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How one widow has changed how women solo travel

<p>After Yvonne Vickers' husband passed away in 2014, she thought her opportunities to travel and see the world had slipped away. </p> <p>Yvonne had always been a keen traveller and went on trips with her married friends after becoming a widow, but she "got over being the third wheel", she admitted to <a href="https://travel.nine.com.au/latest/cruising-solo-female-older-passengers/9553953c-84e8-418a-9c2b-8c9b847b9ba4" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><em>9Travel</em></a>. </p> <p>Still wanting to see the world on her own terms, Yvonne took to Facebook where she created a group seeking like-minded women who share her passion for adventure. </p> <p>Now, the Find A Female Cruise or Travel Buddy is an ever-growing group that has connected thousands of women looking for travel companions. </p> <p>Whether they're single, widowed, or just married to someone who doesn't want to travel, the group is open to women across the globe to join.</p> <p>Thanks to her newfound community, Yvonne has taken 41 cruises and dozens of land trips since her husband's death, all while making friends for life, and the rest of the group's members are in the same boat.</p> <p>"It's wonderful to get feedback from ladies saying that it's helped to change their life," Yvonne said. "That's the rewarding part of it for me."</p> <p>Members can make a post in the group, detailing a cruise sailing or trip that they have their eye on booking, to see if anyone else would like to join them.</p> <p>"We have a lot of widows in our group who are cashed up and want to travel but don't have anyone to travel with or share their experiences with," Yvonne said. "The group gives them the opportunity to be able to do that."</p> <p>"There are also a lot of ladies who are married but their husbands don't want to travel. It gives them the opportunity to be able to travel."</p> <p>Yvonne says that cruising is a perfect way for older females to travel, especially if they're on their own.</p> <p>"It's a really safe way to travel as a solo female," she says, also noting that it's an easy way to get around and see places. Recently, she did a 35-day trip around Hawaii with a group of women from the group.</p> <p>For the Find A Female Cruise or Travel Buddy group, there's even more fun trips on the horizon.</p> <p>Yvonne just came back from a trip to Japan with 14 group members, and is heading to Bali in August with a friend she made through the group.</p> <p><em>Image credits: Nine News \ Facebook</em></p>

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Bob Hawke’s widow cops loss on luxury apartment

<p dir="ltr">Blanche d’Alpuget, the widow of former Australian Prime Minister Bob Hawke, has offloaded her luxury apartment in the heart of Sydney’s CBD after offering a sizable discount.</p> <p dir="ltr">With an initial price guide of $4.3-4.5 million ($NZ 4.7-4.9 million) in July, the guide was reportedly adjusted to $4.2 million ($NZ 4.6 million) in September before eventually selling for an unconfirmed $3.73 million ($NZ 4.09 million), per <a href="https://www.realestate.com.au/news/bob-hawkes-widow-blanche-dalpuget-sells-372m-luxury-pad-in-the-one30-hyde-park-sydney/" target="_blank" rel="noopener"><em>realestate.com.au</em></a>.</p> <p dir="ltr">D’Alpuget’s two-bedroom apartment in the One30 Hyde Park tower was sold after she switched listing agents from Ray White to <a href="https://boutiquepropertyagents.com/property/1403-130-elizabeth-street-sydney-nsw-2000/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Boutique Property Agents</a>.</p> <p dir="ltr">The author and journalist moved in after she and Hawke settled on it in March 2019 and sold their waterfront property in Northbridge.</p> <p dir="ltr">The 131-square-metre apartment was originally three bedrooms before being reconfigured, and boasts views of Hyde Park and Sydney Harbour.</p> <p dir="ltr">After the apartment’s sale, d’Alpuget will be moving to the apartment tower next door, having spent $4.6 million on another apartment.</p> <p><span id="docs-internal-guid-99872eb3-7fff-9de9-27b3-848aa242d694"></span></p> <p dir="ltr"><em>Images: Getty Images / Boutique Property Agents</em></p>

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Heart broken widow speaks following the death of her husband

<p>A heartbroken widow has opened up about her husband dying in her warms, while the couple waited over 40 minutes for an ambulance to arrive.</p> <p>Stewart Grant, aged 82, suffered breathing difficulties at 12:30 pm on January 29 at his Phillip Island home in Victoria, but paramedics were not dispatched immediately despite his family calling triple-zero.</p> <p>His wife of more than 50 years, Carol Grant, said she was initially told no one was coming.</p> <p>But a short time later, Mr Grant stopped breathing.</p> <p>An operator called back 12 minutes after the initial conversation and counted with Ms Grant while she performed CPR on her husband.</p> <p>“She asked me to get him out of bed, and put him on the floor, lie him on his back and to start CPR,” she said.</p> <p>After the ambulance was finally dispatched, an alert system to find trained volunteers was initiated and three locals came to help.</p> <p>“I’d just like to thank them for everything they tried to do. I’m just so grateful for their help as I couldn’t have continued (performing CPR),” Ms Grant said.</p> <p>“Even though it wasn’t successful, I’m just so grateful to them for trying.”</p> <p>Health Minister Martin Foley said the case was tragic, and told reporters on Thursday that there were issues with how the call was prioritised by the triple-zero call service ESTA.</p> <p>“As I understand, the issue wasn’t so much the dispatch of the ambulance. The paramedics were there, other volunteers in the nearby community were there, once the call was distributed,” he said.</p> <p>State Opposition Leader Matthew Guy said the case was horrifying and demanded an explanation from the government.</p> <p>“If it’s the call-out and dispatch system, then it’s the government’s to manage ... It’s just not good enough to say it’s someone else’s fault. How the hell can this happen in Victoria in 2022?” he asked.</p> <p>Premier Daniel Andrews sent his condolences and said the coroner would examine the tragedy.</p> <p>“This pandemic has made the job of our ambos really tough, they’re all working as hard as they can and any time that a patient dies I know that that’s carried by our paramedics; they feel it very heavily,” he told reporters.</p> <p>Ambulance Victoria has also sent its sincere condolences to the Grant family and said it had undertaken a review of the case.</p> <p>Mr Grant’s case is not the only recent death in Victoria following a long wait for paramedics.</p> <p>Victorian paramedics experienced their busiest quarter on record in the last three months of 2021. Data shows ambulances were called to 91,397 code-one cases during that period, a 16% increase on the same time in 2020.</p> <p><em>Images: 7News</em></p>

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Letter from soldier delivered to widow after 76 years

