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Grandparents found hugging after being killed by fallen tree

<p>Marcia Savage, 74, and Jerry Savage, 78, had already turned in for the night as Hurricane Helene roared outside. </p> <p>Their 22-year-old grandson, John Savage, had checked in on them to make sure they were fine after he heard a snap. </p> <p>“We heard one snap and I remember going back there and checking on them. They were both fine, the dog was fine." he recalled. </p> <p>But not long after disaster struck and John and his father heard a "boom" as one of the largest trees on their property in Beech Island, South Carolina came crashing down on top of his grandparents' bedroom, killing them. </p> <p>“All you could see was ceiling and tree,” he said. “I was just going through sheer panic at that point.”</p> <p>John said his grandparents were found hugging one another in the bed, in what he described as a final heroic act from Jerry who tried to protect his wife. </p> <p>“When they pulled them out of there, my grandpa apparently heard the tree snap beforehand and rolled over to try to protect my grandmother,” he said.</p> <p>Jerry did all sorts of handy work but worked mostly as an electrician and carpenter. Jerry went “in and out of retirement because he got bored”. </p> <p>“He’d get that spirit back in him to go back out and work," his grandson said. </p> <p>Marcia was a retired bank teller who was very involved in their church. </p> <p>Their daughter Tammy Estep said Marcia loved cooking for her family, especially for Thanksgiving, and was known for her banana pudding. </p> <p>The couple were high school sweethearts and were married for more than 50 years, with Tammy recalling that "their love was immediate, and it was everlasting”.</p> <p>“They loved each other to their dying day,” John said.</p> <p>The couple are among more than 150 people confirmed dead in one of the deadliest storms in US history. </p> <p>A GoFundMe organised for their funeral expenses says that they were survived by their son and daughter, along with their four grandchildren and seven great-grandchildren. </p> <p><em>Images: Facebook</em></p> <p> </p>

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"What an honour": Kevin Costner pays tribute to fallen Yellowstone costar

<p>Kevin Costner has paid tribute to his <em>Yellowstone</em> costar Dabney Coleman, who has passed away at the age of 92. </p> <p>Coleman, who played the role of  John Dutton, Sr. in the Paramount drama, died on Thursday at his home in Santa Monica, according to his daughter Quincy Coleman, who broke the news in a statement to <em>The Associated Press</em>.</p> <p>She said he "took his last earthly breath peacefully and exquisitely."</p> <p>“My father crafted his time here on earth with a curious mind, a generous heart, and a soul on fire with passion, desire and humour that tickled the funny bone of humanity. As he lived, he moved through this final act of his life with elegance, excellence and mastery,” she said.</p> <p>Yellowstone shared the news on Instagram with the message, "We're saddened by the passing of the Dabney Coleman, a legendary actor and member of the <em>Yellowstone</em> family."</p> <p>Kevin Costner stars as John Dutton, the son of Dabney's character on the show, paid tribute to the late actor as he shared a powerful flashback scene from the season 2 finale to his Instagram. </p> <p>Along with a photo from the moving TV moment, Costner wrote, "One of the most heart wrenching scenes I've been a part of. What an honor to have gotten to work with Dabney Coleman. May he rest in peace."</p> <p>Fans left thoughtful comments about Dabney's performance as John Dutton, Sr. on the show, with one person writing, "Most touching scene of the whole show when he played that part! He will be greatly missed." </p> <p>Dabney earned his first acting credit in an episode of <em>Naked City</em> in 1961, before he went on to appear in countless TV spots over the course of his career, including <em>The Donna Reed Show</em>, <em>I Dream of Jeannie</em>, <em>Columbo</em>, <em>Law &amp; Order: SVU</em>, <em>Recess The Guardian</em>, <em>Boardwalk Empire</em>, and <em>Ray Donovan</em> before landing his role on <em>Yellowstone</em>. </p> <p><em>Image credits: Instagram </em></p>

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"Never forgotten": ABBA pay tribute to fallen bandmate

