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Readers respond: What was the first ever album you bought?

<p>Everyone has that early album that made them fall in love with music and changed who they are.</p> <p>For many, the first album you buy stays one of your favourite records throughout your life, because the hits you love never truly grow old. </p> <p>We asked our readers what the first album they bought was, and the response was overwhelming.</p> <p>Here's what they said.</p> <p><strong>Diane Brown</strong> - Carol King's Tapestry and Rod Stewart's Every Picture Tells a Story.</p> <p><strong>Kerrie Ross</strong> - Sound of Music 33rpm I was in Primary School.</p> <p><strong>Julie Ennor </strong>- The Beatles, Hard Days Night.</p> <p><strong>Wilma Bill Towells</strong> - Soundtrack to My Fair Lady, probably 70 years ago.</p> <p><strong>Suzanne Jones</strong> - ABBA! It was a birthday gift along with my first turn table. </p> <p><strong>Carol Anderson</strong> - Joe Cocker, the album. Loved him ever since 1972, and I have seen him live many times.</p> <p><strong>Josephine Cray</strong> - Get Yer Ya-Yas Out, by the Rolling Stones. Still their best!</p> <p><strong>Annie Barry</strong> - Best of 1969. l was 12 and my Mum got it for my Christmas present.</p> <p><strong>Mandy Goldsworthy</strong> - Let It Be by The Beatles for Christmas in 1971. </p> <p><strong>Ann Drobnic</strong> - Roy Orbison's Greatest Hits.</p> <p><strong>Kaye Hillary</strong> - The best of Janis Joplin</p> <p><strong>Sharon White</strong> - Soundtrack to Oliver followed closely by Diana Ross and Marvin Gaye.</p> <p><strong>Christine Mulhall</strong> - The Righteous Bros Greatest Hits.</p> <p><strong>Marilyn Atkinson</strong> - Atlantic's Bombora, still have it!</p> <p><strong>Phill Johnston</strong> - Teaser and the Firecat by Cat Stevens.</p> <p><strong>Deni Symington</strong> - Schools Out, by Alice Cooper.</p> <p><strong>Sue Crofts</strong> - The Rolling Stones - title of the first album they did. 1964.</p> <p><strong>Glen Crawford</strong> - I bought 2 with my first pay in February 1966. Most of The Animals and The Rolling Stones Big Hits High Tide and Green Grass.</p> <p><strong>Christine Stanway</strong> - Sergeant Pepper’s in February 1970 with my first pay check.</p> <p><strong>Jan Franklyn</strong> - Singing the Blues by Guy Mitchell. An old 78 record and still have it.</p> <p><em>Image credits: Getty Images</em></p>

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Woman got so drunk she forgot she bought a house

<p dir="ltr">A UK woman’s recent purchase of a home came as a surprise, after she confessed she was so drunk when she placed a bid that she forgot about it.</p> <p dir="ltr">Luana Ribeira, 40, told the <em><a href="https://www.dailystar.co.uk/news/latest-news/woman-drunk-work-forgot-bidding-28046594" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Daily Star</a></em> that she had gone with a friend to see the house, which was up for auction, before her surprisingly rambunctious night.</p> <p dir="ltr">“I went to see a house with a friend as it was on auction, but my friend didn’t want it as it was in a rough area,” she explained.</p> <p dir="ltr">“I liked the property and thought it could be really lovely and a good investment.</p> <p dir="ltr">“So, I went to the nightclub where I worked, stayed afterwards and got very drunk.”</p> <p dir="ltr">After finishing her night shift, the founder of Dauntless PR remembered how “one drink turned to two”, which then turned into drinking games before the rest became a blur.</p> <p dir="ltr">The next day, her then-boyfriend informed her that she got home at 8.30am, insisted on calling the real estate agent, putting an offer on the house and going to bed.</p> <p dir="ltr">“I woke up hungover and my boyfriend at the time was very annoyed, and was giving me the silent treatment,” she recalled.</p> <p dir="ltr">She was then informed that her offer of £20,000 ($NZ 37,000) was successful.</p> <p dir="ltr">Though it may have been made under unusual circumstances, Ms Ribeira’s decision to place a bid proved to be fruitful.</p> <p dir="ltr">After 12 months, she sold the home for double what she paid and used it to purchase another.</p> <p dir="ltr">Ms Ribeira then made £20,000 on the second home, going on to earn another £20,000 on a third, and using her earnings to start a new life and business in Portugal.</p> <p><span id="docs-internal-guid-57ea2072-7fff-99ce-e0d1-5d668ee1ddf1"></span></p> <p dir="ltr"><em>Image: @launadauntlesspr (Instagram)</em></p>

