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Anxious cats just want real cuddles from their human

<div> <div class="copy"> <p>Anxious cats aren’t comforted by the scent of their absent human alone.  It just reminds them that their human is gone.</p> <p>Most cats that love their human form a strong bond and feel less stressed in their presence. You might often see your kitty snuggling up in your clothes and enjoy being around things that smell like you.</p> <p>However, in a new <a rel="noreferrer noopener" href="https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0168159121002318?via%3Dihub" target="_blank">study</a> published in <em>Applied Animal Behaviours Science, </em>researchers found that the scent alone isn’t enough to keep them happy when they are alone.</p> <p>“Olfaction (smell) is an important sense for cats, and it’s related to their social behaviour.  But in our study, [owner-scented objects] did not have a stress-reducing effect,” says Kristyn Vitale of Unity College, US, who was part of the study. “The smell might even make matters worse for some.”</p> <p>As part of the study, cat owners put an item of clothing with their pets in an unfamiliar testing room.  The owner then sat on the floor for a while before exiting the room and leaving the scented item with the cat.</p> <p>Most of the kitties paid no attention to the scented item and acted just as stressed as when there were no ‘comfort items’ available. In fact, 38% of actually became more vocal when the scented item was in the room.</p> <p>This suggested that the scent reminded them of their absent human and made them sad.</p> <p>But when the owners returned, most of the happy cats rubbed against their owners in a display of bonding. This is a sign of the Secure Base Effect, where the cats felt happy and secure in the presence of their human. In this simulation, the researchers showed that a scented item did not elicit the same secure base effect.</p> <p>The researchers suggest that leaving an item with a cat just isn’t as good and a real cuddle. Instead, they encourage owners to be present with their cat as much as possible to reduce anxiety.</p> <p>If it lets you.</p> <!-- Start of tracking content syndication. Please do not remove this section as it allows us to keep track of republished articles --> <img id="cosmos-post-tracker" style="opacity: 0; height: 1px!important; width: 1px!important; border: 0!important; position: absolute!important; z-index: -1!important;" src="https://syndication.cosmosmagazine.com/?id=166105&amp;title=Anxious+cats+just+want+real+cuddles+from+their+human" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> <!-- End of tracking content syndication --></div> <div id="contributors"> <p><a href="https://cosmosmagazine.com/nature/anxious-cats-just-want-real-cuddles-from-their-human/">This article</a> was originally published on <a href="https://cosmosmagazine.com">Cosmos Magazine</a> and was written by <a href="https://cosmosmagazine.com/contributor/dr-deborah-devis">Deborah Devis</a>. Deborah Devis is a science journalist at Cosmos. </p> <p><em>Image: VictorHuang/Getty Images</em></p> </div> </div>

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Man makes “cuddle blanket” to hug his gran amid coronavirus pandemic

<p><span>A man in the United Kingdom has shown he will go to great lengths to make sure his loved ones still get their daily dose of happiness despite the strict social distancing measures in place due to coronavirus.</span><br /><br /><span>29-year-old plasterer Antony Cauvin’s came up with an innovative method to maintain social distancing rules by placing a humble shower curtain between him and his granny.</span><br /><br /><span>Antony altered the curtain to have arms so he could still hug his nana without touching her.</span><br /><br /><span>He dubbed his ingenious invention as the “Cuddle Curtain” with his wife posting a video of it in use on Facebook on the weekend.</span><br /><br /><span>Since then the clip has gone viral, with over 68,000 likes.</span><br /><iframe src="https://www.facebook.com/plugins/video.php?href=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2Fmiriam.butt.92%2Fvideos%2F10163787073690551%2F&amp;show_text=0&amp;width=267" width="267" height="476" style="border: none; overflow: hidden;" scrolling="no" frameborder="0" allowtransparency="true" allowfullscreen="true"></iframe> <br /><span>Cauvin explained to Sky News that he first tested the idea with his parents.</span><br /><br /><span>“We giggled about it but thought, “this could actually work”,” he said.</span><br /><br /><span>In the touching video, Cauvin gets to hug his gran Lily for the first time in months.</span><br /><br /><span>Cauvin disinfects the sleeves after every hug and requires that he and his grandma wear gloves for hygiene purposes.</span><br /><br /><span>“We never touched any part of Grannan at all – I’m a believer in social distancing and don’t want to put anyone at risk,” he said.</span><br /><br /><span>“When you’ve known someone all your life, to be able to hug that person again… it brought a tear to everybody’s eye.”</span></p>