<p>Lasse Wellander, long-term guitarist for ABBA, has passed away at 70 after a short battle with cancer. </p> <p>Lasse’s family made the heartbreaking announcement on social media, writing that it was “with indescribable sadness that we have to announce that our beloved Lasse has fallen asleep. </p> <p>“Lasse recently fell ill in what turned out to be spread cancer and early on Good Friday he passed away, surrounded by his loved ones.</p> <p>“You were an amazing musician and humble as few, but above all you were a wonderful husband, father, brother, uncle and grandfather. Kind, safe, caring and loving... and so much more, that cannot be described in words. A hub in our lives, and it's unbelievable that we now have to live on without you.</p> <p>“We love and miss you so much.”</p> <p><iframe style="border: none; overflow: hidden;" src="https://www.facebook.com/plugins/post.php?href=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2Fverywellander%2Fposts%2Fpfbid0TSYwXc842w9nvLQe2FDhjCPK4RpgNH9zqxMQuWgMibi582Fn9vxyWMYmREj3f5Wkl&show_text=true&width=500" width="500" height="680" frameborder="0" scrolling="no" allowfullscreen="allowfullscreen"></iframe></p> <p>Shortly after, ABBA released a statement of their own, paying emotional tribute to their late bandmate. Lasse played an “integral role” in the group’s success through the ‘70s and ‘80s, and featured on 24 recordings, including a number of their greatest hits - from the likes of ‘Knowing Me, Knowing You’ to ‘The Winner Takes It All’, ‘Crazy World’, and ‘Thank You for the Music’.</p> <p>“Lasse was a dear friend, a fun guy and a superb guitarist,” the band wrote on Facebook. “The importance of his creative work in the recording studio as well as his rock solid guitar work on stage was immense. </p> <p>“We mourn his tragic and premature death and remember the kind words, the sense of humour, the smiling face, the musical brilliance of the man who played such an integral role in the ABBA story. </p> <p>“He will be deeply missed and never forgotten.” </p> <p>The tribute was signed off by Agnetha [Fältskog], Björn [Ulvaeus], Anni-Frid ‘Frida’ [Lyngstad], and Benny [Andersson] - the same bandmates that Lasse began recording with in October 1974. </p> <p><iframe style="border: none; overflow: hidden;" src="https://www.facebook.com/plugins/post.php?href=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2Fphoto.php%3Ffbid%3D762709755212655%26set%3Da.274452710705031%26type%3D3&show_text=true&width=500" width="500" height="397" frameborder="0" scrolling="no" allowfullscreen="allowfullscreen"></iframe></p> <p>As well as playing on all eight of ABBA’s albums, the late musician also experienced touring with the group, performing to sold-out crowds all over. In 2007, he even had the honour of working on the soundtrack for Mamma Mia!, a movie based on some of the band’s most popular songs. </p> <p>And in 2021, Lasse contributed to ABBA’s <em>Voyager </em>album, a reunion work that saw all four key members return with 10 new tracks to share with fans. </p> <p>Fans that have joined the band - and Lasse’s family - in paying tribute on social media, honouring his work and his vast contributions to the world of music. </p> <p>“Such sad news,” wrote one. “My condolences go to his family, friends and all his fellow musicians. RIP Lasse … Thank You For The Music Lasse.”</p> <p>“Such a sad loss. I still remember him on stage in Dortmund 1979, what a great concert, what a great musician,” shared another. “May he rest in peace.”</p> <p>“Thank you for the music Lasse. Your music will live on,” promised one. “Deepest condolences to you all and his family. We are mourning all around the world with you.”</p> <p><em>Images: Getty</em></p>

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Kelsey Grammer's sweet tribute to beloved fallen cast mate

<p>Kelsey Grammer has paid tribute to his beloved friend and former <em>Cheers</em> co-star, who passed away from cancer at age 71.</p> <p>Grammer appeared on The Rachel Ray Show, describing Alley as “radiant”.</p> <p>“I loved Kirstie,” he said. “She was always beautiful. She just had that thing about her. She was a radiant human being and that came through her.”</p> <p>"She knew how to love. She was so honest in her emotions all the time.”</p> <p>Grammer even revealed that he once "got in trouble with the law", and Kirstie was one of the only people who really supported him.</p> <p>“She showed up,” he said. "She was one of the only ones who really showed up to be supportive and that was magnificent. She always made me laugh. Everything she did made me giggle. The first time I went to her house there were lemurs living on the property and I thought, only in Kirstie world.”</p> <p>One of the last times he was supposed to see her was at a book signing for a friend, but Grammer revealed she did not end up attending.</p> <p>"Kirstie was noticeably missing and about a week later she was gone," he said.</p> <p><em>The Rachel Ray Show</em> host responded that she was also fond of Alley, "I'm just blessed that I even knew her and I'm thrilled that you shared some of those thoughts with us. Thank you, my friend.” She told Grammer.</p> <p>Kirstie Alley passed away from pancreatic cancer in December 2022. The <a href="https://www.oversixty.co.nz/news/news/kirstie-alley-dies-at-age-71" target="_blank" rel="noopener">news of her death</a> was announced on Twitter by her children, Lillie and True Parker.</p> <p><em>Image credit: Getty</em></p>

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Have you fallen for the myth of ‘I can’t draw’? Do it anyway – and reap the reward

