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"Stone the crows": Who made Ray "Alf" Meagher cry

<p><em>Home and Away</em> legend Ray Meagher has broken down on Channel Seven's <em>This Is Your Life</em> after a series of emotional tributes. </p> <p>The 78-year-old actor was discussing his life and career at Summer Bay when his past co-stars surprised him with endless praise for his role as Alf. </p> <p>The first tribute came from Chris Hemsworth, who thanked Ray in a pre-recorded message for his kindness and support during Chris's time on <em>Home and Away</em>. </p> <p>“Ray Meagher, godfather of Australian television, Australian icon, a flaming legend, my hero. Mate, what can I say?” he began.</p> <p>“I remember very vividly the first time I walked onto a <em>Home and Away</em> set, the first time I met you. I was teaming with excitement and nerves — mostly about meeting you, the man, the myth, the legend."</p> <p>“The moment arrived. I remember the doors busting open, and there you were down the end of the hallway, silhouetted by the sun, bathed in glorious light.</p> <p>“We locked eyes, we got closer. I took a big deep breath and I thought, ‘He’s probably not a hugger’. I lifted my hand…and dived off into the costume department because I had lost my nerve.”</p> <p>The audience chuckled at the <em>Thor</em> star’s hilarious recollection, but his next admission left Ray fighting back tears.</p> <p>“Sure enough, you came up to me and you said, ‘Chris, wonderful to meet you. You’re gonna do great here’. You were kind, genuine and supportive, and you’ve remained that through my entire career. Thank you so much buddy, I love you. You’re a dear friend.”</p> <p>Already overcome with emotion, Ray was presented with another surprise. </p> <p>Kate Ritchie, who played the role of Sally Fletcher on <em>Home and Away</em> for 20 years alongside Ray, walked onto the set and embraced her co-star. </p> <p>The pair watched a set of <em>Home and Away</em> scenes from 1990-2008, finishing with their on-screen goodbye at Palm Beach.</p> <p>“Ray is really so much of what I learned as a person, but also as a performer,” she began, before grabbing Ray’s hand.</p> <p>“And for both of us, we’ve played those characters for such a long time, that it is inevitable there is so much of us within them."</p> <p>“When I watch that footage…I actually see two friends. He’s watched me grow from a girl into a woman, and he’s really proud of me. So I’m glad I’ve made you proud, thank you."</p> <p>The Aussie icon told his former co-star that he’s still proud of her to this day, and his words "still stand".</p> <p>“You mean a lot to me Ray, you know that,” Kate added, causing Ray to wipe his tears away with a tissue.</p> <p>Ray has played Alf Stewart since 1988 and currently holds the Guinness World Record for the longest-serving actor in an Australian series.</p> <p>His appearance on This Is Your Life moved many Home and Away fans online, with floods of people sharing their gratitude for the veteran actor. </p> <p>"So emotional, tears are flowing. Congratulations Ray!! What a fantastic life!! You’re a wonderful man and a great actor,” one wrote on social media.</p> <p>“Crying happy tears. It was so lovely to see Ray (Alf) get recognised like this. ‘Stone the crow’ as he would say. I hope he keeps going on the show,” a second added.</p> <p><em>Image credits: Seven </em></p>

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Inside the world’s first midlife wisdom school

<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">When retirement age hits, a whole new set of challenges are presented. </span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">From health insurance, funeral plans, superannuation and everything in between, the transition into retirement can be trickier than originally thought.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">In order to help with this uncertain time, the world’s first </span><span style="font-weight: 400;">midlife wisdom school, known as <a rel="noopener" href="https://www.modernelderacademy.com" target="_blank">Modern Elder Academy</a> (MEA) has been founded by CEO Chip Conley.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">MEA offers courses, both on-line and in person that help people to navigate midlife transitions, find purpose and reframe their mindset on ageing.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">MEA attracts people of all ages and stages, from midlife and beyond to help and reframe how individuals think about retirement. </span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Writer Ang Galloway, who is part of the MEA team, said the program helped them restructure their thinking. </span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“I want more from the second half of life than the societal script I inherited. I knew I wasn’t in the market for sensible, beige or elasticised anything and yet the image of ageing that society reflected back at me was at total odds with how I felt. </span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“MEA helped me to reframe midlife from a crisis to a calling.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Founder Chip Conley said he was inspired to create MEA after writing his book titled </span><em><span style="font-weight: 400;">Wisdom@Work: The Making of Modern Elder. </span></em></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“There’s a whole culture out there telling us that getting older means becoming less relevant. But MEA deems that wisdom and experience have never been more important in the workplace…or in the world.” </span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">He said, “At MEA we believe in making ageing aspirational. It’s about creating a life that is as deep and meaningful as it is long.”</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">MEA runs a series of online courses, including “Navigating Midlife Transitions”, “The Big Reset” and “Flourish in Midlife and Beyond”.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The courses have been a huge success online, with people from all over the globe saying how MEA’s message helped them redefine what retirement means for them.</span></p> <p><em><span style="font-weight: 400;">Image credit: Shutterstock</span></em></p>