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High school student apologises to Prince Harry for “cuddling” Duchess Meghan

<p>A British high school student made news around the world after he hugged the Duchess of Sussex during the royal’s visit to a school on Friday.</p> <p>Now 16-year-old Aker Okoye has apologised to Prince Harry for embracing his wife.</p> <p>Okoye, head boy at Robert Clack School in east London, came up on stage after Duchess Meghan invited a “brave young man” to volunteer to discuss the importance of International Women’s Day, which is celebrated on March 8.</p> <p>Okoye leaned in for a kiss on the cheek before telling his classmates, “She really is beautiful, innit.”</p> <p>The Duchess gave him a hug after he made his comments about the day. “Incredible confidence, don’t you all agree,” she said after Okoye left the stage.</p> <blockquote style="background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);" class="instagram-media" data-instgrm-captioned="" data-instgrm-permalink="https://www.instagram.com/tv/B9eqhs3J2uP/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" data-instgrm-version="12"> <div style="padding: 16px;"> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 40px; margin-right: 14px; width: 40px;"></div> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 100px;"></div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 60px;"></div> </div> </div> <div style="padding: 19% 0;"></div> <div style="display: block; height: 50px; margin: 0 auto 12px; width: 50px;"></div> <div style="padding-top: 8px;"> <div style="color: #3897f0; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 550; line-height: 18px;">View this post on Instagram</div> </div> <p style="margin: 8px 0 0 0; padding: 0 4px;"><a style="color: #000; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none; word-wrap: break-word;" rel="noopener" href="https://www.instagram.com/tv/B9eqhs3J2uP/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" target="_blank">The Duchess of Sussex visited Robert Clack School, to celebrate the women of the future, and also highlight the important role men and boys play in International Women’s Day. The Duchess asked a young student to come on stage and share his perspective on the importance of the day, and whilst much attention has been focused on his initial comment, what he shared beyond that was compelling and true. Please watch the full video and tag a man in your life, and have him share what #IWD means to him</a></p> <p style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;">A post shared by <a style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px;" rel="noopener" href="https://www.instagram.com/sussexroyal/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" target="_blank"> The Duke and Duchess of Sussex</a> (@sussexroyal) on Mar 8, 2020 at 9:23am PDT</p> </div> </blockquote> <p>In a written letter to the Duke of Sussex published on <em>The Sun</em>, Okoye said he hoped his actions weren’t out of line.</p> <p>“I hope you didn’t mind me cuddling your wife,” he wrote, noting he was “just overwhelmed and shocked to see her arrive at my school”.</p> <p>Okoye said it was “a pleasure to hear [Meghan’s] speech and to speak in front of her as well. She is truly inspirational”.</p> <p>In an interview with <em>Good Morning Britain</em>, the student told host Piers Morgan: “It was one of those moments which I’ll cherish for the rest of my life.”</p> <p>The Duchess’ surprise visit to the school was her last solo official engagement as a senior royal before she and Harry step down on March 31.</p>

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Leaving Neverland doco: Why Michael Jackson’s son Blanket has stopped talking