<p>Drawing is a powerful tool of communication. It helps build self-understanding and can <a href="https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/0276237420923290">boost</a> mental health.</p> <p>But our current focus on productivity, outcomes and “talent” has us thinking about it the wrong way. Too many believe the <a href="http://www.visuallanguagelab.com/P/NC_drawingdevelopment.pdf">myth</a>of “I can’t draw”, when in fact it’s a skill built through practice.</p> <p>Dedicated practice is hard, however, if you’re constantly asking yourself: “What’s the point of drawing?”</p> <p>As I argue in a new <a href="https://www.closure.uni-kiel.de/closure8/fisher">paper</a> in <a href="https://www.closure.uni-kiel.de/start_en">Closure E-Journal for Comic Studies</a>, we need to reframe our concept of what it means to draw, and why we should do it – especially if you think you can’t. </p> <p>Devoting a little time to drawing each day may make you happier, more employable and sustainably productive.</p> <h2>The many benefits of drawing</h2> <p>I’m a keen doodler who turned a hobby into a PhD and then a career. I’ve taught all ages at universities, in library workshops and online. In that time, I’ve noticed many people do not recognise their own potential as a visual artist; self-imposed limitations are common. </p> <p>That’s partly because, over time, drawing as a skill set has been devalued. <a href="https://mili.eu/insights/sunday-times-essential-workers-poll-response">A 2020 poll</a> ranked artist as the top non-essential job. </p> <p>But new jobs are emerging all the time for visual thinkers who can translate complex information into easily understood visuals.</p> <p>Big companies <a href="https://inkfactorystudio.com/">hire</a> comic creators to document corporate meetings visually, so participants can track the flow of ideas in real time. Cartoonists are paid to draft <a href="https://australiacouncil.gov.au/wp-content/uploads/2021/07/Graphic-Storytellers-at-Work-GSAW-Report-Case-Study-One.pdf">innovative, visual contracts</a> for law firms.</p> <p>Perhaps you were told as a child to stop doodling and get back to work. While drawing is often quiet and introspective, it’s certainly not a “waste of time”. On the contrary, it has significant mental health benefits and should be cultivated in children and adults alike.</p> <p>How we feel influences <a href="https://www.researchgate.net/publication/261661107_An_Introduction_to_the_Diagnostic_Drawing_Series_A_Standardized_Tool_for_Diagnostic_and_Clinical_Use">how we draw</a>. Likewise, engaging with drawing affects how we feel; it can help us understand and process our inner world.</p> <p>Art-making can <a href="https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/0276237420923290">reduce anxiety</a>, <a href="https://eric.ed.gov/?id=EJ722383">elevate mood</a>, <a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6124538/">improve quality of life</a> and <a href="https://escholarship.org/uc/item/8bq69315">promote general creativity</a>. Art therapy has even been <a href="https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/16288447/">linked to</a> reduced symptoms of distress and higher quality of life for cancer patients.</p> <p>And it can help you enter a “flow state”, where self-consciousness disappears, focus sharpens, work comes easily to you and mental blockages seem to evaporate.</p> <h2>Cultivating a drawing habit</h2> <p>Cultivating a drawing habit means letting go of biases against drawing and against copying others to learn technique. Resisting the urge to critically compare your work to others’ is also important.</p> <p>Most children don’t care about what’s considered “essential” to a functioning society. They draw instinctively and freely. </p> <p>Part of the reason drawing rates are thought to be <a href="http://mtoku.yourweb.csuchico.edu/vc/Articles/toku/Toku_what%20is%20manga_.html">higher in Japan</a>is their immersion in Manga (Japanese comics), a broadly popular and culturally important medium. </p> <p>Another is an emphasis on diligent practice. Children copy and practise the Manga style, <a href="https://www.jstor.org/stable/20716077">providing a critical stepping stone</a> from free scribbling to controlled representation. Copying is not seen as a no-no; it’s integral to building skill.</p> <p>As researcher and artist Neil Cohn <a href="http://www.visuallanguagelab.com/P/NC_drawingdevelopment.pdf">argues</a>, learning to draw is similar to (and as crucial as) learning language, a skill built through exposure and practice, "Yet, unlike language, we consider it normal for people not to learn to draw, and consider those who do to be exceptional […] Without sufficient practice and exposure to an external system, a basic system persists despite arguably impoverished developmental conditions."</p> <p>So choose an art style you love and copy it. Encourage children to while away hours drawing. Don’t worry about how it turns out. Prioritise the conscious experience of drawing over the result.</p> <p>With regular practice, you may find yourself occasionally melting into states of “<a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Flow_(psychology)">flow</a>”, becoming wholly absorbed. A small, regular pocket of time to temporarily escape the busy world and enter a flow state via drawing may help you in other parts of your life.</p> <h2>How to get started</h2> <p>Use simple tools that you’re comfortable with, whether it’s a ballpoint pen on post-it notes, pencil on paper, a dirty window, or a foggy mirror. </p> <p>Times you’d typically be aimlessly scrolling on your phone are prime candidates for a quick sketch. Doodle when you’re on the phone, watching a movie, bored in a waiting room.</p> <p>Together with mindful doodling, drawing from observation and memory form a holy trinity of sustainable proficiency.</p> <p>Drawing from life strengthens your understanding of space and form. Copying other styles gives you a shortcut to new “visual libraries”. Drawing from memory merges the free play of doodling with the mental libraries developed through observation, bringing imagined worlds to life. </p> <p>With time and persistence, you may find yourself producing drawings you’re proud of. </p> <p>At that point, you can ask yourself: what other self-limiting beliefs are holding me back?</p> <p><em>Image credits: Getty Images</em></p> <p><em>This article originally appeared on <a href="https://theconversation.com/have-you-fallen-for-the-myth-of-i-cant-draw-do-it-anyway-and-reap-the-rewards-172623" target="_blank" rel="noopener">The Conversation</a>.</em></p>

