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“Entitled” bride unleashes after only seven people RSVP to her wedding

<p dir="ltr">A furious bride has been slammed online after unleashing on a lengthy tirade, calling out her friends and family who aren’t attending her wedding. </p> <p dir="ltr">Sara took to Facebook to share the extensive rant about her upcoming nuptials, after only seven people RSVP’d to the big day. </p> <p dir="ltr">The American bride-to-be called out those she invited to her destination wedding, saying they showed how little they “really” cared about her and her fiancé.</p> <p dir="ltr">“When we invited our friends and family to our destination wedding in Thailand, only nine people RSVP'd. Out of 150!!! OK, I get it, paying $3,000 to share my special day is too much for some of you. I'd pay for yours, but whatever,” she wrote. </p> <p dir="ltr">“But then, when we changed the wedding to be in Hawaii, so it's within everyone's reach, only seven of you RSVP'd? It costs less but less if you want to come? Is that what you think of me? You can't spare $2,000 to come and share our happiness?”</p> <p dir="ltr">Sara said that she was willing to take drastic measures to make up for the disrespect she'd been shown by her loved ones. </p> <p dir="ltr">“I'm tempted to just elope and not let any of you be part of our happiest day. This is it guys, you have three days to respond to our e-vites or we're deleting you off Facebook and good luck keeping up with our lives then.”</p> <p dir="ltr">“And don't get me started on the registry - only the cheap stuff is gone, I swear I thought I had better friends.”</p> <p dir="ltr">“[My fiancé] and I are asking you to reconsider.”</p> <p dir="ltr">Sara’s unhinged rant was quickly shared to a Facebook group dedicated to shaming people’s wedding choices, where it garnered hundreds of comments slamming the bride. </p> <p dir="ltr">“People who get married abroad have chosen not to have guests at their wedding,” one person said.  </p> <p dir="ltr">“Does she not understand people have jobs and kids or just simply don't want to spend thousands on someone else's wedding?” another asked. </p> <p dir="ltr">“If I was her friend I’d save her a job and unfriend myself after reading that,” a third person admitted.</p> <p dir="ltr"><em>Image credits: Shutterstock</em></p>

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Man who died for seven minutes reveals his encounter with the afterlife

<p>A British actor has shared what happened during his brief, yet profound experience in the afterlife, after he was pronounced dead for seven minutes. </p> <p>Shiv Grewal, 60, was having lunch with his wife when he suddenly went into cardiac arrest. </p> <p>His wife frantically called an ambulance, but Shiv's heart had already stopped beating. </p> <p>“I knew, somehow, that I was dead,” Grewal said, according to <a href="https://nypost.com/2023/08/24/i-died-for-7-minutes-before-being-brought-back-to-life-heres-what-i-saw/?utm_source=instagram&utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=nypost&utm_content=curalate_like2buy_7Rd1H9jc__bf5c46e3-ff70-4690-9b19-4f40d83c952f&utm_term=curalate_like2buy&crl8_id=bf5c46e3-ff70-4690-9b19-4f40d83c952f" target="_blank" rel="noopener" data-link-type="article-inline"><em>The New York Post</em>.</a></p> <p>“I felt things completely separate from my body. It was like I was in a void but I could feel emotions and sensations.”</p> <p>Shiv went on to say the experience felt similar to "swimming through water" with a sense of weightlessness and disconnection from the physical world.</p> <p>“At one point, I was travelling over the moon, and I could see meteorites and all of space,” he said.</p> <p>Grewal remembers feeling like he definitely didn't want to die and would do whatever it took to return to his physical body, despite the endless possibilities of the afterlife. </p> <p>“There was a whole set of possibilities, various lives and reincarnations that were being offered to me,” he said.</p> <p>“I didn’t want them. I made it very clear that I wanted to return to my body, to my time, to my wife and to go on living.”</p> <p>Grewal was rushed to hospital were he underwent a surgery to have a stent put into his main artery, which had clogged. </p> <p>He was then put in an induced coma for a month. </p> <p>While the traumatic experience happened almost ten years ago, Shiv explained that he hasn't fully recovered from the emotional impact. </p> <p>He said his life has been completely transformed, and is still trying to work through the profound emotions of that day. </p> <p>“I remembered everything that happened when my heart stopped and have tried to translate it into art,” he said.</p> <p>Before the accident, Grewal was more cynical about the idea of an afterlife, but now has completely changed his mind. </p> <p>“I’m less fearful of death because of it, but at the same time, I’m also more fearful, because I’ve realised how precious everything I have in life is,” he said.</p> <p>“I’m grateful just to be here.”</p> <p><em>Image credits: Instagram</em></p>

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Couple arrested over death of seven-month-old baby

<p dir="ltr">A man and a woman have been arrested following the death of a seven-month-old baby. </p> <p dir="ltr">Detectives from Inner West Child Protection and Investigation Unit (CPIU) and Criminal Investigation Branch (CIB) were called to a home in Yugar on November 3 about 6.45am to investigate the death of the infant. </p> <p dir="ltr">A crime scene was declared and police took Reinhardt (Ryan) Bosch, 33, and his partner, Noemi Kondacs, 22, both known to the child, into custody. </p> <p dir="ltr">It is alleged that the couple were praying over the child’s body as they waited for the ambulance to arrive, The Courier Mail reported.</p> <p dir="ltr">Following inquiries and questioning, the police charged the pair with one count each of murder and torture.</p> <p dir="ltr">The couple’s religious beliefs will also be part of the investigation. </p> <p dir="ltr">Inner West Crime Group Detective Inspector David Jackman said there were “visible” injuries on the child. </p> <p dir="ltr">“I’ve been a Detective for 30-odd years and it’s one of the most confronting scenes that I’ve seen,” he said.</p> <p dir="ltr">“Both the man and woman are not known to police, neither is that address,” he said.</p> <p dir="ltr">“The investigation has uncovered injuries to the child that are enough for us to charge (the pair) with murder.</p> <p dir="ltr">“The circumstances leading to the death we will allege have happened in the last 24 hours.</p> <p dir="ltr">“From what I have seen the child wasn’t neglected in terms of nourishment and such, but it’s quite confronting.”</p> <p dir="ltr">The couple are due to appear before Brisbane Magistrates Court on November 4. </p> <p dir="ltr"><em>Image: Sunrise</em></p>

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Seven times people discovered the Americas – and how they got there

