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"Looks nothing like her": Kate Middleton portrait ridiculed

<p>A painted portrait of Kate Middleton has gone viral for all the wrong reasons, after royal fans everywhere claimed the artwork "looks nothing like" the Princess of Wales. </p> <p>The image, created by artist Hannah Uzor, appeared on the front cover of UK magazine <em>Tatler</em>, as the artist recreated Middleton's appearance at a banquet held in South Africa in 2022. </p> <p>The Princess wore a white beaded Jenny Packham gown, and also donned her famous tiara, the Lover’s Knot, which was previously worn by Princess Diana.</p> <p>Uzor explained that in creating the artwork, she was inspired by the composure and bravery demonstrated by the royal mum-of-three in her emotional cancer diagnosis video in March.</p> <p>“A moment of dealing with something difficult, speaking from the heart, having the courage to tackle it head-on,” she explained in awe.</p> <p>However, many royal fans slated the artist on social media, simply asking, “are you kidding me?”.</p> <blockquote class="instagram-media" style="background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);" data-instgrm-permalink="https://www.instagram.com/p/C7Qy93EtBeT/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" data-instgrm-version="14"> <div style="padding: 16px;"> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 40px; margin-right: 14px; width: 40px;"> </div> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 100px;"> </div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 60px;"> </div> </div> </div> <div style="padding: 19% 0;"> </div> <div style="display: block; height: 50px; margin: 0 auto 12px; width: 50px;"> </div> <div style="padding-top: 8px;"> <div style="color: #3897f0; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 550; line-height: 18px;">View this post on Instagram</div> </div> <div style="padding: 12.5% 0;"> </div> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: row; margin-bottom: 14px; align-items: center;"> <div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; height: 12.5px; width: 12.5px; transform: translateX(0px) translateY(7px);"> </div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; height: 12.5px; transform: rotate(-45deg) translateX(3px) translateY(1px); width: 12.5px; flex-grow: 0; margin-right: 14px; margin-left: 2px;"> </div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; height: 12.5px; width: 12.5px; transform: translateX(9px) translateY(-18px);"> </div> </div> <div style="margin-left: 8px;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 20px; width: 20px;"> </div> <div style="width: 0; height: 0; border-top: 2px solid transparent; border-left: 6px solid #f4f4f4; border-bottom: 2px solid transparent; transform: translateX(16px) translateY(-4px) rotate(30deg);"> </div> </div> <div style="margin-left: auto;"> <div style="width: 0px; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-right: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(16px);"> </div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; flex-grow: 0; height: 12px; width: 16px; transform: translateY(-4px);"> </div> <div style="width: 0; height: 0; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-left: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(-4px) translateX(8px);"> </div> </div> </div> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center; margin-bottom: 24px;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 224px;"> </div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 144px;"> </div> </div> <p style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;"><a style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none;" href="https://www.instagram.com/p/C7Qy93EtBeT/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" target="_blank" rel="noopener">A post shared by Tatler (@tatlermagazine)</a></p> </div> </blockquote> <p>“This is just plain weird, looks nothing like her,” one person commented.</p> <p>“What have they done to her face,” asked another.</p> <p>A third agreed: “Doesn’t look like Catherine at all. If she wasn’t wearing that dress I’d have no clue as to who it’s meant to be.”</p> <p>“Are you kidding me? … You must be joking,” scorned someone else.</p> <p>Others slated the artwork by saying they believed it looked “like it was created by a child”.</p> <p>“It’s absolutely dreadful and should never have seen the light of day, let alone appear on the cover,” agreed another.</p> <p>Hannah Uzor defended her artwork, saying she had to draw on other sources as she was not able to meet the Princess directly to create her portrait. </p> <p>She said, “When you can’t meet the sitter in person, you have to look at everything you can find and piece together the subtle human moments revealed in different photographs: do they have a particular way of standing or holding their head or hands? Do they have a recurrent gesture?"</p> <p>“[Kate] has really risen up to her role – she was born for this. She carries herself with such dignity, elegance and grace."</p> <p><em>Image credits: Tatler Magazine / Chris Jackson/WPA Pool/Shutterstock Editorial </em></p>

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Why are my muscles sore after exercise? Hint: it’s nothing to do with lactic acid

<p><em><a href="https://theconversation.com/profiles/robert-andrew-robergs-435390">Robert Andrew Robergs</a>, <a href="https://theconversation.com/institutions/queensland-university-of-technology-847">Queensland University of Technology</a> and <a href="https://theconversation.com/profiles/samuel-l-torrens-1476404">Samuel L. Torrens</a>, <a href="https://theconversation.com/institutions/queensland-university-of-technology-847">Queensland University of Technology</a></em></p> <p>As many of us hit the gym or go for a run to recover from the silly season, you might notice a bit of extra muscle soreness.</p> <p>This is especially true if it has been a while between workouts.</p> <p>A common misunderstanding is that such soreness is due to lactic acid build-up in the muscles.</p> <p>Research, however, shows lactic acid has <a href="https://journals.physiology.org/doi/full/10.1152/physiol.00033.2017">nothing to do with it</a>. The truth is far more interesting, but also a bit more complex.</p> <h2>It’s not lactic acid</h2> <p>We’ve known for decades that lactic acid has <a href="https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/27409551/">nothing to do with</a> muscle soreness after exercise.</p> <p>In fact, as one of us (Robert Andrew Robergs) has long <a href="https://journals.physiology.org/doi/full/10.1152/ajpregu.00114.2004">argued</a>, cells produce lactate, not lactic acid. This process actually <a href="https://journals.physiology.org/doi/full/10.1152/physiol.00033.2017">opposes</a> not causes the build-up of acid in the muscles and bloodstream.</p> <p>Unfortunately, historical inertia means people still use the term “lactic acid” in relation to exercise.</p> <p>Lactate <a href="https://www.science.org/doi/10.1126/science.1101141">doesn’t cause major problems</a> for the muscles you use when you exercise. You’d probably be <a href="https://journals.physiology.org/doi/full/10.1152/ajpregu.00114.2004?url_ver=Z39.88-2003&amp;rfr_id=ori%3Arid%3Acrossref.org&amp;rfr_dat=cr_pub++0pubmed&amp;">worse off</a> without it due to other benefits to your working muscles.</p> <p>Lactate isn’t the reason you’re sore a few days after upping your weights or exercising after a long break.</p> <p>So, if it’s not lactic acid and it’s not lactate, what is causing all that muscle soreness?</p> <h2>Muscle pain during and after exercise</h2> <p>When you exercise, a lot of chemical reactions occur in your muscle cells. All these chemical reactions accumulate products and by-products which cause water to enter into the cells.</p> <p>That causes the pressure inside and between muscle cells to increase.</p> <p>This pressure, combined with the movement of molecules from the muscle cells can stimulate nerve endings and cause <a href="https://www.sportsmed.theclinics.com/article/S0278-5919(11)00099-8/fulltext">discomfort</a> during exercise.</p> <p>The pain and discomfort you sometimes feel hours to days after an unfamiliar type or amount of exercise has a different list of causes.</p> <p>If you exercise beyond your usual level or routine, you can cause microscopic damage to your muscles and their connections to tendons.</p> <p>Such damage causes the release of ions and other molecules from the muscles, causing localised swelling and stimulation of nerve endings.</p> <p>This is sometimes known as “<a href="https://www.sportsmed.theclinics.com/article/S0278-5919(11)00099-8/fulltext">delayed onset muscle soreness</a>” or DOMS.</p> <p>While the damage occurs during the exercise, the resulting response to the injury builds over the next one to two days (longer if the damage is severe). This can sometimes cause pain and difficulty with normal movement.</p> <h2>The upshot</h2> <p>Research is clear; the discomfort from delayed onset muscle soreness has nothing to do with <a href="https://scholar.google.com/citations?user=UVjRNSUAAAAJ&amp;view_op=view_citation&amp;citation_for_view=UVjRNSUAAAAJ:J_g5lzvAfSwC">lactate</a> or <a href="https://journals.physiology.org/doi/full/10.1152/physiol.00033.2017">lactic acid</a>.</p> <p>The good news, though, is that your muscles adapt rapidly to the activity that would initially cause delayed onset muscle soreness.</p> <p>So, assuming you don’t wait too long (more than roughly two weeks) before being active again, the next time you do the same activity there will be much less damage and discomfort.</p> <p>If you have an exercise goal (such as doing a particular hike or completing a half-marathon), ensure it is realistic and that you can work up to it by training over several months.</p> <p>Such training will gradually build the muscle adaptations necessary to prevent delayed onset muscle soreness. And being less wrecked by exercise makes it more enjoyable and more easy to stick to a routine or habit.</p> <p>Finally, remove “lactic acid” from your exercise vocabulary. Its supposed role in muscle soreness is a myth that’s hung around far too long already.<img style="border: none !important; box-shadow: none !important; margin: 0 !important; max-height: 1px !important; max-width: 1px !important; min-height: 1px !important; min-width: 1px !important; opacity: 0 !important; outline: none !important; padding: 0 !important;" src="https://counter.theconversation.com/content/214638/count.gif?distributor=republish-lightbox-basic" alt="The Conversation" width="1" height="1" /></p> <p><a href="https://theconversation.com/profiles/robert-andrew-robergs-435390"><em>Robert Andrew Robergs</em></a><em>, Associate Professor - Exercise Physiology, <a href="https://theconversation.com/institutions/queensland-university-of-technology-847">Queensland University of Technology</a> and <a href="https://theconversation.com/profiles/samuel-l-torrens-1476404">Samuel L. Torrens</a>, PhD Candidate, <a href="https://theconversation.com/institutions/queensland-university-of-technology-847">Queensland University of Technology</a></em></p> <p><em>Image credits: Getty Images</em></p> <p><em>This article is republished from <a href="https://theconversation.com">The Conversation</a> under a Creative Commons license. Read the <a href="https://theconversation.com/why-are-my-muscles-sore-after-exercise-hint-its-nothing-to-do-with-lactic-acid-214638">original article</a>.</em></p>

