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Pilot identified after horror helicopter crash

<p>The young pilot who died after his helicopter plummeted into the roof of a Cairns hotel has been identified. </p> <p>Blake Wilson, a 23-year-old from New Zealand, was flying the twin-engine chopper for only a few minutes before it crashed into the roof of the DoubleTree Hotel by Hilton in Far North Queensland. </p> <p>Wilson had been celebrating a farewell party with co-workers just hours before the horror incident.</p> <p>Nautilus Aviation, the company that owned the helicopter, confirmed the pilot had worked for them as a ground crew member for about four months and had been celebrating one final day with colleagues before moving to another air base.</p> <p>In an updated statement on Tuesday night, police said initial investigations suggested Mr Wilson, who died at the scene, was the sole occupant of the helicopter at the time of the crash.</p> <p>Following his tragic death, Nautilus Aviation issued a statement saying, “We would like to address rumours regarding a gathering of some Nautilus Aviation employees, including off-duty pilots, on Sunday night.”</p> <p>“We can confirm this event did occur and was a privately organised send-off for the individual involved in Monday morning’s incident, who was recently promoted to a ground crew position at another one of our bases."</p> <p>While the company did not identify the pilot the time, they did reveal they held a New Zealand pilot’s licence.</p> <p>“Although the employee held a New Zealand CPL (H) pilot’s licence, they have never flown in Australia or for Nautilus Aviation and were not authorised to fly Nautilus Aviation helicopters,” company statement read.</p> <p>“We offer our heartfelt condolences to the individual’s family and all who have been affected by this tragedy and continue to offer our support to our employees during this very challenging period.”</p> <p>Mr Wilson had moved from New Zealand to Cairns for his flying training to follow his dreams of being a pilot at Christchurch Helicopters. </p> <p><em>Image credits: Facebook</em></p>

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"Totally insensitive": Kate Middleton slammed for "hypocritical" move

<p>Kate Middleton has come under fire after using a taxpayer-funded helicopter to travel a short distance for an offical royal engagement. </p> <p>On Monday, the Princess of Wales travelled to the Royal Naval Air Station Yeovilton by helicopter, while the journey by car would've taken just under two hours.</p> <p>She visited the airfield as Commodore-in-Chief of the Fleet Air Arm, an honorary title given to her by King Charles.</p> <p>After news of her mode of travel hit social media, many were quick to slam her decision to use the helicopter, given the royal family's preaching about protecting the environment against climate change. </p> <p>Anti-monarchists took to X, formerly known as Twitter, to share their frustrations with the "hypocrisy". </p> <p>One person wrote, "She could have gone by car. About two hours from Windsor. But instead flies by helicopter for an entirely pointless visit."</p> <p>Many others agreed, with one user writing, "What about climate change, didn’t Charlie also use a private jet this week to fly people to meet him .. do what I say, not do what I do."</p> <p>"While her husband preaches to the rest of us about the environment," another added.</p> <p>"Ahhh the Uber Helicopter again! And it costs the taxpayer £5,000 [A$9,600] each time!" a third pointed out.</p> <p>"We pay for their travel so they take advantage!" another user said.</p> <p>"Use a car, Kate!" someone else begged.</p> <p>"More climate change hypocrisy," one annoyed user wrote.</p> <p>"A waste of taxpayers money... not to mention the carbon footprint of her trip," yet another said.</p> <p>Others labelled the Princess of Wales as "totally insensitive" and "disgusting" for choosing not to drive, given Prince William's dedication to climate change efforts. </p> <p>The uproar comes after a new poll revealed the British public believes Prince William and Kate need to work harder before they rise to the throne.</p> <p><em>Image credits: Getty Images</em></p>

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Update on deadly Sea World helicopter crash

