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Abducted boy found after 73 years

<p>In a remarkable and heartwarming conclusion to a decades-long mystery, Luis Armando Albino, who was abducted 73 years ago, has been found alive and well, bringing joy and closure to a family that never gave up hope.</p> <p>Albino, who was born in Puerto Rico, was just six years old when he was abducted from Jefferson Square Park in West Oakland, California, in February 1951. On that fateful day, he had been playing with his brother Roger when he was lured away. His disappearance left his family devastated, and the case went cold for decades. His mother, who passed away in 2005, carried a newspaper clipping about her son’s kidnapping in her wallet until her death, refusing to give up on her belief that he was alive.</p> <p>This long-lost boy, now 79, was found after his niece, Alida Alequin, 63, took a DNA test in 2020. The results matched her with a man who turned out to be Albino, now living on the east coast of the US.</p> <p>Alequin, determined to find her uncle, sought the help of the FBI and the Department of Justice to track him down. A DNA sample confirmed his identity, finally solving the mystery that had haunted their family for over seven decades.</p> <p>Albino, a retired firefighter and Marine Corps veteran, had been raised by a couple who took him in as their son after his abduction. His niece said he had faint memories of being taken but had never been able to piece together the truth. Despite the astonishing discovery, Albino has chosen to keep a low profile and has declined to speak with the media.</p> <p>When Alequin shared the news of the discovery, the emotion was palpable. "She always had hope that he would come home," Alequin said of her grandmother. “She always felt he was alive. She took that with her to her grave.” The family had never stopped thinking about him. Pictures of Luis Armando hung in their home, and stories of his disappearance were passed down through the years, keeping his memory alive.</p> <p>Albino's reunion with his family was bittersweet. He reconnected with his brother Roger, but sadly, Roger passed away shortly afterward. Despite this, the family remains overjoyed to have found their beloved Luis after so many years of uncertainty. The missing persons report on Albino has since been removed from the California Department of Justice website, a poignant symbol of the long-awaited resolution to this case.</p> <p>For Alequin and the rest of the family, finding their lost relative after 73 years was nothing short of miraculous. "The outcome of this story is what we strive for," a police spokesperson said of the rare but incredible closure that comes from never giving up on hope.</p> <p><em>Images: <span style="font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Segoe UI', Roboto, Oxygen, Ubuntu, Cantarell, 'Open Sans', 'Helvetica Neue', sans-serif;">Alida Alequin</span></em></p>

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Chilling new Cleo Smith abduction details to be aired for first time

<p> New details have emerged about the abduction of Cleo Smith, including her frantic mother’s call to triple-0 when she realised her little girl was missing.</p> <p>Cleo, then four, made international headlines when she was snatched from a tent on October 16 2021 as she slept with her mother, stepfather and baby sister at the Blowholes campsite, near Carnarvon, about 960km north of Perth.</p> <p>The little girl was held captive by Terence Darrell Kelly and locked alone in a bedroom at his home for 18 days before WA police rescued her in a late night raid.</p> <p>Grim new details about Cleo’s kidnapping will soon be aired after Kelly was recently sentenced to 13 years and 6 months in jail.</p> <p>Ellie Smith’s distraught call to triple-0 and police bodycam footage of the tearful mum, after officers arrived at the remote campsite, will be aired for the first time on <em>60 Minutes</em> on May 14.</p> <p>Ms Smith and her partner Jake Giddon also revealed how Cleo is coping 18 months after the scarring ordeal, including new footage of the little girl.</p> <p>“Her nightmare nights are the worst. It's heartbreaking,” Ms Smith said in a preview.</p> <p>“Sad, hurt, scared, terrified. It is hard talking about him (Kelly) and what happened.”</p> <p>The program will also air the heartbreaking audio of Ms Smith’s triple-0 call when she discovered Cleo was missing from their tent on the day she was abducted.</p> <p>"My daughter's gone missing,” the distraught mum said.</p> <p>“How old is your daughter,” the operator asked.</p> <p>“She's four,” Ms Smith tearfully responded.</p> <p>Bodycam footage from the first officers on the scene being shown around the campsite by the terrified mum has also emerged.</p> <p>“We woke up this morning, and she was missing,” Ms Smith said.</p> <p>Cleo’s disappearance led to one of the biggest police searches in WA history and made headlines worldwide.</p> <p>Investigators who were involved in the case will also share more details about the extensive lengths detectives went to track down Kelly.</p> <p>“It really set the investigation alight,” one officer said.</p> <p>“They narrowed and narrowed it. They made the right call.”</p> <p>Ms Smith added, “That was the second we realised she didn't walk away. She was taken.”</p> <p>Ms Smith and her partner appeared at Kelly’s sentencing in the District Court of WA in April.</p> <p>It was the first time the pair had been seen in public since their <a href="https://www.oversixty.co.nz/news/news/cleo-smith-s-parents-share-disturbing-new-details" target="_blank" rel="noopener">first interview</a> with <em>60 Minutes</em> a year ago.</p> <p>They reportedly received $2 million for the world exclusive TV interview.</p> <p>Sentencing judge Julie Wager described the fear, distress and trauma Cleo and her parents have been left with as “immeasurable”.</p> <p>“Eighteen days without contact or explanation, and with hours totally on her own and no access to the outside world, would have been very traumatic,” the judge said.</p> <p>Kelly’s legal team have confirmed their client has lodged an appeal over the lengthy sentence handed down to him after he <a href="https://www.oversixty.co.nz/news/news/terence-kelly-confesses-to-abducting-cleo-smith" target="_blank" rel="noopener">admitted</a> to forcibly detaining a child under the age of 16 in January 2022.</p> <p>Court documents have revealed Kelly’s lawyers are appealing on multiple grounds including disputing the extent to which his methamphetamine use contributed to the crime.</p> <p>“The learned sentencing judge erred in finding that the applicant's use of methamphetamine had a significant and casual role in the offending,” the appeal documents read.</p> <p>“The learned sentencing judge failed to give appropriate weight to the applicant's childhood disadvantage and trauma.”</p> <p><em>Image credit: 60 Minutes/Instagram</em></p>

