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Kevin Costner reveals heartwarming interaction with Prince William

Kevin Costner has revealed that Prince William left a strong impression on him after the royal organised a meet-up with him several years ago. "I happened to be in England, and I got this message that the Prince would love to talk, and I said, 'What?'... and then I went, 'Okay'," the Hollywood actor told People magazine. "We met in this room, and it was just us. He walked up, and we shook hands. ..." What came out of the royals mouth next left the actor feeling delighted, as he revealed that his late mother, Princess Diana, had a crush on Costner. "The first line out of his mouth was, 'You know, my mom kind of fancied you'." He described Prince William as "quite a young man," and that the interaction had left him with "fond memories of who he was, how I was approached and what we talked about." Costner also revealed that he had talks with the late Princess about being involved in the sequel to his iconic film The Bodyguard. "There was a moment that that was really flying down the tracks, very quietly, because it's how I operate," he said. The three-time Golden Globe winner shared that Sarah Ferguson was the one who introduced him to the Diana. "It was so sweet. Sarah was the one that set this up. Sarah was very cool... when she could have been going, 'Well, I'm a princess too. What about me? ' She didn't do that at all. Diana and I began to talk," he praised the Duchess of York. Images: Marina Takimoto/ZUMA Press Wire/ Shutterstock editorial/ Instagram

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New study reveals the lifetime health benefits of social interaction

A new meta-analysis study - undertaken by the Centre for Healthy Brain Ageing (otherwise known as the CHeBA) at the University of New South Wales - has revealed that social interaction could have benefits many would never have thought to predict, from a reduced risk of dementia to overall increased longevity. Researches were investigating the link between social connections in senior citizens and the risk of mild cognitive impairment (MCI), as well as dementia and morality, compiling the results from 13 other international studies following individuals aged 65 years and up over extended periods of time - research published in <a href="https://u26892420.ct.sendgrid.net/ls/click?upn=B8NE7CRkW4hCmh1dHfJbPqy22DjCz8-2Bq3ZidKWozGaZDoG-2FmVx-2BVsAja535jGrbQlYGwKkrcgY4HPBHrSRE-2Bpq1fwuJ0AQZcKTgnOiva5gsjqRFzNLSYGGzJ4hgT-2Bp0b-7Jp_W1g0lLgOQvKHpoedb1QOitWbx1JxegS3ChuQBoUMMSvQphp8oKfzCnK1hk7FLUZqqTLorFP-2FYQB6URmHLHx65PjMZSysYz3YQI-2BzvIxBhVdZr2Z1gRzt72cMfkaib4uVOYXTxECJWWsRmLyHtb8tdUoPs6u4lvqr8I7xD4zbJqJTqeP2zMO2vFFc6dcczrApzJnOWkq2tOchRyvzstzbQnlU1N4WSe4ZAMtqjmGx6sSvfxYICFLpppnmosd6kUUL-2B2zjjEQ61i38e9TYUaT6LZA5aIGcpHJw26Ob-2BXzuvv-2BuHbhihyIqh2AUTJ2WAYsCw6hpo5SJ7JKlgCF4nYeiekLQeVVLm4GRjjckYyIIN48-3D">Alzheimer's & Dementia: The Journal of the Alzheimer's Association</a>. As author, clinical psychologist, and researcher Dr Suraj Samtani explained, “we know from previous research that social connections are important for our health and being isolated puts us at higher risk of dementia and death.” “Our goal was to find which social connections protect us from dementia and death.” Researches drew intel from studies in a number of countries - spanning low, middle, and high-income nations - and compiled a study population more diverse than the meta-analyses to come before, including the likes of Australia, European nations, North and South America, Asia, and Africa, as opposed to the previous North America and European study groups. From there, they looked at information about the connections between the participants, paying close attention to the types of social links (whether they were in a relationship, single, or married, or involved with their community), the function of them (whether or not they had social support on hand, or a close confidante), and the quality (how much satisfaction they did - or did not - receive from their relationships). With this information, they sought to find out if the participants had developed either MCI or dementia - as well as whether or not they had passed away. “We looked at social variables across these studies, such as living with others, interacting with friends and family, engaging in community activities, and social support,” Dr Samtani said. “We wanted to know which of these are associated with risk of getting dementia over time or dying.” And from their research, they discovered that positive social connections did appear to be linked to a lower risk of MCI, dementia, and death. “We found that frequent interactions - monthly or weekly - with family and friends and having someone to talk to reduced the risk of getting dementia. We also found that living with others and doing community activities reduced the risk of dying,” Dr Samtani noted. Recommendations from the researchers suggest that people should be prioritising their social connections if they hope to reduce their risk of cognitive decline - with the added benefit of living longer, too. “Try to meet with friends and family at least once a month, take part in community activities like volunteering or a rotary club, and open your heart to someone when you feel stressed,” Dr Samtani said. “Living with others, for example in an intergenerational household, is also helpful. “Connecting with others helps us to keep our bodies and minds healthy. “We hope that helping people to stay engaged in conversations and maintain healthy friendships and relationships will help them to stay healthy and happy.” Images: Getty

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Interactive cinema: how films could alter plotlines in real time by responding to viewers’ emotions

Most films offer exactly the same viewing experience. You sit down, the film starts, the plot unfolds and you follow what’s happening on screen until the story concludes. It’s a linear experience. My new film, <a href="http://www.albinomosquito.com/before-we-disappear/">Before We Disappear</a> – about a pair of climate activists who seek revenge on corporate perpetrators of global warming – seeks to alter that viewing experience. What makes my film different is that it adapts the story to fit the viewer’s emotional response. Through the use of a computer camera and software, the film effectively watches the audience as they view footage of climate disasters. Viewers are implicitly asked to choose a side. I chose to use this technology to make a film about the climate crisis to get people to really think about what they are willing to sacrifice for a survivable future. Storytelling has always been interactive: traditional oral storytellers would interact and respond to their listeners. For almost a century, film directors have been <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Interactive_cinema">experimenting with interactivity</a> – the past decade has seen an explosion of interactive content. Streaming services give viewers the opportunity to choose their own adventure. However, letting the viewer control the action has long posed a challenge: it’s at odds with narrative immersion, where the viewer is drawn into the world created by the story. One of the most prominent recent experiments in interactive film, <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Black_Mirror:_Bandersnatch">Netflix’s Bandersnatch</a>, clearly illustrates this. Here the action stops to ask the user what to do next – breaking the flow of the story and actively involving the viewer. Solving this issue of breaking the immersive experience remains a key question for artists exploring interactive film. The films I create and direct take a different route, leveraging non-conscious control to influence a film as the audience watches. My previous <a href="http://braincontrolledmovie.co.uk/">brain-controlled</a> films, <a href="https://www.imdb.com/title/tt7853742/">The Moment (2018)</a> and <a href="https://www.imdb.com/title/tt8072006/">The Disadvantages of Time Travel (2014)</a>, used brain computer interfaces (BCIs). These systems use computers to <a href="https://nottingham-repository.worktribe.com/output/980302/scanners-exploring-the-control-of-adaptive-films-using-brain-computer-interaction">analyse electrical signals from the brain</a>, allowing people to effectively control a device with their minds. Using this data from the brain, audiences <a href="https://nottingham-repository.worktribe.com/index.php/output/1468705/from-directors-cut-to-users-cut-to-watch-a-brain-controlled-film-is-to-edit-it">create a non-conscious edit</a> of the film in real time – reinforcing the films’ respective stories of science-fiction dystopia and a wandering, daydreaming mind. However, the BCI interface requires specialised equipment. For Before We Disappear, I wanted to use a technology more readily available to audiences, that could allow films to be shared over the internet. <h2>Controlling the narrative</h2> Before We Disappear uses an ordinary computer camera to read emotional cues and instruct the real-time edit of the film. To make this work, we needed a good understanding of how people react to films. We ran several <a href="https://dl.acm.org/doi/10.1145/3290607.3312814">studies</a> <a href="https://dl.acm.org/doi/10.1145/3290605.3300378">exploring the emotions</a> filmmakers intend to evoke and how viewers visually present emotion when watching. By using computer vision and machine learning techniques from our partner <a href="https://www.blueskeye.com/">BlueSkeye AI</a>, we analysed viewers’ facial emotions and reactions to film clips and developed several algorithms to leverage that data to control a narrative. While we observed that audiences tend not to extensively emote when watching a film, BlueSkeye’s face and emotion analysis tools are sensitive enough to pick up enough small variations and emotional cues to adapt the film to viewer reactions. The analysis software measures facial muscle movement along with the strength of emotional arousal – essentially how emotional a viewer feels in a particular moment. The software also evaluates the positivity or negativity of the emotion – something we call “<a href="https://www.frontiersin.org/articles/10.3389/fpsyg.2013.00261/full">valence</a>”. We are experimenting with various algorithms where this arousal and valence data contributes to real-time edit decisions, which causes the story to reconfigure itself. The first scene acts as a baseline, which the next scene is measured against. Depending on the response, the narrative will become one of around 500 possible edits. In Before We Disappear, I use a non-linear narrative which offers the audience different endings and emotional journeys. <h2>Emotional journey</h2> I see interactive technology as a way of expanding the filmmaker’s toolkit, to further tell a story and allow the film to adapt to an individual viewer, challenging and distributing the power of the director. However, emotional responses could be misused or have unforeseen consequences. It is not hard to imagine an online system showing only content eliciting positive emotions from the user. This could be used to create an echo chamber – where people only see content that matches the preferences they already have. Or it could be used for propaganda. We saw in the Cambridge Analytica scandal how <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Facebook%E2%80%93Cambridge_Analytica_data_scandal">large amounts of personal information</a> were collected from Facebook and used for political advertising. Our <a href="https://www.researchgate.net/publication/348325526_Brain-controlled_cinematic_interactions">research</a> aims to generate conversation about how users’ emotion data can be used responsibly with informed consent, while allowing users to control their own personal information. In our system, the data is analysed on the users’ device, rather than, say, the cloud. <h2>Big business, big responsibility</h2> Non-conscious interaction is big business. Platforms such as <a href="https://www.nbcnews.com/tech/social-media/algorithms-take-over-youtube-s-recommendations-highlight-human-problem-n867596">TikTok</a> and <a href="https://www.nbcnews.com/tech/social-media/algorithms-take-over-youtube-s-recommendations-highlight-human-problem-n867596">YouTube</a> use analysis of users’ past interactions on the platforms to influence the new content they see there. Users are not always aware of what personal information is being created or stored, nor can they influence what algorithms will present to them next. It’s important to create a system where audiences’ data is not stored. Video of the viewer or facial expression data should not be uploaded or analysed anywhere but on the player device. We plan to release the film as an interactive app, incorporating an awareness of potential abuse of the user’s data, and safeguarding any personal data on the device used to watch it. Adaptive films offer an alternative to traditional “choose-your-own-adventure” storytelling. When the story can change based on the audiences’ unconscious responses rather than intentional interaction, their focus can be kept in the story. This means they can enjoy a more personalised experience of the film. Turns out the old traditions of storytelling may still have much to teach us in the 21st century. This article originally appeared on <a href="https://theconversation.com/interactive-cinema-how-films-could-alter-plotlines-in-real-time-by-responding-to-viewers-emotions-200145" target="_blank" rel="noopener">The Conversation</a>. Images: Getty

