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Digital toys for kids you don’t have to feel guilty about

<p>Guilt has perhaps always been part of selecting and giving gifts for children. However, in 2021, after two years of increased screen time for children thanks to COVID, parents may be experiencing even more uncertainty around what to buy.</p> <p>But what if the power of play could counter some of these fears?</p> <p>The <a href="https://publications.aap.org/pediatrics/article/142/3/e20182058/38649/The-Power-of-Play-A-Pediatric-Role-in-Enhancing?autologincheck=redirected">importance of play</a> is well recognised. Play holds developmental <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wuu59E97igU">power</a> to facilitate communication, increase personal strengths, foster emotional well-being and enhance social relationships.</p> <p>This can be true of digital gifts as well as more traditional presents. Here are some ideas for screen-based toys that are good for both a child’s development and easing parental guilt.</p> <h2>Screen time – is there such a thing as too much?</h2> <p>Firstly, let’s address the key concern many parents have: can too much screen time harm a child’s development? The answer lies in knowing and balancing the risks and benefits of screen time.</p> <p>A recent University of Colorado Boulder <a href="https://theconversation.com/kids-and-their-computers-several-hours-a-day-of-screen-time-is-ok-study-suggests-168022">study</a> of nine and ten year-olds found even when kids spend five hours a day on screens, “it doesn’t appear to be harmful”. The study also suggests screen time can improve social relationships.</p> <p>"While parents should make sure their children are using screens in appropriate ways, our early research suggests lengthy time on screen is not likely to yield dire consequences."</p> <p>Research also indicates the <a href="https://ijbnpa.biomedcentral.com/articles/10.1186/s12966-019-0881-7">type of screen time</a> is important. This suggests active engagement (such as playing a game or doing an activity) may be beneficial, whereas prolonged periods of passive screen time (such as watching TV or YouTube) could be detrimental.</p> <p>There are <a href="https://www.who.int/publications/i/item/9789240015128">international</a> and <a href="https://www.health.gov.au/health-topics/physical-activity-and-exercise/physical-activity-and-exercise-guidelines-for-all-australians#summary-by-age">Australian</a> recommendations on how much screen time is suitable for children, which vary depending on age.</p> <p>Guidelines also advise negotiating clear boundaries for screen time, limiting sedentary screen time, and incorporating <a href="https://raisingchildren.net.au/preschoolers/play-learning/screen-time-healthy-screen-use/screen-time-physical-activity">physical activity</a> and <a href="https://raisingchildren.net.au/preschoolers/play-learning/screen-time-healthy-screen-use/shared-screen-time">social relationships</a>.</p> <p>For children, this may mean sharing a family device, having clear boundaries about usage and a parent supervising.</p> <p>Ultimately, screens are a part of modern life – children need to learn how to navigate them. Modelling <a href="https://raisingchildren.net.au/babies/family-life/family-media-entertainment/parent-technology-use">healthy screen time</a> as well as selecting developmentally appropriate digital toys or platforms for play are two ways parents can assist children in developing a healthy relationship with screen time.</p> <h2>Digital toys across age groups</h2> <p><strong>Babies and toddlers</strong></p> <p>Video-chatting is <a href="https://raisingchildren.net.au/babies/play-learning/media-technology/healthy-screen-time-0-2-years">the only</a> recommended form of screen time for babies and toddlers. Digital devices and apps may assist parents when used together with their baby or toddler, to maintain relationships with friends and family.</p> <p>Apps on a parent’s device, such as <a href="https://apps.apple.com/au/app/baby-karaoke/id426373998">Baby Karaoke</a> can help parents to <a href="https://raisingchildren.net.au/guides/baby-karaoke">remember </a>and sing along to nursery rhymes and children’s songs. Joining together with your child in playful rhythm and rhyme time in the <a href="https://raisingchildren.net.au/guides/first-1000-days">first 1,000 days</a> supports many aspects of brain development.</p> <p><strong>Pre-schoolers (3-5 years)</strong></p> <p>Screen time, when supervised by a parent and part of a balanced <a href="https://raisingchildren.net.au/toddlers/play-learning/screen-time-media/healthy-screen-time-2-5-years">healthy</a> family lifestyle, can support children’s developing imagination, creativity, and storytelling.</p> <p>Apps and digital games like <a href="https://www.playosmo.com/en/">Osmo</a>, where players use objects in the real world to interact with the digital world on their device, can develop communication, social and problem-solving skills.</p> <p><strong>School-age (5-9 years)</strong></p> <p>Apps and digital games that support learning, social skills and creativity are <a href="https://raisingchildren.net.au/school-age/play-media-technology/media/good-apps-games-movies-school-age">recommended for school-age</a> children.</p> <p>App ideas include <a href="https://freeappsforme.com/stop-motion-apps/">Stop Motion</a>, where children use physical toys such as Lego minifigures or plasticine models to create short animated movies. <a href="https://khankids.zendesk.com/hc/en-us/articles/360004559231-Welcome-to-Khan-Academy-Kids">Khan Academy for Kids</a> allows children to read books, create and draw, solve puzzles and play games that promote social skills.</p> <p><strong>Pre-teens (9-12 years)</strong></p> <p>Pre-teens may be starting to conduct a significant part of their <a href="https://raisingchildren.net.au/pre-teens/entertainment-technology/digital-life/screen-time-social-life">social life</a> online. Supporting their developing sense of <a href="https://raisingchildren.net.au/pre-teens/entertainment-technology/digital-life/digital-citizenship">digital citizenship</a> is a crucial step and should be considered when choosing digital gifts.</p> <p>So, digital games that promote learning, hold positive messages, and allow for a sense of achievement are <a href="https://raisingchildren.net.au/pre-teens/entertainment-technology/gaming-gambling/video-games-apps">recommended for pre-teens</a>. As a parent of two pre-teens, Kate shares that two current favourite apps in her house are the drawing/art app <a href="https://procreate.art/">Procreate</a> and the meditation, ambient sounds and bedtime stories app <a href="https://www.calm.com/">Calm</a>.</p> <p>Other ideas include learning a new skill like a musical instrument with apps like <a href="https://www.joytunes.com/simply-piano">Simply Piano</a> or <a href="https://simplyguitar.joytunes.com/">Simply Guitar</a>. <a href="https://www.warnerbros.com/games-and-apps/heads">Heads Up!</a> allows you to play charades online, while popular video game <a href="https://www.commonsensemedia.org/app-reviews/minecraft">Minecraft</a> promotes creativity. Finally, work together as a family to remember, preserve and write family stories using <a href="https://storycorps.org/">Story Corps</a>.</p> <p><strong>Teenagers (13-18 years)</strong></p> <p>Screen time can be included in the <a href="https://raisingchildren.net.au/teens/entertainment-technology/screen-time-healthy-screen-use/healthy-screen-time-teens">healthy lifestyle</a> of teenagers. Digital activities that foster interests and hobbies, and enhance social connections are an important consideration for development, health, and well-being.</p> <p>As a parent of a teenager, Judi shares that the current favourite at her house is the virtual reality headset <a href="https://www.oculus.com/">Oculus Quest 2</a>, which enables social connection through <a href="https://hello.vrchat.com/">VRChat</a>, <a href="https://altvr.com/">Altspace</a> and meditation with <a href="https://www.tripp.com/">TRIPP</a> and <a href="https://www.oculus.com/experiences/quest/2616537008386430/">Nature Treks </a>.</p> <p>Other ideas include getting out in nature for a family treasure hunt adventure using <a href="https://www.geocaching.com/play">Geocaching </a>. Or host a trivia party with family or friends using <a href="https://www.sporcle.com/groups/topics/766d10e0f72b">Sporcle</a>. Games like <a href="https://www.spore.com/">Spore</a> allow players to design their own species by evolving microscopic organisms into their own creations.</p> <h2>What to bear in mind</h2> <p>If you’re doing your own searches, use terms like “creative apps for preschoolers” and use a review site like <a href="https://www.commonsensemedia.org/">Common Sense Media</a> to check your choice. And consider physically active screen time choices.</p> <p>Examples include the <a href="https://www.nintendo.com.au/nintendo-switch-family/switch">Nintendo Switch</a> that promote <a href="https://www.thegamer.com/10-games-like-ring-fit-adventure-on-the-nintendo-switch/">physical activity</a> such as dancing (<a href="https://www.ubisoft.com/en-au/game/just-dance/2022">Just Dance</a>) or real-life exercises, including jogging and yoga (<a href="https://www.nintendo.com.au/games/nintendo-switch/ring-fit-adventure">Ring Fit Adventure</a>).</p> <p>There is also virtual reality, which enables enjoyment, exploration and experiencing through multi-modes including movement (<a href="https://www.oculus.com/experiences/rift/1304877726278670/">Beat Saber</a>), art-making (<a href="https://www.oculus.com/experiences/quest/2322529091093901?ranking_trace=0_2322529091093901_QUESTSEARCH_85b10f4f-d9f3-44a1-b964-47c4da2e9cb8">Tilt Brush</a>), and immersive experiences (<a href="https://www.oculus.com/experiences/quest/2078376005587859?ranking_trace=0_2078376005587859_QUESTSEARCH_f4176e13-59ec-45c0-9b14-21117290e72b">Wander</a>).</p> <p>So, pause for a moment when considering digital gifts for children and ask yourself three things:</p> <p>1) Is there a physical component?</p> <p>2) Will this gift be used together within a relationship?</p> <p>3) What is the play value?</p> <p><em>Image credits: Getty Images</em></p> <p><em>This article originally appeared on <a href="https://theconversation.com/digital-toys-for-kids-you-dont-have-to-feel-guilty-about-172612">The Conversation</a>. </em></p>

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Real life Christmas Elves give the gift of life to pre-loved toys