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Woman reunites with family 50 years after her abduction

<p>DNA testing has confirmed the identity of a Texas woman who was allegedly abducted by her own babysitter when she was 22 months old, and reunited with them after 51 long and painful years apart. </p> <p>The Fort Worth Police Department announced that they had “completed official DNA testing which confirmed Melissa Highsmith’s identity”, while noting their hope that “this test result will offer additional closure for the Highsmith family”. </p> <p>While they requested that anyone with more information come forward, the criminal statute of limitations expired 20 years after Melissa’s 18th birthday. </p> <p>As <em>NBC Dallas-Forth Worth</em> reported, Melissa’s own mother was initially suspected of possibly killing her and then covering up the crime, and the family claimed that a babysitter had been responsible for taking her back in 1971. </p> <p>Melissa’s disappearance had been one of America’s oldest missing persons cases, according to <em>WFAA</em>. </p> <p>And while Melissa’s family had spent decades searching for their long lost loved one, it wasn’t until November 2022 that they made their first major breakthrough, when a 23andMe DNA test presented a link between Melissa and her biological parents. It was these same results that the Fort Worth Police Department was seeking to confirm.</p> <p>"I feel like I am dreaming,” Melissa told <em>WFAA</em> upon reuniting with her parents after their life changing discovery, “and I keep having to pinch myself to make sure I'm awake.”</p> <p>"I’m just elated, I can't describe my feelings,” Melissa’s mother, Alta Apantenco, added, “I'm so happy to see my daughter that I didn't think I would ever see her again.”</p> <p>Meanwhile, her father Jeffrie Highsmith admitted that he “cried like a baby”.</p> <p>Melissa went on to tell her family that she had had a difficult life, even going so far as to run away from home, and that she’d done “what I had to do to get by”.</p> <p>“I didn’t feel loved as a child,” she said. “It was abusive, and I ran away at 15 years old.” </p> <p>And the whole time, she’d been living just 20 minutes from her biological family. </p> <p>That same family who are overjoyed to have their beloved Melissa back with them, and took to social media to update followers, sharing the delightful news that their search was - finally - over. </p> <p>“The results were exactly what we already knew. She was in fact Melissa Suzanne HIghsmith!” they wrote on their Facebook page. “We now have the OFFICIAL confirmation that she is ours! Our daughter, sister, aunt, cousin, niece. We are thrilled! We are thankful and grateful for all the love and support we have received over the years and especially since we found Melissa. </p> <p>“Our family is whole and we look forward to the time we will be able to spend as a family of 7!”</p> <p><em>Images: Facebook</em></p>

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Rebel fighters share eerie footage of abducted Kiwi pilot