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Cancer mortality has fallen in Australia

<div class="copy"> <p>Cancer is becoming less deadly in Australia, according to the most recent biennial large-scale analysis.</p> <p>The Australian Institute for Health and Welfare (AIHW) has released its <a rel="noreferrer noopener" href="https://www.aihw.gov.au/reports-data/health-conditions-disability-deaths/cancer/reports" target="_blank">biennial report</a> on cancer in Australia, synthesising data on Australian cancers up to the year 2017.</p> <p>It finds that survival rates from cancer are continuing to improve, as they have done since the 1980s, and that the number of cancer diagnoses per 100,000 people has continued to fall from its peak in 2008.</p> <p>Nevertheless, the report also predicts that in 2021 alone, roughly 150,000 Australians will be diagnosed with some form of cancer and 49,000 will die. The authors also estimate that, due to our ageing and growing population, there is likely to be 185,000 cancer diagnoses per year in Australia by 2031.</p> <p>“The estimates for 2021 presented in the report are based on actual data up to the end of 2017. They don’t take into account potential health service disruptions due to COVID-19, but are still useful for identifying trends in cancer cases in Australia,” says AIHW spokesperson Justin Harvey.</p> <p>Cancer diagnosis peaked at 508 cases per 100,000 Australians in 2008, and is now at 486 cases per 100,000 (excluding <a rel="noreferrer noopener" href="https://www.cancer.org.au/cancer-information/types-of-cancer/non-melanoma-skin-cancer" target="_blank">non-melanoma skin cancers</a>, which are more common and typically much less serious than other forms of cancer). This decline is mostly due to improvements in prostate cancer diagnosis, with other forms of cancer diagnosis remaining stable.</p> <p>The death rate from cancer, however, has continued to fall, with overall five-year mortality rates dropping from 49% in 1988-1992, to 30% in 2013-2017. According to the report, there is a number of reasons for this – including a population-wide decrease in smoking, improved early detection methods, and the availability of better treatments.</p> <p>“Changes in survival rates over time varied by cancer type, with the largest survival improvements seen in prostate cancer, kidney cancer, multiple myeloma, non-Hodgkin lymphoma and tongue cancer,” says Harvey.</p> <p>“While many cancers have high rates of survival, people diagnosed with cancers such as pancreatic cancer, lung cancer and mesothelioma have a less than one-in-five chance, on average, of surviving at least five years after diagnosis.”</p> <p>Rare and less common cancers (including cancer of the stomach, liver, bladder and brain) are also deadlier, accounting for 30% of diagnoses in 2017 but 42% of deaths.</p> <p>Cancer is still more deadly for men than it is for women, but this is beginning to equalise, with the male mortality rate falling faster than the female mortality rate.</p> <p>While it’s good news that the death and diagnosis rates are falling, the AIHW report stresses that there is still much work to be done on cancer prevention and treatment. Just under half (42%) of the cancer burden can be attributed to behavioural factors like smoking, and the cancer burden does not fall evenly among Australians.</p> <p>Indigenous Australians are 14% more likely to be diagnosed with cancer and 20% less likely to survive at least five years after diagnosis. People living in the regions are more likely to be diagnosed with cancer, with increasing remoteness tied to decreasing survival chances. And people in the most socioeconomically disadvantaged areas are 5% less likely to be diagnosed with cancer than those in areas with the highest socioeconomic status, but 40% more likely to die from it.</p> <p>The AIHW also stresses that COVID-19 and its associated effects may have undone some of the progress of the past decades.</p> <p>“After increasing by an average of 1% per year over the previous 20 years, the rate of cancer-related hospitalisations decreased by 1% between 2018-19 and 2019-20 – noting that COVID-19 restrictions were in place only during the last quarter of 2019-20,” says Harvey.</p> <p>“COVID-19 restrictions also appear to have affected uptake of breast ultrasound, mammography, breast MRI and colonoscopy.”</p> <p>The report doesn’t cover population-wide data for 2020 and 2021, and this won’t be collated and examined in full for another few years.</p> <p>“The full impact of the COVID-19 pandemic on cancer diagnosis and treatment will not be known for some time,” says Harvey.</p> <!-- Start of tracking content syndication. 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She has a BSc (Honours) in chemistry and science communication, and an MSc in science communication, both from the Australian National University.</p> <p><em>Image: Oleg Elkov / Getty Images</em></p> </div>

