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We know parents shape their children’s reading – but so can aunts, uncles and grandparents, by sharing beloved books

<p><em><a href="https://theconversation.com/profiles/emily-grace-baulch-1399683">Emily Grace Baulch</a>, <a href="https://theconversation.com/institutions/the-university-of-queensland-805">The University of Queensland</a></em></p> <p><a href="https://creative.gov.au/news/media-releases/revealing-reading-a-survey-of-australian-reading-habits/">Over 80%</a> of Australians with children encourage them to read. Children whose parents enjoy reading are <a href="https://www.booktrust.org.uk/news-and-features/news/news-2023/new-research-from-booktrust-reveals-the-impact-of-parental-reading-enjoyment-on-childrens-reading-habits/">20% more likely</a> to enjoy it too.</p> <p>My research has found parents aren’t the only family members who play an important role in developing a passion for reading – extended family, from grandparents to siblings, uncles and great-aunts, also influence readers’ connections to books.</p> <p>I surveyed 160 Australian readers about their home bookshelves and reading habits. More than 80% of them acknowledged the significant influence of family in what and how they read. Reading to children is often <a href="https://www.booktrust.org.uk/globalassets/resources/research/booktrust-family-survey-research-briefing-2-reading-influencers.pdf">the invisible workload of mothers</a>: 95% of mothers read to children, compared to 67% of fathers.</p> <p>Yet intriguingly, those I surveyed – whose ages ranged from their early 20s to their 70s – collectively talked about books being passed down across eight generations.</p> <p>Family members were associated with their most valued books – and their identities as readers.</p> <h2>Treasured possessions</h2> <p>Books passed down through generations often become treasured possessions, embodying a shared family history. One person discussed an old hardcover copy of <a href="https://www.harpercollins.com.au/9780732284350/blinky-bill/">Blinky Bill</a> by Dorothy Wall. Originally given to her father and his siblings by their great-aunt in 1961, the book’s pages are now discoloured and falling out.</p> <p>“Although I always think of my mother as having been my reading role model,” she wrote, “actually my father had an equally big impact, just in another way.” Her father is a central organising figure on her home bookshelf: she has dedicated a whole shelf to the books he liked.</p> <p>The story she tells about his old copy of Blinky Bill, however, crosses generations. The book’s battered state is a testament to its longevity and well-loved status. Its inscription to her family members makes the copy unique and irreplaceable.</p> <p>Another person remembered a set of Dickens’ novels, complete with margin notes and century-old newspaper clippings, carefully stored with her most special books. These volumes, initially owned by her great-great-grandmother and later gifted by her great-aunt, represent a reading bond passed down through generations.</p> <p>Such books can never be replaced, no matter how many copies might be in circulation. These books are closely associated with memories and experiences – they are invaluable for who they represent.</p> <p>A third person has her father’s “old” Anne McCaffrey’s <a href="https://www.goodreads.com/series/40323-dragonriders-of-pern">Dragonriders of Pern</a> series: he read it to her as a teenager, then passed it down. The book “sparked” her interest in science-fiction, and she now intends to pass it on to her own teenager. Her book, too, is “battered”, with “chunks falling out when you read it”. The cover is falling off.</p> <p>The deteriorating state of a book is part of the book’s legacy. It shows how loved it has been. Reading passions can be deliberately cultivated through family, but their value is less connected to reading comprehension or literacy than a sense of connection through sharing.</p> <p>Inherited, much-loved books bind families together. They can anchor absent family members to the present. These books can come to symbolise love, connection and loss.</p> <p>The family members who’ve passed down their books might not be physically present in children’s lives – they may not be reading aloud to them at bedtime – but through their books, they can have a strong presence in their loved ones’ memories. That indelible trace can be sustained into adulthood.</p> <h2>Buying books for the next generation</h2> <p>Another way relatives contribute to a family reading legacy is by buying new copies of much-loved books for the next generation. Theresa Sheen, from The Quick Brown Fox, a specialist children’s bookstore in Brisbane, notes that customers often ask for copies of books they had when they were younger.</p> <p>They may have read them to their children and now want them for their grandchildren. For example, <a href="https://www.goodreads.com/series/40767-the-baby-sitters-club">The Babysitters Club series</a> by Ann M. Martin was mentioned multiple times as a nostalgic favourite, now being sought after by grandparents.</p> <p>Readers’ habits of re-buying favourite books can affect the publishing industry. With older children’s classics still selling, publishers seek to update the text to reflect contemporary cultural mores. Enid Blyton is one author who endures through intergenerational love and nostalgia. However, her work is regularly <a href="https://www.news.com.au/entertainment/books-magazines/books/enid-blytons-famous-five-books-edited-to-remove-offensive-words/news-story/47a63bb79a5d870f19aed58b19469bb5">edited and bowdlerised</a> to update it.</p> <p>Books can be imbued with the voices and emotions of others. They are more than just physical objects – they are vessels of shared experiences that can be passed down, up and across generations. This enduring bond between family members does more than preserve individual stories. It actively shapes and sustains a vibrant reading culture.<img style="border: none !important; box-shadow: none !important; margin: 0 !important; max-height: 1px !important; max-width: 1px !important; min-height: 1px !important; min-width: 1px !important; opacity: 0 !important; outline: none !important; padding: 0 !important;" src="https://counter.theconversation.com/content/232372/count.gif?distributor=republish-lightbox-basic" alt="The Conversation" width="1" height="1" /></p> <p><a href="https://theconversation.com/profiles/emily-grace-baulch-1399683"><em>Emily Grace Baulch</em></a><em>, Producer at Ludo Studio &amp; Freelance Editor, <a href="https://theconversation.com/institutions/the-university-of-queensland-805">The University of Queensland</a></em></p> <p><em>Image credits: Shutterstock </em></p> <p><em>This article is republished from <a href="https://theconversation.com">The Conversation</a> under a Creative Commons license. Read the <a href="https://theconversation.com/we-know-parents-shape-their-childrens-reading-but-so-can-aunts-uncles-and-grandparents-by-sharing-beloved-books-232372">original article</a>.</em></p>