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Robert Irwin’s awkward fan interaction

Robert Irwin has accidentally rejected an American tourist who may be in love with him after “missing” her message. The son of the great Steve Irwin was called cute by Megan Grass after he completed a show at Australia Zoo. She shared the footage to <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@megangrass12/video/7109012062063562030?is_copy_url=1&is_from_webapp=v1" target="_blank" rel="noopener">TikTok</a> of her complimenting him before asking for his number to a round of laughter. Robert said he was “flattered” and proceeded to ask where she was from to which she responded Utah, America. “Utah is great. I’ll tell you what, the easiest way is literally on Instagram so my people can monitor and see where it comes from because my number is hit and miss,” he said to her. Megan then to his surprise revealed that she had in fact messaged the night before to let him know she was going to Australia Zoo. He asked for her name and said “I’ll look it up” before waving and putting his thumb up. It however appears that Robert did not “look up” Megan as she is yet to receive any form of communication from him. "I think it definitely paid off because I got the opportunity to meet Robert, which is really cool," she said on The Today Show. "I definitely was not expecting it to blow up the way it did but it was a really cool experience all together and Robert was so sweet about it." When asked about what she liked about Robert, Megan said it was the fact that “he’s a great guy all together”. "I just think he's literally the sweetest person ever, like I was a stranger who asked for his number and he didn't have to be polite about it but he definitely was," she continued. "Robert's also like really busy and if he sees it [her message], he sees it, and if he doesn't, it's totally okay." Images: TikTok/Today

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Digital toys for kids you don’t have to feel guilty about

Guilt has perhaps always been part of selecting and giving gifts for children. However, in 2021, after two years of increased screen time for children thanks to COVID, parents may be experiencing even more uncertainty around what to buy. But what if the power of play could counter some of these fears? The <a href="https://publications.aap.org/pediatrics/article/142/3/e20182058/38649/The-Power-of-Play-A-Pediatric-Role-in-Enhancing?autologincheck=redirected">importance of play</a> is well recognised. Play holds developmental <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wuu59E97igU">power</a> to facilitate communication, increase personal strengths, foster emotional well-being and enhance social relationships. This can be true of digital gifts as well as more traditional presents. Here are some ideas for screen-based toys that are good for both a child’s development and easing parental guilt. <h2>Screen time – is there such a thing as too much?</h2> Firstly, let’s address the key concern many parents have: can too much screen time harm a child’s development? The answer lies in knowing and balancing the risks and benefits of screen time. A recent University of Colorado Boulder <a href="https://theconversation.com/kids-and-their-computers-several-hours-a-day-of-screen-time-is-ok-study-suggests-168022">study</a> of nine and ten year-olds found even when kids spend five hours a day on screens, “it doesn’t appear to be harmful”. The study also suggests screen time can improve social relationships. "While parents should make sure their children are using screens in appropriate ways, our early research suggests lengthy time on screen is not likely to yield dire consequences." Research also indicates the <a href="https://ijbnpa.biomedcentral.com/articles/10.1186/s12966-019-0881-7">type of screen time</a> is important. This suggests active engagement (such as playing a game or doing an activity) may be beneficial, whereas prolonged periods of passive screen time (such as watching TV or YouTube) could be detrimental. There are <a href="https://www.who.int/publications/i/item/9789240015128">international</a> and <a href="https://www.health.gov.au/health-topics/physical-activity-and-exercise/physical-activity-and-exercise-guidelines-for-all-australians#summary-by-age">Australian</a> recommendations on how much screen time is suitable for children, which vary depending on age. Guidelines also advise negotiating clear boundaries for screen time, limiting sedentary screen time, and incorporating <a href="https://raisingchildren.net.au/preschoolers/play-learning/screen-time-healthy-screen-use/screen-time-physical-activity">physical activity</a> and <a href="https://raisingchildren.net.au/preschoolers/play-learning/screen-time-healthy-screen-use/shared-screen-time">social relationships</a>. For children, this may mean sharing a family device, having clear boundaries about usage and a parent supervising. Ultimately, screens are a part of modern life – children need to learn how to navigate them. Modelling <a href="https://raisingchildren.net.au/babies/family-life/family-media-entertainment/parent-technology-use">healthy screen time</a> as well as selecting developmentally appropriate digital toys or platforms for play are two ways parents can assist children in developing a healthy relationship with screen time. <h2>Digital toys across age groups</h2> Babies and toddlers Video-chatting is <a href="https://raisingchildren.net.au/babies/play-learning/media-technology/healthy-screen-time-0-2-years">the only</a> recommended form of screen time for babies and toddlers. Digital devices and apps may assist parents when used together with their baby or toddler, to maintain relationships with friends and family. Apps on a parent’s device, such as <a href="https://apps.apple.com/au/app/baby-karaoke/id426373998">Baby Karaoke</a> can help parents to <a href="https://raisingchildren.net.au/guides/baby-karaoke">remember </a>and sing along to nursery rhymes and children’s songs. Joining together with your child in playful rhythm and rhyme time in the <a href="https://raisingchildren.net.au/guides/first-1000-days">first 1,000 days</a> supports many aspects of brain development. Pre-schoolers (3-5 years) Screen time, when supervised by a parent and part of a balanced <a href="https://raisingchildren.net.au/toddlers/play-learning/screen-time-media/healthy-screen-time-2-5-years">healthy</a> family lifestyle, can support children’s developing imagination, creativity, and storytelling. Apps and digital games like <a href="https://www.playosmo.com/en/">Osmo</a>, where players use objects in the real world to interact with the digital world on their device, can develop communication, social and problem-solving skills. School-age (5-9 years) Apps and digital games that support learning, social skills and creativity are <a href="https://raisingchildren.net.au/school-age/play-media-technology/media/good-apps-games-movies-school-age">recommended for school-age</a> children. App ideas include <a href="https://freeappsforme.com/stop-motion-apps/">Stop Motion</a>, where children use physical toys such as Lego minifigures or plasticine models to create short animated movies. <a href="https://khankids.zendesk.com/hc/en-us/articles/360004559231-Welcome-to-Khan-Academy-Kids">Khan Academy for Kids</a> allows children to read books, create and draw, solve puzzles and play games that promote social skills. Pre-teens (9-12 years) Pre-teens may be starting to conduct a significant part of their <a href="https://raisingchildren.net.au/pre-teens/entertainment-technology/digital-life/screen-time-social-life">social life</a> online. Supporting their developing sense of <a href="https://raisingchildren.net.au/pre-teens/entertainment-technology/digital-life/digital-citizenship">digital citizenship</a> is a crucial step and should be considered when choosing digital gifts. So, digital games that promote learning, hold positive messages, and allow for a sense of achievement are <a href="https://raisingchildren.net.au/pre-teens/entertainment-technology/gaming-gambling/video-games-apps">recommended for pre-teens</a>. As a parent of two pre-teens, Kate shares that two current favourite apps in her house are the drawing/art app <a href="https://procreate.art/">Procreate</a> and the meditation, ambient sounds and bedtime stories app <a href="https://www.calm.com/">Calm</a>. Other ideas include learning a new skill like a musical instrument with apps like <a href="https://www.joytunes.com/simply-piano">Simply Piano</a> or <a href="https://simplyguitar.joytunes.com/">Simply Guitar</a>. <a href="https://www.warnerbros.com/games-and-apps/heads">Heads Up!</a> allows you to play charades online, while popular video game <a href="https://www.commonsensemedia.org/app-reviews/minecraft">Minecraft</a> promotes creativity. Finally, work together as a family to remember, preserve and write family stories using <a href="https://storycorps.org/">Story Corps</a>. Teenagers (13-18 years) Screen time can be included in the <a href="https://raisingchildren.net.au/teens/entertainment-technology/screen-time-healthy-screen-use/healthy-screen-time-teens">healthy lifestyle</a> of teenagers. Digital activities that foster interests and hobbies, and enhance social connections are an important consideration for development, health, and well-being. As a parent of a teenager, Judi shares that the current favourite at her house is the virtual reality headset <a href="https://www.oculus.com/">Oculus Quest 2</a>, which enables social connection through <a href="https://hello.vrchat.com/">VRChat</a>, <a href="https://altvr.com/">Altspace</a> and meditation with <a href="https://www.tripp.com/">TRIPP</a> and <a href="https://www.oculus.com/experiences/quest/2616537008386430/">Nature Treks </a>. Other ideas include getting out in nature for a family treasure hunt adventure using <a href="https://www.geocaching.com/play">Geocaching </a>. Or host a trivia party with family or friends using <a href="https://www.sporcle.com/groups/topics/766d10e0f72b">Sporcle</a>. Games like <a href="https://www.spore.com/">Spore</a> allow players to design their own species by evolving microscopic organisms into their own creations. <h2>What to bear in mind</h2> If you’re doing your own searches, use terms like “creative apps for preschoolers” and use a review site like <a href="https://www.commonsensemedia.org/">Common Sense Media</a> to check your choice. And consider physically active screen time choices. Examples include the <a href="https://www.nintendo.com.au/nintendo-switch-family/switch">Nintendo Switch</a> that promote <a href="https://www.thegamer.com/10-games-like-ring-fit-adventure-on-the-nintendo-switch/">physical activity</a> such as dancing (<a href="https://www.ubisoft.com/en-au/game/just-dance/2022">Just Dance</a>) or real-life exercises, including jogging and yoga (<a href="https://www.nintendo.com.au/games/nintendo-switch/ring-fit-adventure">Ring Fit Adventure</a>). There is also virtual reality, which enables enjoyment, exploration and experiencing through multi-modes including movement (<a href="https://www.oculus.com/experiences/rift/1304877726278670/">Beat Saber</a>), art-making (<a href="https://www.oculus.com/experiences/quest/2322529091093901?ranking_trace=0_2322529091093901_QUESTSEARCH_85b10f4f-d9f3-44a1-b964-47c4da2e9cb8">Tilt Brush</a>), and immersive experiences (<a href="https://www.oculus.com/experiences/quest/2078376005587859?ranking_trace=0_2078376005587859_QUESTSEARCH_f4176e13-59ec-45c0-9b14-21117290e72b">Wander</a>). So, pause for a moment when considering digital gifts for children and ask yourself three things: 1) Is there a physical component? 2) Will this gift be used together within a relationship? 3) What is the play value? Image credits: Getty Images This article originally appeared on <a href="https://theconversation.com/digital-toys-for-kids-you-dont-have-to-feel-guilty-about-172612">The Conversation</a>.