<p>After 76 long years, a heartfelt letter form the battlefield has finally been delivered.</p> <p>Angelina Gonsalves received the letter in an unexpected delivery form the US Postal Service, which was written by her late husband while he was deployed overseas in 1945.</p> <p>Written by 22-year-old Sergeant John Gonsalves while stationed in Germany, the soldier wrote the letter to his mother to check in on his family and let them know he was believed to be coming home to Massachusetts soon.</p> <p>The letter was dated December 6th 1945, and was never delivered to his mother.</p> <p>Instead, it was delivered to his widow 76 years and three days later.</p> <p>"I got to read it and it was wonderful," Angelina Gonsalves, of Woburn, Massachusetts, told CNN on Wednesday. "It is in really good condition. I was amazed by that myself."</p> <p>When John wrote the letter, he and Angelina has not yet met. </p> <p>The pair married in 1953, eight years after the war, and had five sons together, before John died in 2015 at age 92. </p> <p>In the two page letter to his mother, who shared the same name as his wife, John discusses the "lousy" options for food and the horrible winter weather, claiming where he was stationed has not seen the sun in weeks. </p> <p>He closes the letter by sending love to his family, before signing and sealing the note and attaching a six cent stamp. </p> <p>"It was a joy to see her face light up reading his words," Brian Gonsalves, Angelina and John's son, told CNN.</p> <p>"To be able to see her read something he wrote and look back at that history, it's something she'll always have now."</p> <p>It is unclear where the letter had been hiding all this time, but it was found at the USPS Pittsburgh processing centre late last year. </p> <p>Dedicated employees at the centre understood the importance of the late soldier's letter, and started to track down John's next of kin to deliver the piece of history. </p> <p>"We are aware of the passing of your husband in 2015 (our condolences)," reads a letter from the USPS, which was sent with John's letter.</p> <p>"By virtue of some dedicated sleuth work by postal employees at this facility, we were able to determine your address, hence this letter delivery to you, albeit 76 years delayed. Due to the age and significance to your family history, delivering this letter was of utmost importance to us."</p> <p>The letter was delivered to Angelina just before Christmas, which her son said made the perfect gift. </p> <p>"It felt like he came back for the holiday season," he said.</p> <p><em>Image credits: CNN</em></p>

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The golf widow

<div><em>Homestead Bay on Lake Wakatipu.</em></div> <p>I’ve never understood my husband’s obsession with golf. Hitting a little white ball around acres of perfectly-manicured grass on gently undulating terrain is not my definition of exhilarating exercise . . . but he loves it despite the frustrations that seem to accompany the game.<br />So while Chris and his mate chased little white balls around the immaculate golf course at Jack’s Point near Queenstown, I set off to explore far more rugged terrain on my ebike, totally happy to be a golf widow for a day. I had scintillating companions — the Remarkables and Lake Wakatipu — which dominate the landscape.<br /><br />I’ve always felt a strong affinity for the Remarkables dating back to my childhood days when we spent holidays at our little crib in Arrowtown. I regarded the sawtooth pinnacles of the Remarkables as mystical, my ‘maunga tapu’ (sacred mountain).They are especially dazzling in winter when white snow accentuates the jagged jet black rocks near the summit.<br /><br />One summer, as a dewy-eyed teenager, I climbed the mountain with a friend and camped up there for the night. The mist came swirling in with cold, damp fingers at about 3am which was eerie and far from romantic — but the sunrise was magical.<br /><br />The mountains towered over me as I skirted the golf course and cycled along a stunning lakeside track with Wakatipu sparkling in the sunshine. The weather was glorious and I had the day to myself so I meandered along any track that caught my eye. With a 100-kilometre battery range, I knew I would not run out of power on my Wisper Wayfarer. I cycled through the multi-million dollar property development at the far reaches of Jack’s Point, marvelling at the sprawling mansions under construction and the magnificent views the occupants would enjoy.</p> <p>Late in the day, I discovered Homestead Bay, a perfect spot to park our Maui motorhome overnight. With the snow on the Remarkables turning pink in the sunset and the lapping waters of Lake Wakatipu just a few metres away, it was an idyllic place to stay. The views were even better than the fancy mansions at Jack’s Point.<br /><br />But without knowing for sure whether freedom camping was permitted there, Chris decided it was safer to park in his golf mate’s driveway rather than risk a hefty fine. That’s another great thing about motorhoming. You can invite yourself to stay with friends without imposing on their space. He lives right on the edge of the golf course with a great elevated view of the lake and the mountains.<br /><br />Sticking with the golf theme, next day we cycled around the five-star Millbrook Resort set on 650 acres near Arrowtown. Chris wanted to check out the resort’s world-renowned golf course for future reference while I was keen to see what had become of the rolling farmlands and pretty little stream that I remembered in my youth.<br /><br />I had always known there was once a mill on the site but learning the full story was fascinating. In the 1860s, at the height of the Central Otago gold rush, French brothers John and Peter Butel from Normandy established a 450-acre wheat farm near Arrowtown to feed hungry goldminers. It was known as Mill Farm. The Butel brothers helped create Arrowtown’s first water race which can still be seen around the resort today. Originally built as a service to miners, it became the main water supply for the emerging township. Peter Butel was the first in the district to install electricity, running a generator off the water wheel he used for the mill.</p> <p><img style="width: 300.78125px; height: 500px;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7839353/5-the-mill-stream-babbles-its-way-through-millbrook-resort.png" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/08d90a01049942c1aa11ce11c146d776" /><br /><em>The mill stream babbles its way through Millbrook Resort.</em></p> <p>In the early 1900s, Millbrook became a camp for the Wakatipu Mounted Rifles and during WW1 it was converted to a hospital for injured Kiwi soldiers returning from Europe. After World War II the land reverted to farming.<br />Four decades later, the Ishii family came up with a plan to establish a lifestyle and golf resort of international standing on the land, and in 1993 Millbrook Resort opened to the public.<br /><br />In 2014 Millbrook purchased the neighbouring farm and in 2018 work began on a new nine-hole golf course which will see the complex grow from a 27-hole to a 36-hole golf course.<br /><br />Nowadays, Millbrook is a five-star resort with luxurious accommodation, four onsite restaurants, a soon-to-be 36-hole championship golf course, day spa, health and fitness centre and conference venue.<br /><br />While Chris was drooling over the prospect of playing 36 holes of golf, I was more interested in the rustic remains of the old farm machinery, the restored mill wheel and buildings and the stately avenue of trees still standing after 150 years. It’s a peaceful, picturesque place surrounded by spectacular mountains. The old mill stream babbles its way through the property, feeding tranquil lakes and ponds that reflect the beauty of the landscape.</p> <p><em><img style="width: 500px; height: 300.78125px;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7839354/1-i-cycled-along-a-stunning-lakeside-track-with-wakatipu-sparkling-in-the-sunshine.png" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/fcc7d5669edc426e8963929017bce464" /><br /><img style="width: 0px; height: 0px;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7839354/1-i-cycled-along-a-stunning-lakeside-track-with-wakatipu-sparkling-in-the-sunshine.png" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/fcc7d5669edc426e8963929017bce464" />I cycled along a stunning lakeside track with Wakatipu sparkling in the sunshine. Photos by Justine Tyerman</em></p> <p>We sat in the sunshine and had coffee at the Hole In One Cafe before heading to our next destination. That was the closest Chris got to playing golf that day. Two days of golf widowhood would have been one too many on an ebike holiday.<br /><br /><em>To be continued...</em></p> <div><span>Read <a rel="noopener noreferrer" href="https://email.directgroup.com.au/owa/redir.aspx?C=2fFzQ1wtyiodwskIBQ4JVvViBc68KsIaXL7JozY1KCD6lEC3C7LYCA..&amp;URL=https%3a%2f%2fwww.oversixty.com.au%2ftravel%2finternational-travel%2fheading-for-paradise" target="_blank">part 1</a>, <a rel="noopener noreferrer" href="https://email.directgroup.com.au/owa/redir.aspx?C=BBsJo-eUsUQYSrWM2VT2uxp14hUBYiAkph4kEzYecoD6lEC3C7LYCA..&amp;URL=https%3a%2f%2fwww.oversixty.com.au%2ftravel%2finternational-travel%2fturning-greener-with-the-years" target="_blank">part 2</a>, <a rel="noopener noreferrer" href="https://email.directgroup.com.au/owa/redir.aspx?C=iBcmRS80gDFdRO80aBdHytOmh-n8EZJl54oaf9flot36lEC3C7LYCA..&amp;URL=https%3a%2f%2fwww.oversixty.com.au%2ftravel%2finternational-travel%2fin-the-company-of-giants" target="_blank">part 3</a>, <a rel="noopener noreferrer" href="https://email.directgroup.com.au/owa/redir.aspx?C=AdZ5KLNAxMnSOVg9b6YxTitSqNh5QRX_JRdfbp5QSYD6lEC3C7LYCA..&amp;URL=https%3a%2f%2fwww.oversixty.com.au%2ftravel%2finternational-travel%2fside-tracked-with-justine-tyerman" target="_blank">part 4</a>,  <a rel="noopener noreferrer" href="https://email.directgroup.com.au/owa/redir.aspx?C=sot8tH660q6Wk4pBtTPTdbhItB3lA7lYLqq94tU-6Uj6lEC3C7LYCA..&amp;URL=https%3a%2f%2fwww.oversixty.com.au%2ftravel%2finternational-travel%2ffreewheeling-with-justine-tyerman" target="_blank">part 5</a> of Justine’s Central Otago road trip here.</span></div> <div></div> <div><em>Justine Tyerman travelled courtesy of <a rel="noopener noreferrer" href="https://email.directgroup.com.au/owa/redir.aspx?C=bLkS9zYVJYJv3cQdm0_X1ZQB_1o4x1s2ikYto_9uL2n6lEC3C7LYCA..&amp;URL=https%3a%2f%2fprotect-au.mimecast.com%2fs%2fRRP8C71RRPFmwDJT8y37E%3fdomain%3dmaui-rentals.com" target="_blank">thl</a> in a <a rel="noopener noreferrer" href="https://email.directgroup.com.au/owa/redir.aspx?C=6W8lckCI1tg0XRjV7mnS7Jf_p7XphCrKPnhc3WsW1cD6lEC3C7LYCA..&amp;URL=https%3a%2f%2fprotect-au.mimecast.com%2fs%2frbTkC81VVQFjEoKS1P9YD%3fdomain%3dmaui-rentals.com" target="_blank">Maui 4-berth Cascade motorhome,</a> and rode a <a rel="noopener noreferrer" href="https://email.directgroup.com.au/owa/redir.aspx?C=iwo5gWMw0OwkyXR-zqiLaN1D_KuAQgmwEtBzG_Z0sHj6lEC3C7LYCA..&amp;URL=https%3a%2f%2fprotect-au.mimecast.com%2fs%2fQUVkC91WW0FmDGpT3BLtX%3fdomain%3dwisperbikes.co.nz%2f" target="_blank">Wisper Wayfarer ebike</a> courtesy of <a rel="noopener noreferrer" href="https://email.directgroup.com.au/owa/redir.aspx?C=o2YxOLzo4dxmUUl80mMJJFkRJoJmjv8dl7kyMtP8lhD6lEC3C7LYCA..&amp;URL=https%3a%2f%2fprotect-au.mimecast.com%2fs%2fMa6oC0YKKGC2p1LUWBkIy%3fdomain%3delectricbikes.co.nz%2f" target="_blank">Electric Bikes NZ</a></em></div>