<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">As Christmas rapidly approaches, one group of senior citizens is turning pre-loved toys into new Christmas gifts for kids in need.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">According to data released by eco-retailer Flora &amp; Fauna, Australians spend over $1 billion each Christmas on new toys for kids, but 26.8 million end up in the bin.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">At the same time, 1.6 million Aussies can’t afford a Christmas gift for their children.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">To help parents give their kids a surprise to enjoy this Christmas, </span><a rel="noopener" href="https://campaignlab-com-dot-yamm-track.appspot.com/Redirect?ukey=1XU4rvLerizKxe_lGiUvr5r2ctnSoVw7aT_RPCq5xeQM-1781001848&amp;key=YAMMID-1639349013238&amp;link=https://campaignlab-com-dot-yamm-track.appspot.com/Redirect?ukey=1XU4rvLerizKxe_lGiUvr5r2ctnSoVw7aT_RPCq5xeQM-1989833711&amp;key=YAMMID-1638849690411&amp;link=https://campaignlab-com-dot-yamm-track.appspot.com/Redirect?ukey=1XU4rvLerizKxe_lGiUvr5r2ctnSoVw7aT_RPCq5xeQM-1099927831&amp;key=YAMMID-1637189812910&amp;link=https://www.floraandfauna.com.au/" target="_blank"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Flora &amp; Fauna</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> has teamed up with The Peninsula Senior Citizens Toy Repair Group Inc and </span><a rel="noopener" href="https://campaignlab-com-dot-yamm-track.appspot.com/Redirect?ukey=1XU4rvLerizKxe_lGiUvr5r2ctnSoVw7aT_RPCq5xeQM-1781001848&amp;key=YAMMID-1639349013238&amp;link=https://campaignlab-com-dot-yamm-track.appspot.com/Redirect?ukey=1XU4rvLerizKxe_lGiUvr5r2ctnSoVw7aT_RPCq5xeQM-1989833711&amp;key=YAMMID-1638849690411&amp;link=https://campaignlab-com-dot-yamm-track.appspot.com/Redirect?ukey=1XU4rvLerizKxe_lGiUvr5r2ctnSoVw7aT_RPCq5xeQM-1099927831&amp;key=YAMMID-1637189812910&amp;link=https://wecareconnect.org.au/" target="_blank"><span style="font-weight: 400;">We Care Connect</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> to transform donated toys into new Christmas gifts through its ‘Surprisingly Better Christmas’ initiative.</span></p> <p><img style="width: 500px; height: 281.25px;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7846508/toy1.jpg" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/b827242ad3754300b482726ed73ee8b0" /></p> <p><em><span style="font-weight: 400;">Pre-loved toys diverted from landfill are given a chance to be loved by someone new. Image: Supplied</span></em></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“Our group has been around for 45 years and we have about 30 members at the moment from all walks of life,” says Terry Cook, President of The Peninsula Senior Citizens Toy Repairs Group Inc. </span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“We have retired engineers, accountants, school secretaries, opera singers, producers and so on. Every week the volunteers come in for a few days to repair or clean damaged toys which we then donate to charity to help families and children in need.”</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">This isn’t the first time members of the organisation have used their efforts for a good cause either, having sent toys to children in Cambodia, Papua New Guinea, Sri Lanka and Fiji.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">So when they were approached by Flora &amp; Fauna, Mr Cook said that it was a chance for the members to give “one of the best gifts we can provide to families and children in need this Christmas”.</span></p> <p><img style="width: 500px; height: 281.25px;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7846507/toy2.jpg" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/c976fa138ff04737ad5285f4b4aa0086" /></p> <p><em><span style="font-weight: 400;">Volunteers meet up weekly to repair and restore preloved toys. Image: Supplied</span></em></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“Children generally have a short attention span, so they get bored with a toy very quickly, even though it may still be in a usable or brand new condition,” he explains.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“Our job is simple - we save the toy from landfill and give the toys a new lease on life which will bring infinite joy each time it goes into a child’s hands.”</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">For Mr Cook, volunteering his time is also a great motivator.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“It gets me out of bed every morning and it’s also a great social activity for the members to look forward to - we always have a morning tea together,” he says.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The upcycled toys will be donated to We Care Connect, a charity that supports vulnerable children in the Central Coast and Hunter regions of New South Wales.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Some of the toys will also be re-sold through the Flora &amp; Fauna website.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Helen Barker, a spokesperson at We Care Connect, says the initiative could benefit families who need it most this Christmas.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“A donated toy could help bring Christmas Joy to a mum who’s left a violent home with her two children and minimal belongings, a family experiencing unthinkable financial hardship, or a single parent with multiple children who might have a medical condition,” she says.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“The causes of poverty are complex, but helping a child in need is simple.”</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">With the appeal of receiving something shiny and new being at an all-time high around Christmas, Flora &amp; Fauna’s CEO and founder Julie Mathers says it is just as important to consider the afterlife of toys we purchase.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“The research revealed 45 percent of parents say their child gets bored of a new toy and discards it in just three months,” she explains.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“By taking in the discarded pre-loved toys and giving them a new purpose, not only are we saving them from landfill, but we’re also fulfilling the wishes of many children who simply want to wake up on Christmas Day to the teddy bear they’ve been dreaming of having.”</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">For those looking to give their toys a new home, Mr Cook says the organisation takes in anything and everything.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“We take all sorts of toys, be it a stuffed animal, puzzles, electric race car or a dollhouse. If you ever had a favourite toy from your childhood, chances are you’ll find it in our warehouse.”</span></p> <p><em><span style="font-weight: 400;">Image: Supplied</span></em></p>

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Why kids should not have lots of toys (and what to do if yours have too many)

