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Mother helps raise over $1 million for her children ahead of her death

<p>A single mother from America has left an enduring financial legacy to her two young children in the weeks before her untimely death. </p> <p>Erika Diarte-Carr, 30, started a <a href="https://www.gofundme.com/f/help-erika-and-her-children-with-funeral-expenses" target="_blank" rel="noopener">GoFundMe</a> page after she was diagnosed with terminal cancer in order to cover costs of her own funeral, as well as providing funds to raise her two kids,  Jeremiah, 7, and Aaliyah, 5.</p> <p>After setting the fundraising goal for $5,000 USD, generous members of her community spread the word of her selfless actions, with the fundraiser now reaching over $1.7 million USD and counting. </p> <p>Titled “Support Erika: A Mother planning her own funeral”, the page has garnered more than 38,000 individual donations.</p> <p>The page reads, “Dear family, friends and to all of those of you who may or may not know know me..."</p> <p>“My name is Erika Diarte-Carr. I am 30 years old and a single mother of two beautiful children. Jeremiah (7) and Aaliyah (5). ❤️ They are my whole life, light and soul. My children are my fight and what keep me going.”</p> <p>The mother then shared the tragic details of her cancer journey, as she recalled being diagnosed with stage 4 terminal cancer in May 2022 after presenting for “normal shoulder surgery”.</p> <p>“By that point, the damage had already been done. In that moment, mine and my kids’ entire lives had changed forever, as well as all of those around us,” she wrote.</p> <p>On top of her cancer diagnosis, Erika was hit with another blow in January 2024 as she was diagnosed with Cushing's Syndrome, which resulted in rapid weight gain, Type 2 diabetes, and further debilitating symptoms the mother claimed had “taken so much away” from her family.</p> <p>The page was updated in mid-September upon advice Ms Diarte-Carr had just three months to live and that treatments would “no longer help”.</p> <p>The mother added to the GoFundMe page how the excess funds would be allocated, writing, “For anyone’s concern, all the funds that have exceeded my funeral costs goal will be now put into a trust fund for my babies that way I can leave behind something for them and I can still ensure they are going to be ok as they grow up."</p> <p>On October 4th, the mother thanked donors and announced she and her family were able to take one final trip together hoping to leave her kids with “memories that’ll last a lifetime”.</p> <p>Just days later, Erika's cousin shared a post to social media to announce that Erika had passed away on October 12th.</p> <p>“It is with a heavy heart that this is the final update I will be giving for my cousin Erika,” she wrote on Facebook.</p> <p>“She fought a long and hard battle. She was strong and held on as long as she could for her babies. I know she was so thankful for all of your support and love and prayers.”</p> <p><em>Image credits: GoFundMe</em></p>

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Elon Musk tops donations as millions raised for Trump shooting victims

<p>In the wake of the assassination attempt on former President Donald Trump, a groundswell of support has emerged from celebrities, business leaders, Republican Party notables and countless regular Americans for those affected by the event that left Trump injured, one man dead, and two others in critical condition.</p> <p>A <a href="https://www.gofundme.com/f/president-trump-seeks-support-for-butler-pa-victims" target="_blank" rel="noopener">GoFundMe campaign</a>, initiated by Trump's top finance person, Meredith O'Rourke of Tallahassee, initially set a goal of $1 million. However, by Monday morning, donations had already far surpassed this target. As of Monday evening, the online fundraiser had amassed over $4.6 million from more than 60,000 donations.</p> <p>Prominent figures have made substantial contributions, with tech mogul Elon Musk donating $100,000 in two instalments late on Monday, while the Ultimate Fighting Championship and its president, Dana White, each contributed $50,000.</p> <p>Meredith O'Rourke, the organiser of the fundraiser, said that the collected funds would support the victims and their families, aiding in recovery and providing assistance to those in mourning. "This is about coming together as a community to help those who have suffered from this senseless act of violence," O'Rourke stated.</p> <p>Among the victims is volunteer fire chief <a href="https://www.oversixty.co.nz/health/caring/hero-victim-identified-at-trump-rally-shooting" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Corey Comperatore</a>, aged 50, who was praised by Pennsylvania Governor Josh Shapiro as a hero who shielded his wife and daughter during the shooting. Two other individuals remain in critical condition as they recover from their injuries.</p> <p>Here are some of the notable donors who have contributed to the "Butler PA Victims GoFundMe" campaign:</p> <p><strong>Elon Musk:</strong> $100,000. The Tesla CEO, X (formerly Twitter) owner, and SpaceX founder, now a Texas resident, has a significant presence in Florida due to regular launches from Cape Canaveral.</p> <p><strong>Kenneth C. Griffin:</strong> $100,000. The founder and CEO of multinational hedge fund Citadel LLC, Griffin, is a Daytona Beach native who maintains a home in Miami.</p> <p><strong>Governor Rick &amp; Ann Scott:</strong> $50,000. Rick Scott, the former governor of Florida, has been serving as a U.S. senator from Florida since 2019.</p> <p><strong>Kid Rock:</strong> $50,000. Versatile musician and entertainer Kid Rock is renowned for blending rock, hip-hop, and country genres, delivering energetic performances and chart-topping hits over a career spanning more than two decades.</p> <p><em>Image: GoFundMe</em></p>

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“So tacky”: Bride slammed for using GoFundMe to pay for wedding

<p dir="ltr">A cash-strapped bride has been slammed for considering using GoFundMe to help pay for her wedding. </p> <p dir="ltr">Taking to a wedding page on Facebook, the bride explained that she and her partner had been saving as much money as possible for their wedding, but were struggling with their finances. </p> <p dir="ltr">“Our wedding is next year but I'm still so stressed that we won't be able to pay for the things that we need let alone actual decorations,” the bride began.</p> <p dir="ltr">Given the large expense of a wedding, the bride questioned if it was “tacky” to use GoFundMe, a crowd-funding website used for emergencies, to fund her big day. </p> <p dir="ltr">People were quick to chime in on the idea, with many people labelling it as “inappropriate” to use such a site for wedding expenses. </p> <p dir="ltr">The bride didn't share how much extra money she needs to fund the wedding, but many said she should continue to save rather than rely on others.  </p> <p dir="ltr">“Have the wedding you can afford, or wait and save,” one said bluntly. </p> <p dir="ltr">“Personally I think it is [tacky]. If you want to have a wedding you should be funding it yourself. If you can't afford all the things you want, then I guess you have to decide if you would rather go without or postpone until it's in your budget,” another wrote. </p> <p dir="ltr">One woman said it's “insensitive” since GoFundMe pages are for emergencies only, such as medical situations. </p> <p dir="ltr">“If you can't afford to have the wedding you want you really have two choices - postpone until in a better position financially or scale back your plans to fit within your means,” she said.</p> <p dir="ltr"><em>Image credits: Getty Images </em></p>

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“You deserve more”: Company slammed over measly send-off party