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Robin Williams’ widow sets the record straight about his death

<p>Susan Schneider Williams who is the widow of the late Robin Williams, has spoken in a rare interview to clear up the number of “misunderstandings” about her late husband’s death.</p> <p>Williams, a veteran actor, took his own life in 2014 when he was 63.</p> <p>Soon after his death, it was revealed the star was battling a degenerative condition, Lewy Body Dementia.</p> <p>Susan revealed she had only learnt about her husband’s diagnosis after his death.</p> <p>Speaking to the<em><span> </span><a rel="noopener" href="https://www.theguardian.com/film/2021/jan/01/robin-williamss-widow-there-were-so-many-misunderstandings-about-what-had-happened-to-him" target="_blank" title="www.theguardian.com">Guardian</a></em>, she said: “The doctors said to me after the autopsy: ‘Are you surprised that your husband had Lewy bodies throughout his entire brain and brain stem?’</p> <p>“I didn’t even know what Lewy bodies were, but I said: ‘No, I’m not surprised.’ The fact that something had infiltrated every part of my husband’s brain? That made perfect sense.”</p> <p>Susan is to be a part of the new documentary,<span> </span><em><a rel="noopener" href="https://www.news.com.au/entertainment/celebrity-life/celebrity-deaths/robin-williams-tragic-final-days-laid-barre-in-upcoming-documentary-robins-wish/news-story/9d55f0da55fac9d1cf38abe4796e5085" target="_blank" title="www.news.com.au">Robin’s Wish</a></em>, which will follow the actor’s last few days before his death, as well as his disease. </p> <p>“If my husband weren’t famous I would not have put myself through this,” she said.</p> <p>“But there were so many misunderstandings out there about what had happened to him, and about Lewy bodies. So this felt like the right thing to do.”</p> <p>In another conversation with<span> </span><em><a rel="noopener" href="https://ew.com/movies/robins-wish-exclusive-trailer-robin-williams-doc/" target="_blank" title="ew.com">Entertainment Weekly</a></em>, Susan revealed how working on the film that honoured her husband, helped her understand the condition that took over him towards the end of his life.</p> <p>“Armed with the name of a brain disease I’d never heard of, I set out on a mission to understand it, and that led me down my unchosen path of advocacy.</p> <p>“With invaluable help from leading medical experts, I saw that what Robin and I had gone through, finally made sense — our experience matched up with the science.”</p> <p><em>Robin’s Wish</em><span> </span>documents the actor’s final days as his worsening condition alarmed loved ones and colleagues.</p> <p>Friends and family say Williams’ behaviour began to deteriorate two years before his death.</p> <p>“I would say a month into the shoot (of<span> </span><em>Night at the Museum 3</em>), it was clear to me — it was clear to all of us — that something was going on with Robin,” director Shawn Levy said in the doco.</p> <p>“That’s an experience I’ve not spoken about publicly ever. We saw that Robin was struggling in a way that he hadn’t before to remember lines and to combine the right words with the performance.”</p> <p>Comedian and close friend to Robin Rick Overton says that Williams began to skip his regular stand-up gigs at his regular venue of choice, the Throckmorton Theatre.</p> <p>“There were a couple of shows where I was expecting Robin to be there and he didn’t make it, for one reason or another,” Overton says.</p> <p>His neighbour John Hepper says he would see Williams out on walks with his dog and became concerned about the actor’s rapidly changing physique.</p> <p>“His ribs were actually showing (through his T-shirt),” Hepper says in<span> </span><em>Robin’s Wish</em>. “I grabbed his skin. ‘Robin, you’re really getting thin.’</p> <p>“He said, ‘Yeah, boss, I’ve gone to the doctor, but they don’t know what it is.’”</p> <p>The night of Williams’ death, his neighbour Hepper spotted him outside with his dog.</p> <p>“Boss, I really need a hug,” he remembers Williams saying.</p> <p>“So, I gave him a hug, and he started to cry.” Hepper put his arm around the actor’s shoulder and spoke in depth with him for 15 minutes.</p> <p>“He talked about family, and what was going on in his life and some things I think he felt that I would keep private,” he says.</p> <p>It was revealed that on the beloved star’s last night before his death, he had told his wife “Goodnight, my love” before shuffling to his office with his iPad in hand.</p> <p>Susan recalled being thrilled that her husband had seemed to pick up reading again.</p> <p>The next morning, when Williams’ assistant tried to enter his office, she found the door was locked and quickly texted Susan: “He’s not up. What should I do?”</p> <p>Susan knew he was gone.</p> <p>The police would later find Williams – a loving husband, a devoted father, a faithful friend and one of the world’s most critically acclaimed actors – dead with no note.</p> <p>He left behind three children, Zachary, 37, Zelda, 31, and Cody, 29.</p>

