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Theo Hayez mystery comes to devastating end

<p>The worst fears of Theo Hayez's family have been confirmed as an inquest has declared the 18-year-old Belgian backpacker officially dead. </p> <p>Theo disappeared on a night out in Byron Bay in 2019, although the inquest did not determine whether his death was the result of an innocent accident or foul play. </p> <p>The disappearance of the teenager, who was described on Friday by State Coroner Teresa O’Sullivan as “a clever, gentle and thoughtful young man” with a “bright future”, prompted a mass volunteer effort from Byron Bay locals as the desperate search for him made headlines around the world. </p> <p>Despite the mammoth efforts of police and volunteers, nothing was found but Theo's cap. </p> <p>Hayez’ Australia-based godfather Jean-Philippe Pector was moved to tears as he spoke outside court about the “love” the family had received from the Byron Bay community, which “makes it all bearable”.</p> <p>After going through the inquest process, he said, “we knew there wouldn’t be any breakthrough.”</p> <p>O'Sullivan's inquest did note, however, that Hayez's phone indicated he had spent seven minutes at a local area known as the cricket nets, and that he had "veered sharply" off a path near a bush camp. </p> <p>As a result, she could exclude the theories that Hayez had taken his own life or staged his disappearance, but could not either substantiate or exclude the other two “main competing theories” - that he either died alone trying to climb the Cape Byron headland, or was killed by another person, or persons, who disposed of his body.</p> <p>Appearing on <em>60 Minutes </em>last weekend, Theo's devastated mother, Vinciane, opened up on the toll his disappearance has had on her and their family, saying, "I think that we will never know but I hope our situation, our story, is helpful to others."</p> <p>"If you want to go on living, there is a time when you need to stop. There will always be sadness until the very end of our life but it is healthy to stop searching."</p> <p><em>Image credits: 60 Minutes</em></p>

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Potential breakthrough in Theo Hayez case

<p>Investigators are a step closer to solving the mystery of missing backpacker Theo Hayez, after honing in on WhatsApp messages he exchanged the night he vanished, to gain an insight into what happened.</p> <p>The Belgian teenager disappeared in 2019 from NSW hotspot Byron Bay, with an inquest on Wednesday hearing there had been a 'potential breakthrough' in the case.</p> <p>The development came just hours after Theo's parents suggested 'another person' was involved in their son's disappearance and police offered a $500,000 reward for information.</p> <p>'I don't want to overstate it, your honour, but we know Theo was engaged in some WhatsApp activity just before 1 am on the 31st of May,' counsel assisting the coroner, Kirsten Edwards said.</p> <p>This activity was prior to a five-hour window when Hayez' mobile phone ceased communicating with the nearest tower.</p> <p>In a bombshell revelation, Ms Edwards said the investigating team had also found a mystery person 'who was communicating with Theo on the 31st of May' but it is not yet known when the two exchanged messages.</p> <p>But WhatsApp messages, very commonly used as the primary messaging app in Europe, are encrypted, making it virtually impossible to find out what the texts said without one of the senders' phones.</p> <p>Earlier on Wednesday, it was revealed the police officer who led the initial search for Mr Hayez was inexperienced, missed vital training and would have conducted the operation 'very differently' with the benefit of hindsight.</p> <p>Speaking at the inquest the same day police announced a $500,000 reward for information on his case. Senior Constable Louis Papworth admitted he had only previously conducted two minor searches before the 18-year-old went missing.<br />Due to the urgency of the search and his inexperience, Papworth told the inquest he had made 'some mistakes.'</p> <p>If he'd had access to location data sourced from Theo's phone on the first two days of the search, it would have looked very different, Papworth said. With the benefit of hindsight, he would also have tried to find out more about Theo's interests and behaviours, to help tailor the search.</p> <p>The data showed Theo had spent seven minutes near cricket nets at a local sporting field, before charting a route through the Arakwal National Park to Cosy Corner Beach.</p> <p>'If you'd had that access to that information, you would have approached the search in a very different way, and with a lot more intensity?' Ms Edwards asked at the inquest.</p> <p>More volunteers would have been sent to those areas and he would have sent detectives to interview 'vagrants' who were staying near the sporting field.</p> <p>The inquest continues, and is due to hear more new 'significant' evidence in the coming days.</p> <p><em>Images: Facebook</em></p>