<p>A pilot “did not recall” his fellow pilot making a standard taxing call to say he was taking off before their helicopters collided and crashed, killing four people and injuring nine others on the Gold Coast.</p> <p>Air crash investigators said the pilot, Michael James, told them he saw five passengers boarding the second helicopter at a helipad near Sea World as he was coming in to land his aircraft with six passengers at another helipad close by.</p> <p>The Australian Transport Safety Bureau said the pilot thought the second helicopter would pass behind his aircraft and that he doesn’t remember the other pilot radioing him to announce his departure.</p> <p>“They did not recall the pilot of XKQ making a standard “taxiing” call announcing their intention to depart.” the ATSB's preliminary report into the crash said.</p> <p>There was a third helicopter pilot nearby at the time, and he recalled hearing Mr James’ inbound call but did not recall hearing a taxi call from the other pilot taking off.</p> <p>A fourth helicopter pilot said he could not recall hearing calls from either of the two pilots involved in the crash before their aircrafts collided.</p> <p>ATSB commissioner Angus Mitchel said that evidence “did not necessarily mean that a taxiing call was not made” by the pilot taking off, and investigators would probe the radio calls leading up to the crash.</p> <p>The report said that Mr James also told the ATSB he never saw the second helicopter take off from the helipad.</p> <p>“While video footage taken by passengers in both helicopters on mobile phones contained images of the other helicopter, this does not mean that the other helicopter was visible to either pilot,” Mr Mitchell said.</p> <p>“The investigation will look closely at the issues both pilots faced in seeing the other helicopter.”</p> <p>The findings are part of a preliminary report into the collision led by Mr Mitchell.</p> <p>“We're looking at everything that may have contributed, whether that be equipment, whether that be procedures, whether that be individual actions … they will all be part.” he said.</p> <p>The report also stated the operator “was aware that there was a problem with Mr James’ aircraft transponder”.</p> <p>“The transponder was not transmitting secondary surveillance radar responses that were detected by radar surveillance equipment for the accident flight or previous flights,” the report said, in reference to Mr James’ chopper.</p> <p>“Efforts to diagnose and address the transponder problem were ongoing.”</p> <p>According to the report, both aircrafts had been fitted with a traffic collision avoidance system, however, it was not fully integrated into either of the helicopters.</p> <p>The report found the system only provided the pilots with auditory alerts, not visual information.</p> <p>Four people died, and nine people were injured, including three in critical condition as a result of the two aircrafts colliding mid-air and crashing into the sandbar.</p> <p>Pilot Ashley Jenkinson, 40, and his passengers, including British couple Ron and Diane, 65 and 57, and Sydney mother Vanessa Tadros, 36, all died.</p> <p>Ms Tadros' son Nicholas, 10, has been undergoing medical procedures since the incident and last week had his leg amputated from the knee down.</p> <p>Victorian mother Winnie de Silva, 33, and her nine-year-old son are recovering from injuries sustained from the crash.</p> <p>The pilot of the second helicopter, Mr James, managed to land his chopper safely, but he and two of his passengers were injured by shards of glass flying out when the aircraft’s windshield smashed.</p> <p>The injured passengers were New Zealand women Elmarie Steenberg and Marle Swart, who had been on holiday with their husbands, Riaan Steenberg and Edward Swart.</p> <p>The full ATSB report into the accident by the Air Transport Safety Bureau will not be expected until at least September 2024.</p> <p><em>Image credit: Facebook</em></p>

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"Where's mum?" Sea World helicopter crash survivor's heart-breaking question