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"It's been unbearable": Sarah Jessica Parker finally breaks silence on fallen co-star

<p>Actress Sarah Jessica Parker has broken her silence on the death of her friend and <em>Sex and the City</em> co-star Willie Garson.</p> <p>Willie died on September 21st after a battle with pancreatic cancer.</p> <p>A flood of <a rel="noopener" href="https://oversixty.com.au/health/caring/tributes-pour-in-for-willie-garson-who-has-died-at-57" target="_blank">tributes poured in</a> for the 57-year-old following the news of his death, with SJP saying at the time, "It's too soon".</p> <p>But on Friday, she penned an emotional tribute to her late friend, saying "It's been unbearable."</p> <p>Her caption reads, “Sometimes silence is a statement. Of the gravity. The anguish. The magnitude of the loss of a 30+ year friendship.”</p> <blockquote style="background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);" class="instagram-media" data-instgrm-permalink="https://www.instagram.com/p/CUNtHhyFBf0/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" data-instgrm-version="13"> <div style="padding: 16px;"> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 40px; margin-right: 14px; width: 40px;"></div> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 100px;"></div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 60px;"></div> </div> </div> <div style="padding: 19% 0;"></div> <div style="display: block; height: 50px; margin: 0 auto 12px; width: 50px;"></div> <div style="padding-top: 8px;"> <div style="color: #3897f0; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 550; line-height: 18px;">View this post on Instagram</div> </div> <p style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;"><a style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none;" rel="noopener" href="https://www.instagram.com/p/CUNtHhyFBf0/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" target="_blank">A post shared by SJP (@sarahjessicaparker)</a></p> </div> </blockquote> <p class="css-1316j2p-StyledParagraph e4e0a020">“A real friendship that allowed for secrets, adventure, a shared professional family, truth, concerts, road trips, meals, late night phone calls, a mutual devotion to parenthood and all the heartaches and joy that accompany, triumphs, disappointments, fear, rage and years spent on sets (most especially Carrie’s apartment) and laughing late into the night as both Stanford and Carrie and Willie and SJ.”</p> <p class="css-1316j2p-StyledParagraph e4e0a020">“Willie. I will miss everything about you. And replay our last moments together,” Parker’s post continued.</p> <p class="css-1316j2p-StyledParagraph e4e0a020">“I will re-read every text from your final days and put to pen our last calls. Your absence a crater that I will fill with blessing of these memories and all the ones that are still in recesses yet to surface."</p> <div class="hide-print ad-no-notice css-qyun7f-StyledAdUnitWrapper ezkyf1c0"> <p class="css-1316j2p-StyledParagraph e4e0a020">“My love and deepest sympathies and condolences to you dear Nathen. You were and are the light of Willie’s life and his greatest achievement was being your Papa."</p> <p class="css-1316j2p-StyledParagraph e4e0a020">“These were his last words to me. ‘Great bangles all around.’ Yes. Godspeed Willie Garson. RIP. X, SJ,” she ended her post.</p> <p class="css-1316j2p-StyledParagraph e4e0a020">Along with the lengthy emotional caption, Sarah shared a series of photos of the pair from both on and off screen, as both colleagues and friends.</p> <p class="css-1316j2p-StyledParagraph e4e0a020">The two had recently been working together on the set of <em>And Just Like That...</em>, in which Willie returned to his role as Stanford Blatch, Carrie Bradshaw's lifelong friend.</p> <p class="css-1316j2p-StyledParagraph e4e0a020">Other Sex and the City alumni shared tributes to the actor, including Cynthia Nixon, executive producer of the show Michael Patrick King, and Willie's on-screen partner Mario Cantone.</p> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet"> <p dir="ltr">I couldn’t have had a more brilliant TV partner. I’m devastated and just overwhelmed with Sadness. Taken away from all of us way soon. You were a gift from the gods. Rest my sweet friend. I love you. <a href="https://t.co/Ia4tg1VK1Y">pic.twitter.com/Ia4tg1VK1Y</a></p> — Mario Cantone (@macantone) <a href="https://twitter.com/macantone/status/1440466454160101382?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">September 22, 2021</a></blockquote> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet"> <p dir="ltr">So deeply, deeply sad we have lost <a href="https://twitter.com/WillieGarson?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">@WillieGarson</a>. We all loved him and adored working with him. He was endlessly funny on-screen and and in real life. He was a source of light, friendship and show business lore. He was a consummate professional— always. <a href="https://t.co/G63EJIj8lG">pic.twitter.com/G63EJIj8lG</a></p> — Cynthia Nixon (@CynthiaNixon) <a href="https://twitter.com/CynthiaNixon/status/1440481643936948238?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">September 22, 2021</a></blockquote> <p class="css-1316j2p-StyledParagraph e4e0a020"><em>Image credits: Instagram @sarahjessicaparker</em></p> </div>