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Furious neighbours unleash on backpacking revellers ignoring COVID-19 rules

<p>Backpackers in a Bondi unit block continue to ignore social distancing rules put in place by COVID-19 by holding house parties just days after they were filmed drinking in their backyard until the early morning by angry neighbours.</p> <p>Australia is currently in stage three lockdown, which means that people are unable to leave their homes unless it is necessary (going to work or school, buying essentials, seeking medical care or exercising).</p> <p>Indoor and outdoor gatherings have been restricted to two people as part of further efforts to stop the spread of coronavirus, which is why neighbours are furious at the parties being held by the backpackers.</p> <p>The video of more than a dozen partygoers crammed into a backyard at the block of flats outraged many who are abiding by strict social distancing orders.</p> <p>The two neighbouring buildings are separated by only a few metres, which means sound travels easily.</p> <p>In footage taken just before 3pm, residents were heard yelling at their neighbours asking them to turn down their music.</p> <p>One neighbour confided in<span> </span><em><a rel="noopener noreferrer" href="https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-8199343/Spanish-backpackers-Bondi-party-house-filmed-blasting-music-coronavirus-lockdown.html" target="_blank">The Daily Mail</a></em><span> </span>that things haven’t gotten any better between the neighbours.</p> <p>“The photos that were shared last week, that was of a calm party, but it's gotten a lot of attention because everyone is trying to do the right thing at the minute,” she said.</p> <p>“I've lived here for about 11 years now and over the past 18 months it's just gotten way worse.”</p> <p>“I yelled out at them today because they were blasting music, but it doesn't do much at all most of the time, they'll be back partying in a few days.”</p> <p>The woman wishes to remain anonymous and says she calls police at least once a week about the neighbours.</p> <p>“It's worse at the minute because people are working from home and I know one girl said she was in a work meeting and was asked: ‘What's all that noise?’”</p> <p>However, one resident of the party block argues that the group are being vilified unfairly.</p> <p>“I think that (last week's party) was blown out of proportion. What you'll actually find is these places are really big and hold eight people each, so it seems like there's a lot of people partying but they're all residents,” she said.</p> <p>“It's not like there were people coming from all over Bondi, it was just a mix of people in the apartments.</p> <p>“There are signs up about noise but that's from New Year's Eve. I mean there can be a lot of noise, but I think it's not as bad as it's made out to be.”</p>

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Meet the baby boomer backpackers seeing the world on a shoestring budget

