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Strangers lock toddler in plane bathroom to stop her tantrums

<p>The video of a controversial incident on a plane has caused outrage, as two women reprimanded a screaming toddler by locking her in the bathroom on the aircraft. </p> <p>On a Juneyao Airlines flight from Guiyang to Shanghai, China, in late August, a one-year-old child, who was travelling with her grandparents, reportedly sobbed non-stop during the nearly three-hour flight according to the <a href="https://nypost.com/2024/08/30/lifestyle/strangers-lock-crying-tot-in-airplane-bathroom-to-educate-her/" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><em>NY Post</em></a>. </p> <p>After being fed up with the toddler's tantrum, two women who were strangers to the family reportedly transported her to the bathroom to “educate her.”</p> <p>Shockingly, the child’s grandmother consented to the treatment.</p> <p>The punitive pair then shared the video of this alleged “potty training” on Douyin, China’s version of TikTok.</p> <p>In the clip, the women can be seen seated in the locked lavatory with the screaming infant, as one of the women is heard saying, “If you stop crying, aunty will take you back to grandma” and “We won’t let you out unless you stop crying.”</p> <p>As the girl stopped crying, the woman filming the video picked her up and told her: “If you make any noise again, we’ll come back (to the bathroom).”</p> <p>One of the women was initially proud of her cruel and unusual-seeming form of discipline, as she wrote that the tantrum was so disruptive that “many passengers were using tissues to block their ears” while others “had moved to the back of the plane to escape the noise.”</p> <p>According to a statement from the airline, the little girl's mother, who was not travelling with them, reportedly sympathised with the self-appointed aeroplane posse’s behaviour.</p> <p>Since the video went viral, and was subsequently deleted, Juneyao Airlines’ reps have since condemned the pairs’ actions and apologised for the incident and “oversight of the crew”.</p> <p>Despite the video being wiped from the social media site, many were quick to slam the behaviour of the women, saying their discipline was completely unacceptable. </p> <p>“Adults in their 30s can have emotional breakdowns, but people don’t allow toddlers to have theirs,” one person commented, </p> <p>Another wrote, “The grandmother and the two aunts should be sued, and social services should intervene. If there are parents like this, children will suffer in the future.”</p> <p>“When will these people understand that babies have the right to cry and the right to travel, they are part of society, and so are babies!!!!!!!” declared a third.</p> <p><em>Image credits: Weibo</em></p>

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Great-grandmother's hack for stopping toddler tantrums

<p>A woman has shared invaluable advice she once received from her great-grandmother on how to diffuse toddler tantrums in just minutes.</p><p>"My great grandmother was a very strong willed Mexican woman and ever single time she heard this baby cry or toddler have a tantrum she would say the same thing," the woman explained in a Tik Tok video. </p><p>"Mija! Put the baby in the bath or bring it outside," she would always yell to parents who were dealing with a difficult child.</p><p>The woman, Lydia, is the mother of a teething baby and a very cheeky two-year-old toddler, and says her two boys have been "miserable" lately. </p><p>During a particularly tough day, Lydia remembered her great-grandmother's advice and decided to put it to the test - and discovered it really did work.</p><p>The struggling mother couldn't believe that the trick managed to work like a charm, so she consulted her paediatrician on her next visit. </p><p>The doctor backed the great-grandmother's tactic, saying there's a scientific reason why it works.</p><p>"It turns out that two major factors increases serotonin levels in babies, toddlers and anybody else - an increase in core body temperature and an increase in oxygen in your blood stream," she explained.</p><p>Lydia concluded the video by sharing the fail-proof saying with fellow parents, "If you're having a bad day and your kids are a wreck, put the baby in the tub or put the baby outside!"</p><p>Online followers thanked Lydia for her advice, with many saying they never thought of the trick before. </p><p>"Those abuelitas sure knew their stuff!! Grateful for them and their wisdom!" one person commented. Another said, "Such great advice! Love it!"</p><p>One mum also took to the post hinting that it's not just something that works on kids, "Works on mum's too! I always feel better after a bath or a sit on the porch."</p><p><em>Image credits: Getty Images</em></p>