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19 handy uses for toothpaste that have nothing to do with your teeth

<h2>Remove scuffs from shoes</h2> <p>A little toothpaste does an amazing job of removing scuffs from leather shoes. Just squirt a dab on the scuffed area and rub with a soft cloth. Wipe clean with a damp cloth. The leather will look like new.</p> <h2>Clean your piano keys</h2> <p>Has tickling the ivories left them a bit dingy? Clean them up with toothpaste and a toothbrush, then wipe them down with a damp cloth. Makes sense, since ivory is essentially elephant teeth. However, toothpaste will work just as well on modern pianos that usually have keys covered with plastic rather than real ivory.</p> <h2>Clean your sneakers</h2> <p>Want to clean and whiten the rubber part of your sneakers? Get out the non-gel toothpaste and an old toothbrush. After scrubbing, clean off the toothpaste with a damp cloth.</p> <h2>Clean your clothes iron</h2> <p>The mild abrasive in non-gel toothpaste is just the ticket for scrubbing the gunk off the bottom plate of your clothes iron. Apply the toothpaste to the cool iron, scrub with a rag, then rinse clean.</p> <h2>Polish a diamond ring</h2> <p>Put a little toothpaste on an old toothbrush and use it to make your diamond ring sparkle instead of your teeth. Clean off the residue with a damp cloth.</p> <h2>Deodorise baby bottles</h2> <p>Baby bottles inevitably pick up a sour-milk smell. Toothpaste will remove the odour in a jiffy. Just put some on your bottle brush and scrub away. Be sure to rinse thoroughly.</p> <h2>Prevent fogged goggles</h2> <p>Whether you are doing woodworking or going skiing or scuba diving, nothing is more frustrating (and sometimes dangerous) than fogged goggles. Prevent the problem by coating the goggles with toothpaste and then wiping them off.</p> <h2>Prevent bathroom mirrors from fogging</h2> <p>Ouch! You cut yourself shaving and it’s no wonder – you can’t see your face clearly in that fogged-up bathroom mirror. Next time, coat the mirror with non-gel toothpaste and wipe it off before you get in the shower. When you get out, the mirror won’t be fogged.</p> <h2>Shine bathroom and kitchen chrome</h2> <p>They make commercial cleaners with a very fine abrasive designed to shine up chrome, but if you don’t have any handy, the fine abrasive in non-gel toothpaste works just as well. Just smear on the toothpaste and polish with a soft, dry cloth.</p> <h2>Clean the bathroom sink</h2> <p>Non-gel toothpaste works as well as anything else to clean the bathroom sink. The tube’s sitting right there, so just squirt some in, scrub with a sponge, and rinse it out. Bonus: the toothpaste will kill any odours emanating from the drain trap.</p> <h2>Remove crayon from walls</h2> <p>Did crayon-toting kids get creative on your wall? Roll up your sleeves and grab a tube of non-gel toothpaste and a rag or – better yet – a scrub brush. Squirt the toothpaste on the wall and start scrubbing. The fine abrasive in the toothpaste will rub away the crayon every time. Rinse the wall with water.</p> <h2>Remove ink or lipstick stains from fabric</h2> <p>Oh no, a pen opened up in the pocket of your favourite shirt! This may or may not work, depending on the fabric and the ink, but it is certainly worth a try before consigning the shirt to the scrap bin. Put non-gel toothpaste on the stain and rub the fabric vigorously together. Rinse with water. Did some of the ink come out? Great! Repeat the process a few more times until you get rid of all the ink. The same process works for lipstick</p> <h2>Remove watermarks from furniture</h2> <p>You leave coasters around. But some people just won’t use them. To get rid of those telltale watermark rings left by sweating beverages, gently rub some non-gel toothpaste on the wood with a soft cloth. Then wipe it off with a damp cloth and let it dry before applying furniture polish.</p> <h2>Clear up pimples</h2> <p>Dab a bit of non-gel, non-whitening toothpaste on the offending spot, and it should be dried up by morning. The toothpaste dehydrates the pimple and absorbs the oil. This remedy works best on pimples that have come to a head. Caution: this remedy may be irritating to sensitive skin.</p> <h2>Clean smells from hands</h2> <p>The ingredients in toothpaste that deodorise your mouth will work on your hands as well. If you’ve gotten into something stinky, wash your hands with toothpaste, and they’ll smell great.</p> <h2>Stop bug bites from itching</h2> <p>Put toothpaste on your bug bite to keep it from itching. Dab a dime-sized amount onto your bug bite. This method also helps to cool down burns on your skin.</p> <h2>Remove a stain from the carpet</h2> <p>Rub toothpaste into the stain on the carpet with a toothbrush or sponge. Rinse with water and repeat until the stain comes up.</p> <h2>Clean your foggy headlights</h2> <p>Make the headlights on your car shine like new. Put toothpaste onto a sponge and scrub your headlight in circular motions. Wipe the toothpaste off with a damp cloth.</p> <h2>Remove small scratches from your phone screen</h2> <p>Rub toothpaste on the front or back of your phone (wherever there are scratches). The toothpaste will work to reduce the look of the scratches and make your phone screen look much better.</p> <p><em>Image credit: Shutterstock</em></p> <p><em>This article originally appeared on <a href="https://www.readersdigest.co.nz/food-home-garden/diy-tips/19-handy-uses-for-toothpaste-that-have-nothing-to-do-with-your-teeth" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Reader's Digest</a>. </em></p>

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Seinfeld: how a sitcom ‘about nothing’ changed television for good