<p>Travelling through Turkey in an old VW in the 1980s, Wendy Clark, her husband David and their two travel buddies were treated to an impromptu concert by a woman they had no idea at the time would inspire their future travels.  </p> <p>The couple were in the ancient Greek city of Ephesus, the ruins of which lie near the modern village of Selcuk in western Turkey, when a solo traveller they had recently met - a widowed Australian in her seventies - took centre stage at the 25,000-seater amphitheatre which had once hosted gladiator fights and philosophical debates and began to sing.</p> <p>"She had a beautiful singing voice and she stood and gave us a concert," Wendy, who now lives in Queenstown, says. "I've never forgotten that. I just always thought what a fantastic attitude that was. She was completely at large, she was doing all these wonderful things and she wasn't letting age stop her."</p> <p>Wendy and David, in their early twenties at the time, were on an OE typical of Kiwis at the time: working "black" [illegally] for six months at a time in London to save for jaunts through Europe. Back then, Turkey was far from the tourist magnet it is today. Oscar-winning film Midnight Express - a 1978 prison epic about a young American tourist tortured in an Istanbul prison after being discovered with hash at the airport - had virtually killed the Turkish tourism industry overnight. The Australian widow aside, Wendy and David, originally from Invercargill, had seen few other tourists in their time there. But adventurous travel on the cheap was their jam.</p> <p>"I remember a Contiki bus coming into the campground one day," Wendy says. "We looked completely down our noses at that. What we were doing was very spontaneous."</p> <p>More than three decades on their travel ethos remains largely unchanged. With their children now grown, Wendy and David, aged 56 and 62 respectively, are relishing being able to travel overseas again. And, like a growing number of baby boomers and older travellers, are choosing to stay in budget accommodation such as backpackers and homestays and use cheaper forms of transport.</p> <p>A 2018 study by <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="http://booking.com/" target="_blank">Booking.com</a></strong></span> of 20,000 travellers around the globe, including 500 New Zealanders, found that 20 per cent of baby boomers - often defined as those born between 1946 and 1964 - are planning a trip involving backpacking. While 35 per cent of baby boomer respondents said they regretted not having travelled more when they were younger, others, such as Wendy and David, think that spending less on accommodation will enable them to spend more time overseas and see more. Just as baby boomers made backpacking through Europe a rite of passage, they are now rewriting the rules of mature travel and retirement.</p> <p>Joshua Nu'u-Steele, Booking.com's New Zealand area manager, said many baby boomer backpackers are making up for lost time, while realising there's only so much time left.</p> <p>"A lot of that age group haven't had the opportunity to travel yet and want to do it while they still can."</p> <p>Like younger travellers, Joshua says they are seeking unique experiences and, while often more affluent than younger backpackers, are open to "alternative accommodation".</p> <p>Charli Bateson, product and marketing manager with Jucy Group, which runs hostels in Auckland, Wellington and Christchurch as well as hires out vehicles, thinks the relative ease and affordability of international travel these days is prompting more baby boomers to give backpacking a go. Millennials, she says, are also "re-educating" them about what modern backpacking entails.</p> <p>"Most hostels now have en-suite rooms as well as dorms, just not all the five-star facilities. With the more adventurous older travellers especially, they would rather spend their money on travelling and activities than a room they'll probably only spend a few hours in."   </p> <p>Wendy and David returned to New Zealand in the mid 80s after three years in Europe to find Queenstown in the midst of a building boom.  </p> <p>"We got swept up in it and never left," Wendy says. "We built a house and then another house and had a family so there was no money for travelling. There's a conception that baby boomers have had it all handed to them but we did work incredibly hard - six to seven days a week. Everything we did, we did ourselves."</p> <p>They both still work - Wendy as a creative writing teacher and David as a museum director - and, when they do get time to travel, prefer to spend their money on activities and food than accommodation.</p> <p>"I always think it's a complete waste spending money on accommodation," Wendy says. "I could sleep under a tree but the husband is not so keen."</p> <p>On a five-week trip to Cambodia and Vietnam four years ago, which Wendy describes as "just astounding", they slept in some very basic accommodation.</p> <p>"In Cambodia, we stayed on an island in little huts. Most of the other people there were way younger but it didn't matter. I just love talking to people about their lives."</p> <p>In Vietnam, the couple took a train to Sapa which Wendy says was like something out of the Cold War, sharing a compartment with a young couple on their honeymoon ("poor folks"), before joining a guided trek, staying with members of local hill tribes.</p> <p>"It was muddy, dirty, wet and hot," Wendy says. "The oven was a hole in the floor - it was incredibly basic. I can't imagine a lot of people my age would want to do it but I loved every minute of it."</p> <p>The couple spent their money on visiting attractions such as Angkor Wat, museums and eating everything they had been told not to at street food stalls. Invited out to dinner one night by fellow westerners, they were disappointed to discover the menu was Europeanised.</p> <p>"We asked if they had tried street food and they said "oh no, you'll get sick". I kind of felt a bit sad for them."</p> <p>The couple are now planning a four-month trip to Europe, intending to stay at backpacker accommodation and "call on a few favours" with friends who have stayed with them in Queenstown to keep costs down. They will be travelling with backpacks small enough to take as carry-on luggage on the plane and cooking at their hostels so they can eat as the locals do.</p> <p>At this stage, they think they will begin in Belgium in France, where they will visit WWI and II battlefields, and then travel to Scotland (Wendy has become more interested in exploring her Scottish heritage as she gets older), England, Ireland and perhaps Croatia and Poland.  </p> <p>In some ways, backpacking is less risque than it was back in the 80s, Wendy says.</p> <p>"We use websites to see what's popular and, with reviews, there's a lot less chance of ending up somewhere with bed bugs. In New York [in the 80s], we stayed in a youth hostel that turned out to be the most horrifying place - the rooms were smaller than cells and it was full of prostitutes."</p> <p>As frequent caravanners, Wendy says she and David have no qualms about backpacking.</p> <p>"I just enjoy the energy of young people. If we're in a hostel or backpackers, being among younger people I find it fantastic."</p> <p>Barbara Iverson, a 79-year-old Aucklander, is another whose fond memories of staying in hostels in her younger years prompted her to reconsider it as a more mature traveller.</p> <p>A keen rower for about 50 years, Barbara had always wanted to visit Lake Bled in Slovenia which, in rowing circles is just as renowned for its international regattas as its photogenic church on an islet.</p> <p>Barbara was in town for the World Rowing Masters Regatta last December, an event she has competed in herself in the past, and decided the local hostel "was the best way to go" because of its reasonable prices and close proximity to the lake.</p> <p>Arriving to find she was staying on the top floor, Barbara says she "had to bribe a young rower" to carry up her suitcase, but other than that, had a "very comfortable" experience.</p> <p>"There was a little alcove that looked over the castle. The view was just magical."</p> <p>Barbara says there was a variety of people staying at the hostel, of a variety of ages, and that everyone was "very helpful". While a few of the rower guests liked to party, she said most were keen to get to bed early after a long day on the lake.</p> <p>"It was easy to make your meals and the bathroom was good. You just had to be respectful of other people."</p> <p>Barbara says she would recommend staying at hostels and using cheaper forms of transport to "more relaxed" older travellers, provided they're prepared to "expect the unexpected".</p> <p>"But if things are not right or you need a favour, don't hesitate to ask," she advises.</p> <p>With an aging global population and technology making international travel easier and cheaper than ever before, the baby boomer backpacking trend looks set to continue.</p> <p>To Wendy, this comes as little surprise.</p> <p>"I think they grey tsunami are very fit and active and they've worked hard and now they want to play hard," she says.</p> <p><em>Written by Lorna Thornber. Republished with permission of <a href="http://www.stuff.co.nz/" target="_blank"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Stuff.co.nz.</span></strong></a></em></p>