<div> <div class="replay"> <div class="reply_body body linkify"> <div class="reply_body"> <div class="body_text "> <p>Michael Jackson’s son has stopped talking after <em>Leaving Neverland</em>, the damning documentary on his father, was released last week.</p> <p>According to close family members, the 17-year-old Blanket Jackson, also known as Biji, has stopped speaking following the airing of the HBO documentary, which resurfaced allegations of child sex abuse against his father Michael.</p> <p>The four-hour doco came 10 years after the pop star's death in 2009.</p> <p>“Biji is the most talkative kid at school and he isn’t talking anymore,” Michael’s 45-year-old nephew Taj told the Victoria Derbyshire TV show on Friday. “We’re all worried about him.”</p> <p>Blanket’s godfather Mark Lester also voiced his concern for Michael’s youngest son. </p> <p>“They try and shield him from the outside world, which may be not such a good thing,” Lester told <a href="https://www.thesun.co.uk/tvandshowbiz/8595324/michael-jackson-blanket-stopped-talking-leaving-neverland-child-abuse-allegations/"><em>The Su</em><em>n</em></a>. “Shield them from certain things, certainly, but to keep him isolated is not right.”</p> <p>Lester said Blanket’s life today is tightly controlled.</p> <p><img style="width: 500px; height: 281.25px; display: block; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7824671/mjchildren.jpg" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/d0f4b87242c24f148410c8cdfa7fd5c4" /></p> <p style="text-align: center;"><em>Michael Jackson's children, Prince Jackson, Blanket Jackson and Paris Jackson in October 2011</em></p> <p>“The Jackson estate don’t want him to make money for anyone else. He’s an heir to a billion-dollar trust.</p> <p>“They have trust issues, especially with people who may think they want to take advantage of either Blanket, [Blanket’s older siblings] Paris or Prince for their own financial gain.</p> <p>“When you get super-wealthy you become very guarded and very mistrustful of a lot of people. It’s just sad that this money issue would get in the way of them actually being able to have good friends.”</p> <p>Meanwhile, Blanket’s 20-year-old sister Paris has spoken up in the wake of the documentary. </p> <p>“Injustices are frustrating and it’s easy to get worked up,” she wrote on Twitter. </p> <p>“But reacting with a calm mind usually is more logical than acting out of rage.”</p> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet" data-lang="en"> <p dir="ltr">i didn’t mean to offend by expressing that titties should be calm, i know injustices are frustrating and it’s easy to get worked up. but reacting with a calm mind usually is more logical than acting out of rage and also.... it feels better to mellow out.</p> — Paris-Michael K. J. (@ParisJackson) <a href="https://twitter.com/ParisJackson/status/1103557775274041344?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">March 7, 2019</a></blockquote> <p><em>Leaving Neverland</em>, which was released for wide public viewing earlier this month, told the experiences of two men, Wade Robson and James Safechuck, who allege that the pop star sexually abused them when they were children.</p> <p>Last month, the Jackson estate filed a lawsuit against HBO for “[disparaging] Jackson’s legacy by airing a one-sided hit piece against Jackson based exclusively on the false accounts of two proven, serial perjurers.” </p> <p>The lawsuit could see the Jackson estate awarded with US$100 million.</p> <iframe width="560" height="315" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/R_Ze8LjzV7Q" frameborder="0" allow="accelerometer; autoplay; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture" allowfullscreen=""></iframe> <p>Many of Michael’s family members have spoken up in defence of the late singer. In a February interview with <a href="https://www.cbsnews.com/video/michael-jacksons-family-on-leaving-neverland-accusers-its-all-about-money/"><em>CBS</em> </a><em><a href="https://www.cbsnews.com/video/michael-jacksons-family-on-leaving-neverland-accusers-its-all-about-money/">This Morning</a>,</em><span> </span>Taj said he did not find Michael’s “sleepovers” with young boys “odd”.</p> <p>“To the outside world, yes, I think it can be odd,” said Taj. </p> <p>“I mean, I’m not oblivious to what it sounds like. But when you’re actually there in that atmosphere and you’re around it, and you’re watching movies with his kids, it’s very innocent.”</p> <p>Michael’s brother Marlon also refuted the claims made in the doco. </p> <p>“I want them to understand and know that this documentary is not telling truth,” he said. “There has not been not one piece of evidence that corroborates their story.”</p> <p>Have you watched the<span> </span><em>Leaving Neverland</em><span> </span>documentary? Share your thoughts with us in the comments below.</p> </div> </div> </div> </div> </div>

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Meet the 82-year-old grandpa who cuddles sick babies