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Real life Christmas Elves give the gift of life to pre-loved toys

As Christmas rapidly approaches, one group of senior citizens is turning pre-loved toys into new Christmas gifts for kids in need. According to data released by eco-retailer Flora & Fauna, Australians spend over $1 billion each Christmas on new toys for kids, but 26.8 million end up in the bin. At the same time, 1.6 million Aussies can’t afford a Christmas gift for their children. To help parents give their kids a surprise to enjoy this Christmas, <a rel="noopener" href="https://campaignlab-com-dot-yamm-track.appspot.com/Redirect?ukey=1XU4rvLerizKxe_lGiUvr5r2ctnSoVw7aT_RPCq5xeQM-1781001848&key=YAMMID-1639349013238&link=https://campaignlab-com-dot-yamm-track.appspot.com/Redirect?ukey=1XU4rvLerizKxe_lGiUvr5r2ctnSoVw7aT_RPCq5xeQM-1989833711&key=YAMMID-1638849690411&link=https://campaignlab-com-dot-yamm-track.appspot.com/Redirect?ukey=1XU4rvLerizKxe_lGiUvr5r2ctnSoVw7aT_RPCq5xeQM-1099927831&key=YAMMID-1637189812910&link=https://www.floraandfauna.com.au/" target="_blank">Flora & Fauna</a> has teamed up with The Peninsula Senior Citizens Toy Repair Group Inc and <a rel="noopener" href="https://campaignlab-com-dot-yamm-track.appspot.com/Redirect?ukey=1XU4rvLerizKxe_lGiUvr5r2ctnSoVw7aT_RPCq5xeQM-1781001848&key=YAMMID-1639349013238&link=https://campaignlab-com-dot-yamm-track.appspot.com/Redirect?ukey=1XU4rvLerizKxe_lGiUvr5r2ctnSoVw7aT_RPCq5xeQM-1989833711&key=YAMMID-1638849690411&link=https://campaignlab-com-dot-yamm-track.appspot.com/Redirect?ukey=1XU4rvLerizKxe_lGiUvr5r2ctnSoVw7aT_RPCq5xeQM-1099927831&key=YAMMID-1637189812910&link=https://wecareconnect.org.au/" target="_blank">We Care Connect</a> to transform donated toys into new Christmas gifts through its ‘Surprisingly Better Christmas’ initiative. <img style="width: 500px; height: 281.25px;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7846508/toy1.jpg" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/b827242ad3754300b482726ed73ee8b0" /> Pre-loved toys diverted from landfill are given a chance to be loved by someone new. Image: Supplied “Our group has been around for 45 years and we have about 30 members at the moment from all walks of life,” says Terry Cook, President of The Peninsula Senior Citizens Toy Repairs Group Inc. “We have retired engineers, accountants, school secretaries, opera singers, producers and so on. Every week the volunteers come in for a few days to repair or clean damaged toys which we then donate to charity to help families and children in need.” This isn’t the first time members of the organisation have used their efforts for a good cause either, having sent toys to children in Cambodia, Papua New Guinea, Sri Lanka and Fiji. So when they were approached by Flora & Fauna, Mr Cook said that it was a chance for the members to give “one of the best gifts we can provide to families and children in need this Christmas”. <img style="width: 500px; height: 281.25px;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7846507/toy2.jpg" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/c976fa138ff04737ad5285f4b4aa0086" /> Volunteers meet up weekly to repair and restore preloved toys. Image: Supplied “Children generally have a short attention span, so they get bored with a toy very quickly, even though it may still be in a usable or brand new condition,” he explains. “Our job is simple - we save the toy from landfill and give the toys a new lease on life which will bring infinite joy each time it goes into a child’s hands.” For Mr Cook, volunteering his time is also a great motivator. “It gets me out of bed every morning and it’s also a great social activity for the members to look forward to - we always have a morning tea together,” he says. The upcycled toys will be donated to We Care Connect, a charity that supports vulnerable children in the Central Coast and Hunter regions of New South Wales. Some of the toys will also be re-sold through the Flora & Fauna website. Helen Barker, a spokesperson at We Care Connect, says the initiative could benefit families who need it most this Christmas. “A donated toy could help bring Christmas Joy to a mum who’s left a violent home with her two children and minimal belongings, a family experiencing unthinkable financial hardship, or a single parent with multiple children who might have a medical condition,” she says. “The causes of poverty are complex, but helping a child in need is simple.” With the appeal of receiving something shiny and new being at an all-time high around Christmas, Flora & Fauna’s CEO and founder Julie Mathers says it is just as important to consider the afterlife of toys we purchase. “The research revealed 45 percent of parents say their child gets bored of a new toy and discards it in just three months,” she explains. “By taking in the discarded pre-loved toys and giving them a new purpose, not only are we saving them from landfill, but we’re also fulfilling the wishes of many children who simply want to wake up on Christmas Day to the teddy bear they’ve been dreaming of having.” For those looking to give their toys a new home, Mr Cook says the organisation takes in anything and everything. “We take all sorts of toys, be it a stuffed animal, puzzles, electric race car or a dollhouse. If you ever had a favourite toy from your childhood, chances are you’ll find it in our warehouse.” Image: Supplied

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Why kids should not have lots of toys (and what to do if yours have too many)