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“I miss her”: Joe Biden reveals effect of presidency on marriage

<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">In a new joint interview, Joe and Jill Biden share just how their 44-year marriage has changed since Joe entered the White House for the second time.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">In a cover story for </span><a rel="noopener" href="https://www.vogue.com/article/first-lady-dr-jill-biden-profile" target="_blank"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Vogue</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> profiling the first lady, the US president admits the couple have spent more time apart since his presidency began.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“I miss her,” Joe said of his wife.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“I’m really proud of her. But it’s not like we can just go off like we used to.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“When we were living in Delaware and married, once a month we’d just go up to a local bed-and-breakfast by ourselves, to make sure we had a romantic time to just get away and hang out with each other.”</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">After spending eight years as Vice-President under the Obama administration, Joe said the couple had to adapt now that he’s president, with political duties often taking priority.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“I’ll find that I’m working on a hell of an important speech and I’m distracted, and then I may not be working on one and I want to go and hang out with her, and she’s working on an important speech!” he told </span><span style="font-weight: 400;">Vogue</span><span style="font-weight: 400;">.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“We have to figure out a way - and I mean this sincerely - to be able to steal time for one another. I think that’s the deal.”</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Jill confirmed that the couple’s busy schedules has proved to be a challenge, revealing they’re “both so busy” and have to “try a little harder to make time for one another”.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“Even the thing about having dinner together: Sometimes we eat on the balcony; last night we ate in the yellow Oval, upstairs,” she said.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“It’s just part of the day that we set apart, and we still light candles, still have conversations, still put the phones away.”</span></p> <blockquote style="background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);" class="instagram-media" data-instgrm-captioned="" data-instgrm-permalink="https://www.instagram.com/p/CQtCZKBg65g/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" data-instgrm-version="13"> <div style="padding: 16px;"> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 40px; margin-right: 14px; width: 40px;"></div> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 100px;"></div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 60px;"></div> </div> </div> <div style="padding: 19% 0;"></div> <div style="display: block; height: 50px; margin: 0 auto 12px; width: 50px;"></div> <div style="padding-top: 8px;"> <div style="color: #3897f0; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 550; line-height: 18px;">View this post on Instagram</div> </div> <p style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;"><a style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none;" rel="noopener" href="https://www.instagram.com/p/CQtCZKBg65g/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" target="_blank">A post shared by Vogue (@voguemagazine)</a></p> </div> </blockquote> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Jill has previously revealed how the couple has committed to dining together during her first solo interview as first lady on </span><span style="font-weight: 400;">The Kelly Clarkson Show</span><span style="font-weight: 400;">.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">She told Clarkson about how she tries to keep regular “Sunday night dinners” in their schedules, despite being “a little busy lately”.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“But the kids look forward to [Sunday dinners] and I think traditions really ground kids,” Jill added.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">In the couple’s latest interview with the famed fashion magazine, Jill also opened up about her work as a teacher.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“When I became second lady - and there was so much I wanted to do - I always said, ‘I will never waste this platform’,” she said.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Jill continues to teach English at Northern Virginia Community College, where she said her students refer to her as “Dr. B”.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">With an even bigger platform now as first lady, Jill said she has no intention of giving up teaching.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“There’s so much to do. There is… so. Much. To. Do.”</span></p> <p><em><span style="font-weight: 400;">Image: Vogue Magazine / Instagram</span></em></p>

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Ray Meagher reveals why he never had kids