<p>The festive season reinforces something parents and carers already know – many children today have a lot of toys.</p> <p>In the United States, children receive more than <a href="https://swnsdigital.com/us/2016/11/average-child-gets-6500-worth-of-toys-in-their-lifetime/">US$6,500 (A$9,073) worth of toys</a> between the ages of two and 12. Here in Australia, the toy industry is worth more than <a href="http://www.roymorgan.com/findings/6954-play-time-where-aussies-buy-their-toys-and-games-201609070858">A$3.7 billion annually</a>. Lockdowns have resulted in online toy sales growing by 21.4% during 2021, with the online toy industry now <a href="https://www.ibisworld.com/au/market-size/online-toy-sales/">growing faster</a> than the overall online retail sector.</p> <p>The number of toys in Australian households is likely to increase when Christmas gift giving starts in earnest.</p> <p>Apart from environmental concerns, having lots of toys can <a href="https://www.psychologytoday.com/au/blog/singletons/201712/study-underscores-why-fewer-toys-is-the-better-option">negatively impact children</a> as well as <a href="https://www.todaysparent.com/family/toys/too-many-toys/">parents and carers</a>.</p> <p>Here are some ideas for dealing with existing toys, as well as the upcoming influx of new ones.</p> <h2>The problem with having too many toys</h2> <p>Spaces with lots of toys are overstimulating and impact the ability for babies, toddlers and younger children to learn and play creatively.</p> <p><img src="https://images.theconversation.com/files/436025/original/file-20211207-68670-1q22rxm.jpg?ixlib=rb-1.1.0&amp;q=45&amp;auto=format&amp;w=754&amp;fit=clip" alt="Child sitting in the middle of toys." /> <span class="caption">The more toys, the more confusing for kids.</span> <span class="attribution"><span class="source">www.shutterstock.com</span></span></p> <p>Similar to cluttered pantries or office spaces, which make it hard for adults to focus, having too many toys around the house can make it difficult for children to concentrate, learn, and develop important skills around play.</p> <p>Research <a href="https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0163638317301613">shows</a> fewer toys at a time leads to better quality playtime for toddlers, allowing them to focus on one toy at a time, build concentration skills, and play more creatively.</p> <p>The other issue with having lots of toys “in play” is that we tend to place less value on them. By reducing the number of toys, adults can help children develop <a href="https://www.abc.net.au/news/2017-07-06/too-many-toys-can-lead-to-stuff-addiction-maggie-dent-says/8684264">appreciation and gratitude</a>.</p> <h2>What to do if you have too many toys</h2> <p>De-cluttering is easier said than done, but organising toys has many benefits for children and adults alike.</p> <p>Fewer toys that are well organised leads to a calmer, less stressful environment which also reduces overstimulation in children and contributes to better <a href="https://raisingchildren.net.au/toddlers/behaviour/understanding-behaviour/self-regulation">behavioural regulation</a>.</p> <p>Reducing the number of toys can also increase opportunities for children to build frustration tolerance and having to focus on one or two toys at a time can improve <a href="https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/03004430.2010.503892">problem solving skills</a> as well as developing independent play experience and creativity.</p> <p>Organising toys can also help parents and carers improve general structure and routine in the home, which is great for everyone!</p> <h2>How to organise toys</h2> <p>A good first step is to conduct an inventory of all the toys in your house. Divide toys into “keep and play”, “keep and store” (toys that are sentimental, family heirlooms or part of a collection that can be put in storage) and “give-away or sell”.</p> <p>Toys that are “keep and play” should be organised in ways that allow children to clearly see and easily access them.</p> <p>Put two-thirds of these toys away in storage. Every month, rotate the number of toys available ensuring you have an interesting selection of “social” and “solo play” toys available and try to include “good” toys.</p> <p>Rotating toys can help with space issues and importantly it keeps the novelty alive.</p> <h2>Is there such a thing as ‘good’ toys?</h2> <p>With such a huge variety of toys available, the choice can be overwhelming. But when you are thinking about buying toys, there are some features that make certain toys better than others.</p> <p>“Good” toys are those that are appropriate for the child’s age and developmental level. If you are not sure if a toy is suitable in this regard, seek advice from staff in specialist toy stores or consult child development websites such as <a href="https://raisingchildren.net.au/">raisingchildren.net.au</a> and <a href="http://www.earlychildhoodaustralia.org.au/parent-resources/">earlychildhoodaustralia.org.au</a>.</p> <p><img src="https://images.theconversation.com/files/436026/original/file-20211207-21-3sc9sx.jpg?ixlib=rb-1.1.0&amp;q=45&amp;auto=format&amp;w=754&amp;fit=clip" alt="Mum and daughter playing with blocks." /> <span class="caption">Toys that help a child develop and keep them occupied do not need to be expensive.</span> <span class="attribution"><span class="source">www.shutterstock.com</span></span></p> <p>Toys should stimulate learning and keep a child’s interest at the same time and they should be safe and durable. In addition, toys should be able to stand the test of time (think Lego) and ideally be used in a variety of different ways over the years.</p> <p>We recognise that with <a href="https://www.smh.com.au/national/we-don-t-really-have-a-plan-warning-as-australia-fails-to-hit-poverty-goals-20211201-p59dqb.html">more than 17%</a> of Australian children living in poverty, there are also many families who do not have the problem of having too many toys.</p> <p>Good toys <a href="https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2021/dec/10/can-toys-be-educational-the-same-can-be-said-for-any-household-object?CMP=Share_iOSApp_Other">don’t have</a> to be expensive. While Australians spend millions each year on toys, it’s worth remembering simple, everyday <a href="https://www.canr.msu.edu/news/10_household_items_you_can_use_for_play_with_toddlers">household items</a> - cardboard boxes, saucepans and cooking implements, buckets and tubs, cardboard tubes, plastic containers and stacking cups - make excellent toys for younger children.</p> <h2>Categorising ‘good’ toys</h2> <p>Parents may find it useful to categorise good toys. This ensures when you are organising toys, children have access to a variety of toys suitable for different types of learning and play development.</p> <p>Here are five ways to categorise toys:</p> <p><strong>1. manipulative/functional toys</strong> - these include construction and building toys, puzzles, stacking and nesting, brain-teasers, dressing toys, beads, blocks, bath toys, and sand and water toys. Manipulative toys are important for helping develop fine and large motor skills, dexterity and coordination, which are vital for drawing, writing, dressing and more.</p> <p><strong>2. active toys</strong> - including various outdoor toys, climbing equipment, sports equipment and ride-on toys. Active toys are great for general physical activity and motor skills development.</p> <p><strong>3. learning toys</strong> - these include board and card games, books, and specific-skill toys such as letter identification and shape and colour sorters.</p> <p><strong>4. creative toys</strong> - such as arts and craft materials, musical toys and instruments including digital music and drawing apps.</p> <p><strong>5. make-believe</strong> - including dress ups and role play (costumes, clothing, hats, masks and accessories), stuffed toys, puppets, dolls, transportation toys.</p> <h2>What to do with toys you don’t need</h2> <p>It can be hard parting with beloved toys, those that have been part of a special collection or even just trying to clear out toys that have accumulated over the years. Many people find it <a href="https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/full/10.1177/1470593111418794">emotionally challenging</a> to give away toys and prefer to keep and pass them on to children and family members.</p> <p><img src="https://images.theconversation.com/files/436028/original/file-20211207-19-oumje7.jpg?ixlib=rb-1.1.0&amp;q=45&amp;auto=format&amp;w=754&amp;fit=clip" alt="box of Lego blocks organised into compartments." /> <span class="caption">Keep your toys organised to facilitate better play.</span> <span class="attribution"><span class="source">www.shutterstock.com</span></span></p> <p>There are many charitable organisations that will be pleased to find new homes for good quality toys - <a href="https://www.salvationarmy.org.au/donate/clothing-and-goods/">The Salvation Army</a>, <a href="https://www.savethechildren.org.au/our-stories/we-want-your-pre-loved-items">Save the Children</a> and <a href="https://www.vinnies.org.au/page/Donate/Donate_Goods/">Vinnies</a> - all welcome toy donations, especially at this time of year. Also search “toy donation” in your area to find local organisations and make sure what you are giving is in good condition (if it’s a puzzle, make sure it has all the pieces!).</p> <p>Online platforms selling used items or secondhand dealers are other options which will give your treasures a second life.</p> <p>Finally, as we head into Christmas with Australians tipped to spend <a href="http://www.roymorgan.com/findings/8783-ara-media-release-countdown-to-christmas-202109100615">more than $11 billion on gifts</a>, it’s worthwhile having the list of “good” toys handy so you can easily answer friends and relatives when they inevitably ask “what can we get the kids for Christmas?”.<!-- Below is The Conversation's page counter tag. 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"Brilliant gesture": Secret Santa pays off local toy store lay-bys

<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">A kind gesture has eased the financial burden of Christmas for shoppers at a Townsville toy shop, in north-eastern Queensland, after a generous stranger paid their lay-by balances.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Natasha Vidler said she was “in disbelief and shock” when she was told over the phone that $170 had been paid off her toy bill at Townsville Toyworld.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“I rang my husband and I was pretty much in tears, tears of happiness,” Ms Vidler </span><a rel="noopener" href="https://www.abc.net.au/news/2021-12-15/anonymous-secret-santa-pays-toy-store-layby-townsville/100698928" target="_blank"><span style="font-weight: 400;">said</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“We’re forever grateful. This time of year is a bit of a struggle for everybody, not only financially but mentally, emotionally.”</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Though the toy store wouldn’t say what the gifts totalled, Ms Vidler said she was one of 20 customers who benefitted from the unknown woman’s kindness.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The mother-of-two has spent the last two weeks in hospital, and said the contribution would make this year’s Christmas that much more special for her family.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“Now the kids are going to have an extra-special Christmas thanks to some total lovely stranger,” she said.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Another recipient, Mark Jones, had been paying off presents for his children and granddaughter and said he was “blown away” by the gesture.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“I thought it was an absolutely brilliant gesture,” Mr Jones said.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The Townsville truck driver said he was being evicted from his rental crisis amid the city’s housing crisis, so every extra dollar made a difference.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“It’s been a bit of a tough year, not just for me but for everybody,” he said.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">According to forecasting from the National Retail Association (NRA), Australians are set to spend a record $20.5 billion in the 10 days leading up to Christmas. </span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">But the spending comes at a particularly challenging time for many families, with chief executive of the Queensland Council of Social Services Aimee McVeigh saying that 250,000 children had one or both parents relying on income support.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“These parents are having to choose between paying rent, food, electricity and medical bills, never mind Christmas presents,” Ms McVeigh said.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“While the unemployment rate might be lower than it was last year, there are more people than ever in Queensland who are relying on income support payments of just $45 a day.”</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">In Queensland alone, NRA chief executive Dominique Lamb said people are expected to spend $3.9 billion over the next 10 days.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“We’ve had our international borders closed, our domestic borders closed, people have been staying home and certainly saving their money,” she said.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“There seems to be a push for joy after what’s been a really long 18 months.”</span></p> <p><em><span style="font-weight: 400;">Image: Getty Images</span></em></p>

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Dad goes viral after warning other parents about ‘inappropriate’ dolls

