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"Cringe worthy": Viewers left speechless after star attacks Elmo

<p>Viewers were left shocked after comedian Larry David unexpectedly attacked Elmo during their appearance on the latest episode of the <em>US Today show</em>.</p> <p>The 76-year-old was there to promote the final season of <em>Curb Your Enthusiasm</em>, while Elmo was in the studio alongside his dad Louie to talk about the importance of mental health resources. </p> <p>As the show was transitioning from segment to segment, David walked over to Elmo and smushed his face in before taking a swing at Elmo's dad. </p> <p>The attack caught the show's hosts Savannah Guthrie, Hoda Kotb and Craig Melvin, off-guard and they began shouting at his ill-timed act. </p> <p>“Oh, my gosh, you love Elmo, don’t you?” Guthrie said to David as an equally shocked Melvin exclaimed, “Oh, my God!”</p> <p>While Elmo didn't seem too bothered by the encounter, the 76-year-old was lectured by muppet dad Louie for his strange act. </p> <p>“Ask permission before you touch people, Larry,” Louie said.</p> <p>“Get back on the couch and let’s talk about how you feel,” Elmo added.</p> <p>Guthrie also called out David's inappropriate act and said: “Larry, you’ve gone too far this time." </p> <p>Although the <em>Seinfeld </em>star was later on forced to apologise to the plush duo and Elmo accepted his apology, the situation left many viewers disgruntled, given the topic matter that Elmo was there to discuss. </p> <p>“Larry David ruined a beautiful story,” one person commented on a video of the segment shared to Instagram. </p> <p>“I felt like I was watching Will Smith all over again. Very sad.”</p> <p>“I must say, I was shocked – it was cringe worthy,” another person wrote. </p> <p>“I love Larry David, but he should have stayed seated until his own segment.”</p> <p>“Although you tried to play it off, Larry David totally messed it up … guess no one told him the theme of the segment” a third shocked viewer added.</p> <p><em>Image: US Today Show/ Instagram</em></p>

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“Update me about the divorce”: Groom blasted for terrible wedding vows

<p>A groom has been slammed online for putting "no effort" into his vows on his wedding day. </p> <p>The video of the couple's nuptials was shared to TikTok, where it garnered millions of views and comments absolutely rinsing the groom's poor attempt at heartfelt vows. </p> <p>In the video, the man named Cody was called upon to say his vows to his bride, choosing to say, “I promise to smack that a** every chance I get. Booyah.”</p> <p>“That’s all I got.”</p> <p>The officiant even tried to give him another chance at the vows, asking Cody if he wanted to say anything else, and the laughing man said that was it.</p> <p>The audience was stunned, with one heard saying “Cody no”.</p> <div class="embed" style="font-size: 16px; box-sizing: inherit; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; outline: none !important;"><iframe class="embedly-embed" style="box-sizing: inherit; margin: 0px; padding: 0px; border-width: 0px; vertical-align: baseline; width: 600px; max-width: 100%; outline: none !important;" title="tiktok embed" src="https://cdn.embedly.com/widgets/media.html?src=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.tiktok.com%2Fembed%2Fv2%2F7312230224937127210&amp;display_name=tiktok&amp;url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.tiktok.com%2F%40ckentertainmentservices%2Fvideo%2F7312230224937127210%3Flang%3Den&amp;image=https%3A%2F%2Fp16-sign.tiktokcdn-us.com%2Fobj%2Ftos-useast5-p-0068-tx%2F361ef6750f00485bbdf1a58d57f32a54_1702511281%3Fx-expires%3D1703030400%26x-signature%3DrWstCywhkiKIPPo%252BsCW3HVMnjxM%253D&amp;key=59e3ae3acaa649a5a98672932445e203&amp;type=text%2Fhtml&amp;schema=tiktok" width="340" height="700" frameborder="0" scrolling="no" allowfullscreen="allowfullscreen"></iframe></div> <p>“I didn’t write nothing out. That’s what I’m going with. We’ve made it this long,” he added.</p> <p>The video caused outrage online, with people condemning the man's actions, saying he should've put more effort in on what is supposed to be one of the biggest days of his life. </p> <p>“Even if that’s the kind of humour they have together. The wedding vows should’ve been serious,” one person commented. </p> <p>Another added. “Update me about the divorce.”</p> <p>“‘I didn't write nothing out’ AKA ‘I put no effort into the most important day in our relationship thus far’,” one said.</p> <p>Another added, “Notice how no one is laughing besides him.”</p> <p>"The officiant trying to give him a chance of redemption," one social media user pointed out.</p> <p>Others called for justice for the bride, writing, “Her wedding dress is so pretty, she looked so beautiful. She didn’t deserve that.”</p> <p><em>Image credits: TikTok</em></p>

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One person’s cringe is another’s dream Spongebob proposal

