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"I’m sorry, but no": Passenger on 12-hour flight stops woman from reclining

<p>A passenger on a 12-hour flight from Paris to Los Angeles went to great lengths to stop the woman in front of her from reclining her seat. </p> <p>The footage captured on August 13 shows a woman in a black jumper stretching her arms out in attempt to prevent the passenger in front of her from reclining, reported <em>The Sun</em>. </p> <p>The chair jolts as the passenger in front kept trying to move back the seat, but the woman behind her was persistent, and used all of her strength to push the seat forward and keep it in an upright position. </p> <p>The traveller seemed to give up trying to recline her seat, but the woman behind her continued to place her hands on the seat. </p> <p>“I’m sorry, I’m sorry, but no,” she says as she continued her attempts.</p> <p>As tension rose between the two passengers, the woman in front gets fed up and asked if she could talk to someone, before confronting the traveller behind her. </p> <p>“Just let me know, what’s going on?,” she asked.</p> <p>“I said respectfully, can you please stop moving it back?" the woman behind her responded. </p> <p>“Respect the person behind you,” as the person in front explained that she is trying to recline her seat so she can sleep. </p> <p>The woman behind continued to tell her to “respect the person behind you” as she tried to watch a movie on her laptop. </p> <p>The confrontation seemed to work as the seat in front came to a standstill. </p> <p><em>Images: The Sun</em></p>

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"I will die sorry": Phillip Schofield breaks his silence on his career-ending affair

<p>Former <em>This Morning </em>host Phillip Schofield has broken his silence over his affair with a colleague 30 years his junior in an interview with <em>The Sun</em>. </p> <p>And while the disgraced British television star shared that he had been left feeling “utterly broken and ashamed” over the whole ordeal, he stressed that any rumours of grooming were not true. </p> <p>“I did not,” he told the publication, after a week of the social media rumour mill running riot. “I did not [groom him].”</p> <p>“I know the photos of us circulating on Twitter look shocking, but I’m not a groomer,” Phillip insisted.</p> <p>He noted that “there are accusations of all sorts of things”, but claimed that had never been an abuse of power, as “we’d become mates … but of course I understand that there will be a massive judgement, but bearing in mind, I have never exercised that anywhere else.”</p> <p>According to Phillip, the two remain friends. And although the ex-show runner had been 30 years younger than him at the time of their affair, he added that the relationship had only begun after the man was 20 years old, when “something just happened between us that changed everything.” </p> <p>“I assume somebody, somewhere, assumed something was going on, correctly” he shared, “and didn't say anything. </p> <p>“At the time I did not think about it possibly ruining my career. I really probably only thought about it when I saw the rumour mill, and saw it growing.</p> <p>“Then I saw the link with the drama school photo [from] all those years before, and thought, ‘this looks shocking’."</p> <p>However, as Phillip said, he hadn’t lied in order to protect his own career, but instead because the other man in the affair hadn’t wanted “his name in public. He wanted his own life.” </p> <p>Phillip explained that “the lies grew bigger and bigger and bigger”, and that it was starting to have a deep effect on both of them. </p> <p>“It got to the stage where it was out of control,” he said, “and for whatever cost, it had to stop.</p> <p>“I have massive guilt, and regret. I’ve made a mistake, I’ve had an affair at work.”</p> <p> “I think my greatest apology must go to him,” Phillip revealed. “It has brought the greatest misery into his totally innocent life, his totally innocent family, his totally innocent friends.</p> <p>“It has brought the greatest grief to them.”</p> <p>He added that the pair hadn’t spoken since the story broke - and that he also no longer speaks to his former friend and co-host Holly Willoughby - but that when things began to spiral out of control, he’d “paid for his lawyers to independently work on his behalf. </p> <p>“I am deeply sorry and I apologise to him because I should have known better. I should have acted the way I have always acted. I should not have done it.</p> <p>“I’m sorry. And I will forever be sorry. I will die sorry. I am so deeply mortified.”</p> <p><em>Images: Getty</em></p>