<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">An American dad has taken to TikTok to complain about the ‘inappropriate’ LOL Surprise Dolls his daughter asked him to buy for her. He starts the video by showing off dolls he considers wholesome - namely, Tiana and Anna, two Disney princesses. These are then contrasted with the ‘inappropriate’ LOL Surprise Dolls, rotating one as he exclaims, ‘This one’s dressed up like a hoochie!’</span></p> <blockquote style="max-width: 605px; min-width: 325px;" class="tiktok-embed" data-video-id="7010070257020783878"><a rel="noopener" href="https://www.tiktok.com/@official.patrick.johnson" target="_blank" title="@official.patrick.johnson">@official.patrick.johnson</a> <p>I Can't Believe I Bought This For My Daughter <a rel="noopener" href="https://www.tiktok.com/tag/fyp" target="_blank" title="fyp">#Fyp</a> <a rel="noopener" href="https://www.tiktok.com/tag/protectthechildren" target="_blank" title="protectthechildren">#protectthechildren</a> <a rel="noopener" href="https://www.tiktok.com/tag/wth" target="_blank" title="wth">#wth</a></p> <a rel="noopener" href="https://www.tiktok.com/music/original-sound-7010070167258532614" target="_blank" title="♬ original sound - Official.Patrick.Johnson">♬ original sound - Official.Patrick.Johnson</a></blockquote> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Patrick Johnson, father and pastor, said in the video, "I don't know what we doing these days, my baby wants LOL dolls and I'm upset y'all, look at these dolls. What are we doing to our children, y'all?! We've got to be careful what we're giving to our girls! I don't want her thinking this is the way women dress!" </span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Two of the dolls he shows are wearing two-piece outfits with stockings underneath, and a third is wearing a one-piece leotard. It is unclear whether anyone pointed out that women can be seen wearing similar outfits every day of the week at his nearest beach. </span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;"><img style="width: 305.1948051948052px; height: 500px;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7844641/screen-shot-2021-10-06-at-21900-pm.png" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/2c7e7dd452cd447a944dd6d287d40996" /></span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Commenters’ responses were mixed, with one joking that all of the dolls were wearing Savage x Fenty, Rihanna’s lingerie brand, and another saying, “That’s what I wear to work… I work at a strip club”. </span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">One user said they were less concerned about the clothes and more concerned about the unrealistic body expectations the dolls might convey, with many asking why the dolls looked like they’d received ‘BBLs’ (Brazilian butt lifts). Another suggested the pastor use it as a teachable moment, writing, "I don't disagree that the dolls are scantily clad, but can't we teach our children to respect others no matter how they dress?" </span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Big W </span><a href="https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-8645483/Woolworths-removes-kids-LOL-dolls-furious-Aussie-mum-exposed-hidden-sexual-lingerie.html"><span style="font-weight: 400;">previously</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> took LOL Surprise Dolls off the shelves following a number of complaints from parents last year, the result of another viral video from an outraged parent who had discovered the dolls' ‘hidden’ feature - underwear. </span></p> <blockquote style="background: #FFF; border: 0; border-radius: 3px; box-shadow: 0 0 1px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.5),0 1px 10px 0 rgba(0,0,0,0.15); margin: 1px; max-width: 540px; min-width: 326px; padding: 0; width: calc(100% - 2px);" class="instagram-media" data-instgrm-permalink="https://www.instagram.com/p/CUa01rzPWZE/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" data-instgrm-version="14"> <div style="padding: 16px;"> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: row; align-items: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 50%; flex-grow: 0; height: 40px; margin-right: 14px; width: 40px;"></div> <div style="display: flex; flex-direction: column; flex-grow: 1; justify-content: center;"> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; margin-bottom: 6px; width: 100px;"></div> <div style="background-color: #f4f4f4; border-radius: 4px; flex-grow: 0; height: 14px; width: 60px;"></div> </div> </div> <div style="padding: 19% 0;"></div> <div style="display: block; height: 50px; margin: 0 auto 12px; width: 50px;"></div> <div style="padding-top: 8px;"> <div style="color: #3897f0; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 550; line-height: 18px;">View this post on Instagram</div> </div> <p style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 17px; margin-bottom: 0; margin-top: 8px; overflow: hidden; padding: 8px 0 7px; text-align: center; text-overflow: ellipsis; white-space: nowrap;"><a style="color: #c9c8cd; font-family: Arial,sans-serif; font-size: 14px; font-style: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: 17px; text-decoration: none;" rel="noopener" href="https://www.instagram.com/p/CUa01rzPWZE/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading" target="_blank">A post shared by Bratz (@bratz)</a></p> </div> </blockquote> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Long-time toy consumers may remember when similar criticisms were levelled at Bratz dolls, which were known for their pouty smiles and on-trend fashion sense, as well as their removable feet. The American Psychological Association actually </span><a href="https://www.apa.org/monitor/sep06/dolls"><span style="font-weight: 400;">expressed concerns</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> that Bratz dolls were sexualising young girls and teaching them that sex is a commodity. Interestingly, Bratz dolls are made by the same company as LOL Surprise dolls, MGA Entertainment.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Even further back, Barbie copped flack for being “</span><a href="https://theworkingparent.com/lifestyle-articles/a-history-of-barbie/#.YV0SsxBBw-Q"><span style="font-weight: 400;">too adult</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;">” because she, like many adult women, had breasts. More recently, a </span><a href="https://uk.style.yahoo.com/tattooed-barbie-doll-is-overly-sexualised-and-inappropriate-say-parents.html?guccounter=1&amp;guce_referrer=aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuZ29vZ2xlLmNvbS8&amp;guce_referrer_sig=AQAAAGiAVVTJpYOGsp_Yf0dFBG7octIZEm2ZHes1-pYZVsf5nPNCKeIiEu9y_oEsBGizvDWdWIcnLjf9HZRl4K59Zc4zWwqkpshe33GBtDoTmKfj3FRPg2tf5a7ANBK6MW6cSq77Cred7twHcrVWUecAZAzoTPDmLcjH4vLN36odkota"><span style="font-weight: 400;">tattooed Barbie doll</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> was criticised for being overly sexual, despite sporting a full-length off-the-shoulder shirt, a skirt, and leopard print leggings. </span></p> <p><em><span style="font-weight: 400;">Image: Jack Taylor/Getty Images</span></em></p>

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Looking after your pet in lockdown

<p>More time at home means we get to spend more time with our pets. While it’s easy to get busy with work, taking care of the kids, or watching the latest series on Netflix, this is precious time and we need to make sure our pets are doing OK as well.</p> <p>Lockdowns can be difficult for both pets and their owners as the sudden change in schedule can be a challenging transition. So, here are some tips to make your pets life a bit easier during lockdown.</p> <p>It’s important to keep your pets mentally stimulated so try to keep them entertained and help your pets with any anxiety they may be feeling during lockdown.</p> <p>Pets who are bored can develop destructive habits and may vent their frustrations on items like your furniture. Dogs, in particular, will often display behaviours such as excessive barking, digging and restlessness when bored.</p> <p>If your pets are showing signs of these troublesome behaviours, it may be a sign of a lack of mental stimulation. To help bust boredom during lockdown, you can incorporate some challenges into their daily activities.</p> <p>Pets usually have it quite simple when it comes to meals, with the bulk of us just placing their food down and waiting for them to get stuck into work. A good place to start is by changing your pet’s feeding schedule if you want to add more intellectual stimulation to their routine.</p> <p>Using food dispensing toys can also add in an extra challenge for your pets during mealtime. There are quite a few options to check out at pet stores.</p> <p><strong>Use some interactive toys</strong></p> <p>To keep your pet busy throughout the day, why not invest in a doggy board game or a canine puzzle. You can also play makeshift games which focus on memory with your pets.</p> <p>A great way to keep your pets incentivised is using toys which allow treats to be hidden inside so your pet will need to use their brain to figure out how to get them out!</p> <p><strong>Stay active</strong></p> <p>We know it’s not always possible to given the current climate but depending on lockdown restrictions, maintaining a consistent routine for your dog’s walks is an essential part of helping them adjust.</p> <p>Allowing your dog time to explore around and locate safe spots to wander and run freely helps make every walk exciting. </p> <p>This can be a difficult time but remember to take advantage of this opportunity to unwind at home with your pet. You may find it’s one of the best things about lockdown – spending more quality time with your pet!</p> <p><em>Photo: Shutterstock</em></p> <p> </p>

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Are your grandkids safe? It’s far too easy for abusers to exploit smart toys and trackers