<p dir="ltr">A company has been slammed online for their measly attempt to farewell a hard-working employee of 42 years. </p> <p dir="ltr">John Barlett was a dedicated worker for four decades, commuting long distances to work at minimum wage and give his all to his colleagues. </p> <p dir="ltr">After 42 years of hard work, John announced his retirement from the company, prompting a measly farewell party from his place of work. </p> <p dir="ltr">One of John’s longtime co-worker, Sonia, was devastated over the injustice, sharing a short clip to social media of John – now in his 70s – and what she felt was his hard work going unappreciated.</p> <p dir="ltr">“Today is my co-worker’s last day. He worked for this company for 42 years making minimum wage,” Sonia wrote with the video. </p> <p dir="ltr">“The company only threw him a barbecue and gave him a certificate. He takes the bus and Bart (train) to get here every day on time. He’s 70+.”</p> <p dir="ltr">“He loves working here so much he didn’t want to retire. [He got] No bonus, just a barbecue and a certificate. Don’t be a slave to your job. Thank you John for your loyalty.”</p> <p dir="ltr">The video quickly went viral and was flooded with comments of support for John, with one person even suggesting that John start a <a href="https://www.gofundme.com/f/happy-retirement-john" target="_blank" rel="noopener">GoFundMe</a> for people to contribute to his retirement. </p> <p dir="ltr">In the fundraiser, she revealed John could not drive because of a disability, but “rain or shine” would always make it to work.</p> <p dir="ltr">He was “extremely dependable”, Sonia added, revealing it had been difficult to convince him to take a break because he always wanted to work. </p> <p dir="ltr">He was “one of the most talented and hard working” employees at the company and his energy was “unmatched”, she said. </p> <p dir="ltr">“He has no wife or kids, however he does have a nephew whom he loves dearly,” she wrote in the fundraiser.</p> <p dir="ltr">“It would be nice to give him some kind of company or something to do so he knows that he’s special and loved.”</p> <p dir="ltr">In the few days since the GoFundMe was created, it has raised almost $45,000, as many shared their comments of support.</p> <p dir="ltr">One person wrote, “Happy retirement, John. You deserve more than what this company has offered you. Wish you all the best in your life and your future.”</p> <p dir="ltr"><em>Image credits: GoFundMe</em></p>

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Heartbreaking rare diagnosis for baby "Coey"

<p>A devastated family have made an emotional plea to help their son Coen. </p> <p>Known as Coey to his family and friends, the 11-month-old boy was recently diagnosed with Gabriele de vries Syndrome: an incredibly rare disease shared with only 14 other children in the world. </p> <p>Close family friend Jodie Schroder is organising the appeal on behalf of Coey's parents, Hayley and Trent van der Jagt, in order to help raise awareness for the disorder, and appeal for donations to help with extensive medical costs. </p> <p>According to the Caring for Coey <a href="https://www.gofundme.com/f/caring-for-coey" target="_blank" rel="noopener">GoFundMe</a> page, Gabriele de vries Syndrome has varied outcomes, and "is characteristiced by mild-to-profound developmental delay / intellectual disability and a wide spectrum of functional and morphologic abnormalities." </p> <p>"People with Gabriele de vries often experience feeding difficulties and other systemic difficulties, including congenital brain, eye, heart, kidney, genital, and/or skeletal system anomalies."</p> <p>For most of Coey's life, he has been fed with a nasal gastric tube due to a series of complications with his birth and numerous physical difficulties. </p> <p>Due to his extensive medical problems, Coey suffers from "recurrent infections requiring multiple hospitalisations at Campbelltown, Randwick and Westmead Children’s hospitals," which has been "considerably stressful for his family."</p> <p>According to the donation page, "Children with Gabriele de vries syndrome are also more likely to experience difficulties associated with anxiety, ADHD, Autism and Schizoaffective disorder. Currently Coen has also been diagnosed with a Global Developmental Delay secondary to his Gabriele de vries syndrome."</p> <p>Jodie created the page to ask for donations to help with the "substantial" costs of Coey's treatment, "that are not met due to limited resources under the NDIS."</p> <p>The costs Coey's family are met with include physiotherapy, speech therapy, occupational therapy, "out-of-pocket medical treatment" and "psychological therapies as he gets older."</p> <p>All the money raised on the page will go directly to Coey's numerous treatments, as well as "other expenses over the next few years including accommodation close to hospitals and day-to-day living expenses."</p> <p>On top of Coey's diagnosis, his mum Hayley is also suffering from a work accident that requires surgery and extensive physical therapy, which has placed an additional "emotional and financial stress on their family."</p> <p>Jodie says in the post that despite his many challenges at such a young age, Coey has an "infectious giggle" and "he adores his big brother, Miles", and hopes any donations will help "see him flourish and grow to become the healthiest, warm-hearted boy we all know him to be."</p> <p>Check out the <span style="font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Segoe UI', Roboto, Oxygen, Ubuntu, Cantarell, 'Open Sans', 'Helvetica Neue', sans-serif;">Caring for Coey</span><span style="font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Segoe UI', Roboto, Oxygen, Ubuntu, Cantarell, 'Open Sans', 'Helvetica Neue', sans-serif;"> </span><a style="font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Segoe UI', Roboto, Oxygen, Ubuntu, Cantarell, 'Open Sans', 'Helvetica Neue', sans-serif;" href="https://www.gofundme.com/f/caring-for-coey" target="_blank" rel="noopener">GoFundMe</a><span style="font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Segoe UI', Roboto, Oxygen, Ubuntu, Cantarell, 'Open Sans', 'Helvetica Neue', sans-serif;"> </span><span style="font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, 'Segoe UI', Roboto, Oxygen, Ubuntu, Cantarell, 'Open Sans', 'Helvetica Neue', sans-serif;">page for more information and to show your support.</span></p> <p><em>Image credits: GoFundMe</em></p>

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Terminally ill teen donates his life savings to a boy with cancer