<p dir="ltr">Sometimes it’s best to keep your opinions to yourself, especially when it comes to the one of the most important days of your friend’s life, as one woman has learned the hard way. </p> <p dir="ltr">After witnessing her best friend’s “super cringey and uncomfortable” proposal, she was left with some feedback. Some feedback she felt compelled to share, though her friend - unsurprisingly - was not too thrilled with what she heard. </p> <p dir="ltr">Taking to Reddit’s ‘Am I the A***ole’ (commonly known as AITA), the woman asked other users for their take, wanting to find out if she really was in the wrong, as she just didn’t [get why she’s [her friend] so upset.” </p> <p dir="ltr">“My friend invited a group of us over for her birthday last night. During dinner, her bf leaves the room and comes back playing the harmonica,” she began, before explaining how it had seemed a little odd to her, but that she’d just assumed he was “showing off or something.” </p> <p dir="ltr">That was when things took a turn for the bizarre, with the groom-to-be switching out the harmonica to instead serenade his would-be fiancée with <em>Spongebob</em>’s ‘<a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wzGH_AtmfRw">Gary Come Home</a>’. She noted that he wasn’t a particularly good singer, and that everyone in the room appeared to have the same idea about how cringe-inducing the whole thing was.</p> <p dir="ltr">“After he finishes singing,” the woman continued, “he goes over to my friend [and] gets down on one knee and proposes. She said yes and we all congratulated her but the rest of dinner I was having severe second hand embarrassment.” </p> <p dir="ltr">These thoughts got the better of her in the end, and she went on to explain how she’d approached her friend while the two were cleaning up, and asked what she’d thought of the proposal, adding “I told her it was weird especially since she’s never watched/liked <em>Spongebob</em>. They haven’t really talked about marriage before so she was completely surprised and I told her that makes it even weirder.”</p> <p dir="ltr">Her friend was offended, and made the accusation that the original poster just wasn’t “happy for her”. </p> <p dir="ltr">“I pointed out [that] she seemed embarrassed too during his charade,” she said. It was then revealed that the two hadn’t spoken for the remainder of their evening, and that she still couldn’t understand why her friend had gotten upset, as “a proposal should be romantic, not whatever the f*** that was.” </p> <p dir="ltr">And of her question as to whether or not she was the bad guy in the situation, her fellow Redditors had plenty to say. </p> <p dir="ltr">“Are you the proposal police?” one asked. “It doesn’t matter what anyone thinks of the proposal but your friend! When she asked you for your opinion all you had to do was say, ‘as long as you are happy I’m happy for you’ instead you went on a long tirade about how weird it was.”</p> <p dir="ltr">“What you feel is romantic could well be someone else’s version of horrific. It wasn’t your place to feel second hand embarrassment. It wasn’t your place to tell your friend it was weird,” another chastised. “If she was happy, you should have been happy for her, but instead you’ve made her upset. There was no need for you to do that.”</p> <p dir="ltr">One was of the mind that while yes, she had been out of line with her sharing her opinion, “that proposal was weird and the fiancé forced people to be a part of it with no heads up? It’s cool if they’re both into bad harmonica music and SpongeBob but keep the proposal private. Or let people know what they’re in for.</p> <p dir="ltr">“OP [original poster] deserves a trophy for not laughing during. The friend clearly knew it was weird, but asked anyway. OP should have bit her tongue and had this conversation later, but proposing before ever talking about marriage is also strange. Real friends can be honest with each other, but some more tact was needed.”</p> <p dir="ltr"><em>Images: Getty</em></p>

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The most cringe-worthy moments from the Oscars

<p dir="ltr">On Hollywood’s night of nights, there were many <a href="https://www.oversixty.co.nz/entertainment/movies/dazzling-looks-memorable-moments-and-award-sweeps-the-best-of-the-2023-oscars" target="_blank" rel="noopener">standout moments</a> that had movie fans everywhere cheering on the deserving winners, and those that were rightly dubbed best dressed on the carpet. </p> <p dir="ltr">However, despite the record-breaking wins and wholesome on-stage moments, it seems not everyone was happy with how the night panned out. </p> <p dir="ltr">Media personality Piers Morgan had his own hot takes from the night, naming and shaming the most cringe-worthy moments and worst fashion fails. </p> <p dir="ltr">From awkward moments on the champagne carpet to an endless series of highly questionable outfits, the British broadcaster had some interesting thoughts on the night. </p> <p dir="ltr">He started his attack on acting legend Hugh Grant, who “humiliated” a reporter during an interview that was very hard to watch. </p> <p dir="ltr">Hugh Grant was chatting with Ashley Graham in what can only be described as a quintessentially British interview, as he gave short one-worded answers.</p> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet"> <p dir="ltr" lang="en">Hugh Grant with the greatest Red Carpet interview of all time <a href="https://t.co/cK0E8pBcWK">pic.twitter.com/cK0E8pBcWK</a></p> <p>— Jared Christopher (@JaredLChris) <a href="https://twitter.com/JaredLChris/status/1635107391476989952?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">March 13, 2023</a></p></blockquote> <p dir="ltr">His reluctance to participate in the back and forth pleasantries infuriated Morgan, as he slammed the actor, saying, “If you don’t want to speak to the media, why the hell walk down the longest red carpet in show business?”</p> <p dir="ltr">While Piers seemed outraged by the exchange, others simply called it “the greatest interview of all time”, praising Grant for his nonchalance.</p> <p dir="ltr">Piers also took issue with any kind of light-heartedness on the stage, as he complained about the brief appearance of the “Cocaine Bear”, wishing for it to be “euthanized live on air”. </p> <p dir="ltr">He also took issue with the overwhelming applause given to Jenny the donkey, known for her role in <em>The Banshees of Inisherin</em>, wondering why the mute mule was given “more applause than most of the overly verbose winners”.</p> <p dir="ltr">Before the show began, all eyes were on the stars of Hollywood and their jaw-dropping fashion choices as they made their way down the gold carpet.</p> <p dir="ltr">But unfortunately for some A-listers, their outfits were just not right for the champagne carpet, or even their age. </p> <p dir="ltr">Rihanna chose to highlight her baby bump with a mixture of sheer tulle and black leather in a bondage-style gown, while Lady Gaga chose to take the drop-waist trend to a whole new level by showing off her ass-ets. </p> <p dir="ltr">Nicole Kidman left half her dress at home, while accessorising with enormous flowers in places no flowers should ever be. </p> <p dir="ltr">Eva Longoria left nothing to the imagination with her plunging gown, while Sofia Carson was channelling 2003 bridal couture with her white ball gown. </p> <p dir="ltr">Allison Williams draped herself in her grandmother’s curtains to pair with her pink lace dress, while singer Tems had no regard for those sitting behind her with her sculptural gown, and Janelle Monae channelled her inner teen with a crop top and clashing skirt. </p> <p dir="ltr">Despite all the drama on and off the stage, this year’s Oscars was full of deserving winners, heart-warming speeches and (some) stunning fashion moments, leaving us counting down to next year’s awards. </p> <p dir="ltr"><em>Image credits: Getty Images</em></p>

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"Why would you do that?" Cringe-worthy proposal goes viral