<p><a href="https://theconversation.com/profiles/nathan-abrams-122305">Nathan Abrams</a>, <em><a href="https://theconversation.com/institutions/bangor-university-1221">Bangor University</a></em></p> <p>A quarter of a century ago, on 14 May 1998, the final episode of Seinfeld was broadcast, ending one of the most significant sitcoms of all time after nine seasons and 180 episodes. In fact the self-styled “show about nothing” was so important we can talk about the pre-Seinfeld and post-Seinfeld eras.</p> <p>Set in Manhattan, Seinfeld focused on the minutiae of daily life for four friends: Jerry (Jerry Seinfeld), his best friend, George Costanza (Jason Alexander), his ex-girlfriend Elaine Benes (Julia Louis-Dreyfus), and his neighbour Cosmo Kramer (Michael Richards).</p> <p>Such a setup might sound familiar to fans of 90s American comedy shows. But Seinfeld abandoned the traditional sitcom structure of an A story and a B story and instead gave each character their own storyline, full of self-aware and metatextual jokes.</p> <p>While co-creators Larry David and Jerry Seinfeld wanted a single-camera, filmlike aesthetic, the network, NBC, forced them to adopt a multi-camera setup taped in front of a live studio audience to supply the laughter track.</p> <p>Eventually, David and Seinfeld subverted that by shooting more scenes using single cameras and externally so that they could not be taped in front of a studio audience. They also employed a rapid-paced, quick-cutting, music-led style that was then unusual for sitcoms.</p> <p>This created the opportunities for expanding the narrative and cinematographic possibilities we’ve seen since. Seinfeld was a forerunner of the cinematic television we watch today.</p> <p>Consider the elaborate single-camera set pieces of the comedy The Marvelous Mrs. Maisel on Amazon Prime, or the epic, cinematic look of Netflix’s Better Call Saul.</p> <p>Seinfeld tackled a host of then-taboo topics, which were part of everyday life, including antisemitism, same-gender relationships and masturbation. But because censorship and social mores at that time would not allow the characters to say the word “masturbation”, instead they referred to who can be the “master of their domain”. Such topics are commonplace these days.</p> <p>All four characters are antiheroes. None of them is particularly likeable nor were they intended to be. They are morally ambiguous, malicious, selfish, self-involved and extremely petty. They refuse to improve themselves, evolve or even manifest the slightest desire for change. They learn no lessons and the arc of the entire series revisits those they have wronged.</p> <p>Similar characters can be found in <a href="https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0367279/">Arrested Development</a> and <a href="https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0472954/">It’s Always Sunny in Philadelphia</a>. Also, consider Walter White from <a href="https://www.netflix.com/gb/title/70143836">Breaking Bad</a> and <a href="https://www.hbo.com/the-sopranos">Tony Soprano</a>.</p> <p>If all four leads in Seinfeld are bad, then George is the worst. Modelled on co-creator, Larry David, he is the epitome of male privilege. Such characters populate the televisual landscape today, not least in David’s later show, <a href="https://www.hbo.com/curb-your-enthusiasm">Curb Your Enthusiasm</a>, in which he stars as a version of himself.</p> <p>Elaine Benes stands out as a strong female character for the time. In one episode, in the face of a shortage of contraception, she judges whether her sexual partners are “sponge-worthy” or not. Julia Louis-Dreyfus plays her with a tremendous physical comedy, as well as comic timing. She was unapologetic, and her sexuality and work life are foregrounded. Clearly, this set the template for her later series, <a href="https://www.hbo.com/veep">Veep</a>.</p> <figure><iframe src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/1njzgXSzA-A?wmode=transparent&amp;start=0" width="440" height="260" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen="allowfullscreen"></iframe><figcaption><span class="caption">Festivus is celebrated on December 23 each year, thanks to Seinfeld.</span></figcaption></figure> <p>The show generated billions of dollars in revenue, making NBC US$150 million (about £93 million) a year at its peak. By the ninth and final season, Jerry Seinfeld was earning US$1 million an episode. NBC executives tried to get him to return for a tenth season by offering him US$5 million an episode, but Seinfeld turned it down.</p> <p>Among the show’s fans was the legendary director Stanley Kubrick. “He was crazy about The Simpsons and Seinfeld,” his friend <a href="https://scrapsfromtheloft.com/movies/kubrick-by-michael-herr/">Michael Herr recounted</a>. As a Kubrick expert, I even suspect that the set design influenced his final film, <a href="https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0120663/">Eyes Wide Shut</a> (1999).</p> <p>Watching Seinfeld again now – and I have re-watched every episode – some of it lands terribly today. Take the episodes with Babu Bhatt, a Pakistani immigrant who runs a restaurant across the street from Jerry’s apartment. He appears in three episodes of the show and is known for his catchphrase, “Very bad man!” which he uses to insult Jerry.</p> <p>The problem is that Babu is played by actor Brian George, who was born in Jerusalem to Iraqi Jewish parents, and is clearly wearing makeup and affecting a south Asian accent.</p> <p>At the same time, the lack of diversity in Seinfeld is striking. New York is represented by Manhattan alone, rather than any of the other four boroughs that make up the metropolis. Its image of the Big Apple is white and middle class.</p> <p>As journalist and screenwriter Lindy West has <a href="https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2015/jun/09/politically-correct-jerry-seinfeld-comedy-marginalised-voices">observed</a>, the series featured only 19 black people, 18 of whom were one-off characters such as “the waiter” and “the guy who parks cars”. There was only one recurring black character – Kramer’s lawyer, Jackie Chiles – whose mimicry of OJ Simpson’s lawyer, Johnnie Cochran, makes him look like a real shyster.</p> <p>So, while Seinfeld may feel like a dated product of the late 1990s, it was ahead of the curve aesthetically, structurally and in terms of narrative and characterisation. Today’s television would be unthinkable without it.<img style="border: none !important; box-shadow: none !important; margin: 0 !important; max-height: 1px !important; max-width: 1px !important; min-height: 1px !important; min-width: 1px !important; opacity: 0 !important; outline: none !important; padding: 0 !important;" src="https://counter.theconversation.com/content/201497/count.gif?distributor=republish-lightbox-basic" alt="The Conversation" width="1" height="1" /></p> <p><em>Image credit: Getty</em></p> <p><em><a href="https://theconversation.com/profiles/nathan-abrams-122305">Nathan Abrams</a>, Professor of Film Studies, <a href="https://theconversation.com/institutions/bangor-university-1221">Bangor University</a></em></p> <p><em>This article is republished from <a href="https://theconversation.com">The Conversation</a> under a Creative Commons license. Read the <a href="https://theconversation.com/seinfeld-how-a-sitcom-about-nothing-changed-television-for-good-201497">original article</a>.</em></p>

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“There’s nothing like it”: Unique ‘sculpture’ house hits the market

<p dir="ltr">A home built from nearly 100 tonnes of salvaged steel has become known as the “Steel House” in Ransom Canyon, Texas, and its new owners are hoping to sell it.</p> <p dir="ltr">Courtney and Blake Bartosh, realtors with Taylor Reid Realty, bought the home several months ago from the builder’s daughter, before putting it<span> </span><a rel="noopener" href="https://www.realtor.com/realestateandhomes-detail/85-E-Canyonview-Dr_Ransom-Canyon_TX_79366_M70027-66092" target="_blank">back on the market</a><span> </span>for $USD 1.75 million ($NZD 2.6 million).</p> <p dir="ltr">‘We purchased it with every intention of turning it into an Airbnb or VRBO (Vacation Rentals by Owner). We’re getting a cash out [refinance] to finish the house, because the inside of it is not done,” Courtney Bartosh told<span> </span><a rel="noopener" href="https://www.realtor.com/news/unique-homes/steel-house-in-texas-live-inside-a-scuplture/" target="_blank"><em>realtor.com</em></a>. “If it sells for what we’re asking, great. If not, as soon as we get our refinancing done, we will take it off the market, and we will finish it.”</p> <p dir="ltr">Construction of the Steel House began in 1974, but its builder, Robert Bruno, never finished it, passing away from colon cancer in 2008.</p> <p dir="ltr">The structure has been unoccupied ever since.</p> <p>“Robert built an incredible house, and nobody has ever really been allowed in it,” Bartosh added. “He built it for a reason, not to just sit there and have people drive by and look at it. He wanted people to see inside of it. We don’t want someone to buy it and never open it up. Robert built this incredible thing. People drive by it constantly, and they should be able to go in and see it.”</p> <p dir="ltr">The unfinished home is made up of two steel shells with insulation between them, and features stained glass windows, winding stairs connecting the different floors, and archways and curved designs throughout.</p> <p dir="ltr">Bartosh said some of the walls could be painted, but that the steel still comes through.</p> <p dir="ltr">“I don’t think that the house is meant to be a warm and cozy house. People are not going to go stay in it because it is warm and cozy,” she said. “They’re going to want to stay in it because it’s iconic. It’s different. There’s nothing like it.”</p> <p dir="ltr">Currently, the home’s configuration includes three bedrooms and two-and-a-half bathrooms inside the 200-square metre steel structure.</p> <p dir="ltr">However, its new owners will need to put some work in to get it ready to live in.</p> <p dir="ltr">“There’s subfloor and tile in some places. Some areas need some flooring. Some of the windows need to be worked on. One of the bathrooms is not finished, and the kitchen needs to be finished out,” Bartosh said.</p> <p dir="ltr">The house sits on four legs - which also contain rooms including a sitting area and an office - and boasts views of the Ransom Canyon below.</p> <p dir="ltr">“The house sits on three lots, and it overlooks the Ransom Canyon and the lake. The main window in the living room is incredible to look out of. It’s an incredible view,” Bartosh said.</p> <p dir="ltr">Despite the majority of the house appearing suspended, you enter through a regular front door.</p> <p dir="ltr">“Where you park in the street, you just walk straight into the house,” Bartosh explained. “When you walk in, you’re on the main level.”</p> <p dir="ltr">This level also houses the living space, dining room, kitchen, two bedrooms, and a couple of bathrooms, and the master bedroom is found upstairs.</p> <p dir="ltr">Bartosh said she and her husband plan to finish construction in about six months, but they know they might encounter obstacles once the work begins.</p> <p dir="ltr">Though she said she is OK if the home doesn’t sell, Bartosh added that it is a unique opportunity for a new owner.</p> <p dir="ltr">“Who else can say they live inside a sculpture?” she asks.</p> <p dir="ltr">“We love the house. It’s an incredible home. Nobody else in the world can say they’ve owned something like it.”</p> <p dir="ltr"><em>Images: Realtor.com, Courtney Bartosh, The Bartosh Realty Group</em></p>