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Why I’m still backpacking at 72

<p><em><strong>Geraldine Forster is proof it’s never too late to follow your thirst for adventure. The intrepid over-60 explains why she’s still backpacking at the ripe old age of 72.</strong></em></p> <p>When I retired at 65, I bought a one-way ticket to Bangkok, packed a rucksack and waved goodbye to my family. I had no plans, I just knew I wanted to travel.</p> <p>Seven years later, I'm still travelling the world.</p> <p>So far I've visited 50 countries, from the completely unspoilt Myanmar to the magical, photogenic Czech Republic – all a far cry from my native Essex.</p> <p>I've hugged elephants in Thailand, shared a happy New Year's Eve with a hostel owner and his family in China, and eaten copious local delicacies – be it ants' eggs in Cambodia or snake in Taiwan. I can't imagine settling down. Until I retired, I'd never dreamed of leaving behind my family for a long holiday, never mind several years. But after 30 years of slogging away running a hair salon and supporting my three children (now in their 40s) as a single parent, I finally felt free.</p> <p>I speak to my family regularly on Facebook and WhatsApp, and I keep a blog so they know what I'm up to and where I am. I stay in hostels (because they're cheaper and I'm travelling on a pension) and often blog about the people I meet – you get a real mishmash.</p> <p>It can be annoying, especially when people roll in at 3am or decide to repack their luggage in the middle of the night, but I like the community vibe and I've learnt to be open-minded.</p> <p>I once had dinner with a lovely Spanish backpacker in Bangkok who seemed perfectly respectable, but then told me quite matter-of-factly about his love of fetish clubs. I thought it was funny and blogged about it the next morning – but my youngest son called me up, furious.</p> <p>My eight-year-old granddaughter had been reading about it. "Mother!" he cried, "I can't believe you're writing pornography. I thought you were sightseeing." I really hadn't seen it like that – I have become very accepting.</p> <p>My most dangerous trip so far was a tour of Kashmir, South Asia, last year. The mountain landscape is dramatic, just like a film set, but it's not the safest place because of terrorism.</p> <p>I was also harassed a few times by men – it's a very conservative Muslim area and, as a blonde woman on my own, I stood out. I'm only 155cm, but I think of myself as pretty strong. If a man threatens me, I tell him to leave me alone, and I'm prepared to whack him with my camera if he doesn't.</p> <p>My family long for me to be a normal grandmother to my four grandchildren. I love them dearly but it's not going to happen. We all have the right to realise our dreams – and I still have 101 places to visit including Argentina, to learn the tango. I hope my grandson, now 14, will join me when he's old enough.</p> <p>When people say, "Don't you think you're a bit old to be doing this?" (as they often do), my answer is always the same: I'm healthy and full of energy. And I don't think anyone should be limited by age.</p> <p>Could you ever see yourself taking a trip like this?</p> <p><em>Written by Geraldine Forster. First appeared on <a href="http://www.stuff.co.nz/" target="_blank"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Stuff.co.nz</span></strong></a>.</em></p>

