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Our obsession with taking photos is changing how we remember the past

<p><em><a href="https://theconversation.com/profiles/giuliana-mazzoni-175429">Giuliana Mazzoni</a>, <a href="https://theconversation.com/institutions/university-of-hull-1191">University of Hull</a></em></p> <p>I recently visited the <a href="http://hermitage--www.hermitagemuseum.org/wps/portal/hermitage/?lng=sv">Hermitage</a> in St Petersburg, Russia – one of the best art museums in the world. I was expecting to serenely experience its masterpieces, but my view was blocked by a wall of smart phones taking pictures of the paintings. And where I could find a bit of empty space, there were people taking selfies to create lasting memories of their visit.</p> <p>For many people, taking hundreds, if not thousands, of pictures is now a crucial part of going on holiday – documenting every last detail and posting it on social media. But how does that affect our actual memories of the past – and how we view ourselves? As an expert on memory, I was curious.</p> <p>Unfortunately, psychological research on the topic is so far scant. But we do know a few things. We use smart phones and new technologies <a href="http://studie-life.de/en/life-reports/smart-payments;%20https://www.researchgate.net/profile/Tim_Fawns/publication/275331048_Blended_Memory_the_Changing_Balance_of_Technologically-mediated_Semantic_and_Episodic_Memory/links/56962c6d08ae820ff07594ee.pdf">as memory repositories</a>. This is nothing new – humans have always used external devices as an aid when acquiring knowledge and remembering.</p> <p>Writing certainly serves this function. Historical records are collective external memories. Testimonies of migrations, settlement or battles help entire nations trace a lineage, a past and an identity. In the life of an individual, written diaries serve a similar function.</p> <h2>Memory effects</h2> <p>Nowadays we tend to commit very little to memory – we entrust a huge amount to the cloud. Not only is it almost unheard of to recite poems, even the most personal events are generally recorded on our cellphones. Rather than remembering what we ate at someone’s wedding, we scroll back to look at all the images we took of the food.</p> <p>This has serious consequences. Taking photos of an event rather than being immersed in it has been shown to lead to <a href="https://theconversation.com/memory-loss-isnt-just-an-old-persons-problem-heres-how-young-people-can-stay-mentally-fit-102352">poorer recall of the actual event</a> – we get distracted in the process.</p> <p>Relying on photos to remember has a similar effect. Memory needs to be exercised on a regular basis in order to function well. There are many studies documenting the importance of memory retrieval practice – <a href="http://citeseerx.ist.psu.edu/viewdoc/download?doi=10.1.1.738.2035&amp;rep=rep1&amp;type=pdf">for example in university students</a>. Memory is and will remain essential for learning. There is indeed some evidence showing that committing almost all knowledge and memories to the cloud <a href="https://www.journals.uchicago.edu/doi/10.1086/691462">might hinder the ability to remember</a>.</p> <p>However, there is a silver lining. Even if some studies claim that all this makes us more stupid, what happens is actually shifting skills from purely being able to remember to being able to manage the way we remember more efficiently. This is called metacognition, and it is an overarching skill that is also essential for students – for example when planning what and how to study. There is also substantial and reliable evidence that external memories, selfies included, <a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/23957379">can help</a> individuals with memory impairments.</p> <p>But while photos can in some instances help people to remember, the quality of the memories may be limited. We may remember what something looked like more clearly, but this could be at the expense of other types of information. One study showed that while photos could help people remember what they saw during some event, they <a href="https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/0956797617694868">reduced their memory of what was said</a>.</p> <h2>Identity distortions?</h2> <p>There are some rather profound risks when it comes to personal memory. Our identity is a product of our life experiences, which can be easily accessed through our memories of the past. So, does constant photographic documentation of life experiences alter how we see ourselves? There is no substantial empirical evidence on this yet, but I would speculate that it does.</p> <p>Too many images are likely to make us remember the past in a fixed way – blocking other memories. While it is <a href="https://theconversation.com/what-is-your-first-memory-and-did-it-ever-really-happen-95953">not uncommon for early childhood memories</a> to be based on photos rather than the actual events, these are not always true memories.</p> <p>Another issue is the fact that research has uncovered <a href="https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0747563216302503;%20http://www.vulture.com/2014/01/history-of-the-selfie.html">a lack of spontaneity in selfies</a> and many other photos. They are planned, the poses are not natural and at times the image of the person is distorted. They also reflect a narcissistic tendency which shapes the face in unnatural mimics – artificial big smiles, sensual pouts, funny faces or offensive gestures.</p> <p>Importantly, selfies and many other photos are also <a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5318447/">public displays</a> of specific attitudes, intentions and stances. In other words, they do not really reflect who we are, they reflect what we want to show to others about ourselves at the moment. If we rely heavily on photos when remembering our past, we may create a distorted self identity based on the image we wanted to promote to others.</p> <p>That said, our natural memory isn’t actually perfectly accurate. Research shows that we often <a href="https://theconversation.com/the-real-you-is-a-myth-we-constantly-create-false-memories-to-achieve-the-identity-we-want-103253">create false memories about the past</a>. We do this in order to maintain the identity that we want to have over time – and avoid conflicting narratives about who we are. So if you have always been rather soft and kind – but through some significant life experience decide you are tough – you may dig up memories of being aggressive in the past or even completely make them up.</p> <p>Having multiple daily memory reports on the phone of how we were in the past might therefore render our memory less malleable and less adaptable to the changes brought about by life – making our identity more stable and fixed.</p> <p>But this can create problems if our present identity becomes different from our fixed, past one. That is an uncomfortable experience and exactly what the “normal” functioning of memory is aimed to avoid – it is malleable so that we can have a non-contradictory narrative about ourselves. We want to think of ourselves as having a certain unchanging “core”. If we feel unable to change how we see ourselves over time, this could seriously affect our sense of agency and mental health.</p> <p>So our obsession with taking photos may be causing both memory loss and uncomfortable identity discrepancies.</p> <p>It is interesting to think about how technology changes the way we behave and function. As long as we are aware of the risks, we can probably mitigate harmful effects. The possibility that actually sends shivers to my spine is that we lose all those precious pictures because of some widespread malfunctioning of our smart phones.</p> <p>So the next time you’re at a museum, do take a moment to look up and experience it all. Just in case those photos go missing.<img style="border: none !important; box-shadow: none !important; margin: 0 !important; max-height: 1px !important; max-width: 1px !important; min-height: 1px !important; min-width: 1px !important; opacity: 0 !important; outline: none !important; padding: 0 !important;" src="https://counter.theconversation.com/content/109285/count.gif?distributor=republish-lightbox-basic" alt="The Conversation" width="1" height="1" /></p> <p><em><a href="https://theconversation.com/profiles/giuliana-mazzoni-175429">Giuliana Mazzoni</a>, Professor of Psychology, <a href="https://theconversation.com/institutions/university-of-hull-1191">University of Hull</a></em></p> <p><em>Image credits: Shutterstock </em></p> <p><em>This article is republished from <a href="https://theconversation.com">The Conversation</a> under a Creative Commons license. Read the <a href="https://theconversation.com/our-obsession-with-taking-photos-is-changing-how-we-remember-the-past-109285">original article</a>.</em></p>

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Wes Anderson has an obsessive, systematic repetition of stylistic choices. He’s perfect for this TikTok meme