<p>A teenager who has been given just months to live has donated his life savings to a young boy's cancer battle. </p> <p>Rhys Langford, 19, was diagnosed with osteosarcoma, a type of cancer that starts in the bones, in October 2020. </p> <p>After 16 months of extensive chemotherapy, immunotherapy and surgeries, the Welsh teenager was declared cancer-free. </p> <p>However, in November last year, he started to get sick again.</p> <p class="css-1316j2p-StyledParagraph e4e0a020">“I ended up with sepsis and a massive blood clot in the femoral vein, I spent nearly five weeks in hospital again, underwent further tests, MRI’s, CT scans, to be told on 4th January this year my cancer has come back,” he wrote.</p> <p class="css-1316j2p-StyledParagraph e4e0a020">“Now there is nothing more that can be done for me,” he said.</p> <p class="css-1316j2p-StyledParagraph e4e0a020">“I am dying.”</p> <p class="css-1316j2p-StyledParagraph e4e0a020">Rhys had come to terms with the fact that his journey was coming to an end, and was devastated to learn that six-year-old Jacob's battle with cancer had just begun. </p> <p class="css-1316j2p-StyledParagraph e4e0a020">Jacob was <span>diagnosed with neuroblastoma just before Christmas 2017, prompting his family to raise thousands of pounds for experimental treatments. </span><br /><span></span></p> <p class="css-1316j2p-StyledParagraph e4e0a020"><span>After several months of chemotherapy and surgeries, he too was declared cancer-free in 2019. </span></p> <p class="css-1316j2p-StyledParagraph e4e0a020"><span>After two years cancer-free, a new lesion appeared on Jacob's liver in January, instilling the worst fears in his family's mind that his cancer had returned.</span></p> <p class="css-1316j2p-StyledParagraph e4e0a020"><span>When Rhys learned of Jacob's plight, he donated $1,900 to Jacob's treatment and set up a GoFundMe page, which has since raised more than $88,000.</span></p> <p class="css-1316j2p-StyledParagraph e4e0a020"><span>“I know nothing can be done for me now but as one of my many last wishes I would like to help Jacob and help him fight this awful disease,” Rhys said, “I know what the treatments and awful drugs do to your body. It’s hell.”</span></p> <p class="css-1316j2p-StyledParagraph e4e0a020"><span>“Jacob is now six and has been fighting this disease most of his life. It should not be this way.”</span></p> <p class="css-1316j2p-StyledParagraph e4e0a020"><span>Jacob’s family said their “thoughts and love go out to this young man”, thanking him on behalf of Jacob and his “fight team”.</span></p> <p class="css-1316j2p-StyledParagraph e4e0a020">“We have had a fantastic donation of £1,000 from a wonderful person called Rhys ... he was reading about Jacob’s relapse and got really upset and wanted to do something to help him,” they said.</p> <p class="css-1316j2p-StyledParagraph e4e0a020">“His words were, ‘If they can’t save me I would like to help save this little boy Jacob’.”</p> <p class="css-1316j2p-StyledParagraph e4e0a020"><em>Image credits: GoFundMe / Facebook</em></p>

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Convenient but susceptible to fraud: Why it makes sense to regulate charitable crowdfunding

<p>Within 24 hours of <a rel="noopener" href="https://theconversation.com/why-the-southern-us-is-prone-to-december-tornadoes-173643" target="_blank">devastating tornadoes striking six states</a> in December 2021, Kentucky Gov. Andy Beshear launched the <a rel="noopener" href="https://secure.kentucky.gov/formservices/Finance/WKYRelief" target="_blank">Team Western Kentucky Tornado Relief Fund</a>. That the leader of the state this disaster hit hardest would immediately tap into <a rel="noopener" href="https://www.councilofnonprofits.org/tools-resources/crowdfunding-nonprofits" target="_blank">crowdfunded charity</a> – raising money from the public directly – to complement relief dollars from official sources should come as no surprise.</p> <p>Crowdfunded donations have become a key source of disaster assistance – and often raise significant sums. In 2017, for example, football star J.J. Watt quickly raised more than $40 million help people affected by <a rel="noopener" href="https://www.houstontexans.com/news/j-j-watt-foundation-announces-hurricane-harvey-recap-and-2018-19-plans" target="_blank">Hurricane Harvey</a>. Following a series of Australian wildfires, entertainer Celeste Barber made a public appeal that eventually raised more than AU$50 million for the <a rel="noopener" href="https://eprints.qut.edu.au/200554" target="_blank">New South Wales Rural Fire Service &amp; Brigades Donation Fund</a>. And to date, the CDC Foundation has raised more than $51 million to support its “<a rel="noopener" href="https://give4cdcf.org/?utm_source=CDCF&amp;utm_medium=web&amp;utm_campaign=combat-coronavirus" target="_blank">Crush COVID</a>” campaign.</p> <p>What’s not to like about this new way to raise funds for a good cause? Well, as long as there has been charitable fundraising there has been the <a rel="noopener" href="https://theconversation.com/how-donors-can-help-make-nonprofits-more-accountable-85927" target="_blank">potential for scams</a>.</p> <p>As a <a rel="noopener" href="https://scholar.google.com/citations?user=uplx-M8AAAAJ&amp;hl=en&amp;oi=ao" target="_blank">law professor who studies the regulation of charities</a>, as well as a lawyer who has represented numerous charities and donors in legal disputes, I’ve seen that two aspects of charitable crowdfunding make it particularly vulnerable to fraud.</p> <p><strong>Sometimes it turns out to be crowd-frauding</strong></p> <p>In late 2017, a New Jersey couple posted an inspiring story on GoFundMe. A homeless veteran, they said, had come to the wife’s rescue after she ran out of gas on a highway exit ramp. Their “<a rel="noopener" href="https://abc7ny.com/homeless-hero-gofundme-money-stolen-from-man-john-bobbitt-gofund-me-go-fund/4690185/" target="_blank">Paying it Forward</a>” campaign raised more than $400,000 to help the veteran.</p> <p>Heartwarming, right? Trouble is, it was a lie. All three of the people involved in this trickery eventually <a rel="noopener" href="https://www.inquirer.com/news/mark-damico-johnny-bobbitt-kate-mcclure-gofundme-guilty-20211122.html" target="_blank">pleaded guilty to federal charges</a> of “<a rel="noopener" href="https://www.dicindiolaw.com/what-constitutes-theft-by-deception/" target="_blank">theft by deception</a>.”</p> <p>Fraudulent crowdfunding can also prey on political sentiments rather than just exploiting sympathy.</p> <p>In 2020, <a rel="noopener" href="https://www.justice.gov/usao-sdny/pr/leaders-we-build-wall-online-fundraising-campaign-charged-defrauding-hundreds-thousands" target="_blank">federal prosecutors charged</a> former senior Trump adviser Steve Bannon and three others with defrauding thousands of donors to a crowdfunding campaign for <a rel="noopener" href="https://theconversation.com/why-steve-bannon-faces-fraud-charges-4-questions-answered-144834" target="_blank">building portions of a wall</a> along the U.S. border with Mexico. Bannon and his partners allegedly instead used some of the funds raised to compensate themselves and pay for personal expenses.</p> <p>Although then-President <a rel="noopener" href="https://www.cnbc.com/2021/01/19/trump-pardons-expected-day-before-biden-inauguration.html" target="_blank">Donald J. Trump pardoned Bannon</a> in advance of any trial, the former White House aide still <a rel="noopener" href="https://www.forbes.com/sites/alisondurkee/2021/05/25/steve-bannon-officially-cleared-of-federal-charges-after-trump-pardon---but-this-state-probe-still-looms/?sh=1a58e95657c4" target="_blank">faces possible state charges</a>.</p> <p><strong>Reasons for vulnerability</strong></p> <p>Making a special website isn’t necessary to raise charitable funds this way. Some 45 million people donated to or created a fundraiser using Facebook from 2015 to 2020, raising over <a rel="noopener" href="https://about.fb.com/news/2019/09/2-billion-for-causes/" target="_blank">$3 billion for charities</a>, according the company.</p> <p>And crowdfunding efforts can help people without <a rel="noopener" href="https://www.irs.gov/taxtopics/tc506" target="_blank">technically counting as tax-deductible charity</a>. <a rel="noopener" href="https://www.gofundme.com/" target="_blank">GoFundMe</a>, a popular charitable crowdfunding platform, lets people raise funds for both personal needs, such as covering medical expenses, and for specific charities of all kinds.</p> <p>Being fast and cheap to operate makes charitable crowdfunding ideal in some ways, not others. More traditional fundraising campaigns that rely on mailings and phone calls are time-consuming to establish. In contrast, it’s possible to set up a new campaign on GoFundMe that is then visible both nationally and internationally within a few minutes.</p> <p>In the wake of a highly publicized disaster, when many people are <a rel="noopener" href="https://theconversation.com/how-to-select-a-disaster-relief-charity-83928" target="_blank">looking for a quick way to help</a>, everyone – even governors – will want to move fast. Opportunities for fraud are perhaps at their peak.</p> <p>Compounding this problem: Laws governing charitable fundraising do not clearly apply to campaign organizers and crowdfunding platforms. As I detail in an article <a rel="noopener" href="https://papers.ssrn.com/sol3/papers.cfm?abstract_id=3686612" target="_blank">soon to be published in the Indiana Law Journal</a>, state legislatures wrote those laws decades ago, when charities raised money either directly or using paid solicitors. As a result, those laws do not usually apply to individuals who voluntarily raise money for individuals or charities to which they have no formal ties. Nor do they apply to the recently emerged platforms where people crowdfund for causes.</p> <p><strong>California takes aim</strong></p> <p>So far, there’s no regulation taking shape to address these issues at the federal level.</p> <p>California became the first state to pass legislation specifically targeting charitable crowdfunding when Gov. Gavin Newson signed Assembly Bill No. 488 into law in October 2021. The measure, which will not <a rel="noopener" href="https://leginfo.legislature.ca.gov/faces/billNavClient.xhtml?bill_id=202120220AB488" target="_blank">take effect until Jan. 1, 2023</a>, requires both charities raising funds online and platforms hosting campaigns for specific charities to register and file regular reports with the state’s <a rel="noopener" href="https://oag.ca.gov/charities" target="_blank">Registry of Charitable Trusts</a>.</p> <p>The new law will also require these charities and platforms to make certain public disclosures and receipts, as needed. It will also require platforms to promptly distribute donations to the designated charities and obtain a charity’s written consent before soliciting funds for its benefit – with some exceptions.</p> <p>In my view, California’s new law is a good first effort.</p> <p>It places the burden of compliance on the charities themselves and the handful of online platforms engaged in this work, not on the numerous individuals who start campaigns. But it remains to be seen whether the registration, reporting, disclosure and other requirements will create enough transparency and accountability to sufficiently deter fraud without over burdening legitimate charities and platforms.</p> <p>I appreciate the difficult task legislators face in striking a balance that avoids both over- and underregulation. Lawmakers do not want to overregulate charitable crowdfunding to the point that generous individuals and legitimate charities shy away from launching campaigns because of the legal burdens of doing so.</p> <p>That is, all new laws and regulations, in addition to discouraging crowdfunding fraud, ought to encourage generosity.</p> <p>At the same time, lawmakers want to regulate charitable crowdfunding enough to ensure that all or almost all funds raised go the individuals and charities that the donors intend to support. Time will tell whether California and the states that follow its example have struck the right balance.<!-- Below is The Conversation's page counter tag. 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Children killed in Hillcrest tragedy identified amid overwhelming support