<p>A woman has been filmed looking particularly uncomfortable after being summonsed onto a stage for her boyfriend to propose to her at a New Year's Eve party in Hawaii, in a cringe-worthy video that has since gone viral.</p> <p>The unidentified partygoer's discomfort was on show for all to see after the music was stopped at the swish roof-top bar.</p> <p>She stepped towards a raised platform, then stood awkwardly as her partner, whose identity has also not been shared, began to gush while on bended knee.</p> <p>“I want to say, I'm crazy in love with you. You are the love of my life” he says as the crowd enthusiastically cheer while taking swigs off their cocktails.</p> <p>The unidentified woman who appears embarrassed by the public display of affection, appears stone-faced as spectators watching the romantic scene unfold hold their cell phones eager to capture the spectacular moment.</p> <p>“You make me the happiest man in the world. Will you marry me?” as he presented her with a diamond ring.</p> <p>The woman watched her beau drop to his knees, as he pours his heart out in a gushing monologue in front of all the partygoers as the popular Queen ballad, “Love of my Life,” played in the background.</p> <p>The young woman stands astonished and silent as the nervous boyfriend waits for her response holding out the sparkling ring with an outstretched arm.</p> <p>“It’s a simple yes or no,” he says awkwardly after the woman paused.</p> <p>As the crowd waits for to reply one person who appeared annoyed is overhead saying, “Oh my gosh”.</p> <p>Seconds later the woman says, “Yes” in an uncertain tone, before kissing her man.</p> <p>After the exciting moment ended and the couple walked off the stage they were seen allegedly having a lovers spat.</p> <p>The woman was reportedly mouthing “Why would you do that”?</p> <blockquote class="tiktok-embed" style="max-width: 605px; min-width: 325px;" cite="https://www.tiktok.com/@caesthetically/video/7183785754173246766" data-video-id="7183785754173246766"> <section><a title="@caesthetically" href="https://www.tiktok.com/@caesthetically?refer=embed" target="_blank" rel="noopener">@caesthetically</a> WAIT UNTIL THE END. That was the most awkward thing I’ve ever witnessed. 💀 <a title="nye" href="https://www.tiktok.com/tag/nye?refer=embed" target="_blank" rel="noopener">#nye</a> <a title="proposal" href="https://www.tiktok.com/tag/proposal?refer=embed" target="_blank" rel="noopener">#proposal</a> <a title="♬ original sound - cass" href="https://www.tiktok.com/music/original-sound-7183785756803058474?refer=embed" target="_blank" rel="noopener">♬ original sound - cass</a></section> </blockquote> <p>The TikTok video went viral after a partygoer captured the unfortunate situation.</p> <p>Many critiqued the loving gesture claiming that it may have been the “most awkward proposal of all time”.</p> <p>Some even took it apart rehashing some of the scenes and claiming when it is their turn to walk down the aisle they wouldn't be onboard with a public display of affection like they just witnessed.</p> <p>The video has been viewed more than 4 million times.</p> <p><em>Image: TikTok</em></p>

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Bridesmaid "horrifies" viewers with "cringe" wedding speech

<p>A "horrifying" wedding speech has gone viral online, as a bridesmaid delivered an "awkward" toast to her friend and her new husband. </p> <p>The video, which was originally posted on TikTok, has racked up hundreds of thousands of views, shows a bridesmaid named Shannon standing in front of the congregation to toast the newlyweds. </p> <p>In what should have been an emotional, wholesome speech, it instead got off to a bad start when she appeared to forget how long she's known the bride for. </p> <p>“Hi, I’m Shannon, I’ve known Tracy for...oh god...” she started, before a voice off-camera suggests it’s been nine years.</p> <p>“I don’t quite know Anthony that well,” the woman continued, alluding to the groom.</p> <p>“But Tracy talks about you non-stop. She’d be like ‘Oh, Anthony this, Anthony that’, and I’m like, ‘I don’t care’.”</p> <p>Shannon's fake eye-roll didn't get a laugh from the crowd, as she insisted, "Just kidding!"</p> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet"> <p dir="ltr" lang="en">What…the hell…did I just watch? <a href="https://t.co/smfqexmcsz">pic.twitter.com/smfqexmcsz</a></p> <p>— chris evans (@notcapnamerica) <a href="https://twitter.com/notcapnamerica/status/1585151254464196608?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">October 26, 2022</a></p></blockquote> <p>She continued, “You guys are so cute together.”</p> <p>After telling the groom he’d “better take care of my girl”, Shannon turned to the crowd and said, “I’m not gonna be racist, guys, I’m just saying.”</p> <p>“You guys are outstepping the stereotype and I love it."</p> <p>“You guys, I swear, I love Black people. You guys. Are. The. Best.”</p> <p>Shannon went on to say, “My own daughter’s great-aunt is like, the best woman” before concluding, “You guys are amazing, I love you.”</p> <p>As the video made the rounds online, viewers couldn't believe what they were watching. </p> <p>“What…the hell…did I just watch?” one person asked.</p> <p>“I actually gasped out loud! What in the actual hell??” another weighed in.</p> <div> <p>“Wtaf?! I thought you were just sharing a cringy public speaking clip and that was bad enough, but...then...it took a turn,” another wrote.</p> <p><em>Image credits: TikTok</em></p> </div>

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Billionaire gives away entire company for worthy cause