<p><a href="https://theconversation.com/profiles/alex-munt-1380279">Alex Munt</a>, <em><a href="https://theconversation.com/institutions/university-of-technology-sydney-936">University of Technology Sydney</a></em></p> <p>Iconoclastic film director Wes Anderson <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Sdt0oam6O1o">says of his films</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p>I always feel like any character from one of my movies could walk into another one of the movies and be at home there.</p> </blockquote> <p>With the premiere of <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9FXCSXuGTF4">Asteroid City</a> at the 2023 Cannes Film Festival next week, fans have been doing just that – walking themselves into faux Anderson movies.</p> <p>TikTokers are creatively “Wes-Andersonifying” their everyday lives: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@keithafadi/video/7221582114880294150">at lunch</a>, <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@taramilktea/video/7226286920093977857?q=wes%20anderson%20challenge&amp;t=1683337148719">at the hotel pool</a> or <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@hilakleinh3/video/7225644281799691563?q=wes%20anderson%20challenge&amp;t=1683337148719">at the bookstore</a>. The TikToks are all set to a score by Alexandre Desplat from The French Dispatch (2021).</p> <p><iframe id="tc-infographic-855" class="tc-infographic" style="border: none;" src="https://cdn.theconversation.com/infographics/855/b970b886fa15cd22f469e5441d15262ddaa1d2c8/site/index.html" width="100%" height="400px" frameborder="0"></iframe></p> <p>It’s fun to see Anderson’s film style rolled out across diverse cultural and geographic borders. This syncs with the filmmaker’s affinity for global cinema. He draws inspiration from the films of Yasujirō Ozu, Satyajit Ray, Jean Renoir, Jean-Luc Godard, Francois Truffaut and Jacques Rivette – to name just a few.</p> <p>For Tiktok’s Anderson fans, here’s a “<a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@andyyongfilms/video/7227440401572039938">How To</a>” by @andyyongfilms which shows a recipe for the film style: a title card (Futura font, with typewriter effect), symmetrical compositions, bright coloured or pastel outfits, retro props, an overhead shot plus a “<a href="https://www.studiobinder.com/blog/swish-pan-whip-pan-definition-film/">whip-pan</a>” camera movement. A few of the TikToks are highly polished, clearly from creators with a film education, such as <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@qmike/video/7223410519741418757">The British Dispatch</a>.</p> <p><iframe id="tc-infographic-856" class="tc-infographic" style="border: none;" src="https://cdn.theconversation.com/infographics/856/3ed36e627f542ded4bb2f6244eb11b5a4b4a1626/site/index.html" width="100%" height="400px" frameborder="0"></iframe></p> <h2>Reimagining a film style</h2> <p>The Anderson-inspired TikToks are playful ruminations on the question of “film style” today. Stanley Kubrick once said a film director is a “<a href="https://craigberry93.medium.com/stanley-kubrick-at-the-design-museum-4e79b3c11af9">taste machine</a>”, which Anderson revels in to excess.</p> <p>Symmetry within the frame is perhaps the most obvious element of the Anderson film style and one easy to replicate in the TikToks. With an obsessive devotion to staging scenes in symmetry, Anderson breaks the “<a href="https://www.studiobinder.com/blog/what-is-the-rule-of-thirds/">rule of thirds</a>” for visual composition. In contrast, he pins his actors dead centre as shown in this <a href="https://vimeo.com/89302848">video essay</a> by Kogonada.</p> <figure><iframe src="https://player.vimeo.com/video/89302848" width="500" height="281" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen="allowfullscreen"></iframe></figure> <p>Working with his regular cinematographer Robert Yeoman, Anderson uses planar compositions to create graphic cinema which shares an affinity with illustration and painting.</p> <p>His “planar” approach to staging means the camera remains perpendicular to the subject, which the rapid whip-pan camera movements maintain <em>within</em> a shot. Anderson stages his actors across the frame – like garments on a clothesline – and in depth. You can see this in the image from Asteroid City above.</p> <p>This staging style is a departure from the mainstream visual style of film and television today which situates the camera at oblique angles to the actors, enhancing the layers of foreground, midground and background – closer to the way we see and experience the world.</p> <p><iframe id="tc-infographic-857" class="tc-infographic" style="border: none;" src="https://cdn.theconversation.com/infographics/857/4a449631c65d123c2342e08df14cd09f3b6d79a4/site/index.html" width="100%" height="400px" frameborder="0"></iframe></p> <p>In contrast, Anderson’s approach calls out the artificiality of cinema. He recalls historical film styles from early cinema theatricality to the pop-art cinema of the late 1960s, for example in the films of the late Jean-Luc Godard.</p> <p>Colour is another aspect of Wes Anderson’s visual style, which spills across the TikToks. Like a handful of directors today, he still shoots on film (16mm and 35mm) but now uses digital tools to <a href="https://musicbed.com/articles/filmmaking/cinematography/robert-yeoman-asc-on-shooting-wes-andersons-the-french-dispatch">grade the colour</a> of the images. The Euro-pastels from The Grand Budapest Hotel resurface in American shades for Asteroid City.</p> <p><iframe id="tc-infographic-858" class="tc-infographic" style="border: none;" src="https://cdn.theconversation.com/infographics/858/d333cb73c1d0b0fdb4ca1f8d48313a013754f2ec/site/index.html" width="100%" height="400px" frameborder="0"></iframe></p> <h2>Where to next?</h2> <p>As a system in and of itself, the film style of Anderson is ripe for TikTok due to its boldness, clarity and repetition of techniques.</p> <p>Film style operates at the level of the shot. We might recall signature shots such as Hitchcock’s “vertigo effect” (where the camera lens zooms into a subject as the camera moves away), Scorsese’s tracking shots, Nolan’s close-up shots of hands or Tarantino’s point-of-view shots from inside a car boot.</p> <p>But these are isolated shots rather than Anderson’s obsessive, systematic repetition of stylistic choices within each film and across his oeuvre. On TikTok some shots are easier to craft that others, as @astonmartinf1 details in his <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@jllacar/video/7226811816553270571?q=wes%20anderson%20challenge&amp;t=1683337148719">analysis</a> of the Wes Anderson Trend, noting the omission of camera movement in many of the videos which is a defining aspect of his film style proper.</p> <p><iframe id="tc-infographic-859" class="tc-infographic" style="border: none;" src="https://cdn.theconversation.com/infographics/859/f9767494a7a94dd0475e121fc36513afcc110279/site/index.html" width="100%" height="400px" frameborder="0"></iframe></p> <p>In filmmaking, moving the camera is often expensive, separating the amateur from the professional. Anderson’s tracking shots are only feasible within an industrial filmmaking process. While the TikToks may be highly creative, they are made with slim resources a world away from the film budgets of Anderson, who enjoys Medici-like support <a href="https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/reliable-source/wp/2015/01/23/mysterious-d-c-mogul-steve-rales-is-behind-oscar-nominated-pic/">from US billionaire Steven Rales</a>.</p> <p>Saying this, there are other aspects of the Wes Anderson style the TikToks could hijack on a budget, such as playfulness with the image aspect ratio and slow-motion photography. Aspect ratio is the relationship between the width and height of an image. TikTok is 9:16, an inverted ratio to our widescreen TVs.</p> <p>As part of his film style, Anderson uses the Classical Hollywood ratio of 4:3 seen in <a href="https://youtu.be/dvubfl-qeC8">The French Dispatch</a>. Both ratios are designed for people (all those selfies) over landscapes, so creative opportunities here for TikTokers.</p> <figure><iframe src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/dvubfl-qeC8?wmode=transparent&amp;start=0" width="440" height="260" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen="allowfullscreen"></iframe></figure> <p>Anderson is also a fan of <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yRGqeHIItY8">slow-motion</a> to accentuate key dramatic moments in his films. Today’s smartphones shoot “slo-mo” well, and using TikTok and other basic editing apps the user can apply speed effects to their footage.</p> <figure><iframe src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/yRGqeHIItY8?wmode=transparent&amp;start=0" width="440" height="260" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen="allowfullscreen"></iframe></figure> <p>And as generative AI representations of film style wash across social media there’s a new set of questions altogether. Here’s <a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/CqxBkJnvPRa/?igshid=MDJmNzVkMjY%3D">Harry Potter as directed by Wes Anderson</a> created by @panoramachannel with AI software Midjourney. But that’s another conversation.<!-- End of code. If you don't see any code above, please get new code from the Advanced tab after you click the republish button. The page counter does not collect any personal data. More info: https://theconversation.com/republishing-guidelines --></p> <p><em><a href="https://theconversation.com/profiles/alex-munt-1380279">Alex Munt</a>, Associate Professor, Media Arts &amp; Production, <a href="https://theconversation.com/institutions/university-of-technology-sydney-936">University of Technology Sydney</a></em></p> <p><em>This article is republished from <a href="https://theconversation.com">The Conversation</a> under a Creative Commons license. Read the <a href="https://theconversation.com/wes-anderson-has-an-obsessive-systematic-repetition-of-stylistic-choices-hes-perfect-for-this-tiktok-meme-204803">original article</a>.</em></p> <p><em>Images: Searchlight Pictures</em></p>