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Sean Connery’s widow shares dying wish

<p>The widow of Sean Connery has revealed the actor's dying wish.</p> <p>Micheline Roquebrune informed the<em> <a rel="noopener" href="https://www.dailymail.co.uk/mailonsunday/index.html" target="_blank">Scottish Mail</a> </em>that before her beloved husband passed away, he had asked for his ashes to be scattered across his native Scotland and in the Bahamas, which is where he had lived after retiring. </p> <p>"He wanted his ashes to be scattered in the Bahamas and also in his homeland," she told the outlet.</p> <p>"Whenever it is possible and safe to travel again, then it is the family's intention to return to Scotland with him."</p> <p>Roquebrune, who was Connery's wife of 45 years, also shared that a memorial service for the legendary actor will take place in his birth country.</p> <p><img style="width: 500px; height: 281.25px;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7838716/sean-connery.jpg" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/83c2e3779745449fad920b25140a76de" /></p> <p>Roquebrune is a French artist and also revealed that her late husband would be cremated at a private service in the Caribbean island at a later date.</p> <p>"We would like to organise a memorial service for him in Scotland -- that is our hope. But we cannot say when this will happen exactly," she said.</p> <p>On October 31 that Connery died peacefully in his sleep surrounded by family at his home in the Bahamas.</p> <p>He was 90 and it is believed that in his last years, he struggled with dementia.</p> <p>"It was no life for him," she told the <em><a rel="noopener" href="https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-8901151/Sean-Connerys-widow-Micheline-reveals-final-moments-Bond-star-died-aged-90.html" target="_blank">Mail on Sunday</a> </em>following his death.</p> <p>"It took its toll on him. He was not able to express himself latterly. At least he died in his sleep and it was just so peaceful.</p> <p>“I was with him all the time and he just slipped away. It was what he wanted."</p> <p>Connery is survived by Roquebrune, whom he married in 1975; his son by ex-wife Diane Cilento, actor Jason Connery.</p> <p>He also has a grandson from Jason's marriage to actress Mia Sara.</p> <p>The Bond star was married to Australian actress Cilento from 1962. The couple divorced in 1973 and Cilento died in 2011.</p>

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"It was what he wanted": Sean Connery widow reflects on final moments

<div class="post_body_wrapper"> <div class="post_body"> <div class="body_text redactor-styles redactor-in"> <p>Micheline Roquebrune, the grieving widow of movie legend Sir Sean Connery revealed that the star wanted to "slip away quietly" after a long battle with dementia.</p> <p>The pair were married for 45 years and Micheline took the time to reflect on her "wonderful life" with her husband who died in his sleep overnight.</p> <p>“It was no life for him. He was not able to express himself latterly,” Micheline told the <a rel="noopener" href="https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-8901151/Sean-Connerys-widow-Micheline-reveals-final-moments-Bond-star-died-aged-90.html" target="_blank" class="editor-rtflink"><em>Daily Mail</em></a>.</p> <p>She added: “At least he died in his sleep and it was just so peaceful. I was with him all the time and he just slipped away. It was what he wanted.”</p> <p>Micheline, 91, said that his condition had quickly deteriorated.</p> <p>“He had dementia and it took its toll on him. He got his final wish to slip away without any fuss.”</p> <p>She also reflected on life without the star, saying it was "going to be very hard without him".</p> <p>“He was gorgeous and we had a wonderful life together. He was a model of a man. It is going to be very hard without him, I know that. But it could not last for ever and he went peacefully.”</p> <p>The pair first met in 1970 at a golf tournament, with Micheline not knowing who he was initially.</p> <p>“I saw this man from the back, and of course, he had a fine physique” she told <em>The Sun</em> of the 6ft 2 actor.</p> <p>“But that first day I didn’t know who he was or anything about him.</p> <p>“Then I dreamed I saw this man. I was in his arms. And I thought ‘At last, peace’.</p> <p>“The next day I went back to the tournament and that was that!”.</p> <p>Their connection was so strong that the couple didn't even need to speak the same language.</p> <p>“Oh we had no problem communicating — body language!”</p> </div> </div> </div>

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​Prince Harry’s startling question to war widow

<p><span class="CmCaReT" style="display: none;">�</span></p> <p><span>Despite COVID-19, Prince Harry is still continuing his work to support veterans from home.</span><br /><br /><span>The Duke of Sussex joined in on a broadcast of BBC’s The One Show via a Zoom livestream, and chatted with the family members of two WWII veterans to mark the 75th anniversary of VE Day.</span><br /><br /><span>The 35-year-old Royal has one guest that particularly stood out, which was Maggie Wilson who is the widow of former GPC member Sandy Saunders.</span></p> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet"> <p dir="ltr">As the nation was celebrating <a href="https://twitter.com/hashtag/VEDay?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">#VEDay</a>, the Duke of Sussex took part in a special film to commemorate the bravery of veterans in various conflicts.<a href="https://twitter.com/hashtag/TheOneShow?src=hash&amp;ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">#TheOneShow</a> <a href="https://t.co/BqbLnNjaOu">pic.twitter.com/BqbLnNjaOu</a></p> — BBC The One Show (@BBCTheOneShow) <a href="https://twitter.com/BBCTheOneShow/status/1259912870743216135?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">May 11, 2020</a></blockquote> <p><br /><span>The Duke of Sussex began the clip by saying: "Hello everybody, The One Show got in touch to ask if I could shine a light on a group of veterans that lots of people might not know about."</span><br /><br /><span>Maggies told Harry: "Sandy was a member of the Glider pilot regiment. One day he crashed and had 40 per cent burns to his face, hands and legs."</span><br /><br /><span>"He was an amazing man. He was sent down to meet MckIndoe in East Winstead and when he met him that evening he said, 'you need new upper eyelids, lower eyelids, you need a proper nose and I'll give you a nose so you can kiss the girls' - and that's what happened."</span><br /><br /><span>Prince Harry went on to ask"Wow that's unbelievable. So when you met him, can I ask you...he had a proper nose and good lips for kissing?"</span><br /><br /><span>Maggie answered: "Oh definitely good lips for kissing."</span><br /><br /><span>The video was organised by CASEVAC Club which helps support veterans and their families.</span><br /><br /><span>After the video had aired, show host Alex Jones said he believes Prince Harry could have a promising career as a reporter.</span><br /><br /><span>The Duke and Duchess of Sussex stepped down as senior members of the British royal family, in January, and officially stepped down April 1.</span></p>

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“You destroyed my life”: Widow’s heartbreaking reply to man who killed her husband