<p dir="ltr">The owner of outdoor apparel brand Patagonia has announced he will be giving away his company to support the fight against the climate crisis.</p> <p dir="ltr">Yvon Chouinard, who has a net worth of $US 1.2 billion ($AU 1.7 billion or $NZ 2 billion), revealed he will be transferring the ownership of the company to a trust and a not-for-profit that fights climate change.</p> <p dir="ltr">“Each year, the money we make after reinvesting the business will be distributed as a dividend to help fight the crisis,” he wrote in an open letter titled ‘Earth is now our only shareholder’ on the Patagonia website on Wednesday.</p> <p dir="ltr">Mr Chouinard wrote that he considered multiple paths for the company, including selling it or taking it public, which involves selling the company’s shares on a stock exchange.</p> <p dir="ltr">“Instead of ‘going public’, you could say we’re ‘going purpose’,” he said.</p> <p dir="ltr">“Instead of extracting value from nature and transforming it into wealth for investors, we’ll use the wealth Patagonia creates to protect the source of all wealth.”</p> <blockquote class="instagram-media" style="background: #FFF; 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font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;"><a style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none;" href="https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cif5qbAjmgi/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" target="_blank" rel="noopener">A post shared by Patagonia (@patagonia)</a></p> </div> </blockquote> <p dir="ltr">According to the <em>New York Times</em>, Patagonia is valued at about $US 3 billion ($AU 4.4 billion or $NZ 5 billion).</p> <p dir="ltr">The Chouinard family, which controlled Patagonia until last month, no longer owns it, though it will continue to operate as a private, for-profit corporation.</p> <p dir="ltr">Its new owner, an environmental nonprofit called the Holdfast Collective, now owns 98 percent of the company and all the non-voting stock, while the newly-formed Patagonia Purpose Trust owns two percent of the company and all the voting stock.</p> <p dir="ltr">The trust will approve key decisions such as who sits on the board of directors, while the Chouinard family says they will guide the trust and continue to sit on the board.</p> <p dir="ltr">Mr Chouinard founded Patagonia after years of prolific rock climbing and quickly became known for supporting environmental causes.</p> <p dir="ltr">Since 1985, one percent of Patagonia’s total sales have been committed to fighting climate change through One Percent for the Planet, an organisation of which Mr Chouinard is a founding member, and in 2019 the company announced it aimed to be carbon neutral by 2025.</p> <p dir="ltr">Last year, it was announced that Patagonia’s trademark branding would no longer appear on products because “adding an additional non-removable logo reduces the life span of a garment, often by a lot, for trivial reasons”.</p> <p dir="ltr">Though it’s common for wealthy individuals to contribute to various causes, the <em>New York Times</em> reported that the structure of Mr Chouinard’s changes to the company actually means he and his family don’t receive a financial benefit and that he will face a tax bill from the donation.</p> <p dir="ltr"><strong>Here is the full text of the Mr Chouinard's extraordinary statement:</strong></p> <p dir="ltr">"Earth is now our only shareholder.</p> <p dir="ltr">If we have any hope of a thriving planet—much less a business—it is going to take all of us doing what we can with the resources we have.</p> <p dir="ltr">This is what we can do.</p> <p dir="ltr">By Yvon Chouinard</p> <p dir="ltr">I never wanted to be a businessman. I started as a craftsman, making climbing gear for my friends and myself, then got into apparel. As we began to witness the extent of global warming and ecological destruction, and our own contribution to it, Patagonia committed to using our company to change the way business was done. If we could do the right thing while making enough to pay the bills, we could influence customers and other businesses, and maybe change the system along the way.</p> <p dir="ltr">We started with our products, using materials that caused less harm to the environment. We gave away 1% of sales each year. We became a certified B Corp and a California benefit corporation, writing our values into our corporate charter so they would be preserved. More recently, in 2018, we changed the company’s purpose to: We’re in business to save our home planet.</p> <p dir="ltr">While we’re doing our best to address the environmental crisis, it’s not enough. We needed to find a way to put more money into fighting the crisis while keeping the company’s values intact.</p> <p dir="ltr">One option was to sell Patagonia and donate all the money. But we couldn’t be sure a new owner would maintain our values or keep our team of people around the world employed.</p> <p dir="ltr">Another path was to take the company public. What a disaster that would have been. Even public companies with good intentions are under too much pressure to create short-term gain at the expense of long-term vitality and responsibility.</p> <p dir="ltr">Truth be told, there were no good options available. So, we created our own.</p> <p dir="ltr">Instead of “going public,” you could say we’re “going purpose.” Instead of extracting value from nature and transforming it into wealth for investors, we’ll use the wealth Patagonia creates to protect the source of all wealth.</p> <p dir="ltr">Here’s how it works: 100% of the company’s voting stock transfers to the Patagonia Purpose Trust, created to protect the company’s values; and 100% of the nonvoting stock had been given to the Holdfast Collective, a nonprofit dedicated to fighting the environmental crisis and defending nature. The funding will come from Patagonia: Each year, the money we make after reinvesting in the business will be distributed as a dividend to help fight the crisis.</p> <p dir="ltr">It’s been nearly 50 years since we began our experiment in responsible business, and we are just getting started. If we have any hope of a thriving planet—much less a thriving business—50 years from now, it is going to take all of us doing what we can with the resources we have. This is another way we’ve found to do our part.</p> <p dir="ltr">Despite its immensity, the Earth’s resources are not infinite, and it’s clear we’ve exceeded its limits. But it’s also resilient. We can save our planet if we commit to it."</p> <p><span id="docs-internal-guid-73b0b332-7fff-7578-f60d-b7caa2996db0"></span></p> <p dir="ltr"><em>Image: Getty Images</em></p>

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Major cringe: Bride discovers worst possible typo on invitations

<p>A bride-to-be has shared over on social media quite the embarrassing mistake she sent out on wedding invitations to guests.</p> <p>The woman posted a TikTok video showing off the elegant invite, but failed to notice that instead of directing guests to her wedding website to RSVP, she sent them a link to a popular X-rated adult website.</p> <blockquote class="tiktok-embed" style="max-width: 605px; min-width: 325px;" cite="https://www.tiktok.com/@squidward.tentacles/video/7131461119989894446" data-video-id="7131461119989894446"> <section><a title="@squidward.tentacles" href="https://www.tiktok.com/@squidward.tentacles?refer=embed" target="_blank" rel="noopener">@squidward.tentacles</a> Oops <a title="fyd" href="https://www.tiktok.com/tag/fyd?refer=embed" target="_blank" rel="noopener">#fyd</a> <a title="wedding" href="https://www.tiktok.com/tag/wedding?refer=embed" target="_blank" rel="noopener">#wedding</a> <a title="weddingtiktok" href="https://www.tiktok.com/tag/weddingtiktok?refer=embed" target="_blank" rel="noopener">#weddingtiktok</a> <a title="weddingtok" href="https://www.tiktok.com/tag/weddingtok?refer=embed" target="_blank" rel="noopener">#weddingtok</a> <a title="weddingmishaps" href="https://www.tiktok.com/tag/weddingmishaps?refer=embed" target="_blank" rel="noopener">#weddingmishaps</a> <a title="weddinginvitations" href="https://www.tiktok.com/tag/weddinginvitations?refer=embed" target="_blank" rel="noopener">#weddinginvitations</a> <a title="♬ original sound - Squid" href="https://www.tiktok.com/music/original-sound-7131461115967556398?refer=embed" target="_blank" rel="noopener">♬ original sound - Squid</a></section> </blockquote> <p>"So I got my wedding invitations in the mail today. Super exciting," she said in her video.</p> <p>"Except I made a very large mistake that I'm going to share with you guys so other brides don't make this mistake because I'm sure it's super common."</p> <p>She then shows off her "really cute" RSVP card and admits she forgot she put the adult website in as a placeholder and failed to change it to her wedding website.</p> <p>Fellow TikTokers did however find the bride's mistake hilarious.</p> <p>"I think this is hilarious! I checked my invites 1000 times before I finalised because I did the same thing!" someone admitted.</p> <p>"I love this. I’m dying laughing," a third added.</p> <p>"I put the wrong venue address on mine. And didn’t notice until the week before wedding lol FUN!" another claimed.</p> <p>However, others were left confused as to how she allowed it to happen in the first place.</p> <p>Omg. Who spell-checked this? Anyone?" one commented.</p> <p>"Aren’t wedding invitations kinda expensive to not bother proofreading before ordering and mailing out?" another questioned.</p> <p>Some users also criticised the bride, saying the invitation was riddled with spelling mistakes.</p> <p>"Sis. That card needs to run through spell check," a TikToker wrote.</p> <p>"Do you actually think this is a super common mistake? Or are you being sarcastic...?" another questioned.</p> <p>"Please hire someone to do this for you," a third urged.</p> <p><em>Image: TikTok</em></p>