<p>The wearable technology market is booming, with <a href="https://news.strategyanalytics.com/press-releases/press-release-details/2021/Strategy-Analytics-Half-Billion-Wearables-Sold-Worldwide-in-2020/default.aspx">half a billion wearables</a> sold globally in 2020. Apps on these devices, or the devices themselves, often claim to monitor our health to spot illnesses, track our workouts to help us reach our fitness goals, or keep an eye on our children’s whereabouts to enhance their safety.</p> <p>But they’re also divisive. Supporters of wearable technology claim that health trackers should be <a href="https://theconversation.com/why-the-nhs-should-prescribe-wearable-fitness-trackers-60817">prescribed by the NHS</a> and could even deliver an <a href="https://theconversation.com/wearable-fitness-devices-deliver-early-warning-of-possible-covid-19-infection-143388">early warning</a> of a possible COVID-19 infection. GPS tracking devices designed to be worn by children, meanwhile, are seen as a <a href="https://www.abc.net.au/news/2019-04-04/digitally-tracking-kids-more-parents-use-devices/10957906">safety asset</a> for parents.</p> <p>Yet studies have found fitness trackers to be too <a href="https://theconversation.com/why-fitness-trackers-may-not-give-you-all-the-credit-you-hoped-for-128585">inaccurate</a> and <a href="https://theconversation.com/do-fitness-trackers-make-you-fitter-52404">misleading</a> to be used by <a href="https://eu.usatoday.com/story/tech/2019/08/14/how-doctors-really-feel-data-your-apple-watch-fitbit/1900968001/">medical professionals</a>, and that, because they’ve been rushed to market, wearables of all kinds are an insecure “<a href="https://theconversation.com/why-health-apps-are-like-the-wild-west-with-apple-just-riding-into-town-103512">Wild West</a>” region of technology that requires urgent regulation.</p> <p>In <a href="https://assets.publishing.service.gov.uk/government/uploads/system/uploads/attachment_data/file/978692/The_UK_code_of_practice_for_consumer_IoT_security_-_PETRAS_UCL_research_report.pdf">a recent report</a>, we looked at the security risks associated with wearable devices, as well as “smart toys” that can record children in their homes. We found a concerning lack of security – especially for devices aimed at children – which lack even the most basic cybersecurity precautions, leaving them open to abuse.</p> <p><strong>Fitness trackers and personal data</strong></p> <p>One key issue with wearables is the data they generate and share. For instance, many fitness trackers rely on data on a person’s location to map their workouts. That’s great if you’re keen to track the distance of your jogs, but it’s not especially sensible if you’re embarking on those jogs <a href="https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/technology-42853072">from a military base</a> in hostile territory.</p> <p>Beyond that specific example, which caused some embarrassment for the US military in 2018, it’s clear that sharing your location publicly, even in a safe civilian setting, comes with significant risks.</p> <p>And it’s not just the real-time tracking of your running route that could expose your whereabouts. Because these trackers upload your workouts to an app and share them publicly, it’s possible for predators to use historic running, biking or hiking routes to predict where you might be at a given time. This safety issue isn’t only restricted to workouts. Even something as innocuous as <a href="https://www.wareable.com/wearable-tech/terms-and-conditions-privacy-policy-765">sharing a photo through your Apple watch</a> can give away your geolocation.</p> <p><strong>Are trackers safe for children?</strong></p> <p>Even more concerning are devices designed to be worn by children, sales of which are expected to reach <a href="https://www.prnewswire.com/in/news-releases/global-kids-smartwatch-market-valued-at-364-3-million-us-in-2018-and-will-reach-873-5-million-us-by-the-end-of-2025-at-a-cagr-of-13-19-between-2019-2025-valuates-reports-814713277.html">$875 million (£620 million)</a> by 2025. These watches are marketed as wearable tech to keep kids safe, tracking their location and alerting parents when the watch’s onboard “SOS” button is pressed – or if the child travels beyond a geofenced area.</p> <p>Smart watches as safety devices on children’s wrists may sound like a <a href="https://www.cbsnews.com/news/wearable-gps-tracking-for-children-to-ease-parents-minds/">boon for anxious parents</a>, but a <a href="https://fil.forbrukerradet.no/wp-content/uploads/2017/10/watchout-rapport-october-2017.pdf">2017 survey</a> of children’s smart watches found that the all-important “SOS” button either got stuck or didn’t work at all in most cases.</p> <p>Additionally, flaws in some smart watches’ accompanying apps have raised <a href="https://www.which.co.uk/news/2019/11/which-tests-for-security-flaws-in-kids-smartwatches/">serious safety concerns</a>. <a href="https://consumerfed.org/wp-content/uploads/2017/10/smart-watch-security-assessment.pdf">Security researchers</a> have found they could not only easily access children’s historical route data – like their path to and from school – and monitor their geolocation in real time, but they could also speak directly to the child, through the watch, without the call being reported in the parent’s app.</p> <p><strong>Connected toys</strong></p> <p>Fears that internet of things devices can give people unauthorised access to children also extend to <a href="https://theconversation.com/4-ways-internet-of-things-toys-endanger-children-94092">the “smart toy” market</a>. Some of these toys contain hidden cameras and microphones which, if hacked, could be used to record the interior of your home, including children’s rooms.</p> <p>In 2017, German regulators recognised this danger by <a href="https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-europe-39002142">banning the sale</a> of the Cayla “smart doll”, labelling it as the kind of “de facto espionage device” that Germany’s <a href="https://www.bundesnetzagentur.de/SharedDocs/Pressemitteilungen/EN/2017/17022017_cayla.html">Telecommunications Act</a> legislates against. In an unusual and unsettling move, the regulator went further by asking parents who’d bought one to <a href="https://www.dw.com/en/german-regulator-tells-parents-to-destroy-spy-doll-cayla/a-37601577">destroy the doll</a> to prevent illicit surveillance.</p> <p>Even if the manufacturers of smart toys and children’s smart watches can guarantee far better security than that which led to the Cayla ban, there remain other surveillance concerns. In 2019, a <a href="https://www.unicef.org/innovation/reports/memoAIchildrights">UNICEF-led report</a> highlighted how children’s rights – to creativity, freedom of choice and self-determination – are challenged by smart devices. Present in schools, at home, and on the wrist, this kind of round-the-clock surveillance, the report argues, restricts carefree childhood and hurts kids’ development.</p> <p><strong>Making trackers safer</strong></p> <p>Trackers and toys can be made safer. Before we allow these devices to flood the market, it’s essential <a href="https://discovery.ucl.ac.uk/id/eprint/10117734/">we standardise</a> the minimum security requirements that manufacturers must comply with – no matter where in the world these devices are made.</p> <p>Key among these standards should be the removal of <a href="https://assets.publishing.service.gov.uk/government/uploads/system/uploads/attachment_data/file/971440/Code_of_Practice_for_Consumer_IoT_Security_October_2018_V2.pdf">factory-default passwords</a> on devices – which, like “admin” or “1234”, are easily guessed or discovered by even the most novice hacker. Manufacturers should also publish a <a href="https://www.iotsecurityfoundation.org/expanding-the-view-of-consumer-vulnerability-disclosure-practice/">vulnerability disclosure</a> to help users understand risks, and make regular software updates in response to vulnerabilities unearthed by security researchers.</p> <p>Clearly, monitoring people’s health via wearable trackers has the potential to radically improve access to medical care. Likewise, every parent wants their child to be safe, and smart devices, like mobile phones before them, could be a reliable tool for checking in with them. But without safety standards, these devices have the potential to cause more harm than they offset. Regulators must act fast to stop this growing market from leading to significant harms.</p> <p><em>Written by <a href="https://theconversation.com/profiles/saheli-datta-burton-1061974">Saheli Datta Burton</a>, UCL and <a href="https://theconversation.com/profiles/madeline-carr-1148007">Madeline Carr</a>, UCL. Republished with permission of <a href="https://theconversation.com/its-far-too-easy-for-abusers-to-exploit-smart-toys-and-trackers-161946">The Conservation.</a> </em></p> <p><em> </em></p> <p> </p>

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The world's 26 best toy stores

<p><span>There’s nothing quite like exploring a new city and stumbling upon a gem of a toy store. But finding the good ones is a challenge in itself.</span><span> <br /><br /></span><span>Think LEGO city models and rare collectables, doll doctors and carousels. <br /><br /></span><span>Here are the world's 26 best toy stores. </span></p> <p><span> </span></p> <p><span>HAMLEYS, LONDON</span></p> <p><span>If you’ve ever been to Hamleys, you know why it tops the list. This magical multi-level toy emporium is something straight out of a fantasy novel. Flying planes, robots, giant bubbles and kid-sized remote controlled cars are buzzing across the store. Try colour changing nail polish and metallic make-your own stickers. Score a bedroom-sized sweet dispenser and some snow that never melts. Interactive toy exhibitions run throughout the day - and there’s even a waffle stand.<br /><br /><br /></span>M&amp;M STORE, LAS VEGAS</p> <p>If you are going to visit an MNM store - shouldn’t be questionable - you may as well visit the best one. This chocolate button extravaganza has just about everything MNM related that you could imagine. Design your own MNMs or shop for you favourite characters and MNM clothes.<br /><br /><br /><span>POKÉMON CENTRE, MINATO MIRAI, JAPAN</span></p> <p><span>It’s hard not to be a diehard fan when you enter this Pokemon world. Exclusive merchandise is sold here. You will also get the chance to test your video game skills by battling in out against other customers.<br /><br /><br /></span><span>HOBBY CO, SYDNEY</span></p> <p><span>Australia’s biggest hobby shop is known as a kids dream and a grown ups heaven. This age inclusive toy store stocks everything from plastic model kits and radio controlled models, to collectable figurines and giant jigsaws. This multiple level gem is really worth the space.<br /><br /><br /></span><span>LEGO STORE PEOPLE’S SQUARE, SHANGHAI, CHINA</span></p> <p><span>Shanghai’s Lego Store is pretty much the future of toy stores. With learning as a tangible aim, the concept store offers four different spaces for visitors to build their vision of a future city. It’s also home to the “</span>Mosaic Maker”: an opportunity to purchase your very own personalised LEGO mosaic portrait. The store features giant 3D models, including Pearl Tower of Shanghai and a skyline mosaic of the city. They took approximately four million bricks and 19,000 hours to create.<br /><br /><br />BUILD A BEAR,NEW YORK</p> <p>Of course Build A Bear is still one of the most popular toy store concepts to date. And there’s a good reason the NY store is one of the most popular attractions for families in the city. Get hands-on by stuffing your own personalised bear. Put a name on its birth certificate and fit it with a voice and beating heart beat. You can then personalise your bear with many outfits and accessories.<br /><br /><br />LARK TOYS, MINNESOTA</p> <p>This enchanting store is not just about teddy bears a dolls. Lark Toys is home to a hand crafted carousel, a bookstre and an 18 hole mini gold course. They have pretty much everything: marbles, tea sets, tops, trolls, rubber ducks, tin lunch boxes, wind-ups, puppets, Jacks-in-the-box, blocks, kites, cars, games, puzzles. The choices are endless. Waltz down Memory Lane’s antique collection hall and enjoy thousands of toys from the past. Make sure to stop at the cafe for a fudge or jelly treat, before saying hello to the pet llamas Francis, Irving and George.<br /><br /><br />NEW CHINA CHILDREN’S STORE</p> <p>This six-floor toy store is dedicated to everything kids. There’s books, fashion, stationary, baby items and most importantly - toys. There’s even a whole floor dedicated to toys that are affordable for everyone. You might even score a budget drone!<br /><br /><br />FAO SCHWARZ, NYC</p> <p>Not only is Fao Schwarz the largest toy store in NYC, it’s also the oldest. They’re renowned for spectacular, classical, and often expensive toys. It shut down a couple of years ago due to rental expenses, but they’re back and better than ever. At Fao Schwarz, you can experience the toy making process in store. There’s also the opportunity to create yourself in doll form at the Madame Alexander Doll Factory, or design an authentic muppet at the Muppet Whatnot Workshop. <br /><span><br /><br />TOYMATE, SYDNEY, AUSTRALIA</span></p> <p><span>After Toys R Us hit the haystack, TOYMATE took over their top locations. Their Sydney superstore has rapidly gained popularity due to its colourful interiors and 1000s of toys. </span></p> <p><br /><br />SI TU VEUX, PARIS</p> <p>Tucked away in the passages of Galerie Vivienne, is Paris’ prettiest boutique toy store. Si Tu Veux is a boutique toy store full of gadgets, trick toys and other eccentric little gems. The store prides itself with hand made and quality toys including wooden trinkets, learning toys, crafts and birthday party games and supplies with a Parisian twist.</p> <p> </p> <p>DISNEY STORE, NYC</p> <p>It’s time to watch your fantasy world become reality. A flying Mickey and Mini welcome you to the wonderland of the New York Disney store. This kids paradise has everything Disney themed, from character toys, to clothes and collectables.</p> <p> </p> <p>HOSPITAL DE BONECAS, LISBON</p> <p>This family run toy store is not quite like the rest. They aren’t here to sell dolls, so much as they are to fix them. Bring your broken or damaged toys to Praça Figueira for a thorough assesment by the doll doctors. Careful precision sees your toys healed of their wounds - arms are reattached, eyes are replaced and cherished toys are returned to their owners.</p> <p><span> </span></p> <p><span>HAMLEYS, BEIJING</span></p> <p><span>Of course the success of the London paradise means the demand for Hamleys has gone global. Welcome to Hamleys Beijing. Inside the 10,700 square metre paradise, childhood classics such as </span>Peppa Pig, Nerf, Disney and My Little Pony can be found. Of course the store is in Beijing, so we have to expect more than just toys. There’s a 240 square metre Lego exhibition, a VR experience, a Nerf shooting range and even a ball pit. Really, it’s five floors of kid-heaven.</p> <p> </p> <p>AMERICAN GIRL, CHICAGO</p> <p>Welcome to the largest and arguably the best American Girl store. Explore the home of your favourite doll characters: American Doll stocks Girl of the Year, Bitty Baby and other classic doll lines. Buy doll accessories, clothing, posters and books, and design your own matching doll and girl t-shirts. Head to the Doll Hair Salon to pamper your own doll or feature on the cover of a souvenir American Girl magazine issue.<br /><br /><br /></p> <p>TOYS “R” US, HONG KONG</p> <p>TOYS “R” US Hong Kong is the ultimate destination for all kids; big and small. This colourful toy store stocks just about every action figure, building toy and doll you can think of. And if you’re lucky, you might fine your favourite character as a life-sized figurine.</p> <p> </p> <p>LEGO STORE NYC</p> <p>This two-storey wonderland is home to the largest LEGO brick wall in the world. It holds 116 bubble, each with a different lego piece inside. From rare coloured bricks to har-to-find collectables, this store has it all. You can play LEGO inspired videos games and design your very own master builder kit. There’s also 50 NYC lego scenes around the shop to check out.</p> <p> </p> <p>STEIFF MUSEUM, GIENGEN, GERMANY</p> <p>It’s easy to lose hours to this interactive toy shop and museum. It’s just about as weird and wacky as it gets. This weird and wacky knick-knack paradise includes a stuffed toy hunt and ‘petting zoo’, a workshop and a giant slide.</p> <p><span> </span></p> <p><span>KIDS CAVERN, MACAU</span></p> <p><span>This 35,000 square foot toy store is the largest theme store in Macau. It’s recognisable by its quirky Willy Wonka style interiors, and has a giant candy store inside. It’s also home to the Princess Beauty House and Toy’s Kingdom.</span></p> <p> </p> <p>BARBIE STORE, BUENOS AIRES ARGENTINA</p> <p>The world’s first official Barbie store finds its home in Argentina. The Palermo district toy store is home to the Pink Palace, Barbie Dream House and a Barbie Tea House - the perfect stop for an exhausted mum. The store has Barbie jewellery, outfits, CDS and of course - Barbie dolls. Just about every one there is. There’s also Barbie’s life sized bedroom, and the opportunity to get Barbie manicures, makeup demonstrations and hairstyles.<br /><br /></p> <p><br />KIDDY LAND, BANGKOK</p> <p>The famous Japanese toy chain sees its ultimate location reside in Bangkok, Thailand. THis super toy store is jsut about as good as it gets. It’s the place where dreams are made, and made in to. Kiddy Land is home to anything and everything: mascots, dolls, cuddle toys, stuffed fur animals, action figures, Disney, Hello Kitty, Doraemon, Godzilla and a whole lot more. <br /><br /></p> <p>ENTERTAINER LONDON</p> <p>Refurbishments of Entertainer London mean the famous toy store chain is back with bang. The new store include animated window screens, interactive floor projections and immersive reality mirrors. There’s also kid-friendly Launch Pad Tech Tables and counter steps at each till.</p> <p> </p> <p>CHARLES RO SUPPLY COMPANY, MASSACHUSETTS</p> <p>Welcome to America’s largest train store. Family run Charles Ro stocks just about everything train related. This 5,000 square foot train spectacular has all the hard to find train sets, locomotives, box cars and classics. They stock products by Lionel, American Flyer, Bridgeworks, USA Trains and Thomas the Tank Engine.</p> <p> </p> <p>DETSKY MIR, RUSSIA</p> <p>A literal translation to<em> Children’s World,</em> this Russian toy store is just about as big and bold as they come. The children’s goods retailer currently has over 300 stores, so it’s not a surprise that they are good at what they do. The Moscow Detsky Mir is the largest toy store in its city, and stocks everything from stuffed toys to baby food. It’s said to be comparable to London’s <em>Hamleys</em> and New York’s<em> FAO Schwarz. <br /><br /></em><br />DISNEY STORE, LONDON</p> <p>It’s time for another toy store rival. Oxford Streets Disney store is home to a giant Cinderella Pumpkin and it’s own movie screen with kids tables and colouring in. Welcomed by Mickey and Mini mouse - there’s a British twist to this store. Your favourite Disney characters are dressed in Buckingham Palace Guard uniforms, and there’s a map display of Disney in London. Pinpoint Peter Pan, Mary Poppings and the cast of Cars 2 at Big Ben, St. Pauls Cathedral and St. James Park. The London Disney Store also hosts free interactive events including  animation classes, storytelling, trivia quizzes and parades. <br /><br /><br />HAKUHINKAN</p> <p><span>This multi level emporium is one of Tokyo’s biggest toy stores. It’s a classic, but with a Japanese twist. It feels more like your inside a bag of lollies than a shop, and it has everything from Hello Kitty’s and Transformers to Nerf Guns and Gundams. It’s also home to a giant toy car race track and the Licca-chan Club - headquarters of the Japanese Barbie equivalent.</span></p>