<p>A man who bashed a grandfather in Adelaide to death with a hammer in front of his wife has been ordered to spend the rest of his life under mental health supervision.</p> <p>In May 2018, Steven Berg stormed the house of the couple and attacked 74-year-old Deon Hewitt who was cooking dinner with his wife, Patricia. The attack ended in death.</p> <p>Patricia saw the horrific crime and said to Berg in court that he “destroyed my life”.</p> <p>"You destroyed my life. I couldn't even say goodbye to the man I spent the best parts of my life with…. For this I will never forgive you."</p> <p><iframe src="https://www.facebook.com/plugins/video.php?href=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2F9NewsAdelaide%2Fvideos%2F1434612646686069%2F&amp;show_text=0&amp;width=560" width="560" height="315" style="border: none; overflow: hidden;" scrolling="no" frameborder="0" allowtransparency="true" allowfullscreen="true"></iframe></p> <p>Berg was found not guilty of murder due to mental incompetence as the court was told he was suffering delusions at the time of the unprovoked and random attack.</p> <p>"My husband was my best friend, taken from me in the most horrific way - You have inflicted more pain on my family than any sentence can on you - until my final day I'm to live without my husband, stuck with the memory of that night," Ms Hewitt said.</p> <p>Five victim impact statements were read out in court by family members of Leon, as his grandchildren outlined their grief and the toll his passing had on their mental health.</p> <p>"When we were feeling down, we had Pop to call," they said.</p> <p>Leon and Patricia’s daughter Vanessa said that as long as Berg is detained “society is a safer place”.</p> <p>"the day you took dad from us, we lost a mother as well - I fear for the day Berg is released - While he is detained, society is a safer place,” she said.</p> <p>Berg is being held in the secure mental health facility of James Nash House.</p>

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MH370 widow Danica Weeks' fight to find answers for missing husband

<p>Danica Weeks will spend the fifth anniversary of her Kiwi husband’s disappearance, with their two young sons, Jack and Lincoln, still in the dark about what exactly happened in 2014.</p> <p>It’s been five years – and answers are still left unanswered regarding the whereabouts of the 239 passengers and crew who went missing on Malaysian Airlines' MH370 flight between Kuala Lumpur and Beijing on March 8, 2014.</p> <p>On the flight was the husband of Danica, 38-year-old Kiwi man Paul Weeks, heading to work at a Mongolian mine site.</p> <p><img style="width: 500px; height: 281.25px;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7824271/danika-weeks-3.jpg" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/6d15b6540bb94c938b040c34d921a1d6" /></p> <p style="text-align: center;">Paul Week went missing five years ago on the MH370. Image: Channel Nine <em>60 Minutes</em> </p> <p>Last night on Channel 9’s <em>60 Minutes</em>, Danica told Sarah Abo she would push for investigators to not stop trying to figure out “why” the plane went down.</p> <p>“This isn’t just about 239 people on a Boeing 777, this is about eight million people every day that get on a flight: wives, husbands, family members that get on a plane,” she explained.</p> <p>Despite an international search effort costing an overwhelming $200 million, $60 million of which has been given by the Australian government – only a few small pieces of debris from the MH370 has been found.</p> <p>These small pieces are what was discovered after washing ashore in the Western Indian Ocean.</p> <p>Danika’s determination to find answers led her all the way to the door of Malaysian Prime Minister Mahathir bin Mohamad in efforts to reopen the search for the missing plane.</p> <p>The episode featuring the Prime Minister is the first time he has ever spoken to a relative of one of the missing 239 before.</p> <p>During the interview, Dr Mahathir vowed to continue the search for the missing MH370.</p> <p>“We intend to continue,” he told the program. “And nowadays, with electronic detection, it may be possible for us to find where the plane had come down.”</p> <p style="text-align: center;"><img style="width: 500px; height: 281.25px;" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7824272/danike-weeks-2.jpg" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/0221e2a79dd8442da50b344a052ebe54" /></p> <p style="text-align: center;">Danica Weeks meeting Malaysian Prime Minister Mahathir bin Mohamad to plea for the MH370 case to be reopened. Image: Channel Nine <em>60 Minutes</em> </p> <p>Cameras took viewers behind the scenes to a “secret vault” which held the only known debris form the plane.</p> <p>Ms Weeks, who moved from Perth to Cooroy on Queensland’s Sunshine Coast, has her own theories for what she thinks might have happened on the flight.</p> <p>"I've always believed the fault was with the plane, which is why I put a court case out against Boeing in the US — to prove that the Boeing 777s that are still flying are safe," she told <a href="https://www.abc.net.au/news/2018-01-12/mh370-grief-stricken-wife-legal-action-against-boeing-crash/9324838">ABC</a> last year.</p> <p>Her belief then, was that the fault did not lie in the pilot’s hands like many theories assume.</p> <p>The speculation that has grown around Captain Zaharie Ahmad Shah downing his own plane and committing mass murder has neither been confirmed nor denied by Malaysian investigators.</p> <p>Crisis manager, Fuad Sharuji, told <em>60 Minutes</em>, he like many others also does not believe the pilot could have committed such a senseless crime.</p> <p>“His final words (were), ‘Goodnight MH370’. His voice was relatively calm. There was no signs of anxiety at all. There was nothing abnormal with his last words,” he told Abo when asked if there was anything peculiar about the captain’s last words.</p> <p>“For a person to actually take the lives of 289 passengers and crew on board, including his own life, must be a completely deranged person.</p> <p>“Madman, crazy. None of that is the character of Captain Zaharie.”</p> <p>Sharuji reveals the night the MH370 lost contact, everything went wrong.</p> <p>“It was on the morning of 8th of March at 2.30 in the morning when I received the first phone call that we have lost contact with MH370,” he told the program.</p> <p>“And I knew that there was something wrong, seriously wrong. So, we immediately activated our code red.”</p> <p><img id="__mcenew" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7824273/danika-weeks1.jpg" alt="" data-udi="umb://media/003201d0ff2d489f89ae6b218b723f6f" /></p> <p>Danica Weeks with her two sons, Jack, (left) and Lincoln (right). Image: Channel Nine 6<em>0 Minutes</em> </p> <p>Danica has no plans to hold a memorial service for her missing husband, she told the ABC last year.</p> <p>“I think I would be kidding myself if I had one,” she explained.</p> <p>We are still without a death certificate — I don't want one — I want him to be found.</p> <p>“I am dealing with the emotion and the physical reality he is not here — it is really tough,” she said.</p> <p>“It doesn't get easier, it actually gets worse — we are getting tired, we want the answers, we have been through so many searches, such hope with no fruition, it weights down on me.</p> <p>“I'm lucky Paul gifted me with two beautiful boys — that keeps me going.”</p> <p> </p>

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Heartbroken widower scammed out of $377,000