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"Not worthy": Dolly Parton bows out of major award

<p>Dolly Parton, the Queen of country, was one of the several illustrious artists being inducted later this year into the prestigious Rock &amp; Roll Hall of Fame. In the early hours of this morning, she withdrew her name from consideration.</p> <p>"Even though I am extremely flattered to be nominated for the Rock &amp; Roll Hall of Fame, I don't feel that I have earned that right," the 76-year-old songstress wrote in a statement shared to Instagram.</p> <blockquote class="instagram-media" style="background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);" data-instgrm-captioned="" data-instgrm-permalink="https://www.instagram.com/p/CbFnWJhOieR/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" data-instgrm-version="14"> <div style="padding: 16px;"> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 40px; margin-right: 14px; width: 40px;"> </div> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 100px;"> </div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 60px;"> </div> </div> </div> <div style="padding: 19% 0;"> </div> <div style="display: block; height: 50px; margin: 0 auto 12px; width: 50px;"> </div> <div style="padding-top: 8px;"> <div style="color: #3897f0; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 550; line-height: 18px;">View this post on Instagram</div> </div> <div style="padding: 12.5% 0;"> </div> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: row; margin-bottom: 14px; align-items: center;"> <div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; height: 12.5px; width: 12.5px; transform: translateX(0px) translateY(7px);"> </div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; height: 12.5px; transform: rotate(-45deg) translateX(3px) translateY(1px); width: 12.5px; flex-grow: 0; margin-right: 14px; margin-left: 2px;"> </div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; height: 12.5px; width: 12.5px; transform: translateX(9px) translateY(-18px);"> </div> </div> <div style="margin-left: 8px;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 20px; width: 20px;"> </div> <div style="width: 0; height: 0; border-top: 2px solid transparent; border-left: 6px solid #f4f4f4; border-bottom: 2px solid transparent; transform: translateX(16px) translateY(-4px) rotate(30deg);"> </div> </div> <div style="margin-left: auto;"> <div style="width: 0px; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-right: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(16px);"> </div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; flex-grow: 0; height: 12px; width: 16px; transform: translateY(-4px);"> </div> <div style="width: 0; height: 0; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-left: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(-4px) translateX(8px);"> </div> </div> </div> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center; margin-bottom: 24px;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 224px;"> </div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 144px;"> </div> </div> <p style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;"><a style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none;" href="https://www.instagram.com/p/CbFnWJhOieR/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" target="_blank" rel="noopener">A post shared by Dolly Parton (@dollyparton)</a></p> </div> </blockquote> <p>"I really do not want the votes split because of me, so I must respectfully bow out."</p> <p>Dolly did not explicitly go into specifics as to her reasoning why she does not feel worthy, but she did allude to the fact that she hasn't produced a straight rock and roll record.</p> <p>"I do hope that the Rock &amp; Roll Hall of Fame will understand and be willing to consider me again — if I'm ever worthy," Parton's statement continued.</p> <p>"This has, however, inspired me to put out a hopefully great rock 'n' roll album at some point in the future, which I have always wanted to do! My is a total rock 'n' roll freak, and has always encouraged me to do one."</p> <p>"I wish all of the nominees good luck and thank you again for the compliment. Rock on!" her statement concludes.</p> <p>Although she has requested to be removed from consideration, it isn't entirely up to her. Musicians such as John Lydon, Todd Rundgren and Axl Rose have previously protested their inclusion, but were voted in regardless. In fact, when Sex Pistols were inducted into the Rock &amp; Roll Hall of Fame in 2006, Lydon sent an angry letter to be read at the ceremony.</p> <p>Additionally, ballots featuring her name have already been sent out, so it may be beyond her control. If she is inducted, however, she can abstain from attending the ceremony, like Lydon did.</p> <p><em>Image: Getty</em></p>

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"Extremely cringe": Scott Morrison blasted for musical clip