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She was mistakenly transferred $10.5m – so she bought a mansion

<p dir="ltr">A costly bungle has resulted in two Aussie women going on a spending spree and a cryptocurrency company left $10.5 million ($NZD 11.76 million) out of pocket.</p> <p dir="ltr">Thevamanogari Manivel received the hefty injection of cash after Crypto.com, one of the world’s largest cryptocurrency trading platforms, attempted to process a refund of just $100 ($NZD 111) in May last year.</p> <p dir="ltr">But, instead of sending through the refund, an account number was entered in the payment section, resulting in the accidental transfer.</p> <p dir="ltr">Seven months later, the company has launched legal action against Ms Manivel and her sister, Thilagavathy Gangadory, after discovering the error during an audit in December, per court documents.</p> <p dir="ltr">The only issue is that the sisters have already spent a chunk of the cash.</p> <p dir="ltr">The court found that Ms Manivel transferred the funds into a joint account last year, before taking out some of the money to buy a $1.35 million ($NZD 1.51 million) property in the Melbourne suburb of Craigieburn in February 2022.</p> <p dir="ltr">It’s understood that Ms Manivel bought the five-bedroom home - which reportedly includes a gym and home cinema - as a gift for her sister.</p> <p dir="ltr">The home, which sold on February 3 according to property records, is described as having a “monochrome palette”, four “designer” bathrooms, an outdoor entertaining area and an expansive kitchen/dining/family area with a butler’s pantry, per <a href="https://www.realestate.com.au/sold/property-house-vic-craigieburn-138330146">the listing</a>, </p> <p dir="ltr">According to the <em><a href="https://www.heraldsun.com.au/news/victoria/cryptocom-goes-to-court-to-recoup-105m-it-incorrectly-sent-to-melbourne-woman/news-story/1e2d91d007d1257593cf5d0d99f1477d" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Herald Sun</a></em>, Ms Manivel sent $430,000 ($NZD 481,000) to her daughter and transferred the ownership of the home to her sister, Ms Gangadory.</p> <p dir="ltr">Crypto.com has since won part of its legal battle after a judge in Victoria’s Supreme Court ordered that the luxury home be sold and that the $1.35 million be returned to the company, along with $27,369 ($NZD 30,644) in interest and other costs.</p> <p dir="ltr">It is believed that separate orders have been made for the remaining sum.</p> <p dir="ltr">Because Ms Gangadory failed to appear in court for the May hearing, Justice James Dudley Elliott said that “the allegations in the statement of claim are taken to be admitted”, after the reasons for his judgement were made <a href="http://publicly" target="_blank" rel="noopener">publicly available</a> last week.</p> <p dir="ltr">If Ms Gangadory doesn’t put the property on the market, a receiver could be appointed to arrange its sale or, if she ignores the orders, she could be in contempt of court, as reported by <em><a href="https://7news.com.au/news/vic/cryptocurrency-platform-cryptocom-accidentally-transfers-105-million-to-melbourne-woman-c-8058203" target="_blank" rel="noopener">7News</a></em>.</p> <p dir="ltr">“There’s no doubt that if you saw that in your account you would know it shouldn’t be there, and the onus is actually on you to actually call the sender and to say look that shouldn’t have come into my account,” Justin Lawrence from Henderson and Ball Lawyers told the outlet.</p> <p dir="ltr">“If you’re withholding property of someone else you’re effectively holding property by deception, you’re not entitled to it, you need to give it back.”</p> <p dir="ltr">The case is scheduled to return to court in October.</p> <p><span id="docs-internal-guid-c94f8e48-7fff-2553-0c20-ee3fb00a4876"></span></p> <p dir="ltr"><em>Images: Realestate.com.au/Getty Images</em></p>