<p><em>Image: GoFundMe</em></p> <p>Tributes from all over the world are pouring in as people have dug deep to support the victims and their families following the horrific jumping castle tragedy in Tasmania that has killed five children and critically injured several more.</p> <p>Zoe Smith, who describes herself as “a local girl who grew up in Devonport”, said she started a GoFundMe fundraising page despite not knowing any of the children killed or injured.</p> <p>An overwhelming number of donations have been lodged so far, with more than $250,000 raised in less than 24 hours – and the total is continuing to rise quickly in the wake of such a tragic incident.</p> <p>Police say a “significant local wind event” contributed to the jumping castle flying more than 10 metres into the air as students from Hillcrest Primary School gathered to celebrate the end of the school year.</p> <p>It’s unknown at this stage how many children were on the jumping castle at the time, or how it was anchored down.</p> <p>Messages of condolence are flowing in for two of the students who have been identified among the dead, with separate GoFundMe pages set up for them.</p> <p>They were named as Grade Six students Zane and Addison.</p> <p>Addison’s aunt wrote that she “was always such a sweet kind, old soul.”</p> <p>“My niece was tragically taken in the accident at Hillcrest Primary. I’m hoping to raise some money for my brother and sister in-law to help pay for funeral costs and to pay off some bills for them while they try and navigate life without their precious daughter,” she wrote. “They have another daughter and son to take care of and I’m hoping to alleviate some of the stress of bills.”</p> <p>Ms Smith said set up her fundraiser because she was “moved by the tragedy” like many other Australians and wanted to do something “to support the families throughout Christmas”.</p> <p>“All funds will go to the families of the children who were tragically killed and injured to not only support them but provide them with much needed gifts in this time of such sadness,” she said. “All the funds will be donated to the school and the Parents and Friends committee to be distributed to the families affected!”</p> <p>“Any donation is much appreciated and hopefully we as the incredible community of Devonport can rally to support such deserving and hurting people,” Ms Smith said.</p> <p>Support has been put in place for the school community, including school counsellors and chaplains for use over the holiday period.</p> <p>In an interview on The Project, Mayor Annette Rockcliff said she had met the students only last week after visiting the primary school.</p> <p>“I did meet all of those children last week, I was in their classroom for an hour or so, so it’s tough to think about that”, she said, looking visibly upset.</p> <p>Police officers who responded to the scene were visible distressed by what they saw.</p> <p>“These children were meant to be celebrating their last day of primary school, instead we’re all mourning their loss,” Tasmania Police Commissioner Darren Hine said. “Emergency services were called to the scene around 10 am this morning after a wind gust had reportedly caused the jumping castle and inflatable zorb balls to lift into the air.”</p> <p>“Our thoughts are also with those emergency services personnel who attended to try and save these people’s lives,” he said.</p> <p>Investigations are underway into the incident, with involvement from WorkSafe Tasmania.</p> <p>Mr Hine said that investigation could take “quite some time”.</p> <p>You can donate to the GoFundMe <a href="https://www.gofundme.com/f/hillcrestprimary?utm_source=widget&amp;utm_medium=referral&amp;utm_campaign=p_cp+share-sheet">here</a>. </p>

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Healthy father-of-two dies during a nap