<p>For 30 years while starring as Alf Stewart on <em>Home and Away</em>, Ray Meagher has played a father, stepfather and foster father on the popular show.</p> <p>Now in a new interview, the Aussie actor has revealed why he never had children of his own.</p> <p>Speaking to <a href="https://www.dailytelegraph.com.au/entertainment/sydney-confidential/ray-meagher-why-i-never-had-kids/news-story/74b4a0974fbeb721751694cc59ed91e6?utm_source=Daily%20Telegraph&amp;utm_medium=email&amp;utm_campaign=editorial" target="_blank"><strong><em><span style="text-decoration: underline;">The Daily Telegraph</span></em></strong></a>, Ray Meagher said: “When I was younger as a freelance actor, I wondered whether I’d be able to feed myself let alone anybody else.”</p> <p>“It's a funny old profession, it’s very precarious, it's a pretty dodgy old profession employment-wise.</p> <p>“I have a stepdaughter Rebecca (the daughter of his wife Gilly) who is in her early 40s and I talk to her at least once a week and see her for brekkie or brunch whenever the H<em>ome and Away </em>schedule permits, which is maybe once a fortnight, and I love that.”</p> <p>Meagher no longer has to worry about the uncertainty of his acting career, with his role on<em> Home and Away</em> spanning three decades –  earning himself the title of the longest serving soap actor in Australian history.</p> <p>Last night at the Logies, Meagher took home the award for Most Popular Actor. </p> <p>During his acceptance speech, Meagher thanked his former co-star Cornelia Frances, who passed away in May this year.</p> <p>"A lot of the young people go off to Hollywood to audition for bigger and better things. This lady decided to try to get into that studio in the sky,” he said.</p> <p>“When she got up to the pearly gates, I hope St Peter didn't have the temerity to say, 'You can't come here'. </p> <p>"I think she would have looked over the top of those horn-rimmed glasses and said, 'Peter, you are the weakest link. Goodbye'.</p> <p>"Cornie, we know you are up there looking down with the champagne. We are not going to mourn your passing anymore. We are going to celebrate your life."</p> <p>In the interview, the actor explained his wife's absence at the significant event. </p> <p>“Gilly would rather swallow a tonne of bricks than go to the Logies­,” Meagher said. </p> <p>“She says ‘That’s your work, you go and you don’t have to worry about me … not knowing a whole heap of people’ so she’s very comfortable with that.”</p> <p>In an interview with the <em>Daily Mail</em> in May, Meagher revealed that he was reluctant to leave Summer Bay as he wasn’t sure how he would cope in retirement.</p> <p>“I've never really thought about it [retirement],” he said.</p> <p>He added: “You know, I'm not sure what I'd do if I retire - I'm not into gardening. I hope it's a long way off. The main thing at this age is to try and stay fit and healthy and well and, so far, touch something, that's working, at least.”</p>

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Home and Away’s Ray Meagher shares update on Johnny Ruffo’s cancer battle