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Why Elon Musk just bought Twitter

<p>Twitter is set to be taken private after being purchased by billionaire Elon Musk.<br />The board of directors have unanimously agreed to Musk’s offer, and have sold the social media platform to him for $US44 billion.</p> <p>The deal brings the internet’s most influential platform under the control of one of the world’s richest people. Musk himself, a prolific Twitter user, has repeatedly denounced efforts to moderate speech on the service: “Free speech is the bedrock of a functioning democracy, and Twitter is the digital town square where matters vital to the future of humanity are debated,” he said in a statement.</p> <p>“I also want to make Twitter better than ever by enhancing the product with new features, making the algorithms open source to increase trust, defeating the spam bots, and authenticating all humans.</p> <p>“Twitter has tremendous potential — I look forward to working with the company and the community of users to unlock it.”</p> <p>“The Twitter Board conducted a thoughtful and comprehensive process to assess Elon’s proposal with a deliberate focus on value, certainty, and financing,” said board chair Bret Taylor in a statement.</p> <p>ln April, it was first revealed that Musk had acquired a 9.2% stake in Twitter, making him one of the company’s biggest shareholders.<br />Since then, Musk and the company had engaged in a corporate battle over the future of the company.</p> <p>So, why does Elon Musk want twitter?<br />Elon Musk essentially purchased a social network that he openly admitted might cause much of the world to hate him.</p> <p>“Everyone will still blame me for everything,” Musk said during an interview at a TED conference on Thursday.</p> <p>“If I acquire Twitter and something goes wrong, it’s my fault 100%. I think there will be quite a few errors.”<br />Musk has repeatedly stressed in recent days that his goal is to bolster free speech on the platform and work to “unlock” Twitter’s “extraordinary potential”.</p> <p>Others have suggested he may be more interested in boosting attention for himself, whether or not the deal goes through.</p> <p>To hear Musk tell it, the goal of his Twitter offer is "nothing less than protecting civilisation as we know it".</p> <p>“My strong intuitive sense is that having a public platform that is maximally trusted and broadly inclusive is extremely important to the future of civilisation.”</p> <p>Among Musk’s plans for the platform are making its algorithm open source and also making it more transparent to users when, for example, a tweet has been emphasised or demoted in their feed. He has also stated he would like to have more lenient content moderation policies.</p> <p>We all know Musk has long used Twitter to build his brand and communicate with his more than 80 million followers, and troll those he views as his detractors. Some might say, he is buying the platform where he derives the most popularity.</p> <p><em>Image: Getty</em></p>

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Teenager donates newly-bought car to flood victim

<p>A generous teenager has helped change the life of one of NSW's flood victims by giving him a car. </p> <p>Harry Ledger, a 17-year-old from Kiama, had recently travelled to the flood-affected area of Lismore to help in the mammoth clean up effort from devastating floods. </p> <p>After doing everything he could to help the clean up, Harry decided he wanted to do more than just get his hands dirty. </p> <p>With the help of his family, Harry took the car he recently bought (after saving up for more than two years) and gave it to Dylan: a local who had lost everything in the flood. </p> <p>Natasha Shearer, who helped coordinate Harry’s generous donation, posted about the moment Harry handed over the keys at the weekend.</p> <p><iframe style="border: none; overflow: hidden;" src="https://www.facebook.com/plugins/post.php?href=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2Fnshearerlambert%2Fposts%2F10159694343075926&amp;show_text=true&amp;width=500" width="500" height="809" frameborder="0" scrolling="no" allowfullscreen="allowfullscreen"></iframe></p> <p>“Dylan was at work at the time and had no idea Harry was about to hand him a car,” Natasha wrote.</p> <div id="ad-slot_out-of-page-mobile_section-index-1_pos-2" data-section-index="1"></div> <p>“Dylan was in shock and really couldn’t believe that someone especially a beautiful young 17-year-old would come and hand over a car like that.”</p> <p>Harry had been saving over the last few years to buy the champagne-coloured Nissan, and decided to give it to the man who had lost his own home and car, and was couch-surfing for a place to stay and getting around on a pushbike. </p> <p>“We brought him out to the car,” Natasha told the <a href="https://www.abc.net.au/news/2022-04-12/teenager-donates-car-to-northern-nsw-flood-victim/100982504" target="_blank" rel="noopener">ABC</a>.</p> <p>“We told him we had a few things for him in the car and, the next thing, Harry handed him the keys."</p> <p>“He cried, he couldn’t believe it. He was very, very appreciative and in shock.”</p> <p>While the clean-up efforts are continuing in Northern NSW, one local's life is now a little easier. </p> <p><em>Image credits: Facebook</em></p>