<p>Rebel fighters in Indonesia’s Papua region have released terrifying footage of Captain Philip Mehrtens, who they kidnapped last week. </p> <p>The New Zealand pilot touched down in Paro village on February 7th to pick up 15 construction workers who had been building a health centre in the remote Papua province.</p> <p>The rebel group set fire to the Susi Air plane and released all five passengers on board the flight, but held onto Mehrtens as a hostage. </p> <p>The group have said they will be holding Mehrtens until Indonesia recognises Papua’s independence.</p> <p>In a series of videos, released to The Associated Press, a man understood to be Mehrtens is surrounded by rebels holding rifles, spears, and bows and arrows. </p> <p>“Indonesia must recognise Papua is independent,” he says in one, seemingly under duress. </p> <p>“I took him hostage for Papua independence, not for food or drinks,” Rebel leader Egianus Kogoya says in another one of the videos. </p> <p>“He will be safe with me as long as Indonesia does not use its arms, either from the air or on the ground.”</p> <p>Indonesian officials are believed to be making efforts to secure the Kiwi pilot’s release.</p> <p>The West Papuan National Liberation Army (TPNPB), who are responsible for Mehrtens' abduction, has also issued a warning to Australia. </p> <p>“This pilot is a citizen of New Zealand,” a statement from Sebby Sambom, a spokesman for the TPNPB armed wing, said last week. </p> <p>“TPNPB considers New Zealand, Australia, Indonesia, America, Europe, all are responsible. The US, Europe, Australia and New Zealand has supported the Indonesian government, trained The Indonesian National Police, supplied weapons to kill us West Papuans from 1963 to today. They must be held accountable.”</p> <p>Violence in the region has seen a sharp increase over the last year, with dozens of rebels, security forces, and civilians killed in the name of demanding indolence from Indonesia. </p> <p><em>Image credits: The West Papuan National Liberation Army</em></p>

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Woman reunited with family 51 years after being abducted

<p>A family from the US have been reunited with their long-lost daughter and sister, 51 years after she was abducted as a toddler. </p> <p>Melissa Highsmith went missing in 1971 when, at just 22 months old, she was taken from her parents’ Texas home by a babysitter.</p> <p>Now, with the help of a 23andMe DNA test, the Highsmiths tracked down their missing loved one “without help from law enforcement or other outside involvement.”</p> <p>Melissa was last seen by her family in August 1971, when her mother Alta Apantenco was in need of a babysitter, and hired a woman who expressed interest in the job without meeting her in person.</p> <p>While Apantenco was at work, her roommate handed baby Melissa to the babysitter who allegedly abducted her and never returned. </p> <p>Melissa's family never stopped looking for her, and in recent years even created a Facebook page named “Finding Melissa”.</p> <p>After a recommendation from a genealogist, the Highsmith family used Ancestry and 23andMe to track down Melissa. </p> <p>The family said their mother was hesitant since she had done DNA tests with six different women throughout the years and they all came back negative.</p> <p>“Every time my mother got her hopes up. After 51 years, she didn’t want to submit another DNA test. She was tired and she was hurt and guilty from carrying this all these years,” said Victoria Highsmith, Melissa’s sister, <span style="caret-color: #323338; color: #323338; font-family: Roboto, Rubik, 'Noto Kufi Arabic', 'Noto Sans JP', sans-serif; font-size: 16px; background-color: #ffffff;">told NBC.</span></p> <p>“I’m thankful that we got her to agree to submit her DNA ... It is because of that, and my dad submitting, that we were able to find Melissa.”</p> <p>“Within three weeks we found my sister. It was like, ‘boom, boom, boom,’ we found her,” said Victoria Highsmith.</p> <p>Victoria also said she is so happy that her mother can now feel vindicated after being accused by police when she had nothing to do with Melissa’s disappearance.</p> <p>“She has carried this pain and this guilt for 51 years and I have watched her cry for three days of joy. I have never seen my mother so happy,” said Victoria Highsmith.</p> <p>When the family met up in an emotional reunion, Melissa with her mother, her father and two of her four siblings, shared tears, hugs and smiles.</p> <p>“I couldn’t stop crying. I was overjoyed and I’m still walking around in a fog trying to comprehend that my sister is right in front of me and that we found her,” said Victoria Highsmith.</p> <p>“It’s a Christmas miracle! It’s amazing meeting her. It was like looking into myself, she looks like me, like us. She’s overjoyed to be in our lives.”</p> <p><em>Image credits: Highsmith family </em></p>

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Man who abducted wheelchair-bound partner dies two days after her