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Donald Trump’s bizarre 20-minute "temper tantrum" caught on camera

<p>Has Donald Trump, to no one’s surprise, officially lost the plot?</p> <p>With the Democrats taking control of the House of Representatives only last month, it hasn’t taken long for the leader of the free world to lash out in an on-camera argument with House Minority leader Nancy Pelosi and Senate Minority Leader Chuck Schumer.</p> <p>Seated in the Oval Office, President Trump discussed funding for the infamous border wall between the US and Mexico with the two leaders.</p> <p>A partial shutdown is edging closer, as December 21 will see funding for many agencies to expire.</p> <p>The discussion quickly took a turn when Trump put forward the request for $US5 billion to help build the wall, but Democrats were only ready to shell out $US1.3 billion.</p> <p>The conversation became more heated with every passing second, as the three politicians “pointed fingers, raised their voices and interrupted each other repeatedly as they fought over policy and politics” as reported by the <em><a rel="noopener" href="https://www.washingtonpost.com/powerpost/schumer-pelosi-set-to-meet-with-trump-on-wall-but-house-gop-stands-firm/2018/12/11/2604b1ae-fd56-11e8-862a-b6a6f3ce8199_story.html?noredirect=on&amp;utm_term=.d408be7ad7e1" target="_blank">Washington Post</a></em>.</p> <p>Neither side was ready to back down, as they fought to have their way.</p> <p>But in true Trump fashion, the President chose to take it one step further and make personal attacks against the leaders.</p> <p>Schumer repeated former President Barack Obama’s words as he warned Trump: “Elections have consequences, Mr President.”</p> <p>He probed Trump even further by saying he should not shut down the government just because he “can’t get his way”.</p> <p>“You just say my way or you shut down the government,” Schumer said as he lashed out.</p> <p>The constant back and forth continued as Trump attacked Pelosi’s political performance, saying: “Nancy’s in a situation where it’s not easy for her to talk right now.”</p> <p>“Please don’t characterise the strength I bring to this meeting,” she shot back.</p> <p>She went on to say: “The fact is you do not have the votes in the House.”</p> <p>Reporters in the room were left dumbstruck as they witnessed the argument first-hand, which went on for 20 minutes, with Pelosi constantly asking Trump to turn the cameras off for the meeting.</p> <p>Pelosi also said: “This has spiralled downwards.”</p> <p>The argument ended after Trump threatened to shut down the government, saying it’s a measure he’s willing to take if it means he gets what he wants.</p> <p>Pelosi and Schumer both advised the President to not make such a drastic decision, but he remained firm on his word as he said: “I am proud to shut down the government for border security, Chuck. I’m going to shut it down for border security.</p> <p>“If we don’t get what we want, one way or the other, whether it’s through you, through military, through anything you want to call, I will shut down the government. I will take the mantle. I will take the mantle, I will be the one to shut it down.”</p> <p>After the heated discussion, Pelosi and Schumer took to the White House lawn to speak to reporters about the incident that had just occurred.</p> <p>“We came in here in good faith and we are entering into this kind of a discussion in the public view,” said Pelosi. “He says, ‘We can pass it in the House right now’. He doesn’t have the votes in the House, to pass whatever his agenda is with that wall in it.</p> <p>“We are telling him, we will keep the government open, with a proposal that Schumer suggested. Why doesn’t he just think about it? In fact, I asked him to pray over it.”</p> <p>When asked about the productivity behind-the-scenes, Pelosi said: “You want to know who is more productive behind the scenes? I hear some of the reporters saying, ‘Why do we not want transparency in this discussion question?’</p> <p>“We don’t want to contradict the president when he is putting fourth figures that have no reality … I didn’t want to, in front of those people, (say) ‘You don’t know what you’re talking about.’”</p> <p>Schumer accused Trump of throwing a “temper tantrum” saying: “This temper tantrum that he seems to throw – will not get him his wall, and it will hurt a lot of people because he will cause a shutdown.</p> <p>“He admitted he wanted a shutdown. It is hard to believe he would want that.”</p> <p>Addressing the press, House Speaker Paul Ryan said: “Our position is the president’s position.</p> <p>“We share the president’s goal … we need to secure the border.”</p> <p style="text-align: center;"><iframe width="480" height="290" scrolling="no" src="https://www.washingtonpost.com/video/c/embed/d456664a-3c87-4298-8f8b-dff1c2373b96" frameborder="0" webkitallowfullscreen="" mozallowfullscreen="" allowfullscreen=""></iframe></p> <p>In a speech on the Senate floor, Senate Majority leader Mitch McConnell warned it would be a “very, very long month” if the Democrats refused to back Trump's requests over the wall.</p> <p>“For the nation’s sake, I hope that my Democratic friends are prepared to have a serious discussion and reach an accommodation with the president on funding for border security,” he said.</p> <p>This was the first time after the midterm elections that Trump came face-to-face with Democrats in the Oval Office.</p> <p>Something tells us this is only just the beginning.</p>