<p>A 36-year-old father has mysteriously died in his sleep, despite having no underlying health conditions. </p> <p>After returning home from a night shift, Daniel Perkins laid down for a nap with the intention of picking his two sons up in the later hours of December 8th. </p> <p>However, the Shellharbour dad never woke up. </p> <p>Daniel's brother-in-law Shane Anderson said his sister Nikki Perkins and the couple's two children, Logan and Jordi, have "experienced the unthinkable". </p> <p>"He would do anything for his boys and Nikki," Shane told <a rel="noopener" href="https://7news.com.au/news/nsw/community-rallies-around-nsw-family-after-father-of-two-daniel-perkins-dies-in-his-sleep-c-4936573" target="_blank">7News</a>.</p> <p class="mol-para-with-font">"Nikki would often wonder why he was taking so long and it's because he was chatting to the man at the bakery, or the coffee shop and would always have a chat with the teachers when picking the boys up from school."</p> <p class="mol-para-with-font">"He was the most genuine and caring bloke, but also a jokester and would love a good laugh."</p> <p class="mol-para-with-font">Shane started an <a href="https://www.gofundme.com/f/help-us-create-a-secure-future-for-daniels-sons">online fundraiser</a> to help provide a secure and "beautiful, fun filled future for his sons."</p> <p class="mol-para-with-font">"They deserve every chance and more on this uphill battle into the future," he said.</p> <p class="mol-para-with-font">In the five days since the fundraiser began, the family has received over $50,000 in donations. </p> <p class="mol-para-with-font">The cause of Daniel's death has yet to be determined, as the family has urged people to go and have regular health check-ups. </p> <p class="mol-para-with-font"><em>Image credits: Facebook / GoFundMe</em></p>

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Waitress SACKED after receiving $6000 tip

<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">After receiving a hefty tip of $USD 4400 ($NZD 6400), a US waitress has been fired after the restaurant she worked for demanded she share it with the rest of the staff.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Ryan Brandt was one of two employees serving a party of more than 40 people at the Oven and Tap in Bentonville, Arkansas.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The pair received the tip through a “$100 Dinner Club” organised by Grant Wise, the owner of a local real estate company, where each person dining would contribute a $100 tip ($NZD 139).</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Wise, who came up with the idea during the COVID-19 pandemic, told </span><em><a rel="noopener" href="https://www.ksn.com/top-stories/arkansas-restaurant-employee-terminated-after-4400-tip/" target="_blank"><span style="font-weight: 400;">KNWA</span></a></em><span style="font-weight: 400;"> that he called the restaurant ahead of their booking to confirm that servers don’t share tips.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">He said the gesture was meant to be “an effort to bless the servers who waited on our party that night”.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“I’m so sorry to interrupt everyone’s dinner, this will only take 60 seconds,” Wise </span><a rel="noopener" href="https://7news.com.au/lifestyle/human-interest/arkansas-waitress-who-was-tipped-4400-is-fired-after-oven-and-tap-restaurant-makes-devastating-demand--c-4924128" target="_blank"><span style="font-weight: 400;">said</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> in footage shared on Instagram.</span></p> <blockquote style="background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);" class="instagram-media" data-instgrm-captioned="" data-instgrm-permalink="https://www.instagram.com/reel/CXRaJzdAsUi/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" data-instgrm-version="14"> <div style="padding: 16px;"> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 40px; margin-right: 14px; width: 40px;"></div> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 100px;"></div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 60px;"></div> </div> </div> <div style="padding: 19% 0;"></div> <div style="display: block; height: 50px; margin: 0 auto 12px; width: 50px;"></div> <div style="padding-top: 8px;"> <div style="color: #3897f0; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 550; line-height: 18px;">View this post on Instagram</div> </div> <p style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;"><a style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none;" rel="noopener" href="https://www.instagram.com/reel/CXRaJzdAsUi/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" target="_blank">A post shared by Grant Wise (@likegrantwise)</a></p> </div> </blockquote> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“We have a table full of absolutely amazing people from all over the country who have travelled here, and tonight we’re hosting a $US100 Dinner Club.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“Everyone at this table has contributed or tipped $US100 for you and for the other waitress who unfortunately had to go home because she’s not feeling well.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“And then we put it out to our social media channels, and then we actually had a bit more money sent in, so we are tipping a total of $USD 4400 for you to split with the other girl who took care of us.”</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Brandt was visibly in tears after Wise’s announcement.</span></p> <p><img style="width: 500px; height:281.25px;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7846309/waitress.jpg" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/38d49e243e5746f8926c3ccd39761bed" /></p> <p><em><span style="font-weight: 400;">Image: @likegrantwise (Instagram)</span></em></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">But, the huge act of kindness quickly went sour.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“I was told that I was going to be giving my cash over to my shift manager, and I would be taking home 20 percent,” Brandt explained.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">She said that sharing tips has never happened during the three-and-a-half years she has worked at the restaurant.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">With plans to use the funds to help pay off her student loans, Brandt said she was “devastated” after being told she would take home a fraction of the total amount.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Wise said the intention of his tip wasn’t for it to be shared with those who didn’t serve his party. After asking the restaurant to return the tip, he gave Brandt the cash outside instead.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">However, Brandt said she was soon fired from her job and placed in a financially precarious situation.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“It was devastating,” Brandt said.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“I borrowed a significant amount for student loans. Most of them were turned off because of the pandemic but they’re turning back on in January and that’s a harsh reality.”</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Just a few days later, the Arkansas businessman discovered that Brandt had been fired for “violating” the restaurant’s rules.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“I’m so saddened to hear that the girl we tipped the other night at our $100 Dinner Club has been fired from her job,” Wise later wrote on Instagram.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“I don’t understand why this would happen to what seems like such a sweet and kind-hearted woman. Nevertheless, I’m committed to showing her that there are great people in the world that will do good when they can!”</span></p> <blockquote style="background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);" class="instagram-media" data-instgrm-captioned="" data-instgrm-permalink="https://www.instagram.com/tv/CXMODf2A2yW/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" data-instgrm-version="14"> <div style="padding: 16px;"> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 40px; margin-right: 14px; width: 40px;"></div> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 100px;"></div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 60px;"></div> </div> </div> <div style="padding: 19% 0;"></div> <div style="display: block; height: 50px; margin: 0 auto 12px; width: 50px;"></div> <div style="padding-top: 8px;"> <div style="color: #3897f0; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 550; line-height: 18px;">View this post on Instagram</div> </div> <p style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;"><a style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none;" rel="noopener" href="https://www.instagram.com/tv/CXMODf2A2yW/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" target="_blank">A post shared by Grant Wise (@likegrantwise)</a></p> </div> </blockquote> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Wise announced that he had set up a </span><a rel="noopener" href="https://www.gofundme.com/f/Waitress-Fired-after-100-Dinner-Club?utm_campaign=p_lico+share-sheet&amp;utm_medium=copy_link&amp;utm_source=customer" target="_blank"><span style="font-weight: 400;">GoFundMe</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> for Brandt, telling followers: “I hope that we can help this girl stay on top, and not let something like this get her down.”</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Just two days after starting the fundraiser, Wise shut it down after it exceeded $USD 8700 ($NZD 12,800) in donations.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“Thank you all so much for showing Ryan the love and support you have,” he wrote in an update. “We will be closing down the campaign since we’ve exceeded the goal here.</span><span style="font-weight: 400;"><br /></span><span style="font-weight: 400;">Wise also shared that Brandt had been offered a new job at another local restaurant, and began working there the night before.</span></p> <p><em><span style="font-weight: 400;">Image: GoFundMe</span></em></p>

