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Prince William accused of “flirting” in Edinburgh with 96-year-old

<p><span>Prince William continued his royal tour of Scotland on Sunday, by visiting the Queens Bay Lodge Care home in Edinburgh.</span><br /><br /><span>The royal couldn't shake a flirty encounter though, with some of their residents including 96-year-old Betty Magee.</span><br /><br /><span>"It's customary in these parts to give a lady a kiss on the cheek," she informed Prince William, 38, as he sat across from her at a table.</span><br /><br /><span>"Oh, you are sweet. You'll make me blush," William replied.</span><br /><br /><span>“When the rules relax more, I will come back and give you a kiss on the cheek, Betty."</span></p> <blockquote style="background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);" class="instagram-media" data-instgrm-permalink="https://www.instagram.com/p/CPOOllhlPcW/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" data-instgrm-version="13"> <div style="padding: 16px;"> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 40px; margin-right: 14px; width: 40px;"></div> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 100px;"></div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 60px;"></div> </div> </div> <div style="padding: 19% 0;"></div> <div style="display: block; height: 50px; margin: 0 auto 12px; width: 50px;"></div> <div style="padding-top: 8px;"> <div style="color: #3897f0; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 550; line-height: 18px;">View this post on Instagram</div> </div> <p style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;"><a style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none;" rel="noopener" href="https://www.instagram.com/p/CPOOllhlPcW/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" target="_blank">A post shared by Duke and Duchess of Cambridge (@dukeandduchessofcambridge)</a></p> </div> </blockquote> <p><br /><span>As their conversation went on, Prince William was jokingly told by a staffer, "Could you stop flirting with my residents?"</span><br /><br /><span>"Sorry," William said with a laugh.</span><br /><br /><span>"I'm trying not to — I'm not sure who's flirting more."</span><br /><br /><span>Prince William began the mini-tour solo on Friday by going to Edinburgh in his role as Lord High Commissioner to the General Assembly of the Church of Scotland.</span><br /><br /><span>He was given the role by his grandmother Queen Elizabeth.</span></p> <p><img style="width: 0px; height: 0px;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7841443/prince-william-1.jpg" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/44033d77116242d3a63b23635c790490" /><br /><br /><span>William got to reunite with his wife of 10 years on Monday when the Duchess of Cambridge, 39, joined him in Scotland.</span><br /><br /><span>The couple excited the public with one of their outings where they rejoined together, at St. Andrew's University.</span><br /><br /><span>William and Kate’s special visit to St. Andrews University is said to be a "trip down memory lane," Kensington Palace said.</span></p> <p><em>Images: Getty</em></p>

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How to flirt safely with online dating