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Justin Trudeau's son chucks a tantrum and the internet is loving it

<p>He might be the son of one of the most influential figures in the world, but Justin Trudeau’s youngest Hadrien has proven that he’s just like any other three-year-old on a recent trip to India, with photos of his hilarious tantrum having the internet in stitches.</p> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet"> <p dir="ltr">Canada's prime minister Justin Trudeau youngest son Hadrien is my spirit animal. <a href="https://twitter.com/hashtag/Canada?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">#Canada</a> <a href="https://t.co/zykUcCKxTW">pic.twitter.com/zykUcCKxTW</a></p> — Magnus (@usmagn) <a href="https://twitter.com/usmagn/status/972118194772152320?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">March 9, 2018</a></blockquote> <p>The Trudeau’s were on tour of India in February, and while it seems like they had a good time for the most part, some of the photos of Hadrien are hilarious.</p> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet"> <p dir="ltr">Canadian PM Justin Trudeau's Youngest Son Stole the Show During their Recent India Tour<a href="https://t.co/zeiLOPmPM9">https://t.co/zeiLOPmPM9</a> <a href="https://t.co/URRikt0XYH">pic.twitter.com/URRikt0XYH</a></p> — Cosmopolitan India (@CosmoIndia) <a href="https://twitter.com/CosmoIndia/status/969127614613827584?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">March 1, 2018</a></blockquote> <p>The three-year-old has since become an internet sensation.</p> <p>And he’s quickly become the subject of a range of internet memes.</p> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet"> <p dir="ltr">Jr. Trudeau saw this one coming. <a href="https://t.co/iAPUYo8lav">pic.twitter.com/iAPUYo8lav</a></p> — All India Bakchod (@AllIndiaBakchod) <a href="https://twitter.com/AllIndiaBakchod/status/968037938192961536?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">February 26, 2018</a></blockquote> <p>What a cute bunch of photos!</p>

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Unsettled child’s eight-hour inflight tantrum filmed by passenger