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Bought for $1.5m, selling for $40m: Richard Gere lists New York mega-mansion

<p>A year after forking out $9.8 million for a new family home in upstate New York, Richard Gere is trying to unload his other upstate property he purchased back in 1986.</p><p>The actor, aged 72, listed his sprawling 19.4ha compound in Pound Ridge for a whopping $28 million (AU$39.3 million) in October.</p><p>Nearly 35 years ago, he had purchased the land for just $1.51 million, property records reveal.</p><p>Known for his leading roles in “Pretty Woman” and “American Gigolo,” Gere is hoping to start over in a seven-bedroom, nine-bathroom house after welcoming children in 2019 and 2020 with his wife, Alejandra Silva.</p><p>The main residence at the Pound Ridge compound — only an hour away from New York City — is made up of eight bedrooms and 11 bathrooms and spans over 1,080 sqm.</p><p>Made up of five structures in total, with stables and a pool, the estate comes with 4,300 acres of protected land.</p><p>Dubbed as a “magical country compound,” the property features a winding country lane that makes its way through the grounds. Outside is a private lake with a Sandy Beach, and a separate island to row out to, according to the listing.</p><p>Other features include aesthetic views of rolling hills (reserved for horseback riding), a hidden soccer field and several mature plantings that surround the compound.</p><p>After buying his new colonial home last year, he dropped another $700,000 on a vacant neighbouring block, which expanded the property to about 35 acres.</p><p><em>Images: Real estate.com</em></p>

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Bought for $225k, sold for $43 million

<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Three siblings from southeast Melbourne have become multi-millionaires overnight after selling their family’s former pea farm in Officer.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The life changing sale saw the siblings sell the 12.3 hectare Rix Road block for $43 million last week - $11 million above the reserve price - after attracting local and international developers looking to snap up the urban growth zone site.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">According to CoreLogic records, the property last sold in 1988 for just $225,000.</span></p> <p><img style="width: 500px; height: 281.25px;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7843065/farm.jpg" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/b2166570146d461781ba882a30749666" /></p> <p><em><span style="font-weight: 400;">Image: realestate.com.au</span></em></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The </span><em><span style="font-weight: 400;">Sun Herald</span></em><span style="font-weight: 400;"> reported that the siblings and their elderly mother were the beneficiaries of the trio’s late stepfather’s estate, which included the land.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">CBRE agent David Minty, who brokered the sale along with fellow CBRE agents, said the three siblings were aged in their 50s and had “standard” day jobs.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“They weren’t wealthy people so this is completely life changing for them,” he said.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“It’s a really special sale just knowing how life changing it is for this particular family. You go from a simple day job, you don’t have a huge amount of money, and all of a sudden you’ve got a sizable sum. They’ve always been a private, courteous and respectful family. They may just maintain their same lifestyles - they’re not flashy people.”</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Mr Minty said the land had formerly been used to grow peas, and he believed the siblings’ grandfather had worked as a farmer for former Governor-General and federal minister Lord Richard Casey, which the City of Casey was named after.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Developers YouLand and Satterley have projects surrounding the block, but YourLand, backed by Japanese company Nippon, was able to secure the sale.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“We’re experiencing strong demand from developers looking to secure development pipelines in this region, which is unlikely to be satisfied in a market which is very short on appropriately zoned or earmarked landholdings,” said Mr Murfale, who also brokered the deal.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">It is understood that the buyer paid more than it hoped for, having first offered the family $27 million off-market last year.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“The sale price smashes all metrics achieved for a development site sale in Officer, representing a record rate of $3.65 million per hectare,” Mr Minty said.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“Whether it’s a shift in mindset with COVID, with people wanting to live out in the areas and buy their own house and set up their families, [the demand is] just quite extraordinary.”</span></p>