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Heartache for Harry and William after the death of their uncle

<p>Prince William and Prince Harry have been rocked by a devastating loss as their uncle has died. </p> <p>Lord Robert Fellowes, the husband of William and Harry’s aunt Jane, passed away at the age of 82 from undisclosed causes.</p> <p>Jane, an elder sister of the late Princess Diana, had been married to Robert for more than 40 years.</p> <p>Prince William had an especially close relationship with Fellowes, as Lord Robert and Jane’s eldest daughter, Laura, is godmother to Princess Charlotte.</p> <p>Lord Fellowes worked as private secretary to the late Queen Elizabeth during some of the most dramatic times during the 1990s, including when his sister-in-law Diana died in 1997 at the age of 36.</p> <p>It has previously been reported that throughout Lord Robert's time as a palace courtier, he sometimes had a strained relationship with his sister-in-law.</p> <p>However, when Diana died, he explained, “I was deeply fond of her. She was a very good person. She found it difficult in life to find happiness, and I’m sad for people who have that situation.”</p> <p>Lord Fellowes was long a trusted member of a small group of advisors who guided the royal family during difficult times. </p> <p>According to The New York Times, he helped to write the speech Elizabeth II gave to the nation from Buckingham Palace on the eve of Diana’s funeral.</p> <p>Lord Robert Fellowes is survived by his wife Jane and their three children Laura, Alexander and Eleanor. </p> <p><em>Image credits: SplashNews.com/Shutterstock Editorial </em></p>

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Kate Middleton's uncle slams Harry and Meghan

<p>Kate Middleton's uncle, businessman Gary Goldsmith, gave an exclusive interview with Australian TV show<span> </span><em>60 Minutes<span> </span></em>about his niece's family.</p> <p>Goldsmith said that a "whole nation" is "massively disappointed" with Prince Harry and Meghan's decision to air their dirty laundry on television.</p> <p>"You just don't do what they did and then go on Oprah and talk like that," he said.</p> <p>"I'm just very disappointed with them, it's just not the way the world works."</p> <blockquote style="background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);" class="instagram-media" data-instgrm-captioned="" data-instgrm-permalink="https://www.instagram.com/p/CPI1GElgtms/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" data-instgrm-version="13"> <div style="padding: 16px;"> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 40px; margin-right: 14px; width: 40px;"></div> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 100px;"></div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 60px;"></div> </div> </div> <div style="padding: 19% 0;"></div> <div style="display: block; height: 50px; margin: 0 auto 12px; width: 50px;"></div> <div style="padding-top: 8px;"> <div style="color: #3897f0; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 550; line-height: 18px;">View this post on Instagram</div> </div> <p style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;"><a style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none;" rel="noopener" href="https://www.instagram.com/p/CPI1GElgtms/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" target="_blank">A post shared by Oprah Daily (@oprahdaily)</a></p> </div> </blockquote> <p>Goldsmith had nothing but praise though for his favourite niece.</p> <p>"Her laughter fills every room that she's in," he told Steinfort.</p> <p>"She's almost like the girl-next-door with a wicked sense of humour."</p> <p>Royal commentator Kate Nicholls also appeared in the interview, saying that the COVID-19 lockdown made the couple more "real and relatable".</p> <p>"The public got to see more of the true Duchess than they'd ever been able to see before," Nicholls said.</p> <p>"We got access to them in a way that we absolutely haven't before, and I think a lot of that was down to William and Kate recognising that they couldn't be seen to be in their ivory tower, they needed to be accessible."</p>

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Newly found letters spark search for mystery uncle

