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Readers Respond: What is the worst gift you’ve ever received?

<p dir="ltr">When it comes to gifts you think the other person put a lot of thought into it. </p> <p dir="ltr">But what about those gifts that you open and think “what on earth is this?” Makes you wonder why they even bought it for you in the first place – or could it even be some form of regift? </p> <p dir="ltr">It got us thinking in the office about some of the worst gifts we’ve received – and they are quite embarrassing, from a set of earrings that sparked an allergic reaction, to receiving a DVD of a wildlife/penguin movie that came free in the Sunday paper. </p> <p dir="ltr">So we decided to ask our readers what is the worst gift they’ve received and the answers are SHOCKING.</p> <p dir="ltr">Check them out below. </p> <p dir="ltr">Debbie Van Den Dungen - Face cream that was 18 years past its use by date. I kid you not.</p> <p dir="ltr">Rory Oldman - I gave my mother a Led Zeppelin album, she played it every day till I was sick of hearing it, just to make a point!</p> <p dir="ltr">Kay Jeffery - Disappointingly, a wedding gift from the people we had given it to six weeks prior to our wedding. I recognised the small tear in one corner of the box it came in. Only I knew the tear in the box was there.</p> <p dir="ltr">Lyn Colefax - One Christmas, my ex-husband presented me with a set of eight vinyl records of Monty Python, taped them, then returned them for a refund. Kid you not.</p> <p dir="ltr">Susan Kingston Shelley - Hubby gave me a cooking appliance for Christmas many years ago which I just pushed aside in disgust….my young sons said “didn’t you like the present from Daddy?”. I asked them if they would like text books for Christmas, they got the idea.</p> <p dir="ltr">Laura Plummer - Popcorn maker from my husband I do not like popcorn but he loved it.</p> <p dir="ltr">Heather Gem - I got regifted wine glasses that had obviously sat in someone's kitchen for years as they had a layer of grease on the box.</p> <p dir="ltr">Gay Sharran Gold - My paternal grandmother would give us one of her cracked plates or cup and saucer every year. I suppose it was better than throwing them in the garbage bin! My sister and I have both laughed about it.</p> <p dir="ltr">John Tymmons - My wife received a bed jacket on unwrapping and found a ticket “ this is your free gift for spending more than $40”. </p> <p dir="ltr">Share your worst gift <a href="https://www.facebook.com/oversixtyNZ/posts/pfbid02UrBSLsmtkwg5hyqCZiSi1ns3UuNAzeLDZDNUdh1cTX3VzzcB96BV9qzp8b4qazG9l" target="_blank" rel="noopener">here</a>.</p> <p dir="ltr"><em>Image: Shutterstock</em></p>

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The guide to regifting

<p>We all have that dilemma of unwanted gifts. Perhaps the item isn’t to your taste, or you simply have no use for it. When this happens, finding the present a new home instead of letting it gather dust in your home sounds sensible – but the idea of giving a gift that you received from somebody else can indeed feel wrong and inconsiderate.</p> <p>There are a few etiquette rules that you should consider when it comes to regifting. Here are some things to take into account before you upcycle your gifts.</p> <p><strong>Failsafes and no-gos</strong></p> <p>Some items are generally good to repurpose, while others should never be regifted. Wine, liquor, gift cards and generic gift baskets that are still in their packaging would be appropriate.</p> <p>On the other hand, stray away from regifting anything that is handmade (including food), sentimental, monogrammed or high-end – these gifts likely take a lot of time and effort on the part of the giver.</p> <p>Receiving expensive luxury gifts can feel quite uncomfortable, as it puts pressure on you to return the favour in some ways. However, instead of passing them on to somebody else, it would be more respectful to return it with a polite admission.</p> <p><strong>Basic principles</strong></p> <p>Regift outside of the circle who gave it to you to avoid hurt feelings and misunderstandings.</p> <p>Try to understand the intentions behind the present for a thoughtful regifting – for example, that succulent pot you got from a colleague might thrive better under the care of your plant-loving sister.</p> <p>If you receive something that is not in your size – clothes, shoes, jewellery – it might be a better idea to talk to the giver and see if the item could be exchanged.</p> <p>Take out all the evidence that the gift was once given to you – these include notes, cards and marked gift bags. Rewrap the gift as a courtesy, as well as to add a personal touch.</p> <p>In most situations, only brand-new items should be regifted. Anything broken, worn down or noticeably used are usually out of the question. Some items – such as rare books or historical heirlooms – could pass an exception, depending on the intended receiver, but always err on caution’s side when in doubt.</p> <p>When you’re caught recycling a gift, simply be honest and reiterate how the item can benefit another person more.</p> <p>Have you ever regifted a present? Let us know in the comments.</p>

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