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Toy poodle “kicked into air” during alleged attack on dog walker

<p>A man from Sydney has claimed he was repeatedly bashed and his dog was kicked into the air during an alleged attack as they walked through an inner-city suburb.</p> <p>According to police, Seung Kang, 33, was strolling the streets of Pyrmont with his dog Zico last Friday night when a man approached them.</p> <p>Ian Ryan, 34, allegedly spouted abusive language towards Kang before punching him and kicking the poodle as they tried walking away.</p> <p>“Go to war! Go to war! Warfare,” a man can be heard saying in a video of the alleged attack.</p> <p>“[He was] telling me to go back to my country,” Kang told<span> </span><em>10 News First</em>.</p> <p>“He was basically wanting a fight … just, lots of swear words, and very aggressive.”</p> <p>A spokesperson for NSW Police said a passer-by came to the rescue and helped Kang.</p> <p>It’s alleged he was repeatedly punched in the head before more people came to his aid.</p> <p>Ryan allegedly fled the scene.</p> <p>Inspector Gary Coffey said the incident appeared to be unprovoked.</p> <p>“We can only draw up the fact that he was in possession of alcohol at the time of the offence … and clearly there’s no obvious motive,” said Coffey of the accused.</p> <p>He called the alleged attack “reprehensible”.</p> <p>“There’s no excuse obviously for attacking an innocent man just out walking his dog,” said Coffey.</p> <p>Ryan was arrested on Sunday after handing himself to police.</p> <p>He appeared in court on Monday charged with five offences, including common assault, committing an act of animal cruelty and stalking or intimidating with intent to cause physical harm.</p> <p>The court heard Ryan was defending himself from the dog which he claimed had barked near his legs.</p> <p>Ryan was refused bail.</p>

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Robots and drones: The new age of toys