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Meghan Markle addresses Black Lives Matter movement in new video: “The only wrong thing to say is to say nothing”

<p><span>Meghan Markle has delivered a moving speech on racism in light of the Black Lives Matter movement recently re-lit by George Floyd’s death in police custody.</span><br /><br /><span>In a powerful video message to the graduating class of the Los Angeles high school she attended, the royal member called the events of the past week “absolutely devastating”, admitting she “wasn’t sure what to say” at first.</span><br /><br /><span>“I wasn't sure what I could say to you. I wanted to say the right thing and I was really nervous that it would get picked apart,” she said.</span><br /><br /><span>“I realised the only wrong thing to say is to say nothing,” she told the Immaculate Heart High School students.</span><br /><br /><span>“Because George Floyd's life mattered and Breonna Taylor's life mattered and Philando Castile's life mattered and Tamir Rice's life mattered … and so did so many other people whose names we know and whose names we do not know.”</span><br /><br /><span>The Duchess of Sussex was born and raised in Los Angeles, where she now resides with her husband Prince Harry and their son Archie.</span><br /><br /><span>In the new video shared to social media, the royal recounted her memories of the riots that occurred in the city in 1992, which she described as similarly triggered by “a senseless act of racism”.</span><br /><br /><span>“I remember seeing men in the back of a van just holding guns and rifles. I remember pulling up the house and seeing the tree, that had always been there, completely charred,” she said.</span><br /><br /><span>“Those memories don't go away, and I can't imagine that at 17 or 18 years old, which is how old you are now, that you would have to have a different version of that same type of experience. That's something you should have an understanding of as a history lesson, not as your reality.”</span></p> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet"> <p dir="ltr">“We are going to rebuild and rebuild and rebuild until it is rebuilt. Because when the foundation is broken, so are we.” - Meghan Markle <a href="https://t.co/km7j5Gu7Bv">pic.twitter.com/km7j5Gu7Bv</a></p> — shondaland tv (@shondaland) <a href="https://twitter.com/shondaland/status/1268604404434755590?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">June 4, 2020</a></blockquote> <p><br /><span>She went on to apologise that the world isn’t “in a place where you deserve it to be”.</span><br /><br /><span>“I am so sorry that you have to grow up in a world where this is still present,” she said.</span><br /><br /><span>The former Suits actress finished off her powerful five-minute speech by urging students of her former highschool take action and be leaders in inspiring change as they forge a path outside high school.</span><br /><br /><span>“We are going to rebuild and rebuild and rebuild until it is rebuilt. Because when the foundation is broken, so are we,” she said to the students.</span><br /><br /><span>“You are going to lead with love, you are going to lead with compassion, you are going to use your voice in a stronger way than you've ever been able to, because most of you are 18, or you're going to turn 18, and you're going to vote.</span><br /><br /><span>“I know you know that black lives matter, so I am already excited for what you are going to do in the world. You are equipped, you are ready, we need you and you are prepared.”</span></p> <blockquote style="background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);" class="instagram-media" data-instgrm-permalink="https://www.instagram.com/p/CBCIojaDggp/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" data-instgrm-version="12"> <div style="padding: 16px;"> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 40px; margin-right: 14px; width: 40px;"></div> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 100px;"></div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 60px;"></div> </div> </div> <div style="padding: 19% 0;"></div> <div style="display: block; height: 50px; margin: 0 auto 12px; width: 50px;"></div> <div style="padding-top: 8px;"> <div style="color: #3897f0; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 550; line-height: 18px;">View this post on Instagram</div> </div> <p style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;"><a style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none;" rel="noopener" href="https://www.instagram.com/p/CBCIojaDggp/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" target="_blank">A post shared by El Universo Vida y Estilo (@eluniversovidayestilo)</a> on Jun 4, 2020 at 5:30pm PDT</p> </div> </blockquote> <p><br /><span>Both Meghan and Harry have maintained a low profile during the Black Lives Matter protests, having stayed offline during Black Out Tuesday this week on their Sussex Royal Instagram page.</span><br /><br /><span>The Queen's Commonwealth Trust, which is overseen by the Queen, Harry and Meghan, this week shared on Instagram and Twitter a Martin Luther King Jr quote, saying “Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere.”</span></p>

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Should I tell my lawyer the truth, the whole truth and nothing but the truth?

<p>When engaging a criminal defence lawyer, clients are sometimes unsure about how much to say at the first meeting – concerned that telling their lawyers everything all at once could make it harder to achieve the best possible outcome.</p> <p>Indeed, in serious cases, lawyers may not obtain full instructions from their clients until they have received the statements and other materials upon which the prosecution relies, and until both they and their clients have gone through those materials.</p> <p>So, what are the rules that affect how a lawyer can deal with information from clients?</p> <p><strong>Legal professional privilege</strong></p> <p>The client/solicitor relationship is one of the most fundamental of our legal system.</p> <p>As such, principles have been established so that clients can provide full and frank disclosure to their lawyer without fear that this information will be used against them.</p> <p>Chief of these principles is ‘legal professional privilege’ also known as ‘client legal privilege’ which protects conversations between lawyers and clients. In the words of Dean J in <em>Baker v Campbell </em>(1983) 153 CLR 52:</p> <p><em>“That general principle represents some protection of the citizen – particularly the weak, the unintelligent and the ill-informed citizen – against the leviathan of the modern state. Without it, there can be no assurance that those in need of independent legal advice to cope with the demands and intricacies of modern law will be able to obtain it without the risk of prejudice and damage by subsequent compulsory disclosure on the demand of any administrative officer with some general statutory authority to obtain information or seize documents.”</em></p> <p>Legal professional privilege protects against the disclosure of communications between client and lawyer made for the dominant purpose of seeking or providing legal advice or for use in anticipated legal proceedings.</p> <p>This means your lawyer is generally prohibited from disclosing communications made for the purpose of your cases, subject to the exceptions outlined below.</p> <p>Privilege applies to both verbal and written communications between a lawyer and his or her client; whether in person, over the phone, by mail or over the internet – so it’s a broad protection which seeks to facilitate free communication between the parties.</p> <p><strong>Exceptions to client legal privilege</strong></p> <p>There are, however, a number of exceptions to client legal privilege that you need to be aware of.</p> <p>In NSW, sections 121 to 126 of the Evidence Act provide a number of situations where client legal privilege does not apply to the admissibility of evidence, which are:</p> <p><a href="http://www5.austlii.edu.au/au/legis/nsw/consol_act/ea199580/s121.html">121</a> – Where the client has died or where disclosure is necessary to enforce a court order,</p> <p><a href="http://www8.austlii.edu.au/cgi-bin/viewdoc/au/legis/cth/consol_act/ea199580/s122.html">122</a> – Where the client waives privilege, or consents to the lawyer disclosing information or producing materials, or where the client acts in a manner inconsistent with maintaining the privilege (eg discloses to others),</p> <p><a href="http://www8.austlii.edu.au/cgi-bin/viewdoc/au/legis/cth/consol_act/ea199580/s123.html">123</a> – Where a defendant is giving evidence in criminal proceedings, unless it is a a confidential communication or document between an associated defendant and a lawyer acting for that person in connection with the prosecution of that person.</p> <p><a href="http://www8.austlii.edu.au/cgi-bin/viewdoc/au/legis/cth/consol_act/ea199580/s124.html">124</a> – Where two or more clients have jointly retained a lawyer in civil proceeding and one or more of them wishes to disclose a confidential communication or contents of a confidential document,</p> <p><a href="http://www8.austlii.edu.au/cgi-bin/viewdoc/au/legis/cth/consol_act/ea199580/s125.html">125</a> – Where a communication is made or document prepared in furtherance of a <a href="https://www.sydneycriminallawyers.com.au/criminal/offences/fraud-charges/">fraud</a>, an offence or an act which would render a party liable for a civil penalty, and</p> <p><a href="http://www8.austlii.edu.au/cgi-bin/viewdoc/au/legis/cth/consol_act/ea199580/s126.html">126</a> – Certain information necessary to understand material to which privilege does not apply as a result of the preceding sections.</p> <p>What if I’m actually guilty but want to plead not-guilty?</p> <p>There are some circumstances where being too frank with your lawyer may limit how they can advocate for you inside the courtroom.</p> <p>And it should be said that if you are indeed guilty, pleading that way will entitle you to <a href="https://www.sydneycriminallawyers.com.au/blog/what-is-a-guilty-plea-discount/">a guilty plea discount</a> – which could result in a less serious type of penalty than if your were to plead not guilty and be found guilty. For example, an early plea of guilty could result in a penalty such as an <a href="https://www.sydneycriminallawyers.com.au/criminal/penalties/nsw/intensive-correction-orders/">intensive correction order</a> or <a href="https://www.sydneycriminallawyers.com.au/criminal/penalties/nsw/community-correction-order/">community correction order</a> instead of a prison sentence.</p> <p>However, an experienced criminal defence lawyer will be able to ask you questions in a way that reduces the risk of future prejudice.</p> <p>If you do admit to the offence, but wish to plead not-guilty to it – your lawyer will be limited in how he or she can present your case in court.</p> <p>This is because all lawyers are required to abide by professional ethics and conduct rules which can limit the questions that can be asked in certain situations, and the way cases can be argued.</p> <p>The rules <u>do not</u> prohibit lawyers from representing clients who admit their guilt to their lawyer; however, lawyers are strictly prohibited from lying or knowingly misleading the court on behalf of their clients.</p> <p>A lawyer who knows their client is guilty can still ‘put the prosecution to proof’; which means they can ask questions of prosecution witnesses and make submissions to the court to the effect that the prosecution has failed to prove each of the ‘essential elements’ (or ingredients) of the charge case beyond a reasonable doubt, and that their client should therefore be acquitted.</p> <p>But again, the lawyer will not be able to elicit false or misleading evidence, or make false or misleading submissions to the court.</p> <p>For example, a lawyer to whom you admit your guilt can assist by questioning and challenging prosecution witnesses. But he or she cannot allow you or another person to tell lies on the witness stand. If this nevertheless occurs, the lawyer would be well advised to submit to the court that he or she is ‘embarrassed’ and withdraw from the case.</p> <p>Often honesty is preferable, as you may be guilty of a lesser offence than the one you have been charged with, in which case your lawyer can push for the charge to be downgraded, or tailor your defence to ensure you are found not guilty of the charged offence in court.</p> <p>So it’s a bit of a tricky area, but experienced defence lawyers are well-aware of the rules, the pitfalls and how to act in the best interests of their clients whilst abiding by their other ethical obligations.</p> <p><strong>Changing</strong> <strong>lawyers</strong></p> <p>If you don’t feel your lawyer can adequately represent you – whether this is because you have told them something you shouldn’t have, or you believe they are not suitably experienced, or for another reason – it may be in your interest to obtain new legal representation.</p> <p>Changing lawyers is a simple process, and when making that decision you should always bear in mind that choosing the right lawyer may be one of the most important decisions you ever make, and that you should always be looking out for your own best interests.</p> <p>If you want to change lawyers, you will normally need to sign an ‘authority to uplift’. Your new lawyer will be able to provide you with this document, and can send it to your previous lawyer on your behalf in order to obtain the materials they have.</p> <p>If you have unpaid fees with your previous lawyer, it is advisable that you pay these to enable a smooth transfer and ensure your previous lawyer doesn’t seek to exercise a ‘lien’ over your materials – which means to refuse to forward your materials on to your new lawyer.</p> <p><strong>Going to Court?</strong></p> <p>If you are going to court and require expert advice <a href="https://www.sydneycriminallawyers.com.au/about/lawyers/">from experienced, specialist criminal defence lawyers</a>, call Sydney Criminal Lawyers anytime on (02) 9261 8881 to arrange a free first conference.</p> <p><em>Written by Jarryd Bartle. Republished with permission of </em><a href="https://www.sydneycriminallawyers.com.au/blog/should-i-tell-my-lawyer-the-truth-the-whole-truth-and-nothing-but-the-truth/"><em>Sydney Criminal Lawyers.</em></a></p>