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New Lamborghini wrecked 20 minutes after owner bought it

<p>A brand new Lamborghini has been written off 20 minutes after its new owner picked it up.</p> <p>The car had broken down due to a mechanical failure and was hit from behind by an "innocent motorist".</p> <p>The supercar is worth an estimated $360,000 and was hit by a van.</p> <p>Photos of the incident were shared by the Twitter account of West Yorkshire Police in the UK which shows the damage.</p> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet"> <p dir="ltr">M1 Ossett today - It’s only a car ! But on this occasion a 20 minute old brand new Lamborghini that stopped due mechanical failure in lane 3 them hit from behind by an innocent motorist <a href="https://twitter.com/hashtag/couldhavecried?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">#couldhavecried</a> <a href="https://t.co/S1f9YEQGcD">pic.twitter.com/S1f9YEQGcD</a></p> — WYP Roads Policing Unit (@WYP_RPU) <a href="https://twitter.com/WYP_RPU/status/1275860418058235904?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">June 24, 2020</a></blockquote> <p>The officers seemed to take the incident to heart as they used the hashtag #couldhavecried.</p> <p>There are no details on how the owner feels, but Twitter users had a lot to say about the incident.</p> <p>“I don’t even know the person and could cry for them,” one person responded.</p> <p>“I really hope that was insured,” another wrote.</p> <p>Some were confused as to why the car broke down.</p> <p>“Feel sorry for the Lamborghini showroom that sold it! Boy are they gonna get an angry phone call!” one person wrote.</p> <p>“Mechanical failure after twenty minutes? So my ten-year-old Kia is better than a Lamborghini. Good to know,” another said.</p> <p>Others hoped that everyone left the incident unscathed.</p> <p>“Assuming nobody was hurt, I can’t help but find this hilarious,” one person commented.</p> <p>“The insurance company might be crying when they get the bill ... as will the driver who hit it,” another suggested.</p> <p>“I hope there were no injuries, other than the owner’s pride,” a third added.</p>

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Keith Urban reveals the sexy gift he bought wife Nicole Kidman

<p>Keith Urban and wife Nicole Kidman watched the ball drop together on New Year’s Eve in Nashville, where Urban headlined the Jack Daniel’s Music City Midnight: New Year’s Eve performance. </p> <p>Just before hitting the stage, the happy couple were interviewed on live television where they spoke with CNN's Andy Cohen and Anderson Cooper. When asked what presents they gave each other during the festive season, the couple revealed their Christmas gifts to the hosts whilst laughing and flirting with each other the whole time. </p> <p>“I gave him an electric bike, which is kind of cool,” Kidman revealed. “It folds up, and it’s really cool, and he really wanted it.”</p> <p>As for Keith’s present for Nicole, at first he didn’t seem to want to share the details about it... “Ya know, umm, things we can’t talk about,” he said before Nicole added, “A lot of love. We can talk about it.” </p> <p>“A lot of La Perla,” Keith admitted, referring to the luxury lingerie brand. He also got her a “backpack” and some “amazing jewellery”.</p> <p>The couple spent Christmas in Sydney with their two daughters Faith Margaret and Sunday Rose, along with Nicole’s family.</p> <p>Sharing rare and an intimate snap of herself with her sister and mother on Facebook, Nicole wrote, "I love these women from the deepest part of my soul. So grateful to have spent the holidays with my mumma and sister." </p> <p>What is the best Christmas gift you have received from your partner? We would love to hear from you in the comments.</p>