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Donations POUR in for man wrongly convicted for murder

<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">After US man Kevin Strickland </span><a rel="noopener" href="https://www.oversixty.co.nz/finance/legal/no-compensation-after-43-years-of-wrongful-imprisonment" target="_blank"><span style="font-weight: 400;">was released</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> from jail 43 years after his wrongful conviction in a triple murder, a flood of donations have swept in to help him rebuild his life.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The </span><a rel="noopener" href="https://www.gofundme.com/f/help-kevin-strickland-after-wrongful-conviction" target="_blank"><span style="font-weight: 400;">fundraiser</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> set up for him in June had received over $USD 400,000 ($NZD 586,000) at the time of his release, and donations keep coming.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Many supporters were outraged that the 62-year-old wouldn’t receive any compensation for his time in prison from the state of Missouri.</span></p> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet"> <p dir="ltr">Today, Kevin Strickland is finally home, 43 years after being ripped away from his life and family. It took not just a village, but a movement--all of you-- to bring him home.</p> — Tricia Rojo Bushnell (@tcita) <a href="https://twitter.com/tcita/status/1463362164920623104?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">November 24, 2021</a></blockquote> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Because he wasn’t exonerated through the use of DNA evidence, Mr Strickland doesn’t qualify for wrongful imprisonment payments.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Within three days of his release, donors had contributed another $600,000 to his fundraiser, totalling $USD 1.016 million ($NZD 1.49 million) .</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The organisers thanked donors on Tuesday, confirming that all the money raised would be received by Mr Strickland.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“Thank you all for your support! All funds go directly to Mr Strickland, who the state of Missouri won’t provide a dime to for the 43 years they stole from him,” they wrote.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Mr Strickland has maintained his innocence since he was sentenced to 50 years in prison in 1979. He has said that he was at home watching television at the time of the three deaths, which happened when he was 18 years old.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The fundraiser, set up by the Midwest Innocence Project, has been collecting donations for Mr Strickland since June, when the organisation began campaigning for his release.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">They have said he would need help paying for basic living costs once he was free.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“I can’t begin to say all the things I am thankful for,” Mr Strickland </span><a rel="noopener" href="https://7news.com.au/travel/americas/almost-us1-million-raised-for-man-wrongly-convicted-of-1979-triple-homicide-c-4711022" target="_blank"><span style="font-weight: 400;">said</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> as he left prison.</span></p> <p><em><span style="font-weight: 400;">Image: GoFundMe</span></em></p>

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Couple killed just two days after getting married

<p><em>Image: Gofund Me </em></p> <p>A newlywed couple have been identified among three people who were killed in a highway crash in the North American state of Tennessee.</p> <p>Jessiah Plemons, 31, and his new wife Lillian Rose, 25, were killed in the crash on the morning of Sunday the 17th of October.</p> <p>The couple had been married just two days prior on the 15th of October, WBIR reports.</p> <p>The third person identified in the crash was 23-year-old Madison Davis. The trio was struck on the highway by a Chevrolet pickup after becoming stranded when their vehicle struck a guardrail.</p> <p>All three died at the scene of the accident.</p> <p>Plemons' mother Michelle said she was informed of the couple's death after receiving a knock at her door on Sunday morning. “It’s the worst thing a mother can go through,” she said.</p> <p>The couple had four children, Michelle added.</p> <p>“Jess was my everything, the glue that held our family together,” she said.</p> <p>“Lily made my baby happy until the very end.”</p> <p>“She is just such a sweet girl. She brightened the room and they looked so happy together.”</p> <p>“It’s made me feel more alive knowing Jess did a lot of great things out there before all this.”</p> <p>She said she will always remember the impact Jessiah and Lily had on so many people.</p> <p>Two fundraisers have been launched to support both the Plemons' and Rose’s families at <a rel="noopener" href="https://www.gofundme.com/f/jessiah-plemons-memorial-fund" target="_blank">https://www.gofundme.com/f/jessiah-plemons-memorial-fund</a><span> </span>and <a rel="noopener" href="https://www.gofundme.com/f/memorial-fund-for-lily-rose" target="_blank">https://www.gofundme.com/f/memorial-fund-for-lily-rose</a>.</p>

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King in the making: Child chess prodigy plays his way off the streets

<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">11-year-old Tanitoluwa “Tani” Adewumi has big dreams for his chess career, and has already made some big steps towards making them come true.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">After he became a national chess master earlier this year - making him the 28th youngest person to claim the title - Tani now hopes to become the youngest ever grandmaster.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“I’m aggressive, I like to attack,” he </span><a rel="noopener" href="https://7news.com.au/sunrise/entertainment/child-prodigy-rescues-his-family-from-a-homeless-shelter-by-playing-chess--c-4151705" target="_blank"><span style="font-weight: 400;">told</span></a> <em><span style="font-weight: 400;">CNN Sport</span></em><span style="font-weight: 400;">. “It’s just the way I think in general: I want to checkmate my opponent as fast as I can.”</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">He would have to outperform the current record-holder, 12-year-old Abhimanyu Mishra, but Tani is working hard to get there.</span></p> <p><img style="width: 500px; height: 281.25px;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7844643/tani1.jpg" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/cd6c1ac32b764e9c866e3c488bc95cf7" /></p> <p><em><span style="font-weight: 400;">Image: GoFundMe</span></em></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">As well as attending school in New York, Tani practices his chess moves for seven hours a day.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">When he isn’t at school, the chess prodigy can put in between eight and 10 hours of practice a day.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Though he has collected a suite of trophies, Tani considers one to be particularly special - the 2019 New York State chess championship title - because of the life-changing effect it had on his family.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“That’s the one that really boosted us up to become where we are today, and also me and my chess,” Tani said.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Nearly two years prior to the win, Tani and his family fled Northern Nigeria amidst fears of attacks by extremist group Boko Haram.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">After arriving in the US, the family lived in a homeless shelter, while Tani joined the chess club at his school.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">When the news came of his win, his family received a flood of financial support.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“One family, they paid for a year’s rent in Manhattan, one family gave us in 2019 a brand-new Honda, and the Saint Louis Chess Club in Missouri invited the family and the coaches to come and pay a visit,” Tani’s father, Kayode Adewumi, told </span><em><span style="font-weight: 400;">CNN Sport</span></em><span style="font-weight: 400;">.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“A lot of people helped us, a lot of people gave us financial [support] and money … they donated money for us to get out from the shelter.”</span></p> <p><img style="width: 500px; height: 281.25px;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7844644/tani2.jpg" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/aa64769f6fbc4575a07179ce9eb793b4" /></p> <p><em><span style="font-weight: 400;">Image: GoFundMe</span></em></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The family initially started a </span><a rel="noopener" href="https://www.gofundme.com/f/w9t6p-just-tani" target="_blank"><span style="font-weight: 400;">GoFundMe</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> page to help them cover housing, legal, and educational costs.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Additional donations are being funnelled towards the Tanitoluwa Adewumi Foundation, which supports underprivileged children.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“We need to give back to the needy, because we know what it takes - we’ve tasted everything,” Mr Adewumi said.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“When we were in the shelter, some people are still there. We need to help the needy, especially the chess community and the people that need help. That’s why we put the money into the foundation, to help people.”</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Through the foundation, the family has also contributed money to a chess organisation in Africa with the hopes of encouraging more people to take up the game.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Tani’s life has some common traits to that of the protagonist in the Netflix series </span><span style="font-weight: 400;">The Queen’s Gambit</span><span style="font-weight: 400;">. Tani said he has watched the series and that he “definitely did” see himself in it.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“Chess is everything to me, it’s my life,” he said. “That’s how we came to where we are today.”</span></p> <p><em><span style="font-weight: 400;">Image: GoFundMe</span></em></p>