<p>When Columbus landed in 1492, the Americas had been settled for tens of thousands of years. He wasn’t the first person to discover the continent. Instead, his discovery was the last of many discoveries. </p> <p>In all, people found the Americas at least seven different times. For at least six of those, it wasn’t so new after all. The discoverers came by sea and by land, bringing new genes, new languages, new technologies. Some stayed, explored, and built empires. Others went home, and left few hints they’d ever been there.</p> <p>From last to first, here’s the story of how we discovered the Americas.</p> <p><strong>7. Christopher Columbus: AD 1492</strong></p> <p>In 1492, Europeans could reach Asia by the <a href="https://education.nationalgeographic.org/resource/silk-road">Silk Road</a>, or by sailing the Cape Route around the southern tip of Africa. Sailing west from Europe was thought to be impossible. </p> <p>The ancient Greeks had accurately calculated that the circumference of the Earth was <a href="https://www.nature.com/articles/152473a0">40,000 km</a>, which put Asia far to the west. But Columbus botched his calculations. An error in unit conversion gave him a circumference of just 30,000 km.</p> <p>This mistake, with other assumptions born of wishful thinking, gave a distance of just <a href="https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/0025570X.1992.11996024">4,500 km</a> from Europe to Japan. The actual distance is almost 20,000 kilometres.</p> <p>So Columbus’s ships set sail without enough supplies to reach Asia. Fortunately for him, he hit the Americas. Columbus, thinking he’d found the East Indies, called its people “Indios”, or Indians. He ultimately died without realising his mistake. It was the navigator Amerigo Vespucci who realised Columbus had <a href="https://www.livescience.com/42510-amerigo-vespucci.html">found an unknown land</a> and in 1507 the name America was applied in Vespucci’s honour.</p> <p><strong>6. Polynesians: AD 1,200</strong></p> <p>Around 2,500 BC, a seafaring people <a href="https://www.nature.com/articles/s41586-021-03902-8">sailed from Taiwan</a> to find new lands. They sailed south through the Philippines, east through Melanesia, then out into the vast South Pacific. These people, the <a href="https://www.britannica.com/place/Polynesia">Polynesians</a>, were master navigators, reading wind, waves and stars to cross thousands of kilometres of open ocean. </p> <p>Using huge double canoes, the Polynesians <a href="https://www.worldhistory.org/article/1586/polynesian-navigation--settlement-of-the-pacific/">settled</a> Samoa, Fiji, Tonga, and the Cook Islands. Some went <a href="https://www.pnas.org/doi/full/10.1073/pnas.1408491111">south to New Zealand</a>, becoming <a href="https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10963-017-9110-y">the Maori</a>. Others went east to Tahiti, Hawaii, Easter Island, and the Marquesas. From here, they at last hit South America. Then, having explored most of the Pacific, they gave up exploration and forgot South America entirely.</p> <p>But evidence of this remarkable voyage remained. The South Americans acquired <a href="https://www.pnas.org/doi/abs/10.1073/pnas.0703993104">chickens from Polynesians</a>, while the Polynesians may have picked up <a href="https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0305440307000805">South American sweet potatoes</a>. And they shared more than food. Eastern Polynesians have <a href="https://www.nature.com/articles/s41586-020-2487-2?from=article_link">Native American DNA</a>. Polynesians didn’t just meet Native Americans, they married them.</p> <p> </p> <p><strong>5. Norse: AD 1,021</strong></p> <p>According to Viking sagas, around AD 980, <a href="https://www.britannica.com/biography/Erik-the-Red">Eric the Red</a>, fierce Viking and cunning salesman, named a vast, icy wasteland “Greenland” to <a href="https://www.nationalgeographic.com/science/article/iceland-greenland-name-swap">entice people to move there</a>. Then, in AD 986, a boat from Greenland <a href="https://www.thecanadianencyclopedia.ca/en/article/icelanders">spotted the coast of Canada</a>.</p> <p>Around <a href="https://www.nature.com/articles/s41586-021-03972-8">AD 1,021</a>, Erik’s son Leif established a settlement in Newfoundland. The Vikings struggled with the harsh climate, before war with Native Americans ultimately forced them back to Greenland. These stories were long dismissed as myths, until 1960, when archaeologists dug up the remains of <a href="https://www.newfoundlandlabrador.com/top-destinations/lanse-aux-meadows">Viking settlements in Newfoundland</a>.</p> <p> </p> <p><strong>4. Inuit: AD 900</strong></p> <p>Just before the Vikings, the Inuit people travelled <a href="https://www.nature.com/articles/s41586-019-1251-y">from Siberia to Alaska</a> in skin boats. Hunting whales and seals, living in sod huts and igloos, they were well adapted to the cold Arctic Ocean, and skirted its shores all the way to Greenland. </p> <p>Curiously, their DNA is <a href="https://www.nature.com/articles/s41586-019-1251-y">closest to native Alaskans</a>, implying their ancestors colonised Asia from Alaska, then went back to discover the Americas again. </p> <p> </p> <p><strong>3. Eskimo-Aleut: 2,000-2,500 BC</strong></p> <p>The Inuit descend from an earlier migration: that of speakers of the <a href="https://www.britannica.com/topic/Eskimo-Aleut-languages">Eskimo-Aleut languages</a>. These are distinct from other Native American languages, and might even be distantly related to Uralic languages such as <a href="https://compass.onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/pdfdirect/10.1111/j.1749-818X.2010.00239.x">Finnish and Hungarian</a>. </p> <p>This, with DNA evidence, suggests the Eskimo-Aleut was a distinct migration. They came across the <a href="https://www.britannica.com/place/Bering-Sea">Bering Sea</a> from present-day Russia to Alaska, perhaps <a href="https://anthrosource.onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1525/aa.1987.89.1.02a00020">4,000-4,500</a> years ago, partly displacing and mixing with earlier migrants: the Na-Dene people. </p> <p> </p> <p><strong>2. Na-Dene: 3,000-8,000 BC</strong></p> <p>Another group, the Na-Dene, crossed the Bering Sea to Alaska around <a href="https://www.nature.com/articles/s41586-019-1251-y">5,000 years ago</a>, although other studies suggest they settled the Americas as long as <a href="https://anthrosource.onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1525/aa.1987.89.1.02a00020">10,000 years ago</a>. </p> <p><a href="https://www.nature.com/articles/s41586-019-1251-y">DNA from their bones</a> links them not to modern people in the Eskimo-Aleut group, but to Native Americans speaking the Na-Dene language family, such as the <a href="https://www.navajo-nsn.gov/">Navajo</a>, <a href="https://denenation.com/">Dene</a>, <a href="https://www.amnh.org/exhibitions/permanent/northwest-coast/tlingit">Tlingit</a>, and Apache people. Na-Dene languages are closest to languages <a href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC25007/">spoken in Siberia</a>, suggesting again that they represent a distinct migration.</p> <p> </p> <p><strong>1. First Americans: 16,000-35,000 years ago</strong></p> <p>Almost all Native American tribes – Sioux, Comanche, Iroquois, Cherokee, Aztec, Maya, Quechua, Yanomani, and dozens of others – speak <a href="https://www.britannica.com/topic/American-Indian-languages">similar languages</a>. That suggests their languages evolved from a common ancestor tongue, spoken by a single tribe entering the Americas long ago. Their descendants’ low genetic diversity suggests this founding tribe was small, maybe <a href="https://journals.plos.org/plosbiology/article?id=10.1371/journal.pbio.0030193">less than 80 people</a>. </p> <p>How did they get there? Before the last ice age ended 11,700 years ago, so much water was <a href="https://www.jstor.org/stable/3083538">locked up in glaciers</a> that sea levels fell. The bottom of the Bering Sea dried out, creating the <a href="https://www.pnas.org/doi/10.1073/pnas.1705966114">Bering Land Bridge</a>. America’s first people just walked from Russia to Alaska. But the timing of their migration is controversial.</p> <p>Archaeologists once thought the <a href="https://www.britannica.com/topic/Clovis-complex">Clovis people</a>, living <a href="https://www.pnas.org/doi/epdf/10.1073/pnas.0704215104">13,000 years ago</a>, were the <a href="https://www.smithsonianmag.com/history/the-clovis-point-and-the-discovery-of-americas-first-culture-3825828/">first settlers of America</a>. But evidence <a href="https://www.nature.com/articles/d41586-020-02137-3">now suggests</a> humans arrived in the Americas much earlier. </p> <p>Finds in <a href="https://www.science.org/doi/pdf/10.1126/science.1207663?casa_token=i79Z6iFCPuwAAAAA:onB6l4Ih9BSvJY9a6rTuKDjv9pD1_EEaPJlwmjsk1qVgjDcqotjX2jlmzXMg-Kh1fqxMMXLhUeMvIw">Washington</a>, <a href="https://www.science.org/doi/10.1126/sciadv.aba6404">Oregon</a>, <a href="https://www.science.org/doi/10.1126/science.1201855">Texas</a>, the <a href="https://scholarcommons.sc.edu/cgi/viewcontent.cgi?article=1026&amp;context=sciaa_staffpub">east coast of the US</a>, and <a href="https://www.science.org/doi/pdf/10.1126/sciadv.1600375">Florida</a> suggest people reached the Americas long before the Clovis people.</p> <p><a href="https://www.science.org/doi/10.1126/science.abg7586">Footprints in New Mexico</a> date to 23,000 years ago. <a href="https://www.nature.com/articles/s41586-020-2509-0">Stone tools</a> in a Mexican cave may date to 32,000 years ago. A <a href="https://www.frontiersin.org/articles/10.3389/fevo.2022.903795/full">butchered mammoth</a> from Colorado dates to 31,000-38,000 years ago. And traces of fire put <a href="https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0277379118307716">humans in Alaska</a> 32,000 years ago. </p> <p>Some of these dates could be incorrect, but with each new discovery it seems increasingly unlikely that they’re all wrong.</p> <p>An early migration would neatly solve a major mystery. 13,000 years ago, a vast glacier, the <a href="https://www.pnas.org/doi/full/10.1073/pnas.1601077113">Laurentide Ice Sheet</a>, buried Canada in ice up to three kilometres thick. If people arrived in North America then, how did they cross the ice? Southeast Alaska’s rugged coast, full of glaciers and fjords, was likely impassible, and early Americans probably lacked boats. But 30,000 years ago, the ice sheet hadn’t fully formed. </p> <p>Before the ice spread, people could have hunted mammoths and horses east from Alaska into the Northwest Territories, then south through Alberta and Saskatchewan into Montana. Remarkably, humans may have settled the Americas <a href="https://www.nature.com/articles/s41598-021-94408-w">before western Europe</a>. Yet that might make sense. Alaska’s Arctic is harsh, but Europe had <a href="https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/full/10.1111/j.1365-2699.2011.02536.x">potentially hostile Neanderthals</a>.</p> <h2>The end of discovery</h2> <p>1492 was the last discovery of the Americas. Following the voyages of Columbus, Magellan, and Cook, the scattered descendants of humanity’s diaspora were finally reunited. Aside from a few <a href="https://www.bbc.com/future/article/20140804-sad-truth-of-uncontacted-tribes">uncontacted tribes</a>, everywhere was known to everyone. Discovery was impossible.</p> <p>But the story of the Americas’ settlement is still being written, and our understanding is evolving. The Eskimo-Aleut may have been <a href="https://anthrosource.onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1525/aa.1987.89.1.02a00020">two different migrations</a>, not one. Genes <a href="https://www.nature.com/articles/nature14895">hint at the possibility</a> of other, early founding populations. And given how little evidence the Polynesians and Norse left of their visits, it’s conceivable there were other migrations, ones of which we have little evidence. </p> <p>There’s so much we don’t know. No one can discover the Americas anymore, but there’s a lot left to discover about their discovery.</p> <p><em>Image credits: Getty Images</em></p> <p><em>This article originally appeared on <a href="https://theconversation.com/seven-times-people-discovered-the-americas-and-how-they-got-there-188908" target="_blank" rel="noopener">The Conversation</a>.</em></p>