<p dir="ltr">The husband of a mother who tragically died in the Sea World helicopter crash has shared the heart-breaking question his son Nicholas asked him when he awoke from his coma. </p> <p dir="ltr">Vanessa Tadros and her 10-year-old son were on the aircraft when it collided with another on January 2nd, as the crash claimed the life of Vanessa and three others. </p> <p dir="ltr">Nicholas miraculously survived the accident, and has spent the last seven weeks in intensive care recovering from life-altering injuries. </p> <p dir="ltr">After being in an induced coma, Nicholas awoke and asked his father Simon a question he had been dreading.</p> <p dir="ltr">“He said, ‘Where’s mum?’” Simon told Ally Langdon during an emotional interview on <em><a href="https://9now.nine.com.au/a-current-affair/ally-langdon-speaks-about-her-emotional-interview-with-father-simon-tadros-about-sea-world-chopper-crash/af847866-bb2f-42be-8a15-d20d06a0c685">A Current Affair</a></em>. </p> <p dir="ltr">“I said she was in the crash with you.”</p> <p dir="ltr">“He said, ‘Yeah, I know, but where’s mum?’ I said, ‘Baby boy, mum had to go to Jesus.’”</p> <p dir="ltr">“And he just turned his head and closed his eyes,” bringing Ally Langdon to tears.</p> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet"> <p dir="ltr" lang="en"><a href="https://twitter.com/hashtag/HelpingNicky?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">#HelpingNicky</a>: A heartbroken father recalls the final moments before his wife was killed and son was critically injured in the Gold Coast helicopter crash.</p> <p>See the full story, TONIGHT on A Current Affair.<a href="https://twitter.com/hashtag/9ACA?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">#9ACA</a> | Watch LIVE 7pm <a href="https://t.co/cH1TElSUnM">pic.twitter.com/cH1TElSUnM</a></p> <p>— A Current Affair (@ACurrentAffair9) <a href="https://twitter.com/ACurrentAffair9/status/1627570052957605889?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">February 20, 2023</a></p></blockquote> <p dir="ltr">Nicholas suffered extensive injuries in the crash breaking multiple bones, his kidneys are still not functioning unaided and his lungs collapsed from inhaling jet fuel.</p> <p dir="ltr">Doctors expect he will need to remain in hospital for at least another five months after deciding he will need to have his right foot amputated.</p> <p dir="ltr">“He said I’m not going to give up, Dad. I’m not going to leave you alone,” Simon recalled. </p> <p dir="ltr">“He’s a strong-willed boy. He’s a good kid.”</p> <p dir="ltr">Simon also recalled the final conversation he had with his wife before she boarded the helicopter with Nicholas. </p> <p dir="ltr">“I remember saying to my wife, I was thinking it’s amazing how quick they turn over these helicopters,” he said.</p> <p dir="ltr">“My wife just turned around to me and said, “Babe, I’m sure they know what they’re doing””.</p> <p dir="ltr">Simon shared that he hasn’t been able to properly grieve the loss of his wife as he spends every minute at Nicholas’ bedside. </p> <p dir="ltr">“It’s been hard, it’s a daily struggle … I don’t leave his bedside until 12, 1 in the morning,” he said.</p> <p dir="ltr">“Even leaving to go lay my wife to rest … it was just hard to keep my mind focused on the one thing, I didn’t want to leave him… but we gotta do what we gotta do.”</p> <p><span id="docs-internal-guid-4354fcc6-7fff-a400-4ab6-5881ff20d5a6"></span></p> <p dir="ltr"><em>Image credits: Nine News / Instagram </em></p>

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Sea World helicopter crash survivors speak out

<p>Survivors of the deadly Sea World helicopter crash that killed four people have spoken out about the tragedy. </p> <p>Elmarie and Riaan Steenberg and Marle and Edward Swart, two couples from New Zealand, were holidaying in Queensland when the helicopter they were travelling in collided with another on January 2nd. </p> <p>Now, weeks after the incident occurred, the couples spoke with <em>60 Minutes</em> and revealed they are still picking glass out of their bodies.</p> <p>“I just want it out of my body because it reminds (me) of the day,” Ms Steenberg said.</p> <p>Ms Steenberg also shared how she knew they were in “serious trouble” when she saw the other helicopter underneath her.</p> <p>“We thought it’s just a five-minute flight, that’ll be fun,” Mrs Swart said.</p> <p>Her husband added, “What can go wrong?”</p> <p>“I saw the helicopter underneath me, and I knew we were in serious trouble and I actually said, ‘Please, God, help us’,”</p> <p>“And then I heard the explosion,” Ms Steenberg said.</p> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet"> <p dir="ltr" lang="en">When two helicopters collided mid-air at Sea World on the Gold Coast, four friends from NZ never expected their new year's holiday to turn into a disastrous crash. They reflect on the joy of surviving, as well as the guilt and sorrow they have for the lives lost on <a href="https://twitter.com/hashtag/60Mins?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">#60Mins</a>. <a href="https://t.co/MkKFfV6mTW">pic.twitter.com/MkKFfV6mTW</a></p> <p>— 60 Minutes Australia (@60Mins) <a href="https://twitter.com/60Mins/status/1622172822960226307?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">February 5, 2023</a></p></blockquote> <p>The couples’ pilot Michael James was at the controls of the other vehicle and managed to land it safely on the sandbank.</p> <p>They were taken to hospital and treated for their injuries and have since returned home to Auckland. </p> <p>Since returning to normal life, Ms Swart said the hardest part of the ordeal is knowing others died and being weighed down by the guilt of survival. </p> <p>"It's the hardest part and it's very real. The question everyday is: why?"</p> <p>“Why did we survive? We’re just ordinary, boring people. Why us, you know? We’re nothing special.”</p> <p>"So yeah, you think about that every day."</p> <p>The pilot of the other helicopter Ash Jenkinson, British tourists Ron and Diane Hughes and Sydney woman Vanessa Tadros were killed in the tragedy.</p> <p>Mrs Tadros’s son Nicholas, 10, was critically injured while Geelong woman Winnie de Silva and her son Leon, nine, suffered serious injuries.</p> <p style="box-sizing: inherit; margin: 0px 0px 24px; padding: 0px; border: 0px; font-stretch: inherit; line-height: inherit; vertical-align: baseline;"><em>Image credits: 60 Minutes</em></p>