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Heartbreaking new details in little boy’s death

<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">A house fire in Melbourne over the weekend has resulted in the death of a four-year-old boy, whose grieving mother has revealed more shocking information about the tragedy.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Nadia Kirushnaneethan had been cooking in the kitchen, only to enter the loungeroom and find it engulfed in flames.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Speaking to </span><em><span style="font-weight: 400;">7NEWS</span></em><span style="font-weight: 400;">, she revealed that she broke a window in an attempt to get her son, Rithish, out of the house.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“I broke the window to take him but unfortunately the gas, the fire, came and it pushed me out,” she said.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“He was crying a little bit and after I didn’t hear his voice anymore.”</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The mother-of-three rushed to rescue her young children from the fire, alongside a family friend who was boarding at the home.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Two of the children, aged eight and three, were rushed out of the home and later taken to Dandenong Public Hospital suffering smoke inhalation.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The family friend suffered serious burns while attempting to save Rithish, but he was unable to rescue the child.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Tragically, Rithish was killed in the blaze.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The family had been living at the rental property for two weeks, with the grieving mum revealing she had enquired about installing smoke alarms in the home days before the tragic incident.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">However, she was told installation would be delayed due to Melbourne’s COVID-19 lockdown.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">A </span><a rel="noopener" href="https://www.gofundme.com/f/funeral-for-rithish" target="_blank"><span style="font-weight: 400;">GoFundMe</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> has been started to help the family pay for accommodation and funeral costs for the little boy.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">So far, more than $72,000 has been raised.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Police said the fire has been deemed non-suspicious and that a gas heater in the loungeroom likely started the blaze.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“I just ask the community to be really diligent with their heaters, especially in the winter,” Victoria Police’s Dandenong Local Area Commander Peter Koger said.</span></p> <p><em><span style="font-weight: 400;">Image: GoFundMe</span></em></p>

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Parents share heartbreak after kissing their daughter goodbye

<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">A mum has opened up about having to make the heartbreaking decision to turn her daughter’s life support off following a crash.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Chloe Lee, her parents Geoff and Sommar, and her younger brother Declan were injured in a crash in the Western Australian Wheatbelt region on May 30.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The family was rushed to hospital after being cut from the vehicle.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Geoff came away from the accident with broken ankles, spinal injuries, and internal injuries while Somamar suffered a broken pelvis, wrist, and broken legs.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Chloe suffered head and spinal injuries and was put on life support at Perth Children’s Hospital.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">According to a </span><a href="https://www.gofundme.com/f/e3e94c-help-the-lee-family?utm_campaign=p_cp+share-sheet&amp;utm_medium=sms&amp;utm_source=customer"><span style="font-weight: 400;">GoFundMe started for the family</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">, Chloe’s life support was turned off days after the accident when the family was well enough “to kiss their baby girl goodbye”.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">In an update on the fundraising site, Sommar wrote about the difficulty of the decision she and Geoff made.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“Where do I even begin, how do you go on when one of the [two] halves of your heart is gone?,” she wrote.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“When you are lying in your broken body unable to move to save your precious child.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“Being told that your beautiful, sassy, amazing 10-year-old is being kept alive by life support and no it’s not like on TV, a miracle is not going to save her.”</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The decision was made even more difficult with the knowledge they had to tell their son, Declan, that his big sister “has to go to heaven”.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“Having to tell our son, that his other half, his best friend and sister, has to go to heaven. That the machines breathing for her and keeping her precious heart pumping, needs to be turned off, is the hardest thing we had to do,” she continued.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“Especially not being able to hold him in our arms, barely able to hold his hand.”</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Sommar also thanked the “amazing doctors and nurses” who helped at the scene of the accident and in the hospital while the family underwent treatment.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“Thank you from the bottom of our hearts. There are no words to describe the place you will always have in our hearts.” </span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Sommar said the family is now “stuck in limbo” as they recover from their injuries and mourn Chloe.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The Lee family had recently moved to WA from Queensland for a “change of life”, with the fundraiser aiming to help them return to Caboolture in Queensland.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Geoff and Sommar also wish to return Chloe to Caboolture for a funeral with her friends and family.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The fundraiser has raised more than $64,000 in donations.</span></p> <p><em><span style="font-weight: 400;">Image: GoFundMe</span></em></p>

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"You can't teach stupid": Folau receives more funds in two days than farmers' rural aid in one year