<p dir="ltr">A man who <a href="https://www.oversixty.co.nz/news/news/man-charged-with-abducting-wheelchair-bound-partner" target="_blank" rel="noopener">abducted his wheelchair-bound partner</a> from a Perth nursing home and attempted to cross the border with her has died just two days after her.</p> <p dir="ltr">Ralph “Terry” Gibbs, 80, died after his car collided with a utility truck on Wednesday morning south of Bowen, in Queensland’s north.</p> <p dir="ltr">His death came just 48 hours after that of 84-year-old Carol Lisle, his partner of 15 years.</p> <p dir="ltr">The 84-year-old, passed away in an aged care facility in Mandurah, Western Australia, where she was living with dementia and Parkinson’s disease.</p> <p dir="ltr">They died just a week after Mr Gibbs appeared before a Perth magistrate over charges of deprivation of liberty and endangering Ms Lisle’s life, after he took her out of her aged care home in January and tried to drive her across the border during heatwave conditions.</p> <p dir="ltr">He received a seven-month suspended sentence and a restraining order to prevent him from contacting Ms Lisle.</p> <p dir="ltr">Outside court, Mr Gibbs described Ms Lisle as “my little sweetheart” and said he fought “for over a year to get her back so we can see each other because she has dementia and may not last much longer”.</p> <p dir="ltr">A close friend of Ms Lisle, who didn’t want to be named, <a href="https://www.abc.net.au/news/2022-02-24/ralph-gibbs-kidnapped-partner-from-nursing-home-dies-after-her/100856128" target="_blank" rel="noopener">told the <em>ABC</em></a><em> </em>she passed away in the early hours on Monday morning.</p> <p dir="ltr">Having known Ms Lisle for 24 years, the friend said she was loved and well-looked after at the nursing home, and that she had been very unwell since she was taken by Mr Gibbs in January.</p> <p dir="ltr">“Carol’s friends are devastated at her passing and believe the separation from her loved ones contributed to her death,” the friend said.</p> <p dir="ltr">In a <a href="https://mypolice.qld.gov.au/news/2022/02/23/fatal-crash-bowen-4/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">statement</a>, Queensland Police said Mr Gibbs was driving north along the Bruce Highway early on Wednesday morning when he collided with the other vehicle which was being driven by a 60-year-old man.</p> <p dir="ltr">Gibbs died at the scene of the crash, while the other driver was airlifted to a local hospital and is believed to be in a serious condition.</p> <p dir="ltr">Queensland’s Forensic Crash Unit is investigating the incident.</p> <p dir="ltr"><em>Image: WA Police</em></p>

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Terence Kelly confesses to abducting Cleo Smith

<p><em>Image: Getty </em></p> <p>Cleo Smith’s abductor Terence Kelly has confessed to kidnapping the four-year-old from her family tent and keeping her captive for 18 days.</p> <p>Kelly, 36, was arrested after detectives raided his Carnarvon house at 12.46 am on November 3rd and found the little girl alone inside a bedroom playing with toys.</p> <p>The next day Terence was charged with child abduction and flown to Perth where he remains in custody at Casuarina Prison. During an appearance in Carnarvon Magistrate’s Court on Monday, Kelly pleaded guilty to child abduction via video link.</p> <p>Kelly appeared solemn and spent much of the hearing looking down. He spoke only one word, ‘guilty’, when asked by Magistrate Ben White what his plea to the kidnapping charge was.</p> <p>He admitted taking Cleo from her family’s tent on October the 16th at Quobba Blowholes campsite as her parents slept metres away.</p> <p>Following one of the largest missing persons investigations in Australian history, Cleo was rescued 18 days later after four detectives stormed Kelly’s home in a midnight raid.</p> <p>In the days after Cleo’s rescue, WA Police acting Commissioner Col Blanch said mobile phone data and CCTV footage of a car entering Carnarvon the night Cleo vanished led police to raid Kelly’s house.</p> <p>The details of why Kelly took Cleo, or how police solved the case, are yet to be revealed in court.</p> <p>Cleo’s family have declined to speak to media since her safe return, only issuing a statement thanking the community for its support and requesting privacy.</p> <p>The Nine Network, which publishes this masthead, will pay almost $2 million for an interview with the family in what is believed to be one of the largest deals in Australian television history.</p> <p>Outside court, before Kelly’s admission, a former neighbour of Kelly’s, Esther Mingo, told media she hoped Kelly would “open his mouth up” and tell the truth.</p> <p>She also voiced repeated frustration that none of his family members were attending his court hearings.</p> <p>“He’s got stacks of family ... where are his mother and father, why don’t they come here?” she said.</p> <p>After the hearing, Ms Mingo and two other women refused to speak to the media. His lawyer, Kate Turtley-Chappel, also declined to comment.</p> <p>Kelly will appear in Perth District Court on March 25th for a date to be set for his sentencing.</p>