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Shehan Karunatilaka wins Booker prize for Sri Lankan political satire, The Seven Moons of Maali Almeida

<p>Sri Lankan novelist Shehan Karunatilaka has won the 2022 Booker Prize for his second novel, The Seven Moons of Maali Almeida.</p> <p>The win couldn’t come at a better time for Sri Lanka, a country once more engaged in <a href="https://foreignpolicy.com/2022/10/06/sri-lanka-economic-crisis-protests-imf/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">political and economic instability</a>, as it suffers through one of the world’s worst economic crises, with soaring inflation, food and fuel shortages, and low supplies of foreign reserves. And of course, the government was overthrown in July, after President Gotabaya Rajapaksa fled following mass protests.</p> <p>Karunatilaka said in his acceptance speech:</p> <blockquote> <p>My hope for Seven Moons is this; that in the not-too-distant future, 10 years, as long as it takes, Sri Lanka […] has understood that these ideas of corruption and race-baiting and cronyism have not worked and will never work.</p> </blockquote> <h2>Political black comedy</h2> <p>Karunatilaka’s novel is extraordinary – and hard to pin down. It is at once a black comedy about the afterlife, a murder mystery whodunit, and a political satire set against the violent backdrop of the late-1980s Sri Lankan civil war. It is also a story of love and redemption.</p> <p>Malinda “Maali” Kabalana, a closeted war photographer, wakes up dead in what seems to be a celestial waiting room. The setting will be familiar to many who’ve spent time in Colombo (as I have – it’s where my husband’s family is from). We open in a busy, bureaucratic office, filled with confusion, noise, a propensity against queuing – and a healthy dose of “gallows” humour. In other words, Maali is in some sort of purgatory.</p> <p>Maali soon discovers he has seven days – seven moons – to solve his own murder. This isn’t easy – he is interrupted by sardonic ghosts (often with grudges, questionable motives, and a tendency towards extreme chattiness), the violent reality of war-torn Colombo, and piecing together his memories of who he was.</p> <p>He also has seven moons to lead his official girlfriend and his secret boyfriend to a cache of photographs, taken over time, which document the horror of the war – and incriminate local and foreign governments.</p> <p>Karunatilaka’s subject matter and plot highlight, question and explore Sri Lanka’s legacy – and its continued, difficult relationship with its civil war, which spanned 1983 to 2009, though the reverberations continue. And his novel’s provocative, intimate, second-person style implicates us – the readers.</p> <p>Karunatilaka has mastered his craft as a novelist. He never once wavers from a second-person perspective that might be unwieldy (perhaps even gimmicky) in a lesser writer’s hands. The novel tells us, “Don’t try and look for the good guys, ‘cause there ain’t none”.</p> <p>It realises a combined responsibility for the tragedy of that 25-year civil war, in which the country’s colonial history is also implicated. British colonialists brought Tamil workers from South India to Sri Lanka, to work as indentured labourers on their coffee, tea and rubber plantations. Their descendants’ fight for an independent Tamil state was a strong component of the civil war.</p> <h2>Diffusing violence with humour</h2> <p>As a novelist and lover of second-person narration and a long-time follower of Karuntailaka’s accomplished work, I couldn’t be more delighted by this Booker win.</p> <p>I first came across Karunatilaka through his debut novel, <a href="https://www.penguin.com.au/books/chinaman-9780099555681" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Chinaman</a>, which was handed to me by my sister-in-law several years ago on a family visit to Colombo. That book taught me about cricket, but it also taught me the sardonic brilliance of Sri Lankan humour.</p> <p>Karunatilaka once again uses humour to great effect in The Seven Moons of Maali Almeida – to diffuse confronting moments of violence, to engage his reader, and for pure enjoyment. This novel follows a murder victim through a bloody civil war – and it’s laugh-out-loud funny.</p> <p>It’s also a tighter, more focused book than Chinaman: here is an author in control of his craft and what he wants to say with it. The Booker judges, too, praised the “scope and the skill, the daring, the audacity and hilarity” of the book.</p> <p>Karunatilaka’s winning novel took time to write. Ten years have passed since Chinaman. His skilful use of craft to tell this complicated story is testament to the idea that good books take the time they need: something that all authors know but publishers are not always willing to accept. However, Karunatilaka has been busy in that ten years, not just writing literary fiction, but writing for children – and having a family. The 47-year-old is now married with two kids.</p> <p>Karunatilaka is only the second Sri Lankan novelist to have won the Booker Prize. (The first was Michael Ondaatje in 1992 for The English Patient.) But last year, his countryman Anuk Arudpragasam was also <a href="https://thebookerprizes.com/the-booker-library/authors/anuk-arudpragasam" target="_blank" rel="noopener">shortlisted</a>, for <a href="https://www.allenandunwin.com/browse/book/Anuk-Arudpragasam-Passage-North-9781783786961" target="_blank" rel="noopener">A Passage North</a>, another accomplished novel set in the aftermath of the civil war.</p> <p>I’m excited by what this means for Sri Lankan authors and the Sri Lankan publishing scene. Here is a country with stories to tell and enormous skill to tell them with: let’s hope this leads to more Sri Lankan novels achieving wide readership, success and deserved acclaim.</p> <p><strong>This article originally appeared on <a href="https://theconversation.com/shehan-karunatilaka-wins-booker-prize-for-sri-lankan-political-satire-the-seven-moons-of-maali-almeida-192722" target="_blank" rel="noopener">The Conversation</a>.</strong></p> <p><em>Image: thebookerprizes.com</em></p>

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Seven simple ways to save money now!

<p>Could you do with a few extra dollars in your pocket each week? These handy hints make it all too easy.</p> <p>A few extra dollars in the kitty each week would be handy for any of us. It’s possible! It’s just a matter of finding ways to trim the fat on your expenses and stretch your dollar further. We’ve compiled some simple tricks to start today to get money in your pocket fast. They’re achievable for everyone!</p> <p><strong>Grow your own food</strong><br />Save at the supermarket by growing your own fruit and vegies. If you have a bit of extra space out in the backyard, why not utilise it with an apple tree, a few vegies and if you have the room, why not some chickens? For beginners, mint, silverbeet, leafy greens, zucchini and cherry tomatoes are great because they don’t need too much love and attention to grow.</p> <p>If you’d like to start out small, a lovely planter box against the kitchen windowsill to grow herbs could be a good starting point. Basil, oregano and parsley are all simple to start with and can all be grown indoors during winter. By growing your own food you’ll save on your weekly grocery bill and be engaging your mind and moving the body. <a href="http://littleveggiepatchco.com.au/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">The Little Veggie Patch Co</a> is a Melbourne-based business dedicated to helping people grow food. Their website offers some great videos on useful tips and tricks to help you grow a vegie patch in no time.</p> <p><strong>Shop online</strong><br />Not only could you bag yourself some great bargains that you might not be able to find in a store, you can also cut out impulse buying. This can save you a lot at the supermarket if you’re a shopper who loves to buy what’s on special. While you may think you’re saving money by doing this, you’re actually just buying items you may not have necessarily bought if you were buying your groceries online.</p> <p>Before buying any item online, whether it’s a new bed for your pet pooch or your grocery essentials for the week, make sure you understand the company’s shipping costs and policies. Many places offer free delivery or shipping when you buy their items but it’s best to check first.</p> <p><strong>Know your concessions</strong><br />If you’re on the pension, you could save on utility bills, travel expenses and many other every day costs. Many companies offer discounts for Aussies on the pension, which could put a few extra dollars in your pocket each week. However, you have to tell them. They won’t apply the discounts automatically. You could save money on books, magazines and travel.</p> <p>For those over 60, you can apply for a seniors’ card in your state or territory. This nifty little card offers a range of discounts, such as cruises or travel insurance, magazine subscriptions, cinema and event tickets, plus a lot more. The eligibility requirements and discounts differ between states, so it’s best to contact your local social services department to find out more.</p> <p><strong>Sign up for customer reward programs</strong><br />If you’re buying products from a particular store, you should be rewarded right? You can be, but you’ll need to sign up to a store’s loyalty or rewards program. Generally, these work by rewarding you with points each time you shop in a particular store, and then once you reach a certain amount, you get a reward. It could be a voucher, a special deal or a product.</p> <p><strong>Keep a money diary or download a budget app</strong><br />It’s hard to save without knowing where your money is going. Nip this in the bud by keeping a record of where your money goes in one week. Be disciplined and write down every expense. If you have a smartphone, iPhone, tablet or iPad, why not download a budget app? There are plenty out there in either the Apple Store or Google Play for those wanting to take control of their savings and take note of their spending habits.</p> <p><strong>Make your own gifts</strong><br />Do you spend a lot of money buying gifts for your kids and grandchildren? What about friends and colleagues? Birthdays, anniversaries, school achievements and other events you may buy gifts for can quickly add up to be a huge expense. To save money, why not put your skills to the test and make your own gifts?</p> <p>With so many material things in the world, being given a gift personally made by you could be a much nicer way of showing your affection for someone. Whether you’re great at painting or drawing, cross-stitching, making candles or baking, put your skills to the test by creating a gift that has more heart than anything you could possibly buy in a store.</p> <p><strong>Cut back for one month</strong><br />Why not try one month without something you regularly buy but don’t need. It could be a morning coffee or tea, a magazine you buy every fortnight or your weekly indulgence of potato crisps on a Saturday night. Whatever it is, try to give it up for one month.</p> <p>Put aside the money you would normally use to buy this item, and deposit it into a money box at home. While this isn’t going to buy you a round-the-world airplane ticket after one month, if you do this a few times a year, you’ll soon see results.</p> <p><em>Image: Getty Images</em></p>