<p>A passenger on a flight from Germany to New York has shared shocking footage of a toddler’s tantrum, which lasted the entirety of the eight-hour flight.  </p> <p>Shane Townley, an artist from New York City, recorded the footage as the toddler climbed over seats and screamed at the top of his voice before the flight had taken off.</p> <p><iframe width="560" height="315" src="https://www.youtube.com/embed/hv1aczlrMsk" frameborder="0" allow="autoplay; encrypted-media" allowfullscreen=""></iframe></p> <p>The boy’s mother is not identified in the footage, but is heard asking the flight attending to, “Get the WiFi going so we can get the iPad going”. </p> <p>The footage cuts to different sections of the flight, where the nightmare child is running around the plane and doing what he wants as the hours drag by.</p> <p>Townley uploaded the footage to YouTube, writing, “Watch as this kid runs and screams throughout the entire flight while the mother does little to nothing to stop him.</p> <p>“3 years old on a 8 hour flight from Germany to Newark NJ. He never quits!”</p> <p>In a <a href="http://www.dailymail.co.uk/" target="_blank"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong>later interview with Daily Mail</strong></em></span></a>, Townley explained he did not contact the airline, “but I’m certain someone did as the entire plane was affected the whole time.”</p> <p>Understandably, the video has attracted lots of commons online.</p> <p>“If this started before the plane took off, the plane should have taxied back to the terminal and kicked the kid and his parents off. This kind of behaviour is just unacceptable,” one wrote.</p> <p>“Call an exorcist,” another added.</p> <p>What are your thoughts? Do you think the mother did everything she could? Or is it just one of those things that’s going to happen when you’re travelling with toddlers?</p>

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Dad responds to judgemental diners after his toddler’s restaurant tantrum

<p>A dad has posted a photo of his daughter throwing a temper tantrum on his blog to change judgemental attitudes towards parents.</p> <p>Clint Evans, the dad behind <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><a href="http://www.byclintedwards.com/" target="_blank">No Idea What I'm Doing: A Daddy Blog</a></strong></span>, and his wife took their kids out to a family dinner, when his toddler had a tantrum.</p> <p>He was forced to take her out of the restaurant to calm her down, but not before receiving judgemental stares from other diners.</p> <p>In a post to Facebook, Evans writes: "She had a meltdown because mum wouldn't let her throw chicken strips. So she screamed, and screamed, and kicked and kicked, and since I was the only one finished with my meal, I had the pleasure of dragging her out of Red Robin."</p> <p>He continues: “I carried her past the bar and everyone stared at me, most of them childless, I assumed. No one with children would give me that straight faced, lip twisted, look that seems to say, ‘If you can't control your kid, then don't go out.’”</p> <p>Evans has something to say about that.</p> <p>“Well... no. I can't control her. Not all the time. Not yet,” he says. “She's two and it's going to take years to teach her how to act appropriately in public, and the only way I am ever going to teach that is to take her out and show her what's right and wrong. By saying no a million times, letting her throw a fit, and telling her no again.”</p> <p>He ended with a plea for people to take a second to rethink their criticism and try to empathise rather than judge.</p> <p>“I get it. Kids are irritating when they are loud in a restaurant. I know. I’m living it. But before you get angry and judgmental, realise that what you are witnessing is not bad parenting, but rather, parents working hard to fix the situation. You are looking at what it takes to turn a child into a person.” </p> <p><strong>Related links:</strong></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><em><a href="http://www.oversixty.com.au/lifestyle/family-pets/2017/01/superstar-grandmas-picture-book-defying-old-stereotypes/">“Superstar Grandmas” children’s book defying old stereotypes</a></em></strong></span></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><em><a href="http://www.oversixty.com.au/lifestyle/family-pets/2017/01/the-new-grandparenting-handbook/">The new grandparenting handbook</a></em></strong></span></p> <p><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><em><a href="http://www.oversixty.com.au/lifestyle/family-pets/2017/01/hilarious-video-of-grandparents-worrying-about-their-granddaughter/">Hilarious video of grandparents worrying about their granddaughter</a></em></strong></span></p>

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The top 5 reasons toddlers throw tantrums