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In praise of doing nothing

<p>In the 1950s, <a href="https://books.google.com/books/about/Take_Back_Your_Time.html?id=_UmpZOlnvU0C&amp;printsec=frontcover&amp;source=kp_read_button#v=onepage&amp;q&amp;f=false">scholars worried that</a>, thanks to technological innovations, Americans wouldn’t know what to do with all of their leisure time.</p> <p>Yet today, as sociologist Juliet Schor <a href="https://books.google.com/books?id=KjZ54lNDE2EC&amp;dq=overworked+american&amp;hl=en&amp;sa=X&amp;redir_esc=y">notes</a>, Americans are overworked, putting in more hours than at any time since the Depression and more than in any other in Western society.</p> <p>It’s probably not unrelated to the fact that instant and constant access has become de rigueur, and our devices constantly expose us to a barrage of colliding and clamoring messages: “Urgent,” “Breaking News,” “For immediate release,” “Answer needed ASAP.”</p> <p>It disturbs our leisure time, our family time – even our consciousness.</p> <p>Over the past decade, I’ve tried to understand the social and psychological effects of our growing interactions with new information and communication technologies, a topic I examine in my book “<a href="https://www.routledge.com/The-Terminal-Self-Everyday-Life-in-Hypermodern-Times/Gottschalk/p/book/9781472437082">The Terminal Self: Everyday Life in Hypermodern Times</a>.”</p> <p>In this 24/7, “always on” age, the prospect of doing nothing might sound unrealistic and unreasonable.</p> <p>But it’s never been more important.</p> <h2>Acceleration for the sake of acceleration</h2> <p>In an age of incredible advancements that can enhance our human potential and planetary health, why does daily life seem so overwhelming and anxiety-inducing?</p> <p>Why aren’t things easier?</p> <p>It’s a complex question, but one way to explain this irrational state of affairs is something called the force of acceleration.</p> <p><a href="https://cup.columbia.edu/book/social-acceleration/9780231148351">According to German critical theorist Hartmut Rosa</a>, accelerated technological developments have driven the acceleration in the pace of change in social institutions.</p> <p>We see this on factory floors, where “<a href="https://books.google.com/books?id=bdBTAAAAMAAJ&amp;q=inauthor:%22Edward+J.+Hay%22&amp;dq=inauthor:%22Edward+J.+Hay%22&amp;hl=en&amp;sa=X&amp;ved=0ahUKEwjs5vHLm6vbAhUjLn0KHaRSAqcQ6AEILjAB">just-in-time</a>” manufacturing demands maximum efficiency and the ability to nimbly respond to market forces, and in university classrooms, where computer software instructs teachers how to “move students quickly” through the material. Whether it’s in the grocery store or in the airport, procedures are implemented, for better or for worse, with one goal in mind: speed.</p> <p>Noticeable acceleration began more than two centuries ago, during the Industrial Revolution. But this acceleration has itself … accelerated. Guided by neither logical objectives nor agreed-upon rationale, propelled by its own momentum, and encountering little resistance, acceleration seems to have begotten more acceleration, for the sake of acceleration.</p> <p>To Rosa, this acceleration <a href="http://www.spiegel.de/international/zeitgeist/hartmut-rosa-essay-acceleration-plagues-modern-society-a-909465.html">eerily mimics</a> the criteria of a totalitarian power: 1) it exerts pressure on the wills and actions of subjects; 2) it is inescapable; 3) it is all-pervasive; and 4) it is hard or almost impossible to criticize and fight.</p> <h2>The oppression of speed</h2> <p>Unchecked acceleration has consequences.</p> <p>At the environmental level, it extracts resources from nature faster than they can replenish themselves and produces waste faster than it can be processed.</p> <p>At the personal level, it distorts how we experience time and space. It deteriorates how we approach our everyday activities, deforms how we relate to each other and erodes a stable sense of self. It leads to burnout at one end of the continuum and to depression at the other. Cognitively, it inhibits sustained focus and critical evaluation. Physiologically, it can stress our bodies and disrupt vital functions.</p> <p>For example, <a href="https://www.bookdepository.com/Gender-Divisions-Working-Time-New-Economy-Diane-Perrons/9781847204974">research finds</a> two to three times more self-reported health problems, from anxiety to sleeping issues, among workers who frequently work in high-speed environments compared with those who do not.</p> <p>When our environment accelerates, we must pedal faster in order to keep up with the pace. Workers receive more emails than ever before – <a href="https://globalnews.ca/news/3395457/this-is-how-much-time-you-spend-on-work-emails-every-day-according-to-a-canadian-survey/">a number that’s only expected to grow</a>. The more emails you receive, the more time you need to process them. It requires that you either accomplish this or another task in less time, that you perform several tasks at once, or that you take less time in between reading and responding to emails.</p> <p>American workers’ productivity <a href="https://www.epi.org/productivity-pay-gap/">has increased dramatically since 1973</a>. What has also increased sharply during that same period is the pay gap between productivity and pay. While productivity between 1973 and 2016 has increased by 73.7 percent, hourly pay has increased by only 12.5 percent. In other words, productivity has increased at about six times the rate of hourly pay.</p> <p>Clearly, acceleration demands more work – and to what end? There are only so many hours in a day, and this additional expenditure of energy reduces individuals’ ability to engage in life’s essential activities: family, leisure, community, citizenship, spiritual yearnings and self-development.</p> <p>It’s a vicious loop: Acceleration imposes more stress on individuals and curtails their ability to manage its effects, thereby worsening it.</p> <h2>Doing nothing and ‘being’</h2> <p>In a hypermodern society propelled by the twin engines of acceleration and excess, doing nothing is equated with waste, laziness, lack of ambition, boredom or “down” time.</p> <p>But this betrays a rather instrumental grasp of human existence.</p> <p><a href="https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jamainternalmedicine/fullarticle/1809754">Much research</a> – and many spiritual and philosophical systems – suggest that detaching from daily concerns and spending time in simple reflection and contemplation are essential to health, sanity and personal growth.</p> <p>Similarly, to equate “doing nothing” with nonproductivity betrays a short-sighted understanding of productivity. In fact, psychological <a href="https://papers.ssrn.com/sol3/papers.cfm?abstract_id=2432964">research suggests</a> that doing nothing is essential for creativity and innovation, and a person’s seeming inactivity might actually cultivate new insights, inventions or melodies.</p> <p><a href="https://www.harpercollins.com/9780060750510/in-praise-of-slowness">As legends go</a>, Isaac Newton grasped the law of gravity sitting under an apple tree. Archimedes discovered the law of buoyancy relaxing in his bathtub, while Albert Einstein was well-known for staring for hours into space in his office.</p> <p><a href="https://www.jstor.org/stable/40222893?seq=1#page_scan_tab_contents">The academic sabbatical</a> is centered on the understanding that the mind needs to rest and be allowed to explore in order to germinate new ideas.</p> <p>Doing nothing – or just being – is as important to human well-being as doing something.</p> <p>The key is to balance the two.</p> <h2>Taking your foot off the pedal</h2> <p>Since it will probably be difficult to go cold turkey from an accelerated pace of existence to doing nothing, one first step consists in decelerating. One relatively easy way to do so is to simply turn off all the technological devices that connect us to the internet – at least for a while – and assess what happens to us when we do.</p> <p><a href="https://www.liebertpub.com/doi/10.1089/cyber.2016.0259">Danish researchers found</a> that students who disconnected from Facebook for just one week reported notable increases in life satisfaction and positive emotions. <a href="https://www.nytimes.com/2010/08/16/technology/16brain.html">In another experiment</a>, neuroscientists who went on a nature trip reported enhanced cognitive performance.</p> <p>Different social movements are addressing the problem of acceleration. The <a href="https://www.slowfoodusa.org/about-us">Slow Food</a> movement, for example, is a grassroots campaign that advocates a form of deceleration by rejecting fast food and factory farming.</p> <p>As we race along, it seems as though we’re not taking the time to seriously examine the rationale behind our frenetic lives – and mistakenly assume that <a href="https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/being-busy-is-nothing-to-brag-about_us_5a4b9a6de4b0d86c803c7971">those who are very busy</a> must be involved in important projects.</p> <p>Touted by the <a href="https://twitter.com/nbcnews/status/898748875225260032?lang=en">mass media</a> and <a href="https://www.microsoft.com/en-us/microsoft-365/blog/2013/11/06/microsoft-office-declares-get-it-done-day/">corporate culture</a>, this credo of busyness contradicts both how most people in our society define “<a href="https://www.thoughtco.com/what-is-the-good-life-4038226">the good life</a>” and the tenets of many Eastern philosophies that extol the virtue and power of stillness.</p> <p>French philosopher Albert Camus perhaps <a href="https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/20617-idleness-is-fatal-only-to-the-mediocre">put it best</a> when he wrote, “Idleness is fatal only to the mediocre.”<!-- Below is The Conversation's page counter tag. 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Republished with permission of </em><a rel="noopener" href="https://theconversation.com/in-praise-of-doing-nothing-95998" target="_blank"><em>The Conversation</em></a><em>. </em></p>