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What the “father of the cell phone” wants you to know

<p dir="ltr">The inventor of the mobile phone has shared his candid opinion about the obsession with smart devices. </p> <p dir="ltr">Martin Cooper, an American engineer dubbed the “father of the cell phone”, invented the very first mobile phone 50 years ago in 1973. </p> <p dir="ltr">Back then, the weighty block of wires and circuits were only used to make calls, a far cry from having the world at your fingertips with smartphones today. </p> <p dir="ltr">Cooper believes that despite all the good that can come from modern technology, the world has become a little obsessed with smart devices. </p> <p dir="ltr">“I am devastated when I see somebody crossing the street and looking at their cell phone. They are out of their minds,” the 94-year-old told AFP from his office in Del Mar, California.</p> <p dir="ltr">“But after a few people get run over by cars, they’ll figure it out,” he joked.</p> <p dir="ltr">Mr Cooper also indulges in the latest gadgets, as he wears an Apple Watch and uses a top-end iPhone, flicking intuitively between his email, photos, YouTube and the controls for his hearing aid.</p> <p dir="ltr">Despite keeping up with all the latest apps, updates and upgrades, he confessed that sometimes it can all seem a little overwhelming. </p> <p dir="ltr">“I will never, ever understand how to use the cell phone the way my grandchildren and great grandchildren do,” he said.</p> <p dir="ltr">“Each generation is going to be smarter … they will learn how to use the cell phone more effectively,” he said.</p> <p dir="ltr">“Humans sooner or later figure it out.”</p> <p dir="ltr"><em>Image credits: Getty Images</em></p>

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Obsessive compulsive disorder is more common than you think. But it can take 9 years for an OCD diagnosis

<p>Obsessive compulsive disorder, or OCD, is a <a href="https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S2211364916301579">misunderstood </a>mental illness despite affecting <a href="https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/18725912">about one in 50 people</a> – that’s about half a million Australians.</p> <p>Our <a href="https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/00050067.2023.2189003">new research</a> shows how long and fraught the path to diagnosis and treatment can be. </p> <p>This initial study showed it takes an average of almost nine years to receive a diagnosis of OCD and about four months to get some form of help.</p> <h2>What is OCD?</h2> <p>OCD affects children, adolescents and adults. <a href="https://www.nature.com/articles/mp200894">About 60%</a> report symptoms before the age of 20.</p> <p>One misconception is that OCD is mild: someone who is extra tidy or likes cleaning. You might have even heard someone say they are “<a href="https://theconversation.com/you-cant-be-a-little-bit-ocd-but-your-everyday-obsessions-can-help-end-the-conditions-stigma-49265">a little bit OCD</a>” while joking about having beautiful stationery.</p> <p>But OCD is not enjoyable. Obsessions are highly distressing and there are repetitive, intrusive thoughts a person with OCD can’t control. They might believe, for instance, they or their loved ones are in grave danger. </p> <p><a href="https://iocdf.org/about-ocd/">Compulsions</a> are actions that temporarily alleviate, but ultimately exacerbate, this distress, such as checking the door is locked. People with OCD spend hours each day consumed by this cycle, instead of their normal activities, such as school, work or having a social life. </p> <p>It can also be very distressing for <a href="https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1586/ern.11.200">family members</a> who often end up completing rituals or providing excessive reassurance to the person with OCD.</p> <blockquote class="instagram-media" style="background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);" data-instgrm-permalink="https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cl7ElJqBg4f/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" data-instgrm-version="14"> <div style="padding: 16px;"> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 40px; margin-right: 14px; width: 40px;"> </div> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 100px;"> </div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 60px;"> </div> </div> </div> <div style="padding: 19% 0;"> </div> <div style="display: block; height: 50px; margin: 0 auto 12px; width: 50px;"> </div> <div style="padding-top: 8px;"> <div style="color: #3897f0; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 550; line-height: 18px;">View this post on Instagram</div> </div> <div style="padding: 12.5% 0;"> </div> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: row; margin-bottom: 14px; align-items: center;"> <div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; height: 12.5px; width: 12.5px; transform: translateX(0px) translateY(7px);"> </div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; height: 12.5px; transform: rotate(-45deg) translateX(3px) translateY(1px); width: 12.5px; flex-grow: 0; margin-right: 14px; margin-left: 2px;"> </div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; height: 12.5px; width: 12.5px; transform: translateX(9px) translateY(-18px);"> </div> </div> <div style="margin-left: 8px;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 20px; width: 20px;"> </div> <div style="width: 0; height: 0; border-top: 2px solid transparent; border-left: 6px solid #f4f4f4; border-bottom: 2px solid transparent; transform: translateX(16px) translateY(-4px) rotate(30deg);"> </div> </div> <div style="margin-left: auto;"> <div style="width: 0px; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-right: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(16px);"> </div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; flex-grow: 0; height: 12px; width: 16px; transform: translateY(-4px);"> </div> <div style="width: 0; height: 0; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-left: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(-4px) translateX(8px);"> </div> </div> </div> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center; margin-bottom: 24px;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 224px;"> </div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 144px;"> </div> </div> <p style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;"><a style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none;" href="https://www.instagram.com/reel/Cl7ElJqBg4f/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" target="_blank" rel="noopener">A post shared by ABC Health (@abchealth)</a></p> </div> </blockquote> <h2>How is it diagnosed?</h2> <p>People with OCD often don’t tell others about their disturbing thoughts or repetitive rituals. They often feel <a href="https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1002/%28SICI%291099-0879%28199905%296%3A2%3C80%3A%3AAID-CPP188%3E3.0.CO%3B2-C">ashamed or worried</a> that by telling someone their disturbing thoughts, they might become true.</p> <p>Doctors <a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK56470/#ch2">don’t always ask about</a> OCD symptoms when people first seek treatment. </p> <p>Both lead to delays getting correctly diagnosed.</p> <p>When people do feel comfortable talking about their OCD symptoms, a diagnosis might be made by a GP, psychologist or other health-care professional, such as a psychiatrist. </p> <p>Sometimes OCD can be <a href="https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10566-009-9092-8">tricky to differentiate</a> from other conditions, such as eating disorders, anxiety disorders or autism. </p> <p>Having an additional mental health diagnosis <a href="https://www.nature.com/articles/s41572-019-0102-3">is common</a> in people with OCD. In those cases, a health-care provider experienced in OCD is helpful. </p> <p>To diagnose OCD, the health professional asks people and/or their families questions about the presence of obsessions and/or compulsions, and how this impacts their life and family. </p> <h2>How is it treated?</h2> <p>After someone receives a diagnosis, it helps to learn more about OCD and what treatment involves. Great places to start are the <a href="https://iocdf.org/">International OCD Foundation</a> and <a href="https://www.ocduk.org/">OCD UK</a>. </p> <p>Next, they will need to find a health-care provider, usually a psychologist, who offers a special type of psychological therapy called “exposure and response prevention” or ERP.</p> <p>This is a type of <a href="https://theconversation.com/explainer-what-is-cognitive-behaviour-therapy-37351">cognitive-behavioural therapy</a> that is a <a href="https://doi.org/10.1016/j.jocrd.2021.100684">powerful, effective treatment</a> for OCD. It’s recommended people with OCD try this first.</p> <p>It involves therapists helping people to understand the cycle of OCD and how to break that cycle. They support people to deliberately enter anxiety-provoking situations while resisting completing a compulsion. </p> <p>Importantly, people and their ERP therapist <a href="https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/18005936/">decide together</a>what steps to take to truly tackle their fears. </p> <p>People with OCD learn new thoughts, for example, “germs don’t always lead to illness” rather than “germs are dangerous”.</p> <p>There are a range of medications that also <a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4967667/">effectively</a> <a href="https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/27663940/">treat</a> OCD. But more research is needed to know more about when a medication should be added. For most people these are best considered a “boost” to help ERP.</p> <h2>But not everything goes to plan</h2> <p>Delays in being diagnosed is only the start:</p> <ul> <li> <p>treatment is challenging to access. Only <a href="https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0887618518301038?via%3Dihub">30% of clinicians</a> in the United States offer ERP therapy. There is likely a similar situation in Australia</p> </li> <li> <p>many people receive therapies that appear credible, <a href="https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1111/cpsp.12337?casa_token=Wn3bgnvINSsAAAAA%3A2sqam0BKtCzFA680_f6ln4scp1SKVpN_cOB6Tg8vQyEiNDZPwS-Z-NNveLelKYF6iz4PFqQSXyHKZYJS">but lack evidence</a>, such as general cognitive therapy that is not tailored to the mechanisms maintaining OCD. Inappropriate treatments waste valuable time and effort that the person could use to recover. Ineffective treatments can make OCD symptoms worse</p> </li> <li> <p>even when someone receives first-line, evidence-based treatments, <a href="https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0005796722001413?via%3Dihub">about 40-60%</a> of people don’t get better</p> </li> <li> <p>there are no Australian clinical treatment guidelines, nor state or national clinical service plans for OCD. This makes it hard for health-care providers to know how to treat it</p> </li> <li> <p>there has been <a href="https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/00048674221125595">relatively little research funding</a> spent on OCD in the past ten years, compared with, for example, psychosis or dementia.</p> </li> </ul> <h2>What can we do?</h2> <p>Real change demands collaboration between health-care professionals, researchers, government, people with OCD and their families to advocate for proportionate funding for research and clinical services to:</p> <ul> <li> <p>deliver public health messaging to improve general knowledge about OCD and reduce the stigma so people feel more comfortable disclosing their worries</p> </li> <li> <p>upskill and support health professionals to speed up diagnosis so people can receive targeted early intervention</p> </li> <li> <p>support health-care professionals to offer evidence-based treatment for OCD, so more people can access these treatments</p> </li> <li> <p>develop state and national service plans and clinical guidelines. For example, the Australian government funds the <a href="https://nedc.com.au/">National Eating Disorders Collaboration</a> to develop and implement a nationally consistent approach to preventing and treating eating disorders</p> </li> <li> <p>research to discover new, and enhance existing, treatments. These include ones for people who don’t get better after “exposure and response prevention” therapy.</p> </li> </ul> <h2>What if I think I have OCD?</h2> <p>The most common barrier to getting help is not knowing who to see or where to go. Start with your GP: tell them you think you might have OCD and ask to discuss treatment options. These might include therapy and/or medication and a referral to a psychologist or psychiatrist.</p> <p>If you choose therapy, it’s important to find a clinician that offers specific and effective treatment for OCD. To help, we’ve started <a href="https://ocd.org.au/directory">a directory</a> of clinicians with a special interest in treating OCD. </p> <p>You <a href="https://iocdf.org/ocd-finding-help/how-to-find-the-right-therapist/#:%7E:text=Tips%20for%20Finding%20the%20Right%20Therapist&amp;text=Also%2C%20remember%20that%20some%20therapists,the%20phone%20or%20in%20person">can ask</a> any potential health professional if they offer “exposure and response prevention”. If they don’t, it’s a sign this isn’t their area of expertise. But you still can ask them if they know of a colleague who does. You might need to call around, so hang in there. Good treatment can be life changing.</p> <p><em>If this article has raised issues for you, or if you’re concerned about someone you know, call Lifeline on 13 11 14.</em></p> <p><em>Image credits: Getty Images</em></p> <p><em>This article originally appeared on <a href="https://theconversation.com/obsessive-compulsive-disorder-is-more-common-than-you-think-but-it-can-take-9-years-for-an-ocd-diagnosis-196651" target="_blank" rel="noopener">The Conversation</a>. </em></p>