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New photos capture devastating reality of helicopter collision

<p><em><strong>Warning: This article contains images that some readers may find disturbing. </strong></em></p> <p>Four of the survivors of the deadly Gold Coast helicopter collision have released a series of photos that document the immediate aftermath of the tragedy. </p> <p>New Zealand couples Marle and Edward Swart, and Elmarie and Riaan Steenberg, were on board the descending helicopter that was struck by one just taking off. </p> <p>The ascending helicopter crashed to the ground, killing four people on board and wounding three other passengers. </p> <p>On Sunday, the four New Zealand survivors issued a collective statement, sharing how they are still struggling to come to terms with the tragedy. </p> <p>"We want to express our deepest sympathies and sincere condolences to the injured, deceased, and their families," they said.</p> <p>"Our hearts are deeply saddened by the loss. This has been traumatic for us as survivors, and we cannot imagine the terrible sadness their families and loved ones must be feeling."</p> <p>The couples also offered their gratitude to those who helped them, including their "hero" pilot Michael James, bystanders who rushed to their aid and emergency and medical personnel who helped them.</p> <p>"Their care and heroism changed our lives," the statement said.</p> <p>"Our pilot, Michael James. You are our hero. You landed the helicopter safely and kept the bystanders and us safe. We are eternally grateful to you."</p> <div>"Unidentified bystanders who ran to our assistance. The person on the jet ski who was first on the scene and helped us out of the helicopter, the off-duty paramedic who ran to our assistance, the holidaymakers who brought us hats, towels and water, and chairs."</p> <p>"Every police officer and emergency services personnel both on the scene of the crash and later in the hospital. The staff of Villas de la Mer who helped our children to visit us and kept them safe. There are no words to describe our gratitude."</p> <p>"Every staff member involved in our care at Robina Public Hospital. Your discretion and compassionate care during our stay brought us much comfort. We will always remember your kindness."</p> <p>"Our community in New Zealand for all their well wishes and messages of comfort.</p> <p>"Our dear family and friends in Australia who have supported us over this period. We appreciate you so very much."</p> <p>"Craig and the staff of Sea World Helicopters for their support. We also want to express our deep condolences for the loss of pilot Ashley Jenkinson."</p> <p>"The reality of the last five days' events is sinking in and is a heavy weight to carry," they said.</p> <p>The four survivors also shared a series of images of their recovery in the hospital, as well as a photo snapped from inside the wreckage of the helicopter. </p> <p>The four said they would continue to help the Australian Transport Safety Bureau and Queensland Police with their investigation into the incident as needed.</p> <p>They are headed home to New Zealand, where Elmarie and Marle will continue their lengthy recovery.</p> <p><em>Image credits: The Swart and Steenberg families</em></p> </div>

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"Mateship in action": NZ survivors of helicopter crash praise Aussie compassion

<p>Two couples from New Zealand who survived the deadly helicopter collision on the Gold Coast have shared their condolences for those who died during the accident.</p> <p>Edward and Marle Swart along with Riaan and Elmarie Steenberg spoke of how the "fun five-minute joy ride on vacation to Australia turned into a nightmare" and said their "hearts are so heavy" for those who died in the other aircraft that fell to the ground.</p> <p>"Our deepest sympathies and sincere condolences to the injured and the deceased and their families," they said in a joint statement released on Wednesday night.</p> <p>"We are grateful and blessed to have been spared but very sad for the people who lost loved ones and the little ones and mum fighting for their lives in hospital.</p> <p>"Our hearts are so heavy for them."</p> <p>The couples also praised the 52-year-old pilot who managed to land their damaged helicopter safely "through all the chaos", while also commending the actions of witnesses who rushed to help on the scene. </p> <p>"Our gratitude goes out to every bystander who ran to help, every police officer and emergency services personnel who helped us with our immediate needs keeping us calm and making us comfortable," they said.</p> <p>"We saw mateship in action. Australians come together to help in time of need."</p> <p>"We would like to extend our great thanks to the hospital staff taking care of us for their kindness and compassion during this traumatic experience."</p> <p>The New Zealand couples, all in their 40s, were among the six people in the second helicopter who all survived the crash with minor injuries.</p> <p><a href="https://oversixty.com.au/news/news/helicopter-crash-victims-identified" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Four people</a> on the first helicopter died while the remaining three survivors remain in hospital.</p> <p><em>Image credits: Nine News</em></p>