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Kabul has fallen: What's happening in Afghanistan

<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">After 20 years of combat and billions of dollars invested by the US and NATO to build up Afghan forces, Taliban fighters have seized nearly all of Afghanistan in little over a week.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">After ousting Taliban forces from power in 2001, the US and Western allies - including Australia - have spent the last 20 years fighting the Taliban, as well as training and equipping Afghan security forces.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Earlier this year, US President Joe Biden announced the US would end its military mission in the country this year, with troops withdrawing by August 31.</span></p> <p><strong>Latest developments</strong></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Kabul, the country’s capital, was seized hours after Afghan President Ashraf Ghani fled the country on Sunday. </span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Though he did not reveal where he had fled to, Mr Ghani said in a Facebook post that he did not want to see bloodshed in Kabul.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Al Jazeera news has since reported that the president, his wife, his chief of staff, and national security advisor have left for Tashkent in Uzbekistan.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The Taliban now say the war in Afghanistan is over, and that they will hold talks in the coming days aimed at forming an “open, inclusive Islamic government”, according to Taliban spokesman and negotiator Suhail Shaheen.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Since the capture of Kabul, helicopters have been seen racing overhead to evacuate personnel from the US Embassy.</span></p> <p><img style="width: 500px; height: 333.49609375px;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7843148/gettyimages-1234687815.jpg" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/ab8f7cf42c514d83b3f282c1913a3e10" /></p> <p><em><span style="font-weight: 400;">A US military helicopter pictured flying above the US embassy. Image: Getty Images</span></em></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Embassy staff destroyed important documents ahead of their evacuation, and the American flag was lowered.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Afghan citizens have also scrambled to flee the country, fearing the Taliban could reintroduce the brutal rules that stripped women of their rights.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Thousands have attempted to flee, with roads reported to be gridlocked and gunfire being heard at the airport.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The United States, Australia, New Zealand and over 50 other nations have also issued a joint statement on Afghanistan, which reads: “Given the deteriorating security situation, we support, are working to secure, and call on all parties to respect and facilitate, the safe and orderly departure of foreign nationals and Afghans who wish to leave the country.”</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“Those in positions of power and authority across Afghanistan bear responsibility - and accountability - for the protection of human life and property, and for the immediate restoration of security and civil order.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“Afghans and international citizens who wish to depart must be allowed to do so; roads, airports and border crossing must remain open, and calm must be maintained.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“The Afghan people deserve to live in safety, security and dignity. We in the international community stand ready to assist them.”</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Russian news has also confirmed that the Taliban has promised to guarantee the safety of the Russian embassy in Kabul, and that it will remain functional.</span></p> <p><strong>Australian forces to rescue Australians</strong></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The Cabinet’s National Security committee has met to discuss military efforts to evacuate citizens and former Afghan staff, while the Federal Government considers increasing the number of Afghan nationals allowed into the country as refugees.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Speaking this morning, Prime Minister Scott Morrison refused to clarify how many Australian citizens remained in Afghanistan, commenting that it is “a very distressing situation”.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“We are working on to ensure we can safely remove people from that situation with partners and allies,” he said.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“I can’t go too much into the operational details of this.”</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">After announcing that RAAF planes would be airlifting Australians and Afghan interpreters and contractors out of the country on Sunday, Mr Morrison refused to confirm whether the changing situation threatened to derail the government’s plans.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“I’m not going to go into the operations; it’s for the protection of those we’re engaged in seeking to provide their safety,” Mr Morrison said.</span></p>

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“Bloody proud”: Ash Barty’s gracious words for fallen opponent