The festive season reinforces something parents and carers already know – many children today have a lot of toys. In the United States, children receive more than <a href="https://swnsdigital.com/us/2016/11/average-child-gets-6500-worth-of-toys-in-their-lifetime/">US$6,500 (A$9,073) worth of toys</a> between the ages of two and 12. Here in Australia, the toy industry is worth more than <a href="http://www.roymorgan.com/findings/6954-play-time-where-aussies-buy-their-toys-and-games-201609070858">A$3.7 billion annually</a>. Lockdowns have resulted in online toy sales growing by 21.4% during 2021, with the online toy industry now <a href="https://www.ibisworld.com/au/market-size/online-toy-sales/">growing faster</a> than the overall online retail sector. The number of toys in Australian households is likely to increase when Christmas gift giving starts in earnest. Apart from environmental concerns, having lots of toys can <a href="https://www.psychologytoday.com/au/blog/singletons/201712/study-underscores-why-fewer-toys-is-the-better-option">negatively impact children</a> as well as <a href="https://www.todaysparent.com/family/toys/too-many-toys/">parents and carers</a>. Here are some ideas for dealing with existing toys, as well as the upcoming influx of new ones. <h2>The problem with having too many toys</h2> Spaces with lots of toys are overstimulating and impact the ability for babies, toddlers and younger children to learn and play creatively. <img src="https://images.theconversation.com/files/436025/original/file-20211207-68670-1q22rxm.jpg?ixlib=rb-1.1.0&q=45&auto=format&w=754&fit=clip" alt="Child sitting in the middle of toys." /> The more toys, the more confusing for kids. www.shutterstock.com Similar to cluttered pantries or office spaces, which make it hard for adults to focus, having too many toys around the house can make it difficult for children to concentrate, learn, and develop important skills around play. Research <a href="https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0163638317301613">shows</a> fewer toys at a time leads to better quality playtime for toddlers, allowing them to focus on one toy at a time, build concentration skills, and play more creatively. The other issue with having lots of toys “in play” is that we tend to place less value on them. By reducing the number of toys, adults can help children develop <a href="https://www.abc.net.au/news/2017-07-06/too-many-toys-can-lead-to-stuff-addiction-maggie-dent-says/8684264">appreciation and gratitude</a>. <h2>What to do if you have too many toys</h2> De-cluttering is easier said than done, but organising toys has many benefits for children and adults alike. Fewer toys that are well organised leads to a calmer, less stressful environment which also reduces overstimulation in children and contributes to better <a href="https://raisingchildren.net.au/toddlers/behaviour/understanding-behaviour/self-regulation">behavioural regulation</a>. Reducing the number of toys can also increase opportunities for children to build frustration tolerance and having to focus on one or two toys at a time can improve <a href="https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/03004430.2010.503892">problem solving skills</a> as well as developing independent play experience and creativity. Organising toys can also help parents and carers improve general structure and routine in the home, which is great for everyone! <h2>How to organise toys</h2> A good first step is to conduct an inventory of all the toys in your house. Divide toys into “keep and play”, “keep and store” (toys that are sentimental, family heirlooms or part of a collection that can be put in storage) and “give-away or sell”. Toys that are “keep and play” should be organised in ways that allow children to clearly see and easily access them. Put two-thirds of these toys away in storage. Every month, rotate the number of toys available ensuring you have an interesting selection of “social” and “solo play” toys available and try to include “good” toys. Rotating toys can help with space issues and importantly it keeps the novelty alive. <h2>Is there such a thing as ‘good’ toys?</h2> With such a huge variety of toys available, the choice can be overwhelming. But when you are thinking about buying toys, there are some features that make certain toys better than others. “Good” toys are those that are appropriate for the child’s age and developmental level. If you are not sure if a toy is suitable in this regard, seek advice from staff in specialist toy stores or consult child development websites such as <a href="https://raisingchildren.net.au/">raisingchildren.net.au</a> and <a href="http://www.earlychildhoodaustralia.org.au/parent-resources/">earlychildhoodaustralia.org.au</a>. <img src="https://images.theconversation.com/files/436026/original/file-20211207-21-3sc9sx.jpg?ixlib=rb-1.1.0&q=45&auto=format&w=754&fit=clip" alt="Mum and daughter playing with blocks." /> Toys that help a child develop and keep them occupied do not need to be expensive. www.shutterstock.com Toys should stimulate learning and keep a child’s interest at the same time and they should be safe and durable. In addition, toys should be able to stand the test of time (think Lego) and ideally be used in a variety of different ways over the years. We recognise that with <a href="https://www.smh.com.au/national/we-don-t-really-have-a-plan-warning-as-australia-fails-to-hit-poverty-goals-20211201-p59dqb.html">more than 17%</a> of Australian children living in poverty, there are also many families who do not have the problem of having too many toys. Good toys <a href="https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2021/dec/10/can-toys-be-educational-the-same-can-be-said-for-any-household-object?CMP=Share_iOSApp_Other">don’t have</a> to be expensive. While Australians spend millions each year on toys, it’s worth remembering simple, everyday <a href="https://www.canr.msu.edu/news/10_household_items_you_can_use_for_play_with_toddlers">household items</a> - cardboard boxes, saucepans and cooking implements, buckets and tubs, cardboard tubes, plastic containers and stacking cups - make excellent toys for younger children. <h2>Categorising ‘good’ toys</h2> Parents may find it useful to categorise good toys. This ensures when you are organising toys, children have access to a variety of toys suitable for different types of learning and play development. Here are five ways to categorise toys: 1. manipulative/functional toys - these include construction and building toys, puzzles, stacking and nesting, brain-teasers, dressing toys, beads, blocks, bath toys, and sand and water toys. Manipulative toys are important for helping develop fine and large motor skills, dexterity and coordination, which are vital for drawing, writing, dressing and more. 2. active toys - including various outdoor toys, climbing equipment, sports equipment and ride-on toys. Active toys are great for general physical activity and motor skills development. 3. learning toys - these include board and card games, books, and specific-skill toys such as letter identification and shape and colour sorters. 4. creative toys - such as arts and craft materials, musical toys and instruments including digital music and drawing apps. 5. make-believe - including dress ups and role play (costumes, clothing, hats, masks and accessories), stuffed toys, puppets, dolls, transportation toys. <h2>What to do with toys you don’t need</h2> It can be hard parting with beloved toys, those that have been part of a special collection or even just trying to clear out toys that have accumulated over the years. Many people find it <a href="https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/1470593111418794">emotionally challenging</a> to give away toys and prefer to keep and pass them on to children and family members. <img src="https://images.theconversation.com/files/436028/original/file-20211207-19-oumje7.jpg?ixlib=rb-1.1.0&q=45&auto=format&w=754&fit=clip" alt="box of Lego blocks organised into compartments." /> Keep your toys organised to facilitate better play. www.shutterstock.com There are many charitable organisations that will be pleased to find new homes for good quality toys - <a href="https://www.salvationarmy.org.au/donate/clothing-and-goods/">The Salvation Army</a>, <a href="https://www.savethechildren.org.au/our-stories/we-want-your-pre-loved-items">Save the Children</a> and <a href="https://www.vinnies.org.au/page/Donate/Donate_Goods/">Vinnies</a> - all welcome toy donations, especially at this time of year. Also search “toy donation” in your area to find local organisations and make sure what you are giving is in good condition (if it’s a puzzle, make sure it has all the pieces!). Online platforms selling used items or secondhand dealers are other options which will give your treasures a second life. Finally, as we head into Christmas with Australians tipped to spend <a href="http://www.roymorgan.com/findings/8783-ara-media-release-countdown-to-christmas-202109100615">more than $11 billion on gifts</a>, it’s worthwhile having the list of “good” toys handy so you can easily answer friends and relatives when they inevitably ask “what can we get the kids for Christmas?”.<img style="border: none !important; box-shadow: none !important; margin: 0 !important; max-height: 1px !important; max-width: 1px !important; min-height: 1px !important; min-width: 1px !important; opacity: 0 !important; outline: none !important; padding: 0 !important; text-shadow: none !important;" src="https://counter.theconversation.com/content/172611/count.gif?distributor=republish-lightbox-basic" alt="The Conversation" width="1" height="1" /> <a href="https://theconversation.com/profiles/louise-grimmer-212082">Louise Grimmer</a>, Senior Lecturer in Retail Marketing, <a href="https://theconversation.com/institutions/university-of-tasmania-888">University of Tasmania</a> and <a href="https://theconversation.com/profiles/martin-grimmer-330523">Martin Grimmer</a>, Professor of Marketing, <a href="https://theconversation.com/institutions/university-of-tasmania-888">University of Tasmania</a> This article is republished from <a href="https://theconversation.com">The Conversation</a> under a Creative Commons license. Read the <a href="https://theconversation.com/why-kids-should-not-have-lots-of-toys-and-what-to-do-if-yours-have-too-many-172611">original article</a>. Image: Phillip Glickman/Unsplash

Family & Pets

"Brilliant gesture": Secret Santa pays off local toy store lay-bys

A kind gesture has eased the financial burden of Christmas for shoppers at a Townsville toy shop, in north-eastern Queensland, after a generous stranger paid their lay-by balances. Natasha Vidler said she was “in disbelief and shock” when she was told over the phone that $170 had been paid off her toy bill at Townsville Toyworld. “I rang my husband and I was pretty much in tears, tears of happiness,” Ms Vidler <a rel="noopener" href="https://www.abc.net.au/news/2021-12-15/anonymous-secret-santa-pays-toy-store-layby-townsville/100698928" target="_blank">said</a>. “We’re forever grateful. This time of year is a bit of a struggle for everybody, not only financially but mentally, emotionally.” Though the toy store wouldn’t say what the gifts totalled, Ms Vidler said she was one of 20 customers who benefitted from the unknown woman’s kindness. The mother-of-two has spent the last two weeks in hospital, and said the contribution would make this year’s Christmas that much more special for her family. “Now the kids are going to have an extra-special Christmas thanks to some total lovely stranger,” she said. Another recipient, Mark Jones, had been paying off presents for his children and granddaughter and said he was “blown away” by the gesture. “I thought it was an absolutely brilliant gesture,” Mr Jones said. The Townsville truck driver said he was being evicted from his rental crisis amid the city’s housing crisis, so every extra dollar made a difference. “It’s been a bit of a tough year, not just for me but for everybody,” he said. According to forecasting from the National Retail Association (NRA), Australians are set to spend a record $20.5 billion in the 10 days leading up to Christmas. But the spending comes at a particularly challenging time for many families, with chief executive of the Queensland Council of Social Services Aimee McVeigh saying that 250,000 children had one or both parents relying on income support. “These parents are having to choose between paying rent, food, electricity and medical bills, never mind Christmas presents,” Ms McVeigh said. “While the unemployment rate might be lower than it was last year, there are more people than ever in Queensland who are relying on income support payments of just $45 a day.” In Queensland alone, NRA chief executive Dominique Lamb said people are expected to spend $3.9 billion over the next 10 days. “We’ve had our international borders closed, our domestic borders closed, people have been staying home and certainly saving their money,” she said. “There seems to be a push for joy after what’s been a really long 18 months.” Image: Getty Images