<p dir="ltr">In what has been quite a tough week for the Prime Minister, he has become the centre of attention once again - this time for <a href="https://au.news.yahoo.com/make-it-stop-social-media-loses-it-over-desperate-scott-morrison-034918812.html" target="_blank" rel="noopener">an awkward clip</a> of him armed with a ukulele.</p><p><span id="docs-internal-guid-2de16ea2-7fff-7703-cc1d-119870453419"></span></p><p dir="ltr">The video was first shared by Channel Nine in a tweet on Friday before it quickly circulated online, showing Karl Stefanovic joining in on a family singalong with Scott Morrison and his family, led by Mr Morrison on the ukulele.</p><blockquote class="twitter-tweet"><p dir="ltr" lang="en">This Sunday on <a href="https://twitter.com/hashtag/60Mins?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">#60Mins</a>, meet the Morrisons. 8:40PM on <a href="https://twitter.com/Channel9?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">@Channel9</a> and <a href="https://twitter.com/9Now?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">@9Now</a>. <a href="https://t.co/1rQwT8TsPV">pic.twitter.com/1rQwT8TsPV</a></p>— 60 Minutes Australia (@60Mins) <a href="https://twitter.com/60Mins/status/1491964286545297408?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">February 11, 2022</a></blockquote><p dir="ltr">The clip was a preview of an upcoming episode of <em>60 Minutes</em> with Mr Morrison and his wife, Jenny, as well as their two daughters, Lily and Abbey.</p><p dir="ltr">Users on social media were quick to share their thoughts on the PM’s rendition of Dragon’s popular song <em>April Sun in Cuba</em>, with many connecting his performance to his widely-criticised trip to Hawaii.</p><p dir="ltr">“Extremely cringe,” one person wrote. “Scott Morrison is LITERALLY reminding everyone about that infamous Hawaii trip during the bushfires. All he’s missing is a Hawaiian shirt etc.”</p><p dir="ltr"><span id="docs-internal-guid-c8b1d0fb-7fff-a51d-ce70-eaec90054a70"></span></p><p dir="ltr">Even <em>Today </em>host Ally Langdon got in on the joke, introducing the clip saying: “I think he learned that in Hawaii, didn’t he?”</p><blockquote class="twitter-tweet"><p dir="ltr" lang="en">When I was a teenager, we used to call people ‘try hards’ all the time. It was definitely a ‘thing’ in the 90s. I think it’s time to bring back the phrase specifically to describe Scott Morrison playing a ukulele.</p>— Queen Victoria (@Vic_Rollison) <a href="https://twitter.com/Vic_Rollison/status/1491994187776290819?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">February 11, 2022</a></blockquote><p dir="ltr">Sally McManus, Secretary of the Australian Council of Trade Unions, suggested the performance was a cynical ploy to improve Mr Morrison’s image ahead of the federal election.</p><p dir="ltr"><span id="docs-internal-guid-db668391-7fff-bce4-a460-f920db6a3aca"></span></p><p dir="ltr">“We need to brace ourselves for how far he will go the more desperate they get,” she wrote on Twitter.</p><blockquote class="twitter-tweet"><p dir="ltr" lang="en">Everbody: "This can't get worse"... Scott Morrison: "Hold my beer"...*takes out a ukelele*....<a href="https://twitter.com/hashtag/ScottyTheCompletePsycho?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">#ScottyTheCompletePsycho</a> <a href="https://twitter.com/hashtag/auspol?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">#auspol</a> <a href="https://twitter.com/60Mins?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">@60Mins</a> <a href="https://twitter.com/hashtag/AlboForPM?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">#AlboForPM</a> <a href="https://t.co/ZJ22iMpctV">https://t.co/ZJ22iMpctV</a></p>— John Coates (@JohnCoatess) <a href="https://twitter.com/JohnCoatess/status/1491913001917579265?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">February 10, 2022</a></blockquote><p dir="ltr">The <em>60 Minutes </em>clip comes within a week of the Prime Minister sparking discussion online with his appearance at a hair salon where he washed a woman’s hair.</p><p dir="ltr">Donning an apron and mask and washing a woman’s hair at Coco’s Salon in Mount Eliza, Victoria, the Prime Minister was labelled as “creepy” and “terrible”, prompting the hashtag #ScottyTheHairdresser to emerge online.</p><p dir="ltr"><span id="docs-internal-guid-f1eaaa91-7fff-d297-f9d8-057416298976"></span></p><p dir="ltr">Labor MP Kristina Keneally took to the social media platform to poke fun at Mr Morrison and promote Labor’s election promise regarding TAFE.</p><blockquote class="twitter-tweet"><p dir="ltr" lang="en">Labor’s plans for good, secure jobs includes Fee Free TAFE, helping workers of all ages reskill into any profession that’s in demand. <a href="https://t.co/pAsTQr4RmX">pic.twitter.com/pAsTQr4RmX</a></p>— Kristina Keneally (@KKeneally) <a href="https://twitter.com/KKeneally/status/1489692665624989697?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">February 4, 2022</a></blockquote><p dir="ltr">“Under Labor’s Fee Free Tage program, you’ll be able to reskill into any profession that’s in demand,” a graphic she shared read, appearing next to a photo of Mr Morrison with the caption, “Scotty, 53” underneath it.</p><p dir="ltr"><span id="docs-internal-guid-b161fafa-7fff-e71a-170f-7bdf489dcc2d"></span></p><p dir="ltr"><em>Image: Channel 9</em></p>

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Couple's "cringe and vulgar" wedding invitations go viral

<p>A couple has sparked outrage as their "vulgar" wedding invitations have gone viral on Reddit. </p> <p>The Reddit user posted a photo of the invitations, captioning the image with <span>“My cousin sent this along with her wedding invitations ... I will not be in attendance.”</span></p> <p><span>The invitation says "S*** you need to know" before sharing very aggressive and unusual rules for their special day. </span></p> <p><span>The invitation reads, </span>“Wedding gifts: If you wanted to give us a wedding gift, a contribution to our honeymoon would be perfect.”</p> <p class="css-1316j2p-StyledParagraph e4e0a020">“Dress code: Wear whatever the f*** you want - go butt f*** naked for all we care."</p> <p class="css-1316j2p-StyledParagraph e4e0a020">“Children: Leave your little s**** at home. We want to get f***ed up. (We will turn you away)."</p> <p class="css-1316j2p-StyledParagraph e4e0a020">“Hotels: Google it you lazy f***."</p> <p class="css-1316j2p-StyledParagraph e4e0a020">“Taxis: See above."</p> <div class="hide-print ad-no-notice css-qyun7f-StyledAdUnitWrapper ezkyf1c0"> <p class="css-1316j2p-StyledParagraph e4e0a020">“Parking: Follow the f***ing directions we gave you, dumba**."</p> <p class="css-1316j2p-StyledParagraph e4e0a020">“Questions: Check the f***ing website.”</p> </div> <p><span>The hostile invitation has been slammed online, with many people noting the only polite part of the  message was when they were asking for wedding gifts and donations.</span></p> <p><span>Many users shared their thoughts on the awkward invitations, with one person saying, “So much cringe. Trying far too hard to be cool.”</span></p> <p><span>Another commenter said, “I don’t get why people think swearing is so funny. I mean I have nothing against it. It’s just not particularly clever or funny.”</span></p> <p><em>Image credits: Reddit/Shutterstock</em></p>

