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Popular names Generation Alpha believe are “for old people”

<p>Today's youth have a very different idea of what constitutes an "old person" name, and one mum was left flabbergasted after a conversation she had with her six-year-old daughter about her classmates’ names.</p> <p>“You know what I find wild? I have an eight-year-old and a six-year-old, and the names of their friends, I can’t even pronounce some of them,” Australian entrepreneur and mum-of-two Steph Pase said in a now viral TikTok. </p> <p>“I asked her, so do you have anyone in your year called Sarah, Alex, Jack or Daniel?</p> <p>“She laughed and said ‘they’re old people names!’.”</p> <p>She then probed her daughter with a few other common names saying: “I asked, what about Steph … Michelle … she’s like no,” she laughed.</p> <p>“It just makes me realise, that we are that generation … our parents’ generation. Names like Helen, Karen or Joanna … now we’re that generation.</p> <p>“We have the old people names.”</p> <p>She captioned her video with the text "Millennial names are officially old" and many of her followers agreed with the upsetting revelation. </p> <p>“In my classes we have Vision, Stoney, Diesel, Hennesy, Blaze, Cruze, Kingdom, Ace, Boss, Oasis, Mercedes, Destiny,” one shared.</p> <p>“Luna, Harper &amp; Arlo are the new Ashley, Jessica &amp; Stephanie,” another said.</p> <p>“The names in my kids classes are Lamb, Honey, Hazard, Blu, Bambi,” another added. </p> <p>“My six year old has a girl in his class named ‘Summah’ and another called ‘Phox’ because Fox was too mainstream,” a fourth wrote. </p> <p>“My daughter has a Moses, Twayla, Lorde it’s wild …” a fifth commented. </p> <p>Baby name expert and CEO of Fifth Dimension Consulting Lyndall Spooner told <em>news.com.au</em> that there are a few reasons why there's been a shift in children's names over the years, including popularity, less pressure to follow traditional family names, and a trend towards more gender-neutral names. </p> <p>“Parents want their children to be unique and so they use nouns or verbs as names, or character names from books, TV shows, movies, shopping chains or cars," she said. </p> <p>And while the "millennial names" are not as common, "they are not extinct". </p> <p>“We will continue to see changes in baby names and the ‘recycling’ of older names that become popular again,” she told the publication. </p> <p><em>Images: TikTok</em></p>

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Can a relationship with two alphas work?

<p><strong><em><a href="http://www.johnaiken.com.au" target="_blank"><span style="text-decoration: underline;">John Aiken</span></a> is an RSVP dating and relationship expert, as seen on Channel Nine’s series </em>Married At First Sight<em> and the ABC documentary </em>Making Couples Happy<em>. He is also the author of the book </em>Making Couples Happy: How science can help get relationships back on track<em>.</em></strong></p> <p>For couples, the solution to handling the power issues that can arise in relationships is that one person becomes more dominant than the other. Essentially, one of you becomes a CEO and ends up taking charge of making all the decisions, while the other person plays an employee role and is happy to be led.</p> <p>From time to time however, two very forthright and strong willed people can fall in love, and the end result is two CEO's fighting for control. This is a match-up that can work, but it takes some discipline and involves compromise and teamwork - elements that some alphas can struggle with.</p> <p>When two alphas meet each other, it's easy to see why they might find one another attractive. Both of you will admire the strength and dedication in each other, the decisiveness, the ambition and drive and preparedness to express opinions. You'll enjoy the excitement of both being competitive, independent, and goal driven, and you'll both feel comfortable with taking charge and leading from the front.</p> <p>However, things can also become very challenging when two alphas fall in love. That drive to lead and be in control can mean you end up arguing with each other a lot about who is in charge. Alphas can also be inflexible, domineering, stubborn and bossy - and the end result can see lots of conflict, cold shoulders, anger and lack of compromise.</p> <p>Rather than getting caught in a power struggle, here's some tips to help two alphas get along:</p> <p><strong>1. Share decisions</strong></p> <p>Make a point of sharing the decisions in your new relationship. One person is not responsible for managing the couple. Avoid excluding your partner and assuming you have the final say on outstanding issues and organizational tasks. Be inclusive.</p> <p><strong>2. Share expenses</strong></p> <p>Be up front about this early on and be open to the idea of both of you sharing expenses rather than one trying to look after everything. You're in this together and you both need to feel equal and respected.</p> <p><strong>3. Understand each other's position</strong></p> <p>So often two alphas won't listen to each other. Instead they get into a game of point scoring and try to persuade the other that they're right. Instead, look to hear each person's view and validate this even if you don't agree. </p> <p><strong>4. Alternate date nights</strong></p> <p>Put in place the 'surrender date' rule where one night one person organizes everything on the date while the other person surrenders and says 'yes'. Then the following date swap roles. This is great way to share power and control and it can be lots of fun.</p> <p><strong>5. Solve problems as a team</strong></p> <p>Whatever issues come along in a new relationship, it's important to take these on together. Avoid trying to fix everything on your own, but rather throw around solutions for each issue and see what you both think about how to handle things. It's a joint process, whereby you can combine your talents to get through difficult situations.</p> <p>Are you the alpha in your relationship, or are you happy to be led? Let us know in the comments below.</p> <p><em>Written by John Aiken. First appeared on <a href="http://www.datehub.com.au/" target="_blank"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">datehub.com.au.</span></strong></a></em></p> <p><strong><em>Looking for love – or perhaps you just want to meet some new people? <a href="https://ad.doubleclick.net/ddm/clk/300422191;127409031;k" target="_blank"><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Why not sign up at RSVP today by clicking here… You never know who is just around the corner.</span></a></em></strong></p> <p><strong>Related links:</strong></p> <p><a href="http://oversixty.com.au/lifestyle/relationships/2016/08/ways-to-be-happier-and-why-your-relationship-depends-on-it/"><strong><em><span style="text-decoration: underline;">25 ways to be happier (and why your relationship depends on it)</span></em></strong></a></p> <p><a href="http://oversixty.com.au/lifestyle/relationships/2016/08/choices-that-will-lead-to-your-best-love-life-ever/"><em><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">10 choices that will lead to your best love life ever</span></strong></em></a></p> <p><a href="http://oversixty.com.au/lifestyle/relationships/2016/08/the-trait-women-find-most-attractive-in-men/"><strong><em><span style="text-decoration: underline;">The trait women find most attractive in men</span></em></strong></a></p>

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