Money & Banking

Dad goes viral after warning other parents about ‘inappropriate’ dolls

An American dad has taken to TikTok to complain about the ‘inappropriate’ LOL Surprise Dolls his daughter asked him to buy for her. He starts the video by showing off dolls he considers wholesome - namely, Tiana and Anna, two Disney princesses. These are then contrasted with the ‘inappropriate’ LOL Surprise Dolls, rotating one as he exclaims, ‘This one’s dressed up like a hoochie!’ <blockquote style="max-width: 605px; min-width: 325px;" class="tiktok-embed" data-video-id="7010070257020783878"><a rel="noopener" href="https://www.tiktok.com/@official.patrick.johnson" target="_blank" title="@official.patrick.johnson">@official.patrick.johnson</a> I Can't Believe I Bought This For My Daughter <a rel="noopener" href="https://www.tiktok.com/tag/fyp" target="_blank" title="fyp">#Fyp</a> <a rel="noopener" href="https://www.tiktok.com/tag/protectthechildren" target="_blank" title="protectthechildren">#protectthechildren</a> <a rel="noopener" href="https://www.tiktok.com/tag/wth" target="_blank" title="wth">#wth</a> <a rel="noopener" href="https://www.tiktok.com/music/original-sound-7010070167258532614" target="_blank" title="♬ original sound - Official.Patrick.Johnson">♬ original sound - Official.Patrick.Johnson</a></blockquote> Patrick Johnson, father and pastor, said in the video, "I don't know what we doing these days, my baby wants LOL dolls and I'm upset y'all, look at these dolls. What are we doing to our children, y'all?! We've got to be careful what we're giving to our girls! I don't want her thinking this is the way women dress!" Two of the dolls he shows are wearing two-piece outfits with stockings underneath, and a third is wearing a one-piece leotard. It is unclear whether anyone pointed out that women can be seen wearing similar outfits every day of the week at his nearest beach. <img style="width: 305.1948051948052px; height: 500px;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7844641/screen-shot-2021-10-06-at-21900-pm.png" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/2c7e7dd452cd447a944dd6d287d40996" /> Commenters’ responses were mixed, with one joking that all of the dolls were wearing Savage x Fenty, Rihanna’s lingerie brand, and another saying, “That’s what I wear to work… I work at a strip club”. One user said they were less concerned about the clothes and more concerned about the unrealistic body expectations the dolls might convey, with many asking why the dolls looked like they’d received ‘BBLs’ (Brazilian butt lifts). Another suggested the pastor use it as a teachable moment, writing, "I don't disagree that the dolls are scantily clad, but can't we teach our children to respect others no matter how they dress?" Big W <a href="https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-8645483/Woolworths-removes-kids-LOL-dolls-furious-Aussie-mum-exposed-hidden-sexual-lingerie.html">previously</a> took LOL Surprise Dolls off the shelves following a number of complaints from parents last year, the result of another viral video from an outraged parent who had discovered the dolls' ‘hidden’ feature - underwear. <blockquote style="background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);" class="instagram-media" data-instgrm-permalink="https://www.instagram.com/p/CUa01rzPWZE/?utm_source=ig_embed&utm_campaign=loading" data-instgrm-version="14"> <div style="padding: 16px;"> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 40px; margin-right: 14px; width: 40px;"></div> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 100px;"></div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 60px;"></div> </div> </div> <div style="padding: 19% 0;"></div> <div style="display: block; height: 50px; margin: 0 auto 12px; width: 50px;"></div> <div style="padding-top: 8px;"> <div style="color: #3897f0; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 550; line-height: 18px;">View this post on Instagram</div> </div> <p style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;"><a style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none;" rel="noopener" href="https://www.instagram.com/p/CUa01rzPWZE/?utm_source=ig_embed&utm_campaign=loading" target="_blank">A post shared by Bratz (@bratz)</a> </div> </blockquote> Long-time toy consumers may remember when similar criticisms were levelled at Bratz dolls, which were known for their pouty smiles and on-trend fashion sense, as well as their removable feet. The American Psychological Association actually <a href="https://www.apa.org/monitor/sep06/dolls">expressed concerns</a> that Bratz dolls were sexualising young girls and teaching them that sex is a commodity. Interestingly, Bratz dolls are made by the same company as LOL Surprise dolls, MGA Entertainment. Even further back, Barbie copped flack for being “<a href="https://theworkingparent.com/lifestyle-articles/a-history-of-barbie/#.YV0SsxBBw-Q">too adult</a>” because she, like many adult women, had breasts. More recently, a <a href="https://uk.style.yahoo.com/tattooed-barbie-doll-is-overly-sexualised-and-inappropriate-say-parents.html?guccounter=1&guce_referrer=aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuZ29vZ2xlLmNvbS8&guce_referrer_sig=AQAAAGiAVVTJpYOGsp_Yf0dFBG7octIZEm2ZHes1-pYZVsf5nPNCKeIiEu9y_oEsBGizvDWdWIcnLjf9HZRl4K59Zc4zWwqkpshe33GBtDoTmKfj3FRPg2tf5a7ANBK6MW6cSq77Cred7twHcrVWUecAZAzoTPDmLcjH4vLN36odkota">tattooed Barbie doll</a> was criticised for being overly sexual, despite sporting a full-length off-the-shoulder shirt, a skirt, and leopard print leggings. Image: Jack Taylor/Getty Images

Family & Pets

Looking after your pet in lockdown

More time at home means we get to spend more time with our pets. While it’s easy to get busy with work, taking care of the kids, or watching the latest series on Netflix, this is precious time and we need to make sure our pets are doing OK as well. Lockdowns can be difficult for both pets and their owners as the sudden change in schedule can be a challenging transition. So, here are some tips to make your pets life a bit easier during lockdown. It’s important to keep your pets mentally stimulated so try to keep them entertained and help your pets with any anxiety they may be feeling during lockdown. Pets who are bored can develop destructive habits and may vent their frustrations on items like your furniture. Dogs, in particular, will often display behaviours such as excessive barking, digging and restlessness when bored. If your pets are showing signs of these troublesome behaviours, it may be a sign of a lack of mental stimulation. To help bust boredom during lockdown, you can incorporate some challenges into their daily activities. Pets usually have it quite simple when it comes to meals, with the bulk of us just placing their food down and waiting for them to get stuck into work. A good place to start is by changing your pet’s feeding schedule if you want to add more intellectual stimulation to their routine. Using food dispensing toys can also add in an extra challenge for your pets during mealtime. There are quite a few options to check out at pet stores. Use some interactive toys To keep your pet busy throughout the day, why not invest in a doggy board game or a canine puzzle. You can also play makeshift games which focus on memory with your pets. A great way to keep your pets incentivised is using toys which allow treats to be hidden inside so your pet will need to use their brain to figure out how to get them out! Stay active We know it’s not always possible to given the current climate but depending on lockdown restrictions, maintaining a consistent routine for your dog’s walks is an essential part of helping them adjust. Allowing your dog time to explore around and locate safe spots to wander and run freely helps make every walk exciting. This can be a difficult time but remember to take advantage of this opportunity to unwind at home with your pet. You may find it’s one of the best things about lockdown – spending more quality time with your pet! Photo: Shutterstock

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An Italian museum’s innovative way of tracking viewer interactions

Art researchers in Italy have discovered a new way to help more accurately curate popular museum exhibitions. Working with the Italian national agency for new technologies, the Istituzione Bologna Musei in Bologna has installed 14 small cameras that use artificial intelligence (AI) to study the reactions of viewers. The cameras pick up facial expressions, posture and positioning of those who pass through the gallery on a daily basis. The data collected by these cameras is then used to draw broader conclusions about future exhibits and specific artworks. Researcher Riccardo Scipinotti came up with the initiative, referred to as ShareArt, to record how long visitors look at art, the paths they take through galleries, where their eyes are drawn to on particular canvases. All of these factors make up each piece of art’s “attraction value”, as well as analysing which exhibits are the most popular. The ShareArt technology has the potential to revolutionise the museum and art world, as the data shared from the AI could determine placement of certain works in a gallery, how works are lit or hung, or how works are displayed in relation to one another. The team of researchers began to roll out ShareArt in early July as COVID-19 restrictions were lifted in Italy, and has already started to yield interesting results. The technology is also fitted to detect if museum-goers are flouting making-wearing rules. The AI device is programmed to flash red if a visitor is wearing their mask incorrectly, or not wearing one at all. Image credit: Shutterstock

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Are your grandkids safe? It’s far too easy for abusers to exploit smart toys and trackers