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Man charged with abducting wheelchair-bound partner

<p dir="ltr">An 80-year-old man has been charged after allegedly taking his wheelchair-bound partner out of a care facility and driving her 1500 kilometres away in an attempt to cross the border.</p> <p dir="ltr">Police<span> </span><a rel="noopener" href="https://www.perthnow.com.au/news/ralph-gibbs-allegedly-removes-sick-partner-from-care-home-drives-across-the-country-c-5190590" target="_blank">allege</a><span> </span>that Ralph Gibbs was visiting Carol Lisle, 84, at her care facility in Mandurah, WA, and took the opportunity to remove her from the facility, placing her in his car and driving away.</p> <p dir="ltr"><img style="width: 500px; height: 281.25px;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7846623/lisle1.jpg" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/35e3e992e0b148daabd7ed41408b6a46" /></p> <p dir="ltr"><em>Missing couple Carol Lisle and Ralph Gibbs were found just shy of the NT border on Tuesday. Image: 9News</em></p> <p dir="ltr">It is also alleged that he made plans prior to visiting her to remove her from the facility and leave WA.</p> <p dir="ltr">Mr Gibbs allegedly did not have the legal authority to remove Ms Lisle, his partner of more than a decade, from the facility.</p> <p dir="ltr">Ms Lisle suffers from Parkinson’s disease and dementia, and allegedly did not have the capacity to make the decision to leave the facility for herself.</p> <p dir="ltr">Due to Ms Lisle’s need for a high level of care, Mr Gibbs has also been accused of putting her health and safety at risk, as well as not considering the level of care she required.</p> <p dir="ltr">The pair were first reported missing on the night of Sunday, January 2, and were located two days later near Warakurna, just over an hour away from the NT border.</p> <p dir="ltr"><img style="width: 500px; height: 281.25px;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7846624/lisle2.jpg" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/a99c6772e9c54c1b9dffd07974e5f53d" /></p> <p dir="ltr"><em>Carol Lisle, a wheelchair-bound woman living in a care home, was found 1,500 kilometres from her home. Image: Western Australia Police</em></p> <p dir="ltr">Ms Lisle required urgent medical attention and was taken to a Warakurna nursing home. She was later flown to Perth and admitted to the Peel Health Campus.</p> <p dir="ltr">Mr Gibbs<span> </span><a rel="noopener" href="https://7news.com.au/news/wa/wa-man-charged-with-kidnapping-woman-c-5190348" target="_blank">has been charged</a><span> </span>with deprivation of liberty and endangering the life, health and safety of a person.</p> <p dir="ltr">He was due to appear at Perth Magistrates Court on Wednesday, with<span> </span><a rel="noopener" href="https://thewest.com.au/news/court-justice/ralph-terry-gibbs-granted-bail-over-alleged-kidnapping-of-sick-partner-carol-lisle-from-care-home-c-5189916" target="_blank"><em>The West Australian</em></a><span> </span>reporting that he was granted bail.</p> <p dir="ltr"><em>Image: Western Australia Police</em></p>

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New claims of mystery accomplice in Cleo Smith abduction

<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">A mystery woman could be the key to discovering what happened to Cleo Smith, following stunning claims that the four-year-old has told police she was looked after by a female. </span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Upon being rescued from a Carnarvon home, the Daily Mail Australia has reported that sources close to the investigation claim Cleo told investigators that while she was locked in the house, a woman took care of her and brushed her hair while she was held captive. </span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The shocking revelation comes just days after Western Australia police began to wonder if more than one person was involved in Cleo’s abduction. </span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Detective Senior Sergeant Cameron Blaine said on Monday the investigation was going well.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“Our focus this week is for us to ascertain whether there was anyone else involved. That’s why we are still here,” he told reporters in Carnarvon.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Cleo Smith was found locked in a Tonkin Crescent house in Carnarvon last week, after being missing for 18 days. </span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">One man, Terence Darrell Kelly, has been charged with allegedly abducting four-year-old Cleo from a campsite, as police continue to question him. </span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Police have urged locals to come forward with any information on Mr Kelly that could prove useful in the ongoing investigation. </span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“We just ask that if there was anyone that had any contact with Mr Kelly, whether you saw him or met him or spoke to him on the phone, during the relevant period – please make yourself known to police.” </span></p> <p><em><span style="font-weight: 400;">Image credits: Getty Images</span></em></p>

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When missing children return: how can we avoid adding to Cleo Smith’s trauma?