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Prince Charles cops a lashing for taking helicopter to speak on aircraft emissions

<p>The Prince of Wales has been blasted after it was reported the royal flew over 200 kilometres in the Queen’s helicopter to give a speech on climate change and aircraft emissions.</p> <p>The 71-year-old royal heir was reportedly picked him in the chopper at Highgrove, Gloucestershire, and flown to Cambridge, where he was then chauffeured in a Bentley to the Cambridge University’s Whittle Laboratory on Friday.</p> <p>It was there Prince Charles told scientists to “act quickly to rescue this poor old planet”.</p> <p>He said during a speech: “We haven’t got time to waste.</p> <p>“We have run out of time now to rescue this poor old planet from man-made emissions and all the complications we’re now facing, all the challenges we’re facing.”</p> <p>However, it was only moments later the royal caught his mother’s helicopter back to see the Queen – a trip that caused around 2.5 tonnes of carbon emissions, and hundreds of gallons of aviation fuel.</p> <p>The total cost is reported to be at a staggering $23,000, according to reports by <em>Sunday Mirror.</em></p> <p>He has been blasted in the past for taking trips by eco groups, who have accused him of not “walking the walk” on his pleas for people to look out for their carbon footprint.</p> <p>Graham Smith, CEO of campaign group Republic, told the <em>Mirror</em>: “He wants to play the role but not walk the walk. His view seems to be that it’s one rule for him and one rule for the rest of us. </p> <p>"Driving or using the train would have been pretty easy.”</p> <p>Dr Lucy Gilliam, aviation and shipping campaigner for environmental group Transport &amp; Environment, added to the topic by saying: “He could have used a private car with a chauffeur, ideally an electric one if he really wanted to walk the walk. He can definitely afford a Tesla.</p> <p>“I don’t doubt that Prince Charles really does get the message, but if he wants to be really effective, he must make those changes that will send such an enormous signal to the world.”</p> <p>A Clarence House spokesman said: “The Prince is not personally involved in decisions around his transportation arrangements, though he ensures all carbon emissions are offset every year.</p> <p>“They are made based on what is possible within the constraints of time, distance and security.</p> <p>“In order for him to undertake as many engagements as he does across the UK and around the world he sometimes has to fly.</p> <p>“As he has often said, as soon as there is a more sustainable way of making these journeys, he’ll be the first to use it.”</p>

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Final moments of Kobe Bryant’s fatal helicopter crash revealed

<p>The pilot in the helicopter that crashed in California, killing NBA star Kobe Bryant and eight others, was climbing to avoid a cloud layer before the aircraft plummeted, an accident investigator said.</p> <p>Speaking at a news conference Monday, Jennifer Homendy of the National Transportation Safety Board said pilot Ara Zobayan told air traffic controllers via radio he was climbing before the Sikorsky S-76B plunged more than 300 metres and crashed in Calabasas on Sunday morning.</p> <p>“When [Air Traffic Control] asked what the pilot planned to do, there was no reply,” Homendy said.</p> <p>The helicopter did not have a black box and was not required to, she said. Investigators will be looking at an iPad believed to have been used by Zobayan for flight tracking and weather briefings.</p> <p><span>The weather observation at the nearby Van Nuys Airport at 9.51 am on Sunday recorded visibility of 2.5 miles with a ceiling of 1,300 feet, the <em><a href="https://www.washingtonpost.com/weather/2020/01/27/weather-fog-kobe-bryant-crash/">Washington Post</a> </em>reported.</span></p> <p>Some aviation experts said Zobayan might have been disoriented by the fog in the area, but Homendy said investigating teams would look into every relevant factor from the pilot’s history to the engines.</p> <p>“We look at man, machine and the environment,” she said. “And weather is just a small portion of that.”</p> <p>Zobayan was a certified pilot and flight instructor, Homendy said. The aircraft’s owner Island Express Helicopters said Zobayan was <a href="https://apnews.com/d5769dce7e07abcb79ec44474c262a9a">the chief pilot for the company</a>.</p> <p>“Ara has been with the company for over 10 years and has over 8,000 flight hours,” the company said.</p> <p>The <a rel="noopener" href="https://nypost.com/2020/01/27/kobe-bryants-helicopter-tried-to-climb-to-avoid-clouds-before-crash-ntsb-officials-say/" target="_blank">accident</a> killed retired athlete Bryant and his 13-year-old daughter Gianna Maria-Onore Bryant; college baseball coach John Altobelli, his daughter Alyssa Altobelli and wife, Keri Altobelli; girls’ basketball coach Christina Mauser; mom Sarah Chester and her 13-year-old daughter, Payton Chester; and Zobayan.</p>