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Bambi-obsessed mother given the ultimate surprise

<p>A woman has shared the heart-warming moment she gave her ill mother the ultimate surprise while she was in palliative care. </p><p>In a post to the popular Facebook group <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/515507852491119?multi_permalinks=940210780020822&amp;hoisted_section_header_type=recently_seen" target="_blank" rel="noopener">The Kindness Pandemic</a>, Lisa McDonald said she and her sister have been caring for their sick mother, who is a life-long fan of deer and the Disney film <em>Bambi</em>. </p><p>Lisa and her sister came up with the idea for a real-life Bambi to visit her in her palliative care homes and got in touch with a couple how owned a mobile petting farm. </p><p>The couple, Chris and Simone, travelled two and a half hours to Melbourne in order to surprise Lisa's mother with the adorable fawn, coincidentally called Bambi. </p><p>Lisa shared the tear-jerking video of her mother meeting Bambi, and becoming instantly besotted with the animal. </p><p></p><p>"She has Bambi statues everywhere, she is wearing a Bambi T-shirt in her bed and will be cremated in one too," Lisa wrote. </p><p>"My sister and I and the rest of the family that are supporting us are also wearing Bambi T-shirts... we are calling them our nursing uniforms."</p><p>Lisa contacted Simone and Chris after finding their business and arranged for them to bring Bambi to her mother's bedside the following day. </p><p>"However unfortunately mum deteriorated quickly today and Simone and Chris didn't hesitate... they drove two and a half hours to bring Bambi to meet mum," Lisa said.</p><p>"Out of pure love and kindness. I cannot thank them enough for what they have done for my mum and my family."</p><p>Lisa's post to the Facebook has been flooded with well-wishes after receiving over 17,000 likes. </p><p>"Brought me to tears. What a special and touching moment. Absolutely beautiful people to drive all that way for your mum to experience something so magical before she passes," one woman wrote.  </p><p>"This is so beautiful. She would have absolutely loved this so much. You can see it in her eyes how much joy it brought to her. Bless them, and bless you and your beautiful Mum," another said.</p><p>"I have tears streaming down my face. What a beautiful thing for you to arrange and have happen for your mum!!! She has certainly raised two beautiful daughters with such dedication," a third person said. </p><p><em>Image credits: Facebook - The Kindness Pandemic</em></p>

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Prince William and Kate reveal Charlotte and Louis' latest obsession

<p><span>Prince William and Duchess Kate are both fiercely protective parents over their three children, George, Charlotte and Louis.</span><br /><br /><span>However they do tend to share a few details about their adorable clan, and most recently they have revealed that Princess Charlotte has a new obsession.</span><br /><br /><span>At 5-years-old, it may come as no surprise that little Char has developed a new love for construction equipment.</span><br /><br /><span>While the proud parents spoke to employers helping people find jobs amid the coronavirus pandemic, they met Lloyd Graham, the community engagement manager for construction company Keltbray.</span><br /><br /><span>He told the royal couple the company is hiring workers and offering apprenticeships for demolition work.</span></p> <p><img style="width: 500px; height: 281.25px;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7837941/royal-kids-2.jpg" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/623ecfffa9814dfca18e481ede0fc8c9" /><br /><br /><span>"The children — especially Louis — would love to come and watch that, to see the diggers, they love it," Prince William said.</span><br /><br /><span>Kate, then jumped in adding: "Don't forget Charlotte! She'd love it too."</span><br /><br /><span>Prince William previously revealed their two-year-old son is also a big fan of tractors.</span><br /><br /><span>"We've been lambing with the children this week," the 38-year-old admitted after the Wales vs France Six Nations Match in February.</span><br /><br /><span>"Charlotte wasn't sure at first, but George was straight in there. Louis loves the tractors. They love seeing the lambs and feeding the lambs."</span></p>