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"I'm so sorry I had to do this": Thief leaves hand-written apology and desperate promise

<p>One desperate thief had left behind quite a sad note after committing a crime in Auckland.</p> <p>In an interesting turn of events, a couple had woken up to find their car had been broken into and the battery was stolen overnight. The offender had left behind a hand-written note in the engine addressed to the victims, apologising to them.</p> <p>The note read: “I’m so sorry I had to do this. When I am in a fortunate position I will put $200 in your wipers.”</p> <p>One of the victims shared: “The thief actually left a nice note. Don’t feel half as angry as I should but still have no way to get to work.”</p> <p>The resident, who wished to remain anonymous, told the Herald that while she should have been furious she wishes the offender had knocked on the door asking for help instead.</p> <p>“I personally felt a bit sorry that he was in such strife that he turned to crime. So I should have been angry - and probably would have been if he hadn’t left the note.</p> <p>“It’s tough out there for some and getting worse. I’d probably have just bloody given him the money if he’d knocked on the door.”</p> <p>Her husband also showed immense sympathy, despite having their privacy violated and being stolen from.</p> <p>“I couldn’t even feel angry about it in the end. It was more or less an apology. We’re all living hard lives at the moment with inflation and the cost of living going up, it’s sad that there is someone out there going around that desperate."</p> <p>While showing sympathy for the offender, the victims also described the note as “strange” given they were able to rip a battery out “in a hurry” but had enough time to “write and deposit a note”.</p> <p><em>Image: NZ Herald </em></p>

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"I'm so sorry": Adele issues teary apology

<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Pop legend Adele has made a </span><a rel="noopener" href="https://www.news.com.au/entertainment/music/im-really-sorry-adeles-shock-announcement-on-eve-of-vegas-residency/news-story/92152db4a75ff220d6ff3aae7d233d03" target="_blank"><span style="font-weight: 400;">teary announcement</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> online that shocked fans, revealing she has postponed her highly-anticipated Las Vegas residency the day before it was due to open.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The 33-year-old was due to debut her </span><em><span style="font-weight: 400;">Weekends with Adele</span></em><span style="font-weight: 400;"> residency at Caesars Palace in Las Vegas on Friday, January 21, playing two shows every weekend until April.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">But, just 24 hours before her first show, Adele took to Instagram to make her announcement.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">She explained that she “wasn’t ready” for the residency, first announced in November 2021, due to Covid and other production delays.</span></p> <blockquote style="background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);" class="instagram-media" data-instgrm-captioned="" data-instgrm-permalink="https://www.instagram.com/tv/CY-AYtZAgp-/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" data-instgrm-version="14"> <div style="padding: 16px;"> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 40px; margin-right: 14px; width: 40px;"></div> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 100px;"></div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 60px;"></div> </div> </div> <div style="padding: 19% 0;"></div> <div style="display: block; height: 50px; margin: 0 auto 12px; width: 50px;"></div> <div style="padding-top: 8px;"> <div style="color: #3897f0; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 550; line-height: 18px;">View this post on Instagram</div> </div> <p style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;"><a style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none;" rel="noopener" href="https://www.instagram.com/tv/CY-AYtZAgp-/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" target="_blank">A post shared by Adele (@adele)</a></p> </div> </blockquote> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“I’m so sorry, but my show ain’t ready. We’ve tried absolutely everything that we can to pull it together and have it ready in time for you, but we’ve been absolutely destroyed by delivery delays and Covid,” she began in the clip.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“Half my crew, half my team are down with Covid - still are. It’s been impossible to finish the show. I can’t give you what I have right now, and I’m gutted,” she continued.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“I’m sorry it’s so last-minute. We’ve been awake for over 30 hours now trying to figure it out and … we’ve run out of time. I’m so upset and I’m really embarrassed and I’m so sorry to everyone that’s travelled again.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“I’m really, really sorry. We’re on it, we’re going to reschedule all of the dates, and I’m going to finish my show and get it to where it’s supposed to be.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“It’s been impossible. We’ve been up against so much and it just ain’t ready.”</span></p> <blockquote style="background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);" class="instagram-media" data-instgrm-captioned="" data-instgrm-permalink="https://www.instagram.com/p/CW53ZoEgv-m/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" data-instgrm-version="14"> <div style="padding: 16px;"> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 40px; margin-right: 14px; width: 40px;"></div> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 100px;"></div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 60px;"></div> </div> </div> <div style="padding: 19% 0;"></div> <div style="display: block; height: 50px; margin: 0 auto 12px; width: 50px;"></div> <div style="padding-top: 8px;"> <div style="color: #3897f0; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 550; line-height: 18px;">View this post on Instagram</div> </div> <p style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;"><a style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none;" rel="noopener" href="https://www.instagram.com/p/CW53ZoEgv-m/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" target="_blank">A post shared by Adele (@adele)</a></p> </div> </blockquote> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The star’s announcement even seemed to take the venue by surprise, with Caesars Palace still listing the start date as January 21 on its website.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Though Adele has simply said that “all dates will be rescheduled” in a caption accompanying her announcement, it’s unclear how many of the shows will be affected.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Adele is expected to earn almost $1 million per show, with </span><em><span style="font-weight: 400;">The Sun</span></em><span style="font-weight: 400;"> reporting that the singer will also enjoy some perks during her stay at the famed location.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The casino will provide the </span><em><span style="font-weight: 400;">Easy On Me</span></em><span style="font-weight: 400;"> singer with a “$56,000-a-night private suite accessible at any time during the residency, a butler, an executive assistant, chauffeur and security”, as well as free food and drinks for her and any guests staying at a Caesars resort.</span></p> <p><em><span style="font-weight: 400;">Image: @adele (Instagram)</span></em></p>