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George Michael leaves nothing to ex-boyfriends in $177 million will

<p>George Michael left out two of his former partners, Fadi Fawaz and Kenny Goss, in his NZ$186 million will, it has been revealed.</p> <p>Fawaz and Goss were not listed as the beneficiaries of the late singer’s NZ$186 million fortune, according to a five-page document obtained by <a rel="noopener" href="https://www.thesun.co.uk/tvandshowbiz/9215982/george-michael-will-98m-nothing-fadi-fawaz-kenny-goss/" target="_blank"><em>The Sun</em></a>.</p> <p>Instead, Michael’s estate will be divided among his family and a few friends, with sisters Yioda and Melanie Panayiotou receiving a major portion. Michael’s 80-year-old father Kyriacos Panayiotou is also set to receive a horse-racing farm where he has lived for many years.</p> <p>“George was devoted to his dad and sisters, they were always going to be looked after,” an insider said.</p> <p>The will – which was made public on May 30 – also listed Michael’s backing singer Shirlie Kemp, record producer David Austin and five other friends as beneficiaries.</p> <p>However, Michael’s partner of 15 years, Goss, was left out along with Australian-born boyfriend Fawaz.</p> <p>60-year-old businessman Goss began dating Michael in 1996 before they split up in 2011.</p> <p>46-year-old hair stylist Fawaz and Michael started their relationship in 2012. </p> <p>Fawaz found the Wham! singer dead at his Oxfordshire home on Christmas Day 2016. “We were supposed to be going for Christmas lunch. I went round there to wake him up and he was just gone, lying peacefully in bed,” Fawas said in <a rel="noopener" href="https://au.lifestyle.yahoo.com/george-michael-australian-boyfriend-fadi-fawaz-left-out-of-late-singers-will-044659416.html" target="_blank">a statement</a> at the time.</p> <p>Michael died from heart and kidney failure at the age of 53.</p>

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"Born out of wedlock": Liz Hurley's son set to inherit nothing

<p>The biological grandfather of Liz Hurley’s son is doing everything within his power to stop Hurley’s son from getting any of the family fortune.</p> <p>Damian Charles Hurley was born in 2002 after Liz Hurley was romantically involved with US businessman Steve Bing.</p> <p>As Steve has an estimated net worth of $USD600 million ($AU853 million), with the bulk of his wealth coming from his grandfather, Leo S. Bing, a New York real estate baron, it makes sense that the family would want to protect the fortune.</p> <p>The grandfather, Dr Peter Bing, is trying to prevent Damian from getting involved with the family trust.</p> <p>Peter Bing has argued that Damian and Steve have never met since he was born, and that Damian isn’t eligible for the trust as he was “born out of wedlock”.</p> <p>Although that rule might sound old-fashioned, the trust was established in 1980 and states, according to <a rel="noopener" href="https://www.mirror.co.uk/3am/celebrity-news/elizabeth-hurleys-son-damian-to-14097520" target="_blank"><em>The Mirror</em></a>:</p> <p>“[The trust] would not benefit any person bought out of wedlock unless that person had lived for a substantial period of time as a regular member of the household.”</p> <p>The legal battle began after another of Steve Bing’s illegitimate children, Kira Bing, claimed she was a beneficiary of the trust and wanted information on it.</p> <p>Despite Steve Bing demanding paternity tests for both children, they confirmed that Kira and Damian are his children.</p> <p>Peter Bing’s claim is that since Damian and Kira have never lived with Steve, they do not have rights to the trust.</p> <p style="text-align: center;"><img style="width: 0px; height: 0px;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7824541/liz-hurley-steve-bing.jpg" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/0e2a1c2fa12a413da8e49e6094726a09" /></p> <p style="text-align: center;"><em>Elizabeth Hurley with boyfriend Steven Bing in 2001.</em></p> <p>In Peter Bing’s affidavit, he claims:</p> <p>“l know that neither of them has lived with Stephen while a minor as a regular member of his household,” the affidavit states.</p> <p>“To the best of my knowledge, Stephen has never met Damian, and Stephen only met Kira after she became an adult.</p> <p>“Regardless of whether, when and if Stephen met with or had any relationship with Damian or Kira while they are or were minor because neither was raised by him during their formative years l do not consider them my grandchildren.</p> <p>“Even were Stephen to develop a relationship with Damian now, l would not consider him my grandchild because he is nearing adulthood.”</p> <p>As the legal battle continues, it is unknown whether Damian and Kira will benefit from the family’s trust.</p>

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Millionaire leaves nothing to partner of 42 years in will