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26-carat diamond ring bought for $18 at car boot sale

<p>A spectacular diamond ring is expected to fetch $656,000 (£350,000) at auction - 30 years after it was purchased for just £10, or $18, at a car boot sale.</p> <p>The 26.27-carat white diamond was initially thought to be fake because 19th century stones were not cut to perfection like today's gems.</p> <p>The owner believed the "exceptionally sized" rock was a piece of costume jewellery when she bought it at West Middlesex Hospital in Isleworth, west London, in the 1980s, the <em><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="http://www.bbc.com/news/uk-england-london-39995908" target="_blank">BBC reported</a></strong></span></em>. </p> <p>However, after wearing the ring for decades the owner bought it into the auction house Sotheby's after a jeweller said it could have substantial value.</p> <p>Jessica Wyndham, head of London's jewellery department at Sotherby's, said the owner would wear it out shopping, wear it day-to-day.</p> <p>"It's a good looking ring."</p> <p>"But it was bought as a costume jewel. No-one had any idea it had any intrinsic value at all. They enjoyed it all this time", she said.</p> <p>Wyndham added: "With an old style of cutting, an antique cushion shape, the light doesn't reflect back as much as it would from a modern stone cutting. Cutters worked more with the natural shape of the crystal, to conserve as much weight of the crystal rather than make it as brilliant as possible.</p> <p>"The older stones have quite a bit of personality. They sparkle in a different way."</p> <p>It will be auctioned at Sotheby's in July.</p> <p><em>First appeared on <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><a href="http://www.stuff.co.nz/" target="_blank">Stuff.co.nz.</a></span></strong></em><a href="http://www.stuff.co.nz/" target="_blank"></a> <em>Image credit: Sotheby's.<strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><br /></span></strong></em></p>

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Happiness can be bought – just not by you

<p>A recent study released by researchers from the London School of Economics (LSE) has shown that more money can, in fact, buy happiness – it’s just not in the way you might think. According to Professor Richard Layard, traditional methods of measuring progress and success should be overhauled, just as politicians should do more to ensure people are living happy lives. Let’s take a look at these arguments in greater detail.</p> <p>In their study, <a href="http://www.lse.ac.uk/website-archive/newsAndMedia/news/archives/2016/12/Relationships-and-happiness.aspx" target="_blank"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><em>Origins of Happiness</em></strong></span></a>, the researchers found that reducing or eliminating negative lifestyle influencers like domestic violence, depression, and anxiety would significantly increase the worldwide happiness index. Professor Layard writes that issues like these, as well as “alienated youth, exam mania and much else… should become centre stage.”</p> <p>Layard suggests that the evidence showing that social relationships, and our mental and physical health are what matter most for our happiness “demands a new role for the state – not ‘wealth creation but wellbeing creation.”</p> <p>The cost of reducing the effects of depression and anxiety in individuals is estimated at just over $16,000 per person per year, which sounds like a lot of money until you realise that the cost of addressing poverty is $295,000 per person per year, and unemployment is $49,000. The researchers found that eliminating depression and anxiety would reduce unhappiness by 20 per cent, while eliminating poverty would see a reduction of five per cent. Given those numbers, it’s easy to see how much more cost-effective it would be for governments to shift their focus away from poverty and unemployment onto mental health issues.</p> <p>Other findings that emerged from the study included the apparent influence of different factors in happiness. Education was shown to have “a very small effect on life satisfaction,” especially when compared against the effects of having a partner. Interestingly, the overall increase in income or education has little effect on the happiness of a population. This is because individuals evaluate their own income and education “against the locally prevailing norm.” Past studies have shown that increase in income usually only correlates to an increase in happiness when the increase is greater in relation to those around an individual.</p> <p>Thinking about your income and your own mental and physical wellbeing, which would you say contributes most to your own happiness?</p>

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I bought a family of 8 pets in retirement