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70-year-old backpacker hitchhiking through Middle East

<p>Knitting, gardening, golf, bowls - not for Ahmed Asgher.</p> <p>The 70-year-old retiree is an unlikely backpacker.</p> <p>And his latest trip was going to be his most dangerous yet - with plans to try his luck at hitchhiking from Kabul in Afghanistan to Aleppo in Syria.</p> <p>But a mate has gone away, leaving him without a place to crash in Kabul so the Kiwi is settling for a three-month sojourn from the Persian Gulf through to southern Iran.</p> <p>The Auckland local says all he needs is inner peace, his passport and a change of clothes.</p> <p>It's his sixth hitchhiking trip. His list of adventures includes two hitchhiking trips to Europe and three in the Middle East.</p> <p>Asgher says he prefers to hitchhike because it puts him close to the locals.</p> <p>"I love being around people and finding out about their stories."</p> <p>Asgher says he came closest to "what people may consider dangerous" while travelling through Saddam Hussein's Iraq in 1976 when he was shot at by the guards at the border.</p> <p>But despite his close encounter with bullets at the border he is not afraid to set off to the turbulent region again.</p> <p>"Everywhere is safe. Peace is not outside," he says.</p> <p> Asgher says he rarely stands on the side of the road signalling for a lift.</p> <p>"You put word out and someone who knows someone will talk to someone else and there will be a ride ready and waiting for you."</p> <p>Asgher says he has an idea of his itinerary but will do most of the planning while on the journey. He plans to use a map, but does not believe in using GPS and he also prefers not to stay in tourist hotels.</p> <p>Asgher will begin his journey through Iran by paying respect to his grandfather's grave in the Pars region of Iran.</p> <p>But first he will start off in April by heading to Dubai, before hitchhiking his way to Oman and from there he will take a boat trip to the island of Kish in the Persian Gulf. He will then return to land in Iran.</p> <p>Next he plans to travel 500 kilometres to the the southwestern city of Ahwaz.</p> <p>After Ahwaz he hopes to meet local gypsies and travel with them to Tehran.</p> <p>Asgher says he cannot imagine his life without travel.</p> <p>"I love travelling - it is in my blood."</p> <p>And he's not giving up on Afghanistan or Aleppo.</p> <p>"I will still do that trip, but I need to have someone to put me up."</p> <p><em>Written by Mahvash Ali. First appeared on <a href="http://www.Stuff.co.nz" target="_blank"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>Stuff.co.nz</strong></span></a>. image credit: Mahvash Ali / Fairfax NZ.</em></p> <p><strong>Related links: </strong></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><em><a href="http://www.oversixty.com.au/lifestyle/retirement-life/2017/02/merche-benson-61-year-old-dragon-boat-competitor-for-australia/">Competing for Australia’s dragon boating team at 61</a></em></strong></span></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><em><a href="http://www.oversixty.com.au/lifestyle/retirement-life/2017/01/101-year-old-woman-reveals-secret-to-long-life/">101-year-old woman reveals secret to long life</a></em></strong></span></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><em><a href="http://www.oversixty.com.au/lifestyle/retirement-life/2017/01/great-grandma-finishes-degree-after-50-year-break/">Great-grandma finishes degree after 50-year break</a></em></strong></span></p>