<p>Four-year-old Cleo Smith was <a rel="noopener" href="https://www.theguardian.com/australia-news/2021/nov/03/cleo-smith-found-first-pictures-of-smiling-girl-as-australian-police-detail-moment-of-rescue" target="_blank">found by Western Australian police earlier this week</a>, 18 days after going missing from a remote campsite.</p> <p>Being taken and removed from one’s family is a significantly traumatic event for any child. It disrupts their entire world.</p> <p>Children are <a href="https://acamh.onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1111/j.1469-7610.2011.02399.x">dependent on their families and attachment figures</a> for their sense of security and support. Sudden loss of these important relationships can result in fear, a sense of abandonment and confusion. Children left alone can become withdrawn and depressed and have little understanding of why this has happened to them.</p> <p>There can be long-term effects, such as memories of the fearful experience, sleep disruption and anxiety. Some children will have difficultly rebuilding their sense of security and trust.</p> <p>As a child psychiatrist who’s researched trauma, I’m interested in how we can ensure such children recover.</p> <p>Family members, the media and the public also need to avoid certain actions or behaviours that could re-traumatise the child.</p> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet"> <p dir="ltr">"It's one person who has done this horrible thing"<br /><br />WA Police Minister Paul Papalia shares new details about the miracle rescue of missing girl Cleo Smith. <a href="https://t.co/CEAE1U3HFm">pic.twitter.com/CEAE1U3HFm</a></p> — Sunrise (@sunriseon7) <a href="https://twitter.com/sunriseon7/status/1455998352668053507?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">November 3, 2021</a></blockquote> <p><strong>How can the child recover?</strong></p> <p>The first priority after finding the child is to immediately re-establish a sense of safety and stability, and to reunite them with their family.</p> <p>The most important thing is to avoid intrusive, <a rel="noopener" href="https://bpspsychub.onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1348/135532506X156620" target="_blank">probing questioning</a> straight away as this can be frightening and distressing. It’s a normal response for the child to try and not think about what they’ve just been through.</p> <p>They will take their own time before they’re able to share details of their experiences, and will need considerable support and care to do this.</p> <p>Intrusive questioning may re-traumatise the child. For survivors of trauma, being asked to focus on their memories and experiences of fear can be distressing and bring back the terror of the experience, particularly if they’re not ready to think about the events.</p> <p>Police forces have skilled interviewers who understand and avoid this when recovering a child, and perform the interviews gradually.</p> <p>There are open questions about any other sort of trauma Cleo may have experienced, but for now we don’t have any information on this. We might never know all the details and we need to respect the family’s right to privacy.</p> <p>Some children might benefit from counselling, particularly if they have severe anxiety symptoms or have been held for a long time.</p> <p>Children held for a long time often become dependent on their captor for survival, as they <a rel="noopener" href="https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/01926180902754711?journalCode=uaft20" target="_blank">adapt to their situation and attempt to survive</a>. It’s a very strange and traumatising position for the child to be in and may take a long time to recover from.</p> <p>Over time, it’s important for attachment figures such as parents and carers to allow children to express fears in a gentle way.</p> <p>Children may have “disguised anxieties”. They may develop fear about some other thing or event, for example storms or dogs, because they’re <a rel="noopener" href="https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/0829573512468845" target="_blank">expressing anxiety about the traumatic event in a disguised way</a>.</p> <p><strong>Adults should listen, not probe</strong></p> <p>Caregivers need to be <a rel="noopener" href="https://www.childwelfare.gov/pubpdfs/child-trauma.pdf" target="_blank">guided by the child’s willingness to disclose</a>, and when.</p> <p>The response to trauma varies considerably. Some children tell parents or carers a lot about the experience at first. Others may disclose small details little by little over time, while some may not speak about details for months or years.</p> <p>Parents or carers need to let the child speak at their own pace and be guided by the child’s level of anxiety. The aim is to give the child a safe space to speak to trusted people who can support them.</p> <p>When they do start talking about their experience, adults must listen carefully and validate their feelings. Adults should reassure the child that he or she is safe now. It’s not a good idea to probe.</p> <p>Believing what the child says is crucial.</p> <p><strong>Let’s not get carried away with speculation</strong></p> <p>We don’t know what the long-term consequences for Cleo will be. This will depend on what she’s been exposed to, which we don’t know yet. And we don’t always get a sense of closure – this isn’t as important as working on the best way to support her recovery.</p> <p>The media should avoid premature comment and speculation on what might have occurred. The media currently have no idea what kind of person the suspect is and shouldn’t speculate on his behaviours and motives.</p> <p>It’s also not helpful for the media to focus on extreme ideas about risk to children at the hands of predatory offenders.</p> <p>As the public, we shouldn’t speculate about the circumstances either or prejudge those involved. Police are methodical and thorough in their work and will need time to piece together the story of what may have happened.</p> <p>The local community, and many members of the public, are likely to be anxious and fearful. A missing child strikes at the core of our desire to care for children. This may have negative impacts on community trust and relationships.</p> <p>If this was random act, there’s the potential for ongoing fear. And it’s potentially more scary than the stereotypes we think of, such as a planned attack by a ring of perpetrators. A random attack is harder to make sense of, terrifying and unsettling.</p> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet"> <p dir="ltr">Missing four-year-old girl Cleo Smith has been found safe and well in a locked house in Carnarvon, WA police say.<br /><br />Here's why missing children cases grip the nation (from the archives): <a href="https://t.co/Ybv7JbjCXD">https://t.co/Ybv7JbjCXD</a> <a href="https://twitter.com/Uni_Newcastle?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">@Uni_Newcastle</a></p> — The Conversation (@ConversationEDU) <a href="https://twitter.com/ConversationEDU/status/1455646662102241286?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">November 2, 2021</a></blockquote> <p><strong>Parent's need support, too</strong></p> <p>Cleo’s parents, and any parents in a similar situation, have been through a horrendous ordeal.</p> <p>They have the vital role of helping a child feel safe again, so they also need support to do this.</p> <p>All parents may feel increased anxiety about child safety in the face of this event. Children may also hear about Cleo’s experience and worry this could happen to them. Fear is contagious when such a traumatic event impacts a community.</p> <p>If parents are worried about their child showing trauma or anxiety symptoms, they should speak to GP who can refer to a psychologist or psychiatrist if more support is needed.</p> <p><em>If this article has raised issues for you, or if you’re concerned about someone you know, call Lifeline on 13 11 14.</em><!-- Below is The Conversation's page counter tag. 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“I’m coming for you!” Suspect charged in Cleo's alleged abduction