<p><span>Despite being together for 42 years, a millionaire landowner who died left nothing behind in his will for his partner.</span></p> <p><span>Wynford Hodge, who owned Parsonage Farm and Caravan Park in Wales, died after battling prostate cancer in 2017.</span></p> <p><span>Mr Hodge left behind more than $2,700,000 in funds and assets but the 92-year-old did not want his 79-year-old partner or his children to inherit any of his money.</span></p> <p><span>When Mr Hodge's health deteriorated, his partner Jane Thompson took on the role of his main carer.</span></p> <p><span>The High Court were told that Mr Hodge had made 10 wills before his death.</span></p> <p><span>In his final will, Mr Hodge left all of his wealth to his two tenants, Karla Evans and Agon Berisha, who worked at his properties.</span></p> <p style="text-align: center;"><span><img width="500" height="280" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7817779/1_500x280.jpg" alt="1 (127)"/></span></p> <p style="text-align: center;"><em>Parsonage Farm and Caravan Park via Google Maps</em></p> <p><span>Mr Hodge said Ms Thompson was “financially comfortable” and didn’t need any of his money.</span></p> <p><span>In reality, his partner had only been left with savings of about $4,500.</span></p> <p><span>Judge Milywn Jarman ruled that Mr Hodge failed to meet his responsibilities to his partner and awarded Ms Thompson a cottage on the estate wroth $410,000.</span></p> <p><span>She also received almost $346,000 to pay for the renovation of the cottage and to give her financial security.</span></p>

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“Is nothing sacred?”: Shoppers outraged after seeing Christmas decorations rebranded for Easter

<p>While there are many Easter traditions that continue to be enjoyed by families, such as the beloved Hot Cross buns, it appears that stores are doing whatever they can to capitalise on the holiday.</p> <p>Shoppers have been left shocked after seeing popular Christmas items rebranded for Easter such as Easter crackers, trees and even wreaths.</p> <p>According to <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><a href="https://www.thesun.co.uk/money/5729709/easter-trees-crackers-sale/" target="_blank"><em><strong>The Sun</strong></em></a>,</span> UK retailers Sainsbury’s, Waitrose, John Lewis and Not On the High Street, are all selling the strange Christmas items for Easter.</p> <p>Despite most families’ stock-piling on plenty of Easter eggs, the decorations have been marketed as a way to “add a little fun” to Easter or to “get more” out of Easter.</p> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet"> <p dir="ltr">I see your Easter crackers, and I raise you an Easter wreath. <a href="https://t.co/LmnwvcePrG">https://t.co/LmnwvcePrG</a> <a href="https://t.co/drme7OY0r1">pic.twitter.com/drme7OY0r1</a></p> — shan (@shanbennet) <a href="https://twitter.com/shanbennet/status/969370910380535808?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">March 2, 2018</a></blockquote> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet"> <p dir="ltr">Since when were Easter crackers a thing?! <a href="https://t.co/UxcenpWfsk">pic.twitter.com/UxcenpWfsk</a></p> — Danny Webster (@danny_webster) <a href="https://twitter.com/danny_webster/status/967106412697571329?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">February 23, 2018</a></blockquote> <p>According to Carolyn Bailey from Good Housekeeping, themed-decorations are a great way to transform your home for Easter.</p> <p>“Baubles are a big part of how you would decorate your house for Easter,” she told The Sunday Telegraph.</p> <p>“I would really recommend putting them in a hall so that when your guests arrive you have a homemade Easter tree with lots of ­baubles on.”</p> <p>Even the royals are getting on the decoration bandwagon with the Duchess of Cambridge’s parents, Carole and Michael Middleton, selling Easter trees on their Party Pieces website.</p> <p>However, most people seem unimpressed by the strange money-making ploy.</p> <p>One Twitter user wrote, “Is there nothing sacred? On the theory that it worked for Christmas, marketers now invent ‘Easter crackers’ and ‘Easter trees’."</p> <p>Another user wrote, “Easter trees and crackers… just what the planet needs, more seasonal trash.”  </p> <p>How do you feel about Christmas decorations being rebranded for Easter in retail stores? Let us know in the comments below. </p>

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Mum’s brilliant response after partner accuses her of doing “nothing all day”

<p>A stay-at-home mum has made a time-lapse video of a day in her life to prove to her husband just how much she works after he accused her of “doing nothing all day”.</p> <p>Gemma Chalmers, 35, from Aberdeen, Scotland, filmed herself over the course of 12 hours taking care of their two-year-old son Kayle, before editing it down to an eight-minute video clip to show just how busy her days at home are.</p> <p>The mum-of-one posted the video to Facebook, writing: “All weekend my lovely partner has been moaning that I do nothing all day, so I thought I’d show him a full day... I actually find having a day of work is more like a day off.</p> <p>"So Mr. Jones, no more saying ‘enjoy your day off’ or [asking] ‘what have you done all day?’ because the answer is… I’ve been a mummy all day."</p> <p><iframe src="https://www.facebook.com/plugins/video.php?href=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2FGemma.Chalmers82%2Fvideos%2F10212932844213974%2F&amp;show_text=0&amp;width=560" width="560" height="315" style="border: none; overflow: hidden;" scrolling="no" frameborder="0" allowtransparency="true" allowfullscreen="true"></iframe></p> <p>She added: “[I’m] also a cleaner, a driver, a cook, a storyteller, a nurse, a playmate, a toddler wrestling coach, a teacher, an art director, a potty trainer, a champion tickler, a wardrobe stylist, a personal dresser, a laundry operator, a personal shopper and much more.”</p> <p>She decided to make the video after partner Jim Johns, 35, jokingly said to her “enjoy your day off as he left for work.</p> <p>“My partner has started his own business and works a lot and doesn’t really think I do much,” Chalmers told The Mirror. “I just thought: ‘I’m going to prove him wrong.'”</p>

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The art of doing nothing on a cruise