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“I am so sorry for everything”: Perth mum faces trial after killing her daughters

<p><em><span style="font-weight: 400;">Content warning: This article contains distressing content, including mentions of suicide, which may be distressing to some readers</span><span style="font-weight: 400;">.</span></em></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">A mentally ill Perth woman on trial for two counts of murder of her young daughters believed she was sparing them from suffering, the </span><a rel="noopener" href="https://7news.com.au/news/wa/perth-mother-milka-djurasovic-gives-harrowing-evidence-after-killing-her-two-daughters-c-4930294" target="_blank"><span style="font-weight: 400;">court has heard</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Milka Djurasovic is facing a judge-alone trial in the Supreme Court of Western Australia for killing her daughters, Mia, 10, and Tiana, six, before attempting to take her own life.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Mia and Tiana’s bodies were found by their father Nenad at their Madeley home in October 2019.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Ms Djurasovic admitted to killing them, but argues that she isn’t guilty because she was of unsound mind.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">After their deaths, the 40-year-old was diagnosed with major depression with psychotic features. The court has heard she had previously struggled with worsening mental health issues, and feared that her children would be forced into care if she had to be hospitalised.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">According to an agreed statement of facts submitted to the court, Ms Djurasovic woke up at around 7am on the day of the killings, thought to herself “today’s the day”, and subsequently placed knives, machetes, and rope in the pantry.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Tiana cried when she saw the ropes and knives, asked her mother “are you going to do something to me?”, and said she wanted to go to school.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Ms Djurasovic “snapped out of it” and helped the girls get ready for school. While on the phone with her husband, she sounded upbeat and normal.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">When she arrived at the school gates, Ms Djurasovic parked for a few minutes before deciding to return home. She told Tiana they were going shopping.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Later that morning, Ms Djurasovic decided to proceed with her plan to kill the girls and herself, plugging a vacuum cleaner in and leaving it running to drown out any sound.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">After killing her daughters, Ms Djurasovic paced around, kissed and hugged the girls, and placed toys next to their bodies.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">She then attempted to take her own life several times, and made a video in which she repeatedly apologised and urged her husband, Nenad, to let her die.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">When Nenad returned home that afternoon, he discovered Mia’s body. Tiana’s body was later found by paramedics.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Ms Djurasovic was found by police a short time later covered in a blanket in sand dunes at a nearby beach, having attempted to end her life again.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Several notes Djurasovic had handwritten or typed were also found at the home.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“I love my girls more than anyone and anything and I am so sorry for not looking after them better,” she wrote.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“I should have been more ‘connected’ to my husband and friends.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“I did not like talking about my problems. I wish I had. I am so sorry for everything.”</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Ms Djurasovic also wrote to her husband about her girls in Serbian, saying they were already nervous and anxious. She added that she didn’t want them to “end up on medication, doing drugs and all that is killing me”.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“I am at fault for everything,” she wrote in the letter.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“I did nothing bad on purpose but that is how it ended up.”</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Dr Adam Brett, the psychiatrist who interviewed Ms Djurasovic twice while she was in custody earlier this year, said he was confident the accused had been mentally impaired at the time of the deaths and lacked the capacity to know she shouldn’t do such a thing.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Dr Brett told the court that she had nihilistic delusions and believed she was saving her daughters from the “awful things” she had experienced.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“She loved them so much she didn’t want them to suffer in the same way she did,” Dr Brett told the court.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Ms Djurasovic briefly took the stand on Monday and was questioned by her lawyer Mark Trowell QC. She asserted that she had been honest throughout her interviews with police and Dr Brett.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Her trial continues.</span></p> <p><strong>If you or a member of your family need help in a crisis, please call Lifeline on 13 11 14.</strong></p> <p><em>Image: 7NEWS</em></p>