The wearable technology market is booming, with <a href="https://news.strategyanalytics.com/press-releases/press-release-details/2021/Strategy-Analytics-Half-Billion-Wearables-Sold-Worldwide-in-2020/default.aspx">half a billion wearables</a> sold globally in 2020. Apps on these devices, or the devices themselves, often claim to monitor our health to spot illnesses, track our workouts to help us reach our fitness goals, or keep an eye on our children’s whereabouts to enhance their safety. But they’re also divisive. Supporters of wearable technology claim that health trackers should be <a href="https://theconversation.com/why-the-nhs-should-prescribe-wearable-fitness-trackers-60817">prescribed by the NHS</a> and could even deliver an <a href="https://theconversation.com/wearable-fitness-devices-deliver-early-warning-of-possible-covid-19-infection-143388">early warning</a> of a possible COVID-19 infection. GPS tracking devices designed to be worn by children, meanwhile, are seen as a <a href="https://www.abc.net.au/news/2019-04-04/digitally-tracking-kids-more-parents-use-devices/10957906">safety asset</a> for parents. Yet studies have found fitness trackers to be too <a href="https://theconversation.com/why-fitness-trackers-may-not-give-you-all-the-credit-you-hoped-for-128585">inaccurate</a> and <a href="https://theconversation.com/do-fitness-trackers-make-you-fitter-52404">misleading</a> to be used by <a href="https://eu.usatoday.com/story/tech/2019/08/14/how-doctors-really-feel-data-your-apple-watch-fitbit/1900968001/">medical professionals</a>, and that, because they’ve been rushed to market, wearables of all kinds are an insecure “<a href="https://theconversation.com/why-health-apps-are-like-the-wild-west-with-apple-just-riding-into-town-103512">Wild West</a>” region of technology that requires urgent regulation. In <a href="https://assets.publishing.service.gov.uk/government/uploads/system/uploads/attachment_data/file/978692/The_UK_code_of_practice_for_consumer_IoT_security_-_PETRAS_UCL_research_report.pdf">a recent report</a>, we looked at the security risks associated with wearable devices, as well as “smart toys” that can record children in their homes. We found a concerning lack of security – especially for devices aimed at children – which lack even the most basic cybersecurity precautions, leaving them open to abuse. Fitness trackers and personal data One key issue with wearables is the data they generate and share. For instance, many fitness trackers rely on data on a person’s location to map their workouts. That’s great if you’re keen to track the distance of your jogs, but it’s not especially sensible if you’re embarking on those jogs <a href="https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/technology-42853072">from a military base</a> in hostile territory. Beyond that specific example, which caused some embarrassment for the US military in 2018, it’s clear that sharing your location publicly, even in a safe civilian setting, comes with significant risks. And it’s not just the real-time tracking of your running route that could expose your whereabouts. Because these trackers upload your workouts to an app and share them publicly, it’s possible for predators to use historic running, biking or hiking routes to predict where you might be at a given time. This safety issue isn’t only restricted to workouts. Even something as innocuous as <a href="https://www.wareable.com/wearable-tech/terms-and-conditions-privacy-policy-765">sharing a photo through your Apple watch</a> can give away your geolocation. Are trackers safe for children? Even more concerning are devices designed to be worn by children, sales of which are expected to reach <a href="https://www.prnewswire.com/in/news-releases/global-kids-smartwatch-market-valued-at-364-3-million-us-in-2018-and-will-reach-873-5-million-us-by-the-end-of-2025-at-a-cagr-of-13-19-between-2019-2025-valuates-reports-814713277.html">$875 million (£620 million)</a> by 2025. These watches are marketed as wearable tech to keep kids safe, tracking their location and alerting parents when the watch’s onboard “SOS” button is pressed – or if the child travels beyond a geofenced area. Smart watches as safety devices on children’s wrists may sound like a <a href="https://www.cbsnews.com/news/wearable-gps-tracking-for-children-to-ease-parents-minds/">boon for anxious parents</a>, but a <a href="https://fil.forbrukerradet.no/wp-content/uploads/2017/10/watchout-rapport-october-2017.pdf">2017 survey</a> of children’s smart watches found that the all-important “SOS” button either got stuck or didn’t work at all in most cases. Additionally, flaws in some smart watches’ accompanying apps have raised <a href="https://www.which.co.uk/news/2019/11/which-tests-for-security-flaws-in-kids-smartwatches/">serious safety concerns</a>. <a href="https://consumerfed.org/wp-content/uploads/2017/10/smart-watch-security-assessment.pdf">Security researchers</a> have found they could not only easily access children’s historical route data – like their path to and from school – and monitor their geolocation in real time, but they could also speak directly to the child, through the watch, without the call being reported in the parent’s app. Connected toys Fears that internet of things devices can give people unauthorised access to children also extend to <a href="https://theconversation.com/4-ways-internet-of-things-toys-endanger-children-94092">the “smart toy” market</a>. Some of these toys contain hidden cameras and microphones which, if hacked, could be used to record the interior of your home, including children’s rooms. In 2017, German regulators recognised this danger by <a href="https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-europe-39002142">banning the sale</a> of the Cayla “smart doll”, labelling it as the kind of “de facto espionage device” that Germany’s <a href="https://www.bundesnetzagentur.de/SharedDocs/Pressemitteilungen/EN/2017/17022017_cayla.html">Telecommunications Act</a> legislates against. In an unusual and unsettling move, the regulator went further by asking parents who’d bought one to <a href="https://www.dw.com/en/german-regulator-tells-parents-to-destroy-spy-doll-cayla/a-37601577">destroy the doll</a> to prevent illicit surveillance. Even if the manufacturers of smart toys and children’s smart watches can guarantee far better security than that which led to the Cayla ban, there remain other surveillance concerns. In 2019, a <a href="https://www.unicef.org/innovation/reports/memoAIchildrights">UNICEF-led report</a> highlighted how children’s rights – to creativity, freedom of choice and self-determination – are challenged by smart devices. Present in schools, at home, and on the wrist, this kind of round-the-clock surveillance, the report argues, restricts carefree childhood and hurts kids’ development. Making trackers safer Trackers and toys can be made safer. Before we allow these devices to flood the market, it’s essential <a href="https://discovery.ucl.ac.uk/id/eprint/10117734/">we standardise</a> the minimum security requirements that manufacturers must comply with – no matter where in the world these devices are made. Key among these standards should be the removal of <a href="https://assets.publishing.service.gov.uk/government/uploads/system/uploads/attachment_data/file/971440/Code_of_Practice_for_Consumer_IoT_Security_October_2018_V2.pdf">factory-default passwords</a> on devices – which, like “admin” or “1234”, are easily guessed or discovered by even the most novice hacker. Manufacturers should also publish a <a href="https://www.iotsecurityfoundation.org/expanding-the-view-of-consumer-vulnerability-disclosure-practice/">vulnerability disclosure</a> to help users understand risks, and make regular software updates in response to vulnerabilities unearthed by security researchers. Clearly, monitoring people’s health via wearable trackers has the potential to radically improve access to medical care. Likewise, every parent wants their child to be safe, and smart devices, like mobile phones before them, could be a reliable tool for checking in with them. But without safety standards, these devices have the potential to cause more harm than they offset. Regulators must act fast to stop this growing market from leading to significant harms. Written by <a href="https://theconversation.com/profiles/saheli-datta-burton-1061974">Saheli Datta Burton</a>, UCL and <a href="https://theconversation.com/profiles/madeline-carr-1148007">Madeline Carr</a>, UCL. Republished with permission of <a href="https://theconversation.com/its-far-too-easy-for-abusers-to-exploit-smart-toys-and-trackers-161946">The Conservation.</a>

Caring

Urgent recall on life-threatening toy

Parents have been urged to “completely destroy” a silicone teething toy sold on eBay over fears it could cause severe injury or death. The Xinda Pty Ltd sold a “necklace cross chewy teether toy pencil chew kids topper sensory biting silicone” on eBay which has been recalled by Product Safety Australia because it fails to meet basic safety requirements. “The product does not meet the requirements of the mandatory standard … (for) toys for children up to and including 36 months of age,” PSA said <a href="https://www.productsafety.gov.au/recall/xinda-pty-ltd-necklace-cross-chewy-teether-toy-pencil-chew-kids-topper-sensory-biting-silicone">in a statement</a>. “The product may pose a choking or suffocation hazard for young children, which can lead to severe injury or death.” Consumers have been told to dispose of the toy and seek a full refund from Xinda Pty Ltd. “To obtain a refund, consumers will be requested to provide Xinda Pty Ltd with a photograph or video to show that the product has been completely destroyed,” PSA said.