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Seven ways to save money on your groceries

<p>Buying groceries can take a large chunk out of your budget, so follow these tricks to slash those costs today!</p> <p>Grocery shopping can be expensive. But, as we all have to eat, it becomes a matter of outsmarting the supermarket. Can it be done, helping you save money in the process? Yes! Here’s some ideas.</p> <p><strong>Plan your meals for the week</strong><br />This tip is not only good for your hip pocket, but your waistline. By planning your meals and snacks in advance, you’re being disciplined about the fuel that’s powering your body. Plus, you won’t be tempted to buy baked goodies or other sweets that you see on sale, which is always strategically placed when you first enter the supermarket.</p> <p>Plan out your meals and write down what you need on a shopping list. Take this with you and stick to it! Everyone is guilty of making a shopping list and then adding to it while they’re browsing the aisles. This is a sure-fire way to buy treats or snacks you wouldn’t normally have planned for and to blow out your weekly grocery budget.</p> <p><strong>Make a list and stick to it</strong><br />Once you’ve planned out your meals, write down what you need on a shopping list. Take this with you and stick to it! Everyone is guilty of making a shopping list and then adding to it while they’re browsing the aisles. This is a sure-fire way to buy treats or snacks you wouldn’t normally have planned for and to blow out your weekly grocery budget.</p> <p><strong>Have a weekly clean-out of the fridge and cabinets</strong><br />Have you ever tried to find an ingredient, like the Worchester sauce, only to have to take out half the pantry because it’s at the back and the shelves are packed to the rafters? Over time, non-perishable items, such as sauces, baking goods, cooking oils, pasta, spices and other cooking essentials that don’t expire in the short term, accumulate in the kitchen pantry and surrounding cupboards – just like old crockery you don’t use anymore.</p> <p>By scheduling in a weekly review or clean-out, you can keep on top of what is in the pantry so you’re not doubling up in your grocery shop and ensuring that you’re using everything purchased until it’s completely empty.</p> <p><strong>Sign up for supermarket loyalty programs</strong><br />Free to join and easy to use, supermarket loyalty programs are a good way to save a few bucks here or there. While each differ with what rewards they offer their customers, it’s a good idea to sign up to all of your local supermarkets.</p> <p>Keep them handy and use them whenever you purchase groceries. While some loyalty programs will try to advertise certain products for a special price, if this a product you don’t normally buy, then avoid buying it now. This rule should apply to products purchase in-store that are advertised as “on special”.</p> <p><strong>Know what discounts your local supermarket offers</strong><br />Some supermarkets or local fruit and veg stores will offer their own special discounts for people over-60 for certain days. You may need to hold a Seniors Card to get the discount, so if you’re eligible consider getting a card. This can be done through your state government’s human services department.</p> <p><strong>Buy supermarket brands over established names</strong><br />A few years ago, home brand items in supermarkets carried a certain stigma around them. Now, however, with the competition considerably warmed up between supermarket giants, home brands have a revamped image. Most people today don’t have a problem buying supermarket-branded items, with many of these products taking over from traditional “name” brands.</p> <p>Price has become the biggest motivating factor for buying supermarket brands. If you’re not too fussy or loyal to any of the established brands, why not try a supermarket item? It could save you considerably at the checkout without affecting your tastebuds too much.</p> <p><strong>Don’t shop hungry!</strong><br />Did you know that hungry people are more likely to spend more at the supermarket and have bigger waistlines? While the advice to avoid grocery shopping when your stomach is grumbling for food has been around for a while, a 2013 study published in the Journal of the American Medical Association showed just how much it can influence what you buy in a supermarket.</p> <p>Researchers gave a group of people a snack before sending them off to shop while another group was given no snack. While both groups bought a similar amount of food, the group of people who hadn’t eaten first bought more food with higher calories. Shopping while you’re hungry will also see your nose turn and your mouth start to salivate towards the whiff of freshly baked bread or roast chicken, perhaps even buying one of these when it wasn’t on the shopping list. If you’re hungry, you’re more likely to succumb to the delicious smells wafting in the air.</p> <p><em>Image: Shutterstock</em></p>

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Seven healthy habits to lower risk of dementia

<div> <p>Dementia is a debilitating <a href="https://cosmosmagazine.com/people/society/understanding-dementia-uqs-newest-publication/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">disease</a>, and Australia’s second biggest killer. While there is currently no cure, there are <a href="https://cosmosmagazine.com/health/dementia-patients-do-better-without-drugs/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">treatments</a> to help improve the symptoms, but the best strategy is to try and prevent it from developing altogether.</p> <p>The American Heart Association has identified seven cardiovascular and brain health factors, known as Life’s Simple 7:</p> <table border="0"> <tbody> <tr> <td> <ul> <li>Being active</li> <li>Eating better</li> <li>Losing weight</li> <li>Not smoking</li> <li>Maintaining a healthy blood pressure</li> <li>Controlling cholesterol</li> <li>Reducing blood sugar</li> </ul> </td> </tr> </tbody> </table> <p> </p> <p> </p> <p>While Life’s Simple 7 have been linked to lowering the risk of dementia overall, it has not been investigated whether this applies to people with high genetic risks. A 30-year study following over 11,000 people with mixed genetic risk scores (based on the <a href="https://cosmosmagazine.com/science/biology/call-to-factor-gender-into-alzheimers-research/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">APOE gene</a> variant) from both European and African ancestries aims to provide some answers.</p> <p> </p> <p> </p> <p>The average starting age was 54 years, with participants divided into eight different groups based on <a href="https://cosmosmagazine.com/nature/evolution/genetic-variant-covid-hiv/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">genetic risk</a> scores. At the end of the study, 18% of people with European ancestry developed dementia, compared to 23% of people with African ancestry. This implies there may be a genetic risk factor linked to the risk of developing dementia.</p> <p> </p> <p> </p> <p>For people with European ancestry, people with the highest scores in the lifestyle factors had the lowest risk of dementia, including the group with the highest genetic risk. Those with intermediate to high scores in healthy lifestyle factors had an associated 30-40% lower risk of dementia. For every lifestyle factor that was adhered to from the Life’s Simple 7, the risk of developing dementia decreased by 9%.</p> <p> </p> <p> </p> <p>“These healthy habits in the Life’s Simple 7 have been linked to a lower risk of dementia overall, but it is uncertain whether the same applies to people with a high genetic risk,” says author Dr Adrienne Tin of the University of Mississippi Medical Centre (US). “The good news is that even for people who are at the highest genetic risk, living by this same healthier lifestyle means they are likely to have a lower risk of dementia.”</p> <p> </p> <p> </p> <p>For people with African ancestry, the intermediate and high categories were associated with a 6-17% lower risk of dementia. Of those participants, 40% had at least one copy of the APOE gene variant, which is associated with Alzheimer’s disease, compared to 27.9% of people with European ancestry. A limitation of this study was the smaller number of participants with African ancestry, and that many of these participants were recruited from one location.</p> <p> </p> <p> </p> <p>“Larger sample sizes from diverse populations are needed to get more reliable estimates of the effects of these modifiable health factors on dementia risk within different genetic risk groups and ancestral backgrounds,” Tin says.</p> <p> </p> <p> </p> <p>This study has been published in <a href="https://www.neurology.org/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Neurology</a>, the medical journal of the <a href="https://www.aan.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">American Academy of Neurology</a>. For more information about dementia, visit <a href="https://www.dementia.org.au/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">dementia.org.au</a> (Australia) and <a href="https://www.brainandlife.org/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">BrainandLife.org</a> (worldwide).</p> <p><em>Image credits: Getty Images</em></p> </div> <div id="contributors"> <p><em>This article was originally published on <a href="https://cosmosmagazine.com/health/seven-habits-fight-dementia/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">cosmosmagazine.com</a> and was written by Qamariya Nasrullah. </em></p> </div>