<p>I’m a geek. And as a geek, I love my tech toys. But over time I’ve noticed toys are becoming harder to understand.</p> <p>Some modern toys resemble advanced devices. There are flying toys, walking toys, and roving toys. A number of these require “configuring” or “connecting”.</p> <p>The line between toy, gadget and professional device is blurrier than ever, as manufacturers churn out products including <a href="https://www.t3.com/features/best-kids-drones">drones for kids</a> and <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Hidden-Spy-Nanny-Camera-Wi-fi/dp/B07P7BCYZT">plush toys with hidden nanny cams</a>.</p> <p>With such a variety of sophisticated, and sometimes over-engineered products, it’s clear manufacturers have upped their game.</p> <p>But why is this happening?</p> <p><strong>The price of tech</strong></p> <p>Toys these days seem to be designed with two major components in mind. It’s all about the smarts and rapid manufacture.</p> <p>In modern toys, we see a considerable level of programmed intelligence. This can be used to control the toy’s actions, or have it respond to input to provide real time feedback and interaction – making it appear “smarter”.</p> <p>This is all made possible by the falling price of technology.</p> <p>Once upon a time, placing a microcontroller (a single chip microprocessor) inside a toy was simply uneconomical.</p> <p>These days, they’ll <a href="https://au.rs-online.com/web/c/semiconductors/processors-microcontrollers/microcontrollers/">only set you back a few dollars</a> and allow significant computing power.</p> <p>Microcontrollers are often WiFi and Bluetooth enabled, too. This allows “connected” toys to access a wide range of internet services, or be controlled by a smartphone.</p> <p>Another boon for toy manufacturers has been the rise of prototype technologies, including 3D modelling, 3D printing, and low cost CNC (computer numerical control) milling.</p> <p>These technologies allow the advanced modelling of toys, which can help design them to be “tougher”.</p> <p>They also allow manufacturers to move beyond simple (outer) case designs and towards advanced multi-material devices, where the case of the toy forms an active part of the toy’s function.</p> <p>Examples of this include hand grips (found on console controls and toys including Nerf Blasters), advanced surface textures, and internal structures which support shock absorption to protect internal components, such as wheel suspensions in toy cars.</p> <p><strong>Bot helpers and robot dogs</strong></p> <p>Many recent advancements in toys are there to appease our admiration of automatons, or self operating machines.</p> <p>The idea that an inanimate object is transcending its static world, or is “thinking”, is one of the magical elements that prompts us to attach emotions to toys.</p> <p>And manufacturers know this, with some toys designed specifically to drive emotional attachment. My favourite example of this is roaming robots, such as the artificially intelligent <a href="https://www.anki.com/en-us/vector.html">Anki Vector</a>.</p> <p>With sensors and internet connectivity, the Vector drives around and interacts with its environment, as well as you. It’s even <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Vector-Robot-Anki-Hangs-Helps/dp/B07G3ZNK4Y">integrated with Amazon Alexa</a>.</p> <p>Another sophisticated toy is Sony’s Aibo. This robot pet shows how advanced robotics, microelectronics, actuators (which allow movement), sensors, and programming can be used to create a unique toy experience with emotional investment.</p> <p><span class="attribution"><a href="https://www.shutterstock.com/image-photo/ho-chi-minh-city-vietnam-apr-1095006827" class="source"></a></span><strong>Screens not included</strong></p> <p>Toy manufacturers are also leveraging the rise of smartphones and portable computing.</p> <p>Quadcopters (or drones) and other similar devices often don’t need to include their own display in the remote control, as video can be beamed to an attached device.</p> <p>Some toys even use smartphones as the only control interface (used to control the toy), usually via an app, saving manufacturers from having to provide what is arguably the most expensive part of the toy.</p> <p>This means a smartphone becomes an inherent requirement, without which the toy can’t be used.</p> <p>It would be incredibly disappointing to buy a cool, new toy - only to realise you don’t own the very expensive device required to use it.</p> <p><strong>My toys aren’t spying on me, surely?</strong></p> <p>While spying may be the last thing you consider when buying a toy, there have been several reports of talking dolls <a href="https://www.npr.org/sections/alltechconsidered/2016/12/20/506208146/this-doll-may-be-recording-what-children-say-privacy-groups-charge">recording in-home conversations</a>.</p> <p>There are similar concerns with smart-home assistants such as Amazon Alexa, Google Assistant and Apple’s Siri, which store <a href="https://www.politifact.com/truth-o-meter/statements/2018/may/31/ro-khanna/your-amazon-alexa-spying-you/">your voice recordings in the cloud</a>.</p> <p>These concerns might also be warranted with toys such as the Vector, and Aibo.</p> <p>In fact, anything that has a microphone, camera or wireless connectivity can be considered a privacy concern.</p> <p><strong>Toys of the future</strong></p> <p>We’ve established toys are becoming more sophisticated, but does that mean they’re getting better?</p> <p><a href="https://www.gartner.com/smarterwithgartner/gartner-top-10-strategic-technology-trends-for-2020/">Various</a> <a href="https://www.accenture.com/us-en/insights/technology/technology-trends-2019">reports</a> indicate in 2020, artificial intelligence (AI) and machine learning will continue to be pervasive in our lives.</p> <p>This means buying toys could become an even trickier task than it currently is. There are some factors shoppers can consider.</p> <p>On the top of my list of concerns is the type and number of batteries a toy requires, and how to charge them.</p> <p>If a device has <a href="https://theconversation.com/nearly-all-your-devices-run-on-lithium-batteries-heres-a-nobel-prizewinner-on-his-part-in-their-invention-and-their-future-126197">in-built lithium batteries</a>, can they be easily replaced? And if the toy is designed for outdoors, <a href="https://theconversation.com/why-batteries-have-started-catching-fire-so-often-68602">can it cope with the heat?</a> Most lithium-ion batteries degrade quickly in hot environments.</p> <p>And does the device require an additional screen or smartphone?</p> <p>It’s also worth being wary of what personal details are required to sign-up for a service associated with a toy - and if the toy can still function if its manufacturer should cease to exist, or the company should go bust.</p> <p>And, as always, if you’re considering an advanced, “connected” toy, make sure to prioritise your security and privacy.<!-- Below is The Conversation's page counter tag. 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“He’s fully taken over”: Why Celine Dion's friends are worried about her “boy toy"

<p>Celine Dion is known as a music icon around the world, but there are concerns amongst her closest friends that she’s being too heavily influenced by her backup dancer and close friend Pepe Munoz.</p> <p>The 51-year-old <em>My Heart Will Go On</em> singer has been very close to Munoz after her husband René Angélil passed away at the age of 73 in 2016.</p> <p>Munoz has been described as her “boy toy” but Dion has said herself that he is gay and her “best friend”.</p> <p><em>The New York Post</em>'s <a rel="noopener" href="https://pagesix.com/2019/07/29/celine-dions-dancer-boy-toy-calling-the-shots-for-legendary-singer/" target="_blank">Page Six</a> has reported that some people in Dion’s inner circle fear that Munoz is “isolating” the star from her friends and “taking over” her life.</p> <p>“Pepe is like her boy toy who is really trying to take over. He’s isolating her and people are feeling it,” an anonymous friend told the publication.</p> <p>“She’s in love with this guy and listens to everything he’s saying.</p> <p>“People go to him when they have questions. He’s fully taken over.”</p> <p>Meanwhile, Dion shut down rumours of a relationship between herself and Munoz last year.</p> <p>“Pepe is gay,” she told <a rel="noopener" href="https://extratv.com/2019/04/04/celine-dion-takes-on-pepe-munoz-romance-rumors/" target="_blank"><em>Extra</em></a>. “At first, I think some people did not know that.”</p> <p>The iconic singer added, “The thing is that he’s my best friend and we dance together and he did so much for me and even just holding my hand… it’s something that I haven’t had for a long time.”</p> <p>She further defended herself to <a rel="noopener" href="https://www.thesun.co.uk/tvandshowbiz/8301240/celine-dion-hyde-park-concert-sexier/" target="_blank"><em>The Sun</em>’s</a> Dan Wooten in January saying that they’re just good friends.</p> <p>"The press said, ‘Oh my God, René just passed and now there’s another man.’ Yeah, there’s another man in my life, but not the man in my life," she said. "We’re friends, we’re best friends."</p> <p>Dion added, “Of course we hug and hold hands and go out, so people see that. I mean, he’s a gentleman. He’s giving me his hand to go out.”</p> <p>Scroll through the gallery above to see Dion and Munoz spending time together as best friends. </p>

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What Barbie would look like as a 60-year-old

<p><span style="font-weight: 400;">A dating site for single over 50-year-olds looking to get back in the game has honoured Mattel’s beloved iconic Barbie on her 60</span><span style="font-weight: 400;">th</span><span style="font-weight: 400;"> birthday. </span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Charly  Lester from Lumen told </span><a href="https://www.news.com.au/lifestyle/relationships/dating/barbie-reimagined-as-her-actual-age-on-her-60th-birthday/news-story/ca897d3c91b20dce543cc8761373c214"><span style="font-weight: 400;">news.com.au</span></a> <span style="font-weight: 400;">the idea was created in an effort to celebrate and show the appeal of older women. </span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“Our Head of Brand Liesa had the idea of showing ageing icons as their real ages, and Barbie was one of the first ones she mentioned,” Lester explained.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">After reconfiguring what the iconic “forever young” doll would look like into her older age, the dating site team said Barbie’s 60</span><span style="font-weight: 400;">th</span><span style="font-weight: 400;"> birthday was the perfect way to challenge the way mature aged people are shown in the media. </span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“Lumen’s mission is very much pro-age and anti-ageism and we are repeatedly challenging the way over 50s are shown in the media,” Lester said.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">embed</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“We felt Barbie’s 60th birthday was a great opportunity to showcase this in a lighthearted way.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“Our homage to Barbie shows her un-airbrushed, and represented by a real woman at her real age. She is still beautiful and aspirational, but in a very realistic way.”</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Over the years, Barbie has had over 200 jobs, from being an astronaut to a firefighter, a game developer to even the president of the united States – there isn’t much the most recognisable toys in the world can’t do. </span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">The issue, says Lester, is that Barbie has “never been her real age.”</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">Telling </span><a href="https://www.metro.news/barbie-brought-to-life-to-help-over-50s-win-dating-game/1464916/"><span style="font-weight: 400;">Metro</span><span style="font-weight: 400;">,</span></a><span style="font-weight: 400;"> they said: “Many women say that in their 50s and 60s they’ve never felt more empowered in their own skin and this should be reflected by influential icons like Barbie.</span></p> <p><span style="font-weight: 400;">“We encourage the toy industry to consider making their products more pro age… who says that everyone should be in their 20s to be a success?”</span></p>

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Who was Princess Margaret’s “toy boy” Roddy Llewellyn?