<div class="post_body_wrapper"> <div class="post-body-container"> <div class="post_body"> <div class="body_text redactor-styles redactor-in"> <p>Ash Barty is keeping her Wimbledon dream alive after defeating Ajla Tomljanovic 6-1 6-3 and is on her way to the semi-finals.</p> <p>She will face 2018 champion Angelique Kerber on Thursday, but Barty was full of praise for Tomljanovic after the intense match.</p> <p>“It’s the ultimate test,” Barty said. “Angie’s had success here before. I love that match-up. She knows her way around this court and I know I need to play well to give myself a chance in that match.</p> <p>“This is a dream come true.”</p> <p>Tomljanovic has unfortunately never made it past the round of 16 at a grand slam.</p> <p>“The match-up felt really bad from my side,” Tomljanovic said. “Felt like she was neutralising my serve with the slice, which kind of set the tone for me and made me really uncomfortable because it was hard to break her.</p> <p>“She was serving great, and the slice was just really hard to deal with today.”</p> <p>Barty was still full of praise for her competitor.</p> <p>“Ajla is an incredible competitor. I’ve practised with her a lot, played with her as Fed Cup teammates. She was always going to bring out the very best in me,” Barty said.</p> <p>“I had to play my absolute best to be able to compete with her. She’s had an incredible fortnight and I think all Aussies back home are bloody proud of her. It was really nice to share the court with her today.”</p> </div> </div> </div> </div>

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Home and Away star Ada Nicodemou reveals she’s fallen victim to a scam

<p>Home and Away star Ada Nicodemou has taken to social media to reveal she is the victim of a Facebook scam.</p> <p>The actress discovered her image was being used to promote diet pills and told her fans that the ads were completely “false and untrue”.</p> <p>"It has come to my attention that there is an article circulating which states that I have been using a certain weight loss product, the 40-year-old said in an Instagram post.</p> <p>"This is all very false and untrue," she added, urging people not to believe everything they read. "Hard work / exercise and healthy is what it comes down to."</p> <blockquote style="background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 658px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);" class="instagram-media"> <div style="padding: 8px;"> <div style="background: #F8F8F8; line-height: 0; margin-top: 40px; padding: 50.0% 0; text-align: center; width: 100%;"> <div style="background: url(data:image/png; base64,ivborw0kggoaaaansuheugaaacwaaaascamaaaapwqozaaaabgdbtueaalgpc/xhbqaaaafzukdcak7ohokaaaamuexurczmzpf399fx1+bm5mzy9amaaadisurbvdjlvzxbesmgces5/p8/t9furvcrmu73jwlzosgsiizurcjo/ad+eqjjb4hv8bft+idpqocx1wjosbfhh2xssxeiyn3uli/6mnree07uiwjev8ueowds88ly97kqytlijkktuybbruayvh5wohixmpi5we58ek028czwyuqdlkpg1bkb4nnm+veanfhqn1k4+gpt6ugqcvu2h2ovuif/gwufyy8owepdyzsa3avcqpvovvzzz2vtnn2wu8qzvjddeto90gsy9mvlqtgysy231mxry6i2ggqjrty0l8fxcxfcbbhwrsyyaaaaaelftksuqmcc); display: block; height: 44px; margin: 0 auto -44px; position: relative; top: -22px; width: 44px;"></div> </div> <p style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;"><a style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none;" href="https://www.instagram.com/p/BgQIkYKAz4N/" target="_blank">A post shared by Ada Nicodemou (@adanicodemou)</a> on Mar 12, 2018 at 10:43pm PDT</p> </div> </blockquote> <p>Ada’s former partner Chrys Xippo was the first to alert her to the scam when he shared screenshots of the Facebook advert on his social media. </p> <p>"These clowns using my (moreso my exes) image. Calling me a ruthless warden to then promote some bs weightloss pill..." he wrote, adding, "Get your sh*t together @facebook and clamp down on these scamming sites.”</p> <p><img width="459" height="295" src="https://s.yimg.com/iu/api/res/1.2/BcL5wQaGWsnFKSgY8UCnvg--~D/cm90YXRlPWF1dG87dz05NjA7YXBwaWQ9eXZpZGVv/https://s.yimg.com/ea/img/-/180314/5aa8943a33c07_ada_scam_5aa89431b5b01.jpg" class="article-figure-image" style="display: block; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"/></p> <p>The couple split up in 2015 and have one son, Johnas.</p> <p> </p>

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We’ve fallen in love with our newest foster child