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“Sorry you’re over me”: Jacinda Ardern calls out online hater

<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Two years into the COVID-19 pandemic, everyone’s patience is wearing thin - and even prime ministers aren’t immune.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Prime Minister Jacinda Ardern </span><a rel="noopener" href="https://au.news.yahoo.com/jacinda-ardern-calls-out-critic-during-facebook-live-102851454.html" target="_blank"><span style="font-weight: 400;">reminded</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> people that they could just keep scrolling during one of her Facebook live streams, after one user left an irritating comment.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“Over you. Over your mandate. People are suffering from your poor choices. Merry Xmas Aotearoa,” the user wrote.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Ardern, who has used Facebook live to provide updates and answer questions from viewers, usually doesn’t respond to the negative comments she receives.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">This time, she decided to directly address the woman during the video.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“Um, Amanda. Sorry you’re over me. But you don’t have to stay on my Facebook Live if I’m bothering you,” the Prime Minister said.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“I’m sure there are many other things you could do with your time if you find this irritating.”</span></p> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet"> <p dir="ltr">100% here for this sass from Jacinda Ardern<br /><br />“Amanda: I’m sorry you’re over me, but you don’t have to stay on my Facebook Live if I’m bothering you. I’m sure there’s many other things you could do with your time that you find less irritating.”<a href="https://t.co/53RLBWtIsY">pic.twitter.com/53RLBWtIsY</a></p> — Ashleigh Stewart (@Ash_Stewart_) <a href="https://twitter.com/Ash_Stewart_/status/1468779270495477770?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">December 9, 2021</a></blockquote> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Ardern moved on, continuing to answer questions about Covid cases and vaccine numbers.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">She also took time during the 12-minute video to answer questions about vaccine mandates for children, clarifying that the government would “absolutely not” introduce those rules.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“It’s not something we do. Once we receive the advice on vaccines for kids, of course then we would support or encourage, but not mandates.”</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Earlier in the video, Ardern shared the news that the government had recently purchased 60,000 doses of a new antiviral drug for COVID-19. </span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“What the early evidence suggests is that this particular drug, if taken between three to five days of the onset of your symptoms, can reduce severe illness and hospitalisation,” she </span><a rel="noopener" href="https://www.nzherald.co.nz/nz/prime-minister-jacinda-ardern-shuts-down-facebook-commenter-during-live-video/BUITGNVMMOCGJJ3JYFNRNMH6Y4/" target="_blank"><span style="font-weight: 400;">explained</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“It’s fantastic for New Zealand.”</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The new drug still requires approval from Medsafe before it can be used.</span></p> <p><em><span style="font-weight: 400;">Images: Jacinda Ardern (Facebook) / @Ash_Stewart (Twitter)</span></em></p>