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Deadly crash claims seven family members from three generations

<p dir="ltr">A Year 11 student is one of two to survive a crash that killed seven of his relatives, including his younger brother and mother.</p> <p dir="ltr">Luie Lagud, 16, was travelling in a van with family members spanning three generations on a whirlwind trip across the length of New Zealand’s South Island when the vehicle was involved in a head-on crash with a truck on Sunday morning.</p> <p dir="ltr">The crash left the Toyota Hiace van completely destroyed and is the deadliest incident to occur in the country since April 2019.</p> <p dir="ltr">According to the <em><a href="https://www.nzherald.co.nz/nz/picton-crash-final-days-of-family-killed-in-collision-with-truck/CKLDFVI22ETOVBK2DT7FZMUW2E/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">NZ Herald</a></em>, the family have since given permission for the names of the deceased to be published.</p> <p dir="ltr">Among the victims were Diseree Brown, 48, her husband Paul Brown, 61, and their son Mark. </p> <p dir="ltr">Desiree’s sister, 56-year-old Divine Dolar, Divine’s daughter Flordeliza Dolar, 19, were also among those who died.</p> <p dir="ltr">Luie and his older brother, 26-year-old Pedro Clariman, were the only two to survive. </p> <p dir="ltr">However, Luie was in a coma and undergoing surgery on Monday after suffering significant spinal and head injuries and remains in intensive care.</p> <p dir="ltr">Pedro’s partner and his infant daughter, Mika, tragically died in the crash. </p> <p dir="ltr">Diseree’s three other children, David, Princess, and Joanna, didn’t travel with the family.</p> <p dir="ltr">The night before, the family stayed in Rolleston, outside Christchurch, with a family friend. The man who identified himself as Bill called Newstalk ZB on Monday to confirm members of the “vibrant” family had died.</p> <p dir="ltr">“They spent some of their last hours on earth with me on Saturday night, Sunday morning,” he told Canterbury Mornings host John MacDonald.</p> <p dir="ltr">Having left Bill’s home at 2.30am on Sunday morning to catch a Cook Strait ferry back to the North Island, the van crossed the centreline and collided with a refrigerated goods truck in Picton at about 7.30am.</p> <p dir="ltr">The truck driver suffered minor injuries.</p> <p dir="ltr">The family had started their journey by travelling to Gore for the funeral of an elderly aunt, which 21-year-old David Lagud said he didn’t attend because he had to work and because he suffered from motion sickness.</p> <p dir="ltr">“In a blink of an eye, it’s all gone,” David told the <em>NZ Herald</em>.</p> <p dir="ltr">Videos posted throughout the trip showed the family laughing together, spending time with Pedro’s young daughter, and travelling across the country.</p> <p dir="ltr">Since the incident, the principal of Pukekohe High School - which two of the family members were attending - emailed parents to advise them that two students were involved in the crash.</p> <p dir="ltr">“One of our Year 10 students died at the scene of the accident. His older brother, in Year 11, remains in hospital. Our thoughts and condolences are with their family and close friends,” the email read.</p> <p dir="ltr">“Students and staff who knew the two students well are being supported and cared for in school today. Additional counselling support has been made available, and the school is closely following advice from the Ministry’s Traumatic Incident team.”</p> <p dir="ltr">David has also spoken to Pedro since the crash, who he said had minor injuries and was able to walk with difficulty.</p> <p dir="ltr">Pedro told his brother what happened in the leadup to the crash, saying he had been driving when the family left Christchurch so that Paul could sleep in the front passenger seat for another four hours.</p> <p dir="ltr">After that, Paul swapped with Pedro to complete the trip to the ferry and was well-rested when took the wheel.</p> <p dir="ltr">Before falling asleep in the passenger seat, it is understood Pedro spent some time playing with his daughter.</p> <p dir="ltr">Being asleep when the vehicles collided, it’s believed Pedro woke up to the carnage.</p> <p dir="ltr">“He saw my dad’s body on the road and then my brother Luie, he was awake and then he collapsed,” David said.</p> <p dir="ltr">“Then the next minute, the helicopter was there, taking my little brother to hospital.”</p> <p dir="ltr">David said Pedro was grief-stricken to discover both his partner and daughter had died.</p> <p dir="ltr">“He was devastated, he was crying a lot. Both of his loves are gone.”</p> <p dir="ltr">The <em>NZ Herald</em> reported that police said the incident would be referred to the coroner for investigation.</p> <p><span id="docs-internal-guid-ccd454a3-7fff-bdbf-a53a-3ebd1960f77e"></span></p> <p dir="ltr"><em>Image: NZ Herald</em></p>

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Princess Charlotte turns seven

<p>In celebration of Princess Charlotte's seventh birthday, three new photos of the young royal have been released. </p> <p>The charming photos, taken by Kate Middleton, were released by the Duke and Duchess of Cambridge on Charlotte's birthday, on May 2nd. </p> <p>In a statement, Prince William and Kate said they were "delighted to share" the new images of their daughter.</p> <p>The photographs were taken in Norfolk this weekend by the duchess, who has been taking official portraits of her children for their birthday for many years now.</p> <blockquote class="instagram-media" style="background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);" data-instgrm-captioned="" data-instgrm-permalink="https://www.instagram.com/p/CdB9Oe3toeX/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" data-instgrm-version="14"> <div style="padding: 16px;"> <div style="display: flex; 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flex-grow: 0; height: 12px; width: 16px; transform: translateY(-4px);"> </div> <div style="width: 0; height: 0; border-top: 8px solid #F4F4F4; border-left: 8px solid transparent; transform: translateY(-4px) translateX(8px);"> </div> </div> </div> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center; margin-bottom: 24px;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 224px;"> </div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 144px;"> </div> </div> <p style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;"><a style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none;" href="https://www.instagram.com/p/CdB9Oe3toeX/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" target="_blank" rel="noopener">A post shared by Duke and Duchess of Cambridge (@dukeandduchessofcambridge)</a></p> </div> </blockquote> <p>In one of the photos, Princess Charlotte is seen cuddling with their pet dog Orla as she has a beaming smile on her face. </p> <p>The release of the images follows three new photos of Prince Louis, the youngest Cambridge, who celebrated his fourth birthday on April 23rd. </p> <p>Both Princess Charlotte and her older brother Prince George, 8, have been taking a more visible role of late, joining their parents at major events.</p> <p>It is rumoured that the royal children will play a starring role at the Queen's Platinum Jubilee celebrations in June. </p> <p>They are likely to appear on the balcony of Buckingham Palace for Trooping the Colour and could also take part in the carriage procession through the Mall, following in the footsteps of Prince William who took his first formal carriage ride aged four.</p> <p><em>Image credits: Instagram </em></p>

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Seven fun facts about ET

<p dir="ltr">What’s ET short for? Because he’s got little legs.</p> <p dir="ltr">Okay, now that classic dad joke from my boss is out of the way because tragically it made me laugh, let's get down to business.</p> <p dir="ltr"><em>ET</em> has long been a family favourite since its release in 1982 from genius director Steven Spielberg.</p> <p dir="ltr">The much-loved cinematic creation tells the story of a young boy Elliott, who becomes friends with an alien, also known as ET.</p> <p dir="ltr">Almost 40 years since it hit our screens, there are some exciting fun facts you didn't know about the movie. </p> <p dir="ltr">Below are seven of the most surprising facts from <em>ET</em>.</p> <ol> <li dir="ltr" aria-level="1"> <p dir="ltr" role="presentation"><strong>The woman behind ET's voice was discovered in a camera store</strong></p> </li> </ol> <p dir="ltr">The film’s sound designer was at a camera store when he heard the woman speak. Her name was Pat Walsh, and she reportedly smoked two packs of cigarettes a day, which gave ET the raspy voice.</p> <ol start="2"> <li dir="ltr" aria-level="1"> <p dir="ltr" role="presentation"><strong>The doctors you see in the movie are all real</strong></p> </li> </ol> <p dir="ltr">Steven Spielberg wanted to make the movie as real as possible and hired real doctors and nurses to feature in the film. </p> <p dir="ltr">He asked them to treat ET as if it were a human patient.</p> <ol start="3"> <li dir="ltr" aria-level="1"> <p dir="ltr" role="presentation"><strong>The movie was shot in chronological order</strong></p> </li> </ol> <p dir="ltr">Spielberg wanted Henry Thomas, the actor who played Elliot, and Drew Barrymore, who played Gertie, to have authentic reactions when they saw ET.</p> <p dir="ltr">He knew that filming the movie in chronological order was the only way to achieve this.</p> <ol start="4"> <li dir="ltr" aria-level="1"> <p dir="ltr" role="presentation"><strong><em>ET</em> broke a record by staying in theatres for so long</strong></p> </li> </ol> <p dir="ltr">The movie was released on June 11, 1982 and remained in theatres for over a year.</p> <p dir="ltr">It also comes as Spielberg did not want the movie released on home video to avoid it being pirated.</p> <p dir="ltr">Then five years later, the studio released <em>ET</em> on video tape and it sold a massive 15 million copies in its first year.</p> <ol start="5"> <li dir="ltr" aria-level="1"> <p dir="ltr" role="presentation"><strong>Drew Barrymore ad libbed one of her most memorable lines</strong></p> </li> </ol> <p dir="ltr">The first time Gertie saw ET, she said “I don’t like his feet”. The line was not scripted but Spielberg loved it so much that he decided to keep it in the film.</p> <ol start="6"> <li dir="ltr" aria-level="1"> <p dir="ltr" role="presentation"><strong>Henry Thomas didn’t like being famous</strong></p> </li> </ol> <p dir="ltr">The actor that played Elliot did not like being famous and felt like he was a circus freak. He did however go on to star in <em>Gangs of New York</em> and <em>The Haunting of Hill House</em>.</p> <ol start="7"> <li dir="ltr" aria-level="1"> <p dir="ltr" role="presentation"><strong>ET’s name was due to be revealed in the second movie</strong></p> </li> </ol> <p dir="ltr">Steven Spielberg and writer Melissa Mathison wrote a nine-page sequel titled <em>ET 2: Nocturnal Fears. </em></p> <p dir="ltr">The sequel would tell the story of Elliot and his friends being abducted by aliens. ET’s real name would also be revealed… which is Zrek! </p> <p dir="ltr"><em>Image: Shutterstock</em></p>