<p>Online dating has revolutionised the way we meet people and more and more over 50s are joining this burgeoning online community. However there are some pitfalls you need to be aware of before you go looking for love online in order to avoid flirting with danger.</p> <p>By and large, these dating sites provide the perfect environment to meet interesting, like-minded people as friends or for potential long term or casual relationships.</p> <p>If you aren’t particularly drawn to bars, clubs or hobby or interest groups, it can be difficult to meet people. Online dating sites allow you to be discerning and select people who match your set of interests and philosophies on life. It’s convenient and can be successful, when done safely. And nowadays there are growing number of sites targeted specifically to Baby Boomers.</p> <p><strong>Beware the scammers!</strong></p> <p>Online dating is still a relatively new and modern concept, so you may already be aware that people have been known to encounter some bad experiences online, including in some cases losing significant sums of money as well as their self-confidence and self-esteem.</p> <p>Last year there were 2,770 reports of Dating and Romance scams - a 13.6% increase on the previous year. 43% of Australians who came into contact with dating and romance scams lost over $25 million collectively. You should approach these sites with a healthy mix of enthusiasm and caution.</p> <p>A few of the cardinal rules for those new to online dating are; never organise a date with someone unless it’s in a busy setting with other people around; Do not give away your personal details until you are completely confident about the other party and definitely do not part with any money for a site or person that you don’t know is a completely bona fide entity.</p> <p><strong>Things to watch out for:</strong></p> <ul> <li>Listen to your gut instinct if something doesn’t feel right</li> <li>Do not give out personal info too early</li> <li>Do a background check on the person</li> <li>Beware of people who pressure you to meet up instantly</li> <li>Look out for inconsistencies in the person’s profile compared to what they say about themselves when you actually talk to them</li> </ul> <p><strong>Great tips for online flirting:</strong></p> <ul> <li>Try to have light, general conversations online initially – humour is always a good start (always keep it tasteful!)</li> <li>Always compliment your date</li> <li>Avoid being overly suggestive and using sexual innuendo</li> <li>Don’t feel pressured to meet with someone you are uncertain about</li> <li>If you are a male Baby Boomer, it is always polite to offer to pay for the female date on initial outings</li> <li>It sounds obvious, but don’t drink too much alcohol</li> <li>Initially go for a shorter date for a first meeting, in case there is no chemistry or common ground</li> <li>It’s never makes a good impression to talk about your ex-partners on the first couple of dates</li> <li>Don’t go on about yourself for too long, remember to also be a good listener</li> <li>It’s ok to kiss on a first date nowadays – but just a peck on the cheek!</li> <li>Appropriate dressing – ladies, don’t wear something too provocative, nor too frumpy and shapeless. Go for smart, confident and slightly on trend. (the latter applies to men also)</li> </ul> <p><em>Written by Danielle Cesta. Republished with permission of <a href="https://www.wyza.com.au/articles/lifestyle/relationships/how-to-flirt-safely-with-online-dating.aspx">Wyza.com.au.</a></em></p>

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This confused peacock is trying to flirt with a chicken

<p>Odds are you’ve resonated with the old saying, “You can’t help who you fall in love with,” at some point (or maybe multiple points) in your life. Well, if this video is anything to go by, it seems like it also rings true in the animal world.</p> <p>In the video, a brightly-coloured, smitten (and somewhat confused) male peacock at Symbio Wildlife Park tries to use his charms to capture the attention of a nearby chicken.</p> <p>But as you can see, the chicken isn’t having anything.</p> <p>The nonplussed bird couldn’t be any less interested, despite the intricate display.</p> <p>But hey, I’m sure we’ve all been there before!</p> <p>Have you ever seen a peacock?</p> <p><em>Video credit: Symbio Wildlife Park via Storyful</em></p>

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Tiny spiders flirt on researcher’s hand

<p>Back in the old days, before the deluge of online dating apps, if you wanted to meet someone you had to get your dancing shoes on. And, if this footage is anything to go by, if you’re a peacock spider looking for love this is still the case.</p> <p>Michael Doe, a researcher working as part of Project Maratus, has filmed a <a href="http://www.oversixty.com.au/news/news/2017/01/spider-drawing-illusion-video/"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>pair of tiny peacock spiders</strong></span></a> performing their bizarre courting ritual on his hand.</p> <p>The male spider moves from side to side over the researcher’s hand, shaking his hind legs, while the female spider looks on (from what we can tell, somewhat unimpressed).</p> <p>Whether this pair were made in the stars remains to be seen, but it just goes to show you that in some ways <a href="http://www.oversixty.com.au/news/news/2015/11/man-fear-of-spiders-causes-police-visit/"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>spiders aren’t too different</strong></span></a> from humans after all.</p> <p>What’s the craziest thing you’ve ever seen an animal (or human) do?</p> <p><em>Credit: Facebook/Michael Doe (Project Maratus via Storyful)</em></p>