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“I’m so sorry”: Guy Sebastian apologises for pro-vax video

<p>Guy Sebastian has issued an emotional apology after posting a now-deleted social media message urging Australians to get vaccinated which was part a music industry advertisement called #VaxTheNation’.</p> <p>In an Instagram video shared late Monday night, <em>The Voice </em>judge claimed the original post from #VaxTheNation had been published without his “direct involvement” and he told his followers he was “really sorry.”</p> <p>“I would never, ever tell people what to do when it comes to their personal health choices,” he said.</p> <blockquote style="background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);" class="instagram-media" data-instgrm-permalink="https://www.instagram.com/tv/CTetG9WlvjV/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" data-instgrm-version="13"> <div style="padding: 16px;"> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 40px; margin-right: 14px; width: 40px;"></div> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 100px;"></div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 60px;"></div> </div> </div> <div style="padding: 19% 0;"></div> <div style="display: block; height: 50px; margin: 0 auto 12px; width: 50px;"></div> <div style="padding-top: 8px;"> <div style="color: #3897f0; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 550; line-height: 18px;">View this post on Instagram</div> </div> <p style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;"><a style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none;" rel="noopener" href="https://www.instagram.com/tv/CTetG9WlvjV/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" target="_blank">A post shared by guysebastian (@guysebastian)</a></p> </div> </blockquote> <p><strong>#VaxTheNation is an advertising campaign</strong></p> <p>#VaxTheNation is an advertising campaign for the music industry, urging Australians to get vaccinated so live shows can resume.</p> <p>Music industry heavyweights including Jimmy Barnes, Amy Shark, and the Hilltop Hoods, along with major record labels, ticketing agencies and festival organisers, have backed the <a rel="noopener" href="https://www.vaxthenation.com.au/" target="_blank">#VaxTheNation</a><br />initiative, which was released on Monday.</p> <p>The campaign calls for Australians to help “stop the interruptions” to the entertainment industry and help end the cycle of lockdowns.</p> <p>Sebastian is promoted among the high-profile names behind the cause.</p> <p>But it seems Sebastian has had second thoughts and he aired these on his Instagram video, saying:</p> <p>“I’m sure some of you today would have seen an industry call-out with the best of intentions for our live music industry – which has been absolutely decimated – trying to find a pathway forward so that we can all assemble together again.”</p> <p>“While I, like everybody else in my industry, want things to get going again, it is not my role to communicate in a way that that post was communicated,” he said.</p> <p>“I would never, ever tell people what to do when it comes to their personal health choices. I’m very sensitive of it – not only on a public level, but even in my personal life, with people who have circumstances that they have to consider when making these choices.”</p> <p>Sebastian ended with a direct apology: “I just want to say I’m really sorry, it was not a post that communicated with the love or compassion which I feel is needed when it comes to addressing things like vaccinations.</p> <p>“I just wanted to clarify that so I could speak my truth and people would know how I actually feel.”</p> <p><strong>Apology seems to have backfired</strong></p> <p>It seems the apology video seems to have backfired, with many fans and fellow musos left confused by his message.</p> <p><strong>Ben Lee</strong> tweeted: ‘To be honest, this is actually a really sad example of what happens when your career is dependent on trying to be all things to all people.’</p> <p>Another tweeted: ‘Man, any musicians apologising for trying to get back to work by advocating for a safer audience is self defeating. Unpack your spine ya goofballs.’</p> <p>And <strong>Joel Creasey</strong> tweeted: ‘But seriously, Guy trying to sit on the fence in a pandemic is a fun new move.’</p> <p>Last year, Sebastian copped a similar backlash from the industry after posing with Prime Minister Scott Morrison in an unpaid role to help promote the federal government’s $250 million emergency relief package.</p> <p>But the botched funding was widely criticised by the entertainment industry, who were disappointed by the slow rollout - and Sebastian later told the <em>Herald Sun</em> he felt he’d been used as a “prop” by the Federal Government.</p> <p>“I copped it, because I was trying to support something I believed would make a difference. And it hasn’t, so that’s on me,” Sebastian said.</p> <p>“I made that decision, I’ll cop it, that’s fair enough. But it doesn’t mean I agree with how it’s been rolled out, I think it’s dismal.”</p> <p><strong>Sebastian’s personal decision</strong></p> <p>In a statement to news.com.au, Sebastian made his position on vaccination clear: “There is no confusion, I made the personal decision to be double vaccinated. I support the music industry initiatives to revive our industry, however, I personally don’t believe it is my place to deal in absolutes to tell people what to do in regards to their personal health choices. We need to remember to communicate with empathy and understanding. This has always been my goal.”</p> <p><em>Image: Instagram</em></p>