<p><em><strong>Pat Simmons, 69, is a writer of poems, short stories, flash fiction and articles. Her work has been published in anthologies and children’s magazines and she has won writer competitions in Australia and the UK.</strong></em></p> <p>I’ve packed the Christmas decorations away and checked through my received Christmas cards to see who didn’t send me one. (Hope they have a good excuse!)</p> <p>My next task was to collect all the scraps of paper that accumulated around the place from the beginning of December, ignored and abandoned until now. A couple of forgotten bills. Woops! An abundance of junk mail and a ridiculous number of lists. Yes, I still write daily lists, mostly shopping lists but I add TV shows that I must record (even though I never seem to get around to watching them), book titles (I’ll never live long enough to read all the books I list), words I like the sound of, people I must email/ring today and so on. You get the idea.</p> <p>The bills are now paid, the junk mail placed in the recycling bin but the lists – talk about self- discovery! On every shopping list the words “red wine” and “cat food” appear. Time to sit down and reflect on this revelation.</p> <p>In 2013 my beautiful husband to whom I was married for 45 years died of cancer. I’d retired from my job in children’s services to care for him. My life changed that year and will never be quite the same. However, I moved on, sold the family home and bought a house at Scarborough on the beautiful New South Wales south coast.</p> <p>Then I needed to sit down and think about what makes me happy. Easy – my family, my friends, reading, writing and animals. So I bought a cat, a lovely grey Devon Rex who I named Gimli the Grey. I decided that Gimli really needed a friend (you can see the pattern forming can’t you?) so I purchased an elegant white Siamese who I named Mr. Meowgi.</p> <p>I then decided that a dog would also make a great pet and walking a dog is good exercise, isn’t it? So Maggie arrived, a delightful five-year-old French bulldog. If you too, are the owner of a French bulldog, you’ll know that they spend most of their “walk” time just sniffing stuff and very little ground is covered. So much for my exercise idea, ha!</p> <p>I began to notice that when friends and family visited they could be observed frantically brushing pet hair off their smart black clothes and in some cases sneezing a lot due to pet allergies, but hey, by then it was too late!</p> <p>These critters were giving me so much pleasure and I was lucky enough to have a beautiful home with lots of space, so along came Fifi, a delightful old rescue pug. There are so many animals needing homes, I just had to add her to the furry family.</p> <p>The cats were such easy pets and I was fascinated by all the different breeds. So I bought a Bengal kitten and named him Azizi which means “precious one”. I should’ve found a name that means “expensive one” as he became ill not long after I bought him, so vet and animal hospital bills curbed my enthusiasm, and my bank balance for a while. He is now fit and well thank goodness.</p> <p>People started to say to me, “But now you won’t be able to travel.” Travel, I know, is very important to many retirees but it isn’t high on my list. I feel like I’m living in paradise anyway. Should I change my mind on this one, someone can come and live at my place and mind the menagerie…</p> <p>A few weeks ago another cat came into my life, a beautiful black and white rescue moggie who I’ve named Oscar and I’m also fostering two feral kittens until their vet work is done and they’re ready for a forever home.</p> <p>I now recognise the fact that perhaps I am in fact a “Crazy Cat Woman.”</p> <p>Where does the red wine figure in all this I hear you ask? Well it doesn’t really. I just happen to like red wine! </p> <p><em><strong>If you have a story to share please get in touch at melody@oversixty.com.au </strong></em></p> <p><strong>Related links: </strong></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><em><a href="http://www.oversixty.co.nz/lifestyle/retirement-life/2016/04/85-year-old-navy-veteran-learns-to-tap-dance/">85-year-old Navy veteran learns to tap-dance</a></em></strong></span></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><em><a href="http://www.oversixty.co.nz/lifestyle/retirement-life/2016/04/5-new-hobbies-to-try-now/">5 new hobbies to try now</a></em></strong></span></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><em><a href="http://www.oversixty.co.nz/lifestyle/retirement-life/2016/04/why-you-should-still-set-an-alarm-when-you-retire/">Why you should still set an alarm when you retire</a></em></strong></span></p>

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