<p>Sailing off into the sunset, drinks in hand and second helpings from the seafood buffet before us, mum and I were so relaxed, we felt like we'd been on holiday for a week.</p> <p>In fact, it had only been a few hours and we were still in Auckland. But that's the thing about the Azamara Journey, a boutique 690-guest cruise liner that prides itself on the petite frame that enables it to enter ports others can't and longer-than-usual shore stays.</p> <p>Stepping into its newly made over atrium with its grand stairwell and 1920s-style decor, you feel as if you've entered a time warp. Been transported back to an era when travel was for the rich and glamorous; when amazing service and complimentary luxuries were par for the course.</p> <p>Embarking in Auckland for Azamara's maiden 15-night tour of New Zealand and New Zealand, mum and I started as we meant to go on: by indulging in as much delicious food - which ranges from haute cuisine to hamburgers and fries - as our stomachs could stand.</p> <p>The sunny afternoon called for something relatively light, however, so we opted for miso salmon salads to go with our welcome glasses of bubbles (piled high with grilled veggies and condiments from the buffet of course).</p> <p>While a tour of New Zealand mightn't sound exotic, it turned out to be a perfect - and perfectly relaxing - way to see parts of the country we never had before. Cruising down toward the Bay of Plenty and rounding the East Cape before heading past remote Cape Palliser to Wellington provided a new perspective of our fair Northern isle; brought home just how wild and dramatic (in multiple senses) it can be.</p> <p>Stretched out that first night on double bed-sized sunloungers, cocktails in hand and enjoying the boat rockin' beats of the Drums of the Pacific music and dance crew, it was hard not to feel proud of our Island heritage.</p> <p>Sadly, the skies darkened that night and we awoke to rain lashing down on a swirling sea. Not exactly the Bay of Islands experience we'd been hoping for, but we were determined to make the best of it.</p> <p>The ship's tenders dropped us off in Paihia and from there I booked a spur of the moment speedboat tour to Piercy Island (aka The Hole in the Rock).</p> <p>If I'd waited the few minutes it took for the sudden downpour to subside, I might have decided that heading out in a small open-air boat on such a day wasn't such a great idea. But, decked out in the provided ankle-length raincoats, a few fellow (fool?)-hardy travellers and I zipped off toward Cape Brett; crashing through the surging swell.</p> <p>While the rain on my face felt like thousands of tiny pin pricks, the ride was an adrenaline rush like no other and going by the whoops of my fellow passengers they agreed. The skipper showed us the golden beach where Captain Cook first set foot in the Bay and sent his Tahitian cabin boy to win favour (and food and fresh water from the local Maori). Deserted and backed by thick native bush, it must look much, if not just, as it did in the English captain's day (cue another time warp experience).</p> <p>The gloomy weather seemed entirely apt when the skipper relayed the history of Roberton Island; telling us how the whaling captain who'd bought it from Ngapuhi chiefs in 1839 had died in a boating accident, leaving his wife and two children behind.</p> <p>Mrs Roberton had enlisted two young men - an Aussie and a Maori - to help out with the farm and, when the former beat the latter, he sought revenge. The Maori lad, Maketu Wharetotara, cracked his Aussie colleague's skull with an axe, killing him instantly, and when Mrs Roberton expressed horror at what he'd done, he did away with her and the kids too. Wharetotata became the first person to be legally hanged in New Zealand after being convicted by a British court.</p> <p>Heading further up the cape, the swell grew larger still and, with us passengers clinging onto our seats (and cellphones) for dear life, the skipper made the wise call to drop us off in Russell, giving us ferry tickets to return to Paihia. Mum and I enjoyed a lazy stroll around NZ's first European settlement before refuelling with a smoked crab salad at the historic Duke of Marlborough Hotel and vowing to return during the summer.</p> <p>Overnight, the weather went from bad to abysmal and we were woken several times by objects crashing to the ground. At breakfast, the captain informed us that high winds had made the planned stop in Tauranga impossible so we would spend the day at sea. While some passengers were visibly sickened by developments, mum was thrilled to be experiencing a real-life storm at sea. Banishing all thoughts of the Titanic, I was thrilled by a day of enforced relaxation.</p> <p>Guilty about our overindulgences, mum and I wobbled our way to the gym: a well-stocked space with floor-to-ceiling windows looking out to the still-surging sea. Topping up our energy levels afterwards with another enormous lunch - of Moroccan chicken salad followed by chocolate gelato this time - we headed to the spa: she for a haircut and me for a facial.</p> <p>We soon got into a routine of heading to the 'living room', with its comfy chairs, fabulous views and live guitar or piano music, in the evenings for Spanish-style tapas and wine.</p> <p>Staff are on hand to help you match your food and drinks and, as with everywhere on the ship, seem to have a sixth sense enabling them to materialise the moment you need them. We treated ourselves to dinners at the two specialty restaurants you pay extra for: Italian-style Aqualina and steak house Prime C.</p> <p>Both offer incredible value for their US$30 a head price tags, with exquisitely-cooked three course meals, as much wine as you care for and that outstanding service.</p> <p>Skipping Tauranga meant we arrived at Napier early and my 2pm Hawke's Bay winery tour was brought forward to 9am. Somewhat regretting the rich Aussie shiraz I'd imbibed the previous evening, I nevertheless enjoyed the drive through the rolling (and thanks to the rain) vividly green countryside to Mission Estate.</p> <p>While I'd been to the winery founded by French missionaries before, I'd never taken the time to listen to its fascinating history which, spoiler alert, features a dangerous trek with vines in tow after mistaking Gisborne for Hawke's Bay, a catastrophic fire, the Maori land wars, and Napier's disastrous 1931 earthquake.</p> <p>The monks' faith presumably inspired them to soldier on and build what it is now one of the region's best-loved wineries. Hawke's Bay's generally warm, dry climate enables it to grow a wide variety of grapes and our group reaped the benefits at Sileni and Ngatarawa Stables as well. The Americans were pleased they can buy bottles of the Sileni and Ngatarawa varieties back home, but disappointed they can't do the same with Mission Estate (the winery has yet to strike a distribution deal there).</p> <p>After the inevitable long lunch, mum and I had just enough time for a power walk up and down the peaceful, villa-lined streets that surround central Napier, rekindling dreams of potentially relocating to somewhere less hectic one day.</p> <p>Our approach to Wellington was a highlight of the trip: mum and I were on treadmills at the gym when we spotted pod after pod of dolphins race across the now-calm blue waters toward the ship. Wellington also turned on the best weather, showering me in sunshine as I strolled the buzzing waterfront, stopping to take a dip at Oriental Bay before climbing Mt Victoria for a panoramic view of the city which, after a year in America, seemed like a Kiwi San Francisco. </p> <p>That night, guests were treated to a show at Te Papa led by local acting legend Temuera Morrison. We were welcomed with a typically poignant powhiri before walking the red carpet to the entrance, where we were offered bubbly and bite-sized pavlovas (as if we needed any more booze and food).</p> <p>The overseas men got into the spirit of learning the haka with vigorous thigh slapping and foot stamping, while the Modern Maori Quartet had us all clapping along to their blend of classic and modern tunes. A highpoint of the evening for many though was the Peter Jackson-directed WWI exhibition, which tells the story of Kiwi soldiers in Gallipoli featuring larger-than-life models made by the wizards at Weta Workshop.</p> <p>The amazingly realistic models, 3D projections and cinematic sound effects create as accurate an impression of what it must have felt like for those soldiers as possible. It's certainly an experience I won't forget.</p> <p>Due to leave the ship in Wellington, mum and I made the most of our final day by (you guessed it) indulging in yet more food. Our final meal was a suitably sublime combo of melt-off-the-bone locally-sourced lamb shanks, Greek-style chicken and roast kumara rounded off with lemon sorbet. Triple the usual vitamins and minerals have got to be good for you I'm sure.</p> <p>Disembarking was a depressing experience: we were reluctant to leave the floating community that had provided more than we had thought to hope for over the past few days, leaving us in a state of (perhaps over)satiated bliss. Azamara we will be back (if our bank balances allow that is).</p> <p><em>Written by Lorna Thornber. First appeared on <a href="http://www.Stuff.co.nz" target="_blank"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>Stuff.co.nz</strong></span></a>. </em></p> <p><em>The writer was a guest of Azamara Club Cruises.</em></p>

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Ninja cat stops at nothing to get treats

<p>Most of us mere mortals can’t be bothered to reach that awkwardly placed cupboard sitting above the oven so it’s often used to store unused items or as a hiding place for let's say, cat treats.</p> <p>Well, this cat wants his treats, and he wants them right now. And as the moggie proves, he will stop at nothing to get to those delicious feline treats. Watch his ninja-like skills in action above. </p> <p><strong>Related links: </strong></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><em><a href="/lifestyle/family-pets/2015/12/dont-feed-pets-table-scraps/"></a></em></strong></span></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><em><a href="http://www.oversixty.co.nz/lifestyle/family-pets/2016/01/photos-of-animals-hitchhiking/">Hilarious photos of animals hitchhiking</a></em></strong></span></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><em><a href="/lifestyle/family-pets/2015/12/dont-feed-pets-table-scraps/"></a></em></strong></span></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><em><a href="http://www.oversixty.co.nz/lifestyle/family-pets/2016/01/animals-who-love-warm/">In pictures: 12 animals who love warmth more than anything</a></em></strong></span></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><em><a href="/lifestyle/family-pets/2015/12/dont-feed-pets-table-scraps/"></a></em></strong></span></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><em><a href="http://www.oversixty.co.nz/lifestyle/family-pets/2015/10/why-dogs-so-happy-to-see-you/">The science behind dogs being so happy to see you</a></em></strong></span></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><em><a href="/lifestyle/family-pets/2015/12/dont-feed-pets-table-scraps/"> </a></em></strong></span></p>

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How to pay next to nothing for accommodation

<p>It’s the New York City destination dream to stay in an apartment on the Upper East Side that overlooks Central Park. Well, thanks to a hot holiday trend, house swapping, this could now be the reality of your next travel adventure.</p> <p>House swapping whereby you exchange houses with someone – either in New Zealand or in one of many countries around the world – is for many people, the difference between a couple of weeks away or an extended trip. In some cases, it’s the difference in affording a holiday at all. We think the best part of doing a house swap is that you get to live like a local rather than a tourist.</p> <p>Home swaps can be for any agreed period, may include use of motor vehicles and swaps can be arranged at the same time or at different times.</p> <p>While the proof of the success of the holiday is in the pudding – many positive stories, high success rate and a skyrocketing travel trend – it does mean letting strangers into your home. Here are some tips on ensuring a seamless house swap.</p> <p><strong>Chemistry</strong> — this is a vital ingredient. You need to feel good about the exchange for it to work out for you.</p> <p><strong>Communicate</strong> — members can sometimes exchange 10 to 20 messages via the site to confirm a home swap vacation and a phone or Skype call can definitely help too to get to know each other and the properties involved. We also make available an Agreement form, which lots of members like to use.</p> <p><strong>Style</strong> – Spend time making your listing look lovely. And then add lots of photos and sell your home. As a comparison, think online dating.</p> <p><strong>Open mind</strong> – When it comes to where you hope to travel to as part of your swap, be open minded.</p> <p><strong>Insurance</strong> — Inform your insurance company before you go. Most prefer for people to be staying in your home, rather than it being left empty, but take out any extra cover if you need to.</p> <p><strong>Considerate</strong> — Ensure your home is tidy before your swap partner arrives and stocked up on basics such as kitchen staples and clean linen.</p> <p><strong>Cautious</strong> — Lock away any precious items before you go. That said, you will have to be a little relaxed about things as you can't pack up the whole house.</p> <p><strong>Key keeper</strong> – Enlist a neighbour or friend to keep a key while you’re gone and keep an eye on things should something come up. It can help ensure that it's all smooth sailing.</p> <p><strong>Enjoy</strong> — Home swapping is an amazing way to travel like a local and bag huge savings on holiday accommodation.</p>

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