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Prince William reveals Princess Charlotte’s latest obsession

<p>As the British royal family is in the spotlight, it can be easy to forget that they are just normal people.</p> <p>This is especially the case for young four-year-old Princess Charlotte.</p> <p>However, her father, Prince William, has brought everyone back down to earth with a very sweet confession about what his daughter is obsessed with.</p> <p>William took part in an art therapy session whilst visiting Harcombe House in Devon on Monday as it was Emergency Services Day in the UK.</p> <p>It was as he walked past a collection of artworks made by local firefighter’s children that he saw something that reminded him of his daughter.</p> <p>There was an artwork of a unicorn, that was made with colourful balls.</p> <p>"My daughter loves unicorns," he revealed to the group taking part in the art therapy session.</p> <p>"Loves them. Very cool."</p> <p>Princess Charlotte has also shown her fondness for unicorns with a sweet keyring attached to her school bag as she heads off to “big school” at Thomas’ Battersea school.</p> <blockquote style="background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);" class="instagram-media" data-instgrm-captioned="" data-instgrm-permalink="https://www.instagram.com/p/B2BgKtVo9fp/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" data-instgrm-version="12"> <div style="padding: 16px;"> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 40px; margin-right: 14px; width: 40px;"></div> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 100px;"></div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 60px;"></div> </div> </div> <div style="padding: 19% 0;"></div> <div style="display: block; height: 50px; margin: 0 auto 12px; width: 50px;"></div> <div style="padding-top: 8px;"> <div style="color: #3897f0; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 550; line-height: 18px;">View this post on Instagram</div> </div> <p style="margin: 8px 0 0 0; padding: 0 4px;"><a style="color: #000; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none; word-wrap: break-word;" rel="noopener" href="https://www.instagram.com/p/B2BgKtVo9fp/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" target="_blank">#NEW First day of school for Charlotte, I love them so much #williamofcambridge #katemkddleton #georgeofcambridge #charlotteofcambridge #ilovethem #thebest ❤❤💕</a></p> <p style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;">A post shared by <a style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px;" rel="noopener" href="https://www.instagram.com/_princess__charlotte/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" target="_blank"> Princess Charlotte</a> (@_princess__charlotte) on Sep 5, 2019 at 1:51am PDT</p> </div> </blockquote> <p>The keyring is made out of sequins and is the perfect addition to her bag as she heads off into kindergarten.</p> <p>Charlotte was also seen carrying a cute unicorn purse at the King Power Royal Charity Polo Day.</p> <blockquote style="background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);" class="instagram-media" data-instgrm-captioned="" data-instgrm-permalink="https://www.instagram.com/p/B0QdOkcojk8/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" data-instgrm-version="12"> <div style="padding: 16px;"> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 40px; margin-right: 14px; width: 40px;"></div> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 100px;"></div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 60px;"></div> </div> </div> <div style="padding: 19% 0;"></div> <div style="display: block; height: 50px; margin: 0 auto 12px; width: 50px;"></div> <div style="padding-top: 8px;"> <div style="color: #3897f0; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 550; line-height: 18px;">View this post on Instagram</div> </div> <p style="margin: 8px 0 0 0; padding: 0 4px;"><a style="color: #000; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none; word-wrap: break-word;" rel="noopener" href="https://www.instagram.com/p/B0QdOkcojk8/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" target="_blank">Little lady #princesscharlotte #princessofcambridge #charlotteofcambridge #charlotteelizabethdiana #littlelady #mylove #myprincess #mysunshine #cutie #loveu #princessofhearts #favouriteprincess #thesweetest #mygirl 💜🌹</a></p> <p style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;">A post shared by <a style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px;" rel="noopener" href="https://www.instagram.com/_princess__charlotte/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" target="_blank"> Princess Charlotte</a> (@_princess__charlotte) on Jul 23, 2019 at 4:11am PDT</p> </div> </blockquote>