<p>A widower from Australia has been left heartbroken after falling for an expensive and elaborate dating service scam.</p> <p>The man was promised a bride-to-be from a group saying they were a dating agency, but instead, he ended up penniless.</p> <p>The 69-year-old, who has requested to remain anonymous, was tricked into handing over large sums of money over the course of a year.</p> <p>The amount money he ended up handing over was approximately $377,000.</p> <p>The retiree was coerced in to handing over the funds for fees, such as membership fees, marriage costs, an engagement ring, as well as paying for his future wife’s legal fees.</p> <p>The lonely man was trying to build a life after his wife of 35 years passed away and decided to try the matchmaking service.</p> <p>"It was stupid but I was very vulnerable. I was lonely at the time and was feeling very low. I thought there was a connection," he told<span> </span><a href="https://www.sunshinecoastdaily.com.au/"><em>Sunshine Coast Daily</em></a>. </p> <p>The man met women who were posing as office consultants and managers to collect the payments from him. They met at a range of locations, including Melbourne Airport.</p> <p>'I think they are animals. They have left me destitute. It was my life savings and now I try to get by on a pension," he explained.</p> <p>There are a range of ways to see whether or not the person you’re talking to is trustworthy, which include:</p> <ol> <li>Take your time, especially when talking about yourself. You don’t need to tell them your whole life story as soon as you meet them.</li> <li>Check if there are records of the person you’re interested in online. Use a search engine to check their profile images.</li> <li>Keep your bank and account information private.</li> <li>Do not transfer money to a ‘safe account’ and ignore anyone who asks you to do this.</li> <li>Report suspicious behaviour immediately, trust your instincts and stop talking to anyone who makes you feel uncomfortable. </li> </ol> <p>Has this happened to anyone you know? Let us know in the comments.</p>

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Widower’s advice to woman goes viral

<p>No one wants to be stuck in a relationship with an unsupportive partner. Whether you’re trying to lose weight, reach a career milestone or start a new hobby, the support of the people you love is important.</p> <p>Earlier this week a young woman took to the internet to ask for advice on how to deal with her boyfriend making comments about the way she looks.</p> <p>“Advice needed: I’m losing weight, but my partner is still giving me a hard time about my appearance,” the 21-year-old wrote on <a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/loseit/comments/9g5jk5/advice_needed_im_losing_weight_but_my_partner_is/"><em>Reddit</em></a>.</p> <p>“We were going swimming the other day and I commented that the water was cold. I was met with the response ‘trust me you have more than enough insulation,’” she continued, now in the deleted post.</p> <p>While many responded with outrage at the woman’s boyfriend’s attitude, it was the reply from a widower about his regret for not being more supportive of his wife’s body image that really struck a chord with readers.</p> <p>“This is extremely blunt, but there is a lot of wisdom behind this,” he started his response.</p> <p>“I am an old man now, and my wife is gone. She was the most beautiful woman I have ever known, inside and out, … but she often struggled to see that.”</p> <p>The man looked back at the time his wife “started dieting and working out extensively” and because he was busy with his own commitments and was “absorbed” in his work he didn’t really notice.</p> <p>It started an argument where the man’s wife asked whether he didn’t find her attractive anymore because of her weight.</p> <p>“One of my biggest regrets that still haunts me to this day is that I ever made her feel less than beautiful,” he continued.</p> <p>“It still hurts me to think of the days and months where she was eating less in the hopes that I’d love her more. It makes me angry at myself.”</p> <p>The man then went on to offer some advice to the original poster about her relationship and how she was being treated by her boyfriend.</p> <p>“As the user I’m replying to said, the weight you need to lose is not from yourself,” he wrote.</p> <p>“I am sure that your partner has benevolent feelings towards you, but he is behaving in a fundamentally unloving way to you. He’s giving you unhealthy food for your soul.”</p> <p>He also advised the young girl to speak to her boyfriend about how his treatment was making her feel.</p> <p>“If he loves you, I think he would be horrified to realise what his words do to you. If he does not realise that, you need to feed your soul a better diet,” he finished his post.</p> <p>The widower’s heartfelt response received a metaphorical round of applause from the forum with many praising him for his thoughtful and enlightening reply.</p> <p>“Everyone is human, and no one is perfect, especially in a relationship. You realised that inadvertently hurt her and changed course. That’s what a kind, loving person does,” one user responded.</p> <p>“Your post is incredibly valuable for women whose partners disrespect them in the way OP’s (original poster) partner does, because it helps them realise that there are people out there that care and want their partners to feel good.”</p> <p>Many thanked the poster as it allowed them to realise the mistakes they were making in their own relationships.</p> <p>“I think your post also helped a lot of people that read it too. It reminded us to make sure we stay supportive and attentive to our partners. Reckonings are never easy, but they can be cleansing,” another user said.</p>

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From $230K to $28 – Grieving widow shocked to find late husband’s super fund drained dry

<p>After Kim Garbutt’s husband, Craig, passed away 10 years ago, his family was expecting a cheque for more than $230,000 in death benefits from AMP – Craig’s superannuation fund. Instead, they received $27.64 13 days later.</p> <p>The grieving widow was shocked to find that the account had only a small sum of money, when she was under the impression that her husband had left her with $230,000.</p> <p>“When the account arrived, I was a bit dumbfounded,” she told <em><a href="http://www.abc.net.au/news/2018-08-13/widow-expected-$200,000-super-death-benefit-amp-paid-her-$25/10114662"><span style="text-decoration: underline;">7.30.</span></a></em></p> <p>“Sometime after that I spoke to them and they were saying basically the account had run dry. They went, ‘So sad that he’s died but too bad, the accounts got no money in it.”</p> <p>Ms Garbutt only discovered the account was $233 in arrears – and that AMP had cancelled the policy – five months before Craig’s death.</p> <p>Before his death in 2008, Craig had fought an alcohol addiction which put strain on his marriage with Ms Garbutt. Although the two split shortly after the wedding, they decided to stay legally married for the sake of their two children.</p> <p>Craig, who passed away at the age of 39, was described by Ms Garbutt as someone who was “super smart…he was funny, he liked to dress well.”</p> <p>“He wasn’t ostentatious, he was bombastic, he was just a nice friendly guy. He was well-liked, he was well-loved.”</p> <p>While he tried to seek help by attending rehab facilities, in the end he couldn’t rid himself of his addiction. Before he passed away, Craig was using friends’ couches and his car to live out of after his business went bankrupt.</p> <p>“He was in debt to what we think is $300,000 to $400,000 to maybe six or seven creditors. Phones had been cut off,” said Ms Garbutt.</p> <p>After investigating, Ms Garbutt discovered that Craig had transferred $1786.55 into the account from his previous super fund in 2003, but in as little as 5 weeks, the amount was down to $1579.29 after he was charged over $207.08 in fees and premiums.</p> <p>Even though Craig had no further contribution to his account after the initial $1786.55, AMP continued to deduct fees and charges – many of which were hidden.</p> <p>AMP claims to have contacted Craig before his death to let him know that his account was low on funds and would be cancelled. They advised her that there was nothing more they can do.</p> <p>According to Ms Garbutt, AMP was not cooperative and refused to speak with her on compassionate grounds, and since Craig’s passing, she has been struggling to compete with the insurance company about Craig’s superannuation and insurance.</p> <p>Ms Garbutt reveals that while AMP sent her late husband letters regarding his fund, he was seriously ill and was not opening mail at the time.</p> <p>A spokeswoman from AMP said that the company “strongly rejects” the idea that Ms Garbutt had been uninformed throughout the process.</p> <p>“At no time were we informed that [Craig] was unwell, and we corresponded with him as early as seven months before his death that he was at risk of losing his valuable insurance,” said the spokeswoman.</p> <p>“We do allow customers to reinstate lapsed policies based on medical evidence, however we do not allow this where the reinstatement is due to the customer now wishing to claim.”</p> <p>Ms Garbutt claims to have “begged and pleaded” with the insurance giant regarding where Craig’s money had gone, but AMP remained uncooperative.</p> <p>“It was ‘Nope, we told Craig it was going to be cancelled’,” she said.</p> <p>“I went, ‘Craig wasn’t functioning, we wouldn’t have read the letters’.”</p>