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Duchess Camilla’s helicopter near “seconds from disaster”

<p>New reports have claimed a helicopter carrying the Duchess of Cornwall was just “seconds away from disaster” twice in the same year.</p> <p>The allegations have said Duchess Camilla was travelling in Sikorsky S76 from the Queen's Flight when the aircraft veered away to avoid mid-air collisions while flying with the 71-year-old.</p> <p>The royal was being flown from Sandringham to her home in Wiltshire when the alleged incident occurred.</p> <p>The second incident happened while the helicopter was getting ready to land 45 minutes after the first event and had to make yet another manoeuvre to avoid a glider.</p> <p>The pilot reportedly said he was fortunate enough to have spotted the glider from half a mile away as he had “been flying into the sun.”</p> <p>These alleged incidents have been reported in the UK Aiprox Board Reports and happened on July 25, 2018 after the Duchess visited the Sandringham Flower Show with her husband, Prince Charles.</p> <p>The Prince of Wales is believed to have been in Norfolk when the events reportedly took place and Duchess Camilla boarded the flight to Anmer Hall.</p> <p>The helicopter took flight at 1.11 pm and later an air traffic controller RAF Marham, Norfolk said the risk of collision had been “high.”</p> <p>The report by UK Aiprox Board found the DHC-6 pilot should have informed RAF Lakenheath, Suffolk of the two incidents on Duchess Camilla’s flights however he forgot due to it being his eight flight of the day.</p> <p>RAF Marham reportedly informed RAF Lakenheath to remind other aircraft to keep away from the Royal Flight.</p> <p>RAF Lakenheath made “numerous” attempts to contaxt the DHC-6 pilot, who failed to respond as he was “distracted by passengers in the back.”</p> <p>Buckingham Palace and Skydive Chatter declined to comment to the<span> </span><a rel="noopener" href="https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-7244703/Camillas-helicopter-swerve-avoid-collisions-TWICE-one-hour-flew-home.html" target="_blank">Daily Mail.</a></p>

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Move over 'helicopter parents' – there's now a new breed called 'lawnmower parents'

<p>The term ‘helicopter parenting’ is the widely used phrase to describe a hovering parent that dutifully watches for any potential danger.</p> <p>Now, ‘lawnmower parenting’ is being used to band parents who smooth the path in front of their children, removing any obstacles to happiness and success.</p> <p>On face value, these parenting styles seem noble, but clinical psychologist Renee Mill told <em>news.com.au</em> what these methods can have on children.</p> <p>“Parents are stressed and tired enough, but by attempting to micro-manage every aspect of their child’s life they put too much onus on themselves. Frequently, this eventually translates into greater irritability and over time, developing a short fuse.”</p> <p>Renee explained, “Ironic, isn’t it? We are doing our damnedest to be the best parents and give our children the smoothest life, but it can result in happiness levels at home decreasing because of frayed nerves and nervous tension."</p> <p>Renee encourages parents to ensure they are having a balanced life and getting enough rest, sleep and food, which will then increase a parent’s capacity to care for their child.</p> <p>She highlights how it is important for parents to give their children space to grow in independence and resilience.</p> <p>“A child that needs less managing, that gets up independently in the morning, completes their homework and deals responsibly with teachers and friends, is a child more likely to develop into a successful, self-sufficient adult.”</p> <p>What do you think of this new style of parenting? Tell us in the comments below. </p> <p><em><strong>Renee Mill is a senior clinical psychologist and best-selling author. Her latest book, </strong></em><strong>Parenting Without Anger</strong><em><strong>, $32.99 (Impact Press) is available from all good bookstores and online at <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><a href="https://www.booktopia.com.au/search.ep?keywords=Parenting+Without+Anger&amp;productType=917504" target="_blank">Booktopia</a></span>.</strong></em></p>