<p>Princess Margaret’s antics before her death in 2002 at 71 have made up some of the juiciest royal drama in the past.</p> <p>When the Queen’s younger sister was seen kissing on a beach, it was just the first in a series of marriage scandals that would plague the Royal Family for decades.</p> <p>Although the Queen did not love the relationship between Margaret's toy boy Roddy Llewellyn, who was 17 years her junior, she soon accepted it.</p> <p>The affair between Princess Margaret and Roddy was first made aware to the public in February 1976 when the pair were spotted in swimsuits on the Caribbean island of Mustique.</p> <p>The Princess was 45 and married to Lord Snowdon, when she was seen with the then 26-year-old landscape gardener.</p> <p>They were already almost three years into what would be an eight-year affair.</p> <p>It was only weeks after the photographs made tabloids that the Queen’s younger sister and Snowdon announced their separation, divorcing in 1978.</p> <p>After their romantic holiday that pulled in a flood of coverage, the media hounded Roddy until he issued a statement.</p> <p>"I much regret any embarrassment caused to Her Majesty the Queen and the royal family, for whom I wish to express the greatest respect, admiration and loyalty," it read.</p> <p>"Could we please be permitted by the media, who have besieged us, to carry on with our work and private lives without further interference."</p> <p>However, the two were not left alone.</p> <p>"When it emerged, that Margaret was having the relationship with Roddy Llewellyn, we were absolutely in the age of tabloid gossip and celebrity news and this was the perfect story to feed that machine," Chris Granlund, executive producer of the documentary <em>Margaret: A Rebel Princess,</em> said. </p> <p>The producer explained Princess Margaret’s story fit perfectly in the narrative of the 1970s.</p> <p>"Feminism was growing but still there was a double standard that for an older woman being with a younger man at that time was a huge thing, and much more than it would be today. And so that was a part of it, so he was constantly referred to as her 'Toy Boy'.</p> <p>“Politicians called him that when they were attacking the royal family in parliament. So [their relationship] was used as a weapon against the royal family."</p> <p>Through the course of the relationship between Margaret and Roddy, the young gardener released a self-titled album <em>Roddy</em>, in 1978. However, the press’ interest remained tightly on his personal life.</p> <p>Christopher Warwick, Princess Margaret’s authorised biographer, explained: “The Queen didn't approve of Roddy or of the relationship, and she thought that in all of this Roddy business, her sister was behaving badly.”</p> <p>In the documentary <em>Elizabeth: Our Queen</em>, Lady Anne Glenconner explained a conversation the British Monarch and she shared at Princess Margaret’s funeral.</p> <p>“After Princess Margaret’s funeral, the Queen, she said, ‘I’d just like to say, Anne, it was rather difficult at moments, but I thank you so much [for] introducing Princess Margaret to Roddy ’cause he made her really happy,’” <a href="https://www.vanityfair.com/style/2018/02/the-queen-reportedly-approved-princess-margaret-affair-with-roddy-llewellyn">Glenconner said.</a></p> <p>After the couple’s highly publicised relationship came to an end in July of 1981, Roddy went on to marry Tatiana Soskin. Together they have three daughters – Alexandra, Natasha and Rosie.</p> <p>In 2002, he opened up about his and Princess Margaret’s relationship in an <a href="https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/uknews/1384450/I-followed-my-heart-says-Llewellyn.html">open letter.</a></p> <p>“I didn't think about the consequences of such a high-profile affair,” he said.</p> <p>“If we all had crystal balls, we'd all know which horse to back, wouldn't we? I was just following my heart.</p> <p>“I discovered a warm and witty woman, possessing a strong sense of duty and dedication to her country's interests, who has honoured me with her friendship since that first house party that was so filled with fun and laughter.</p> <p>"We found we were all fond of charades and sing-songs. I have even sung to her accompaniment on the piano. To raise a laugh, HRH has donned a wig to sing a Sophie Tucker red hot momma number.</p> <p>"In Princess Margaret I found a fine friend who could steady my restless nature and offer wise counsel," he said in a piece written by himself for the newspaper <em>News of the World</em>. </p>

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Backlash after Prince George spotted with toy gun during polo day out

<p>Social media critics have hit out at the royal family after Prince George was pictured playing with a toy gun.</p> <p>The four-year-old royal was seen pretending to shoot the plastic firearm at other children and his mother, the Duchess of Cambridge, during a charity polo outing to watch Prince William.</p> <p>People were quick to take to Twitter to question why the child has been allowed to play with the toy gun, with many pointing out that it was inappropriate given the surge in violent crime in the UK.</p> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet"> <p dir="ltr">This isn’t okay anymore... My American side here, biased maybe b/c of everyday <a href="https://twitter.com/hashtag/gunviolence?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">#gunviolence</a> in USA,but my British side agrees. No child in this day and age should look at any gun as a fun toy. This looks far too real. .(And I LOVE Prince George, don’t get me wrong!) <a href="https://twitter.com/teamtrace?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">@teamtrace</a> <a href="https://t.co/UEqtFi5WTH">pic.twitter.com/UEqtFi5WTH</a></p> — Daisy Torme (@daisytorme) <a href="https://twitter.com/daisytorme/status/1005901211256713217?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">June 10, 2018</a></blockquote> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet"> <p dir="ltr">It’s not a joke some people lose their lives because their children thought they played with a toy and it was a real gun !! <a href="https://t.co/IBJqQrXnef">pic.twitter.com/IBJqQrXnef</a></p> — Just Juliette (@RoyalDetective8) <a href="https://twitter.com/RoyalDetective8/status/1005886521508089856?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">June 10, 2018</a></blockquote> <p>“Sad to see George playing with a gun when the whole country has a gun/knife crime situation,” one user wrote.</p> <p>“Maybe in training for killing wild life in later years. Thought he was a sensitive child,” another said.</p> <p>“Better if he was seen playing with a toy car or football. Sadly the royals will never change,” another user wrote.</p> <p>“I really don’t get toy guns - why play with things you should never have to use,” added another critic.</p> <p>But not everyone agreed with quite a few commentators defending the royals.</p> <p>“Well, I'm outraged that people are getting outraged over petty things,” one person wrote.</p> <p>George and his sister Charlotte had joined their mother Kate to watch Prince William take part in the Maserati Royal Charity Polo Trophy at Beaufort Polo Club in Gloucestershire.</p> <p>The charity match help raises funds for two charities – the Royal Marsden, which the Duke supports as president, and Centrepoint, of which he is patron.</p> <p>Do you think children should be allowed to play with toy guns?</p>

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10 fantastic non-toy Christmas gift ideas

<p>Children are dropping letters in the mail to Santa and letting parents know what they want for the holidays.</p> <p>For many parents, aunts, uncles and grandparents however, the idea of bringing toys into the house that aren't likely to be played with past New Year's Eve has them looking for alternatives.</p> <p>The good news is that there are plenty options for great gifts. This year we have 10 bright ideas.<br /> <br /> <strong>1. Exercise equipment</strong><br /> <br /> While children might not appreciate the gift of good health, they can appreciate fun that makes them fit. Try a mini trampoline for indoor use or go for a larger model for outdoor use. Or consider a moon bounce. As with trampolines, small ones may fit indoors (measure your ceilings before buying) or large ones can be used outdoors.<br /> <br /> If bouncing isn't your thing, try a basketball hoop (even a small indoor version), a jump rope, or new two wheeler. There are Backyard Ninja kits and colourful river stones and hilltops that can be used to create in-home obstacle courses.<br /> <br /> <strong>2. Journal  </strong><br /> <br /> Nearly every child likes to draw or write. Any simple book with paper will do, but kids will love a real journal with a lock or personalised with an initial or photo. Fans of <em>Iggy Peck, Architect</em> and <em>Rosie Revere, Engineer</em> will love a <em>Peck &amp; Revere</em> Journal designed for noting down bright ideas. Many kids love the <em>Wreck This Journal</em> with creative prompts throughout.<br /> <br /><strong>3. Books and beyond</strong></p> <p>Books are an obvious non-toy gift, but think beyond the ordinary for the holidays. If you are always on the go or your older child reads a ton, try a subscription to Audio Books that syncs your reading progress across multiple devices.</p> <p>Younger kids will enjoy a personalised book that can put them in any story from a Christmas adventure to a <em>Frozen</em> or S<em>tar Wars</em> story. Or, go the more traditional route with a boxed set of books for little kids, choose from a set of classic series that come with a personalised book band with the recipient's name or make your own set like one from Puffin Classics.<br /> <br /> <strong>4. Furniture</strong><br /> <br /> While kids likely won't be excited about a new living-room sofa, they would love their own kid-friendly piece, like a comfy beanbag chair, a new desk, or a kid-sized table for play and snacks. Or, try something fun like a race-car themed bed that will last for years.<br /> <br /> <strong>5. Clothes </strong><br /> <br /> Clothes are a necessity, but they don't have to be boring. Does your grandchild want an expensive pair of jeans or sneakers? Do your grandkids clamour for every Pokemon shirt they see? The holidays are a great time to splurge on these types of clothing items. Specialty clothing your kids need for activities like dance, soccer, or even playing in the snow make great gifts.</p> <p><strong>6. How-to and then do</strong></p> <p>Does your grandchild love to help you make cookies? Try a pastry cookbook, along with a package of ingredients and an apron. Has your child shown an interest in photography? Try a book like Photo Adventures for Kids along with something kid-friendly like the Polaroid Snap Touch Instant Share that allows users to print or share directly from the camera.<br /> <br /> The possibilities are endless from gardening and building projects to coding and travel planning.</p> <p><strong>7. Pocket knife and tools</strong><br /> <br /> Many children get a lot of joy from handling something grown-up and making something with their own hands. Other children take pride in having their own hammer to help with projects around the house. As long as your child is old enough to understand safety parameters, they will be delighted with a gift that shows you trust them and that they can use to help out around the house or create.<br /> <br /> <strong>8. Book of their artwork</strong><br /> <br /> Many kids create artwork at an astonishing rate - and get very upset if they find one of their masterpieces in the trash. Solve your clutter problem and address your child's attachment issues with a book of their artwork. Snap a photo of any piece of artwork then print a book of their artwork. </p> <p><strong>9. Music</strong></p> <p>Find a way to incorporate music into your holiday giving. Make a new "mix tape" on a CD or phone of your child's favourites. Or, take the opportunity to introduce her to all new music. Another option is to create a personalised song, such as those available from Instasong that you can create online in about three minutes. Try a kid-friendly Karaoke machine like a Singing Machine that has a large screen from which kids can read lyrics and comes with a real microphone.</p> <p><strong>10. Anything they need</strong></p> <p>Think creatively about upcoming purchases that can double as gifts. Will your son need a new bike helmet? Does your daughter have a camping trip coming up and needs a sleeping bag? Are your paints and crayons in need of replacements? The holidays are a perfect time to give these things to your children.</p> <p>If you feel a little guilty buying something for the holidays that you would purchase anyway, consider an upgrade such as a backpack with a character if you would normally buy a solid colour or a bike helmet with a Mohawk or fun animal ears.</p> <p>What are you getting your grandkids this Christmas?</p> <p><em>Written by Jamie Davis Smith. Republished with permission of <a href="http://www.stuff.co.nz/" target="_blank"><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">Stuff.co.nz</span></strong></a>. </em></p>

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