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Widower shattered after PayPal sends his deceased wife threatening letter

<p>PayPal has issued an apology after sending a letter to a customer who died of cancer, saying her death had “breached its rules”.</p> <p>Howard Durdle, whose wife Lindsay passed away in May after a battle with breast cancer, provided PayPal with copies of his wife’s death certificate, her will and his ID, as they requested.</p> <p>Lindsay was first diagnosed with breast cancer a year-and-half earlier, and it spread to her lungs and brain.</p> <p style="text-align: center;"><img width="500" height="379" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7819768/3_500x379.jpg" alt="3 (37)"/></p> <p>When Howard discovered that PayPal’s response was to send a letter to inform him that his wife had “breached its rules”, he was shocked.</p> <p>He posted the letter that he received at his home in the UK to Facebook.</p> <p>The letter said his wife owed PayPal £3200 ($A5700) and said: “You are in breach of condition 15.4(c) of your agreement with PayPal Credit as we have received notice that you are deceased … this breach is not capable of remedy."</p> <p style="text-align: center;"><img width="500" height="488" src="https://oversixtydev.blob.core.windows.net/media/7819767/2_500x488.jpg" alt="2 (100)"/></p> <p>“What empathy-lacking machine sent this?” Howard asked on Facebook.</p> <p>After Howard’s post drew attention, PayPal apologised to the widower, admitting that the letter was “insensitive”.</p> <p>The company then launched an investigation into how the letter was sent to begin with.</p> <p>“We apologise to Mr Durdle for the distress this letter has caused,” the PayPal spokesman said, reported the <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><em><strong><a href="https://www.bbc.com/news/technology-44783779" target="_blank" title="www.bbc.com">BBC</a></strong></em></span>.</p> <p>Howard told the <em>BBC</em> that PayPal had said the letter was either sent because of a bug, a bad letter template or human error.</p> <p>Reportedly, the company said it would be able to share the findings of the investigation because it was an “internal matter”.</p> <p>“I’m in a reasonable place at the moment ─ I’ve got quite a level head on my shoulders ─ and am quite capable of dealing with paperwork like this,” Mr Durdle, who is a member of the charity group Widowed and Young, said.</p> <p>“If I’m going to make any fuss about this at all, it’s to make sure that PayPal, or any other organisation that might do this kind of insensitive thing, recognises the damage they can cause the recently bereaved.”</p>

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Why Bobby Kennedy’s widow Ethel still stands by her man

<p>Ethel Kennedy celebrates her 90th birthday today. This year also marks 50 years since her husband Robert, better known as Bobby, died. But in the decades that have followed his death, there is no doubt Ethel is as wedded to the Kennedy clan as ever.</p> <p>The year was 1945 when a then Ethel Skakel and her friend Jean Kennedy went on a skiing holiday to Mont Tremblant Resort in Quebec. Little did Ethel know it was a trip that would change the course of her life.</p> <p><img width="411" height="506" src="https://cdn.newsapi.com.au/image/v1/a82dbca34660dcd9ccf8cf2bb30e1da0?width=650" class="tge-imagecaption_img" style="display: block; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"/></p> <p>When Jean introduced Ethel to her brother, he was standing in front of a fireplace. She would later reveal her first impression of him, recalling in a documentary: “I walked in the door and turned and saw him, and I thought, ‘whoa’.”</p> <p>They married in 1950 and would go on to have 11 children. But it was in 1960 when life would take another turn. John was elected president and he appointed Bobby as US Attorney-General.</p> <p><img width="513" height="289" src="https://cdn.newsapi.com.au/image/v1/73307fdf4800d8c9a8ee2bbb1a709127?width=1024" alt="Robert Kennedy (right) with wife Ethel and children Kathleen, 15, Joseph, 14, Robert Jr, 13, David, 11, Mary, 10, Michael, 8, Kerry, 7, and Christopher, 3, at home Virginia in 1966." class="tge-imagecaption_img" style="display: block; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"/></p> <p>When Bobby went after organised crime, Ethel lived in constant fear of mob reprisals. The tension was only relieved when the couple went on overseas trips as representatives of the president.</p> <p>But in November 1963, Ethel answered a phone call from J. Edgar Hoover. He informed Bobby that John had been assassinated.</p> <p>Bobby considered running for vice president or even president in the 1964 election, but eventually decided to run for the US Senate for the seat of New York. He won.</p> <p>In June 1968 Bobby was assassinated in Los Angeles while campaigning for the Democratic nomination for the presidency. Ethel was pregnant with their 11th child at the time.</p> <p>She coped with life after Bobby by focusing on looking after her large family. Vowing never to marry again, she also threw herself into keeping her husband’s legacy alive.</p> <p><img width="463" height="347" src="https://cdn.newsapi.com.au/image/v1/ed2c66501891f3bba871a706a0a9a446?width=1024" class="tge-imagecaption_img" style="display: block; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"/></p> <p>In 1968 she established the Robert F. Kennedy Centre for Justice and Human Rights. She spent much of her time doing work to raise money for its many charitable causes.</p> <p>But tragedy continued to follow her – two of her sons died in the intervening years. After Rose, the matriarch of the Kennedy clan, died, Ethel took on more of that role. She was prominent among the mourners at the funerals of Jack’s son John F. Kennedy Jr in 1999 and Bobby’s brother Ted Kennedy in 2009.</p> <p>Ethel also took on more of a political role, endorsing Barack Obama at the 2008 election. In 2014 Obama awarded her the Presidential Medal of Freedom for her tireless efforts in her many social justice causes.</p> <p>The Kennedy name lives on in politics with her grandson, Joe Kennedy III, currently serving as the US representative from Massachusetts 4th District.</p>

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Gene Wilder's widow says his Alzheimer's battle almost "killed" her too

<p>The widow of the late actor Gene Wilder has called for caregivers of Alzheimer’s patients to be given more credit and support. In an essay for ABC News, Karen Wilder, who lost her husband to the disease last August, praised researchers’ efforts to fight the disease. She also made special mention of the fact that the caregivers to Alzheimer’s and dementia patients are often not given the support they need.</p> <p>In her essay, Wilder writes, "It is a strange, sad irony that so often, in the territory of a disease that robs an individual of memory, caregivers are often the forgotten. Without them, those with Alzheimer’s could not get through the day, or die – as my husband did – with dignity, surrounded by love.”</p> <p>The essay states that one in three seniors die from Alzheimer’s or other forms of dementia, and yet a Stanford Medicine study showed 40 per cent of Alzheimer's caregivers die before their patient, "not from disease, but from the sheer physical, spiritual and emotional toll of caring for a loved one with Alzheimer's ... I am grateful that Gene never forgot who I was. But many caregivers of Alzheimer's patients are less fortunate.”</p> <p>After her husband’s death, Karen has felt a sense of responsibility towards raising awareness of the disease and supporting carers. In her essay, she mentions her partnership with the Alzheimer's Association's "Pure Imagination Project,” named after her late husband’s well-known performance in <em>Willy Wonka. </em></p> <p>She also made mention of the Gates Foundation’s recent $100 million donation to assist with research to eradicate the disease. </p> <p>Do you know anyone affected by Alzheimer’s? We would love to hear your thoughts on whether you feel that carers are well-supported in the comments below. </p>