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Japan’s obsession with cute

<p>Sitting on a wooden stool in a tiny ten-seat restaurant facing an alleyway in Omoide Yokocho, on the edge of busy Shinjuku Station in Tokyo I am immersed in people-watching.</p> <p>It’s early evening and crowds are everywhere. I’m so fascinated by the scene outside that despite the beauty of the elegantly arranged plate of tuna sashimi I just ordered, I can’t take my eyes off the commuters who squeeze past each other on their way to homeward-bound trains.</p> <p>Many are salarymen, mid-tier white-collar office workers.</p> <p>They rush past in well-cut business suits and ties – expressionless and almost all clutching briefcases.</p> <p>These briefcases fascinate me.</p> <p>I find myself wondering whether – wedged between business papers – there are quirky obento lunch boxes or other examples of a peculiarly Japanese obsession: a love of kawaii, which means ‘cute’.</p> <p>Kawaii brings a smile to the face of even the most serious-looking salaryman.</p> <p><strong>Kawaii is everywhere</strong></p> <p>On the window near where I’m sitting is a large decal of Hello Kitty, a twinkling-eyed white kitten.</p> <p>Trains thunder by – but a picture of this ubiquitous cartoon character, the most widely seen Japanese cutie, grabs my attention.</p> <p>The kawaii Hello Kitty is plastered everywhere – from beer bottles and Visa credit cards to vending machines and tourist buses.</p> <p>She’s worn on clothing and handbags, appears on the logos of fast food outlets, on stationery, street signs and advertisements.</p> <p>In fact, it’s hard to walk down a street in a Japanese city and not see Hello Kitty’s friendly face.</p> <p>Even here, in Omoide Yokocho, or ‘Memory Lane’, famous for its 60 bars and eateries, among the speciality dishes and the seemingly endless serves of draft beer, sake (rice wine) and green tea, there’s still a place for the Queen of Cute.</p> <p>So how, I have to wonder, does this cute white kitten fit into this very grown-up environment?</p> <p>With her particularly Japanese sense of kawaii, Hello Kitty enjoys global celebrity status.</p> <blockquote style="background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);" class="instagram-media" data-instgrm-permalink="https://www.instagram.com/p/BtOKk9Znfl7/" data-instgrm-version="12"> <div style="padding: 16px;"> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 40px; margin-right: 14px; width: 40px;"></div> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 100px;"></div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 60px;"></div> </div> </div> <div style="padding: 19% 0;"></div> <div style="display: block; height: 50px; margin: 0 auto 12px; width: 50px;"></div> <div style="padding-top: 8px;"> <div style="color: #3897f0; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 550; line-height: 18px;">View this post on Instagram</div> </div> <p style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;"><a style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none;" rel="noopener" href="https://www.instagram.com/p/BtOKk9Znfl7/" target="_blank">A post shared by Toy Fan (@toys_n_stuff)</a> on Jan 29, 2019 at 6:10am PST</p> </div> </blockquote> <p>Products with Hello Kitty’s image are sold internationally.</p> <p>Purses, pens and sweaters are particularly popular.</p> <p>A Hello Kitty-themed café thrives in the London suburb of Soho.</p> <p>In Taiwan, EVA Airlines has a specially commissioned Hello Kitty plane, there are Hello Kitty theme parks in Johor, Malaysia; Zhejiang Province in China; as well as in Tama, a city west of Tokyo.</p> <p>Hello Kitty also stars in themed restaurants across Asia: a yum cha restaurant in Hong Kong, a café in Changi Airport in Singapore and in downtown Seoul, South Korea.</p> <p>More predictably, there’s also a Hello Kitty teahouse in Japan’s ancient capital, Kyoto.</p> <p><strong>Good morning, kitty</strong></p> <p>The reason I’m sampling the tastes of this part of Shinjuku is that it’s only five minutes walk from where I’m staying: the Keio Plaza Hotel, a 47-storey, five-star hotel that was Tokyo’s tallest building and Japan’s first high-rise hotel when it opened back in 1971.</p> <p>Today, I discovered, the hotel offers a unique experience: among its 1450 rooms are eight Hello Kitty-themed rooms. Checking them out is one reason I picked this hotel.</p> <p>So, the next morning, I meet Sunaho Nakatani, the hotel’s public relations manager, and together we take the lift to the 23rd floor. The doors open to reveal a pastel-coloured corridor, with mostly plain brown doors on both sides.</p> <p>It could be a hotel corridor anywhere, I start to think, until Nakatani stops in front of a door with a small pink bow sitting neatly above the peephole. Here is the first clue of what lies inside.</p> <p>We then step inside the room and into a scene of a high-energy cartoon strip. Wallpaper screams of cheerful images of Hello Kitty and her similarly kawaii friends and family.</p> <p>While the bed and side tables are reminiscent of what you find in ‘normal’ hotel rooms, the giant hot-pink plush stiletto shoe that doubles as a chair takes me by surprise.</p> <p>From the huge pink roses embellished on the carpet, to the enormous pink bow cushion on the window seat, this is a room in which any 12-year-old girl would feel right at home.</p> <p>In this 25-square-metre room, Hello Kitty’s favourite pink bows, roses and love hearts abound.</p> <p>Even complimentary water bottles are graced with her joyful face.</p> <p><strong>Science of kawaii</strong></p> <p>The lovable character was created in 1974 by the then little-known marketing company called Sanrio.</p> <p>It was designed by Yuko Shimizu, a 28-year-old graphic artist employed by the company.</p> <p>Shimizu left Sanrio two years later to get married and did not make much money from her design.</p> <p>Today, Sanrio’s Hello Kitty design team is headed by Yuko Yamaguchi, a flamboyant designer and illustrator who enjoys a cult following in Japan.</p> <p>Essentially, Hello Kitty is a cat with human attributes.</p> <p>She is based on the local cat breed, the Japanese bobtail, but has no mouth, is always cheerful and helpful and proudly wears a bow in her fur. Her one purpose is to be adorable.</p> <p>The character appears in the media – and on more than 50,000 franchised products ranging from backpacks to bath towels, pens to mugs, tea towels to clothing lines, nail polish to lipstick.</p> <p>In 2014, the Hello Kitty brand was worth US$7 billion a year to Sanrio, from licensing the rights to use her image to other companies.</p> <p>In 2014, the management of Keio Plaza felt it was time they shared in Hello Kitty’s kawaii appeal and profit-making potential.</p> <p>“The Keio Plaza’s Hello Kitty rooms were dreamed up to appeal mostly to Japanese [guests],” says Nakatani.</p> <p>“But we’ve been surprised by the strong appeal to foreigners who are aware of Hello Kitty and kawaii. After all, Hello Kitty items are among the most popular souvenirs foreigners take home after visiting Japan.”</p> <p>While Hello Kitty is the most commonly seen kawaii character, there are many others. Among Sanrio’s creationsare Bad Badtz-Maru, a spiky-haired penguin; a cat called Charmmy Kitty; a brown puppy named Chibimaru; and Chococat, a black cat with a chocolate coloured nose.</p> <p><strong>Where cartoons come alive</strong></p> <p>Nowhere is it easier to observe the Japanese fascination with cute than beneath Tokyo Station in Tokyo Character Street, one of many walkways leading to the main concourse.</p> <p>The street is lined with more than 20 shops, each devoted to a kawaii character or group.</p> <p>Some kawaii characters are Western, some Japanese. The boutiques on Tokyo Character Street are devoted to kawaii merchandise.</p> <p>Snoopy, Pokémon as well as Moomin, created by Finnish illustrator and writer Tove Jansson, are well represented.</p> <p>Along the street, shoppers abound, ranging from parents with toddlers to high school kids, adult couples and men who discreetly pop purchases – gifts, I assume – into briefcases.</p> <p>The more discerning kawaii shopper must visit the Harajuku district of Tokyo, a quick train ride from Shinjuku on the Yamanote line.</p> <p>This part of Tokyo is best known for the groups of girls who dress up extravagantly and parade in groups.</p> <p>Essentially, it’s a form of fancy dress on parade, featuring intricately designed and elaborately sewn dresses worn by very heavily made-up young women in their late teens or early 20s.</p> <p>Their boyfriends, mostly in black jeans and T-shirts, remain in the background, shunning the limelight.</p> <p>They watch as armies of camera-toting tourists admire their creations and their girlfriends.</p> <p>Known as Harajuku Girls, their clothing is dictated by their subgroups.</p> <p>‘Gothic Lolita’ girls go for elegant Victorian-era children’s dresses coupled with heavy make-up, while the ‘Sweet Lolita’ group don pastelcoloured children’s dresses.</p> <p>Then there are Japanese punks and the ‘cosplay’ (from ‘costume play’) subgroup who dress like cartoon, anime or computer-game characters.</p> <p>Generally the Harajuku Girls and their boyfriends are polite to foreigners and pose for pictures – parading is part of the appeal.</p> <p>Harajuku is known as an inexpensive area for trend fashion shopping. One group of shops stocks exclusively red clothing for both sexes. The colour, a fellow shopper explains, is “cute”. I might have guessed.</p> <p><strong>Love of kawaii will never die</strong></p> <p>Back in Omoide Yokocho on my final night in Tokyo, I find myself in a restaurant once again gazing at passing briefcases.</p> <p>Only this time, it’s with a different eye.</p> <p>Were I lucky enough to see inside one, I wouldn’t be at all surprised to find an obento lunchbox with a pair of Hello Kitty chopsticks.</p> <p>If those kids back in Harajuku have taught me anything, it’s that kawaii is a part of the Japanese psyche.</p> <p>In a decade or so, I can picture today’s Harajuku Girls being replaced by younger kawaii teens, while their boyfriends will become briefcase-carrying salarymen.</p> <p>Love of kawaii will endure, I tell myself, even if hidden away in many a passing briefcase.</p> <p><em>Written by Chris Pritchard. Republished with permission of </em><a href="https://www.mydiscoveries.com.au/stories/kawaii-japans-culture-obsession-with-cute-20b862a3-4a33-464b-848e-bad010f57969/"><em>MyDiscoveries</em></a><em>. </em></p>

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Obsessed with property! Ellen DeGeneres buys $66 million Beverly Hills mansion

<p>Ellen DeGeneres and Portia de Rossi have opened their colossal cheque book again to buy Adam Levine’s $66 million mansion.</p> <p>The Maroon 5 singer and his Victoria Secret model wife Behati Prinsloo lived in the home for just one year before offloading the Beverly Hills mansion in LA.</p> <p>The sprawling 10,376 square foot home is a five-bedroom, 12-bathroom property and seems to be the perfect addition to DeGeneres’ growing collection of pricy real estate.</p> <p>Levine reportedly sank $11.5 million into upgrading the home during the 12 months he owned it.</p> <blockquote style="background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);" class="instagram-media" data-instgrm-captioned="" data-instgrm-permalink="https://www.instagram.com/p/BwnnqX9gVOs/" data-instgrm-version="12"> <div style="padding: 16px;"> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 40px; margin-right: 14px; width: 40px;"></div> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 100px;"></div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 60px;"></div> </div> </div> <div style="padding: 19% 0;"></div> <div style="display: block; height: 50px; margin: 0 auto 12px; width: 50px;"></div> <div style="padding-top: 8px;"> <div style="color: #3897f0; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 550; line-height: 18px;">View this post on Instagram</div> </div> <p style="margin: 8px 0 0 0; padding: 0 4px;"><a style="color: #000; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none; word-wrap: break-word;" rel="noopener" href="https://www.instagram.com/p/BwnnqX9gVOs/" target="_blank">Here we go! 💪 Who's ready to stare down these #VoiceCrossBattles results? 😏</a></p> <p style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;">A post shared by <a style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px;" rel="noopener" href="https://www.instagram.com/nbcthevoice/" target="_blank"> NBC's The Voice</a> (@nbcthevoice) on Apr 23, 2019 at 6:00pm PDT</p> </div> </blockquote> <p>It’s unsure what DeGeneres and de Rossi plan on doing with the mansion, but the final deal was just a couple of million short of Levine's $68.3 million asking price. It was well above the $48 million the Maroon 5 frontman and<span> </span><em>The Voice USA</em> judge paid for the home.</p> <p>The property was built in 1933 in the traditional American vernacular style of the time and the three-storey home has crown moulding in many of the common living areas on the first floor.</p> <p>There are also multiple areas for lounging in the backyard around the in-ground pool.</p> <p>Scroll through the gallery above to take a tour inside the $66 million Beverly Hills mansion.</p> <p><em>Photo credits: <a rel="noopener" href="https://www.mansionglobal.com/articles/adam-levine-sells-45-million-beverly-hills-mansion-in-five-weeks-203346" target="_blank">Mansion Global</a> </em></p>