<p><em><strong>Gary and Maxine* felt like they had too much spare time on their hands once they entered retirement. Searching for a purpose, they found it when they fell in love with fostering children.</strong></em></p> <p>Most times I have plenty to say, and very rarely am lost for words, but in recent days, that has changed. So what has happened for this to occur? An adorable, silky blonde-haired little two-year-old girl has entered our lives, and already enriched it beyond belief. She may be only two, but within two days has completely taken over our hearts, our lounge room chairs and our house, and we love it.</p> <p>Our large living/dining room floor area may be completely covered with toys during the day time, but somehow that doesn’t seem to matter.</p> <p>We may not understand everything she says, although we are learning every day, but that doesn’t seem to be important. The look of happiness and contentment on her cute little face has its own unique and special language.</p> <p>So who is Ali*?</p> <p>My wife and I have been foster parents for the last few years, and really enjoyed the experiences. Previously, the children have ranged in age from four to 10 – each one different in some ways but all wanting the things that we think we are able to provide for them.</p> <p>Ali is the youngest and the most innocent. She came here for a short visit a few days before coming to live with us. Although she obviously didn’t know what was about to happen, it gave us a chance to meet her and find out a little about her.</p> <p>Our initial thoughts were that she was totally adorable and couldn’t wait for her to live with us. We then prepared our house and her room in particular in eager anticipation of her arrival.</p> <p>Ali eats anything we give her, helps to pick up her toys before going to bed, sleeps undisturbed for 12 hours at night with a further two hours after lunch, “helps” to wash the dishes, loves having a bath, loves her cuddles, loves having stories read to her, loves to draw… what is there NOT to love about her?</p> <p>Having fostered children previously, everything is every still “new” and we wonder, could we be in what is called the honeymoon period? Possibly, but because she is only two years old there is every possibility that she will not be “damaged” or have “issues” like older children.</p> <p>Even if that is the case, I’m sure it will be nothing major that we cannot rectify. Again, from experience there are sometimes “attachment” problems at the beginning. With Ali that certainly is NOT the case.</p> <p>We have been told that she will be with us for at least 6 months which suits us just fine. We already know that when she does leave us there will be detachment issues, maybe not for Ali but certainly for my wife and me.</p> <p>She is definitely a major part of our family, and our lives will revolve around her. In the days, weeks and months ahead we look forward to slowly introducing her to our wider family and friends. We know they will love her as much as we do.</p> <p>From our point of view, is she going to be a little time waster? Yes. Is she bright and intelligent? Without doubt. Do we look forward to sharing our lives for the next few months with this amazing little girl? Absolutely. Are we biased about her? Probably. My wife tells me she has me wrapped around her little finger, could that be true? Possibly. Lost for words? Definitely.</p> <p><em>*Names have been changed</em></p> <p><em><strong>Do you have a story to share? Share your story with the Over60 community <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><a href="http://www.oversixty.com.au/community/contributor/community-contributor/" target="_blank">here</a></span>.</strong></em></p>

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Prince William rushes to the aid of fallen 72-year-old

<p>Prince William has come to the rescue of a 72-year-old man, after he collapsed during the royal’s visit to an Essex school. Vice Lord-Lieutenant of Essex, John Douglas-Hughes, fell over when welcoming the Duke and Duchess of Cambridge to Stewards Academy School, and William immediately rushed to the man’s side.</p> <p>The ultra-polite 72-year-old actually apologised to the young royal, who immediately replied, “no, it’s all right,” and helped him to his feet.</p> <p>William and Kate were visiting the school as part of their mental health campaign, Heads Together, meeting with students and teachers to help drive the conversation around youth mental health issues such as bullying and stress.</p> <p>“Having met Catherine on a couple of occasions, she's so knowledgeable about mental health and they are really passionate,” Director of Clinical Services at children’s charity Place2Be, Dr Fiona Pienaar said. “I just think it's marvellous what they are doing.”</p> <p>Prior to their visit, William wrote a blog post revealing how his young children inspired him to get involved in the campaign. “Catherine and I have young children who will be going through this themselves in a short period of time,” he wrote. “Like all parents we will want to make sure that our children are not just able to achieve their academic potential at school but are also happy and emotionally supported.</p> <p>“The sooner children learn in life that asking for help is okay, the better. It better equips us for adulthood - just as much as good academic results.”</p> <p><strong>Related links:</strong></p> <p><a href="/news/news/2016/09/prince-william-dances-and-bakes-at-youth-centre/"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong>Prince William shows off dance moves and baking skills at London youth centre</strong></em></span></a></p> <p><a href="/news/news/2016/09/princess-charlotte-first-official-visit-to-canada/"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong>Charlotte and George to accompany Kate and William on official tour</strong></em></span></a></p> <p><a href="/news/news/2016/09/duchess-of-cambridge-reveals-secret-job-desires/"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong>Duchess of Cambridge reveals the job she’d love if she wasn’t a royal</strong></em></span></a></p>

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