<p>For the past 12 years, David Deutchman visits Children’s Healthcare of Atlanta, Georgia, to hold and soothe babies in the neonatal intensive care unit.</p> <p>Without fail the 82-year-old will drop by on Tuesdays and Thursdays every week to cuddle babies when their families cannot be by their side.</p> <p>"It is very gratifying, not just because the babies are crying and you help them to stop crying," Deutchman told <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="http://people.com/human-interest/sweet-icu-grandpa-cuddles-and-soothes-babies-too-sick-to-go-home-at-an-atlanta-hospital/" target="_blank">People</a></strong></span>. "There’s a lot of stress for these parents. Having somebody tell them they can go get breakfast and assure them I’ll be there with their baby, it means something to them. It’s important."</p> <p>"There are a lot of benefits to that warm connection of being held - when a baby puts their face against your heartbeat, there’s a benefit there. I came to love it, but not just because of the connection with the babies, but the whole atmosphere of the hospital."</p> <p>Dubbed the "ICU Grandpa" by the staff and parents, Deutchman laughs that he gets “puked” and “pooped” on a lot. But he wouldn’t have it any other way.</p> <p>"If there’s anything I can do to make sure people are taken care of, that’s what I’m going to do," he said.</p> <p><iframe width="560" height="315" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/ZO3hqC6obAs" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen=""></iframe> </p>

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The therapeutic benefits of heavy blankets

<p>Have you ever curled up with a thick, heavy blanket and felt a near-instant sense of relief? Perhaps it's been your duvet you've hidden under after a particularly bad day at work, or a quilt you pull out of the closet specifically for wrapping around you during weekend hot chocolates during winter. </p> <p>There's some research that explains why heavy or even weighted blankets are beneficial for sleep and overall mental health. They're an often-used tool by occupational therapists – especially with children – but can be incorporated in anybody's home to help you relax and encourage feelings of calm.</p> <p><strong>Deep pressure touch stimulation</strong></p> <p>The science behind why heavy blankets work is called deep pressure touch stimulation (DPTS). While from a clinical occupational therapy standpoint it has been found that light touch on a person's body can increase tension or alert the system, the opposite can be said for heavy touch. This therapy involves firm pressure, holding, stoking, petting (e.g. of animals).</p> <p>Most of us would have actually received a form of DPTS when we were babies by way of swaddling, which is the practice of wrapping a child tightly in a blanket to restrict movement. This, in turn, can make a baby feel safe and secure, and may help them sleep.</p> <p>The pressure from DPTS works to relax your nervous system, hence being useful for sleep and those that struggling with the symptoms of anxiety at night. Pressure on the body helps generate serotonin which then converts to melatonin, the chemical that tells your system it’s time to rest.</p> <p><strong>Heavy vs. weighted blankets</strong></p> <p>There is actually a difference between a heavy blanket and a weighted blanket, the latter which is usually used in a clinical setting.</p> <p>A heavy blanket may simply be one with a high down or wool content. Think one of those very expensive down duvet inners (they run up to about $900) or, conversely, one of your grandma's ultra-thick war-era woollen blankets.</p> <p>A weighted blanket, available online or <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=svqiyDlJmus&amp;feature=youtu.be" target="_blank">you can sew your own</a></strong></span>, has pellets sewn into quilted pockets to evenly distribute weight. To receive the benefits of a heavy or weighted blanket, it's suggested you seek something that weighs between six and 12 kilograms – generally you want it to be about 10 per cent of your body weight.</p> <p><strong>Are weighted blankets really suitable for children?</strong></p> <p>A review of research by the <em>Journal of Child and Adolescent Psychopharmacology</em> found that weighted blankets can benefit children with behavioural or sensory processing disorders. Children with ADHD and disorders on the autism spectrum have seen detectable levels of calming during DPTS.</p> <p>If you have a neurotypical child, however, they may still benefit. The reports are primarily anecdotal (rather than scientific) but heavy blankets weighing 5-10 per cent of a child's body weight can provide better sleep.</p> <p><strong>Is it safe?</strong></p> <p>According to a paper published in Occupational Therapy and Mental Health, a 12-kilogram blanket when used lying down is safe by all vital sign metrics. This study also found that electrodermal activity (the variation of electrical characteristics on the skin) is reduced by 33 per cent, while 63 percent of users report lower anxiety levels and 78 per cent preferred the blanket as a "calming modality". Other studies have found similar results.</p> <p><strong>Do they really work?</strong></p> <p>However, weighted blankets can't be considered revolutionary from insomnia and anxiety sufferers. The company Gravity, which raised US$3 million <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/1620645203/gravity-the-weighted-blanket-for-sleep-stress-and/description" target="_blank">on its Kickstarter page</a></strong></span> to manufacture its weighted blanket, got into hot water last week after making statements about the benefits of the product that fell out of line with health claims policies.</p> <p>The website, <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="https://www.statnews.com/2017/05/12/gravity-blanket-anxiety-fda/" target="_blank">which has since been changed</a></strong></span>, claimed "the science behind Gravity reveals that it can be used to treat a variety of ailments, including insomnia, post-traumatic stress disorder, obsessive-compulsive disorder, attention deficit hyperactivity disorder, as well as circumstantial stress and prolonged anxiety." </p> <p>This, of course, is an overstatement and blankets have not been shown in studies to "treat" any of these problems, but rather just aid in their symptoms for some people.</p> <p><em>Written by Lee Suckling. First appeared on <a href="http://www.stuff.co.nz/" target="_blank"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Stuff.co.nz</span></strong></a>.</em></p>