<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">A 36-year-old man has appeared in court over charges of allegedly kidnapping four-year-old Cleo Smith.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Terence Darrell Kelly was taken into custody and questioned at about midnight on Wednesday morning, after being pulled over in a car by police.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Detectives then attended his home and found the little girl.</span></p> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet"> <p dir="ltr">The miracle we all hoped for. ❤️ <a href="https://t.co/zOd5WDTA1A">pic.twitter.com/zOd5WDTA1A</a></p> — WA Police Force (@WA_Police) <a href="https://twitter.com/WA_Police/status/1455761708262199308?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">November 3, 2021</a></blockquote> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">In a statement released late on Thursday, police said Mr Kelly had been charged with “various offences”, including one count of forcibly taking a child under the age of 16.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“Given this matter is now before the court, police are unable to make any further comment on the charges at this stage,” police <a rel="noopener" href="https://www.news.com.au/national/western-australia/police-expected-to-soon-charge-man-suspected-of-abducting-cleo-smith/news-story/d63383b933c42d0dddd4fb2457dd9be6" target="_blank">said</a>.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">After briefly appearing before Carnarvon Magistrates Court, Mr Kelly was remanded in custody for four weeks.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">According to reports from </span><em><span style="font-weight: 400;">The Australian</span></em><span style="font-weight: 400;">, Mr Kelly made several outbursts during the proceedings, including saying “I’m coming for you”.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">It is said he also asked the magistrate, “What the f**k are the media doing here?”, with the magistrate replying that “it’s an open court”.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Mr Kelly only became a suspect in the case surrounding Cleo’s disappearance on Tuesday afternoon as a result of a ”very quick-moving investigation”.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“He was arrested not long after that,” lead investigator Detective Superintendent Rod Wilde said.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">When asked if Mr Kelly drove the car seen at about 3am on the night Cleo disappeared, Superintendent Wilde said that was still undetermined.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“That hasn’t been confirmed as yet, but certainly we would say that that car was significant and it was in the right time frame,” he said.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">In an earlier radio interview on Thursday, Superintendent Wilde dismissed claims that Mr Kelly was injured by a cellmate after being taken into custody.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“No, that’s not true. My understanding is that the man in custody self-harmed,” he told </span><span style="font-weight: 400;">6PR</span><span style="font-weight: 400;"> radio.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“Obviously, in modern police stations there’s CCTV in all the cells.”</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Superintendent Wilde also told reporters on Thursday that Mr Kelly had been taken to the hospital twice after he allegedly harmed himself.</span></p> <p><img style="width: 500px; height: 281.25px;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7845356/cleo-suspect1.jpg" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/c98de43fc62c4d0eb7f09a9b830f5bd9" /></p> <p><em><span style="font-weight: 400;">Social media pictures of Mr Kelly’s doll collection. Image: Facebook</span></em></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Social media posts have revealed photos of Mr Kelly holding Bratz toy dolls, as well as a room full of toy dolls.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Though Cleo has been found and reunited with her parents, Superintendent Wilde said there was still work to do to establish what happened.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“Obviously there’s a process to go through with our child specialist interviewers that are here now,” he said.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">He also called on the public to refrain from sharing “wild theories” or speculating on what happened online.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“There’s been a lot of it through this investigation. It’s unhelpful, we see that it’s untrue, it only damages people,” he said.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“We’ve got a legal process that we’ll need to go through </span><span style="font-weight: 400;">—</span><span style="font-weight: 400;"> that’s where the facts will come forward.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“Everyone please keep those theories to yourself and don’t go sticking them on social media </span><span style="font-weight: 400;">— it’s very unhelpful.”</span></p> <p><em><span style="font-weight: 400;">Image: Facebook</span></em></p>