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The 7 stages of marriage

<p><span>Building a successful marriage is a lifelong challenge. Understanding the different stages of marriage and the phases you’ll go through as a couple may help you build a stronger and more fulfilling relationship.</span></p> <p><strong>Stage one of marriage: Passion</strong></p> <p>This is the honeymoon stage, when romance and intense attraction bond a couple together and lead to commitment. In retrospect, it often seems as short-lived as springtime – by two years, most couples have usually lost that initial magic, though this can vary by couple. But when it is happening, the passion stage is very strong and significant. It is a wave of feel-good brain chemicals orchestrated by Mother Nature to make the two of you forsake all others and take action to ensure the survival of the species.</p> <p>Even if you’re marrying later in life, or for the second time, nature supplies these delicious bursts of neurotransmitters to make you bond. Couples not only frolic and fall madly in love in the passion stage – they begin to establish the trust, respect and emotional intimacy that will support their relationship forever.</p> <p><strong>Stage two of marriage: Realisation</strong></p> <p>In this stage, the honeymoon ends, and a more real vision of the rest of your life together begins. In this stage, you discover your spouse is not only human, he also doesn’t load the dishwasher or lower the toilet seat. Disappointment and early conflicts are the hallmarks of this difficult, unavoidable period, as the two of you make the first steps toward accepting each other for who you really are.</p> <p>The mission and challenge? No less than laying the groundwork for a long future together based on acceptance, respect and openness to change. You’ll need to assertively discuss and emphatically listen as you both introduce your deepest personal needs and wants. This creates a foundation for being truly known, understood and supported in the years ahead.</p> <p><strong>Stage three of marriage: Rebellion</strong></p> <p>She misses her friends; he misses his cool toys. She wants to travel; he wants to play weekly softball. She wants to build her career; he wants to build his career. Even for couples who successfully navigate the realisation stage of marriage and lay the foundation for a happy, respectful coexistence together, a time inevitably emerges when self-interest often overtakes the interests of the marriage. And when this happens, be ready for the battles.</p> <p>Love amid the power struggles of the rebellion stage is tricky business. You both believe you’re right, so of course your partner’s wrong. That means you’re simultaneously offended at being called wrong and claiming the moral high ground. Is this any way to run a marriage?</p> <p>Experts say the drama of the rebellion stage are unavoidable. Learning the art of the good fight is the mission now – often it is the nature of the battles, rather than the substance of the discussion, that leads to trouble. Why? Rebellious thoughts, when met with anger and frustration, often lead to rebellious actions, such as infidelity, outlandish spending, or saying yes to the sudden offer from work to transfer to a new city. Any of these can spell disaster for a marriage.</p> <p><strong>Stage four of marriage: Cooperation</strong></p> <p><span>As marriages progress over time, they inevitably become more complicated. Careers grow, houses get bigger, personal commitments grow deeper, and children arrive. In the cooperation stage, marriage takes on a business-like personality. Set aside all that love and emotion and personal-realisation stuff: there are mortgages to be paid, investments to be handled, careers to be directed, health to be managed, and – first and foremost – children to be raised.</span></p> <p><strong>Step five of marriage: Reunion</strong></p> <p>If you have children, the cooperation stage often lasts 10 to 20 years – then suddenly it is gone. Your parenting commitments are lessened, your finances established, your career set, your mortgage paid. What then? For happy couples, it is a time to appreciate each other again, not as parents and providers but as lovers and friends, thinkers and seekers. Achieve this and there’s peace, happiness and reconciliation.</p> <p>That all sounds wonderful but this ideal is often hard to achieve. The embers of passion need stoking; the disillusionment and distance of middle age need to be managed; the roles and expectations of the marriage need recalibrating.</p> <p><strong>Step six of marriage: Explosion</strong></p> <p>Job loss, major health problems, a move to a new city, financial troubles, the illness or death of a parent – as you pass through midlife and into the golden years, major life developments seem to come one upon the other. In the explosion phase, either you, your spouse, or both of you are dealing with major, life-shaking events that could affect your relationship for a day, a year, or the rest of your lives. While the other six stages tend to occur in order, the Explosion stage can happen at any time in a marriage – though it happens most as we pass through our 40s and 50s.</p> <p>Confronted by a personal crisis, your marriage can be a source of solace or be sorely tried by the unexpected pressure of new roles, new limitations and new fears. The mission of the explosion stage: deal the best you can with life’s challenges and changes, but at the same time, keep yourself happy and healthy. Letting your marriage see you through can be as simple as sharing daily joys, provided you sometimes practice the Zen-like art of putting aside fear and stress.</p> <p><strong>Stage seven of marriage: Completion</strong></p> <p>It’s no coincidence: lots of surveys find that marital happiness soars after several decades of a shared life. Experts say simply that it’s because the kids are grown, and couples know each other very, very well. But there’s more to it than that. Knowing each other isn’t merely about tolerating each other’s habits, quirks and needs. In the completion stage, ‘knowing’ each other has a far deeper meaning-and a bigger payoff as well.</p> <p>Part of being a happy man is to never lose the boy within; the same goes for women-there is the spirit of a young girl inside, no matter how many wrinkles edge the eyes. Maintaining a childlike love of life, laughter, nature, and each other is the real secret to a perpetually blessed relationship. It is also living in the present, not the past. In the completion stage of marriage, there is never a belief that the best times are over-they should always be today and tomorrow.</p> <p><em><span>This article first appeared in </span><a rel="noopener" href="https://www.readersdigest.co.nz/culture/the-7-stages-of-marriage" target="_blank"><span>Reader’s Digest</span></a><span>. For more of what you love from the world’s best-loved magazine, </span><a rel="noopener" href="http://readersdigest.innovations.co.nz/c/readersdigestemailsubscribe?utm_source=over60&amp;utm_medium=articles&amp;utm_campaign=RDSUB&amp;keycode=WRA87V" target="_blank"><span>here’s our best subscription offer.</span></a></em></p> <p><em><span>Image: Getty Images</span></em></p> <p><img style="width: 100px !important; height: 100px !important;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7820640/1.png" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/f30947086c8e47b89cb076eb5bb9b3e2" /></p>

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Seven bodies unearthed in Gabby Petito case

<p dir="ltr">Authorities have unearthed multiple sets of human remains while searching for Brian Laundrie in Florida, prompting a wave of conspiracy theories to emerge in response.</p> <p dir="ltr">FBI Special Agent Michael McPherson said that some of the remains were found during a search of the Myakkahatchee Creek Environmental Park and Carlton Reserve, south of Tampa, Florida, not far from Laundrie's parents' home. The shocking find comes after weeks of searching for Laundrie, who is considered a person of interest in Gabby Petito’s disappearance and death.</p> <p dir="ltr">In addition to the remains, authorities <a rel="noopener" href="https://www.oversixty.co.nz/finance/legal/gabby-petito-items-found-in-search-for-brian-laundrie" target="_blank">also found</a> a backpack and a notebook that they believe belonged to Laundrie, which up until recently were submerged in water. This has led armchair sleuths online to conclude that the most recent set of remains found belongs to Laundrie himself.</p> <p dir="ltr">Authorities have been searching for Laundrie for over a month; Gabby was reported missing on September 11, Laundrie was last seen on September 14, and Gabby’s body was found on September 19.</p> <p dir="ltr">In addition to the Myakkahatchee Creek Environmental Park and Carlton Reserve remains, the uncovering of several bodies around the country during the search has people wondering if the cases are connected. Two of the bodies that authorities found were initially flagged as potentially being linked to the case because they had been found near where the couple had been travelling. Meanwhile, a seventh body, belonging to a woman who went missing in Colorado near where the couple had been in early July, was found this week.</p> <p dir="ltr">These coincidences appear to some like a spree on Laundrie’s part, while others have pointed out that uncovering this many bodies in national parks is not “statistically significant”, and that the increase can largely be attributed to things like increased police presence and authorities receiving more tips from the public than usual.</p> <p dir="ltr">One Reddit user wrote, “This is all coincidence. People here are hyper-focused on certain parts of the country right now so they think anything that happens is relevant.”</p> <p dir="ltr">Other bodies found include a married couple who were found murdered in Utah, a man who died by suicide in Wyoming, and a woman who disappeared in California in June.</p> <p dir="ltr"><em>Image: Gabby Petito/Instagram</em></p>