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Fergie opens up about William and Kate wedding snub: “I don’t think I was worthy”

<p><span>Sarah Ferguson, the Duchess of York has spoken out about the scandal that plagued her in 2011.</span><br /><br /><span>The royal, who was married to Prince Andrew from 1986 until 1996 has opened up about her being left off the invitation list for Prince William and Kate Middleton's wedding.</span><br /><br /><span>She shares daughter Princess Beatrice and Princess Eugenie with Andrew and has been a controversial figure in the royal family for decades.</span><br /><br /><span>She told <em>Town &amp; Country</em> that being excluded from William and Kate’s wedding was not a situation that she fought.</span></p> <p><img style="width: 500px; height: 281.25px;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7842686/sarah-ferguson-plus-william-and-kate-2.jpg" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/73d23f3821a1454b935f8ca2317c8ea1" /></p> <p> <em>Image: Getty</em><br /><br /><span>"I didn't think I was probably worthy to go to their wedding," she told the publication.</span><br /><br /><span>“I took myself to Thailand, actually, to be far away from it so that I could try and heal."</span><br /><br /><span>Ferguson admitted to Oprah in recent years that the snub upset her greatly.</span><br /><br /><span>"I think what I felt was that I went through the phase of feeling so totally worthless and that (it) was quite right they didn't invite me.</span><br /><br /><span>“Why would they - why would they invite me?</span><br /><br /><span>"I felt that I ostracised myself by my behaviour, by the past, by living with all the regrets of my mistakes, that I sort of wore a hair shirt and beat myself up most of the day thinking and regretting why did I make such a mistake?"</span><br /><br /><span>Just a year before the wedding of the Duke and Duchess of Cambridge, Sarah Ferguson found herself caught up in a major scandal.</span></p> <p><img style="width: 500px; height: 281.25px;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7842687/sarah-ferguson-plus-william-and-kate-3.jpg" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/047e85441656431093299643b3dc322b" /></p> <p> <em>Image: Getty</em><br /><br /><span>She was caught by an undercover reporter who reported her attempting to sell a meeting with Prince Andrew for cash.</span><br /><br /><span>The fallout from this saw her being left off the guest list for the upcoming nuptials.</span><br /><br /><span>"It was so difficult," she went on to say.</span><br /><br /><span>“Because I wanted to be there with my girls, and to be getting them dressed and to go as a family. And also it was so hard because the last (royal) bride up that aisle was me."</span><br /><br /><span>By 2018, when Prince Harry and Meghan Markle wed, Fergie was back in the family's good books and received an invite.</span><br /><img style="width: 500px; height: 281.25px;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7842688/sarah-ferguson-plus-william-and-kate-4.jpg" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/c090e71110514bb8b33512f15c159ee3" /></p> <p> <em>Image: Getty</em><br /><span>The Duchess is enjoying being a new grandmother after the birth of grandson August to daughter Princess Eugenie and husband Jack Brooksbank.</span><br /><br /><span>Her eldest daughter Princess Beatrice is also expecting her first child with husband Edoardo Mapelli Mozzi later this year.</span></p>

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See Australia: The bucket-list worthy walking track

<p>The Murray River Walk is a four-day guided walk that combines hiking and houseboating along a 40-kilometre stretch of the Murray River between Renmark in South Australia and the Victorian border. While you’re wandering along river banks, across flood plains and through forests of red gums, a houseboat named Desire motors upriver to meet you with chilled wine and canapés at the end of each day. It’s a luxurious way to walk the walk, with hot showers, a top-deck spa and water views at every turn, including the five double bedrooms and two bathrooms, spacious lounge and dining area.</p> <p>The food is a highlight, a showcase of local produce and native ingredients – Murray River scallops, kangaroo, yabbies, Riverland beef and lamb, quandong desserts and salads of samphire and native greens foraged during the day, as well as platters of emu pâté, olives, cheeses, chutneys, nuts and sundried fruits. Evening meals are presented degustation-style, with matched Riverland wines.</p> <p>Walking is easy, more of a stroll than a trek along mostly level ground, covering between 10 and 15 kilometres each day. There are frequent stops as your guides show you the scars on trees where canoes, shields, woomeras and coolamons were cut from the bark by the Erawirung people, point out middens and cutting tools scattered in the undergrowth and the charcoal remains of ancient cooking hearths. There are plenty of stories of the paddle-steamer days, too, when hundreds of boats and barges plied the river, ferrying wool and supplies to the stations and ports along the waterway, with rusting relics and half-submerged wrecks. You’ll also learn how irrigation and water management has changed the landscape along one of our most highly regulated rivers with its system of dams, locks and weirs</p> <p>The route meanders across two historic properties, Calperum and Bunyip Reach stations; the Murray River Walk has exclusive access, so you won’t see any other walkers. You will see plenty of kangaroos, skinks and, if you’re lucky, a shy echidna or two. Pelicans are constant companions, as are elegant egrets and slightly goofy spoonbills perched in treetops, cormorants and darters drying their wings on half-drowned branches and whistling kites riding the thermals. Ducks patrol the shallows and emus flounce across the floodplains, feathered skirts fluttering.</p> <p>You’ll spend almost as much time on the river as you do on land, exploring anabranches and backwaters in an aluminium cruiser, negotiating locks and stickybeaking at historic customs houses and old shearing sheds, including a barbecue lunch and beer stop at Wilkadene Woolshed Brewery on the last day. As far as walking holidays go, it’s pretty cruisy.</p> <p><strong>WHERE IS IT?</strong></p> <p>The walk begins and ends in Renmark, 256km east of Adelaide, around a 3-hour drive east of Adelaide.</p> <p><strong>WHY GO?</strong></p> <p>Cruising and gourmet food.</p> <p><strong>WHEN TO GO?</strong></p> <p>Walking season is May to the end of September.</p> <p><strong>HOW LONG?</strong></p> <p>4 days.</p> <p><em>This is an edited extract from </em>Australia’s Best Nature Escapes <em>by Lee Atkinson published by Hardie Grant Books [39.99] and is available in stores nationally.</em></p> <p><em>Photographer: © Lee Atkinson</em></p> <p><em><img style="width: 250px !important; height: 300px !important;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7821835/image_.jpg" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/411059142cf548be950fc4f94d8782c4" /></em></p>

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Crowdfunding: A worthy cause or a waste of money?