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“Sorry, not sorry”: Wedding videographer refuses to issue refund after bride-to-be dies

<p>A man who lost his fiancée in a car crash has been threatened with a lawsuit after he requested a refund from the wedding videography company the couple had hired.</p> <p>Justin Montney, 24, was forced to cancel his May wedding after his 22-year-old bride-to-be Alexis-Athena Wyatt died in February.</p> <p>Montney said the Texas, US-based videography company Copper Stallion Media refused to refund his US$1,800 deposit, saying it was non-refundable.</p> <p>The man told <em><a href="https://www.buzzfeednews.com/article/skbaer/wedding-videographer-refuses-refund-fiance-death">Buzzfeed News</a> </em>he reached out to the company again last week, informing them he planned to share the dispute on social media. The company threatened to sue him and Wyatt’s family in response to a review her mother wrote on wedding website The Knot.</p> <p>“They should have been able to [issue a refund] because they didn’t render any services,” Montney told KRDO-TV.</p> <p>He said the company offered to extend their service to his next wedding, which was “a very a very insensitive thing to tell me”.</p> <p>Montney said other vendors did not hesitate to refund their money after learning about Wyatt’s death. “They obviously felt terrible for what had happened,” he said.</p> <p>After Montney went public with his experience, Copper Stallion Media created a website using Montney’s name – JustinMontney.com – to rebut his claims, accusing him of driving a “smear campaign”.</p> <p>“We understand a death occurred, but it’s not right for people to turn to the internet and sodomize the reputation of a company,” read the text, which has since been removed on the website.</p> <p>“He could have quietly filed a small claim to ‘try’ to recoup the non-refundable deposit. Instead, he chose the internet to shake us down.”</p> <p><img style="width: 500px; height: 281.25px; display: block; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7836261/jm2.jpg" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/42c8a0c6a3154718a7ebc539453dc355" /></p> <p>On May 23, the company posted a photo of the couple with the caption: “Today would have been the day where we would have filmed Justin and Alexis’ wedding in Colorado Springs.</p> <p>“After what Justin pulled with the media stunt to try and shake us down for a refund, we hope you sob and cry all day for what would have been your wedding day.</p> <p>“Sorry, not sorry.”</p> <p>Copper Stallion Media has since shut down their pages on Facebook and The Knot.</p> <p>Videographer Alex Murphy, who used to work for the company, told <em><a href="https://www.thedenverchannel.com/news/contact7/wedding-videographer-refuses-to-provide-refund-after-brides-death-harasses-her-family">The Denver Channel</a></em> he left because they refused to pay him.</p> <p>He said his final paycheck came from Las Vegas-registered company Organized Weddings LLC, which is associated with a man named Jesse J Clark.</p> <p>Clark was sued by Massachusetts’ attorney general in 2013 for defrauding 90 couples by accepting payments and failing to provide their wedding videos, according to the <em><a href="https://www.telegram.com/article/20130426/NEWS/104269782">Telegram &amp; Gazette</a></em>.</p>