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Seven money saving tips to keep your house warm

<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Staying warm during winter can be a costly experience, whether you already have a heating system or are looking to buy one.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">But, heating expert Chris Barnes from the consumer advocacy group CHOICE has some smart tips for staying cosy without spending a fortune.</span></p> <p><strong>1. Don’t assume an expensive heater will be the best</strong></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Though we often associate quality with an expensive price tag, product testing has revealed the opposite.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“Our product testing often reveals retail price isn’t the best indicator of performance,” Mr Barnes says. “So splashing cash on a high-end heater or aircon without doing your research could still leave you out in the cold.”</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">In fact, CHOICE experts found that budget heaters going for less than $100 were often better than those costing hundreds more.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“So don’t assume that just because a heater is expensive or from a well-known brand that it’s going to give you the best value for money,” he continues.</span></p> <p><strong>2. Avoid the cheap duds</strong></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">While staying away from the expensive models, it’s always wise to avoid the very cheap ones too.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">To get the best option, it’s important to do your research so that you can pick the gems from the dud models. Having a look at reviews and the results of product testing by CHOICE are just two of the tools you can use to find the best deal.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“Kmart Anko’s heaters, for example, have had the lowest test scores in the past two years. Their 2020 model may have just cost $55, but it scored only 45 percent in our tests - the worst heater result we’ve seen since 2014,” Mr Barnes says.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“But don’t be disheartened if you’re on a budget. Those same tests also uncovered some cheap gems that cost the same but performed a lot better.”</span></p> <p><strong>3. Heaters have different running costs</strong></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Heaters not only vary in how much they cost to buy, but how expensive they are to run too.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“In our analysis of more than 40 electric models, our experts found heater running costs can vary from $193 to $368, depending on the brand and design of heater (based on an estimated 500 hours of use and an electricity price of 30c/kWh),” Mr Barnes explains.</span></p> <p><strong>4. Utilise your ceiling fan’s reverse mode</strong></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Though fans are a must for summer, they can be quite handy during the colder months too.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Using them in reverse - also called winter or clockwise - mode in conjunction with your heating system can help the warm air spread across your house more evenly, rather than staying high up around the ceiling.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“Our lab analysis shows that, used this way, your heater has to do </span><span style="font-weight: 400;">far less work to maintain a constant temperature, which means lower power consumption and lower bills,” Mr Barnes says.</span></p> <p><strong>5. Don’t turn up the heat too much</strong></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">If you have a reverse-cycle air conditioning system, it could cost anywhere from $113 to $335 to heat up your home (assuming 500 hours of use and electricity costs of 30c/kWh) according to Mr Barnes.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">To cut costs, he recommends setting your air conditioner to a temperature about 8</span><span style="font-weight: 400;">°C higher or lower than the outside temperature.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“Basically, the harder your air conditioner has to work to heat your room, the more electricity it’s going to use,” he explains. </span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“As a helpful rule of thumb, each degree warmer usually adds about 10 percent to the running cost of your air conditioner.”</span></p> <p><strong>6. Heaters and laundry don’t mix</strong></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Though it might seem logical to dry your wet washing in front or on top of your heater, it will affect your heating bill.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">By obstructing the flow of air from the heater, it will have to work harder and stay on for longer to increase the temperature.</span></p> <p><strong>7. Watch out for draughts</strong></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Sealing gaps in your doors or around your windows will help keep the heat in and save you money on your energy bills, according to Mr Barnes.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“Cover gappy floorboards with rugs, close curtains and, if necessary, do a bit of simple DIY where the cold air is getting in,” he says.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Whether you pick up some silicone sealant or draught strips from your local hardware store or opt for a simple door snake, blocking small gaps can make a big difference.</span></p>

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Queen attends royal engagement for first time in seven months

<p><span>The Queen has stepped out for her first royal engagement in over seven months.</span><br /><br /><span>Her Majesty was joined by her grandson, Prince William, on Thursday as they met with the Salisbury novichok poisoning heroes.</span><br /><br /><span>The 94-year-old royal headed to Wiltshire to speak with staff who were involved in identifying the deadly nerve agent in Salisbury.</span><br /><br /><span>Despite the current coronavirus pandemic, neither royal wore a mask.</span><br /><br /><span>It was the first engagement outside a royal palace for the Queen since the Commonwealth Ceremony at Westminster Abbey on March 9.</span><br /><br /><span>Her visit follows after it was announced that London would go into Tier 2 restrictions at midnight on Friday, as the country is still struggling in its battle against the deadly virus.</span></p> <p><img style="width: 500px; height: 281.25px;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7838291/queen-1.jpg" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/b620364af840488097124b6501d428bf" /><br /><br /><span>Many were shocked by the royals decision to ditch the masks.</span><br /><br /><span>TV personality Piers Morgan tweeted: “Why no masks or social distancing? Sorry, but this is not a smart move by the royal family as the virus rages and the country heads into another lockdown.”</span><br /><br /><span>The palace said that the decision to not wear masks was made after consulting the Queen’s medical team.</span><br /><br /><span>“Specific advice has been sought from the medical household and relevant parties, and all necessary precautions taken, working closely with (the laboratory).”</span><br /><br /><span>The centre also tested the 48 staff members who came into contact the royals for COVID-19 before the visit could take place.</span><br /><br /><span>The Queen officially opened the £35 million ($A64 million) Energetics Analysis Centre at the high-security Defence Science and Technology Laboratory (DSTL).</span></p> <p><img style="width: 500px; height: 281.25px;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7838292/queen-2.jpg" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/bbc7d5b395704f94b850c84ddfdf3b0b" /><br /><br /><span>The centre tweeted today: “We’re delighted to have received the royal seal of approval for DSTL’s science inside defence and security, with Her Majesty the Queen and His Royal Highness the Duke of Cambridge visiting our site near Salisbury this morning.”</span><br /><br /><span>Her Majesty and Prince William were given a private tour of the Energetics Enclosure.</span><br /><br /><span>Together they were shown a display of weaponry and tactics used in counter intelligence.</span><br /><br /><span>The royal engagement follows after the Queen returned to Windsor Castle earlier this month.</span><br /><br /><span>She has started back her work at Buckingham Palace after being held in a “ring of steel” by palace chiefs since March.</span><br /><br /><span>Teams of 24 key aides have worked three weeks on and three weeks off to keep the monarch safe from COVID-19.</span><br /><br /><span>Although the Queen has held private engagements inside Windsor Castle during the pandemic, she has not been seen out in public or attending engagements since March 9.</span></p>

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Couple who left toddler to go on holiday are still separated seven weeks later

<p>A Dubai couple have been left stranded for more than seven weeks without their toddler while holidaying when South Africa went into strict lockdown due to the coronavirus.</p> <p>British lawyer Mark Hill, 52, and his Italian wife Chiara Maioni, 44, who live in Dubai, left their two-year-old daughter Skye in the care of their beloved nanny and extended family while they travelled to Cape Town for what was meant to be a nine-day holiday.</p> <p>The pair left for their getaway on March 11, just a day after WHO declared a global pandemic.</p> <p>Days later, South Africa issued a strict travel ban in a bid to stop the spread of COVID-19, which was closely replicated by the United Arab Emirates days later.</p> <p><img style="width: 500px; height: 281.25px;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7835908/couple-1.jpg" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/10b5758da0b64d56b6ad649081deba56" /></p> <p>The pair eventually made it back to their home country, but have been forced to suffer a further nine days apart from their little girl while they remain under strict quarantine in Dubai.</p> <p>Mr Hill told the MailOnline that the situation is “horrendous, a complete nightmare” and “very stressful”.</p> <p>“The world changed overnight and we found ourselves in the complete unknown,” he said.</p> <p>“We didn’t have a clue how long the lockdown would last and how to get home.</p> <p>“We were stranded in a foreign country that we did not know. We watched as airports around the world closed and airlines stopped flying.”</p> <p>Mr Hill went on to say he and his wife have never been apart from their children for more than a few days.</p> <p><span>“This is the first time we have left home without Skye and I feel terribly guilty about this,” Ms Maioni said.</span></p> <p>The couple went on to explain they were staying in close contact with Skye through video calls three times a day.</p> <p>“But when your two-year-old daughter reaches up to the screen because she wants to touch you, it’s heartbreaking,” Mr Hill said.</p> <p>His wife added: “Our children are very special for us. It was really difficult to be separated from them. This is a miracle for us to be home.”</p> <p>Mr Hill and Ms Maioni, were able to board a government repatriation flight to Dubai, arriving in the early hours of April 23, after two days of travelling via Frankfurt.</p> <p>“When we finally get to see Skye there will be lots of group hugs with the kids and my wife,” he said.</p>