<p>When Nicole Leybourne, 23, was in Tokyo on a modelling assignment last month, she saw a dog in the window of the pet shop close to her apartment and she fell in love.</p> <p>Love does strange things to people, and so she went a bit mad. In the middle of the night, she lay awake thinking about ways to set the dog free. She spent solid time at the shop where he lived, watching and cooing at him, hurrying staff to fill up his water. One day she asked what would happen if he didn't get sold; they said you don't want to know.</p> <p>Leybourne, an Aucklander who lives in Perth with her fiance, had it all planned out: She would raise the money she needed to buy the dog ("I didn't give him a name, because I didn't want to get too attached"), take him to Perth, and when she came home to New Zealand for a month each year, he would stay with her friends.<br /> <br /> She took to the crowd funding site PledgeMe, with a picture of the sad little pooch and her appeal summed up with the heading Save This Dog's Life. She wanted $3500, she said, "to buy and take this dog on an aeroplane home with me".<br /> <br /> "Every time I walk past his eyes look so sad and he looks bored out of his mind in his small glass box," she told possible pledgers.</p> <p>It was a tall order. It's not hard to find a sad dog in the window of the town you live in, let alone asking people to help you buy one and travel internationally with it.</p> <p>In an age where more people than ever are asking for money, Leybourne was up against some intense and varied competition on the numerous fundraising and campaign sites that have emerged in the past few years: help me get to the cheerleading champs, to the synchronised swimming champs, to the body building champs, to publish my book, to study ballet, clarinet, mathematics, to get married, to visit my lover, to buy a bike, to get to a beauty pageant, help, help, help! Help the Island Bay Grade C men's team get to the nationals in Taumarunui. Help my dog get cleft palate surgery. Help the Sweet Adelines get to Las Vegas.<br /> <br /> There's no doubt such sites have helped save, change and improve lives, and some of the outcomes are real heart warmers. Givealittle is loaded with stories of sick people who have received help they wouldn't have been able to access otherwise, and Pledgeme has put muscle behind a heap of businesses with its project and equity campaigns. But what of the rest?<br /> <br /> The campaigns that are so ridiculous, their very presence seems vaguely offensive? The ones that ask for things that in my day would have had me outside The Warehouse buttering cheap bread for a sausage sizzle, or picking up an extra shift at work?<br /> <br /> A young guy meets someone he likes on an OE and now wants money to go and be with him back in Germany: "To do this I need help, flights aren't cheap and neither is surviving in a new country, but with a few months of work on my part and the help of much appreciated donations, I know that I can make it to go be with him." I have very little sympathy for this type of campaigner, but those who run the sites say I don't have to give him money – and they are right. I won't be.</p> <p>It takes very little to start up a fundraiser on PledgeMe, or Givealittle. PledgeMe rules are that applicants "can't break the law or do anything too evil", says head of communications Jackson James Wood. Both sites like to let the crowd decide if the campaign is a goody, and more often than not the crowd decides that it is.</p> <p>Wood says the success rate on PledgeMe is more than 50 per cent. Givealittle general manager Lynne Le Gros doesn't know the numbers, but "the norm for many is to over-exceed their goal". After three weeks, the guy who wants to reunite with his German lover has raised $4, so that says it all, really.<br /> <br /> When a Juliette Hogan dress I had spent months stalking online was reduced from $1200, I put a picture of it on my Facebook page and asked in jest if anyone hada spare eight-hundy to hook me up. "Start a crowd funder! I'll chuck 10 bucks at ya!" wrote a friend.<br /> <br /> I could never. Mostly because I would feel out of place next to more worthy causes than wanting an overpriced dress, and also, truth be told, I'd worry too much that my friends would think me cheap.<br /> <br /> "If you want a dress and your friends like you enough and the rewards are good enough, who are we to decide whether you getting it is a good idea?" says Wood. "It all comes down to whether you have a crowd and if you sell it well enough."<br /> <br /> If nothing else, it could be a way to test your mates. Nicole Leybourne doesn't have a Facebook page, so she was off to a bad start when she launched her ambitious save the dog campaign. She wasn't too worried that people would think she was being a goof, because she already knew she was. "That this girl has fallen in love with this dog in Japan, I think it was ridiculous," she says with a laugh. "But I think there is so much that's bad in the world, sometimes it's nice when you see something a little bit quirky."</p> <p>Christchurch high school student Rhianna Sutherland had an idea for PledgeMe that was about as quirky as you could get. The 17-year-old was sitting in her bedroom one night when she decided to do something "completely random". She looked at her cactuses and thought she wouldn't mind some more. She started a PledgeMe fundraiser called My Mini Cacti Need Friends.</p> <p>"I was just doing it for the lols," she says.</p> <p>Sutherland was inspired by Zak Brown, the guy who launched a campaign through a kick-starter site in America, asking for $10 to make potato salad. He raised more than $50,000. Sutherland's target was $7 and she made $10. Success.<br /> <br /> There's something to be said for random fundraisers, created purely for the lols. They don't have that whiff of scrounging about them. Maybe that's why the potato salad guy did so well. Ian Crouch, a writer for the<em> New Yorker</em>, says Brown's was a freak case of winning the internet lottery. While the potato salad guy was getting inundated with questions about how he was going to put the funds to good use, Crouch argued he should do whatever he wanted with it. Not every moment has to be an Oprah one.<br /> <br /> Nicole Leybourne's dog is still in the shop, as far as she knows. A friend in Japan keeps her updated with pictures of it sitting in the same sad little spot. Through PledgeMe she raised $30 of the $3500. "I was really gutted. Like, I thought maybe people would feel sorry for this dog. He would have had a nice little life," she says. "But it's not to be."</p> <p>Have you tried crowdfunding?</p> <p><em>Written by Aimie Cronin. Republished with permission of <a href="http://www.stuff.co.nz/" target="_blank"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Stuff.co.nz</span></strong></a>.</em></p>

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