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Sorry, not sorry: Djokovic speaks out on patting chair umpire's feet

<p>Novak Djokovic has apologised for touching the umpire during his Australian Open final match on Sunday night.</p> <p>The Serb initially defended his decision to tap official Damien Dumusois twice on the foot, describing it as “a nice, really friendly touch”, but expressed his regret on Monday.</p> <p>“In a professional sport, things happen that obviously you’re not proud of,” Djokovic said.</p> <p>“Sometimes you do things that you’re not happy with and you go through different emotions, you go through ups and downs.</p> <p>“Of course, I’m not happy that I touched the chair umpire. And I’m sorry if I offended him or anybody else.</p> <p>“But in the heat of the battle, some decisions that he makes or some decision that happens just distracts you and sets you off the balance a little bit.”</p> <p>According to the official grand slam rule book, Djokovic could be charged with a fine of up to NZ$30,959 for the action.</p> <p>“Players shall not at any time physically abuse any official, opponent, spectator or other person within the precincts of the tournament site,” the rules state. “Violation of this section shall subject a player to a fine up to US$20,000 [NZ$30,959] for each violation.”</p> <p>In the post-match press conference, Djokovic said he did not believe he overstepped the mark. “For touching his shoe? I mean, I didn’t know that’s completely forbidden,” he said after securing his 6-4, 4-6, 2-6, 6-3, 6-4 against Dominic Thiem.</p> <p>“I thought it was a nice, really friendly touch. I wasn’t aggressive with him in terms of physical abuse.”</p>

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"Sorry, America": Gwyneth Paltrow censored for her spicy take on teens

<p>Gwyneth Paltrow has prompted a breakfast TV show to censor her after she roasted her teenage children.</p> <p>Speaking to Savannah Guthrie on US’<span> </span><em>Today<span> </span></em>show, Paltrow was discussing what it was like to parent the two kids she shares with former husband Chris Martin, 15-year-old Apple Martin and 13-year-old Moses Martin, when she slipped out a dirty word.</p> <p>“It’s the best,” she said. “They’re really coming into themselves. They’re hilarious. They’re smart. They can talk. They can sort of muse about things, it’s just the greatest. I mean, yeah, they can be kind of, you know, d***s once in a while.”</p> <p>The comment aired without being censored but was later bleeped out in the online clip.</p> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet" data-lang="en"> <p dir="ltr">.<a href="https://twitter.com/GwynethPaltrow?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">@GwynethPaltrow</a> talks to <a href="https://twitter.com/SavannahGuthrie?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">@savannahguthrie</a> about working with her husband Brad Falchuk on <a href="https://twitter.com/the_Politician?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">@the_Politician</a>, and she says that <a href="https://twitter.com/LauraDern?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">@LauraDern</a> predicted her career in business years ago. <a href="https://t.co/dMBmpklfGg">pic.twitter.com/dMBmpklfGg</a></p> — TODAY (@TODAYshow) <a href="https://twitter.com/TODAYshow/status/1177197675189559296?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">September 26, 2019</a></blockquote> <p>“We don’t usually put a 7-second delay on when Gwyneth comes on,” Guthrie said. “I don’t even know if we’re allowed to say that.”</p> <p>“Sorry. Sorry, America,” Paltrow said.</p> <p>“Gwyneth, I like when you’re showing that side of you,” the morning host said.</p>