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10 key flirting tips

<p><strong><em>John Aiken is RSVP’s dating and relationship expert, as seen on Channel 9's series “Married At First Sight”, and the ABC documentary “Making Couples Happy”. He is also the author of the book “Making Couples Happy: How science can help get relationships back on track”.</em></strong></p> <p>For many of you the act of flirting will come quite naturally. You can simply turn it on anywhere, any time and get the attention of others around you. Whether it's your eye contact, banter, body language, appearance and/or sense of humour - you've got it. And as a result, dating is a process that you enjoy and get really excited about. </p> <p>For others however, flirting can be like a foreign language. A way of interacting with others that is very unnatural, it feels awkward and uncomfortable. A confusing process that usually ends with you feeling deflated and anxious about the future. </p> <p>If you're in this camp, then help is on the way. Here are 10 key flirting tips to assist you in making a positive impact on other singles:</p> <p><strong>1. Make eye contact</strong></p> <p>It all begins with the eyes. Getting someone's attention can be done by making eye contact and letting them know you're interested. Don't stare them down - that's going to make them run the other way! Instead, just do enough to let them know you're keen. And when you're with them, look them in the eye and show them that you're present and having a good time.</p> <p><strong>2. Smile</strong></p> <p>When you smile at someone you're showing warmth and interest. It creates a great chemistry and lets the other person know that you're enjoying them and their company. It takes the nerves out of the situation and makes everything seem more relaxed.</p> <p><strong>3. Ask questions</strong></p> <p>Everyone loves to talk about themselves. Rather than trying to carry the load of keeping a conversation going - ask questions. Let them contribute to the discussion. It shows them that you want to know more about them - and that you're curious. If also tells them you're not “all about you”.</p> <p><strong>4. Listen</strong></p> <p>It's a basic skill – but it's one that really has an impact. Forget about looking at your phone for texts, responding to calls or scanning the room for other attractive singles. Listen to the person standing in front of you and make them feel heard and important.</p> <p><strong>5. Use humour</strong></p> <p>One great way to flirt with someone is to be humorous and show off your funny side. To tease a little and engage in some good-natured banter. I'm not talking about trying too hard to be the comedian in the room - just give them a glimpse of your lighter side and have some laughs.</p> <p><strong>6. Don't talk too much</strong></p> <p>Avoid talking about yourself too much. Some self-disclosure is important so that you don't have a one-sided conversation - but don't make it all about you. Make sure you give them the space to get into the flow of the conversation and allow the spotlight to fall on them.</p> <p><strong>7. Pay compliments</strong></p> <p>Everyone loves to receive a compliment. Be aware to play it safe and avoid getting creepy or too intense with your praise. Just drop in the odd bit of praise so that they feel special, attractive and gives them a sign that you're interested.  </p> <p><strong>8. Avoid cheesy one-liners</strong></p> <p>Never, ever, ever try to flirt by using cheesy one-liners. It will come off as being too practised, you'll appear desperate, and the exchange won't feel natural. You want to be yourself when flirting and show off your real personality rather than one that's insincere and needy. </p> <p><strong>9. Respect their personal space</strong></p> <p>When you're flirting with someone let them breathe and have their own personal space. Don't get in their face and become smothering, intense and touchy-feely. They need to feel safe to engage with you and have some fun - crowding them is only going to push them away.  </p> <p><strong>10. Be aware of your body language</strong></p> <p>When you’re talking to another person be aware of your body language. Avoid crossing your arms and closing off to your potential love interest. Instead, be open in your stance, have a strong tall posture, and give off an appearance of confidence and poise.</p> <p>What are your key flirting tips you would like to share with the community? Let us know in the comments below.</p> <p><em>Written by John Aiken. First appeared on <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><a href="http://www.datehub.com.au/" target="_blank">datehub.com.au.</a></span></strong></em></p> <p><strong>Related links:</strong></p> <p><a href="/lifestyle/relationships/2016/07/10-key-tips-to-successful-online-dating/"><em><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">10 key tips to successful online dating</span></strong></em></a></p> <p><a href="/lifestyle/relationships/2016/07/great-first-date-ideas-for-seniors/"><em><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">5 great ideas for a first date</span></strong></em></a></p> <p><a href="/lifestyle/relationships/2016/07/tips-to-feel-connected-to-others/"><em><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">9 tips to help you feel connected to others</span></strong></em></a></p>

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