Placeholder Content Image

“Don’t touch the bag”: Former Obama staff member reprimanded by Queen’s aid

<p>Barack Obama’s former Chief of Protocol has revealed the extreme lengths Queen’s staff go to in order to protect her privacy.</p> <p>Capricia Penavic Marshall worked for former President Obama from 2009 to 2013 and her role meant she advised him on all matters of national and international diplomatic protocol.</p> <p>She also recalled to <strong><em><a rel="noopener" href="https://people.com/politics/capricia-penavic-marshall-new-book-remembers-trying-take-queen-elizabeth-purse/" target="_blank">People</a> </em></strong>the embarrassing moment she was scolded for trying to help the royal with her purse during an official visit to Buckingham Palace in 2011. </p> <p>After stepping forward to assist the Queen with her bag so that she could greet the Obamas without it, Marshall, 56, says her British counterpart quickly pushed her back and told her simply: “We do not touch the bag.”</p> <p><img style="width: 500px; height: 281.25px;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7836673/queen.jpg" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/79d44520f5384eb18817bb6ddbc449b6" /></p> <p><em>Michelle Obama, Barack Obama, Queen Elizabeth. </em></p> <p>“As Her Majesty walked out, I made a comment to my counterpart. I said, ‘Oh, my goodness, Her Majesty has her bag.’ And I made an ever so slight move with my left foot,” she recalled. </p> <p>“He, with both of his hands, pushed me back against the wall and said, ‘Do not touch the bag,’ and I said, ‘Oh, my goodness. I'm so sorry.’” </p> <p>The unnamed royal staffer reiterated his point again, saying no one was to ever touch the Queen’s bag.</p> <p>“He goes, ‘We do not touch the bag.’ And I said, ‘Okay, I apologize. I would never. But do we know what's in the bag?’ And he said, ‘We don't know what's in the bag. But we never touch the bag,'” she revealed. </p> <p><img style="width: 500px; height: 281.25px;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7836672/queen-1.jpg" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/fb25d221d26e4870a22bd919086447da" /></p> <p><em>Capricia Penavic Marshall</em></p> <p>In Marshall’s new book, <em>Protocol: The Power of Diplomacy and How to Make It Work for You</em>, she said she actually learned Her Majesty actually uses her bag as a means of signalling to her staff.</p> <p>“If it's on one part of her arm, it means the meeting is going fine, leave me alone. But if she lowers it, it means, ‘End this now. I want to go,'” Marshall explained.</p> <p>Despite the awkward moment that could have gone terrible wrong, Marshall says the visit was a huge success and noted that the former President Obama and his wife Michelle were “so, so very fond” of the royal.</p>

International Travel

Placeholder Content Image

Is it OK to tell off other people’s kids?

<p>Discipline is essential when you’re raising your kids (or grandkids!), but what about when it comes to other parents’ children? If you see kids behaving badly in public, do you have the right to tell them off? That’s the question on one mum’s lips after she did just that.</p> <p>Laura Mazza, mum-of-two and popular blogger, was supervising her kids Luca and Sofia at a public play centre when she spotted two children pushing and hitting her son as he was about to go down a slide, and two other children ramming into her daughter with a mini driveable car.</p> <p>She felt she had to intervene. “I actually found myself saying, ‘That's not nice, stop!’” she wrote on <a href="https://www.facebook.com/themumontherun/posts/1608957812505524" target="_blank"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Facebook</span></strong></a>. “I’ve never liked to tell a stranger’s kid off, but if you’re gonna pretend you can’t see it because you wanna sit and chat, then I’m gonna tell your child off.”</p> <p>Chatting to <a href="http://honey.nine.com.au/2017/10/25/13/44/telling-off-another-persons-child" target="_blank"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>9Honey</strong></span></a>, the Melbourne-based mum said the boy who pushed her son and pulled his hair didn’t seem to be bothered by her reprimanding him.</p> <p>“I actually looked at him while my son was crying and said, ‘That was really mean',” she recalls. “They had that doe-eyed look that kids have when they know they have done something wrong.”</p> <p>Of course, Mazza doesn’t exactly feel comfortable telling another person’s kid off. </p> <p>“No one wants to tell someone else’s child ‘no’. It’s not nice and it’s not our responsibility. It’s really tough to see a kid hurt yours and know you have to protect your own child.”</p> <p>As for the naughty kids’ parents? Despite being busy chatting, they had seen the incident but didn’t seem to care.</p> <p>Tell us in the comments below, do you think it’s acceptable to reprimand another person’s child in certain circumstances? Or is it never OK?</p>

Family & Pets