/status/1204648083415433217?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">December 11, 2019</a></blockquote> <p>Police minister Nash then confirmed that Mark’s request to go to the volcano had been denied.</p> <p>"The last thing we want to do is to have further casualties in what is already a significant tragedy," Nash said without mentioning Mr Inman by name.</p> <p>"We won't give anyone permission to go to the island, we need to understand the risk then we can work to mitigate the chances of anyone else being injured in this.</p> <p>"The last thing we want to do is for people to risk their lives to go out to the island."</p> <p>He also said the request was "foolhardy, but I understand, out of frustration when in fact all they will be doing is putting themselves in greater harm."</p> <p>Mark told the New Zealand version of<span> </span><em>The Project<span> </span></em>that a pilot had seen his brother’s body and moved it onto a rise on the island.</p> <p>"We all know health and safety is important, but when health and safety starts to become a barrier to retrieval, that's when you get frustrated," Mr Inman said.</p>

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