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World War II-era plane crash kills seven

<p>At least seven people were killed in the World War II-era plane crash at a Connecticut airport on Wednesday, officials said.</p> <p>The four-engine, propeller-driven Boeing B-17 bomber was carrying 13 people on board when it struggled to get into air after take-off and crash-landed at Hartford’s Bradley International Airport, bursting into flames.</p> <p>Public Safety Commissioner James Rovella said the remaining six people suffered severe injuries, and <a rel="noopener" href="https://nypost.com/2019/10/02/7-confirmed-dead-in-connecticut-wwii-era-plane-crash-number-may-rise/" target="_blank">the death toll could rise</a>.</p> <p>The 75-year-old restored aircraft is owned by the Collings Foundation, an education group that hosts historical re-enactments, authorities said. It was among the <a rel="noopener" href="https://edition.cnn.com/us/live-news/world-war-ii-plane-crash-connecticut/index.html" target="_blank">13,000 B-17 bombers produced ahead of and during World War II</a>, and <a rel="noopener" href="https://www.cbsnews.com/news/bradley-airport-plane-crash-boeing-b-17-flying-fortress-crashes-connecticut-today-7-killed-live-updates-2019-10-02/" target="_blank">one of the 18 left in the US</a>.</p> <p>“Our thoughts and prayers are with those who were on that flight, and we will be forever grateful to the heroic efforts of the first responders at Bradley,” Collings Foundation said in a statement.</p> <p>“The Collings Foundation flight team is fully cooperating with officials to determine the cause of the crash of the B-17 Flying Fortress and will comment further when details become known.”</p> <p>Connecticut Governor Ned Lamont said, “These are husbands and wives and brothers and sisters and children and all part of our Connecticut family. And we feel our hearts are broken for you right now.”</p>

Travel Trouble

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The cat that gets to travel the seven seas

<p>One thing many people can agree on when going overseas is you miss your beloved pets at home. However, for this cruise ship captain, she’s lucky enough to be able to bring her cat with her on every voyage out to sea.</p> <p>Kate McCue, Celebrity Cruises' Captain, has been travelling with her Elf Sphynx cat, Bug Naked, for over two years – and he's seeing the world through his own eyes.</p> <p>Bug Naked has also proven to be popular, amassing over 18,000 Instagram followers.</p> <blockquote style="background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);" class="instagram-media" data-instgrm-captioned="" data-instgrm-permalink="https://www.instagram.com/p/Bt4XUSIB6eA/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_medium=loading" data-instgrm-version="12"> <div style="padding: 16px;"> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 40px; margin-right: 14px; width: 40px;"></div> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 100px;"></div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 60px;"></div> </div> </div> <div style="padding: 19% 0;"></div> <div style="display: block; height: 50px; margin: 0 auto 12px; width: 50px;"></div> <div style="padding-top: 8px;"> <div style="color: #3897f0; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 550; line-height: 18px;">View this post on Instagram</div> </div> <p style="margin: 8px 0 0 0; padding: 0 4px;"><a style="color: #000; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none; word-wrap: break-word;" rel="noopener" href="https://www.instagram.com/p/Bt4XUSIB6eA/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_medium=loading" target="_blank">Busted sleeping on the job... again. . #happyvalentinesday #bugslife #pinkyandthebrain #captainscat #elf #sphynx #hairless #cat #cats #cats_of_instagram #catsofinstagram #sphynxlair #sphynxlove #sphynxcat #sphynxofinstagram #hairless_catstagram #hairlesscat #nakedcat #naked #sphynxismyworld #love #sphynx_feature #kitten #kittensofinstagram #loveit #life #nocoatkittygraduates</a></p> <p style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;">A post shared by <a style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px;" rel="noopener" href="https://www.instagram.com/bugnaked/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_medium=loading" target="_blank"> Bug Naked</a> (@bugnaked) on Feb 14, 2019 at 3:30pm PST</p> </div> </blockquote> <p>The gorgeous Sphynx has travelled far and wide and although it  might seem strange to some, for 41-year-old Kate this is her reality for months at a time.</p> <p>Easy-going and glamorous, the cruise captain is continuing to defy the standards for cruise captains. She is an advocate for getting to know each crew member – and does this by going out of her way to public areas to socialise.</p> <p>“People want to talk to you and I’ve found that if I go to a captain’s dinner, I spend three hours with eight people which still leaves 2,900 people to [talk to],” <a rel="noopener" href="https://www.telegraph.co.uk/travel/cruises/articles/if-you-can-see-it-you-can-be-it-insta-famous-captain-making-cruise-cool/" target="_blank">she told the Telegraph.</a></p> <p>The captain has pioneered her own style of captaining for over 13 years of working on cruise ships with her sweet cat constantly by her side.  </p> <p>Scroll through the gallery above to see Bug Naked’s travelling adventures! </p> <p>All images: Instagram @captainkatemccue @bugnaked</p>

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Clint Eastwood’s “secret daughter” photographed for the first time with her seven siblings

<p>Whispers of Clint Eastwood having an eighth child who he gave up for adoption before he became a household name have been going around for years.</p> <p>And on Monday night, the rumour was confirmed as all of Clint’s children, including his mysterious first born, came to support their father for the premiere of his movie<span> </span><em>The Mule</em>.</p> <p>Clint has eight children from six different women, two of which are his ex-wives.</p> <p>His unknown daughter goes by name of Laurie Eastwood and is Clint’s firstborn. She was photographed with her seven siblings whilst attending the event.</p> <p>Clint, 88, was spotted having a drink with Laurie as the two were engulfed in a conversation at the Regency Village Theatre in Los Angeles.</p> <p>Taking to Instagram, Clint’s youngest offspring, Morgan Eastwood, 22, confirmed the news as she posted a photo of all the siblings together and captioned it: “SO RARE for all 8 Eastwood siblings to be in one room!!!”</p> <blockquote style="background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);" class="instagram-media" data-instgrm-captioned="" data-instgrm-permalink="https://www.instagram.com/p/BrPa_rUHkte/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_medium=loading" data-instgrm-version="12"> <div style="padding: 16px;"> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 40px; margin-right: 14px; width: 40px;"></div> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 100px;"></div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 60px;"></div> </div> </div> <div style="padding: 19% 0;"></div> <div style="display: block; height: 50px; margin: 0 auto 12px; width: 50px;"></div> <div style="padding-top: 8px;"> <div style="color: #3897f0; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 550; line-height: 18px;">View this post on Instagram</div> </div> <p style="margin: 8px 0 0 0; padding: 0 4px;"><a style="color: #000; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none; word-wrap: break-word;" rel="noopener" href="https://www.instagram.com/p/BrPa_rUHkte/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_medium=loading" target="_blank">All 8 of us together 🖤 love my brothers and sisters so much</a></p> <p style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;">A post shared by <a style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px;" rel="noopener" href="https://www.instagram.com/francescaeastwood/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_medium=loading" target="_blank"> Francesca Eastwood</a> (@francescaeastwood) on Dec 11, 2018 at 12:50am PST</p> </div> </blockquote> <p>Clint’s daughter, Alison Eastwood, with first wife Maggie Johnson, also shared a happy snap of the reunion to her own Instagram.</p> <p>“I’m not sure there has ever been a picture of all 8 kids together but here it is,” she wrote.</p> <p>It is assumed that Laurie was born during Clint’s secret affair with a woman in Seattle, during his engagement to Maggie in 1953.</p> <p>Patrick McGilligan, Clint’s biographer, had previously spoken about the existence of Laurie, and claimed the Hollywood star was in a serious relationship with her mother.</p> <p>“Clint has a way of bringing his progeny – his big extended family – together and he’s been doing this for a long time,” McGilligan told the<span> </span><a rel="noopener" href="https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-6484713/Clint-Eastwood-pictured-time-secret-daughter-Laurie.html" target="_blank"><em>Daily Mail</em></a>.</p> <p>“One of the things that’s interesting about him is that, after a certain point in time, they were no longer hidden from the public view. He, in various ways, tried to be a father to them.”</p> <p>“He seems to be very comfortable with it, and I think to some extent that’s admirable.”</p> <p>Also attending the premiere was Maggie, who was married to Clint from 1953 to 1984.</p> <p>Clint is currently dating 55-year-old Christina Sandera, who is 33 years younger than him. She accompanied the film maker to the premiere to show her support.</p> <p>Clint has a total of eight children, including Laurie, Alison, Kyle Eastwood, Kimber Tunis, Jacelyn Reeves, Scott Eastwood and Kathryn Reeves, with the youngest being Morgan. </p>

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