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Boom-packer: 64-year-old grandma backpacks around Europe

<p>I’m sure there are many baby boomers out there who remember backpacking in your younger years. With a rucksack on our back and little money in the pocket, backpacking is about exploring cities in faraway places and sleeping in questionable beds. Fast-forward a few decades and it’s safe to say most of us prefer more luxurious holiday travel plans. However, backpacking has changed a lot since those days – it’s much safer and cleaner – meaning everyone, even over-60s, can (and should) do it! In fact, this is becoming a trend and one that has already been coined, “boom-packing”.</p> <p>Just ask Over60 community member, Judi Bradshaw, 64, from Parmelia, Western Australia who found the whole experience “amazing, fun, exhausting and exhilarating”.</p> <p>Judi and her daughter went on a whirlwind European trip for four weeks – and yes, they backpacked the whole way!</p> <p>“Backpacking was my plan from the start as I don't like planned structured holidays,” Judi tells Over60. “I’m a bit of a wing it girl through life anyway so to me it was about the freedom to stay or move when it suited us.”</p> <p>With only carry-on luggage in tow, the only thing the mother-daughter duo booked was flights into Paris and the first two nights’ accommodation. From Paris to Barcelona to Berlin, Judi and her daughter travelled with ease.</p> <p>“Backpackers accommodation was fantastic but we did book private rooms where we had our own bathroom,” explains Judi.  “Laundry facilities in all accommodation was always available hence the carry-on luggage.”</p> <p>Judi wasn’t worried or even phased about not having anything booked in advance. “Computers are available for use at all accommodation to book travel and accommodation in the next country to visit,” she explains, “but we mainly used our phones to book anything, all from the comfort of our room.”</p> <p>And what a comfortable and easy experience the trip was. “Tours were always available through reception in accommodation,” Judi says, continuing, “although in Rome we bought a 24-hour pass on a hop on hop off open top double decker bus which took us to all the sites we wanted to see like the Colosseum.”</p> <p>It’s not to say backpacking didn’t come with challenges but Judi always saw the positive side of things.</p> <p>“We encountered our only hiccup when our Athens to Rome flight was cancelled. We got there in the end via Bulgaria which was another country on the passport!” says Judi, continuing, “some people might not like the uncertainty of nothing planned, but if you can retain a sense of humour and can think on your feet it's a fantastic way to travel. Look for the solution not the problem.”</p> <p>Although Judi was determined to travel light the whole trip she had to admit defeat in the beautiful Greek island of Santorini.</p> <p>“We spent six nights in this idyllic part of the world and while this was our relaxation time we did manage to get off the sun lounges for a day for a boat ride to climb an active volcano then on to visit Ora for the sunset and overlooking the postcard buildings,” she smiles. “We conceded defeat here and bought a suitcase because the shopping was great as were the people – and the food too.”</p> <p>After the four weeks came to a close, it was clear that Judi had a trip of a lifetime.</p> <p>“I still look back in amazement – travelling with my daughter, the fantastic places we saw, the adventures we had, the people that we met, the laughs we had along the way, the appreciation of life and history I could share with her on our visit to the concentration camp [in Berlin],” recalls Judi.</p> <p>“A reward in life you cannot buy, just a life experience,” she simply states.</p> <p>For any Over60s members concerned about whether they can keep up backpacking, Judi advises not to let health worries get in the way of life’s many possibilities.</p> <p>“I do have quite bad osteoporosis but never let it get in the way of life,” explains Judi, whose positive attitude sees the best of the backpacker lifestyle. “It’s just a condition that you have to be aware of… exercise is must so lots of walking up and down stairs at train stations was good and a lot of walking and sightseeing,” the traveller says, continuing, “Health issues, I'll worry about when I get old”.</p> <p>If there’s one thing Judi takes away from this experience – apart from the amazing memories with her beloved daughter – it that she wants all over-60s to consider giving backpacking a go. “In our travels we only saw one other couple close to my age backpacking,” she smiles. “Backpacking was an amazing experience and would love to see more people my age out there doing this. I would do it again in a heartbeat.” </p>

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