<div class="post_body_wrapper"> <div class="post_body"> <div class="body_text "> <p>Rachel Powers, mum-of-five, decided to take the time to sort through old files during lockdown when she came across a collection of letters that had been locked away for decades.</p> <p>After reading them, she discovered that they were written for her grandmother and realised she had a long-lost relative.</p> <p>Powers learnt that her grandmother had a former lover named John, who had fathered a child with her before leaving the military service.</p> <p>The letters have been written through the late 1950s and Powers discovered that the baby had been put up for adoption before her grandmother married her grandfather.</p> <p>She posted to a Facebook group asking for help to find her long-lost uncle and described the romance between her grandmother and John.</p> <p>"Somehow John found out about the baby and wrote her letter after letter to beg for her forgiveness to ask how to help, how had he known things would be different and what he could do," Ms Powers wrote.</p> <p>Her grandmother had looked for John in 2000, writing messages to "Johns all over the country", but her search was in vain.</p> <p>She was unable to find him before she passed away in 2006.</p> <p>Powers is now determined to track down her uncle and has begged the two-million strong Facebook group to help her with her search.</p> <p>"I want to see what happens," one Facebook user said.</p> <p>"Folks unselfishly coming together to make a perfect stranger happy," commented another.</p> <p>People suggested that Powers takes a DNA test to see if she could track down John that way, whereas others said she should post in the Facebook group 'Search Squad' that is assisted to a not-for-profit that specialises in helping people track down lost relatives.</p> <p>Powers is yet to track down her lost uncle.</p> </div> </div> </div>

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Duchess Kate's uncle arrested for assault

<p>The <a href="http://www.oversixty.com.au/lifestyle/beauty-style/2017/08/prince-william-and-kate-join-the-royal-family-on-holidays-in-balmoral/" target="_blank"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>British Royal Family</strong></span></a> is in damage control with reports confirming Duchess Kate’s uncle Gary Goldsmith has been arrested and charged with assault.</p> <p>Police reportedly arrested Goldsmith following a suspected domestic dispute with his wife Julie-Anne Brown, at around 1:30am in the morning, UK time.</p> <p>Goldsmith tweeted the photo of the couple at a charity auction and seemingly in good spirits hours before the incident, but things would quickly turn sour.</p> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet"> <p dir="ltr">Kate Middleton’s uncle Gary Goldsmith arrested on suspicion of ‘thumping wife in the… <a href="https://t.co/rkx9QpYUnT">https://t.co/rkx9QpYUnT</a> <a href="https://t.co/LSr0EtPYZ1">pic.twitter.com/LSr0EtPYZ1</a></p> — viralgaf (@viralgaf) <a href="https://twitter.com/viralgaf/status/918959999451140096?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">October 13, 2017</a></blockquote> <p>A taxi driver told local media that things were starting to get heated between the two as he was driving them back to their place from the event.</p> <p>“They wanted to go to their house. They were arguing, saying quite rude stuff. We got to the house, he paid the fare. She was trying to open the door [of the house] so he went over," Daniel Shepherd told The Times.</p> <p>“She started crying and said, ‘Call the police, call the police.’ I did. The police came. He got arrested. They wanted lots of details. I had to give reports."</p> <p>This wouldn’t be the first time Goldsmith has found himself on the wrong side of the law, with stories from 2009 linking him to drug use in Ibiza, Spain.</p> <p>Kensington Palace has not yet issued a statement.</p> <p>What are your thoughts?</p>

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Bride asks 92-year-old uncle to be her “something blue”

<p>A US bride has given a whole new meaning to the wedding tradition of having “something blue”.</p> <p>When Alison Ferrel married her husband, Matthew, on May 13, 2017 she knew she wanted to include her 92-year-old uncle, Bill Lee Eblen, in the wedding ceremony.</p> <p>Bill, a former sergeant in the United States Marine Corps during World War II, was escorted down the aisle in his Dress Blues – and we must say, he nearly stole the show from the bride.</p> <p><img width="500" height="750" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/37209/1_500x750.jpg" alt="1 (182)"/></p> <p>"Once I got engaged, I knew I wanted to include my Uncle Bill, or as social media now calls him, 'Uncle Blue,' in a special way," Alison told Babble. "Coming from a close-knit family where I was taught to have respect and admiration for those in the armed services, this felt like a natural choice, to have Uncle Bill there in his dress blues."</p> <p>Uncle Bill fought through a severe bout of pneumonia to attend the wedding. In fact, it was Alison’s request for him to be her "something blue" that made him pull through his illness.</p> <p><img width="500" height="750" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/37210/3_500x750.jpg" alt="3 (152)"/></p> <p>"What's your goal?" a nurse asked him in his hospital bed. "To be her 'something blue' on her wedding day," he would answer.</p> <p>Photos of the bride and Uncle Bill were shared on the Facebook page Love What Matters.</p> <p>"It was such an honour to have him serve as my 'something blue' on my wedding day [for] a memory that will last a lifetime," Alison wrote.</p> <p><em>Image credits: <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><a href="https://www.facebook.com/lovewhatreallymatters/photos/pcb.1528964690459257/1528964013792658/?type=3">Love What Matters Facebook</a></span></em></p>

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