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Octogenarian flies high with helicopter lessons

<p>John "Flyboy" Sandilands served with the air force and has been in Egypt, Zimbabwe, Singapore, Thailand and Borneo but now the 89-year-old New Zealander is learning to fly a helicopter in Motueka.</p> <p>"I still need a challenge," he said. "I still need to keep my brain working. I've still got a lot to learn.</p> <p>"I'm not quite in a museum yet."</p> <p>Each week, Sandilands drives his Volvo C30 – with the licence plate FL1 BøY – from his home in Blenheim on the "Monte Carlo" run across the Whangamoas to his lesson with TNT Helicopters in Motueka. It was his fifth lesson on Tuesday and he's keeping up to speed.</p> <p>"He's doing very well," said TNT Helicopters chief executive and chief flying instructor Ross Troughton. "He's very techno-savvy. He doesn't recognise his age at all."</p> <p>Troughton, who has been an instructor since 1991, said Sandilands was the oldest trainee he'd had.</p> <p>"He's the oldest pupil anybody's ever had."</p> <p>While it was unlikely Sandilands would pass a medical and be able to fly solo, he was capable of mastering the machine.</p> <p>Sandilands is matter-of-fact about the venture. Flying helicopters was simply "a thing that I want to do and do it properly".</p> <p>"After that, I'll think of something else."</p> <p>Sandilands found the Motueka company after searching "helicopter training" online. There were other instructors in the North Island but he didn't fancy "going up by boat" for every lesson, he said.</p> <p>"So I hit on TNT."</p> <p>Sandilands is no stranger to aviation. He started training to fly fixed-wing aircraft at Omaka airfield near Blenheim in 2005 and "got my ticket" in 2007, aged 81.</p> <p>He realised now that "the controls on a helicopter are quite different" but he wanted to master it.</p> <p>"It takes tremendous concentration."</p> <p>The determined octogenarian got his first taste of flying on March 28, 1941 – his 15th birthday. Sandilands was member of the Air Defence Cadet Corps in his native Scotland and got airborne during a visit to a Royal Air Force station at Drem, east of Edinburgh.</p> <p>"I remember being strapped in," he said. "Then, all of a sudden, I realised we were flying. It was a great sensation."</p> <p>That same feeling remains today.</p> <p>"It's the sensation of looking down ... that freedom to move around without having to keep inside the white lines."</p> <p>Sandilands, who is also a watchmaker, joined the RAF at 16 in 1942, after altering his handwritten birth certificate.</p> <p>"You had to be 17¼; I made myself 17½."</p> <p>He joined the RAF Volunteer Reserve as an aircraft technician, working on navigation systems, automatic-pilot and bomb site computers.</p> <p>After the war, he was sent to Norway "taking VIPs around to help and get Norway going again".</p> <p>Sandilands also served in Egypt and what is now Zimbabwe. He has also been in Singapore, Thailand and Borneo.</p> <p>"I've been everywhere, man. I've been everywhere."</p> <p>Sandilands arrived in New Zealand in 1950 after signing up with the RNZAF. He was sent to Ohakea where he met his future wife, Betty, who worked as an accounting clerk. The couple had a daughter, Barbara. He stayed in the RNZAF for 22 years and later worked for Inland Revenue.</p> <p>The family moved to Blenheim in 1980.</p> <p>Sandilands, now a widower, is a volunteer guide at the Omaka Aviation Heritage Centre and a member of the Marlborough Aero Club.</p> <p>He keeps active and doesn't let his age hold him back.</p> <p>"The only thing [about age] that would bother me would be the physical activity but I've still got enough of that," Sandilands said. "Mind wise, I'm fine. I'm just me."</p> <p><em>Written by Cherie Sivignon. First appeared on <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="http://www.stuff.co.nz/" target="_blank">Stuff.co.nz.</a></strong></span></em></p>

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