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How to apologise properly

<p>Apologising sincerely and effectively can be a difficult skill to master. Equal parts head, heart, art and science, a true, heartfelt apology can be the difference between a relationship flourishing or faltering. While we all understand what the intent behind an apology is, many of us aren’t aware of the key elements that should be included in any apology. These include:</p> <ul> <li>A thorough account of the situation</li> <li>Acknowledgment of the hurt or distress caused</li> <li>Accepting responsibility for the situation</li> <li>Recognition of your contribution to the situation</li> <li>A statement asking for forgiveness</li> <li>A declaration that the actions won’t be repeated</li> <li>A form of restitution if possible</li> </ul> <p>By giving a complete account of the situation you are not only acknowledging what has happened but ensuring that both you and the other person are both on the same page. Being specific is important as it focuses your apology and lasers in on the hurt caused.</p> <p>An acknowledgement of the hurt party’s feelings gives both validation and empathy and shows that you understand the situation at hand. By taking responsibility for your actions you show that you want to fix the problem once and for all.</p> <p>It’s important not to try and justify the situation or defend yourself when apologising. It’s a very easy trap to fall into, especially when we feel uncomfortable. The apology however is not about you or about helping you feel better. It’s about the wrong party.</p> <p>At the conclusion of any apology, you should always ask for forgiveness. This puts the ball into the recipient’s court and allows them to share their own feelings and open up a dialogue that will hopefully restore your relationship.</p> <p>What do you think is the most important element of an apology? Share your thoughts with us in the comments.</p> <p><strong>Related links:</strong></p> <p><a href="/lifestyle/relationships/2016/10/celena-ross-on-importance-on-hugs/"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong>Don’t underestimate the value of a hug</strong></em></span></a></p> <p><a href="/lifestyle/relationships/2016/09/robyn-lee-on-living-on-my-own/"><em><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">I love being on my own</span></strong></em></a></p> <p><a href="/lifestyle/relationships/2016/08/beautiful-quotes-about-friendship-from-over60/"><em><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Beautiful quotes about friendship</span></strong></em></a></p>

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The best way to apologise, according to science

<p>We’ve all probably received a less than stellar apology at some point in time. Whether it was a lackluster delivery or the sense that there wasn’t much remorse behind the words, a poor apology can often leave us confused and frustrated. The truth of the matter actually lies in the fact that not everyone is great at “saying sorry”. It’s a skill you’d think would be mastered by the end of primary school but alas, for some people, it just doesn’t come naturally. It’s based on this premise that a group of researchers at Ohio State University set out to discover the components of what makes an effective apology.</p> <p>According to the study published in the journal <em>Negotiation and Conflict Management</em> it boils down to six ingredients:</p> <ul> <li>Expression of regret</li> <li>Explanation of what went wrong</li> <li>Acknowledgement of responsibility</li> <li>Declaration of repentance</li> <li>Offer of repair</li> <li>Request for forgiveness</li> </ul> <p>To further test the importance of each “ingredient” the researchers enlisted 755 volunteers. They gave each of them a hypothetical business scenario where they had to apologise to their employer and gave out a range of different apologies to test, which one was most impactful. The results showed that the two most important ingredients were acknowledging wrongdoing and offering to fix the problem — whereas the least effective were ones that only asked for forgiveness.</p> <p>The takeaway point? Apologies really do work, but you should make sure you hit as many of the six key components as possible while committing to take action to undo the damage.</p> <p><strong>Related links:</strong></p> <p><a href="/lifestyle/relationships/2016/05/why-always-being-right-is-ruining-your-relationship/"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong>Always being right is ruining your relationship</strong></em></span></a></p> <p><a href="/lifestyle/relationships/2016/05/bad-relationship-habits-to-avoid/"><em><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>5 bad relationship habits to avoid</strong></span></em></a></p> <p><a href="/lifestyle/relationships/2016/04/6-reasons-to-give-someone-a-second-chance/"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong>6 reasons to give someone a second chance</strong></em></span></a></p>

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