Legal

The world's 26 best toy stores

There’s nothing quite like exploring a new city and stumbling upon a gem of a toy store. But finding the good ones is a challenge in itself. Think LEGO city models and rare collectables, doll doctors and carousels. Here are the world's 26 best toy stores. HAMLEYS, LONDON If you’ve ever been to Hamleys, you know why it tops the list. This magical multi-level toy emporium is something straight out of a fantasy novel. Flying planes, robots, giant bubbles and kid-sized remote controlled cars are buzzing across the store. Try colour changing nail polish and metallic make-your own stickers. Score a bedroom-sized sweet dispenser and some snow that never melts. Interactive toy exhibitions run throughout the day - and there’s even a waffle stand. M&M STORE, LAS VEGAS If you are going to visit an MNM store - shouldn’t be questionable - you may as well visit the best one. This chocolate button extravaganza has just about everything MNM related that you could imagine. Design your own MNMs or shop for you favourite characters and MNM clothes. POKÉMON CENTRE, MINATO MIRAI, JAPAN It’s hard not to be a diehard fan when you enter this Pokemon world. Exclusive merchandise is sold here. You will also get the chance to test your video game skills by battling in out against other customers. HOBBY CO, SYDNEY Australia’s biggest hobby shop is known as a kids dream and a grown ups heaven. This age inclusive toy store stocks everything from plastic model kits and radio controlled models, to collectable figurines and giant jigsaws. This multiple level gem is really worth the space. LEGO STORE PEOPLE’S SQUARE, SHANGHAI, CHINA Shanghai’s Lego Store is pretty much the future of toy stores. With learning as a tangible aim, the concept store offers four different spaces for visitors to build their vision of a future city. It’s also home to the “Mosaic Maker”: an opportunity to purchase your very own personalised LEGO mosaic portrait. The store features giant 3D models, including Pearl Tower of Shanghai and a skyline mosaic of the city. They took approximately four million bricks and 19,000 hours to create. BUILD A BEAR,NEW YORK Of course Build A Bear is still one of the most popular toy store concepts to date. And there’s a good reason the NY store is one of the most popular attractions for families in the city. Get hands-on by stuffing your own personalised bear. Put a name on its birth certificate and fit it with a voice and beating heart beat. You can then personalise your bear with many outfits and accessories. LARK TOYS, MINNESOTA This enchanting store is not just about teddy bears a dolls. Lark Toys is home to a hand crafted carousel, a bookstre and an 18 hole mini gold course. They have pretty much everything: marbles, tea sets, tops, trolls, rubber ducks, tin lunch boxes, wind-ups, puppets, Jacks-in-the-box, blocks, kites, cars, games, puzzles. The choices are endless. Waltz down Memory Lane’s antique collection hall and enjoy thousands of toys from the past. Make sure to stop at the cafe for a fudge or jelly treat, before saying hello to the pet llamas Francis, Irving and George. NEW CHINA CHILDREN’S STORE This six-floor toy store is dedicated to everything kids. There’s books, fashion, stationary, baby items and most importantly - toys. There’s even a whole floor dedicated to toys that are affordable for everyone. You might even score a budget drone! FAO SCHWARZ, NYC Not only is Fao Schwarz the largest toy store in NYC, it’s also the oldest. They’re renowned for spectacular, classical, and often expensive toys. It shut down a couple of years ago due to rental expenses, but they’re back and better than ever. At Fao Schwarz, you can experience the toy making process in store. There’s also the opportunity to create yourself in doll form at the Madame Alexander Doll Factory, or design an authentic muppet at the Muppet Whatnot Workshop. TOYMATE, SYDNEY, AUSTRALIA After Toys R Us hit the haystack, TOYMATE took over their top locations. Their Sydney superstore has rapidly gained popularity due to its colourful interiors and 1000s of toys. SI TU VEUX, PARIS Tucked away in the passages of Galerie Vivienne, is Paris’ prettiest boutique toy store. Si Tu Veux is a boutique toy store full of gadgets, trick toys and other eccentric little gems. The store prides itself with hand made and quality toys including wooden trinkets, learning toys, crafts and birthday party games and supplies with a Parisian twist. DISNEY STORE, NYC It’s time to watch your fantasy world become reality. A flying Mickey and Mini welcome you to the wonderland of the New York Disney store. This kids paradise has everything Disney themed, from character toys, to clothes and collectables. HOSPITAL DE BONECAS, LISBON This family run toy store is not quite like the rest. They aren’t here to sell dolls, so much as they are to fix them. Bring your broken or damaged toys to Praça Figueira for a thorough assesment by the doll doctors. Careful precision sees your toys healed of their wounds - arms are reattached, eyes are replaced and cherished toys are returned to their owners. HAMLEYS, BEIJING Of course the success of the London paradise means the demand for Hamleys has gone global. Welcome to Hamleys Beijing. Inside the 10,700 square metre paradise, childhood classics such as Peppa Pig, Nerf, Disney and My Little Pony can be found. Of course the store is in Beijing, so we have to expect more than just toys. There’s a 240 square metre Lego exhibition, a VR experience, a Nerf shooting range and even a ball pit. Really, it’s five floors of kid-heaven. AMERICAN GIRL, CHICAGO Welcome to the largest and arguably the best American Girl store. Explore the home of your favourite doll characters: American Doll stocks Girl of the Year, Bitty Baby and other classic doll lines. Buy doll accessories, clothing, posters and books, and design your own matching doll and girl t-shirts. Head to the Doll Hair Salon to pamper your own doll or feature on the cover of a souvenir American Girl magazine issue. TOYS “R” US, HONG KONG TOYS “R” US Hong Kong is the ultimate destination for all kids; big and small. This colourful toy store stocks just about every action figure, building toy and doll you can think of. And if you’re lucky, you might fine your favourite character as a life-sized figurine. LEGO STORE NYC This two-storey wonderland is home to the largest LEGO brick wall in the world. It holds 116 bubble, each with a different lego piece inside. From rare coloured bricks to har-to-find collectables, this store has it all. You can play LEGO inspired videos games and design your very own master builder kit. There’s also 50 NYC lego scenes around the shop to check out. STEIFF MUSEUM, GIENGEN, GERMANY It’s easy to lose hours to this interactive toy shop and museum. It’s just about as weird and wacky as it gets. This weird and wacky knick-knack paradise includes a stuffed toy hunt and ‘petting zoo’, a workshop and a giant slide. KIDS CAVERN, MACAU This 35,000 square foot toy store is the largest theme store in Macau. It’s recognisable by its quirky Willy Wonka style interiors, and has a giant candy store inside. It’s also home to the Princess Beauty House and Toy’s Kingdom. BARBIE STORE, BUENOS AIRES ARGENTINA The world’s first official Barbie store finds its home in Argentina. The Palermo district toy store is home to the Pink Palace, Barbie Dream House and a Barbie Tea House - the perfect stop for an exhausted mum. The store has Barbie jewellery, outfits, CDS and of course - Barbie dolls. Just about every one there is. There’s also Barbie’s life sized bedroom, and the opportunity to get Barbie manicures, makeup demonstrations and hairstyles. KIDDY LAND, BANGKOK The famous Japanese toy chain sees its ultimate location reside in Bangkok, Thailand. THis super toy store is jsut about as good as it gets. It’s the place where dreams are made, and made in to. Kiddy Land is home to anything and everything: mascots, dolls, cuddle toys, stuffed fur animals, action figures, Disney, Hello Kitty, Doraemon, Godzilla and a whole lot more. ENTERTAINER LONDON Refurbishments of Entertainer London mean the famous toy store chain is back with bang. The new store include animated window screens, interactive floor projections and immersive reality mirrors. There’s also kid-friendly Launch Pad Tech Tables and counter steps at each till. CHARLES RO SUPPLY COMPANY, MASSACHUSETTS Welcome to America’s largest train store. Family run Charles Ro stocks just about everything train related. This 5,000 square foot train spectacular has all the hard to find train sets, locomotives, box cars and classics. They stock products by Lionel, American Flyer, Bridgeworks, USA Trains and Thomas the Tank Engine. DETSKY MIR, RUSSIA A literal translation to Children’s World, this Russian toy store is just about as big and bold as they come. The children’s goods retailer currently has over 300 stores, so it’s not a surprise that they are good at what they do. The Moscow Detsky Mir is the largest toy store in its city, and stocks everything from stuffed toys to baby food. It’s said to be comparable to London’s Hamleys and New York’s FAO Schwarz. DISNEY STORE, LONDON It’s time for another toy store rival. Oxford Streets Disney store is home to a giant Cinderella Pumpkin and it’s own movie screen with kids tables and colouring in. Welcomed by Mickey and Mini mouse - there’s a British twist to this store. Your favourite Disney characters are dressed in Buckingham Palace Guard uniforms, and there’s a map display of Disney in London. Pinpoint Peter Pan, Mary Poppings and the cast of Cars 2 at Big Ben, St. Pauls Cathedral and St. James Park. The London Disney Store also hosts free interactive events including animation classes, storytelling, trivia quizzes and parades. HAKUHINKAN This multi level emporium is one of Tokyo’s biggest toy stores. It’s a classic, but with a Japanese twist. It feels more like your inside a bag of lollies than a shop, and it has everything from Hello Kitty’s and Transformers to Nerf Guns and Gundams. It’s also home to a giant toy car race track and the Licca-chan Club - headquarters of the Japanese Barbie equivalent.

International Travel

Toy poodle “kicked into air” during alleged attack on dog walker

A man from Sydney has claimed he was repeatedly bashed and his dog was kicked into the air during an alleged attack as they walked through an inner-city suburb. According to police, Seung Kang, 33, was strolling the streets of Pyrmont with his dog Zico last Friday night when a man approached them. Ian Ryan, 34, allegedly spouted abusive language towards Kang before punching him and kicking the poodle as they tried walking away. “Go to war! Go to war! Warfare,” a man can be heard saying in a video of the alleged attack. “[He was] telling me to go back to my country,” Kang told 10 News First. “He was basically wanting a fight … just, lots of swear words, and very aggressive.” A spokesperson for NSW Police said a passer-by came to the rescue and helped Kang. It’s alleged he was repeatedly punched in the head before more people came to his aid. Ryan allegedly fled the scene. Inspector Gary Coffey said the incident appeared to be unprovoked. “We can only draw up the fact that he was in possession of alcohol at the time of the offence … and clearly there’s no obvious motive,” said Coffey of the accused. He called the alleged attack “reprehensible”. “There’s no excuse obviously for attacking an innocent man just out walking his dog,” said Coffey. Ryan was arrested on Sunday after handing himself to police. He appeared in court on Monday charged with five offences, including common assault, committing an act of animal cruelty and stalking or intimidating with intent to cause physical harm. The court heard Ryan was defending himself from the dog which he claimed had barked near his legs. Ryan was refused bail.

Family & Pets

Robots and drones: The new age of toys

I’m a geek. And as a geek, I love my tech toys. But over time I’ve noticed toys are becoming harder to understand. Some modern toys resemble advanced devices. There are flying toys, walking toys, and roving toys. A number of these require “configuring” or “connecting”. The line between toy, gadget and professional device is blurrier than ever, as manufacturers churn out products including <a href="https://www.t3.com/features/best-kids-drones">drones for kids</a> and <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Hidden-Spy-Nanny-Camera-Wi-fi/dp/B07P7BCYZT">plush toys with hidden nanny cams</a>. With such a variety of sophisticated, and sometimes over-engineered products, it’s clear manufacturers have upped their game. But why is this happening? The price of tech Toys these days seem to be designed with two major components in mind. It’s all about the smarts and rapid manufacture. In modern toys, we see a considerable level of programmed intelligence. This can be used to control the toy’s actions, or have it respond to input to provide real time feedback and interaction – making it appear “smarter”. This is all made possible by the falling price of technology. Once upon a time, placing a microcontroller (a single chip microprocessor) inside a toy was simply uneconomical. These days, they’ll <a href="https://au.rs-online.com/web/c/semiconductors/processors-microcontrollers/microcontrollers/">only set you back a few dollars</a> and allow significant computing power. Microcontrollers are often WiFi and Bluetooth enabled, too. This allows “connected” toys to access a wide range of internet services, or be controlled by a smartphone. Another boon for toy manufacturers has been the rise of prototype technologies, including 3D modelling, 3D printing, and low cost CNC (computer numerical control) milling. These technologies allow the advanced modelling of toys, which can help design them to be “tougher”. They also allow manufacturers to move beyond simple (outer) case designs and towards advanced multi-material devices, where the case of the toy forms an active part of the toy’s function. Examples of this include hand grips (found on console controls and toys including Nerf Blasters), advanced surface textures, and internal structures which support shock absorption to protect internal components, such as wheel suspensions in toy cars. Bot helpers and robot dogs Many recent advancements in toys are there to appease our admiration of automatons, or self operating machines. The idea that an inanimate object is transcending its static world, or is “thinking”, is one of the magical elements that prompts us to attach emotions to toys. And manufacturers know this, with some toys designed specifically to drive emotional attachment. My favourite example of this is roaming robots, such as the artificially intelligent <a href="https://www.anki.com/en-us/vector.html">Anki Vector</a>. With sensors and internet connectivity, the Vector drives around and interacts with its environment, as well as you. It’s even <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Vector-Robot-Anki-Hangs-Helps/dp/B07G3ZNK4Y">integrated with Amazon Alexa</a>. Another sophisticated toy is Sony’s Aibo. This robot pet shows how advanced robotics, microelectronics, actuators (which allow movement), sensors, and programming can be used to create a unique toy experience with emotional investment. <a href="https://www.shutterstock.com/image-photo/ho-chi-minh-city-vietnam-apr-1095006827" class="source"></a>Screens not included Toy manufacturers are also leveraging the rise of smartphones and portable computing. Quadcopters (or drones) and other similar devices often don’t need to include their own display in the remote control, as video can be beamed to an attached device. Some toys even use smartphones as the only control interface (used to control the toy), usually via an app, saving manufacturers from having to provide what is arguably the most expensive part of the toy. This means a smartphone becomes an inherent requirement, without which the toy can’t be used. It would be incredibly disappointing to buy a cool, new toy - only to realise you don’t own the very expensive device required to use it. My toys aren’t spying on me, surely? While spying may be the last thing you consider when buying a toy, there have been several reports of talking dolls <a href="https://www.npr.org/sections/alltechconsidered/2016/12/20/506208146/this-doll-may-be-recording-what-children-say-privacy-groups-charge">recording in-home conversations</a>. There are similar concerns with smart-home assistants such as Amazon Alexa, Google Assistant and Apple’s Siri, which store <a href="https://www.politifact.com/truth-o-meter/statements/2018/may/31/ro-khanna/your-amazon-alexa-spying-you/">your voice recordings in the cloud</a>. These concerns might also be warranted with toys such as the Vector, and Aibo. In fact, anything that has a microphone, camera or wireless connectivity can be considered a privacy concern. Toys of the future We’ve established toys are becoming more sophisticated, but does that mean they’re getting better? <a href="https://www.gartner.com/smarterwithgartner/gartner-top-10-strategic-technology-trends-for-2020/">Various</a> <a href="https://www.accenture.com/us-en/insights/technology/technology-trends-2019">reports</a> indicate in 2020, artificial intelligence (AI) and machine learning will continue to be pervasive in our lives. This means buying toys could become an even trickier task than it currently is. There are some factors shoppers can consider. On the top of my list of concerns is the type and number of batteries a toy requires, and how to charge them. If a device has <a href="https://theconversation.com/nearly-all-your-devices-run-on-lithium-batteries-heres-a-nobel-prizewinner-on-his-part-in-their-invention-and-their-future-126197">in-built lithium batteries</a>, can they be easily replaced? And if the toy is designed for outdoors, <a href="https://theconversation.com/why-batteries-have-started-catching-fire-so-often-68602">can it cope with the heat?</a> Most lithium-ion batteries degrade quickly in hot environments. And does the device require an additional screen or smartphone? It’s also worth being wary of what personal details are required to sign-up for a service associated with a toy - and if the toy can still function if its manufacturer should cease to exist, or the company should go bust. And, as always, if you’re considering an advanced, “connected” toy, make sure to prioritise your security and privacy.<img style="border: none !important; box-shadow: none !important; margin: 0 !important; max-height: 1px !important; max-width: 1px !important; min-height: 1px !important; min-width: 1px !important; opacity: 0 !important; outline: none !important; padding: 0 !important; text-shadow: none !important;" src="https://counter.theconversation.com/content/127503/count.gif?distributor=republish-lightbox-basic" alt="The Conversation" width="1" height="1" /> <a href="https://theconversation.com/profiles/andrew-maxwell-561482">Andrew Maxwell</a>, Senior Lecturer, <a href="http://theconversation.com/institutions/university-of-southern-queensland-1069">University of Southern Queensland</a> This article is republished from <a href="http://theconversation.com">The Conversation</a> under a Creative Commons license. Read the <a href="https://theconversation.com/robots-ai-and-drones-when-did-toys-turn-into-rocket-science-127503">original article</a>.