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Obsessed much? Celine Dion stores 10,000 pairs of shoes in Las Vegas warehouse

<p>Most people usually have a few pairs of shoes. Some for going out and some for everyday wear. But if you’re Celine Dion then you’re most likely going to need an entire warehouse to store all of your footwear.</p> <p>The singer, who has a residency at Las Vegas’ Caesar’s Palace, let James Corden in on her obsession with shoes during a <em>Carpool Karaoke</em> segment last week.</p> <p>When originally asked the question, Celine admitted to owning 3000-5000 pairs of shoes, but after a bit more heckling, she finally gave away the correct number.</p> <p>Corden went on to say that he had heard a rumour of the performer owning up to 10,000 pairs of shoes, to which Celine said was possible.</p> <p>“Maybe. I didn’t want to say it,” she admitted.</p> <p>But the question on everyone’s minds was: Where does someone with that many pairs of shoes possibly keep them?</p> <p>“I have a place in Las Vegas … let’s call it a warehouse,” revealed the 51-year-old.</p> <p>And while having a separate property just for shoes seems extravagant, Dion went on to explain that her former home in Florida had an entirely computerised system to help categorise her shoes.</p> <p>“I had a system, it was computerised, and I would press, and the door would open,” she revealed.</p> <p>“I would press another button and they would turn.”</p> <p>She said that the shoes were colour coordinated to make it easier for her to pick and choose between them.</p> <p>The chosen pair of shoes would then be presented on a thick glass counter, filled with crushed diamonds – but while it seems over-the-top, it isn’t as lavish as you may think.</p> <p>“Not real diamonds, just to make sure that you don’t think that I’m loco,” Dion said.</p> <p>In 2017, the <em>My Heart Will Go On </em>singer spoke to<em> <a rel="noopener" href="https://wwd.com/" target="_blank">WWD</a> </em>about her hoarding habits, saying she finds it difficult to throw things away as they hold sentimental value.</p> <p>“They’re part of every step that I take, and I have an attachment to it,” she told the publication.</p> <p>But during the hilarious <em>Carpool Karaoke</em> segment, Dion didn’t seem to have a choice as she was forced to part ways with her favourite pairs of shoes by giving them away to strangers along the Las Vegas strip.</p> <p>Despite being reluctant, Dion managed to give a few pairs away to lucky walkers-by. But while it seemed to be in good fun, it doesn’t look like the performer will be downsizing her collection anytime soon.  </p>

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Prince George has a new obsession and he cannot stop talking about it

<p>The innocence and inquisitive nature of a child is something we all wish we still had, and Prince George has proven that while he may be the future King, he’s no different to any other five-year-old.</p> <p>During a visit to the Acorn Children’s Hospice on Tuesday, Prince William told a group of children about little George’s new obsession, because the kids were taking part in an activity based around it.</p> <p>The children in the room were making and painting dinosaurs, so Prince William told them: “George is obsessed with dinosaurs. We’ve been learning all about them.”</p> <p>William may be busy with his royal duties, but the Prince still manages to find time for his children, proving his devotion to his kids. Speaking previously about his daughter, Princess Charlotte, he revealed that she is “obsessed” with fashion, “mad about pink” and “loves dancing".</p> <p>The Duke of Cambridge has also shared a personal insight into his own life, as he revealed his and Duchess Kate’s favourite food is sushi.</p> <p>After a Japanese chef gifted the royal a Bento Box, William responded by saying: “Thank you very much. My wife and I love sushi. We might have to come down here for lunch when no one else is in.”</p> <p>William’s visit to the Acorn Children’s Hospice was one that remains close to his heart, as his late mother Princess Diana opened it.</p> <p><a rel="noopener" href="https://www.hellomagazine.com/royalty/2018091862477/prince-george-teaching-prince-william-kate-middleton-about-dinosaurs/" target="_blank"><em>Hello!</em></a> reported the hospice’s President Kay Alexander shared a few touching words dedicated to Diana and her involvement with the hospice, telling the audience she was “going to get tearful".</p> <p>William replied: “Don’t, you’ll start me off as well.”</p> <p>Kay had nothing but kind words to say about the Duke as she praised his caring nature.</p> <p>“The fact that he can come round like that and just chat to anyone is the biggest, best thing that could happen to those parents. He is a star.”</p>

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The new baby name trend parents are obsessed with – is it the craziest yet?

<p>Choosing baby names is no easy feat. Generally, parents must come to a mutual agreement on what to name their child, and then there are factors such as spelling, pronunciation and whether it suits the surname to consider. But amongst the millennial generation, there is now a major deciding factor added to the mix, and that’s if the name has an available domain (website) name.</p> <p>While you may be left confused and wondering who in their right mind would worry about something so trivial, a new survey of 2000 mums and dads who are millennial age have claimed that having an available domain name for their child is crucial when choosing their child’s name.</p> <p>According to research, which was conducted by <em><a rel="noopener" href="https://au.godaddy.com/" target="_blank">GoDaddy</a></em> – a web hosting and domain registration company – one in five (20 per cent) of millennial parents have said that they would choose their baby's name in accordance to what domain names were available at the time.</p> <p>Out of that 20 per cent, three in four people had actually “changed the top contenders for their baby’s name based on the availability of that domain name".</p> <p>Further studies revealed that there is a difference in mentalities between Generation X and millennials. With 48 per cent of millennials wanting their child to build an online presence early in their lifetime compared to only 27 per cent of Gen X who shared the same sentiments.</p> <p>Amongst the millennials, 38 per cent claimed that they’ve created or are considering creating a website for their kids, which is a greater amount than the 20 per cent of Gen X who felt the same.</p> <p><strong>Top 3 reasons why parents purchased their child’s domain name before birth:</strong></p> <ul> <li>Wanted to reserve a name for future use – 45 per cent</li> <li>To use as a digital baby book – 42 per cent</li> <li>To use as a tool to teach kids how to use the internet – 42 per cent</li> </ul> <p><strong>Top 3 reasons parents plan to purchase domain names in the future:</strong></p> <ul> <li>To reserve their name for future use – 54 per cent</li> <li>To use as a tool to teach kids how to use the internet – 46 per cent</li> <li>Think it’s important for their child to own their name online – 41 per cent</li> </ul> <p>Do you think this is the craziest baby name trend yet? Let us know in the comments below.</p>

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Prince William reveals: “George thinks I’m cool and Charlotte is fashion obsessed!”