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The cop who has made $632K from Madeleine McCann’s abduction

<p>An ex-police chief, who claimed that Madeline McCann’s parents covered up her death, has profited more than $632,000 from his book and DVD about the case.</p> <p>The Portuguese former cop has made huge earnings from his book <em style="font-weight: inherit;">The Truth Of The Lie</em>, revealed in court documents.</p> <p>According to <a href="https://www.thesun.co.uk/"><strong><em style="font-weight: inherit;"><u>The Sun</u></em></strong></a>, Kate and Gerry McCann are currently in a legal battle with Goncalo Amaral over the allegations he made about them.</p> <p>Mr Amaral has claimed that three-year-old Madeleine actually died in an accident in 2007 and that the McCann’s covered it up.</p> <p>Kate and Gerry are currently challenging Mr Amaral at the European Court of Human Rights in Strasbourg, so he doesn’t make any more money from his claims.</p> <p>Documents filed at the ECHR show that Mr Amaral made $432,000 from book sales in 2008-2009.</p> <p>He made another $63,000 from the DVD spin-off.</p> <p>The book has since been translated into multiple languages, with more than 180,000 copies printed.</p> <p>An injunction against the book, to stop further sales, was issued in 2009.</p> <p>However, the ruling was overturned on appeal and the injunction was lifted, a decision upheld by Portugal’s Supreme Court.</p> <p>Mr Amaral was awarded compensation and received thousands of dollars from more sales.</p> <p>Reportedly he also made at least $36,000 from interviews with newspapers and TV stations.</p> <p>The McCann’s have gone to the ECHR in a last bid to avoid paying Mr Amaral $1.35 million in compensation.</p> <p>Madeleine’s parents fear that if they lose the case, Mr Amaral’s payout will use up the fund set up to finance the continuing search for their daughter.</p> <p>Sources close to Kate and Gerry also fear that Brexit may impact the case, with judges taking “vengeance” for Britain leaving the EU by ruling against them.</p> <p>In their argument to the ECHR, the McCann’s legal team addressed the pain Kate and Gerry have gone through since their daughter disappeared during a family holiday in Praia da Luz in May 2007.</p> <p>They also say that Mr Amaral’s book “incriminated innocent citizens, accused of terrible crimes they never committed”. </p> <p>It goes on to explain they are trying to “protect not only their reputation but that of the child as well”.</p> <p>They also say that Mr Amaral’s book was “extravagant” and “damaged the good reputation” of the McCann family. </p> <p>Mr Amaral previously argued that his book’s allegations come from the police investigation.</p> <p>In October 2007, Mr Amaral was removed as the investigation head and subsequently left the police to write his book.</p> <p>An insider said, “Kate and Gerry still have full confidence the European Court of Human Rights will find in their favour.”</p> <p>They added, “It hasn’t altered their determination to carry on searching for their daughter. They have never given up hope and this case is an awful distraction but they feel compelled to do something.”</p>

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