<p><em>Home and Away</em> actor Ray Meagher has provided an update on former co-star Johnny Ruffo’s cancer battle after his shock diagnosis six months ago.</p> <p>In an interview with <a href="http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-5405759/Ray-Meagher-gives-update-Johnny-Ruffos-cancer-battle.html" target="_blank"><em><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Daily Mail Australia</span></strong></em></a>, Meagher explained that Ruffo is doing well despite the situation he is in.</p> <p>“I had coffee with Ruffo the other day. You probably know that he's having a problem with brain cancer at the moment,” Meagher, who plays Alf on<em> Home and Away</em>, said.</p> <p>“But he's still as sharp as a tack. We had a coffee and a good yarn.” Meagher revealed that it was nice to connect with his former co-star and hoped Johnny would recover quickly.</p> <p>“He's a good boy Johnny and it was nice to see him, and he was in really good spirits and we wish him a speedy recovery.”</p> <p>Reminiscing on their memories together on the Aussie soap show, Meagher recalled one scene where their characters encountered a near-death experience.</p> <p>While on a row boat together, Ruffo’s character Chris accidentally added death cap mushrooms to a batch of risotto, causing Alf to slip into unconsciousness.</p> <p>Laughing while thinking back on the memories Meagher said, “He had to row the boat and his rowing skills are as about as good as mine, it's a wonder we both didn't drown."</p> <p>Last week, Ruffo appeared on <em>The Morning Show</em> and gave a positive update on his health.</p> <blockquote style="background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 658px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);" class="instagram-media"> <div style="padding: 8px;"> <div style="background: #F8F8F8; line-height: 0; margin-top: 40px; padding: 50.0% 0; text-align: center; width: 100%;"> <div style="background: url(data:image/png; base64,ivborw0kggoaaaansuheugaaacwaaaascamaaaapwqozaaaabgdbtueaalgpc/xhbqaaaafzukdcak7ohokaaaamuexurczmzpf399fx1+bm5mzy9amaaadisurbvdjlvzxbesmgces5/p8/t9furvcrmu73jwlzosgsiizurcjo/ad+eqjjb4hv8bft+idpqocx1wjosbfhh2xssxeiyn3uli/6mnree07uiwjev8ueowds88ly97kqytlijkktuybbruayvh5wohixmpi5we58ek028czwyuqdlkpg1bkb4nnm+veanfhqn1k4+gpt6ugqcvu2h2ovuif/gwufyy8owepdyzsa3avcqpvovvzzz2vtnn2wu8qzvjddeto90gsy9mvlqtgysy231mxry6i2ggqjrty0l8fxcxfcbbhwrsyyaaaaaelftksuqmcc); display: block; height: 44px; margin: 0 auto -44px; position: relative; top: -22px; width: 44px;"></div> </div> <p style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;"><a style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none;" href="https://www.instagram.com/p/BfMaI_ZhLqJ/" target="_blank">A post shared by Johnny Ruffo (@johnny_ruffo)</a> on Feb 14, 2018 at 2:28pm PST</p> </div> </blockquote> <p>“I've got a little way to go now but everything's looking good and is on the mend,” he said.</p> <p>Meanwhile, Meagher has announced he is launching a new condiment called Ray’s Flamin’ Hot Sauce.</p> <p>“It's something that's been bubbling away in the background for a long long time and it sort of started when I was a kid in the bush,” he said.</p> <p>When the actor was a child, he would add Worcestershire sauce to his bread with his brothers.</p> <p>“Then of course I graduated to all sorts of hot sauces and chilli sauces as I got older and I love spicy foods now,” he said.</p>

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The one reason why Ray Meagher has stayed on Home and Away for 30 years

<p>He’s been a constant presence on our television screens for over 30 years, but <em>Home and Away’s</em> Ray Meagher – or Alf Stewart, as he will always be known to many – still is startled by his fame.</p> <p>"I feel [fame] is the domain of the more attractive, younger people that people are interested in looking at and reading about," the 73-year-old told TV Week in an exclusive interview.</p> <p>Like the character he’s played for three decades, Ray is friendly, down-to-earth and talkative. But there's one crucial difference. </p> <p>"I don't think you've heard me say 'flamin'' or 'galah' once – or any of the character expressions," he says. "There is a difference there.</p> <p>"I hope I don't do my block quite as quickly as Alf does. He usually apologises, but if you get up to make a cup of tea, you might miss it."</p> <p>With a successful TV and film career before he moved to Summer Bay, a question that dogs the veteran <em>Home and Away</em> actor is why has stayed on the show for so long.</p> <p>"There have been a couple of times along the way where I've thought, 'Maybe I should go and do that,'" he says, admitting he often asks himself the question. "Realistically, I don't need more than five fingers to name the jobs that were firm offers that I would have done other than this.</p> <p>"So, this job has stopped me doing those five jobs. But then you look at the opportunities it has created."</p> <p>But it should come as no surprise the key reason why Ray has stayed year after year - it's the people.</p> <p>"It's what makes up the show – it's the people," he says. "It's the people who have made it such a wonderful place to go to work for so long."</p> <p>But with 30 years of ups and down on the show – with his character having faced every scenario imaginable, the latest of which he finds himself fighting for his life – how much longer does he see himself going? Will he be retiring anytime soon?</p> <p>"I'm sure there is," he says. "Exactly when that is, I have to talk to Julie McGauran [Channel Seven's head of drama] in the next few months. That will give a clearer indication as to when that might be. I've had an incredible run."</p>

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