Technology

Why social interaction improves your health as you age

Social isolation is an increasingly prevalent problem in Australia today. The Australian Bureau of Statistics (ABS) estimates that one-quarter of people over the age of 65 live alone. This figure is expected to rise by at least 52 per cent by 2021. Living alone can leave older Australians vulnerable. A recent report on the effects of social isolation by The Council on the Ageing (COTA) found that chronic loneliness can create a persistent self-reinforcing loop of negative thoughts, sensations and behaviours that can have a serious impact on a person’s mental health and wellbeing. A review of how social isolation can affect our physical health was carried out by The Journal of Primary Prevention in 2012. The review found social isolation to be associated with increased risk factors for stroke, heart disease, dementia, falls and chronic mental health conditions such as depression and anxiety. Those that are socially isolated were also found to be four to five times more likely to require hospitalisation. On the other hand, studies show that people who are socially active as they age have better psychological and physical health and increased quality of life. A review of 148 different studies shows that people who have strong social relationships have a 50 per cent better chance of surviving chronic health conditions than people with little or no social interaction. Counsellor and psychotherapist, Dr Karen Phillip, says interacting with others is an innate human need that can help older people stay healthier and live for longer in their own homes. “We are social creatures. We are designed to connect with others, to share our feelings and opinions. Social interaction stimulates our brains, it gives us the opportunity to stay mentally active because we’re using our brains and to stay physically active because it forces us to get out and do things and remain independent,” says Phillip. Here Dr Phillip shares her top tips to staying socially engaged and making full use of the powerful psychological and physiological benefits that being socially active bestows. Five ways to invigorate your social life as you get older Tip 1: Connect with social media Learning how to use social media can open up a world of social possibilities where we can connect with people who share our views, opinions and feelings, says Phillip. “Older people who use social media have improved brain function and better physical and emotional outcomes,” she says. Phillip recommends asking a carer or a family member to show you how to use Skype, Facebook or Instagram to connect with the world around you from the safety and privacy of your own home. Tip 2: Volunteer and share your knowledge or experience As an ‘elder of the tribe’, you have a wealth of knowledge and experience that you can share by connecting with your local community. “Chances are you have a skill, trade, or knowledge and can offer advice or undertake other helpful activities that will prove invaluable to your community,” says Phillip. Tip 3: Join a seniors group No matter whether you’re into sport, religion or have a hobby, there is bound to be a senior citizen’s group that would consider itself very lucky to have you as an active member, says Phillip. Tip 4: See a psychotherapist The right psychotherapist can be your emotional rock, but also a practical help too, says Phillip. “Not only will they work you through the issue of loneliness, they can also become your case worker helping you connect with senior citizen’s groups and community groups and helping you connect with your family or a doctor,” says Phillip. Tip 5: Connect face to face in your own home Carers and community groups can often make house calls and this can sometimes make all the difference for people who are immobile or suffering from illness, says Phillip. “We are better off with face-to-face interaction when we can get it,” says Phillip. She recommends some form of social interaction every day for the best results. “All positive social interaction is beneficial no matter how small, even as small as a quick coffee with a friend,” she says. Written by Dominic Bayley. Republished with permission of <a href="https://www.wyza.com.au/articles/lifestyle/wyza-life/why-social-interaction-improves-your-health-as-you-age.aspx">Wyza.com.au.</a>

Caring

“He’s fully taken over”: Why Celine Dion's friends are worried about her “boy toy"

Celine Dion is known as a music icon around the world, but there are concerns amongst her closest friends that she’s being too heavily influenced by her backup dancer and close friend Pepe Munoz. The 51-year-old My Heart Will Go On singer has been very close to Munoz after her husband René Angélil passed away at the age of 73 in 2016. Munoz has been described as her “boy toy” but Dion has said herself that he is gay and her “best friend”. The New York Post's <a rel="noopener" href="https://pagesix.com/2019/07/29/celine-dions-dancer-boy-toy-calling-the-shots-for-legendary-singer/" target="_blank">Page Six</a> has reported that some people in Dion’s inner circle fear that Munoz is “isolating” the star from her friends and “taking over” her life. “Pepe is like her boy toy who is really trying to take over. He’s isolating her and people are feeling it,” an anonymous friend told the publication. “She’s in love with this guy and listens to everything he’s saying. “People go to him when they have questions. He’s fully taken over.” Meanwhile, Dion shut down rumours of a relationship between herself and Munoz last year. “Pepe is gay,” she told <a rel="noopener" href="https://extratv.com/2019/04/04/celine-dion-takes-on-pepe-munoz-romance-rumors/" target="_blank">Extra</a>. “At first, I think some people did not know that.” The iconic singer added, “The thing is that he’s my best friend and we dance together and he did so much for me and even just holding my hand… it’s something that I haven’t had for a long time.” She further defended herself to <a rel="noopener" href="https://www.thesun.co.uk/tvandshowbiz/8301240/celine-dion-hyde-park-concert-sexier/" target="_blank">The Sun’s</a> Dan Wooten in January saying that they’re just good friends. "The press said, ‘Oh my God, René just passed and now there’s another man.’ Yeah, there’s another man in my life, but not the man in my life," she said. "We’re friends, we’re best friends." Dion added, “Of course we hug and hold hands and go out, so people see that. I mean, he’s a gentleman. He’s giving me his hand to go out.” Scroll through the gallery above to see Dion and Munoz spending time together as best friends.

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What Barbie would look like as a 60-year-old

A dating site for single over 50-year-olds looking to get back in the game has honoured Mattel’s beloved iconic Barbie on her 60th birthday. Charly Lester from Lumen told <a href="https://www.news.com.au/lifestyle/relationships/dating/barbie-reimagined-as-her-actual-age-on-her-60th-birthday/news-story/ca897d3c91b20dce543cc8761373c214">news.com.au</a> the idea was created in an effort to celebrate and show the appeal of older women. “Our Head of Brand Liesa had the idea of showing ageing icons as their real ages, and Barbie was one of the first ones she mentioned,” Lester explained. After reconfiguring what the iconic “forever young” doll would look like into her older age, the dating site team said Barbie’s 60th birthday was the perfect way to challenge the way mature aged people are shown in the media. “Lumen’s mission is very much pro-age and anti-ageism and we are repeatedly challenging the way over 50s are shown in the media,” Lester said. embed “We felt Barbie’s 60th birthday was a great opportunity to showcase this in a lighthearted way. “Our homage to Barbie shows her un-airbrushed, and represented by a real woman at her real age. She is still beautiful and aspirational, but in a very realistic way.” Over the years, Barbie has had over 200 jobs, from being an astronaut to a firefighter, a game developer to even the president of the united States – there isn’t much the most recognisable toys in the world can’t do. The issue, says Lester, is that Barbie has “never been her real age.” Telling <a href="https://www.metro.news/barbie-brought-to-life-to-help-over-50s-win-dating-game/1464916/">Metro,</a> they said: “Many women say that in their 50s and 60s they’ve never felt more empowered in their own skin and this should be reflected by influential icons like Barbie. “We encourage the toy industry to consider making their products more pro age… who says that everyone should be in their 20s to be a success?”

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What Barbie would look like as a 60-year-old