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Downton Abbey star Michelle Dockery heartbroken like Lady Mary: "I consider myself a widow"

<p>Downton Abbey star Michelle Dockery has opened up about the tragic death of her fiancé two years ago, saying she considers herself a widow.</p> <p>“I’ve never been more committed to anything in my life than to him,” she said in an interview on the weekend with the Guardian.</p> <p>“I don’t have the vocabulary to describe what it felt like and what it still feels like. I refer to myself as a widow, yes. We were engaged, and married at heart, and so I do consider myself a widow.”</p> <p>Dockery, 35, and John Dineen, an Irish public relations director, were engaged for a year before he died at the age of 34.</p> <p><img width="392" height="726" src="http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2017/11/12/00/463FDE1100000578-5073795-image-m-22_1510446271266.jpg" alt="Michelle Dockery and John Dineen pictured at the Winter Whites Centrepoint Gala at Kensington Palace in London in 2013" class="blkBorder img-share b-loaded" style="display: block; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;" id="i-1543243a88aa8e9"/></p> <p>But to add to the grief, Dockery’s character in Downton Abbey, Lady Mary Crawley, also lost her husband.</p> <p>“One of the difficult things at the time was the parallels with Mary,” said the actress. </p> <p>“It was just baffling, and still is to me, that my character’s storyline was so similar.”</p> <p>Although Dockery said she felt “very excited” about leaving the show and moving on to other things, she may be portraying Lady Mary once more.</p> <p>Julian Fellowes' <strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><a href="http://www.oversixty.com.au/entertainment/movies/2017/06/downton-abbey-film-in-the-works/">big screen adaptation of his popular TV series has been given the green light</a></span>.</strong></p> <p>During an exhibition for the show in Singapore this summer, Michael Edelstein, president at NBC Universal International Studios, said: “There's a movie in the works. It's been in the works for some time.</p> <p>“We are working on getting the script right, and then we've got to figure out how to get the (cast) together.”</p> <p> </p>

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Donald Trump under fire for insensitive comments to soldier’s widow

<p>US President Donald Trump is under fire for telling a widow of a soldier killed during an ambush that her husband “must’ve known what he signed up for.”</p> <p>Sergeant La David Johnson, 25, was killed in Niger earlier this month during an ambush carried out by Boko Haram and other extremists linked to ISIS.</p> <p>Florida congresswoman Rep. Frederica Wilson was in a car with Myeshia Johnson, the pregnant widow of Johnson, when Trump called her Tuesday and spoke for about five minutes, according to South Florida’s NBC affiliate.</p> <p><img width="444" height="249" src="https://cdn.saleminteractivemedia.com/associated-press/data/photos/2017/291/040f0f25-e497-4fb8-b237-27879d183798.jpg" alt="Image result for donald trump widow" class="irc_mi" style="display: block; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"/></p> <p>Ms Wilson, a friend of the family who heard the conversation on speakerphone, described the president remarks as “insensitive”.</p> <p>“Sarcastically he said: ‘But you know he must have known what he signed up for,’” Ms Wilson recounted to NBC6. “How could you say that to a grieving widow? I couldn’t believe... and he said it more than once. I said this man has no feelings for anyone.”</p> <p>She added: "This is a young woman who has two young children, who is six months' pregnant with her third child [and] she has just lost her husband.</p> <p>"She was just told that he cannot have an open-casket funeral which gives her all kinds of nightmares of how his body must look, how his face must look. And this is what the United States President says to her?</p> <p>"That is not something you say to a grieving wife.”</p> <p>Ms Wilson said Ms Johnson did not respond to the President because she was crying.</p> <p><img width="247" height="393" src="https://metrouk2.files.wordpress.com/2017/10/pri_56907553.jpg?w=748&amp;h=1192&amp;crop=1" alt="Image result for donald trump widow" class="irc_mi" style="margin-top: 0px; display: block; margin-left: auto; margin-right: auto;"/></p> <p>On Wednesday morning, Trump responded to the claims on Twitter, saying that Wilson “totally fabricated” the story. However, he is yet to provide evidence.</p> <p> </p> <blockquote class="twitter-tweet"> <p dir="ltr">Democrat Congresswoman totally fabricated what I said to the wife of a soldier who died in action (and I have proof). Sad!</p> — Donald J. Trump (@realDonaldTrump) <a href="https://twitter.com/realDonaldTrump/status/920611770775064576?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw">October 18, 2017</a></blockquote> <p>Wilson hit back saying several other people who were in the car also heard Trump's remark.</p> <p>"I have proof too," she said. "This man is a sick man."</p>

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Hugh Hefner’s widow left out of will

<p><span>Yesterday, Playboy founder Hugh Hefner died at his LA home of natural causes.</span></p> <p><span>The 91-year-old’s third wife and widow, Crystal Harris, is expected to inherit nothing from the entrepreneur’s $51 million will.</span></p> <p><span>It is believed that Harris signed a prenuptial agreement and is thought to have never been added to Hefner’s will.</span></p> <p><span>However, </span><em><span>Us Weekly</span></em><span> has reported that the 31-year-old model will be “looked after” following his death.</span></p> <p><span>Harris and Hefner married at the Playboy Mansion in 2012 when he was 86 and she was 26.</span></p> <p><span>Playboy announced no immediate funeral plans but Hefner is expected to be buried in a plot in a Los Angeles cemetery next to Marilyn Monroe.</span></p> <p><span>Reportedly, Hefner payed $100,000 for the plot next to the iconic actress 25 years ago.</span></p> <p><span>Hefner ran naked photos of Monroe in the first issue of Playboy in 1953 but the pair never met as the photos were taken years earlier.</span></p> <p><span>Celebrities have paid tribute to Hefner after his passing was announced.</span></p> <p><span>Pamela Anderson, who featured on the cover of </span>Playboy<span> more than any other person, wrote <a href="https://www.instagram.com/p/BZkyhOylX6A/?hl=en&amp;taken-by=pamelaanderson" target="_blank"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong>a message to Hefner on Instagram</strong></span></a> accompanied with her a video of her crying.</span></p> <p><span>“Outside of my family you were the most important person in my life,” she wrote.</span></p> <p><span>“You taught me everything important about freedom and respect.”</span></p> <p><span>“People tell me all the time that I was your favourite,” she wrote. “You had a piece of paper in your pocket you showed me – with my name Pamela with a heart around it.”</span></p> <p><span>Hefner’s son Cooper remembered his father as a “leading voice behind some of the most significant social and cultural movements of our time”.</span></p> <p><span>“My father lived an exceptional and impactful life as a media and cultural pioneer,” he said.</span></p> <p><span>“He defined a lifestyle and ethos that lie at the heart of the Playboy brand.”</span></p> <p><span>Hefner first married Mildred Williams in 1949 and the couple had Christie, 64, and David, 62.</span></p> <p><span>He spent three decades as a bachelor and then married Kimberley Conrad. The couple had two sons together, Marston and Cooper.</span></p> <p><span>Hefner split with Conrad in 2010 and later that year he announced his engagement to Harris.</span></p>

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