<p>Whilst to the outside world little people may appear to have it easy, it's actually not always the case – just ask any toddler who's had their toast cut up the wrong way in the morning and they'll be the first to reassure you of that.</p> <p>But the stresses and strains don't just start and finish with breakfast.  There's a whole day of challenges to overcome when you're small.</p> <p>And when things don't go according to plan, sometimes there's nothing else for it but to face the problem in the only way you know how.  Scream, shout and generally act your age.</p> <p>Here are the top things causing stress to toddlers right now:</p> <p><strong>1. The watermelon is not pink enough</strong></p> <p>A common problem for many toddlers is that food can just be so…well, unpredictable.</p> <p>For example, take that watermelon that your toddler had yesterday and really enjoyed. Well, today it's, quite simply, not up to par. It's not as pink, not as juicy and just not as goddamn enjoyable.</p> <p>And the same applies for all manner of edibles.</p> <p>Yesterday's favourite Bolognese is now too spicy and has way too much tomato in – seriously, did you double that flavour overnight Mum?</p> <p>The quiche that was enthusiastically inhaled only last week (and you've now made in vast quantities) is now declared "yucky".  And those sandwiches cut up in squares and not triangles?  Hey, let's not even go there.</p> <p>Cue – food being thrown across the room.</p> <p><strong>2. The cat/dog/hamster doesn't want to be cuddled</strong></p> <p>Imagine wanting to do nothing but give your love to an innocent animal?  Imagine wanting to squeeze them so hard that their eyes pop out and they gasp for breathe?  And imagine how you'd feel if all they did was run as far away from you as possible?</p> <p>Do I need to say any more?  You would be pretty upset too right?</p> <p>Cue – an animal being chased continuously by a small person emitting a high-pitched scream interspersed with episodes of foot stomping and grasping of fur.</p> <p><strong>3. Their favourite show has ended</strong></p> <p>When you have little concept of time or understanding that most things in life have a start and end, it can be really disturbing to be watching a favourite episode of Peppa Pig, only to have it finish.</p> <p>Sure, it may have ended on a happy note with Daddy Pig once again displaying his failings in life, but that's not the point.</p> <p>The point is that IT'S ENDED, your toddler's NOT HAPPY and, quite frankly, it's entirely your fault!</p> <p>Cue – much pointing at the TV shouting 'MORE' or 'AGAIN', accompanied by increasingly desperate flailing movements on the floor.</p> <p><strong>4. You looked at them</strong></p> <p>No one likes being stared at and your toddler is no different.  Of course, you may have only glanced in their direction for a millisecond to check that they weren't up to mischief, but a look is still a look in a toddler book.</p> <p>Besides, when you're focused on a task at hand, such as removing all of the pages out of a book, creating a masterpiece on the wall with crayons, or heading for a dunk in the dog's water bowl, there's nothing more distracting than being watched, right?</p> <p>Cue – balled fists and glowering eyes….if looks could kill! (Ironic I know!)</p> <p><strong>5. You interrupted their activity</strong></p> <p>A toddler's world is one of discovery, imagination and play and there's nothing better than being left to your own devices in order to fully embrace this.</p> <p>So you can understand how annoying it is when you're playing with a screwdriver, opening and closing drawers on your fingers, exploring electricity sockets and climbing into small confined spaces and someone disturbs you. And, worse still, puts an end to your fun!</p> <p>Cue – screams of frustration and repeated attempts to return to the scene to try to continue play.</p> <p>Of course this is far from an exhaustive list - because for that we would need a lot more time.</p> <p><em>Written by Jo Hartley. Appeared on</em> <a href="http://www.stuff.co.nz/" target="_blank"><strong><em><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Stuff.co.nz</span>.</em> </strong></a> </p> <p><strong>Related links:</strong></p> <p><strong><em><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><a href="http://www.oversixty.co.nz/lifestyle/family-pets/2016/02/vintage-photos-capture-pure-innocence-of-children/">Vintage photos capture the pure innocence of children</a></span></em></strong></p> <p><strong><em><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><a href="http://www.oversixty.co.nz/lifestyle/family-pets/2016/02/how-to-bring-up-a-happy-child/">22 tips for bringing up a happy child</a></span></em></strong></p> <p><strong><em><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><a href="http://www.oversixty.co.nz/lifestyle/family-pets/2016/01/grandparents-make-grandchildren-happy-study/">Why the grandparent grandchild relationship is important for happiness</a></span></em></strong></p>

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