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New study reveals dangerous reason you shouldn’t cuddle kittens

<p>One would think there couldn’t be anything more innocent than a child nuzzling with a kitten, however, a new study has shown that cuddling a household feline could expose you to “cat-scratch disease”, an illness that can cause intense fever, pustules and, if complications occur, death. The disease is caused by bacteria that is transmitted between cats via fleas.</p> <p>The study, conducted by The Centre for Disease Control (CDC) in the US, took place over eight years. It surveyed over 13,000 cases of cat-scratch disease, and found that there were four-and-a-half outpatient diagnoses per 100,000 population each year, which is higher than expected.</p> <p>The most at-risk group is children aged between five and nine years old, among whom there were nine-point-four outpatient diagnoses per 100,000 population. Only a small minority of the cases documented resulted in death, though this was a more likely outcome if patients had hesitated to seek medical help.</p> <p>There are a few simple precautions to take to prevent the spread of the disease. Parents have been advised to discourage children from kissing and playing with kittens, and cat owners are advised to protect their feline friends from fleas, avoid any contact between their own animals and stray cats and always wash their hands after stroking their pet.</p> <p>Does this news discourage you from cuddling with cats? Let us know in the comments below.</p> <p><strong>Related links:</strong> </p> <p><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><a href="http://www.oversixty.co.nz/lifestyle/family-pets/2016/09/infographic-explains-cat-behaviour/">Infographic explains cat behaviour</a></em></span></strong></p> <p><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><a href="http://www.oversixty.co.nz/lifestyle/family-pets/2016/09/15-pet-faces-too-cute-to-stay-mad-at/">15 pet faces too cute to stay mad at</a></em></span></strong></p> <p><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><a href="http://www.oversixty.co.nz/lifestyle/family-pets/2016/08/why-you-shouldnt-kiss-your-dog/">Why you shouldn't kiss your dog</a></em></span></strong></p>

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World’s largest crochet blanket made by thousands of women in India

<p>More than 2000 women from 14 different countries came together for six months to create the world’s largest crochet blanket.</p> <p>Based in India, the all-female team produced an 11,148-square-metre bedspread – that’s roughly about the size of one-and-a-half football fields.</p> <p>Chennai-based project initiator Subashri Natarajan said the blankets had since been donated to the needy.</p> <p><img width="391" height="261" src="http://www.abc.net.au/news/image/7135984-3x2-700x467.jpg" alt="Indian kids with crochet blankets" style="display: block; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"/></p> <p>"Our ultimate goal of our mission to donate to NGOs has been fulfilled with the help of our Tamilnadu police department," she said in a Facebook post.</p> <p>"We have donated all our 8,034 blankets to needy people."</p> <p>The group, called Mother India's Crochet Queens, was officially awarded the title on Sunday.</p> <p>The team beat the previous record of a 3,377-square-metre blanket made by a South African group.</p> <p><strong>Related links: </strong></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><em><a href="http://www.oversixty.co.nz/lifestyle/home-garden/2015/12/clever-ways-to-use-salt-at-home/">12 clever ways to use salt around the house</a></em></strong></span></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><em><a href="http://www.oversixty.co.nz/lifestyle/home-garden/2015/12/stains-never-to-clean-with-water/">4 stains you shouldn’t use water to clean</a></em></strong></span></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><em><a href="http://www.oversixty.co.nz/lifestyle/home-garden/2015/12/household-tricks-from-the-1900s-2/">More great vintage household tricks from the 1900s</a></em></strong></span></p>

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