<p>The Duke of Cambridge, Prince William, who celebrated his 36<sup>th</sup> birthday on June 21, has shared the sweetest new anecdotes about his two eldest children, Prince George and Princess Charlotte.</p> <p>Attending the official handover of the newly built Defence and National Rehabilitation Centre (DNRC) in Nottinghamshire in the UK on his birthday, the proud dad explained that four-year-old George thinks he has a cool dad, after seeing him at work on the building site.</p> <p>He joked that his “street cred” skyrocketed after his first-born son saw his dad behind the wheel of a digger during construction of the rebab centre in 2017.</p> <p><img width="399" height="557" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7819336/screen-shot-2018-06-22-at-44024-pm.png" alt="Screen Shot 2018-06-22 At 4.40.24 Pm"/></p> <p>“George was very envious as I got to drive a digger… When completed next year, the DNRC will be a world leading centre for rehabilitation. It will provide pioneering treatments,” Prince William said during his official speech about the new centre, which he will be patron of, and will provide rehabilitation facilities for members of the Armed Forces who have suffered injury or trauma during their service.</p> <p>Although it was William’s birthday on the day of the event, and royals have permission to be excused from attending official engagements on their special day, the kind-hearted prince broke with tradition to attend the unveiling.</p> <p>Prince Harry has previously revealed that his nephew has a soft spot for anything with wheels.</p> <p>“I can always hear the wheels of those plastic tractors that George loves playing,” Harry said.</p> <p><img width="444" height="556" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7819338/screen-shot-2018-06-22-at-44157-pm.png" alt="Screen Shot 2018-06-22 At 4.41.57 Pm (1)"/></p> <p>When it comes to 3-year-old Charlotte, Prince William revealed that she is taking after her stylish mother and is obsessed with fashion.</p> <p>Attending another event on Tuesday earlier in the week in Liverpool, the Duke was gifted a pink satchel for his daughter, which was embossed with her name – with the design of the bag aptly dubbed ‘Mini-Windsor’.</p> <p>Thanking the makers of the bag, Keith and Gail Hanshaw of Liverpool Echo, Prince William gushed, “Charlotte will be obsessed with that – I’ll never be able to get it off her.”</p>

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Donald Trump’s secret food obsession revealed

<p><span>There was already speculation that Donald Trump had a love for fast food, but now the President of the United States’ unhealthy diet obsession has been revealed.</span></p> <p><span>According to the </span><em><span>New York Times</span></em><span>, insiders have claimed that Trump consumes 12 cans of Diet Coke a day.</span></p> <p><span>Reportedly, the president has a big red button in his office which allows him to summon staff to bring him his lunch or Diet Cokes.</span></p> <p><span>The button is believed to sit on a wooden box on the Oval Office Resolute Desk and was there during Barack Obama’s presidency.</span></p> <p><span>In September, the </span><em><span>Chicago Tribune</span></em><span> said Trump eats “like a teenage boy” consuming large amounts of fast food.</span></p> <p><span>When Trump won the Republican presidential nomination, he celebrated with a Big Mac meal.</span></p> <p style="text-align: center;"><span><img width="500" height="500" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7265565/1_500x500.jpg" alt="1 (55)"/></span></p> <p><span>It was revealed that Trump doesn’t usually have breakfast, but opts for cornflakes or bacon and eggs if he does eat.</span></p> <p><span>An insider also told the </span><em><span>New York Times</span></em><span> that the president usually keeps the TV on mute in the background to keep up-to-date with what’s going on in the media.</span></p> <p><span>“People close to him estimate that Mr. Trump spends at least four hours a day, and sometimes as much as twice that, in front of a television, sometimes with the volume muted, marinating in the no-holds-barred wars of cable news and eager to fire back,” the article said.</span></p> <p><span>Do you share the same obsession? Let us know in the comments below. </span></p>

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Duchess of Cambridge reveals George and Charlotte’s new obsession

<p>The Duchess of Cambridge proved she wasn’t afraid of getting a little dirty when she visited a farm in Gloucestershire yesterday. Kate met inner-city children from Vauxhall Primary School, who were enjoying the Wick Court farm as part of the Farms for City Children project.</p> <p>Chatting to the schoolkids, the young royal revealed she and Prince William have assembled quite the menagerie at their home in Norfolk, including their dog, Lupo, a hamster named Marvin, a lamb, plus Prince George and Princess Charlotte’s latest obsession, chickens.</p> <p>“She has got several Cuckoo Marans at home, she told me,” 50-year-old stockman Dave Evansoneya told reporters. “She says she had cleaned out a few chicken sheds in her time!</p> <p>“She told me and the children that she has an incubator of eggs at home at the moment with a hope that they are going to hatch into chicks. Her children are very excited.”</p> <p>“The incubator is relatively new and she doesn’t know if it is going to work,” school teacher Nicole Preston added. “She says it takes 21 days but George and Charlotte are so excited that they come down each morning and peer inside to see if anything has happened!”</p> <p>Kate certainly wasn’t afraid to get up close to the farm animals, feeding an adorable lamb named Stinky and showed natural talent when she helped weigh some pigs. “She was pushing the pig’s bum with her bare hands,” teacher Edison David said. “It was just to move the pig along. It was second nature to her.”</p> <p>The Duchess also revealed she’s currently teaching the children Spanish, with George already able to count to 10. We can tell already these are going to be two clever kids!</p> <p>Flip through the gallery above to see all the sweet snaps from Kate’s day out.</p>

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Why our obsession with choice is so unhealthy

<p>As modern individuals, the desire to choose our own paths is undoubtedly strong. Children these days are growing up with more options than ever before, and even as we enter our 60s and beyond, there’s an increasing number of opportunities available to us. But when does our obsession with choice become a bad thing?</p> <p>In this fascinating <a href="https://www.ted.com/talks/renata_salecl_our_unhealthy_obsession_with_choice"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">TED Talk</span></strong></a>, sociologist and philosopher Renata Salecl ponders, is our expectation of having a myriad of options in our daily lives distracting us from the bigger picture?</p> <p>Watch the talk above and share your thoughts in the comment section below.</p> <p><em>Video: TED</em></p> <p><strong>Related links:</strong></p> <p><a href="http://www.oversixty.co.nz/health/mind/2017/02/secrets-to-a-more-joyful-existence/"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong>Secrets to a more joyful existence</strong></em></span></a></p> <p><a href="http://www.oversixty.co.nz/health/mind/2017/02/the-different-types-of-lies-we-all-tell/"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong>The different types of lies we all tell</strong></em></span></a></p> <p><a href="http://www.oversixty.co.nz/health/mind/2017/02/signs-you-are-ready-for-a-big-change/"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong>4 signs you’re ready for a big change</strong></em></span></a></p>

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Daughters surprise monster truck-obsessed mum with high-octane adventure

<p>A US grandmother with a passion for monster trucks has had the experience of a lifetime, after her daughters teamed up with the <a href="http://www.today.com/news/want-me-do-some-wheelies-watch-grandma-crush-cars-during-t102421" target="_blank"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">TODAY</span></strong></a> show to show their appreciation for their loving mother with an adrenaline-fuelled adventure.</p> <p>“She is constantly thinking of things she can do for everyone else around her instead of herself,” Kelly said of her mother Sheryl. So, along with sisters Erin, Meredith and a little help from the TODAY show as part of a bucket list segment, she planned a high-octane surprise to show her appreciation.</p> <p>“My mom has a love of monster trucks!” Erin said. “We're not sure where that love came from.”</p> <p>“I know you have a lot of things on your bucket list,” host Hoda Kotb said. “We don't have them all, but we might have one!”</p> <p>Take a look at her thrilling experience in the video above, it’ll certainly put a smile on your face! Tell us in the comments, what’s the best present you’ve ever received?</p> <p><strong>Related links:</strong></p> <p><a href="/news/news/2016/09/couple-still-in-love-after-85-years-together/"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em>Couple who fell in love at the age of nine still together 85 years later</em></span></strong></a></p> <p><a href="/news/news/2016/09/sisters-organise-wedding-shoot-with-father/"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong>Single sisters organise wedding photoshoot for father with Alzheimer’s</strong></em></span></a></p> <p><a href="/news/news/2016/09/grandpas-hilarious-commercial-bloopers/"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><em>Grandpa’s hilarious commercial bloopers</em></strong></span></a></p>

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