<div> <div class="replay"> <div class="reply_body body linkify"> <div class="reply_body"> <div class="body_text "> <p>A Facebook post by <em>The NRL Roast </em>criticising those who donated to Israel Folau’s legal battle has gone viral in just 24 hours.</p> <p>The post highlighted donations given to the Rural Aid <em>Buy a Bale </em>campaign raised in one year matched the money raised for controversial Folau’s legal battle against the Rugby League Association.</p> <p>“In 2 days, Israel Folau has received more in donations than Rural Aid's "Buy a Bale" campaign did in the 2017/2018 financial year,” the post began.</p> <p>“Folau may or may not be in the right in regard to why he got sacked and has every right to launch legal action.</p> <p>“That’s not my gripe.</p> <p>“It's the fact that every day Aussies would rather donate their hard earned, already taxed money, to a multi-millionaire professional athlete who can use the funds however he wants...TAX FREE, while people who actually make a worthwhile contribution to society, and our communities, are left in the lurch.</p> <p>“But you can’t teach stupid… You are just born that way.”</p> <iframe src="https://www.facebook.com/plugins/post.php?href=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2FTheNRLRoast%2Fphotos%2Fa.248365635620899%2F729888714135253%2F%3Ftype%3D3&amp;width=500" width="500" height="435" style="border: none; overflow: hidden;" scrolling="no" frameborder="0" allowtransparency="true" allow="encrypted-media"></iframe> <p>Folau has raised $2.2 million in just two days by 20,000 people.</p> <p>Since then, the fundraiser, which is located on the Australian Christian Lobby’s website, has been paused – a little less than $1 million short of the sacked rugby star’s $3 million goal.</p> <blockquote style="background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);" class="instagram-media" data-instgrm-permalink="https://www.instagram.com/p/BzATb_Wn3I_/" data-instgrm-version="12"> <div style="padding: 16px;"> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 40px; margin-right: 14px; width: 40px;"></div> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 100px;"></div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 60px;"></div> </div> </div> <div style="padding: 19% 0;"></div> <div style="display: block; height: 50px; margin: 0 auto 12px; width: 50px;"></div> <div style="padding-top: 8px;"> <div style="color: #3897f0; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 550; line-height: 18px;">View this post on Instagram</div> </div> <p style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;"><a style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none;" rel="noopener" href="https://www.instagram.com/p/BzATb_Wn3I_/" target="_blank">A post shared by Israel Folau (@izzyfolau)</a> on Jun 22, 2019 at 1:07am PDT</p> </div> </blockquote> <p>The ACL said the donations, which opened on Tuesday, had been “overwhelming".</p> <p>“ACL, Izzy and everyone involved is humbled and grateful. We are hitting the pause button. But if the case drags on and Israel needs more support, we will re-open this campaign,” a statement on the website said.</p> <p>The original campaign on GoFundMe was shut down after it was determined they had violated the site’s terms of service.  </p> <p>“We are absolutely committed to the fight for equality for LGBTIQ+ people and fostering an environment of inclusivity,” Nicola Britton, GoFundMe’s Australian regional director said.</p> <p>Managing director of the ACL, Martin Iles, confirmed any money raised in the $3 million campaign will exclusively be used to meet Folau’s legal costs.</p> <p>In a poll conducted by Over60 with over 5,200 votes, it was determined 60 per cent of Australians believe Folau deserved to be sacked from his contract with Rugby Australia.</p> <p>However, 40 per cent voted Folau's controversial social post that claimed “hell awaits” gay people, among others, was not breaching his contract.  </p> <p><em>NRL Roast’s </em>post, which now sits with over 3,000 comments, has continued to stir debate with some users claiming the page was only adding “fuel to the fire".</p> <p>“If he can say whatever he believes then he should have the guts to face the consequences of his actions and use his own funds to fight his own battles,” one user wrote.</p> <p>Another added: “I don't see why people find this surprising. There are A LOT of people in the world with the same views as Falou.”</p> <p>“So you're complaining about people who are donating their OWN already taxed hard working money to Folau because they choose not to donate it to where YOU think they should donate THEIR money to?” an additional comment read.</p> <p>However, other people said it was “sad” farmers did not have “priority<span>“.</span></p> <p><span>"If only those who so support a sportsperson's contract breach which has been turned into a fight for Christianity could support those who grow our food and keep food on our tables...” one comment said.</span></p> <p>Another stated: “An absolute disgrace that people give money so easily to someone who broke his contract, not once but twice, but can’t find the money for the farmers who help put food on our tables every day, nothing like getting your priorities right.”</p> <p>Folau’s $4 million contract was terminated by Rugby Australia last month after a post on his Instagram page claimed homosexuals, among others, would burn in hell.</p> </div> </div> </div> </div> </div>

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Heartbreaking decision – is Israel Folau’s wife risking it all?

<p>It has been almost two years since Maria Tutaia married her rugby star husband, Israel Folau, in November 2017.</p> <p>The journey has proven not to be easy; Maria has stood by her embattled husband even if it means risking her own career as well.</p> <blockquote style="background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);" class="instagram-media" data-instgrm-permalink="https://www.instagram.com/p/BpqkIaggDFk/" data-instgrm-version="12"> <div style="padding: 16px;"> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 40px; margin-right: 14px; width: 40px;"></div> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 100px;"></div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 60px;"></div> </div> </div> <div style="padding: 19% 0;"></div> <div style="display: block; height: 50px; margin: 0 auto 12px; width: 50px;"></div> <div style="padding-top: 8px;"> <div style="color: #3897f0; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 550; line-height: 18px;">View this post on Instagram</div> </div> <p style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;"><a style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none;" rel="noopener" href="https://www.instagram.com/p/BpqkIaggDFk/" target="_blank">A post shared by MARIA FOLAU (@mariatutaia)</a> on Nov 1, 2018 at 9:47pm PDT</p> </div> </blockquote> <p>As Folau prepares for a major legal fight to save his own career, after he was sacked from Rugby Australia last month for publicly voicing his anti-gay beliefs, his 32-year-old wife has used her own social media platforms to back him.</p> <p>But there are concerns the professional New Zealander netballer could be at risk of jeopardising her own career by showing her public support.</p> <p><img style="width: 0px; height: 0px;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7828053/maria-folau.jpg" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/231c40aa0cc74824b5dc05a249816232" /></p> <p>Last week, she publicly donated her own money to his legal battle, Folau telling his own donors when setting up his GoFundMe page that he and Maria had “already spent over $100,000".</p> <p>However, the Adelaide Thunderbirds – the team Maria plays for – has released their own statement on her public endorsement of her husband.</p> <p>“While Netball SA in no way endorses the reposting, we do not believe Maria has contravened our social media policy,” the organisation said.</p> <p>The club also went on to say Maria was a good ambassador for the sport, by taking part in youth and community projects to inspire other young players to pursue a career professionally.</p> <p>However, other professional players do not see eye to eye with the Adelaide Netball Club.</p> <p>Aussie Netball legend Liz Ellis took to Twitter calling for Maria to be sacked.</p> <p>“Anyone who is seen to support or endorse homophobia is not welcome,” she wrote.</p> <p>“As much as I love watching @MariaFolau play netball I do not want my sport endorsing the views of her husband.”</p> <blockquote style="background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);" class="instagram-media" data-instgrm-permalink="https://www.instagram.com/p/BjJqpBwgWI-/" data-instgrm-version="12"> <div style="padding: 16px;"> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 40px; margin-right: 14px; width: 40px;"></div> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 100px;"></div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 60px;"></div> </div> </div> <div style="padding: 19% 0;"></div> <div style="display: block; height: 50px; margin: 0 auto 12px; width: 50px;"></div> <div style="padding-top: 8px;"> <div style="color: #3897f0; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 550; line-height: 18px;">View this post on Instagram</div> </div> <p style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;"><a style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none;" rel="noopener" href="https://www.instagram.com/p/BjJqpBwgWI-/" target="_blank">A post shared by MARIA FOLAU (@mariatutaia)</a> on May 24, 2018 at 12:00am PDT</p> </div> </blockquote> <p>Maria is currently training for next month’s World Cup in Auckland where she will play for the national New Zealand team in the UK. </p> <p>She will be sure to face a number of uncomfortable questions regarding her personal beliefs.</p> <p>Netball New Zealand said in a statement the professional sportswoman had not broken any social media policy.</p>

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